You've Never Had A Girlfriend, This Is Why

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KoldHeartKam

11 ай бұрын

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@donballer2283 11 ай бұрын

"Average is the enemy, success is your responsibility" ~ BK

@brandoniskewlig 11 ай бұрын

success and failure are such vague concepts

@the_rightpill7859 11 ай бұрын

Burger king???

@rileygoddamnphoenix 10 ай бұрын

Im 17 and I've never been on a date, had a girlfriend, or a first kiss. Its not because i think it's "too much work", its because i have no luck when it comes to making women see me as more than a platonic guy friend. Most of my friends are girls but I've never been in a relationship and i went to prom alone. Thats because they all have boyfriends, and im usually the guy they come to to _complain about_ their boyfriends.

@toongamer2810 10 ай бұрын

If this ain't the realest thing

@Prince_Dracula 10 ай бұрын

It’s because you’re soft bro. Men have to suffer. Life been too easy for you. Challenge yourself. Surrounding yourself with females friends will make your chances with them even less. They think YOURE gay bro, that’s how it looks.

@rileygoddamnphoenix 10 ай бұрын

@@Prince_Dracula The know I'm not gay 😂that's just what we tell their parents so they'll let me hang out with them without being suspicious I know what you mean, though. Like later this month were going to a Taylor Swift music festival and to the movies to watch Barbie. And I'm the only guy going. Not exactly "manly stuff" but I don't often concern myself with appeasing masculinity.

@manosijroy8282 10 ай бұрын

I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl and I am too shy to initiate a convo with her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number in our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.

@jaydenjbryant8665 10 ай бұрын

Im the same way. I have friends that are girls but they never see me in that way. They all think im gay but im not

@ChildrenOfTheLORD7 11 ай бұрын

Kam the answer is to submit yourself to Jesus “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” ‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭7‬ ‭KJV‬‬

@V1V1DMOTIVATES 11 ай бұрын

he already did but W

@mikey4117 9 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@officialfable196 9 ай бұрын

I’m 17 and have never had a girlfriend. I’ve always wanted one but I’ve never had one. I also have social anxiety, so it’s hard for me to find new people to be friends with. I also haven’t found the right girl. 90% of the girls I see are girls who cuss, disrespect others, think they are the center of the universe, wear revealing and nasty clothing, all that stuff. I’m a Christian looking for a REAL Christian girl, not the girls who say “I’m Christian” and then brag about having sex and speak in vulgar language and all that. It’s hard bro. My social anxiety, and the lack of real Christian women. I don’t have to be social to see how girls act. I want a girlfriend, but at the same time, am I really ready? I have my own problems that I’m working on that need fixing so I know I’m probably not, but that stupid temptation to get sad and lonely when I remind myself I’ve never had a girlfriend just sucks.

@sorbruce 11 ай бұрын

Hard times create strong men Strong men create good times Good times create weak men Weak men create hard times I think we are in the good times and we are becoming weaker everyday.

@payfoe8591 11 ай бұрын

My boy got this from hamza

@GillGolan 11 ай бұрын

hard times make man hard or somth lika that

@jorgealbertoop7952 11 ай бұрын

The cycle varies between individuals and is influenced by mindset. We are not all in the "good times."

@sorbruce 11 ай бұрын

@@payfoe8591 actually I got it from Michael drift.

@youssefjoseph5472 10 ай бұрын

I’d say we headin into the bad times rn

@dedsec4268 11 ай бұрын

Kam you the mf truth I’ve been watching your channel for a while your like the only self improvement channel I watch because you keep it 100 in everything that you say and you don’t beat around the bush at telling people how this red pill shit really is your videos have changed my perception entirely on this degenerate ass world we living in thank you for that kam for spreading truth and just seeing how this world is it makes me wanna self improve even more for the sake of my future kids and wife not for these hoes not for the attention of the media fck that just go hard for you hope god blesses everyone trying to do right❤

@david.olu1 11 ай бұрын

Yo man the videos you make literally speak to me and addresses things I’m currently going through atm. Keep up the good work Can you also please make a video on how to stop giving a fuck or simply stop caring in general cuz this is something I’m trying to overcome in my life cuz I feel like I’m too nice and I don’t feel respected thanks

@Spongebat69 11 ай бұрын

0:11 thank you Kam, I needed this.

