Abi Wilson yes. Yes they are. 🤢

They're pro birth, not pro life tbh.

The Cat Who is they? Not all pro-life supporters are against sterilization. I'm against abortions (expect in the case of rape or the mother's life is in danger), but I absolutely support their decision to get sterilized. Getting sterilized is better than them getting abortions.

Abi Wilson abortion is murder. Getting sterilized could avoid that!

Elizabeth Frantes I'm not against abortion, but sterilized people and people who choos for abortion... That's something totally different 🤦🏻‍♀️

Abortion all the way.

EXACTLY!!! If you're not going to support my choice in how to handle an unwanted zygote, then support my decision on avoiding it in the first place

Isabel Lieb AMAZING comment! I was told the very same thing by the doctors, at first. I never wanted children from the time I could first have memories. At 24, my best friend saw a health program on TV and it turned out that at that time, the government would PAY to tie or burn our one's tubes, even if one did not ever have children! I won't bore you with the details of how awful I was treated when folks found out and how the doctors were almost suspicious of me because at the time I didn't even have a boyfriend or even a lover, but I found a psychiatrist who really believed in my sincerity, and I had my tubes burned out a few weeks shy of my 25th birthday. I was told literally hundreds of times ("you'll regret this one day, just you wait until you hit 40!" or "you are a WOMAN and a woman's body is meant to have kids! What kind of [sic] weirdo are you, anyway?"). Sigh. I am now 6 weeks shy of my 48th birthday and my 58 year-old husband and I have been together for 21 years. Neither one of us has kids, neither one of us wants kids, we have the life and pets that we want, along with lots of freedom and many more choices available to us. We are happy and we have NO REGRETS. If someone wants kids and responsibly plan the offspring and provide them with a full and well-adjusted life, both emotionally and financially, then I will not judge you! I will wish you well and good fortune and happiness. So, when one hears that someone doesn't want kids, don't tell them "it's just a phase" or threaten them with "you will regret this somedaaaaaaaaaay!", just leave us alone and don't judge!

I think you’ll find that people never want you to do what you want, hence the hell of other people.

The point is that with 20 you dont know if you want children in 10 or 15 years. There ARE other ways of contraception.

@@chantaliyah4890 But what about adoption?

She would be asking someone to do something. That Doctor doesn’t want to do it.... Theo body, their choice afterall.

@@chantaliyah4890 that there are people who are not 100% sure of what they want it is fine, but that those who are sure and can not do it are treated as abnormal it is not

@@chantaliyah4890 sure, but having a kid is as big of a decision. it affects your life. and people have no problem with others making that choice. i for example know that if i ever wanted children i would never want to have my own. my genes suck and i do not want to pass them on. and besides that, who are we to say that we know better than the woman that wants to get rid of an organ? does she want to remove someone else's organs? no. why cant people let others make choices. adult women arent irresponsible babies when childless

@@chantaliyah4890 that's no valid excuse. yea she COULD hypothetically change her mind, but by this logic you would never ever make any decisions in your life because WHAT IF am I right? you can't live by that

Exactly I don't want kids ever in my life I said that since age 10 the end of this month I will be age 24 and I still don't want any children. If fertility is a gift I'd rather gift it to someone who'd wish to have that ability.

Well you can understand how hard it is to conceive a child then why do you support people throwing away their chances of having a child when so many struggle.

Evie Batson she’s not talking about their choices, she’s saying that it’s hurts her when people say that those who wont have kids are not whole or will miss out on that form of love bc she was struggling to conceive.

rice peace I hope you become a mother. God Bless🙏

You can love any child as much as you can. Biological or not. True love is not just with your own flesh and blood. I have a child and there’s another child I love just as much as my own. I wasn’t his mother, but I felt so much maternal love for him. Unfortunately him and as mom died in a car accident.

Vic Fiat Because it would be understandable at for someone at 40 to have an operation like this but they are only in their 20s. Also when we have had to ration the NHS should we be spending money on such "lifestyle choices".

Why does it need to be understandable to you, when it's not going to affect you? Plus it is understandable, they all gave their reasons (not that they should have to), if you don't agree with them then don't be sterilised yourself. Also, the NHS dispenses contraception (pills, implants, patches, etc. and condoms to those under 25), the government pays benefits out to everyone with children (regardless of income), and pays for schools etc.

Vic Fiat exactly!! They can make their own choices! Like let's say they do regret it, there is something called adoption! They are acting like that's not even a thing and that you MUST have you own children. I am able to have kids but I am choosing to adopt instead.

