You Can't Change People (Even Those You Love)

You Can't Change People (Even Those You Love) - Nouman Ali Khan

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Жыл бұрын

In this Urdu Q&A video from Pakistan, Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan shares an important reminder:
The guidance of others, even those we love dearly, will not come as a result of our own efforts. Allah has not made us responsible for the actions of others.
The story of the Prophet ﷺ himself contains an eye-opening example of this, which I share with our sister in this clip.
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@appu1sundaram Жыл бұрын

I can feel the pain in her eyes and voice. Allah please help her, help us all, guide us and our families. Ameen

@AllahsServant12 Жыл бұрын

Yes. She’s very hurt. May Allah help this sister. I’m almost in tears seeing her how hurt she looks and sound. Ya Allah. Please help this sister with whatever problem she is going through and give her patience

@misbamanzoor0779 Жыл бұрын

aameen

@AditiHossain Жыл бұрын

Exactly.... i felt the same for her. May Allah ease her pain and ours too, may Allah guide us all.... ameen.

@Mari-mv8os Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@UCZ15 Жыл бұрын

@@AllahsServant12 Ameen - what a beautiful du’a.

@pnunud6292 Жыл бұрын

The deep sighs she takes shows the amount of pain she has suffered and effort this sister has put in, May Allah ﷻ accept all her good deeds and guide us all to the right path.

@shizanaeem3314 Жыл бұрын

SAWW

@Only_Islam_is_Truth313 11 ай бұрын

@@shizanaeem3314 I invite everyone to listen holy Quran & Islamic speech from the India🇮🇳❤😊😊

@86seahawk 3 ай бұрын

Aameen

@asma4976 2 ай бұрын

It reminded me Prophet Nuh A.s's conversation with his son when Nuh A.S asked his son to get in Ark and he denied but father's love for son made him stil do dua from Allah pak .... A msg to this sister" the pain in your eyes shows your effort for your love one. May Allah make them steadfast. Ameen. But you have done your job Allah pak clearley mentioned in Quran " Woh jisy chahy hidayat deta hy Aur jisko hidayat de de Ussey koi Gumrah ni kr sakta"

@sidraarshad6196 Жыл бұрын

You can see the pain in her eyes. She was on the verge of tears. Hope she find the peace and happiness she's looking for.

@Hifzah31 Ай бұрын

aameen summa aameen

@jennahStar Жыл бұрын

This hurts deeply. Because I am from a born Muslim family, and none of my family ever taught me about Islam even the bascis like iman, taqwa, importance of salah, purpose of life etc. I had to learn it myself, and I kept searching the find the answers to my questions. Anyways, when I talk or want to give knowledge to my family, they don't want to hear it. I kept trying to change my family but it doesn't work that way. I'm glad this video came upon my feed, and I watched it. As much as it hurts, it's the truth. We can never change those around us, especially our family members, if they aren't willing to change.

@AllahsServant12 Жыл бұрын

Wow. The amount of empathy, patience and intelligence the Sheikh posses with the grace of Allah is immense. I needed to hear this so badly in my life. Alhamdhulillah

@shaidasadiq959 Жыл бұрын

Yaa Rabbi take all her stresses and worries away, bless her and her family with afiyah ameen 🤲🏼

@unmouscat Жыл бұрын

Aameen

@mdibrahimislam8648 Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@siddiqueahmad6521 Жыл бұрын

Aameen

@shabnamali3635 Жыл бұрын

Ameen Ya Rabb

@khushboo197 11 ай бұрын

Aameen❤❤

@azraasma3765 3 ай бұрын

The intense effort to change someone can be seen through her eyes as unbearable pain

@shandarjan1656 Жыл бұрын

May Allah Ta'ala help this sister ameeen..

@AAslan-wd2ze Жыл бұрын

And all of us. Ameen Allahumma salli wa sallim ala sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa ashabihi ejmaeen 😢🤲🥺

@kalactose348 Жыл бұрын

Ameen. Just from her mannerisms you can tell she's been sad for a long time. May Allah make it easy on all of us

@kuttakameena992 Жыл бұрын

Summa aameen

@asmakhatun7191 Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@sahidaharis3680 Жыл бұрын

Aameen

@sayedamehjabin3641 Жыл бұрын

I was so sad because of my parents, they're not practicing muslims. I was stressed that Allah will ask me on the day of judgement about why I didn't warn my parents . So I tried to make them understand, but they insulted me. They were like, who are you to give us hidayah, you are our child, behave like a child. I would often cry. But this video gave me hope. Alhamdulillah. At this point we can only make dua for our loved one so Allah will change their hearts.

