You Should Know This About Covert Narcissism

No video

You Should Know This About Covert Narcissism

Рет қаралды 7,394

Жыл бұрын

Watch Part 1 here: • What You Should Know A...
If you're a woman feeling trapped in a toxic relationship and looking for freedom, you've come to the right place. With over 3000+ clients, I've integrated everything I've learned into a comprehensive program designed to help you reclaim your freedom. My goal is to guide you to break free without confronting or trying to fix him. Together, let's rediscover YOU and cultivate your confidence and clarity. To take the next step in your healing journey with me, visit www.rawmotivat...
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------
If you're a man struggling with narcissistic traits and seeking the path, community, and transformation that I've experienced, I'm here to help - but only if you are serious about investing the time and energy. To begin this journey with me, schedule a session at www.rawmotivat...
---
Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.
Platforms I am on:
TikTok - / raw_motivations
Instagram - / rawmotivations
Facebook - www.facebook.c...
Podcast - anchor.fm/rawm...
KZfaq - / rawmotivations

Пікірлер: 24

@cherrylynn7173 Жыл бұрын

Can one have both covert and grandiose?!? I think my ex was both. He would get quiet and use passive aggression to gain control but knew how to charm strangers with conversations.

@petertangney1056 Жыл бұрын

My one changed the same

@lorettathomas9510 Жыл бұрын

Yes, mine used his alcoholism to switch between the two. He was sober covert and drunk grandiose.

@sap3737 5 ай бұрын

sam vaknin teaches they are the same they just change at times

@rocketeer2361 4 ай бұрын

I believe these mannequins can switch. I know my adult daughter and her step-father, my ex do. They are both alcoholics as well.

@MeCynthiaAnn 4 ай бұрын

YUUUUUUP……….this kind is very dangerous because they are so destructive because they try to come across very healthy and cuuuuuuuuuuning and deceptive! They will answer to the Lord for the things they are doing. Just like a chameleon. Thank you for your videos . From JANESVILLE, WI

@LoveEddieMoney Жыл бұрын

There’s tons of info on Covert Narcissism on KZfaq. Dr Ramini, Jess Stanley & The Little Shaman are excellent resources!

@kalingakrishna2705 11 ай бұрын

Ben, please teach us how to identify covert narcissists! And also, teach us how to protect ourselves from them!

@lunaleia952 3 ай бұрын

Mine seemed to be completely overt. He tended to treat others really poorly, not pretending at all. When it comes to me he was often very kind and sweet until he had his rage attacks again over minor things. In the end we stopped talking 2-3 months ago since he couldn't stop calling me stupid regularly. He was justifying all the hurt by saying I betrayed him, without further explanation in what way. Actually I loved him but it doesn't matter at all.

@dahliafiend Жыл бұрын

Yeah this is sadly accurate in many ways and i why I endured 11 years of a person that beneath the mask was hateful and bitter even when she got everything she wanted she was actually worse and yeah does seems sociopathic at times in her outsized rage. Finally realized that no amount of love I showed her would help but any criticism and my existence would be threatened. It’s shocking to see someone you thought was so wonderful become almost evil like she’s being consumed by it.

@leeannflynn7213 Жыл бұрын

This is totally what I ran into and his feigning empathy threw me off into believing he was vulnerable so I thought he wasn't npd. I knew there was something going on, and he slowly gave me the clues I needed to realize he was in fact npd. I never experienced a npd who was such a giant emotional baby when it came to him making an innocent mistake that impacted us (my car got towed because we did not realize the city enacted their snow emergency 2 nights after the snow storm was over). I assured him we would be okay and get the issue resolved right away, which we did, then he did the first discard. I was so unaware I was developing a trauma bond by going back after the discard resolved in just a few days. This was my official wake the F up and what is really going on with this dude. He really did give me some additional clues after that, and I did a reverse discard to get the heck out safely.

@cotinaevans6763 9 ай бұрын

Ben you Rock!!

@jorsetti Жыл бұрын

This is accurate in my experience with covert narc. They always feel someone is doing them wrong and always taking temperature of the relationship, sometimes daily and especially if they were only slightly criticized. They pick their moments of revenge. She had a difficult time emotionally being kick out of my house. And BTW, had no problem stealing from the grocery store citing, “Store should be ashamed at the prices they charge!” I said, if you can’t afford it, don’t shop there! It was part of an antisocial pattern of behavior with her, all the more dangerous.

@brandondstout 4 ай бұрын

There is an overlap in some aspects between overt and covert. I would argue covert is more socially skilled than given credit for. They have to function in deep thought and have considerable awareness of social procedures

@StarflyerT Жыл бұрын

Man this made me uncomfortable to hear. Almost like reliving the 13 years with mom and Stepfather. It's almost been two years and some days 5hrs doesn't feel far enough away. No contact is best kind of contact for me. Hang in there all. Covert narcs are snakes in the grass that you don't see until they bite you and then they blame you for being in the way.

@michellestephenson9349 Жыл бұрын

But of course! ‘Tis your fault for being in the grass 😉

@marthareichhold8201 4 ай бұрын

That's a great analogy you said in your last sentence! Thanks and have a blessed life!!

@realdealprimer Жыл бұрын

❤

@lysabelle3990 Жыл бұрын

Mine was very outgoing and grandiose except the abuse that was covert. Like he rarely had blow ups he would do silent treatments and blame me for everything he was always the victim.even in other situations but it was very subtle he would fake being nonchalant. He would tell me that i dont love him all the time in arguments. What three me though is that he was soooooo extroverted life of the party clubbing type

@Potatowedge31 Жыл бұрын

Is it okay to say that when I'm in a situation, I see your face in my mind and then I'm okay. Thanks. You rock.

@RawMotivations Жыл бұрын

Would love to help you on your healing journey. If I can be of help feel free to grab a time here at www.rawmotivations.com

@purplerain0517 Жыл бұрын

My boyfriend is at rock bottom...or ...making it look like he's reached rock bottom...and I can't tell if it's genuine. I'm even afraid to pray about his sincerity, because, I'm terrified of the grief that will overcome me if I receive an answer that he's actually used a false declaration of faith as a means for manipulating me into reacting... How do I steel myself against an attack that malicious? Is his defensiveness equal to the amount of Shame and regret he has? And Jealousy? Because he feels like I have a relationship with God that he doesn't? And thinking of God, makes him feel abandonment..because he wasn't saved from his trauma.. And part of his trauma also deals with abandonment from his mom.. who he resents for leaving him. Because she abandoned him. And he takes his abandonment out on me for now... ok... of COURSE I know how to steel myself against an attack like that... but that would mean zero communication... ... but...wouldn't that mean that his declaration of faith would be...actually sincere? That he DOES believe in God...but he's ANGRY and HURT? even though he doesn't realize it?! Or am I interpreting this wrong?