By yourself but not alone.

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You download songs, put up a picture of Ryan Gosling, and you're asking for donations for your channel? Bro you're literally just an NPC.

There is though, changing your mindset to one that doesn’t trap you would be a start

@@Blakoss No, he's literally talking about other people. Changing your mindset can help you cope with loneliness, but it will not bring people to you if you're a single man. For some it might, but for most it will not. Lot of lonely men out there have decided they're okay being alone and they're working on self improvement and being their best self. But many are still alone.

@@americandissident9062 who are you improving for? Nothing we do has purpose if not for others.

@@Blakoss If you consider yourself worthwhile, then it does matter.

We all die alone in the end... But know your creator...was acquainted with sorrow and grief... Seek him and live forever... Jesus

me too, honey

you so pretty!! ❤❤❤

Maybe I don't mean anything in this world, but hang in there, brother...

I understand you, I am the same, in my forties and with no one to talk to or enjoy the good things in life.

I'm 26. I know I'm young. but my time here is limited. I haven't found anyone even willing to put effort in. I have big emotions and feelings n reactions. sometimes their so big they hurt me. so I cut myself off from connection. I've isolated. it's easier that way. in the end no one will miss me and it'll be easier to go

Fr man 😢🕺

Know which movie this it is from?

@@shynnsup8383 blade runner 2049

@@shynnsup8383 thumbnail is from only god forgives

@@shynnsup8383 Can't remember if it's the correct movie but the reason RG is the actor chosen so often for there is because of the Blade Runner remake.

Lies

Very true ..

Yeah, I have family and I have God, I'm happy. No need for a supercar or a hot wife or a bunch of money, I would take those if I could have them but if I don't get them, meh, who cares. There's more important stuff to focus on, like family and friends and being a good person, we have a finite amount of time on Earth and most people care about temporary shallow BS

My words. Yup

thank u, brother. i never didn't knew it. and now, i will never forget this...

they're not

Incorrect, they have a support from a lot of people where I have no one

yeah..no

@@Arthur-Morgan42069 oh Arthur :c

nope

that's cool that you shed that positive light on being alone, thank you for that!

How did youa cheive feeling alone but not being lonely?

love it, being alone is the best thing that can happen to someone, because you are becoming friends with yourself, you are getting know yourself♥♥♥, be strong, be loved, find yourself and remember you are a god in material world, 3D world

Count your calories and lift weights, 6 days a week. Persist for a year and you will look amazing given your frame. Watch how things will change.

Do not go gentle into that good night, Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Your mother loves embracing me every night, start to ponder why she doesnt hug you