I totally agree that it is their life. I was positive I did not want children in my twenties. Absolutely positive. After I turned thirty I completely changed my mind and now I have three beautiful children. I wouldn't have done sterilization. If you ask me, if I were these young people why not freeze some eggs or sperm in case you change your mind and yet you still have no worries about getting pregnant. If I could go back in time, I would have donated or sold my eggs when I was younger to struggling couples. When I got breast cancer at 37 yrs old I wish I have froze some of my eggs because I wasn't done having children but once you go through chemotherapy and take the meds to that you really wouldn't want to use the eggs inside of you not to mention that I am too old. I wish I had froze fresh eggs in my early twenties to use now at 45.

It matters if the NHS has to pay for it.

Meri Sandoval I'm not sure. I've got some family members who judge me because I want to be a parent.

I think the biggest problem people are having with it is that the people wanting these procedures want it paid for by NHS (public healthcare). I can see the point there. NHS isn't for personal elective procedures. That comes out of your own pocket.

sari c I agree with you completely because if you want bigger boobs you have to pay for it themselves so it should be the same way with electively becoming sterile it would be different if they medically needed to have a procedure like this in order to to live than that is fine if public health care to pay for it because in those cases have a procedure like this can be looked at in the sense of having a broken bone and relying on public health care

Cost a lot less for one procedure over having a (3/4 of a million pound) preemie baby or 10 kids on the mthly social benefits .. SO not a good reason to deny a surgery.

One is vanity and general dissatisfaction with your appearance and another is a person thinking ahead as to whether they can/should reproduce and be responsible for another life. I understand you believing it should not be paid for through health care but the two are completely different.

Good thing pregnancy is 100% safe and has no long term effects on the body! /s

@@jaceyjacobs4013 lol

Jacey Jacobs yup! Say that to my mom XD

@@jaceyjacobs4013 yeah! absolutely no pregnancy deaths exist, no health issues occur, no miscarriages happen and no permanent body alterations happen (e.g. stretch marks, protruding belly)! you're so clever, omg!!

BLOOP I think you missed the sarcasm tag lol

people with no lives

Religious ones.

You'd be surprised

Get out of my way Republicans

Nathaniel Garro ADOPTION ADOPTION ADOPTION A child at any age. They can make a great difference in a child's life.

What about my life? What will adoption achieve.

Adoption is a way to bring a light of hope and love to a child in need of a family. Adoption gives you the opportunity to receive the kind of love a parent receive from a child. If you don't already have drive and purpose in life a child can give you one.

Cristian Dinu You must be a man 18 and younger should not be having babies. The pelvic area is too small Alot of girls have to deliver by c-section. Most girls can't produce enough milk. 18 and younger DON'T HAVE THE PATIENCE, THE SELF DISCIPLINE OR THE SENSE TO SACRIFICE FOR THIER BABY.

Cristian Dinu Naturally a Boy as young as 13 have sperm tht can fertilizer a egg but tht doesn't mean he should be having babies in the 7th grade

you made me giggle :')

Tee I find it very interesting that things like boob jobs, dermal implants, piercings and tattoos can be seen as something disfiguring but is still widely accepted

Tee The people who do this because of mental health are at least considering the problems a child might have. I wouldn't wish some generic issues on my worst enemy.......even depression

its such a drastic decision,, not as simple as many of the other body decisions.

Tee someone could have a baby at 16 and they think its not as bad as someone getting sterilized at 20

@@angelbug people are entitled and spoiled

@@angelbug people change their opinions, shes still relatively young, lets see how she fares in her 50s, 60s no one gives a shit about old people, sometimes not even own offspring, but is still best for your mental health to have them, and to truly grow up (mentally)

I am so happy people who do not want children are smart enough not to have them. I would rather have people sterilize themselves then have an over full foster system

I knew @ 17 I didn't want kid's. Now @ 59, childfree and VERY happy. A lot of people my age are financially helping their grown kid's and/or raising grandkid's.

@@Quitarstudent shut up! And mind your business. I hate when people try to tell others what to do.

Yes 100% love my twins but it's not for everyone !

That is very wise

You dont even need to be a female to be a complete woman.

You can be a mother and not bare your own children. Honestly l find this discussion quite disturbing and degrading. İt's baffling to me how people do not get that you don't have to give birth to a baby in order to be their parent.

I myself feel the same way about my own life and the majority of women do end up wanting children, but this is a hateful comment. Women are human beings before they are women. To tell another woman her choices are wrong and to dehumanize her because she doesn't have children is not liberty.