@hadeedgg1755 Жыл бұрын

Same

@minigone8099 Жыл бұрын

What type of parents u have🙄. At least they shouldn't mock u for this.

@sayedamehjabin3641 Жыл бұрын

@@hadeedgg1755 may Allah make it easy for us,Ameen.

@shahlachoudhry5999 Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@antuahammad8526 Жыл бұрын

Brother, in sujud weep more for them who knows when Allah wil guide them. In tahajudd prayer, shed tears more and more. Dnt expect result and get stressed rather just say in heart Allah you are the right one only to guide my parents.

@nahidaislam6729 Жыл бұрын

8 years ago I tried to change my drug addicted ex, I prayed & cried. But he never changed, Anyway now I m married again & Alhamdulillah I m happy. Allah knows best.

@Tomtom-gl1yb 2 ай бұрын

He doesn't deserve life 😂

@Tomtom-gl1yb 2 ай бұрын

Tere ex ki Zindagi bhout chuti hogi

@muniyarahman3982 2 ай бұрын

Same thing is happening with me..he is not changing but I am praying and praying to Allah..I feel so tired I don't know should I try hard o should I leave..he is my husband.. please pray

@nahidaislam6729 2 ай бұрын

@@muniyarahman3982 we can’t change any1 heart, Allah didn’t give us that power. In this world we shouldn’t have too much love/emotion for anything. Your prayers will answer but different way & Allah knows what is best for us. Every day I thanks to Allah that I left & Allah gave me better husband. Alhamdulillah

@muniyarahman3982 2 ай бұрын

@nahidaislam6729 I really hope Allah bless me with happiness..passing very darkest time of my life and see no hope. Future seems very unclear and present is haunting me, my dear. This marriage I am trying and trying but it's only me who's trying..the last thing that is left is to leave but I am so scared to take any decision.. I am truly glad you replied..Alhamdulillah that you are happy now.

@sarahstarr Жыл бұрын

Such a naive and sweet sister, God knows who she loves so much. That person is really unlucky to not find guidance despite someone being sincere like that

@syeidatasbiha3081 Жыл бұрын

She is crying inside 😭 the pain , May Allah ease her test❤

@khadijafatima9240 Жыл бұрын

“O Allah, I hope for Your mercy. Do not leave me to myself even for a blink of an eye. Correct all of my affairs for me. There is none worthy of worship except You.”

@islamul802 Жыл бұрын

This is breath taking, I can feel from the sister's eyes her pain, her feeling of hollow inside her soul, and the status Allah has Given to my brother Nouman with all the confidence and conviction he counseled the sister.

@hafsaarsalan4489 Жыл бұрын

Allah is behen ki mushkil ko asaan karay .. bohat Dil shikasta lag rahi theein. 😟

@172forzero6 Жыл бұрын

Amin

@farahdiba4786 Ай бұрын

Aameen

@nasrinakterritu8621 Жыл бұрын

I can see myself in her eyes,It's really not easy to see someone doing wrong infront of your eyes whom you love the most😢May Allah subhanahu ta ala make easier for her and me also

@nadiakakar7185 Жыл бұрын

And make easy for me also

@nurulhidajaningsih7272 Жыл бұрын

And make it easy for me too🥺

@skhan7154 Жыл бұрын

@@nadiakakar7185 hope you are doing well?

@skhan7154 Жыл бұрын

@@nurulhidajaningsih7272 Ameen ya Rabbul Aalameen. InShaAllah

@skhan7154 Жыл бұрын

Ameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen. InShaAllah

@huggeebear Жыл бұрын

Look at all the du'ās the sister is getting! Māshallah! May Allāh accept them!

@Layla6793 Жыл бұрын

Allahuma Ameen

@hafsariaz8439 Жыл бұрын

The effortlessness she feels after putting so much effort💔. This is such a needed video for many emotional womens. You need to know when to stop, that brings you peace

@cookycutie Жыл бұрын

I NEEDED THISSS !!! I swear this is all I needed to hear today it brought so much peace in my heart tysm , I will share à story below i witnessed recently .

