You're Not in Love - You're Just Hormonal - Islamic Reminder

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Personal Facebook: / mercifulservant Brother Nouman Ali Khan discusses the delusional concept of "Love" that we have in today's society.
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@nouraalmesned9818
@nouraalmesned9818 9 жыл бұрын
If your really " in love" with a girl, you'll have the patience and being with her in the halal way. Marriage. Not the haram way.
@AbraarKhan123
@AbraarKhan123 8 жыл бұрын
Well said! :)
@5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
@5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 жыл бұрын
+Noura Almesned that means im in love, im not just hormonal :)
@abdurkhan6075
@abdurkhan6075 8 жыл бұрын
+Noura Almesned So True
@5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
@5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 жыл бұрын
sometimes ur in love and ur hormonal
@kirenrashid1516
@kirenrashid1516 7 жыл бұрын
Seek help, devote yourself to Islam. Then you won't have time to think about her.
@putsomerespeckonmaname540
@putsomerespeckonmaname540 8 жыл бұрын
Might not be Muslim, but damn this man is a very powerful speaker!
@ashxx1442
@ashxx1442 8 жыл бұрын
Yeah he is a powerful speaker indeed. Check out Mufti Menk's videos on KZfaq too, he is amazing too!
@loadedcobra9979
@loadedcobra9979 7 жыл бұрын
Dude he is muslim
@putsomerespeckonmaname540
@putsomerespeckonmaname540 7 жыл бұрын
Hasnan Ahmad he is?
@loadedcobra9979
@loadedcobra9979 7 жыл бұрын
+Sinon x朝田 詩乃 yea
@putsomerespeckonmaname540
@putsomerespeckonmaname540 7 жыл бұрын
Hasnan Ahmad o didn't know
@yazir123
@yazir123 10 жыл бұрын
i feel proud i survived my hormonal teenage years
@RenderingUser
@RenderingUser 5 жыл бұрын
i still have yet to survive it : ( pray 4 meeeeeeeeeeeeee
@lizak7323
@lizak7323 5 жыл бұрын
@@RenderingUser how old are you?
@RenderingUser
@RenderingUser 5 жыл бұрын
@@lizak7323 14 ...
@Dr-zaam
@Dr-zaam 5 жыл бұрын
Say Alhamdulillah .... we have a lot of struggle still ...
@Sara-uk5eg
@Sara-uk5eg 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@user-vu9en3sk9t
@user-vu9en3sk9t 5 жыл бұрын
Thank God alhamdullilahh I was born in such a beautiful religion... called Islam. Without Islam I would have ruined my life. ALHAMDULLILAH.😊
@elenagilbert6432
@elenagilbert6432 4 жыл бұрын
Alhudulillah I agree. I am also really glad my parents do not allow me to interact with the oppossite sex
@nurulhuda3759
@nurulhuda3759 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah...the greatest gift from Allah is being a muslim❤❤❤
@zaidabdulrasheedabdulrouf376
@zaidabdulrasheedabdulrouf376 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah
@ezi735
@ezi735 3 жыл бұрын
Innit m8 same ye dangerous stuff there 💯
@MohamedMohamed-vg5ni
@MohamedMohamed-vg5ni 8 ай бұрын
Thanks to our Allah
@NWSIMU
@NWSIMU 7 жыл бұрын
I loved my spouce bcz he was religious, but no body wud believe me bcz he was handsome too. haha. ppl also felt my marriage will fall apart since it was a simple love marriage to them and love marriages tend to fall apart. years later they got what I was talking abt. He has given me the Islamic life others cudnt and we are still happily married Alhamdulellah.
@tealglitter2097
@tealglitter2097 7 жыл бұрын
n s MashAllah sister! Trust me you DO NOT need to prove your love to anyone else. If you and your husband are happy and confident no one else has a say in how you're doing.
@NWSIMU
@NWSIMU 7 жыл бұрын
+Falmata ameen. thnx
@blackbutterfly1833
@blackbutterfly1833 7 жыл бұрын
humduallah good for you I don't know why people are so against people falling in love and getting married isn't that what we are supposed to do I Got It Bad it seems like nobody wants me to be happy when it comes to getting married I'm glad for you may Allah bless you always
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 жыл бұрын
I married my true Love.
@rautraut7526
@rautraut7526 6 жыл бұрын
n s you are so lucky .i m hindu my partner is muslim we both knw wat barriers gona cm in future bt still we believe in us n maintaining our relationship . Plz pray for me to have gud marraige life in future we both wants to marry .
@adamhenrywalker
@adamhenrywalker 5 жыл бұрын
I had a crush on this one girl for 5 months. After watching this video, she left my heart like water through a drain that had just been unplugged. Alhamdulillah.
