Being a hard worker is great, but you need time for yourself to do things you enjoy. It’s good for your mental health and helps you keep working hard when you need to ❤️

This video means a lot to me. Today I decided to drop out of school ( with a solid backup plan of course and I actually know what I exactly want to do later) to take a break and then continue with studies. I am not the smartest and most gifted student but I always give my best. My marks are fairly good and I really excellent at pretending like I am ok. But I am not. I have to write at least three test per week while preparing for presentation and other assignments. I am completely burnout, but I feel like I’m ungrateful and just too fragile. See my father grow up with war in vietnam and my mother in poverty and both of them work really hard. I have a toxic relationship with them and they’re also really asian-tiger parents like. All that guilt for being a privileged daughter and someone who has the opportunity to go to school, but decided to drop out makes me really anxious and emotional numb at the same time. I AM FINE . I AM OK LIKE EVERYONE. It’s so lonely here i at home and in school. So now the school keep trying to change my mind about dropping out. I know they just meant well. But something inside of me feels so broken and shallow and I have a whole meltdown. School gives you the stress and then demand you to keep going. Why ? I feel really conflicted. I also have avoidant personality disorder, because of the emotional neglect and trauma I experience at home. This disorder makes it hard for me to go to school because of the constant fear of being not good enough and the fear of humiliation. Just because I drop out doesn’t mean I gonna sit lazy at home doing nothing. I have the burnout because I am always busy doing things for school and family. As an child of immigrant parents I feel like I am a failure. I am sorry I am sounding like I am a spoiled and privileged girl but really I’m trying hard not to fall apart. Thanks if you read this text even if you don’t answer or anything still thank you and I hope you have a good and peaceful life

“somewhere, there is a past you, overflowing with pride, looking at how far you’ve come” this made me cry actually haha🥲 thank you rebecca, i hope you know how important your videos are. p.s. i love your new editing style💞

The way Rebecca is so realistic and always makes me so Motivated to keep moving forward thankX so much

Feeling you.. i’ve lost two months due to health problems and an exam, and I struggle to return in my ordinary routine, I feel like everything is pointless and that I’m not valuable.. trying see things differently now and you help💙

I recently discovered this channel and I want to tell you that you have already changed my mind. I became more productive. You give me motivation. Thank you for this and good luck to you and your channel. love you❤❤

Throwback i felt so lazy that I WANTED to burn out to feel productive 🙃 And i experienced it. Its all about balance and how much YOU are able to take 💖

Rebecca, when I watch your videos I truly feel like everythings going to work out just fine. Besides the fact that your voice sounds so comforting, your energy in every video I've watched is so calming. I feel like you treat us listeners like we're your friends and that's what makes me (and so many others) love you so much, thank you and take care

Recently, I've been going through burnout, and I couldn't truly understand what was wrong with me, and why I felt the way I felt... but after watching your video, I found hope again. I now understand what I have to do. Thank you. You are a role model to me.

Hey, Rebecca! This video came for me at a perfect time. Sometimes I truly forget my limits and think that I can do everything.. But then reality smacks me in the face and I don't get enough rest. I think prioritizing and giving yourself space is the key 😊

I just discovered you. While I am much older, have had a lot of life experiences and trauma, seeing something about you in your college years makes me feel like everything will be okay if I am realizing what you have at your age now at mine. Thank you for letting this girl understand life will be okay - even in my darkest days.

"A great future doesn't require a great past" I'm crying... thank you so much for this 😭 💗

i love her content because it inspires me to be a better version of myself without making me feel like who i am right now is bad or not enough. that's so rare to find honestly in motivational lifestyle creators

"Somewhere, there's a past u, overflowing w/ pride, looking at how far u've come", "A great future dosen't require a great past", "How ur life feels is so much more imp than how it looks", "Be brave enough to be bad at something" . Rebecca......my ears r BLESSED thank u ❤

Everything you post feels like my current situations in those 20 to 25mins, it really feels exhausted to be with people who keep using me, but after watching your videos i have pretty much developed myself thnx Bestie

You always post according to what I feel oof. Anyways I'm really grateful for your videos you're literally helping so many people rn and you're such a beautiful person inside and out. ♥

the beginning of this was so relatable. I get so excited and do all these things, but then I just have zero energy and motivation and want to take naps all day.