@KylanAlexVidz9750 11 ай бұрын

Kam ever since I join the channel you’ve been consistently posting love the grind keep it up.

@pillcosby3264 11 ай бұрын

It's pitiful when you're 33 😢. Sometimes I feel like I have no hope. Actually hate myself for it.

@rosemarY.69 11 ай бұрын

Keep on moving bro, you got this

@bluesteel920 11 ай бұрын

Truly over

@GuyVick 11 ай бұрын

How you let time pass? you are in you’re prime physical age, you should of had a rotation in your early 20’s

@pillcosby3264 11 ай бұрын

@@GuyVick most girls never found me attractive

@oscargonza2748 11 ай бұрын

You should persue as many chicks as possible and if they reject you don't let it discourage you because rejection is one step closer to acceptance, bruh

@MatthewRumble 11 ай бұрын

I hope patbat gets a gf

@Spongebat69 11 ай бұрын

Patbat is in vacation right now

@diorgasmask 11 ай бұрын

@@Spongebat69aww fuck

@visualities 11 ай бұрын

@@Spongebat69yeah WITH kam

@MicahBeatz 11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@mushi1985. 11 ай бұрын

I am 38 now never had a girlfriend getting older

@JoshuaAlzate-bt3pf 11 ай бұрын

Yes the best selfimprovement ive ever heard. A lot of perspective. Thank you kam❤ god bless you❤

@jay-kq5kv 11 ай бұрын

I needed this fr fr

@Prodbykayyso 11 ай бұрын

Kam going outside a d touching grass for the first time is so inspiring I'm about to do the same right now😭😭😭

@bmsproductions1 11 ай бұрын

Hope your enjoying your vacay bro‼️ I’m in Italy rn too

@c.graham4047 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for this G.

@brianarroyo6737 11 ай бұрын

Shoutout to u man respect the content

@mikey4117 9 ай бұрын

Now this content is TRUTH! 🔥🔥🔥

@cougerror2887 11 ай бұрын

Everything can be boiled down to basic human animalistic instincts. All you can do is overcome and fight. Go out and run and hit the gym, eat healthy foods, work on your mind.

@mehdineverquits 11 ай бұрын

Brother, as a Muslim, hearing all of this from a secular perspective is astounding. Even though I am someone struggling with some of my desires right now, Allah (swt) mentions in the Quran how: Have you seen he who has taken as his god his [own] desire, and Allah has sent him astray due to knowledge and has set a seal upon his hearing and his heart and put over his vision a veil? So who will guide him after Allah ? (45:23).

@ChildrenOfTheLORD7 11 ай бұрын

Mohammed married a older women to take her assets, and then married a child. He has lied many times in the Quran, better to follow Jesus. Lord Jesus is incapable of lying, and he died for your sins.

@crowdlenovo5502 11 ай бұрын

As a Muslim as well, it is nice to see you asking these questions, props

@dankhatana5739 11 ай бұрын

@@stresslimit then scroll

@cosita7479 11 ай бұрын

Hes a Christian not a secularist.

@GoldenMushroom64 11 ай бұрын

Fantastic video I completely agree and I’ve thought about it for a while. The modern world is messed up. Was never supposed to be like this.

@adamatif288 10 ай бұрын

That's what I'm saying.

@dimeandbiggie353 9 ай бұрын

The world doesn't evolve around u sir. U evolve in the world

@jay-kq5kv 11 ай бұрын

He definitely right on point

@imALTAMONTING567 11 ай бұрын

This the kinda content that makesbme go out confident

@CommandoMaster 11 ай бұрын

The girl chooses u. So if u haven't been chosen, there's something wrong with u.

