I married a sick woman so she would have free healthcare and could die in dignity. "I, I, I"

Well, this woman probably wouldn't like me, or most men out there. Even so, she married him.

😂😂😂😂

​@@ekl2947they would have bashed him for being greedy and bs

Nah bro, this is a classic call of “I married a spoiled bum of a man, now what should I do??” Happens pretty often on the show, and vice versa.

@@tonytoni1150 the problem is if a man called in they first go to it being a partnership, and second go to other non-monetary contributions being left out. The truth is likely somewhere in between, but the clear gender bias has made John in particular hard to watch for a long time now.

​@@lucaspm98truth is always in between. Would love his take

If a man called in and said, "my wife didn't want to combine finances with me when we first married, but now that i make way more money than her, she now suddenly want to combine finances". "I did all the hard work, not her, i struggled to make more money and now that i make more than her, she wants to combine our income". If a man had said that, Baloney would call the man a selfish man-child for not wanting to combine income with his wife.

This is the Dave Ramsey show

The catch here is that he was the one demanding the 50/50 and separate money agreement, like those mgtow/incel Podcasters... now that she surpassed him, he wants a piece of it...

ABSOLUTELY! She’s instantly on whatever the caller isn’t saying.

Totally agree

Yes. A+

She said he didn’t help with the house though.

Sounds like he hasn’t been supportive and off doing his thing while she was working hard to get somewhere. That’s not a team. She needs to move on with her life and leave him behind.

@@lavenderkisses9461 But is that really true?

@@jimmymcgill6778 all we have to go off of is what she calls in with. Regardless they pointed her to talk with her husband and work at getting on the same page.

@jimmymcgill6778 It happens Jimmy. My sister was married to such a guy. Needless to say, she divorced him. I know more people with this 50/50 setup and it's always the one making more money (all dudes), looking down on the other.

they are 100/100

@@MrCoxmic💯

My husband and I lived together for 12 years before getting married. We just never bothered to combine finances mostly out of sheer laziness but 26 years later we are very happy and debt free.

You are married. Half of yo stuff is his. Welcome to a man side

You would think except, we have activist judges who legislate from the bench 🙄!!!

Good for him she can pay alimony 👍

It ain't no fun when the rabbit's got the gun....lol. Them equal rights is a mofo ain't it?

For years now I been tryna make it out the hood so on my KZfaq channel i do food reviews while I’m high broski

True, but he's the one that wanted separate accounts from the get go when they first got married. Now that she's considerably surpassed him in wealth, he want to comingle their accounts. She now feels hurt by this.

@@susanwoywood6334 yeah. I agree. It’s just not worded right. Marriage is about giving yourself totally to the other. Yet this marriage started off by him wanting his money to be his alone.

Exactly. I knew a guy who would tell me all the evil his ex did to him. Thankfully, I'm not that ignorant to believe anything that comes out of a human's mouth. It did seem that she did all that to him, except, she was just sticking it to him and it was so easy to see why. He is so selfish, it amazes me. My father is a narcissist and even he did not display that level of selfishness.

He wants her money to be his money though lol.

But he hasn’t any, he’s a slacker.

Tell the courts that 😂!!!

It is their money not hers

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Thanks for sharing.

its not all one pile. Go through the divorce courts and see how much you and your wife are all one team.

How can one find a verifiable financial Planner, I buy the idea of employing the services of a Financial Advisor because finding that balance between saving and living requires counsel.

BECKY LOU GORDON . On the internet, that’s the financial advisor I use. She’s verified; you could also read more about her and then communicate with her. it’s always good to do your research before putting your money into any investment.

Thank you so much! Found her webpage and left a message. Hopefully, she responds.

Hope so.

Prolly. He needs alimony

She calling up to speak to strangers on a radio station for all the world to view on the internet. I find that to be very disrespectful if that was my wife doing this. Clearly their marriage is F’d if she’s behaving this way and calling up lol.