I’m sorry to hear you went through a hard time last year but I’m so glad your feeling better recently, thank you for always being here to help and inspire us all, we love you

Thank you for being realistic in all your videos and for prioritizing both hard work as well as mental health 😀

I love your videos so much, they always leave me feeling happy and motivated. I also love how peaceful they are. Thank you for your effort and take care! We love you so much❤️

I finally got around to watching this video and let me tell you, I feel so incredibly seen and loved. This was my first time watching your channel and in one video I’ve started the process of forgiving myself for being burnt out. I really appreciate you making this video and showing a more humane path to a balanced life. I genuinely thank you.

This video, was such a lovely reminder, I swear I am so grateful to find your chanel you are so inspiring.., I am so happy I am here to day to be able to watch your videos keep going, and your editing is amazing, thank youuu 💜

I love this video so much. I can’t think of how many videos I’ve watched of morning and night routines, or days in my life videos that seemed so unrealistic or unauthentic. This is so so good. It means a lot to put authenticity on a platform that sometimes cares more about other things. Thanks for the video!! Helped my day

I have been watching u for over a week now and u have changed my life for the best. i rly needed this cause i was finding a hard time managing time between school and giving myself time. thank u sm Rebecca 💗

I’ve been looking for something that makes me feel alive again until I found your vid, And finally after a long period of feeling lost I find my self a reason to continue again of what I’ve been started. Thank so much♥️

! Thank you so much again! I’m struggling with motivation so much right now. This is helping!

Seeing you happy makes me feel so good!!!!! I just love your content it makes me feel like I'm not alone, there are people who struggle and still keep moving.. you are THE BEST ✨ And yaa!! Lovedddd the editing❤️❤️

this video is really convenient timing for me, i’ve been struggling with this so badly and your videos help me so much. thankyou !

Thank you! For telling how you struggled with a concussion. As someone who has have two concussion in one year and suffering a lot of symptoms still. It means a lot to not feel alone! 💕

I needed this so badly, i am crying right now, such a helpful video thank you. well done

Definitely feel free and less stress, doing activities outside of my productivity zone. Much needed video! Thanks for always being there 😌🙏❤️

I love ur videos . They are soothing and reach what I feel or go through whether it's life, study etc.. thank u 💓

Rebecca , your videos always make me feel better, I subscribed to your channel when I saw your video on procrastination. I love how you don't say stuff like confidence and positivity all the time and instead ask us to embrace what we are feeling and be okay with being where we are in life, gurl I don't know you personally but I think therapy is working wonders for you :) I am so happy for you. Side note -- I don't procrastinate a lot now I mean i still do but it significantly reduced because of watching your video thank you :) KEEP SHINING !!!!!

i just love your content so much never change and keep doing what you are doing, you highly motivate me to be better and you make me feel good enough 💖💖💖💖

Thank you so much for the little quotes you put throughout the video! some of them stick with me and I enjoy watching the video bc of your editing so don't apologize about the length of the video!!:) also the title of the video 🥰 felt like a hug

You can see how much effort Rebecca puts into all of her videos… thank you🤍🤍 I definitely needed this ~ you’re so talented!!

This video was simply exactly what I needed to hear and it was just so motivating but in a comforting way I can just tell that she care so much and truly wants to make a positive impact, and all the editing and vibe that was created was perfect💕💕

i need to say thank you for this video it was exactly what i needed right before to start a new journey where i had in plan in doing everything you mentioned to not do. So after listening you I feel relaxed and not stressed , and it give's me an important aspect of what is important in this life-and that s me, i loved your saying " how your life feels is so much more important than how it looks" i am glad and happy that i came here. and even though you said it s a long video-for me was exactly what i needed because i could see you throughout the day and impacted me more by understanding what you said by resonating . it makes me cry of how little i could have cared about my life starting my journey.

These videos are so comforting!