@xrayonthemove Жыл бұрын

Please share the story

@AllahsServant12 Жыл бұрын

Please cooky cutie. Share the story. We all want to be inspired by your story

@imranlion1996 Жыл бұрын

Come on cookie

@cookycutie Жыл бұрын

@ShaBunny im sorry for late update , i have plenty of stories , ill pick the short one , the story is about a mother and a daughter , the mother is a muslim but was raised in a non muslim family and had a very poor knowledge about religion and her daughter grew up to be a STRICT muslim , growing up (shes maybe 40 yo ) and the mother is 80 yo , the daughter started to notice the mother poor knowledge about islam and how to do salat and other things like that so she started lecturing the mother (illiterate) and by time it escalated to pure humiliation, the daughter started to call the mother a "kafira" (non believer ) bc the mother didn't change the way she prayer or improved , us the family kept. Telling the daughter to leave her mother be , SHe took it personal and felt like we are all against her and we are all not following the religion correctly, it led to a huge glass wall between the family , months later now , us the family stoppef getting involved in this subject and let daughter and mother fight , it was painful to watch but we chose that its not our fight anymore , so the daughter joined a muslim group of woman that teach and educate people at the mosque , the daughter started to teach other people quran and surat and so she felt above everyone and started lecturing her mother even more , one day the cheikh was there and he was giving a short lesson at the mosque and so she talked about her constant fight with her mother AND HOW SHE IS "TIRED" and "DONE" with her mother , and she is a shamed of having such a mother and how she feels that her mother will go to hell bc she is doing everything related to islam Wrong ,and how she feels like shes the only one correcting her mother and pushing her to the right path by forcing her everyday to do more , and how everyone that is not correcting her mother feels to her like a nonbeliever and like a thorn in her way to guide her mother , tHE CHEIKH LISTENED then to her big surprise he kinda scolded her , telling her how wrong it is that she is treating her own mother with such a disrespect and who is she to judge and who is she to know what fate awaite her mother and shes NOT A MESSENGER OF GOD and helping someone comes from kindness and showing the way how anf not giving orders and correcting people bc she her self can be absolutely wrong , and the fact that her mother is illiterate and still pray and fast for Ramadan and is opening the her house and feeding people and is doing duaa is actually wonderful and enough, the imam said absolutely the total opposite of what she expected, she left the mosque bc she felt humiliated, us the family knew about this story not from the daughter but from the people that were there , and we are witnessing how the mother is now actually improving since her daughter stopped the yelling , scolding and constant degradation, the mother now is asking more about how to fix her way of praying and how such a word is pronounce and we are happy the fight between mother and daughter are less than before although from time to time the daughter bring back the subject again but with what the cheikh said and what nouman ali khan said i feel at ease that we actually had is all right and feel better now i can confidently say that you cant change people you can only advisce them with kidness AND AT THE RIGHT time , not humiliate and expose people in front of everyone but kindly and when the person is at peace and ready to hear what you have to say and always with kind words , i hope this story will help someone bc there was going to be a BIG family feud if the cheikh didn't correct her , we were about to find a DRASTIC solution like taking the mother away from the daughter and letting her know what she is about to loose , but im glad it didnt go there and that now we can finally advise people in a way that wont hurt anyone, we cant change people it comes from them we can obly advise them it such a beautiful lesson .