@xtreme6018
@xtreme6018 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂 lol how u said tht..btw may allah bless u bt falling in love its nt haram...as he mentioned u have to control it on haram temptation...if she non muslim thn revert her with logic....coz if u dnt do tht allah dissapointed at u curse u...its said quran even slave beleiving women much bttr than tht..
@latestfact9943
@latestfact9943 5 жыл бұрын
may Allah forgive us
@idekanymore1624
@idekanymore1624 4 жыл бұрын
It's not haram to fall in love. It's ok if you still have a crush on this girl. Just control the way you like her. For example, if you liked her, and she likes you back, and she asks you out, at that point you should decline. If you are friends try not to get too close to her.
@tired1019
@tired1019 4 жыл бұрын
You can be interested in her but just can't get close or go out💜
@tired1019
@tired1019 4 жыл бұрын
You can like someone and have a crush on that person but you can't go out with the person or get too close💙💜
@7MichaelTheClever77
@7MichaelTheClever77 10 жыл бұрын
Seriously, how does Nouman Ali Khan manage to be that inspiring ? Allah sure gave him a great gift. Masha Allah !
@darakshashaikh270
@darakshashaikh270 4 жыл бұрын
Damn true
@haqeeqatezindagi6753
@haqeeqatezindagi6753 4 жыл бұрын
Butt I think this was mufti menk.
@wahhajmustafa1907
@wahhajmustafa1907 4 жыл бұрын
@@haqeeqatezindagi6753 this was Nouman Ali Khan, check the description :)
@eb4188
@eb4188 3 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah , May Allah ( Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families
@truthprevails2412
@truthprevails2412 3 жыл бұрын
Noman ali khan is really love ❤️❤️may Allah bless them
@TheUltimatePelle
@TheUltimatePelle 4 жыл бұрын
You just prevented me from commiting a sin. Thank you
@syedhussainjamil
@syedhussainjamil 4 жыл бұрын
Ya rab please protect me and all teenager's from Zina please Say ameen 😭
@ess7276
@ess7276 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@aracistasian2459
@aracistasian2459 2 жыл бұрын
Terey jesay ko milni bhi nahi,unless you pay for zina
@loveforquraan786
@loveforquraan786 2 ай бұрын
Aameen
@Abcd-cg3vh
@Abcd-cg3vh 9 жыл бұрын
LUST IS NOT LOVE
@mrezarifki
@mrezarifki 7 жыл бұрын
but lust always hide in love
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrezarifki No . There are so many people that doesn't love each other but have sex with each other . Lust is something completely different than love . A human can feel the lust against his hand . Do you get what I mean ? Love is totally different . So this man's speech is nonsense.
@Osama-ei7tk
@Osama-ei7tk 4 жыл бұрын
@@uareadorabowl3784 u don't make any sense lol
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
@@Osama-ei7tk so does this man lol
@otd766
@otd766 4 жыл бұрын
@@uareadorabowl3784 This is what he is saying Lust is not love This is what you saying Lust is not love Whats the difference
@MrJoyride619
@MrJoyride619 10 жыл бұрын
One of the best mentions in this lecture according to me : Do you believe you would still be in Love with the person u think you're in Love with if they are burned?
@botfuzz2453
@botfuzz2453 7 жыл бұрын
MrJoyride619 yes I would cuz they still have the same 'personality'
@MakeitTapFoRcE
@MakeitTapFoRcE 7 жыл бұрын
XtremeFUZZ that's amazing! you're great despite the changed of looks. you would still love ur spouse... many respect from me my brother
@botfuzz2453
@botfuzz2453 7 жыл бұрын
SoonPickMe _ thanks :) btw just a question. can u get a girlfriend but ur not allowed to be touchy? I've also heard that a person married to a Christian girl. is this even allowed?
@MakeitTapFoRcE
@MakeitTapFoRcE 7 жыл бұрын
XtremeFUZZ Sorry my brother... I am also new to this and I am a convert. and still on the learning process. But, what I can say is "shaytan will tempted our minds" may Allah forgive us and guide us
@MakeitTapFoRcE
@MakeitTapFoRcE 7 жыл бұрын
XtremeFUZZ go through her parents first insyaAllah :)
@umriyaafini
@umriyaafini 10 жыл бұрын
marriage is supposed to be a beautiful relationship :*
@umriyaafini
@umriyaafini 10 жыл бұрын
^^
@Ze-Global
@Ze-Global 5 жыл бұрын
@@umriyaafini gg
@ess7276
@ess7276 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jawwadahmedkhan5546
@jawwadahmedkhan5546 2 жыл бұрын
Yes in fact it is!
@MetalHeart678
@MetalHeart678 10 жыл бұрын
One who would truly love you is one who knows the true you and God knows us better than we know ourselves
@Hayatt313
@Hayatt313 4 жыл бұрын
So true!