It is "on thin ice." Stating the obvious is not breaking up a marriage. Have to see the problem before trying to fix it

@greggpurviance7252 A lot of relationships are "on thin ice." That doesn't mean exacerbate the issue. Try to help them make it work, not make it fail. Suggesting marriage counseling is fine, but calling a spouse a DEADBEAT after 1 minute phone call with a stranger is not only not helpful, it's actually hurtful. He's the only one that would do that. None of the other personalities would go there - even Dave. I think Deloney has his little certificate so he thinks anything out of his mouth must be correct.

He's called Baloney for a reason

@@robloxvids2233 never said everything he says is helpful, just you could tell rapidly that the relationship was on thin ice. You can tell that from one spouse. Stating that is not bad. Need to hear spouses story to tell if he is a deadbeat. Learned early, never make decisions about someone with out hearing their story. That is not helpful.

Yea me too. It would be well daddy and mommy cut me off so let’s combine our money.

It's probably "my wife is emotionally and physically unavailable and has been for years while trying to climb a corporate ladder that we do not need. Her work is #1 in her life and she's made that clear to me."

Are you safe?

@sblijheid I'm a man so yeah. If I was a woman Deloney would assume I was a wittle scared toddler who needed her binky. He's so misogynistic without realizing it. He probably lists himself as a "feminist" on his social media profiles. He's obviously a misogynist.

So did he hit a nerve or are you just this ridiculous??

When he's in the thumbnail I don't click on the video 90% of times

But it really isn't a money problem.

​@musicpro7278 Fair, considering that no one's marriage is as good as his. 😉

@@DSLightning21 I bet his marriage isn't good either

But your doing what a man needs to do for his home and family! This guy isn't and she isn't open to change things now.ijs

@@sayless1445exactly. It honestly speaks volumes when MARRIED couples are not willing to combine finances. Two become one and you are joint in all accounts, except you rather keep the bank accounts separate? It increases the likelihood that they won’t be on the same page financially, which can lead to major issues.

Not about trust and just being married. They are completely different skill sets. The spouse (man or woman equally) can be the greatest parent and spouse, but may not automatically understand finances no matter how many family meetings just because the state says they are married. That is way people have different roles and jobs. The best doctor I wouldn't ask to repair my car.

Would you sign to split a $60K/yr pension, that you earned prior to marriage? or would you have the $60K hit your account and then split it.

Only if he's on a similar page financial wise. If he splurges left/right and center, and I live frugal ,within my means, it would get very annoying very fast.

I don’t think they’re saying that they shouldn’t combine finances. They’re saying fix your marriage first then the finances will work out. I hear resentment from her and that’s toxic to a marriage.

@@tracyaf6084 My guess is you have not listened to the Ramsey show for a long time. Some of us started listening to Dave Ramsey 10-15 years ago. The overall point is the "network" has shifted to a place where females are treated differently then men. Its Tone, narrative, approach and literally contradicting the advice they have given for nearly 2 decades. The pattern is clear, many of us see it.

Assuming what the chick said is actually true. She said that her husband was the one who didn’t want to combine their incomes when he made more. Now that she makes more he wants to combine and she doesn’t want to. This all does point to major relationship issues. He definitely shouldn’t have done that again assuming this is all true and she isn’t twisting this to make her self look better.

@@killersiggy If what she said is true and I am assuming it is the husband is suspect. She shouldnt combine income, no married couple should in this day and age. She chose to lead with the "I now make 3 times more and he didnt want to combine now he does" so she set the call up with this premise. That portrays the man negatively, fine. The Ramsey network for literally decades has promoted "combine finances" that has changed when the women calls with the issue and the majority of the income, the focus becomes "the other issues". It's blatantly hypocritical of them.

I have a problem with your basic premise. Have you seen every interview? Is it possible you may have missed some down through the years that deal with combining financing? Do you know, for a certainty, that the word "always" adequately represents each case either way?

what were you thinking getting married 3 times? First time is understandable but how many times you have to keep repeating the same mistake?

If #3 is a carbon copy, then one of you is unnecessary. When we start measuring apples to apples, likely she’s giving more in an area that you just don’t value, such as planning and communicating with family members to meet for meals or birthday celebrations. Often when the matriarch dies, so do the family gatherings and therefore the memory making moments

Hey Buzzkill. Ever hear of T and A?