@cookycutie Жыл бұрын

@@imranlion1996 im sorry for late update , i have plenty of stories , ill pick the short one , the story is about a mother and a daughter , the mother is a muslim but was raised in a non muslim family and had a very poor knowledge about religion and her daughter grew up to be a STRICT muslim , growing up (shes maybe 40 yo ) and the mother is 80 yo , the daughter started to notice the mother poor knowledge about islam and how to do salat and other things like that so she started lecturing the mother (illiterate) and by time it escalated to pure humiliation, the daughter started to call the mother a "kafira" (non believer ) bc the mother didn't change the way she prayer or improved , us the family kept. Telling the daughter to leave her mother be , SHe took it personal and felt like we are all against her and we are all not following the religion correctly, it led to a huge glass wall between the family , months later now , us the family stoppef getting involved in this subject and let daughter and mother fight , it was painful to watch but we chose that its not our fight anymore , so the daughter joined a muslim group of woman that teach and educate people at the mosque , the daughter started to teach other people quran and surat and so she felt above everyone and started lecturing her mother even more , one day the cheikh was there and he was giving a short lesson at the mosque and so she talked about her constant fight with her mother AND HOW SHE IS "TIRED" and "DONE" with her mother , and she is a shamed of having such a mother and how she feels that her mother will go to hell bc she is doing everything related to islam Wrong ,and how she feels like shes the only one correcting her mother and pushing her to the right path by forcing her everyday to do more , and how everyone that is not correcting her mother feels to her like a nonbeliever and like a thorn in her way to guide her mother , tHE CHEIKH LISTENED then to her big surprise he kinda scolded her , telling her how wrong it is that she is treating her own mother with such a disrespect and who is she to judge and who is she to know what fate awaite her mother and shes NOT A MESSENGER OF GOD and helping someone comes from kindness and showing the way how anf not giving orders and correcting people bc she her self can be absolutely wrong , and the fact that her mother is illiterate and still pray and fast for Ramadan and is opening the her house and feeding people and is doing duaa is actually wonderful and enough, the imam said absolutely the total opposite of what she expected, she left the mosque bc she felt humiliated, us the family knew about this story not from the daughter but from the people that were there , and we are witnessing how the mother is now actually improving since her daughter stopped the yelling , scolding and constant degradation, the mother now is asking more about how to fix her way of praying and how such a word is pronounce and we are happy the fight between mother and daughter are less than before although from time to time the daughter bring back the subject again but with what the cheikh said and what nouman ali khan said i feel at ease that we actually had is all right and feel better now i can confidently say that you cant change people you can only advisce them with kidness AND AT THE RIGHT time , not humiliate and expose people in front of everyone but kindly and when the person is at peace and ready to hear what you have to say and always with kind words , i hope this story will help someone bc there was going to be a BIG family feud if the cheikh didn't correct her , we were about to find a DRASTIC solution like taking the mother away from the daughter and letting her know what she is about to loose , but im glad it didnt go there and that now we can finally advise people in a way that wont hurt anyone, we cant change people it comes from them we can obly advise them it such a beautiful lesson .

@MT-hq3ex Жыл бұрын

How beautiful our Quran is ,Islam and how beautifully Allah teaches us ,MashAllah.I'm blessed to be Muslim ,and May Allah make practice Muslim Ameen 👍🏻🤍

@reese3005 11 ай бұрын

He provided proofs and reasoned but I felt her heart breaking. Subhanallah!

@muha8849 Жыл бұрын

A bit off topic but I just realized how beautiful Urdu language sounds.

@LilLion1818 Жыл бұрын

„The effort should be done to bring change in yourself, not in someone else.“ ❤

@uswomanmothers Жыл бұрын

That your sentence is for me,I must implement this

@SerraTopal Жыл бұрын

I feel her. Struggled for years for my family, knowing that hidayah comes from Allah, even just informing was such a struggle, only a bit of information seems like a threat for them. it was heartbreaking. I feel your tears waiting to drop down your eyes, sister. you are not alone.

@farhanaasif9785 Жыл бұрын

So true, i am facing this problem with my kids.. it's very heartbroken to see them, and it's very hard to realize when the person is your love one's. May Allah give my kids to hidayat and complete Emaan ameen.😢😢

@kamakazi8243 Жыл бұрын

The sister looked satisfied in the end....she looked sad in the beggining.... Alhamdulilah for Islam

@UmmRuqaiya Жыл бұрын

I just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I am actually going to save it in a playlist for my tough days! This is coming from an abuse survivor Alhamdulillah!

@goharabbas7505 3 ай бұрын

سلام ھو ھمارا جناب ابو طالب علیہ الصلات والسلام پہ اور ان کی آل پہ۔ جناب ابو طالب محافظ دین اور محافظ بنوت۔

@beyondclouds6745 Жыл бұрын

I know her pain, frustration, and feeling of helplessness so well. Elder women taught me that all we can do (for our children, family) is pray. May Allah grant save whomever she aches for (Amin).