The video, the tips and the editing are amazing! You made me smile and feel like I'm not alone. 🥺💖

This was absolutely needed for me. Thank you so much for motivating me when I am at my lowest.Lots of love 🥰🥰

I love how positive your videos are. They are so healthy, motivating and kind. I personnaly relate to burnout due to school work so a big thank you from my heart ❤️btw i love the video format keep going giirlll

thank you for this video, it came to me at the right time. now, i will prioritze more on feeling good with the thing i do. God bless you, Rebecca.

Love your content, Rebecca! Congrats on a great channel :)

This came at such an accurate time in my life. I can relate so much in this video,but I sometimes struggle with anxiety and lack of confidence in what am mean to do. Thanks so much for this it really helped so much appreciated😍

Thank you for this video! Needed to hear this ❤

How did you know the EXACT video I needed right now? I love this editing style! This might be my favorite video of yours. It’s so great to get a glimpse into your life and that really helps me see how I can make my goals happen realistically. I’m so happy to hear that you are happy right now. That gives me hope for the future. Thanks for a wonderful video!

You are so so so inspirational and motivating ♡♡♡♡ thank youuu!!

Hey...ehmm... I'm new and this is the first video I watched and I just love it bcs it gives me really much motivation now for idk living my life and knowing that I don't have to do everything perfect. You showed me so much things I forgot about and the first one is that I forgot my limits so I really thank you that you made this

Amazing as always, thank u and love u ❤️❤️❤️❤️

This legit made me cry, once I read " self care means giving yourself time to pause " I did. Your so caring. I didn't know that I was putting pressure on myself till now 💜 thank you

I literally requested this video AND YOU ACTUALLY MADE IT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

Your videos always make me feel better with myself❤️

THANKS REBECCA FOR ALL THIS AMAZING VIDEOS...YOU DON"T HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MUCH PEOPLE ARE LEARNING AND HEALING FROM YOUR VIDEO ...LOTS OF LOVE AND WISHES FROM INDIA ❤❤💛💛

I love you and all of your videos , thank you for existing♡

This got me really mentally back on track. Many videos make me feel like I need to be 100% functioning in order to be productive, whilst I just can’t right now. Keep posting your great videos! Thanks for sharing and showing that we can still be great with our issues ✨

Her just relaxing makes me feel so better and your videos are one of the best on youtube. Also your voice is just so relaxing Love you

Thank you so much for your videos. I found your channel a few months ago and you have helped me change my mindset a ton! I always feel like your videos come at exactly when I need them and they comfort me. Keep making videos because I bet you are helping a lot more people. Thanks again, I really appreciate and look up to you

truly enjoyed this and motivated me thank you

Thank youuu I just had such a long difficult day at school and I couldn't bring myself to do any work even though I have a test I know is going to be so difficult and this made me feel so much better!!

I was productive today, as far as I can observe. I saw this video and clicked on it, since I’m curious, I clicked the channel and I immediately knew that she will help me in my goals.

Beautiful video, it's impossible not to see how much work you put into it, and yes, thank you for reminding me that hobbies are meant to be hobbies, just chill, fun, and intended to help you destress :) I'm glad you got to do the things that you set yourself to do in this video (the necessary, the hard, and the fun stuff!), my day so far was a partial success but I'll make sure to end it with a bang! ^ ^

thank u for this

i love each and every one of your videos you give such helpful advice and it always sounds like you are giving a speech😂 i love that about you so much you are so well spoken

Loved the editing,it is alot of effort gotto admit u are a full on influencer now girll❤ love your content!

This video was so helpful. I’m 18 years old and I recently graduated cosmology and ever since then I’ve been doing hair and also working at a fast food as a second job and I’m always burnt out to the point I do t have time for myself and noticing that I’m having a lot of mental breakdowns because I feel like I’m not able to do things that I want to do so this video was very much needed. Thank you for helping me realize I still have to put me first and organize my life and that it is ok to rest. I literally was crying before this video and you helped me get through my dark cloud❤️Thank you so much new subscriber!!!

i really needed that at the moment.. you 're amazing, keep up the good job cause you just gained a follower hehe

your editing skills are AMAZING, also i love the message you give in your videos, you are amazing thank you for everything🙏🙏🙏

This was such a motivational video so proud of you girly ❤️❤️❤️

Please do more of these vlogs they’re so motivating and relaxing ❤️😌

This was like such a therepeutic video .. I guess i was kinda feeling burnt out as i was forcing myself to get 5 to 6 hrs of sleep since the past 2 weeks as i needed to study more for my finals .. But it's been so counterproductive and exhausting .. Gonna change it to solid 7 hrs of sleep from today . A good day to anyone reading this❤️

i love your channel! your videos are so motivating

I love how you put motivational phrases throught the video, greetings from Ecuador!