if you can afford it, get a dog. they're like magents for people who like them, and an excellent conversation starter. i will warn you beforehand, get ready for them to be a pain in the ass like a kid, but stave off a lot of that loneliness too. if you got time for it, go to a club of your choosing. not the drinking type, i mean martial arts, drawing, anything that you'd like to do as a hobby and enjoy for the doing of it. find a community online who likes the things you do. arrange a physical meeting with them if you can. look into grooming(not kids.). things like the right hairstyle and the such can be a lifechanger, even if your hair's already good. beard, wear simple clothes that aren't too tight or lose. you should be able to find these types of clothes at sales for cheap(here a shirt for example can cost about 10$ for the type i'm talking about). learn basic man-skills. you live on your own so i'm guessing you know some but things like how to clean the sink pipes, basic electrical knowledge and so on, cooking(really important and attractive!). go on walks outside. explore new routes home or near home. the amount of things hiding 5 minutes from your house/ job will shock you. imagine it like a gta map where it's all gray until you find it. even walking home instead of the bus is enough. cut the phone as much as you can. i'm guilty as the next guy but at least try. porn, bad social media and all that is frying your ability to enjoy basic things as work or the god damn sunset. look at the sunset too. it helps. start writing about how you day went. write a few things you're grateful about each day, as small as a new pen or as big as a lover. meditate a few minutes a day(focus on the breath, lose focus, realise you've lost focus, go back to focusing on it, and repeat(download medito)). it'll help so much you'll thank me later. when you meet new people, use curiousity. don't pretend, if you see something you like, say you like it. if you see something funny, laugh about it(appropriately). talk to get to know, and try to improve your humor. sometimes, trying random jokes until something sticks is the best way. remember dating is a number's game. if you're truly improving and meeting people, eventually you're bound to meet someone, but i will remind you it won't come completely passively. talk with people at the gym. talk to the cashier. a hello to a friendly stranger. saying goodbye to the guard is enough of a start. consistency. be consistent as much as you can. understand life is like a wave, you'll have ups and downs, but you're the captain and ride through all of it. connect with family if you can. express gratitude and see how it changes things. doesn't hurt to try. learn to flirt. not for mere ego but to make the relationship all the more alive and enjoyable. crack jokes. be silly. be courageous. be gentlemany, but know to whom to act as such. learn the art of being attractive. learn basic fighting. be confident enough that you won't cower infront of loved ones, but also understand it to be an absolute last resort. contemplate. contemplate death. contemplate being. contemplate your mistakes, success, failures, but do not dwell. learn of the fact all good and bad doesn't last forever, and make use of it. work so that your future self is grateful. do all the things he'll appreciate, and that way facilitate self love and respect. how can you not love yourself when you do these amazing things, suffer so much, just to make your future self happy? he'll love you for it. make him proud. change the mindset. talk to get to know, not to get something. work for a better future, not because you have to. find the meaning in the suffering, and you'll love every moment of it and ask for more. instead of i don't know, say i don't know yet. enjoy the journey dammit. remember it's you and your loved ones vs the world. there is no mom and dad no more, you must pull yourself, because no one else will. no one else will take care of you, your wife, your kids and everyone you care for, especially yourself. you are not special. so it's either you do the things you want and must, or you keep complaining, coping and watch as the world doesn't care and moves on, because no one else can do the work other than you. i know this seems like so much work for just an escape from loneliness, but this is the hand we're dealt with. we can complain, or we can realize this huge potential. because complaining clearly hasn't done anything, now has it? if you wish is to escape loneliness, then these are the means. oh, and make sure you're lifting weights. looking like a superhero in the mirror does a whole lot more good than you'd think.

Sometimes I'm thinking the same. I'm a bit less tall (5'11), and a bit younger (32) and had some women, but only short term. But my friend all have families and kids and the thing is...watching them I see that I'm still in the best situation - their wives got used to some comfort, so they have to work their asses off to provide it. They have mortgage on the houses they built. When they come home in the late afternoon, they get the kids because their wives cat cope with them anymore. I work with one of them and it seems to me, when we're going home, that part of him really doesn't wanna go home. His brother recently had a birthday party at his house and his wife was really harsh on him infront of all of us. I mean my dream was laways to have family, kids, but if in these times it was gonna be like this, then I really want to be alone. And that cracks me up even more, knowing that even if by any chance I get someone long term, with the probability od 99%, it's gonna be like this...

Hello Leon, the name of my grandfather father and my son. I opened this and my eyes read it first and i just want to say it is exactly how i am feeling. I dont know much all I know is that everything is temporary so lets keep our heads up we will be ok

youre never alone, God the creator of the universe is always calling you and without him its the emptiness you always feel.

@@datboi6066Whats your religion?

​@@Str8OuttaFrayser919.we gonna be okay. We must.

@@otabekisaqov8688 none, im the adopted son of the only true god who has shown himself to humankind by sending Jesus christ to die for us

That was very a fucking impressive paragraph my friend. I am a writer myself, but damn. That's something else entirely. I also needed to hear that, so thank you.

Thank you for your kinds words! I'm not a writer; just a stranger writing their thoughts out. But, I'm glad my message could aid you! -eto @@user-gl2sg3oc8n

Facts!

i dont give a fuk what obama says. hope is never a good thing

Reading this accurately described how I feel, and made me feel seen. Sometimes, I wondered if I'm the problem for feeling that way, but I realised that's just the reality for me. Now, I focus on being by myself and remind myself that it's okay to be alone, so I stop getting my feelings hurt by getting attached to someone who only sees me as an acquaintance. I couldn't even smile and wave like I used to.

That's what I'm afraid of all this time... That if I get used to loneliness if the chance arises to be with someone I won't be able to accept it anymore. It would relieve so much suffering to abandon that part of me tho

This!!

Haha I'm so stupid, I read that with the Tom Hardy's Bane voice haha but he was talking about the darkness.

I may have just lost her, i'm not sure yet but Ima be right here with you bro

womp womp

what is like to be an only child?