@kenny8969 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdullillah who guided me to Sheikh Nouman Ali Khan's content--I've learned so much from his videos about my religion than I have my whole life living in a Muslim country. This is the bitter truth, no matter how hard we try to guide someone, they won't be guided unless they want to. I learned the same thing in psychology: the number one rule for someone to change is for them to want to change in the first place, other people can't make them change. Still we pray that Allah guides those we love so we may reunite with them in the afterlife. That's all we can do for them.

@bluelilly22222 Жыл бұрын

Ya RABB take her pain away, YA RABBU make her Du'as comes true.... Aameen

@Atal77 Жыл бұрын

Ustad May Allah (swt) protect you! Thank you for sharing the knowledge!

@Kinetoure Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah this is my story with my family specifically my little brother may Allah guide us Allahumma amine

@Erbazak47 Жыл бұрын

Her voice and eyes had deep pain and sorrow Ya ALLAH please grant her ease in this life and the next ameen

@daniellatan9016 Жыл бұрын

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahiwabarakatuh, brothers and sisters! JazakAllah khayr for providing english subs so that this whole world could benefit from this video!

@sabahat3336 Жыл бұрын

Walekumassalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

@palwashascookingchannel1730 Жыл бұрын

ھم سب نے اس سسٹر کے آنکھوں میں بہت دکھ، اداسی خالی پن دیکھا اللہ اس کو سکون نصیب کرے اور اس کے اور اس کے فیملی کے تمام دکھ اور مسائل کو دور کریں 🙏اللہ ھم سب کے حال پر رحم فرمائے ھمارے اولادوں کو نیک صالح فرمانبردار بنائیں. اور ھم پر اور ھمارے آنے والوں نسلوں کو قرآن کا حافظ اور محافظ بنائے. آمین یا رب العالمین ❤️

@miasmic100 Жыл бұрын

She had a genuine question, something very personal within her heart

@afhammohammed2224 Жыл бұрын

Assalamu alaikum brother, I just wanna take a moment to appreciate the quality of your videos, both the content and the video. May Allah reward you...

@ruqayahakhtar5067 2 ай бұрын

I can feel her pain from core of my heart😰🥺.... it really hurts when we put our efforts to change our loved ones but couldn't get the results...heart wrenching 💔....May Allah guide us and our loved ones towards Siratul mustaqeem...Aameen 🤲🥺

@sharoonilyas3106 Жыл бұрын

The way of explaining is loving, respectfully and effective. Legendary response and brilliant questions from que.

@Xkr00786 Ай бұрын

This lady needs to stay strong and find ways to keep herself happy in this duniya . Some problems between couples cannot be resolved in this life and you have to wait be patient in sabar until you meet Allah Swt .

@shammiakhtar2957 Жыл бұрын

Her case is understandable and relatable.... May Allah help us all. May Allah forgive us all.

@nawshinnazia9803 Жыл бұрын

This is insanely powerful!

@HalalMuslimah Жыл бұрын

"You can not guide everyone you love"- this is strong, painful.I needed this, related...May Allah swt.guides them, protect them,bless them Ameen.without praying can't do anything,Allah is the best planner Indeed.

@mindplatterbyzonal1716 Жыл бұрын

May Allah have mercy on her 💖🥺

@gafoorgichhi Жыл бұрын

Mashallah Ustaad...Allah SWT gave you the eloquence to speak and explain....May Allah SWT accept your efforts and give you a great reward🤲

@farhanaazman6191 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah I'm facing the same issues 😪 this really help me Alhamdulillah Jazakumullahu khair 👍

@ulfaattuhin2530 Жыл бұрын

same,sister😞 it's very painful, right?

@AllahsServant12 Жыл бұрын

Same. May Allah help us all. ❤

@mohdnaushad374 Жыл бұрын

Maine bhi apne pariwar walo ke liye koshish ki thi masaallah 5se 6 saal lag gye dheere dheere change aata hai

@piscesgirly Жыл бұрын

ALLAH swt help those who help themselves.

@sidrakafeel9160 10 ай бұрын

Beautifully explained..we all should try to change ourselves first and continue asking Allah to give guidance to our Love ones

@farihaashraf4402 11 ай бұрын

Ameen for all the prayers for her

@sarahstarr Жыл бұрын

Meri masoom behan...najane kis se itni sincere hai aur mohabbat krti hai jo badnaseeb hidayat pe nahi aa paa raha.

