You Can't Age If You're Unproblematic... Right? 🤔 Self Care Sunday Chats

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@CanadianChick811 13 күн бұрын

It's the same problem with how Disney villains are portrayed. More often than not they are old or have some sort of physical disability. Kids see that and equate those traits with being "evil".

@holisticmaya 11 күн бұрын

Also for the longest time, villains in children’s movies have dark hair and dark eyes, whereas the princess always has blond hair and blue eyes or overall lighter features

@smiel__ 8 күн бұрын

I used to think like that when I was a child, I am proof that this is true

@traceycrawford9938 14 күн бұрын

I’m 55yo (Generation X, not a Boomer lol) and you are making some really important points. Especially about kids seeing these sort of posts (and the world’s general over consumption of ‘things’). You are wiser than your years Hyram. And aging IS a privilege (one not given to everyone). 😊❤️❤️🇦🇺

@norakingaforgacs7767 14 күн бұрын

I am a Gen Y Girl from Hungary, Budapest, and I totally agree❤

@celysehernandez6862 14 күн бұрын

I could listen to this for an hour, is hyram in his podcast era? The passion is here and so am I ✨

@Hyram 12 күн бұрын

I'm so glad you love it!! Lots more commentary videos coming soon :)

@steelcutoaths3033 14 күн бұрын

I find it interesting that the criticisms about celebrities not aging well is directed more at a generation that also didn’t know (or wasn’t taught) the impacts of sun exposure, smoking, etc until later in life. Not to mention, the “fight against aging” is a no win battle. Either you age naturally and aren’t up to cultural beauty standards or you “have work done” and then people comment on it, as if it’s a moral failing. I distinctly remember women in my life telling me (as a young person) that someone looks good for their age and then adding “but I think she’s had some work done.” That sends the clear message: We don’t want you to look like you’re aging, but we’re also going to judge you if you do something about it. It’s honestly exhausting. Your take on this is very much appreciated. I would love to hear more about what you’re passionate about!

@sarahpresciutti9464 14 күн бұрын

When I hear "unproblematic" I think about the Picture of Dorian Gray, where the protagonist essentially ages well (lol) because all of the problematic things are absorbed by his portrait. But I agree with you, we should not think that beauty=being good. Maybe we should just find another word to describe a person who obviously takes care of herself like mrs. Hathaway, she probably doesn't smoke or drink heavily, wears sunscreen etc, but is also very privileged and has access to the best doctors. I won't lie, I'm almost 34 and seeing some fine lines on my face makes me think that maybe I'm not doing enough to age well. But then I remember I'm just a regular person and I look ok lol. (Sorry if this paragraph is a bit incoherent, English is not my first language)

@cherylreitz4779 13 күн бұрын

Perfect analogy!

@Michellelipstick 12 күн бұрын

I am here for these chatty videos! I am always reminding myself that aging is a privilege that is denied to many. Helps me be so much more grateful for every day that goes by and not fear physical signs of aging as much.

@calculatedspaces 14 күн бұрын

💓this. It's a conversation that is necessary. Choosing to only comment on someone's aesthetic qualities can be damaging. I like, "being so happy to see them" and other talking points for balance. *Thanks for reminding me to watch that movie.

@claudinecam 13 күн бұрын

Kudos to you, hyram, for intellectualizing it enough to fully understand it. In today’s fast moving superficial culture especially on social media, this is not often done.

@LaQuintero00 14 күн бұрын

What an important topic to address. Good job Hyram you went deep! This should be a Ted Talk.

@saphna2095 14 күн бұрын

I didn't expect this to hit as deeply as it did:) "negative mental health repercussion" is such a great way of describing what you were expressing and I fully agree: the specific content and type of content we consume does not just affect us in the here and now, but the inputs to the brain will reverbarate in our neuronal wiring to the future

@Freeflyingpigeon 14 күн бұрын

Was discussing this with my friend last week and to see a video about this from someone influential like you. LOVE IT ❤

@amycrown1 14 күн бұрын

yes please make more videos like this i like the random chat w skin care because it made doing my skin care less daunting w you in the background doing your skin care as well

@Jasmine215100 13 күн бұрын

I like the way that you are FORCED to watch these preview videos, you can't skip over them!

@ANeal-gq5qz 14 күн бұрын

this was fantastic, hyram!! we love all skincare content but this helps us see the big picture too. we also forget that it's literally the JOB of celebrities to look good, like when we make fun of politicians' appearances - they have other priorities!

@beccak8166 13 күн бұрын

"Beauty is not good capital. It compounds the oppression of gender. It constrains those who identify as women against their will. It costs money and demands money. It colonizes. It hurts. It is painful. It can never be fully satisfied. It is not useful for human flourishing. Beauty is, like all capital, merely valuable." -Tressie McMillan Cottom

@Hyram 12 күн бұрын

Such a resoundingly good quote!