@Brokeassstudentneedmoney
@Brokeassstudentneedmoney 4 жыл бұрын
Its sad that some people still haven’t controlled their temptations yet
@_ALUCARD_625
@_ALUCARD_625 4 жыл бұрын
Well a Christian girl loved me for 1 n half year, i didn't knew she was in love with me until one day she confessed to me and told me what her feelings are/were for me. She said "I love you" i said "if you really love me then accept my religion and i will be yours". She said ill give a thought to it. She didn't messaged me for a week, after a week she messaged me with a voice message and i was crying when i heard it. What she was saying in her voice msg was Qalma Shahada, she accepted Islam for me. At that moment i didn't did anything except for thanking Allah and praying all night and thanking Allah. *Now we are together (engaged) she is my fiance* I am still thankful. For me thats True Love. My fiance is my pride.
@back_from_dead
@back_from_dead 4 жыл бұрын
Wow you're so lucky and that's a true love
@_ALUCARD_625
@_ALUCARD_625 4 жыл бұрын
@@back_from_dead yeah, Alhamdulillah Suma Alhamdulillah. Thank you. Btw, Ramadan mubarek may forgive our sins. Ameen
@back_from_dead
@back_from_dead 4 жыл бұрын
Dragon Sin Of Wrath ,actually in my case I love a girl and she’s younger than me instead of instagram thing and meeting I directly told her that I love her and in future I will come to your parents for your hand in a halal way but her reply was “please If I don’t know you than how will I marry you before marriage the girl should know and bla bla bla she made fun of me” I felt bad at that moment like broken from inside and then I looked up and said Alhamdulliah well if she’s meant for me I will get her no matter what and Allah knows what’s best ...Ramadan mubarak brother
@ouiameelazzouzi3491
@ouiameelazzouzi3491 4 жыл бұрын
@@back_from_dead she's right
@back_from_dead
@back_from_dead 4 жыл бұрын
@@ouiameelazzouzi3491 well I know every girl needs to know a man before marriage but her way is haram because inorder to know her closely I have to be close with her or have to be her bf and dating and all and then it's haram ..
@victorinediop9227
@victorinediop9227 6 жыл бұрын
You know there's hormones things but sometimes it's love. And when you truly love someone even without dating him , without seeing him or even talk to him you just love him that's it. May Allah protect us from these kinds of relationships .
@sundes2807
@sundes2807 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I have been in love for 4 years and I was (13-17). I didn't care about any of that.... I was just in love blindly… I didn't care if he 'd love me back. We weren't even friends. I was pretty young but I realised how it feels to be in love, which greatly differs from any hormonal feelings… its real. I am grateful that I was in love because now I know what true love is and I will be looking for that feeling again when I am ready… now I know that anything aside from what I had been feeling would be a delusion and nonsense (hormonal).. and I have been crushing over 7 years before that so I know that it was the real deal. But anyways my entire highschool life was trash because of it LOL.
@Hayatt313
@Hayatt313 4 жыл бұрын
@@sundes2807 you have a clean heart, May Allha guides us all here and hereafter. Ameen
@sundes2807
@sundes2807 4 жыл бұрын
@@Hayatt313 Ameen !!! 😊 Allah knows best!!
@vashappeninbesties
@vashappeninbesties 4 жыл бұрын
This year marks the 4th year since I've been in love with this man. He has a girlfriend and soon will become a father. Unfortunately, he left Islam. He chose the haram way. I pray for him every day. May Allah Guide him and all of us. Ameen. Please keep him in your prayers.
@victorinediop9227
@victorinediop9227 4 жыл бұрын
Vas Happenin :D may Allah guide him on the right path🙏🏾 may he also give you the best partner in here and in the hereafter🙏🏾
@Ijaz19821
@Ijaz19821 3 жыл бұрын
In islam we have solution to all problems🙌
@ladida8628
@ladida8628 10 жыл бұрын
this is so true--personal experience---things of the dunya are an illusion, they seem like the answer to our problems , making us feel good at first ---but actually these things become new problems , disappoint us....only love for the sake of God is pure and permanent
@zohair046
@zohair046 3 жыл бұрын
absoulutely true
@adw4261
@adw4261 4 жыл бұрын
" If he was like 50lbs fatter , you would still be in love?" *Yes* "If he was a burn victim or something, if his hand burnt off , if his ear was missing, would you still be in love?" *Yes* " Or you find someone else to love , all of a sudden?" *No*
@sanashaikh5303
@sanashaikh5303 4 жыл бұрын
Adwi p :)
@mohammediquadri7648
@mohammediquadri7648 4 жыл бұрын
Well i love him no matter what
@the_phen0m639
@the_phen0m639 3 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is same as you or me
@adrianfarhan2659
@adrianfarhan2659 8 жыл бұрын
O allah grant me a beautiful and loving wife..Ameen
@CatGuy969
@CatGuy969 7 жыл бұрын
Wish for your spouse to be a blessing, not a test. :)
@DavidSmith-rq1bf
@DavidSmith-rq1bf 6 жыл бұрын
amen
@asawirgull1914
@asawirgull1914 4 жыл бұрын
🙂
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
Well , if your spouse is a test you can get divorced ? Why would you want to keep torturing yourself
@taetaeimagoodboy5895
@taetaeimagoodboy5895 4 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@mayna4869
@mayna4869 9 жыл бұрын
painful truth .