@@purplevanilla silence interrupted by pain and loneliness

@@ThatGuy-yr7qr hey iam 16 and i'am an only child. Is it still considered ok if i wanna a little sister? just so that i can talk about something...

It absolutely is@@purplevanilla

It's better to be happy and at peace

u can tho

at least know that you're not the only one who feels that way, and others care about you without knowing who you are. Good luck, pal.

no one's gonna come and rescue you. you have to do it yourself

I don't need to accomplish some temporary, ephemeral, self-centered goal, I have family and friends, I have God, and I'm always trying to become a better person. I like to keep it simple

But accomplishment in life is ok as long as you're not willing to be indecent to get what you want

they live within you. they are so proud of you for how far you have come and so am i. you are loved, i hope you know that. :)

i am so sorry, sending so much love to you❤❤

you carry them with you in your memories tho they may have passed they both surly loved you with all there spirit, i hope you and her mother have found peace you did your best keep living for them, my condolences and i hope you have found peace knowing your memories of them will live on

You are so strong, I wouldn't be able to even bear the thought yet here you are. You're simply amazing, I wish you the best and you are in my prayers. God bless you💞.

I am so sorry that you had to experience this. I pray that you are in a much better place now and I wish you the strength necessary to continue your life and by this to honor their own.

I hope you can find the love you're looking for, sometimes its the most broken of souls, that need love the most

I know what that's like

Real shit

Hang in there bro, you are so much more than you know!!!

You're never alone, God is always with you where ever to go.

keep strong brother.God'll always be with you

@@ojk3863 thank you I am!!!

@@catharsismemory yes you’re so right! It’s always a godsend reminder he’s with us when we feel alone🙏🏽. I appreciate you

Damn bro that's fuckd up is she the first one to be the one

@@motivationaltripping5938yeah, I truly thought she was it and now I look back and see how much of an idiot I was for thinking the first girl that talked to me and made me felt loved was the one but I was so lost and alone I was willing to be with anyone.

me too bro. I am so sorry

Become who you want to be brother, and lift up another to do the same. Don't ever let another person stop you from living your dream

There’s a difference between being tried of living life, and tired of living life like this. I hope whatever struggles you’re going through will eventually subside, even if it may seem impossible, there’s always a chance. In the meantime, thank you for being here while you can, all anyone can wish for is that you tried. Of course in my books I’d want you to keep trying, if not for you, do it for me. Love you to the moon and back.

You'd better still be here when I come back tomorrow. I don't even know you, yet I feel like I should believe in you. There's something deep within you SCREAMING to be unleashed, that is your power. Use it, whatever that power may be. Be the one that shines in the darkness. Join me for one of my streams sometime, we'll talk. I hate to see anyone hurting like this.

Brother, this scares me to death. I don’t know you, however, I don’t want you to perish and neither does God. We live in a cursed, sinful world and none can escape it. Lies, theft, blasphemy, lust, etc. We’re all guilty of it and in the eyes of a Holy God, this is punishable by death. The wages of sin is death, in other words God is paying us in death for our sins just like a judge looks at a heinous criminal who’s committed multiple murders and he’s given him the death sentence. Now, most people know “Jesus died for you” but they don’t know this: In a court, if you’ve got a number of speeding fines and someone comes and pays them for you, legally you’re free to go. Jesus is that person who came to pay the fines of our sins. God loves us so much he sent his only Son to die on the cross to give us a way out of burning in hell forever. The Bible tells us for it isn’t his will that any should perish. He loves us and as a free gift, given us everlasting life and we can enter a kingdom with no pain, no suffering, no hatred, no loneliness. That’s amazing. Death will not bring peace, it’s only the beginning of which path we’ll go. So please, put your faith in Christ, and repent of your sins, in other words, turn away from them and God will grant you everlasting life and peace for eternity. May God save you and I pray it isn’t too late and that this message touches the hearts of many, Amen.

I hope you changed your mind brother

"Pussy", you think life is easy , you think it should be easy, man you are maybe all ready died, but know only the worst finish the game early, so if you did not, please just keep playing, its going to get better , not every body is afk... god bless you}

I feel like this is a quote that I kind of understand on the surface, but there’s a deeper meaning I don’t get. Could you go into more detail?

...but is it alone to be okay? 😔

@@user-gl2sg3oc8n what's do you mean?