@elsvanzwoll 14 күн бұрын

Yes. Just yes! 🙌🏼 love from a 43 year old dutch girl 😅🫶🏼

@Kaylaleavitt 4 күн бұрын

Ironically getting “older” has helped me accept aging even more. I remember being pretty stressed and unhappy in my twenties. Since turning 30 three years ago, I have found much more peace and comfort in myself as a person, and I’m hopeful that it’ll get even better with time, regardless of how my face ends up looking.

@faebaby122 9 күн бұрын

"OMG you're Glowing! Success looks great on you 😘"

@coleygyaluv 8 күн бұрын

This is my favorite video of yours that you’ve made. Such an important topic that hasn’t been talked about! Thank you!

@aamyko 13 күн бұрын

Your thoughts have power; your words have power; if you go around spreading hate & division in both your thoughts & words; it will eventually catch up with you and manifest on your face, body and health; you can not spew all sorts of nastiness out into the world & not expect to get it back.

@ElleGoulden 4 күн бұрын

Such an important topic to address, very insightful and definitely something we need to be talking about

@KaylaAvitabile 3 күн бұрын

This is such a thoughtful video Hyram, would definitely love to see more like this! Videos like this is one of the reasons why I really enjoy and prefer KZfaq to other social media platforms :)

@julianatudda4090 14 күн бұрын

I LOVE commentary videos❤

@jennthefierce 11 күн бұрын

LOVE this new series! Always appreciate your product recommendations but your perspective is also really authentic and I’m so excited for more Self Care Sundays!

@vicsolimo 12 күн бұрын

OKAY Hyram, I love this👏

@cindypalumbo7503 12 күн бұрын

Thank you!! This needs to be talked about more!!

@skgpk24 14 күн бұрын

This new concept is so fun! :)

@chrisjakob5781 13 күн бұрын

this is a great form for you to keep playing in. definitely keep em rolling!!! thank for getting my skin together, girl. ✨☺️

@Hyram 12 күн бұрын

Thank you!! I really enjoyed filming this and have many more videos like this coming soon :D

@jadehepburn2389 14 күн бұрын

Fab video. Loved this little chat and skincare duo ✨️

@ervicito77 13 күн бұрын

To me, aging is not sweating the small stuff. Enjoy the things that give you pleasure, but in moderation. Be kind to others. Offer wisdom and generosity. And care less about those who are careless about your inner peace. Be good to yourself. And please take care of your health, especially your skin!

@lovisaloy 14 күн бұрын

I truly agree with EVERY single word in this video

@stephanieobrien7504 13 күн бұрын

Love the deep dive & especially your commentary about how it affects younger people seeing theses memes as well as how commenting about appearance ALWAYS hurts someone. I self cared on Monday & was using the I’m From Honey Mask I learned about from you! I’m on my 3rd jar I think? Leaves my skin feeling so soft & hydrated!

@sarcasticmama2692 14 күн бұрын

Hyram, you are so beautiful inside and out! You are intelligent and kind AND won the genetics lottery (no matter what you say). Thank you for talking about this. ❤

@lenapawlek7295 13 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for talking about it!! Its so annoying how this keeps coming up in different ways

@annydrobet2906 14 күн бұрын

Love the new topic!

@cupiedoll9759 13 күн бұрын

I love this style of video. Please do more. We all need to think more about how we treat others. Great video Hyram!!! ❤

@iunik_official 13 күн бұрын

Dear Hyram, Thanks for sharing our centella gel cream !! 😍🥰😍🥰

@Hyram 12 күн бұрын

Of course!! One of my favs :D

@sevenblueprints5276 12 күн бұрын

Love this video format from you! Been waiting for this type of content!!!

@mariamangion21 14 күн бұрын

So glad I found your channel 🥰

@inasillygoofymood 14 күн бұрын

love this series' idea!!!

@ineta46 14 күн бұрын

It was verty interesting to listen, thank you for talking about this topic!❤

@ecastalia1 14 күн бұрын

Love you, Hyram!

@ilse1 14 күн бұрын

Love love love this!!

@vickitherkildsen350 13 күн бұрын

You're adorable. And I loved the food for thought. Thank you for the inspiration.

@Harley0555 12 күн бұрын

love these types of videos!!

@mbelle221 13 күн бұрын

I love these types of videos, Hyram!! I love hearing your opinions. You could just talk away while getting ready, driving, whatever works.

@vicky46652 14 күн бұрын

Wow! Loved the insight you shared in this video, Hyram.

@ShakiraSmylie 12 күн бұрын

Beauty is pain 😢 and people are still beautiful the way they are

@user-bf6mb9pv4b 13 күн бұрын

well thought out, thanks for this!