@mayna4869
@mayna4869 9 жыл бұрын
baru nak tag . kau :P
@FarihaHussaini
@FarihaHussaini 9 жыл бұрын
this comment for me huh?
@FarihaHussaini
@FarihaHussaini 9 жыл бұрын
tp mmg sentap la -.- (ni serious) okayla aku x in love pun :P ... in friend hahahaha xP
@mayna4869
@mayna4869 9 жыл бұрын
haha . fi hifzillah sis . ;) kena kuat sama sama ni . xD
@FarihaHussaini
@FarihaHussaini 9 жыл бұрын
Haha ye la.. tp ni dye da ade wasep . Naseb aku x bg dye numb aku yg wasep tu. Aku tgh thn je nk tkan nama dye ni T.T
@chuckmoon4896
@chuckmoon4896 9 жыл бұрын
i wish allah would bless me, with real love...a beautifull girl inside and out
@roseminh527
@roseminh527 9 жыл бұрын
Aawww you'll find someone inshallah :)
@moseszaradike1783
@moseszaradike1783 8 жыл бұрын
Insha allah....one day
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 жыл бұрын
Do Tahaujjad at night and Ask Allah swt. Make lots of Duaa.
@fahadmujeeb3281
@fahadmujeeb3281 6 жыл бұрын
Please type Allah in capital
@salikrehan9489
@salikrehan9489 6 жыл бұрын
Insha Allah
@eternalphoenix4258
@eternalphoenix4258 9 жыл бұрын
"And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]
@rali63
@rali63 9 жыл бұрын
***** This is one of my fav ayas.. Very reflective.
@cikmiza93
@cikmiza93 10 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for this meaningful video. This will be a great guidance to muslim teenagers all around the world including me . Thank you for this reminder.
@shehed11
@shehed11 10 жыл бұрын
How true how true. JazakAllah khair for sharing.
@brilliantwriter7620
@brilliantwriter7620 10 жыл бұрын
This is really a beautiful reminder. Thanks to Allah for making me want to listen to this. :) May Allah bless.
@crazzydaissy7915
@crazzydaissy7915 6 жыл бұрын
I have this huge crush on this guy in high school...n i think he has started to notice that too so he's trying to approach me n iam not ok with that i know his tries will work on me n i don't want that..i don't wana disappoint ALLLAH not my parents n not 3ven myself ..May Alllah protect my heart from these kinda stuff cuz its easy to say but hard to control n hide ur feelings..pray for me I'm in a difficult situation right now n i wanna handle it in the right way🤧😭☹
@afafizyani8877
@afafizyani8877 6 жыл бұрын
crazzy daissy may Allah protect you sister 😌
@khudejakamran5561
@khudejakamran5561 6 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@safia-ng5ig
@safia-ng5ig 6 жыл бұрын
Same happened wd me also 😣😢
@Penn.obsessed
@Penn.obsessed 5 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling. However I have a new crush almost every week. I can't stop looking.😭
@colew9538
@colew9538 5 жыл бұрын
I was in the same situation as you but now I don't like him in sha Allah
@AzhadiAsyrafMohamad
@AzhadiAsyrafMohamad 10 жыл бұрын
Perfectly layed out for the contact.. crystal clear speech! Thank you for uploading! :D
@Tafa168
@Tafa168 8 жыл бұрын
this is so awesome made me feel so calm
@Hafyplays
@Hafyplays 7 жыл бұрын
This isn't just for muslims, this is for everyone. just because you're not muslim doesn't mean you can do that. it's the same for EVERYONE muslim or not muslim.
@sadiakhan3670
@sadiakhan3670 5 жыл бұрын
The way he talks nd explain these to us is really amazing.may Allah bless him nd his family
@Ramshackle23
@Ramshackle23 4 жыл бұрын
He spoke my mind. Masha'Allah! ✨
@si.3107
@si.3107 5 жыл бұрын
Well I am not teenager but almost 27 now and never dating with men but never had marriage proposal too. I just loved a man 2 years Ago at my last year of master degree but my family refused him for several Reason. I never had feelings for another man except him. Anyways now i just wait and keep my heart from others. I am just focused on my job al hamdullilah i have a good job but it is all I have. I do not want to be heartbreaked especially at my age it is very hard cause i dont date with men but want to get marry
@1986faras
@1986faras 4 жыл бұрын
MAY ALLAH MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU AMEEN 👍
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
You don't have to get married . This is not the only thing in life. Dream big.