"There are so many children who need good homes" Many people really need to think deeply about this. As soon as you put a baby or a child up for adoption they need a home ASAP. People always trying to use the adoption argument as a great alternative from abortion, but they fail to realize the importance and the urgency of getting a baby or child a home and staying at that residence. Human children do not operate the same way as a dog or cat, you just cannot place them from home to home and expect them to be mentally or emotionally sound. So yeah just adopt. There are too many kids that desperately need homes.

TripNBurp Yes!

conspiracyranting I think she meant, adopt a child into your family if you change your mind about wanting kids after getting sterilized, not to adopt out. Make sense?

"Regret sterilisation? ADOPT!" Well, no matter how many children you adopt, you are not going to pass your genes on that way... And do you think anyone can simply adopt, just as easy as buying a pack of chewing gum? No, there are certain criteria that must be fulfilled (depending on the jurisdiction). Probably for good reason. Most of them, at least. Personally I think that nobody should be allowed to adopt children unless they already have children on their own.

knrdvmmlbkkn Right, and the kids who would be adopted by childless parents would just be put in the already impacted and defective foster system. Great plan 👍

Is getting a tattoo reversible? Not really (sure there's laser removal, but lets be honest, its not all that effective for many) but yet 18 year olds are allowed to get tattoos. Is dying for your country reversible? No, but you can get 17 and 18 year olds in the military that can die.

A friendly KZfaq troll so what, it doesn't hurt anyone

HOW CAN I LIKE THIS COMMENT MORE THAN ONCE!!!!

"Is dying for your country reversible? No, but you can get 17 and 18 year olds in the military that can die." There's a lot of other ways to die as well. But to irreversibly die is hardly the intention of joining the military.

Your sister from another mister Exactly! You can decide to possibly die, but not to reproduce. Makes so much sense. *eye roll*

congratualations you can fianlly be care free it is so nice you where finally allowed to make your own descision!

congrats bud! your body your choice!

aww im so happy for you!!

This opinion is cringe worthy

Good oponion

They deserve ridiculed because they are too young and it seems there following a fad a trend they want to be free but that way of thinking is flawed because you can’t run away from responsibility.

@@kenshinscott running away from which responsibility? The responsibility that has to be reproduced first? No thanks.

@@misspratibha9934 When you grow up you learn that life has responsibility you can’t run away from it it will always be there, when your young you want to play have fun and be free to do what you want, but when u become a adult you have to give up this mentally and contribute back to society because you learn this world is not a playground you have to give back, and that means having children who will also contribute to society. They are too young and ignorant to understand how life works plus they are making a decision that only a husband and wife should make it should never be made alone and with someone your not married too as like many people they can and will regret it when they get older and they desire there own biological children. Every action has consequences don’t ignore this and pretend everything will be ok that’s wishful thinking and again shows immaturity. And why is this generation so spoiled that they think that they can overwrite what makes us human we all want children we all want to have a family our body will always gravitate towards it.

I am in the USA where the only option I have is the private route- and they always turned me down.

EB-87 what

I think you are talking about yourself,hentai addict.

EB-87 See this guy's comments are the manifestation of the motherhood destiny/instinct that we are brought up with to believe from early childhood. That women are destined to bare children. But for whom if not for themselves? That is the question that many folks ask themselves more and more and face backlash for that. That women and men can shape their own life more freely, not always in line with what a nation or religion demands of them. And that scares some people.

What the hell are you talking about?,reproduction is instinct for survival,animals reproduce,bacteriae reproduce,plants reproduce,and most of them are already more intelligent without a brain than the average eurobastard that sterilises him/herself.Religion,science,society and everything you believe comes AFTER reproduction.

After having with my wife my first child I decided it was enough and I got a Vasectomy done here in Mexico for free. It is a quite simple surgery and you get out walking in 20 mins with a bag of ice in your crutch and some painkillers. The doctor told me that if I regretted there was always the possibility of undoing the operation or to get some sperm from my balls with a syringe and a needle (Ouch!!!). I haven't regretted and I am quite happy I should have it before getting pregnant my wife to be honest. But ok life is still good.

yeah uh..the doc was BS-ing you. a vasectomy is only reversible for two years...if you've had it longer...you're permanent & there is NO going back.

And just imagine what their face would be like if you said it to someone who just had a baby xD

but there are reversible vasectomies and regular vasectomies. My husband had the reversible one soon after we met, we weren't ready to have kids and birth control did horrible things to me. Five years later he got it reversed, we now have a beautiful 8 year old who feels like the most special little girl in the world because we were ready and extremely happy when she was born :)

Kenna R. Not everybody wants to raise a child thats not their own. I personally could never adopt because i couldnt love someone elses child. But yeah its their choice. Someone being sterile doesnt affect me at all lol.