@misssunshine7408 Жыл бұрын

Husband hi hoga 😂

@Tomtom-gl1yb 2 ай бұрын

@@misssunshine7408ye lakriya kyu aise log see Saadi karte hai 😂

@15l4m 2 ай бұрын

Many of us wish to guide people to the straight path, but not everyone is guided. I personally deal with this and at first it was exhausting, but then I started seeing it as a test on me and I don’t need to spend all my time to convince anyone in fact maybe by doing this it could be harmful to both myself and the other person. Imagine what the Prophet s.a.w. Was feeling. Helping to guide those back to Allah s.w.t. yet they refused and there was nothing he could do, but he knew punishment awaited them.

@TheGentlemanCave29 Жыл бұрын

Hidayyah and guidance only given by Allah, we only pray for our love one if they have not find it and thats the best way we can do.

@MumtazRachbhare-du9hz 2 ай бұрын

Beshak ham appni Mahobat ki buniyad per kisi kobhi badl nhi sakte App SAW.ki Mahobat se bhi chacha Abu talib ko hidayet milna Allha ne Qabul nhi kiya greatest bayan jzakallha khira

@khushizaheer3691 Жыл бұрын

May Allah create ease for all the burning hearts, may Allah provides us comfort in his raza, ameen. I feel the pain on her face ans she doesn't look satisfied as if she is trying holding back her tears in her throat, May Allah grant her happiness and solution if all her problems and likewise for all of us, ameen.

@sawoodkhan7036 Жыл бұрын

Ya rabbi,, please accept her prayers and make her wish come true aameen

@yamankhan2943 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah I was in need of this bayan.. it's really painful when you see people you love is not on the right path no matter how hard you try to talk to them about issues, they won't change .. may Allah swt guide us all before its too late Ameen ❤️

@youthgirls_wing Жыл бұрын

Secret to happiness sabr shukar 🤲 all anxiety depression vanished 💡

@neematm8266 Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way she feels. May Allah guide us all

@khairunissashaikh4140 Жыл бұрын

Subhan Allah Amazing scholar

@senorasheikh8018 2 ай бұрын

Allah ka bohat karam hai k usny dosron ko theek krny ki zimadari hum par nhi dali

@FawadBilgrami Жыл бұрын

I can feel her pain. May Allah Help her. Ameen If she reads this or others who are in the same situation, just focus yourself and pray to Allah. Thats how I got out of this and Alhumdulillah its affecting others too.

@zumeraaa 2 ай бұрын

May Allah SWT ease her mind and give her peace and strength ❤

@ehtishamibnemuhammadstuden2135 Жыл бұрын

May Allah سبحان و تعالٰی Bless & help you.... Lot of prayers for you sister 💫❤️

@crystalkhan Жыл бұрын

Jazakallah Ustad.. I'm glad you are answering all such questions we have in our head.. May Allah help us in spreading the words of Allah.

@salmamalik3320 Ай бұрын

I am 20 years old.I belong to muslim family (pakistani) but we have never discussed such things in our family.This is what we called"TARBIYAT".But unfortunately no one taught me these things!Our discussions in family is financial issues, what's happenig in other lives, career,jobs saturation, hopeless, hypercomparison.WE HAVE NEVER DISCUSSED THE THINGS WHICH BOTHER US THE MOST.PEOPLE'S ATTITUDE,THEIR JELOUSY SERIOUSLY WE CAN'T CONTROL OTHERS.Therfore, fight between partners after marriaged is because THEY TRY TO CONTROL EACH OTHER BUT EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT thoughts YOU CAN'T CONTROL ANYONE😊

@purnoortabassum Жыл бұрын

I seriously respect this man❤❤❤

@LofiBiya Жыл бұрын

MashAllah ....may Allah protect you and rewards you in both worlds!