@Chup-mh9hs
@Chup-mh9hs 4 жыл бұрын
Why did your family rejected him? It's not good..
@believer3649
@believer3649 4 жыл бұрын
Unite with your soul mate. Who your heart wants.
@cadnanzomuhanzo3917
@cadnanzomuhanzo3917 3 жыл бұрын
Be patient and Allah will give you a lovely and caring man inshallah
@marziaislam9306
@marziaislam9306 5 жыл бұрын
When the topic is like this one🤣🤣lol I don't even need to read the name, I already know it's Nouman Ali khan🤣🤣😂May Allah bless him
@Lifeofizyaan
@Lifeofizyaan 6 жыл бұрын
This was eye opening! May we all learn through this and grow through this!
@irdinazulaika
@irdinazulaika 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I'm still in my hormonal stage and it's really hard for me not to fall for someone. I really hated it. I tried my best focusing in my studies but suddenly the feeling hits me. May Allah ease the hormonal stage we're going through.
@AlimaSmiles
@AlimaSmiles 10 жыл бұрын
Love this! If adults explained like this then us muslim teenager may understand more. Allhamdullilah, sharing this with all my friends now lol
@Basicbiology.
@Basicbiology. 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this wonderful speech ....loved it 😊
@widaafshar1231
@widaafshar1231 5 жыл бұрын
Well said! Beautiful, this video helped me a lot. Thank you so much. May allah guide us all to the right path.
@kittenluv17
@kittenluv17 4 жыл бұрын
my god i needed to hear this. jazakaAllahu khair. wish i heard this a few months ago, wou;d've saved me so much pain. alhamdulillah
@hafsadurrani9087
@hafsadurrani9087 6 жыл бұрын
"Low self-esteem" now I got what love is actually
@MisterOwling
@MisterOwling 4 жыл бұрын
Allah has made us in pairs ... patience , Allah knows best to when you should meet this person and marry.
@urmeejebin1994
@urmeejebin1994 10 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening and thoughtful of you Nouman Ali Sir Alhamdulillah!
@Miss_Unknownnn
@Miss_Unknownnn 4 жыл бұрын
He expressed this peacefully and in a proper manner .❣️ This is so amazing i just love this speech ❤️ Alhamdulilah ☺️. May allah blessed your path with peace and harmony 🙏
@queenmalika4534
@queenmalika4534 6 жыл бұрын
Me: it's not haraam to say a guy or girl is beautiful. Speaker: but control yourself. Me: right forgot.
@caramelsmith1878
@caramelsmith1878 5 жыл бұрын
🤣
@malikmunir2367
@malikmunir2367 5 жыл бұрын
If u think a person is beautiful, then say it in ur heart with MashaAllah. Why do you need to say to a person that they r beautiful? To make them feel better sure but the reason they won't believe they r beautiful is bcz they have low self esteem and if it's a boy and u a girl or vice versa. U just adopted trouble. So say it in ur heart and Allah will hear u, Allah will provide for them. What ppl need more than ppl telling them they r beautiful... Is Allah.
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
​@@malikmunir2367 I never made a compliment to a man directly but I said it to their hair 😂 Saying kind words to each other is a good thing . I am not saying go tell them they are beautifull.. But I have low self esteem as well. And last day , my teacher told me my face looks so baby like . It made me feel better about my appeareance . Kind things like that are nice . But I know it is hard to compliment in a muslim country . Sorry for you .
@malikmunir2367
@malikmunir2367 4 жыл бұрын
@@uareadorabowl3784 that's really cool, if it remains balanced then it's no problem. Problem is when it exceeds. We appreciate and share happiness and look out for each other. So sometimes our actions r enough to show other how much we care.
@laibajubbein6956
@laibajubbein6956 6 жыл бұрын
This video basically explained about what happened to me. A boy ruined my life, a boy that I thought I was supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I always thought it was going to be like that. And being only 16 I shouldnt have been in a relationship like that, the hurt and pain that i brought to my family. I didnt control myself and its true I have lost self control but I will get it back and i will be able to have a strong relationship with Allah.
@laibajubbein6956
@laibajubbein6956 6 жыл бұрын
Inshallah I will*
@i.8885
@i.8885 5 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm the same here... I am 16 and I really loved a muslim guy in my class... We seemed so bonded and happy together. We made plans about our future together but six months later he broke up with me over a small thing he made look big... He completely ruined me. I couldn't stop crying. I still cry now while I'm writing... 3 months after our break up. He is in my class, he has blocked me on fb and hates me... He pretends that I don't exist. I don't know what I did so wrong so he hates me. He had a so kind soul. But still he hurt me so much. I don't understand. Now I'm trying to pretend he isn't in my class and go find someone that will love me and not abandon me like he did. Best luck to you I really know how you are feeling
@colew9538
@colew9538 5 жыл бұрын
couch potato oh,you shouldn't have been with him in the first place because of his religion but,i understand how it feels when you have a "crush" on someone but don't get used to them that quickly,trust me I learned the hard way. I was such a fool of a Muslim.I'm hoping I won't make the same mistake in sha Allah 🙏🏼
@sweetmelon3365
@sweetmelon3365 3 жыл бұрын
Mashallah! He's saved so many of us teenagers
@xmubinax
@xmubinax 10 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT reward you for uploading this and Nouman Ali Khan. Ameen. JazakAllahu khairan.