I really love your videos, they are so helpful and pure, every time when im watching your videos i dont feel alone, like i watching a friend given me an advice. My favorite time of the week is drinking a coffe while i watching your new video, thank you soooooo much. ♥️♥️ you are my favorite youtuber ✨

New subscriber. I needed this video so much. Thank you!

I loved this so much :) Thank you for existing, you really motivate me and by the way I love your music taste for this video.. these songs are so calming but motivating at the same time and yeah keep going.. Even if no one on earth support you I wILL!! HEHE just kidding you deserve the world:) ILYSM 💗

Your on the right track and you look so relaxed in your videos and love the music its nice and smooth. 👍💚👍

def loved it keep going!!!

Your videos are therapy, I don’t know what my life would of been without you at all.

Your videos feel like a warm hug♥️ Sending you a virtual hug🤗🤗♥️

thank you for making your channel such a safe place ♡

Thank you so much,i was going thought very hard time and i felt such big burnout and this was such big help. Love your videos...sending love from Croatia 💕💕💕

I just recently discovered your channel and instantly subscribed, Your content is so motivating ❤️

needed this today! Thank you for your vids Rebecca!! ❤❤❤

I was just avoiding this vid since I received the notification coz my exams are tmrrw and all I promised myself is that I'll study the whole day and don't even open Socials but at the end of the this is the only video I need the amount I getted from this is amazing literature her content is the best

Thank you I really needed this💕💜

this gives me sooo much motivation!:))

inspiring, thank u for being real and happy that u are doing fine now

I've been struggling with whether or not to take a gap next semester and just work because I've had such big motivation issues and burnout this year. Watching this video reminded me I can take it slow and taking less classes will definitely help. I'm still undecided, but I've got some ideas on the direction I want to take now :)

I really like the little quotes poping in the video it’s fun ❤️

man I just knew i needed this by seeing it on my recommended. I have been stressing for the past 2 months probably. My fam would tell me to stop doing so much stuff and do shit I enjoy.. which was what I was doing and being in theatre but everyday rehearsal was just AHHH and I haven't done electives since freshman year cause my schedule was f'd up so its all new to me again and I've always stayed up till like 3 am everyday doing work but even with that, I still just gts and don't finish. I wouldn't do chores, nor shower at night and only do it in the mornings, and cause of this thing I have about being clean, ill end up sleeping on the floor or couch and not nice in my bed. I try to do stuff for myself and say if I cant do it its fine imma just gts but I have this thing about late work and failure and it makes me feel like shit when these teachers call out "you had a whole class period to do it so if u didn't finish, think ab what u were doing" like bitch my brain melts in everyclass and I simply cant anymoreeeee. and its not like I can say welp I'm done ion wanna do it.. cause I FR CANNTTTT. Like this academic validation or grade ego KILLS ME

Last semester and this current semester have also been difficult for me. Last semester I had emergency major surgery and a family member passed. Then this semester, I found myself in a mentally and physically abusive relationship. Finally getting back on track and I'm loving your videos!! ❤❤

i love this girl sooo sooo soooo much ❤️❤️❤️

Wow this seriously helped me get out of my slump and focus on what’s actually important! Tysm for this video it was so inspiring 🥺💗✨

Every time I see your notification of your video my happy time begins, I am so exited to watch till the end.

Rebecca u literally a queen girl

This really helped me to get out and study for my exam 💕💕 Thank you

I have struggled with this for so long that how much is too much or if it's just me being lazy also, I am loving the videos lately ily

This was great and definitrlt a life changerm God bless you and thank you!!!

You keep me motivated please do more of these :)