@SoulBrotha91 8 ай бұрын

wrong is subjective in this case

@Spongebat69 11 ай бұрын

Kam uploaded 😫 I can finally 🚌🚌🚌🚌

@sebastiansaucedo6093 11 ай бұрын

I swear bro always high making vids look at his eyes😂😈🔥

@datwarriboy 11 ай бұрын

11:38 "Oh my Gosh look at that light" "oh this is thumbnail right here" 😅😅😅

@Cronyth 11 ай бұрын

This was the realest video cam has posted. Especially when he started talking about these “pride” mfs

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

ay bro what you mean by that look, i’m pansexual, but i don’t like to make that my *entire* personality, like i’ve seen others do. I’ve got shit goin’ on outside of who I like, and prefer to just stay chill about it instead of going out wearing rainbows. Being lgbtq+ isn’t a problem in and of itself, but there’s some people that make it worse for the normal ones.

@Cronyth 11 ай бұрын

@@NeonStudios763 pansexuality doesn’t exist

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

@@Cronyth then what would you call someone that is fine with a romantic relationship with any gender, if not pansexual?

@Cronyth 11 ай бұрын

@@NeonStudios763 I’d call it bisexuality. Pansexuality is just a term to make people feel special

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

@@Cronyth eh, there’s nuance. bisexual = only want men or woman pansexual = man, woman, trans, nonbinary

@kerrymaster 11 ай бұрын

Bro is fried

@davinanderson3745 11 ай бұрын

In Kam we trust

@nowhere2195 11 ай бұрын

Kam pushing content while un mf Italy thats respect

@Darian1233 7 ай бұрын

I agree with 2 points you’ve made, the rest makes no sense and I wouldn’t recommend anyone struggling to watch 💀💀

@stephengrant4841 5 ай бұрын

Yeah the rest of this is just radical Christianity. No thanks!

@OneShotwastaken 11 ай бұрын

First to see before he possibly deletes this 😍😍

@atoolyrical 10 ай бұрын

Bro I’m from Philly we must got like 35 MCDonalds in my city 😂

@whoishim2998 11 ай бұрын

I actually like the Rainbow 🌈 and designs with the rainbow in em…I hate that’s it’s a whole pride thing now tho just ruins it smh

@oddkid.blxnko 11 ай бұрын

Bro is on his shit✊️

@arturoverzegnassi2276 11 ай бұрын

Glad to see you in Italy

@EthanBulkz 11 ай бұрын

Kam funny thing is cigarettes actually boost T but all ur videos are fax just pointing that out there

@GoldenMushroom64 11 ай бұрын

Wonderful video my good sir

@user-xc4zr5zd5h 11 ай бұрын

Kam be lookin zooted boa

@SSG-Romahs2004 7 ай бұрын

19 years old 😞 still haven’t been in a relationship…….life sure does sucks!! Tho!! No cap!

@jjgameshow2682 7 ай бұрын

I'm in the same boat as well and still having a hard time finding a girl in my life, Seeing my older cousins getting married and having gfs as time passes by destroyed me mentally..

@squebleblaskum 7 ай бұрын

19 as well... trying to improve and learn to love myself cos bad friends made me think I was shit for a whole ass while even tho girls in school asked me out. Gotta find yourself before you find someone else ig

@ChildrenOfTheLORD7 11 ай бұрын

This verse came to mind “Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.” ‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭4‬ ‭KJV‬‬

@swoopster8676 11 ай бұрын

ay man i’m talking to my crush right i’m feeling her i think she feeling me but she one of those play video games chill type. but she be reply late and when she do she says “myb i was sleep” i know damn well no one sleeps the whole damn day bro i think frfr she not interested then she hit me up with a message like do you consider yourself nonchalant 😑 like that random ass message that’s when i knew she on some bullshit but when we first met we started talking about school and stuff like that then she ask if i like clingy i need advice cause rn i ain’t feeling this i like clingy but she ain’t really acting like it

@Jame-save 9 ай бұрын

Bro its not just about the men but woman too they are too weak , when you make the first step you dont have response on the other side.

@tonyknoweverything1764 11 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@David-oq6vi 10 ай бұрын

Wow, you made me realize a bunch of stuff bro

@kingofdubs 10 ай бұрын

A bunch of bullshit

@joemama6184 11 ай бұрын

Am I being attacked!?