@PutraSurya-78
@PutraSurya-78 8 жыл бұрын
thanks, it's made my feel better now :)
@yassirmohammed1597
@yassirmohammed1597 10 жыл бұрын
May allah forgive and guide the muslim ummah, as well as the whole of mankind. Ya allah bless us with your infinite mercy. AMEEN!!
@user-ne8zt6lv3t
@user-ne8zt6lv3t 6 жыл бұрын
I loved how he talked. STRAIGHT TO DA POINT!!!
@sneha6788
@sneha6788 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video.
@TheBeerender
@TheBeerender 5 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah. I've been very good at controlling my feeling. Insha'Allah just want to get married soon. 😁
@Canaldefarticles416
@Canaldefarticles416 8 жыл бұрын
MASHA'ALLAH, I NEEDED TO HEAR THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS.
@kayenatkhan4620
@kayenatkhan4620 10 жыл бұрын
mashallah..indeed a powerful and much needed reminder...jazakallahukhair!may Allah reward u for ur good work!
@nabeeladnan7037
@nabeeladnan7037 4 жыл бұрын
MashAllah Brother Just Needed this 😊
@mahmudchowdhury9211
@mahmudchowdhury9211 10 жыл бұрын
Background nasheed: Ahmed Bukhathir- Remember them (instrumental)
@blugublu
@blugublu 10 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's not really love, but what is called "passion". You basically feel attracted by the other one and that's it. In the movies they depict this feeling as if it was the only rule that matters in life, for the only reason that it is extremely strong. In Islam, passion is indeed depicted as being very strong, but we're supposed to be just with ourselves and the truth is that if humanity was to let passion drive its fate, it would be chaos in every society. No. Justice would be to admit that we have responsibilities towards our feelings and that WE must drive them. Another thing is that passion is a very shallow phenomenon as it is very ephemeral. Usually, relationships which are built upon passion fall apart very quickly in the time scale of a human life (a few months or a few years max). What is supposed to be love, in Islam, on the other side, is built upon a halal relationship, which makes it noble from the very beginning. Moreover, it is built on admitting our responsibilities and trying our best to fulfill it. That's why passion is like a thick fog which blinds the people who are stuck in it and which leaves them in a miserable state, as soon as a little wind blows around. Whereas true noble love is like a tree that is built on constant effort and which gets stronger and stronger as life goes on, if treated well, of course.
@labskhokhar8016
@labskhokhar8016 4 жыл бұрын
You have very well said.
@labskhokhar8016
@labskhokhar8016 4 жыл бұрын
MashALLAH
@khizzard_069
@khizzard_069 Жыл бұрын
exorbitantly well written Ma Sha Allah :⁠^⁠)
@farmilkhan1526
@farmilkhan1526 6 жыл бұрын
this is something so deep I totally agree with this ❤
@anoniem012
@anoniem012 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you elhamdulillah love Islam! So perfect.
@jacobbocaj9958
@jacobbocaj9958 9 жыл бұрын
People love small things like this more than they love their creator what has deluded mankind?
@yagmurm.140
@yagmurm.140 4 жыл бұрын
I dated a non muslim guy when I was 17. Astagfirullah... I regret it so much and i still feel like I haven’t gotten forgiven by Allah. May Allah protect us all from this...
@arkanmukhlis8696
@arkanmukhlis8696 4 жыл бұрын
May Allah will Forgive you if you don't do it again Allah is merciful
@yagmurm.140
@yagmurm.140 4 жыл бұрын
Arkan Mukhlis ameen🤲🏼
@mouhameddjatta120
@mouhameddjatta120 4 жыл бұрын
Just repentance and repentance is feeling of remorses and don't go back may ALLAH forgive indeed he is the most Merciful
@yagmurm.140
@yagmurm.140 4 жыл бұрын
Mouhamed Djatta thank you brother. Yes may Allah swt keep us all away from this. Its the worst feeling
@ssssSTopmotion
@ssssSTopmotion 3 жыл бұрын
Alllah has guided you back,allhumdulillah
@arrgadhee
@arrgadhee 10 жыл бұрын
Allahamdullilahii, Your words are light for some of sisters and brothers May Allaha grant you Janna
@nazneenshaikh3387
@nazneenshaikh3387 4 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah ...proud to be born in ISLAM . Such a beautiful guidence.. I just love my religion.