Don't act on your emotions don't let them win, we will all die some day so just hold on and wait for that day

Hang in there mate, we'll make it out 👍

If you can, go to therapy. I used to be like you. I understand. But you have to lock in and actually do something about it. If therapy isn't an option right now look up techniques and strategies for emotional regulation; meditate, pray or perform religious rituals if that's your thing, go outside in nature, exercise, etc. Accept it's gonna be rough for a while. You wanna suffer for nothing or suffer for a good end goal? Also, for the love of Christ talk to people. I don't give af if you're awkward and you stumble over your words. Keep trying until you meet people you relate to. There's many groups of people who are into all kinds of different interests, go find a group that's into the same things you are. I'm not gonna gently give you advice like you're a little kid, you're probably a grown ass man or a grown ass woman, or you're an older adolescent, grow up and accept life is tough. I'm gonna address you like you're strong, because everyone can be strong, mentally speaking

There is a way a way out brother trust me. The world we live in has long been cursed. Cursed with hate, lies, theft, murder, etc. None can escape it. I don’t know you and I don’t know all that you’ve gone through, but as a fellow human, I care about you so I leave you with this message, that it might fill your heart and give you hope. We’re all just as guilty of moral imperfection as anyone. We’ve all told countless lies, taken things that didn’t belong to us, looked with lust, etc. The point is, to a perfect, Holy God, we are deserving of eternal damnation. Bible says the wages of sin is death, in other words, God is paying us in death for our sins and your death will be evidence that God is deadly serious about sin, like a judge looks at a heinous criminal who’s committed multiple murders and gives him the death sentence. However, the Bible tells us that it isn’t Gods will that any should perish. God created us and He loves us as a good father loves his child. Now, most people know the whole “Jesus died for you” thing, but they don’t know this: In a court of law, if you’ve built up speeding fines and someone comes up and pays them all, legally you’re free to go, free of charge. That’s what happened on that cross. Jesus died and paid the fine for our sins that we all may have everlasting life by the grace of God. So put your faith in the Savior, like you’d trust a parachute. If you’re 10,000 feet up in an air plane and you’ve gotta jump, why would you put on a parachute? So you wouldn’t go splat at 120 mph, right? So put on that parachute, trust in the blood of Jesus and just as importantly, repent of your sins, in other words pray to God for forgiveness and turn away from our natural sinful nature and He’ll not only grant you everlasting life, but He’ll give you a new heart with new desires that’ll make you love righteousness and it’ll be your own personal miracle as a testimony to his goodness and grace. Again, even though I don’t know you, I don’t want you to go to hell and I don’t want you to feel hopeless, that terrifies me, so I pray this message reaches you and many others and may God touch the hearts of all who see. Amen.

I mean how

@@chaudharyahmer when you think love is gonna fix everything and give you everything you need, when you find it you realize that the problem is way deeper than that

That is the best quote I've heard in a long time. I appreciate you for sharing this

give up? No, stand up, try again and again. with what definition and meaning do you mean ' I am not made for this world' Bullshit. You were chosen to live this life. everyday rediscovering your ultimate purpose. strive for an aim, be better than the you of yesterday, even if it may be only 1%. Goodjob, praise yourself while looking at the mirror. Create a checklist; -Read book, by read i mean study, analyze actually read as if your life depends on it. -Exercise, Exercise, Exercise vigorously! Create a image for yourself that will make you proud. -Seek the endless wisdom and virtue that this life offers. Never accept something that isnt a 'fact', its bullshit that you made a social context in your 'OWN' brain that you werent made for this world. Live everyday as if it was your last, perhaps only then will you taste the true sweetness life offers. Challenge yourself; Now live the life you want to live.

It is what it is. Life is hell. We just gotta get used to it.

Drop the antidepressants and take a walk outside or something. Meditate, spend time with friends and family, do something that doesn't come from an artificial drug. You're stronger than you think you are. You're not a baby, get out of your comfort zone a bit. Not a lot, since you seem like you're in a delicate position, but get out of it a bit

@@Agha_. I am not chosen to live this live by anyone, simply my parents decided to fuck 26 years ago. Simply as that. I already train almost everyday but i am not feeling so much better. Doing pushups doesn't heal loneliness. Btw thanks for your reply

@@noxplay4906 I already train everyday. Family is the last thing I wanna see and I don't have much friends. Antidepressants are just a medication like any others. Just as you treat a headache with a pill, you take antidepressants to try to feel better. I am not abusing it btw. But thanks for u reply