@israeljaimes8309 11 ай бұрын

i agree w Kam 100%. 🗣️ #kamfamily

@KingKrud5 11 ай бұрын

What can I do to make sure the water I drink doesn’t lower my testosterone?

@Rambo-rl9mz 11 ай бұрын

me watching as im eating mcdonald’s

@SoulBrotha91 8 ай бұрын

Organic love is non existent, it is always conditional with a price. Only you can love yourself because you know thy self. I've been single my entire 20s by choice and never needed any woman's validation. But I'm not that age anymore, so I've decided to put myself out there (again). Nobody wants to transition from earth alone, idc what you alpha ass dudes or independent women say. At some point you're gonna want someone to live and explore the remainder of your life with, that brings you peace and comfort. Everyone wants to feel their life has purpose

@jamariodcreator774 11 ай бұрын

thanks man

@jeremybarnes5025 11 ай бұрын

This is facts and I’m 18 I’m starting working soon

@noim7785 11 ай бұрын

Whatever job you get, don't get a warehouse job! Trust me

@Chris-pg7qg 11 ай бұрын

@@noim7785why

@alaacharaf_ 11 ай бұрын

Pure truth

@atoolyrical 8 ай бұрын

Because this system is designed for us to fail and the world is in the power of the wicked one

@tigranes. 11 ай бұрын

preechh brotha

@jc9876 8 ай бұрын

The reason I’ve never had a gf is because of my looks although I’m trying to max out my looks I’m already looking at surgical options.

@kokakola2289 6 ай бұрын

If that’s you in your pfp don’t do it bro. You’re not ugly enough to need surgery.

@oulu2291 8 ай бұрын

negative canthal tilt

@BDJayce 11 ай бұрын

What's wrong with liking feet

@willieamv8353 11 ай бұрын

my boy kam spitting straight facts blud literally changing lives fr

@cristianzamora7108 11 ай бұрын

Fact they’re trying to project they’re weird ish on us.

@melvonjohnson5711 10 ай бұрын

Women just dont like me------

@lordbeerus5722 9 ай бұрын

They don't like me either bruh. I'm just gonna accept my fate and learn to accept not having a other half

@melvonjohnson5711 9 ай бұрын

Women only like the pookies and the rayray of the world- They view good men like me as lame and boring- The only type of women who are slightly interested in me is obese, baby mommas or elderly women.

@manosijroy8282 9 ай бұрын

How old are you? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college last week and wanna study MBA next. There in the classes, I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class and introduced ourselves and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more she does say me hi but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate further talks with her. I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I don't really feel the confidence to initiate any conversation with her unless she initiates one with me. But today she actually said I am cute as I keep smiling(like a shy smile) almost all the time in class and I blushed hard after she said I am cute and my friends too teased me about it hehe. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon. My childhood friend did agree to meet up but she is so inactive on Instagram that I still don't know when we will meet as she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me whereas I chat with the 19 year old daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs daily. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho. I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I get rejected by 4 girls recently and it looks like she still sees me as just a friend.

@melvonjohnson5711 9 ай бұрын

@@manosijroy8282 You're half age (born in the 1980s) I had girlfriends before when I was younger, but it wasn't a steady relationship- I never had any type of sexual interaction or never been intimate with a woman before- As I mentioned before, only two type of women that are interested in me as potential partner (Overweight and elderly women with grown ass kids) I kind of gave up on trying to date women because majority of them( not all) are attracted to a specific type of guy( thuggish, rough, hyper- masculine) types of men...It seem like when women realize that they're not desirable anymore, they want to start being nice and treat men with respect--

@manosijroy8282 9 ай бұрын

@@melvonjohnson5711 did you read my full comment? Nothing about that? And if you were born in 1980s I would be the one who is half your age as I am 22

@Jay42334 11 ай бұрын

5:41 look at blud looking back at Kam 😭

@josiahbholahillaire3574 11 ай бұрын

Exactly

@Randomy5428 7 ай бұрын

I chose not to get one. If there's anything I observe growing up with girls in my family that are butt load of stress.