@justforknowledge6550
@justforknowledge6550 4 жыл бұрын
Literally i am disgusted by these so called relationship culture. Real men waits until marriage.
@sadafqadir4226
@sadafqadir4226 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful msg JAZAKALLAH ❤️
@khadijahshamsudeen5245
@khadijahshamsudeen5245 5 жыл бұрын
Mashaalah brother Nouman Ali khan..May Allah bless you
@Faizshah770
@Faizshah770 3 жыл бұрын
Allhamdulliah, i am 15 and still haven't talked to a girl openly ever in my life, except my sister ofc :)
@adilbadsha615
@adilbadsha615 3 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you akhi and pray for me cause I have hard desires for girls may Allah protect me from this fitnah
@peace_324
@peace_324 2 жыл бұрын
@@adilbadsha615 May Allah SWT help you brother Adil Ameen Summa Ameen ya rabbul alameen
@emresalgam9743
@emresalgam9743 4 жыл бұрын
I Remember watching This back in 2016. 9th grade it was an attraktive girl that has high intrest in me. I almost fell for my desires. 3 years later still not heartbroken or none emotinal baggage. Fresh Soul to expirience intemesy with. But the girl from middle school have made an innprint on me. Weird,Even tho we had barly toughed each other. Thinking of her now
@STBUmairSaifi
@STBUmairSaifi 2 жыл бұрын
This video helped me in my teenage years , Single Alhamdulillah I am 22 now ,thanks Noman Ali Khan bhai 💕💕.
@5minutesislam
@5minutesislam 10 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah, amazing video!!
@madiha5401
@madiha5401 4 жыл бұрын
Fall for the soul not for appearance ❤
@mouhameddjatta120
@mouhameddjatta120 4 жыл бұрын
W d you meant to say?
@wiseman93
@wiseman93 10 жыл бұрын
Subhan'Allah these days you can't watch a beneficial video on KZfaq without being subjected to 30 seconds of Lady Gaga. May Allah(swt) guide us all.
@5m4rt6uy4
@5m4rt6uy4 10 жыл бұрын
use adblock brother and your life will improve inch'allah
@adilbadsha615
@adilbadsha615 3 жыл бұрын
30 seconds of Lady Gaga 😂😂😂
@sabihaaltaf6742
@sabihaaltaf6742 4 жыл бұрын
Ustadh you’re a natural mimic...a natural writer and a natural speaker MA....Allah has been very generous to you and you have given it back well. MA.
@greypain5379
@greypain5379 4 жыл бұрын
بارك الله بكم ونفع بعلمكم🍃
@i.8885
@i.8885 5 жыл бұрын
Agnostic teenage girl here: I agree that if your feelings of someone change because they gained weight or changed their hair etc That's not love... But I disagree with his saying that if this happens you weren't in love. You were in love but you didn't love them. Being in love and loving someone is two different things. And everyone regardless of age can love someone. Teenagers can really love just like adults. A classmate of mine liked me so he asked me out. I didn't like his appearance but I was amazed by his character so I started liking him. I went out with him and I fell in love. As months passed by my feelings for him were gradually changing into something stronger. I didn't care about his fat belly because it was warm and it was HIS belly. I didn't care about any off his physical flaws because I loved his soul. The body is just the covering and I accepted it like it is. I was patient with his mistakes. Unfortunately he broke up with me after 6 months... I was torn into pieces. By his behavior I assume that all the affection, care and protection he provided was just because he was in love. Not because he loved me. But unlike him, I still love him deep inside. After all he did too me. Now he does care about me and has blocked me on Facebook. So yeah I can confidentially say that I loved him. I'm 16.
@uareadorabowl3784
@uareadorabowl3784 4 жыл бұрын
@Panel ...... Really nigga ?
@glittergirl8176
@glittergirl8176 7 жыл бұрын
The part where he said he thinks I'm cute 😅😅
@eminen6564
@eminen6564 7 жыл бұрын
glitter girl you know right?😅 me too...
@naheenisapoet69
@naheenisapoet69 6 жыл бұрын
glitter girl lol yeah
@ahmedrafehabdullah9355
@ahmedrafehabdullah9355 3 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless all our Muslim brothers and sisters and give Rahmat upon all of us. AMEEN.