@@silksatinsilver1 I just consider myself a very lucky man. There are so many gold diggers out there today. Slap on some lipstick, flash those boobs over drinks, and then seduce that man into paying off your student debt and credit card bills. Yep, men today need to be very careful on that blonde bimbo they take home!

@@silksatinsilver1 I tend to agree with you. She gives more than i do in many ways. I am not good with family gatherings and so on. I am fortunate to have her in my life.

Yup, they always cater to women. SIMP.

What information did the caller give that makes you doubt her? She just laid out some facts. How would 2nd guessing a caller even help? Wow, I really want to listen to a radio show where someone has a problem and the response is "nuh uh, that didn't happen" and then they hang up. What I think happened is that this call hit a little bit close to home so you have to reject it rather than facing maybe something similar in your own life.

@agjios Do you share that attitude when the caller is male, and they do challenge what he says?

@@agjios because it typically is the men that are in this situation. If the cards flipped, they’d still cater to the woman. %80 of all divorces are initiated by the woman. Stop catering, and treat each situation uniquely.

@@ekl2947 stop simping. Why do you think women go for the bad boy that treats them poorly? It’s usually the man in the situation and the woman calls saying “my husband won’t combine incomes even though I make 50k/yr and he makes 125k/yr”. Then the shows says, “you don’t have a husband, you have a Roomate”.

Doesn’t matter how much more she makes, her husband sounds kind of shady off his request lol.

@@TheSoulCrisis When they first got married she was broke and in debt going to school. I’m sure he requested to split finances but he was paying the majority of the bills while she did the cooking and cleaning. Splitting finances isn’t unusual or a bad thing unless you’re part of the Ramsey cult lol…

Closet narcissist right here 💯

@@tubenachos delusion entitled feminist right here 💯

Yep.

😂😂😂

💯

Yea, slacking.

I’d think men for decades combined finances with someone who made less from the start. I honestly think that’s the issue.

Exactly 💯💯💯 Can you imagine a man calling in and said "i worked hard, i did all this by myself, i make more money than her but she now wants to combine income". Imagine a man saying that, Baloney would go ape sh*t and called him a selfish man-child for not wanting to combine income with his wife.

@terriesmith2616 Oh please! When she makes less, he wants separate finances, split the bill 50/50. Now when she makes more be wants to combine? That's a gold digger. You complain about it when women do it, but now that the man plays ho, it's okay? Just continue 50/50. If it worked for 15 years, it should work for the remainder of time. Combining finances is not always a good idea. My father married twice, and no wife combined finances with him. Why? He's a chronic gambler who will gamble the food money away!

@@sblijheid The Ramsey team always advocates combining income. Men hear it all the time. So it's only fair that she combines income with her husband. If the calls were reversed, you would have a different opinion. You would shame the husband for not wanting to combine his income with his wife.

I wonder if she is tired?

It's the opposite. He said at the beginning of the marriage HE wanted separate finances. Now that she makes 3x more he wants to combine.

That's the counter effect from Delony simping so much for women. Right or wrong, they are just trying to balance the scale. ⚖️ In real life, marriage is falling at an alarming rate, every year the marriage rate is getting lower and lower bc men are catching on and are tired of being taken to the cleaners. You can be on the feminist women's side all you want but that doesn't change the reality and the reality is that good men are stepping away from marriage completely. The only men left to marry are useless males whom women don't want but have to settle for if they want to get married. If you have daughters, niece, etc, the likelihood of them getting married to a good decent man is low, because these men are not getting married, the only men left are the undesirable .

@terriesmith2616 I’m not in the category of a feminist. I don’t believe that women are always in the right but what I do believe is that not one time did Delony instigate a divorce. Matter of fact he literally gave them marriage counseling and all these cowardly men in the comments are saying “she’s not telling the full truth”, or “good for the man” I mean seriously look at these comments. Hard truth: Delony didn’t do anything wrong in this call, he gave her the truth about the reality of her marriage and said she has two choices walk away or rebuild. Those are literally her two choices!