@lowqualityvideos1492 11 ай бұрын

This is true 👍

@dangrizer 11 ай бұрын

Kam u the realest mofo on real shit

@SoulBrotha91 8 ай бұрын

And the rainbow is actually the chakras in reverse order

@Spongebat69 11 ай бұрын

Imma need my lotion and tissue for this video 🧴💦

@hakunamatata-w3873 11 ай бұрын

What the hell

@xyuki_jp 11 ай бұрын

Damn bro u looking tired Put aloe Vera under your eyes and ice too

@Trackhawks2002 11 ай бұрын

Facts

@PatBatJr. 11 ай бұрын

Kam makes me busssssss 😩😩😩😩😫😫😫😫😩😩🚌🚌🚌

@dimmysimmy1236 7 ай бұрын

u look high asf u on another realm lmao

@adamatif288 10 ай бұрын

He was speaking facts about the world pushing weird stuff. And food being a minor step in that. Plus cheap unhealthy stuff and expensive necessary needs.

@SNITCHALITAH 6 ай бұрын

Still dont understand why he choose sza as thumbnail art

@Johnnyboybravo 11 ай бұрын

You are in Italy? What you doing there?

@mammad238 11 ай бұрын

9:10 the reason is to rich get richer and poor stay poor

@VermontBeats 11 ай бұрын

You look tired cam 😢

@koldheartkam 11 ай бұрын

That’s just my face

@interesting2491 7 ай бұрын

How old is this guy anybody know? Apparently he is 34

@mammad238 11 ай бұрын

you a G

@PatBatJr. 11 ай бұрын

Oh I'm about to bussssss 🚌🚌🚌🚌😫😫😫😫😩😩😩😩

@Icare202 11 ай бұрын

You are very articulate and I salute you and your family Genes in regards to your intelligence!👊 ✊And on that topic of the rainbow🌈...The Black Panthers started using that symbol first, then Jessie Jackson used it and as you already know... it morphed (or demorphed) into something Bizarre, to put it mildly!

@kenzoo8124 11 ай бұрын

kallumonti

@Spongebat69 11 ай бұрын

I’m gonna buss bruh 😩😩🚌🚌🚌🚌🚌

@Fenris_0fficial 11 ай бұрын

Dude has nose piercings i cant take him for advice wtf

@erics362 11 ай бұрын

Nice Pride flag in your thumbnail 👌.

@arnavThakkar29 11 ай бұрын

Your eyes look tired man😢

@itsdavidplanes 11 ай бұрын

No hate but you're addressing "feminine stuff" like painting nails but yet you're wearing ear rings and have 2 rings in your nose. Other than that, great video.

@pitaochai 11 ай бұрын

True... you're speaking 🗣️ facts

@Raickei 11 ай бұрын

Go tell that to the African tribesmen doing the same thing but with animal tusks.

@xan8123 11 ай бұрын

I agree what’s considered feminine is subjective ig. I honestly don’t see anything wrong with painting nails or jewelry.

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

everyone has their own style. aint nothing wrong with having something nice to decorate

@Jong853 10 ай бұрын

Take the meat and spit out the bones. You sound pretty feminine for caring so much about another man’s appearance

@dimeandbiggie353 9 ай бұрын

Wait whats so bad about feet? 🤨

@clownerylove7374 4 ай бұрын

ain't no way u being fr😭😭😭

@sebastiansaucedo6093 11 ай бұрын

Foot fetish ain none wrong bro for women 😂😂only for women I love wen women got pretty toes

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

get help

@f7m001 11 ай бұрын

Kammy

@BruceEVO 11 ай бұрын

🎬

@my3rs307 11 ай бұрын

I can't cuz I'm ugly

@NeonStudios763 11 ай бұрын

i wont say i’m ugly, since there’s always someone uglier more so that i’m not attractive enough for girls to make the first move, but not extroverted enough to make the first move

@my3rs307 11 ай бұрын

@@NeonStudios763 same actually

@generalsavage9797 11 ай бұрын

Don't say that big bro, just improve on yourself

@Carticult 10 ай бұрын

Stop complaining about your looks and look your best, there’s many things you can do to improve your attraction, no matter how ugly you think you are

@NeonStudios763 10 ай бұрын

@@Carticult not complaining, just looking at myself from an honest perspective as to know what to improve on