@lulasweety8427
@lulasweety8427 5 жыл бұрын
U opened my eyes and thanks for that
@dikshya_kharka_chetry
@dikshya_kharka_chetry 5 жыл бұрын
I am not a Muslim by birth ...but I love my Allah
@sameerhafeez7029
@sameerhafeez7029 Жыл бұрын
Sister, you'll be happy to know that everyone is a Muslim by birth ☺️
@tired1019
@tired1019 4 жыл бұрын
He s like a brother to me or were just freinds and giggling😂lol but seriously that's what builds up haram relationships😔😕
@zohair046
@zohair046 3 жыл бұрын
:(
@naheenisapoet69
@naheenisapoet69 6 жыл бұрын
I was expecting to hear some lecture but this was way more mature and understanding i have always thought of it that way
@99SeekerTruth
@99SeekerTruth 10 жыл бұрын
Very interesting very true, alhamdulillah for all these videos about Islam on KZfaq
@emmyhassani2113
@emmyhassani2113 5 жыл бұрын
الإنسان خُلق لجنة عرضها السموات والأرض وجيء به إلى الدنيا ليدفع ثمن الجنة، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليعبد الله، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليتحرك لمنهج الله، ما أودع الله فيه شهوة إلا وجعل لها قناة نظيفة تسري خلالها، ليس في الإسلام حرمان، ولكن في الإسلام تنظيم.
@DivinityStrifer
@DivinityStrifer 10 жыл бұрын
Perfectly presented
@beep2034
@beep2034 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much
@mahmudulhasan8112
@mahmudulhasan8112 5 жыл бұрын
This lecture is so spiritual❤
@xxconaxx360
@xxconaxx360 8 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with a Muslim girl but I'm not Muslim 😞
@alltimetop10s72
@alltimetop10s72 8 жыл бұрын
Look into Islam and it might change your heart
@duahussain2382
@duahussain2382 7 жыл бұрын
xxconaxx360 aw, hey. If you just try and figure out what she believes than maybe you'll want to believe as well.
@Abdulaziz2003
@Abdulaziz2003 7 жыл бұрын
I'm telling you, there's almost an infinitely increase in the chance of her loving you back is if you turn to Islam.
@user-fj3jy5vi3x
@user-fj3jy5vi3x 7 жыл бұрын
read about islam maybe you'll like it :D even if you don't it's benefic for your culture anyways it's not loosing time at least 😜
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt Guide you Ameen.
@jafarabdi4567
@jafarabdi4567 6 жыл бұрын
Those that disliked this video are regreting now i brt
@shefasyed2941
@shefasyed2941 4 жыл бұрын
Damnnn !!! it was worth watching ! I think utube has suggested me something that i really wanted to see....may Allah(S.W.T) shower his blessings upon uh ....thanks a lot for such information😊
@waseemhussain4022
@waseemhussain4022 5 жыл бұрын
One of the best by Nouman :)
@smartenough3613
@smartenough3613 5 жыл бұрын
Every time I'm sad or mad or happy for no reason, my excuse is sorry guys it's a hormonal issue.
@TPNGameZ
@TPNGameZ 8 жыл бұрын
Ive had a dream about a family friend whose a girl and that we get married. Ive never had feelings for her befoee but after this dream ive gained a lot of feelings and i feel that im in love. Not sure though this is the first time ive even been really been attracted to someone. However the dream was that i marry her. And currently im still in school, so i guess ill wait till my parents decide to marry me. And if the dream was from Allah SWT then insha Allah i will marry her.
@atheismdestroyer6105
@atheismdestroyer6105 8 жыл бұрын
time changes very fast dont decide now
@farahriasat7188
@farahriasat7188 6 жыл бұрын
atheism destroyer tmmkytyhhybyjghhb7ynhhujujujji
@shakiraarif6285
@shakiraarif6285 6 жыл бұрын
Nouman Ali Khan is one of my favourite speakers!
@mina7382
@mina7382 5 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful ♥ beautifully explained
@kashifshariff2569
@kashifshariff2569 6 жыл бұрын
I loved a girl she is Christian.. She liked me too but I'm muslim.. Later after one and half years she left me I cried like an idiot.. Watched these kind of videos.. And later she is committed vt someone else wen ever I see I get irritated nd hurted anyways I had breakup on 24/12/2017 but still it hurts to me..
@ZiraFaela
@ZiraFaela 4 жыл бұрын
I was craving for relationship,affection and wanted to have a bf..then suddenly this video is in my recommendation.Astagfirullahaladzhim,forgive me ya Allah.Please protect my heart from useless feeling. 💕
@adilbadsha615
@adilbadsha615 3 жыл бұрын
Sister even I saw a girl on Instagram and she looked so perfect with make up and pink hair it just made fall in love with her like i was crazy for her and day dream about her almost all the time and than I asked Allah for forgiveness because I simp her and than this video came to me
@nrsryazain3359
@nrsryazain3359 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, its really open my eyes i'll be finish my school soon and graduate , i hope Allah show me the right path to find true love, someday
@asmaabobakr5334
@asmaabobakr5334 5 жыл бұрын
I love this video really the way u spoke is very convincing
@coolnida2008
@coolnida2008 10 жыл бұрын
lol the way he explains is so funny but makes complete sense
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