@@flashthecorgi2053 Yes, I agree that Delony never once advocated for divorce. I've never heard him say such things either. With that being said, these men (like I stated earlier) right or wrong (in this case...wrong) are over compensating for the many decades of the feminist movement and they are going to go the opposite direction, sometimes it could be an extreme opposite direction but that's a direct response to the modern feminist movement. Like it or not, the marriage rate is very low and getting lower as the year goes by. Most decent good men will not get married with today's modern women who are allergic to self accountability. Most decent men rather stay single or just be in a relationship without marriage. The only men left for women to marry are the undesirable men. These types of men will expect 50/50 in a marriage or they'll be moochers mooching off their wives. These types of men are most likely the product of a single mother household. Modern feminist ruined marriage for good women and bad, undesirable men ruined marriage for good women, in the end, both men and women lost. No one wins. That's how society falls into decay.

@@terriesmith2616 Love is an action not a feeling. Men and women have to work together and choose on a daily basis to be in a good marriage. On both sides we all need to be better to save the institution and covenant of marriage! The thing about y’all always complaining about the personalities simping is every single personality is in a (from the outset) happy marriage. Dave has been married 40+, Ken and Delony 20+, Rachel almost 15, George 4, and Jade I think 10. All these marriages are successful that’s why they are all so high on marriage!

@@flashthecorgi2053 I agree that men and women have to work together to have a successful marriage. It takes two to tango. As for all the personalities having a "happy marriage", these are just a handful of examples, they are the outliers, they are not the norm. Also, Delony has admitted multiple times that he and his wife have broken up before when they were dating and a few times in their marriage, it almost didn't work out, they almost got a divorce. Is that a happy marriage since they didn't divorce? Some would say yes, some would say no. In reality, we don't really knows what goes on inside these marriages. We only see the surface that they present. Even if they weren't happy, most of these personalities would not admit it as it's a bad look since they all work for Ramsey who is all about marriage and family. Also, all of these personalities are old. Boomers. They are not millennials (besides George ) nor are they Gen Z. Boomers have a different upbringing and a different mindset. Women back in those days were less promiscuous, less about themselves, they prioritize family. Not so some of today's women (and some men). The upbringing today is totally different and the mindset is different so you can't compare the two. Society was more conservative back in the days, not everything goes like in today's society. There is literally no shame anymore. The rate of divorce back in boomer days wasn't as high as today. So the comparison is lacking, imo.

One of many reasons to like Jade; she is pretty awesome when she is given an opportunity to speak.

No, the caller doesn't resent her husband because she makes more than him. She resents the husband because now that she has the upper hand financially, suddenly it's important to combine finances and act like they're a team while up until now, he was allowed to be selfish. The caller said that she tried to combine finances but he didn't allow her to until it benefitted him, how did you miss all of that?

​@@agjiosshe made that part up

@FrankS, you are correct! Women file 80% of the time, when they have an advanced degree(IE: More income) that goes to 90%.

Are they a team if something happens in the middle of the night??? Or when he's cutting the grass

@@ekl2947 what to you mean "what"??? Learn English!!! Most act like couples are a team only when it's convenient. If something goes bang in the middle of the night, the man is expected to go handle it.

Haha you must like guys who are doormat yes men.

She needs semen to make a child.

I think that is possible, but it is putting a bad taste in one’s mouth when you only ask to combine finances because they are making much more. If you made a deal to “pay off your debt first, then we combine,” I think that is much better on principle and how it sounds versus just waiting years to see how well someone does. Definitely sounds like he wants to ride her hard work and success later in life, versus setting specific timelines and goals. Even if they have debt a marriage shouldn’t be carried out like they did imo. At least they could have had a combined bill pay account and vacation fund account while maintaining personal checking accounts.

He absolutely does. He gaslights every female caller into thinking she needs to divorce her husband. It's fucking sickening.

@@robloxvids2233lol no he doesn’t. Not one time did he say “divorce your husband” he said your marriage is in crisis (which it is because she resents him.) so go call a marriage counselor! That doesn’t say anything about divorcing. You’re just taking Delony’s words out of context to fit your narrative that he’s this evil man hating guy!