@monastroms 13 күн бұрын

Loved this!!! Always so happy when you’ve posted a new video, take care 🤍

@GLAMGENX 13 күн бұрын

Turned 50 this year! I’ve always loved experimenting with skincare, so glad b/c although the routine has changed and products changed over the years, but I’ve always had a routine. Great vid, thx for the insight!

@sireeshakarri6021 14 күн бұрын

Love this video!!

@daphny.xavier 14 күн бұрын

I LOVED THIS! You can do any type of content, and it’s always entertaining, fun, respectful and refreshing. The only thing I disagree with is: giving compliments to people and worrying if others might take offense. I feel like if someone has trouble accepting a compliment that was given to someone else, they have some inner work to do. We’re all beautiful in different ways, so a compliment to someone different than us shouldn’t necessarily mean an insult to us. But I do understand where you’re coming from, and it’s very thoughtful and sweet 🥰❤️

@DancerGirly361 14 күн бұрын

I like this idea!

@kathleenchild 13 күн бұрын

Definitely enjoyed this type of video and would love to see more from you.

@celinepope 13 күн бұрын

I absolutely adore this concept of video. Thanks for keeping me company on my self care bath!

@ieatmarshmellowpies 8 күн бұрын

I love this kind of video! Your personality and viewpoints are why I love watching your videos. You made great points and things to consider in this video, I can’t wait to hear more you have to say!

@Alisha23456 14 күн бұрын

Love this video ❤

@lora17 13 күн бұрын

Good ideas about the comments. All well said. And everything you said that is going on is so true is causing a lot if mental issues. It is slow and insidious and we have to take a stand now so the younger generations don't suffer

@lucyhalamova2713 13 күн бұрын

Yess more of this ❤

@LoveSheeeeena 9 күн бұрын

Amazing content Hyram

@daniellemorrison1427 11 күн бұрын

Love these!!

@reesa8573 12 күн бұрын

This is way off the topic..but.. Hyram you’ve been my saviour! I just want you to say that you’re really great and never feel bad about any trolls because there are a lot of people like us who are very grateful to you.

@NusratJahan-su5wu 11 күн бұрын

Love this!!

@lisapetrison-beautyreviews 13 күн бұрын

That was really great! I'd like to see more videos like this and also for you to focus more on skincare for people who are a little older (e.g. 35+).

@Maryyyschka 13 күн бұрын

Wow, that’s a very intriguing title. Got my attention for sure! lol

@RheaMighty 7 күн бұрын

Loved this one 🤍

@BambiTerrible 10 күн бұрын

I really like this Kind of Video ! It is a very good idea !!

@natgars 12 күн бұрын

Yes to videos like these

@Meilums42 14 күн бұрын

I do agree that we need to stop judging peoples' character by their physical appearance, and this is extra true for celebrities or anyone who has access to expensive treatments. That said, I also think there is truth to the idea that people who have chronically problematic viewpoints (racism, sexism, homophobia, etc) are also more likely to have chronically elevated stress with all the hate they express - and chronic stress DOES have a physiological impact on our health and the way we age. Obviously there is so much more nuance to this, but I think that is what this trend is expressing. Also PS, Henry Ford made factory automation and mass production the gold standard; the industrial revolution began in British textile mills in the late 1700s. The US took over about 100 years later with the production of steel, oil, and electricity. Ford was at the tail end of this era. ;)

@mbelle221 13 күн бұрын

I generally don't make negative comments about people's physical appearance. But I have noticed that people who LOVE to make comments about people's physical appearances aren't exactly the most attractive either, which I find interesting. I've always just taken the high road and not say anything, but I think this also contributes to the problem. Since no one challenges their behavior, it ends up becoming normal behavior and worse, it teaches other people that this behavior is ok. Long story short, sometimes people need to be taught a lesson and now, my intuition tells me that insulting them back about their physical appearance is usually the best way to get them to realize how hurtful their actions are.

@jayniestanley4730 9 күн бұрын

I agree with you 💯% .

@leizylromero 14 күн бұрын

That’s a very cool take because it reminds me of libra - justice and beauty.

@mattylh5646 14 күн бұрын

Come on Self Care Sundays!

@arya0553 13 күн бұрын

Aging is like 80% about Genetics. So thanks to my Asian (Turkish) parents because I still look like 16 although being 29 😌 BUT i am also taking care about my skin folks, don‘t forget about the 20%🤣

@ariel1120 11 күн бұрын

I think you have a lot of good points, but when i think of "problematic behavior" especially in reference to celebrities, I think of excessive drinking, smoking, other drug use, which are all things that do age you faster than normal. So at a base level there is some truth to "unproblematic" = age slower than someone who is "problematic." But like you said that does not mean unproblematic = beautiful. Beauty is so much more complicated than just how you age.