@raffu9684a Жыл бұрын

Ustad 🥺🥺 thank you for guiding us We love you 💖

@pause...tobreak5110 Жыл бұрын

Such an important message. Jazak Allah

@mohibrehman6121 Жыл бұрын

Bhot achi tarah explan kr dia nauman sir ne mazid ki zarurat to nhi lekin lekin ek bat "koshish" k bare mn batani hy k insan maqdur bhar koshish krta rahe jesa k surat ,taghabun, ayet 16 mn Allah swt ne farma dia...bataqaza e bashreyt insan kei bar danwan dol b ho jata hy..phir ruju kr leta hy to is k ley b Allah k han bhot ajar hy Allah ne quran mn farmaya k ibrahim a.s ruju krne wale the...hm to aam se gunahgar insan hn...khata k putle hn... Lekin junhi patdi se utre istightar kr k phir koshish shuru kr di... Allah hm sb ko hidaeyt de...sirat e mustqim par chalae or manzil tak ponhchae..ameen🎉

@shameemsultana8386 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah sir numan may ALLAH SWT BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

@tkcreations5921 Жыл бұрын

Sir you are true gem ♥️ Love from India ♥️♥️

@rooola1 Жыл бұрын

Sister I feel your pain . May Allah guide us all and help us and guid our children.

@khabirulislam999 Жыл бұрын

Mash Allah! Very helpful question-answer

@medii4469 Жыл бұрын

Ma Shaa Allah so looking forward to this series...Allahumma balighna ramadan..

@sheebanaaz8425 Жыл бұрын

Ya Allah bless us with your mercy Ameen summa Ameen..

@nausheenkhanrisaldar4920 Жыл бұрын

What a perfect response. May Allah bless you and reward you for your efforts and for your wisdom. I wish that I may attain the knowledge that you possess about the Quran in the future, insh’Allah.

@tiabaredwana8526 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah..this lecture just change my perspective....I used to give so many advices to people that they just started avoiding me...

@UbaidKhan-mc1ot Жыл бұрын

Jazakallah o khair

@caseyrose44 3 ай бұрын

thank you and exactly you are right , you can not change anyone 🙏

@Cvbggbbgf Жыл бұрын

Subhan Allah, not doubt … Noman Ali khan i salute!

@acadmicexcel991 Жыл бұрын

May Allah Tala ,remove all her pain and fulfill her wishes. Aameen

@nusratkhalil5060 11 ай бұрын

Allah sari baitiyon k dukh dour krdey

@naziaqurashi4174 Жыл бұрын

May Allah ease out her pain. And pain of every hurting soul.

@safikaahmed7173 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah 💭

@bayan97sw Жыл бұрын

ماشاء الله تبارك الله اللهم انفع به ومكن له وافتح به

@Muslimah-Pakistani Жыл бұрын

Ahhh that woman...May ALLAH Almighty Bless her wd ease...Amin🤲

@shhnX Жыл бұрын

Yaa Allah swt grant her peace, she is in such pain. May Allah ease her problems

@saira5476 8 ай бұрын

😢very beautiful world I can feel her pain 😢

@mariar.h1032 Жыл бұрын

MashAllah ....may Allah protect you and rewards you in both worlds! Much needed answer.... Waiting for the whole session... JazakAllah Khair!

@stepbystep4730 Жыл бұрын

JazakAllah to her very deep question So many women facing these issues Allah help her Ameen

@abeerailyas8611 10 ай бұрын

May Allah give her courage and patience

@armanalam4352 Жыл бұрын

Mashaallah ❤bahot hi khubsurat jawab diye wajeh clear ho gayi

@zimk.4619 10 ай бұрын

One thing i appreciate a lot about NAK is that he knows how to question to understand the real question🤍

@FK-cg8el Жыл бұрын

Mashalla Brother may Allah grant you Janna

@MT-hq3ex Жыл бұрын

MashAllah,Sir you are bringing awareness in pakistan .May Allah bless you more and help you achieve your goal 👍🏻🌺🌺

@fizziepizzie123 Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful and logical answer he gave. Listening to this you get all answers

@ambermalik895 Жыл бұрын

Subhan'Allah, Ustad Norman has always given the vision of every thing according to Quran as it saying to humans and so nicely he conveyed the mind of her and shows her the right track to keep herself tension free from the burden she is going through..May Allah subhan'wa tah'ala help her.Aameen

@ashiqdole6114 Жыл бұрын

I love you Ustad! You are awesome! I have learnt so much by watching your speeches, discussions, and Q&As. Allah Bless you and your family abundantly for sharing your knowledge and understanding of our beautiful Holy Qur'an and the teachings of our beloved Rasoolullah Sallallahu Allaihiwasallam