@@flashthecorgi2053 You do not have to actually say the words, to say it.

@@jimmymcgill6778 dude he literally gave the woman 3 months of free marriage counseling… now tell me why you would do that If you were in the business of breaking up marriages. Think!

@flashthecorgi2053 He literally suggested her husband was a "DEADBEAT" and told her she "doesn't like him." Maybe he's got a 10 inch hog and fixes everything around the house and his kids love him. Money isn't the sole judge of character or the sole reason a woman falls in love with a man. Baloney needs to check himself before he wrecks himself. 100.

Get to having children

Children are priceless not expensive

No children makes everything ultra easy. Retiring early etc etc is drastically easier

@@Dan16673 tons of couples with no children have tons of problems. Humans were meant to have children

Everyone can decide if they want 1 child, no children or 10 children. Some people rather have 6 cats. It's all good,live your life how you want to as long as you don't harm anyone

Funny how that works, right? They more flippy floppy than... flip flops.

They should keep it separate. If it worked for 15 years, why change it?

But this isn’t what she said at all.

Is it

​@@lavenderkisses9461 Learn how to read between the lines. She doesn't have to say it outright but that is what she's feeling. She feels resentment towards him since she makes way more money than him and doesn't want to share with him, doesn't want him to spend _HER_ money. But if the roles were reversed, if he was making more money than her, then she wouldn't have a problem.

@@terriesmith2616 from my perspective, that is not what I heard. She said she feels resentment because NOW he ways to combine finances-but before he did not. Nothing to do with she makes more than him but everything to do with now HE treats her different.

She's not the bread winner, they both work. She just makes more.

Umm you clearly didn’t listen to the call John didn’t say to divorce him. He said your marriage is in crisis and you have two options rebuild or walk away. Not one time did he say “you must divorce your husband” good gosh stop taking his words out of context! 🙄

@@flashthecorgi2053 dr. Balogna

Children don't listen, children call names

@@greggpurviance7252 does Dr. Balogna make you feel safe?

LMAO y'all are roommates. This is what I did with my buddy in college 😂😂😂 no way y'all are married and a TEAM😂😂😂😂 I can't imagine asking my wife to cash app me her portion lmfao

@Tunechi65 ok, so 50/50 is a better idea than what was mentioned in the call? What happens when one person is a surgeon and the other a teacher? 50/50 makes zero sense. But sure, be critical of me if you want, doesn't bother me. I feel our situation is a healthy balance between 50/50 and combined everything. It splits the bills proportionally yet avoids the fights that could come from "you spent my money" on a purse/dress/gun/TV/tablet, etc That is where the agreement about not spending much in a given situation covers the financial responsibility issue.

RE: “Wonder how much he supported the house” at 4:12 “He didn’t take care of the house while I was gone” … go ahead just keep simping for the man. It’s okay to be hypocritical!

@@flashthecorgi2053 That's if you believe what she says. I'm sure if he wasn't pulling his weight atleast somewhat she would have filed a long time ago. How did she go to go school? A lot of holes in that story.

@@djpuplex haha again finding every way to simp for the man. You do realize you guys do the exact same thing you accuse Delony doing to women. You find literally every excuse to find why this woman is in the wrong! It’s hilarious 😂🤣

@@flashthecorgi2053 You can not take anyone male or female that calls in at face value. Hearing oneside does no good. However in the 41 years in this planet I've learned that 1. Women never take accountability and 2. Women tend to shape the narrative if not outright lie when speaking about past partners or soon to be ex husbands. Believe what you want.

@@djpuplex Okay but Dr. John has acknowledged enough that there are two sides to a story however he has to take them at face value to help them in their particular situation. You and I both know (especially because you watch Delony’s show as well) that he always invites the other side to call in until then he goes off the info he has. Conjuring up what the other side of the story is pointless because we really don’t know!

Definitely combine finances with your spouse. This dude cray cray

Women file 80% of the time, when they have an advanced degree that jumps to 90%

@@alinatamashevich3354 Skewing, Men are more likely to leave a marriage and NOT file, then the wife files.

Well that has nothing to do with anything.