@meganwatts1772 12 күн бұрын

Omg! Yes, yes, yes!

@ChristinaBMunchkin 13 күн бұрын

On another note, I would love to see some reviews of some Hawaiian skin care. 😊

@HalloweenNightmare-wo6xm 11 күн бұрын

Please do a review on meaningful beauty and Dr Nassif skin products!!

@chumpgump 14 күн бұрын

Actually it's a fact that people who are not considered conventionally attractive receive harsher sentencing when convicted of a crime as opposed to a "beautiful" person. Even how the public reacts to a criminal is impacted by their appearance. So it is a real problem in society unfortunately. Though to be fair I really see that we are moving past that mentality as far as I'm aware that it.

@mishellarox 12 күн бұрын

can you do a juice beauty review?? They have a retinol that has been working for a lot of people I know and I need to have it Hyram approved!

@SpaceMermaid86 14 күн бұрын

This video reminds me, I've gotten lots of ads for Miracle Balm from Jones Road Beauty. I'm curious what your thoughts on it are regarding their claims & the ingredients, of course. I have 2 problems with these ads, I'm only 37! & I don't wear makeup, except for special occasions. I was never taught how to apply it & I work a blue collar maintenance job, so I chose to spend my time & money on skin care vs makeup.

@mercury8077 13 күн бұрын

Something I find interesting is in Latin “Consumer” translates to “dolor” but translated back into English is “pain” (ik google translate isn’t always accurate but it had me thinking for ages)

@Saadya16 14 күн бұрын

Not commenting on someone’s physical appearance can be good but it can be bad too. I personally lost 145lbs and I will admit it was frustrating sometimes when people wouldn’t “notice/comment” on my progress… I feel like nowadays we have to be so careful that we forget positive/constructive feedback is good.

@beccak8166 13 күн бұрын

Personally as someone with an eating disorder history I would never compliment someone's weight loss. Not just eating disorders, but many health conditions can cause weight loss. While your hard work is commendable, I don't want to compliment someone on their body when that's such a sensitive issue.

@archervine8064 13 күн бұрын

I can see that, but unless we are reasonably close I wouldn’t know if your weight loss was intentional or not. I have - thankfully - not had to deal with an ED but during my times of worst health I was at my lightest or my heaviest, depending on what exactly was going on. It’s a lot safer to say “that’s such a great color on you!” or “you HAVE to show me how you do your eyeliner!”, etc.

@anonymoussss_ 12 күн бұрын

I’m on spironolactone and doxycycline for acne medication and I’m literally so sensitive to the sun I get burnt within 20 minutes of being outside in 60°. What’s a good sunscreen?

@makinka0cp 12 күн бұрын

Same old same old. If you're pretty, you're a good person, if you're less pretty, you're mean. 90's Disney approves this victorian message

@sierram9573 14 күн бұрын

Eyeronically

@martinxavier4631 14 күн бұрын

For men even if we are unproblematic, but biology wont lie to us especially our hair follicles that response to hormones

@godzlegendz 14 күн бұрын

7:16 Bro you are super handsome wdym

@user-um6vf4bn2l 12 күн бұрын

Can you do a video on kind science And thoughts on it ...... I'm 33 this year At and trying to start a skin care routine... I've tried both the origins ginzing products annnnnnd the kind sconce brand too... idk which is better

@auddie6639 7 күн бұрын

This topic sort of runs into all sorts of class issues. When you're poor, you're exposed to more stress, which can also age you. You also can't afford good skin care.

@kelseymathis544 13 күн бұрын

❤

@hannahbradshaw2186 13 күн бұрын

It's giving physiognomy 😬

@starrynight519 14 күн бұрын

Hi Hyram! Have you heard of rejuvaderm? Apparently it’s a really popular skin treatment in Korea where they inject salmon dna into your skin 😳 wondering what your thoughts would be on it

@NourishedbyValerie 11 күн бұрын

Can we be friends 🤗 you seem so awesome

@EchaKiut 12 күн бұрын

Racist is nothing to do with human aging. How is that 2 even corelate??????

@abcefg4504 14 күн бұрын

If you want to age gracefully and be unproblematic: eat plant based. Get as close to vegan as you can and you will lead a healthier life while looking better overall. Before people say that it doesn’t guarantee that, well yeah. Don’t expect a miracle if you’ve eaten like 💩 your entire life and you’re an older person, but you will certainly age better than you will eating whatever you eat now. Your habits will catch up to you wether they’re bad or good. If you consistently consume cruelty and death that’s the energy you’re bringing into your life and body. Best of luck to everyone and have a lovely day!