She's constantly bingoing them, I hope it's just that she's playing devil's advocate.

Meii Macca I think she’s just asking bc that’s her job, she wants to hear certain answers. She wants to see if they have thought about certain things

@@zoecarter8340 Devil's advocate, I did say that. You can never be sure though.

Some people call these attitudes "pro-birth." They want a certain group of people to reproduce, but they don't give a damn once the birth happens.

Its her job to ask critical/provocative questions, regardless of her own believe. Otherwise there would be little to no point in Making this documentary

People should be able to do what they want with their bodies but dont use dating humans to an over planet its a stupid argument

@@mariamchale8866 im pretty sure they are being sarcastic

That's true. I wish countries that had a birth rate of 5 per woman, and fresh water shortages would have the same thing.

Right? those selfish useless souls!

The planet is not overpopulated.

If you have children and later regret,you are the greatest disgrace of a living being ever to be.Not even the most stupid of animals act like that.

Chewy Praline I'm not saying you have to be a bad person but if you brought someone into this world and you regret doing so and you have to deal with them for 18 years there is going to be some resentment. and even if there is not, it is still a very unfortunate situation. ive seen this first hand. my view is not black and white but merely realistic.

Word!

I imagine that a lot of people have children that they love but realize that they're crap parents. That doesn't give them the right to be a crap parent but I wouldn't blame them for regretting it.

amber cotto if they ever did change their minds there are plenty of children who are already born or going to be, that they could foster or adopt

mme.lolabelle exactly! There are loads of people who regret having kids, usually people who either accidentally have them or weren't sure. Why not let people get sterilised

mme.lolabelle it's probably because they don't want a lawsuit if someone possibly regrets it in the future

Tate Mark There's no way they could sue over there own, concious decision.

Hate to sound dark or negative but let's be real. 1 in 4 of us get cancer, 1 in 4 of us get help for a mental illness (probably 1 in 3 of us actually suffer and don't say anything) 20% of mothers have a miscarriage, for all you know your child could have a deformity or debilitating illness that it will live with for the rest of it's life. The planet is over-populated as it is and will only get worse. Terror attacks are more frequent than ever. Bullying in schools is worse than ever. Countries are not far off WW3. And you want to have a child all for your selfish needs? Horrible humans..

We need more people who think like this because its not that we want everyone to be childfree or that we're forcing our opinion on others but there needs to be an understanding and communication and this is a very important point.

Ena Sim A gift you sell on ebay the next day

Gladys Mba I choked on my tea

Yes, girl!

Ena Sim lol if it's a gift then I want the receipt so I can take it back to the shop.

Ena Sim exactly. Gifts have return receipts nowadays.

I WANT to adopt. There are so many children in this world who have no one, so why should I put a child in this world only so I can say that he or she shares my DNA? I don't even want to think I put someone there, not knowing what the future will bring. Any child I adopt would have been born regardless and have a better life with me than not being adopted. I also have certain issues in my family I don't want to pass on.

Yeah Adoption is one way. Good point!

Yes adoption just completely slipped off my mind. Adoption would be awesome. Another life would get a great life given by adopting parents.

It would somehow sounds like an excuse.

And if I regret not having children, that's my problem do deal with.

Yes because raising someone else's children is just the same as raising your own.

Al yes actually. It is.

Al i mean, why not give that child a home? And who says it can’t be? Family doesn’t necessarily need to be biological.

Nae Nae absolutely agree ! Never understood why people wouldn’t want to adopt. Picture this scene *woman and her husband are crying thier eyes out due to infertility* I walk in with a new baby in my arms and say ‘look at this baby it has nothing and no one, it’ll grow up in the system etc, you can have it I’ll give it to you now. *so they lean in to peek at this kid, look at each other and go, Urm nah* and then go home empty handed and alone. ITS SOOOO STUPID! In the animal kingdom if a baby is rejected or it’s mother dies the herd will take it in... but with humans? Nope. Nothing. They would rather let their own species be left out in the cold because it’s not ‘theirs’ Ridiculous 🤦🏻‍♀️💔

Jodie Gills exactly! It’s so weird to me because a human is a human and there’s nothing wrong with that. You need to work with what you have ✨

It's not impossible. Call elon and ask him to have the Nutcracker preformed on his spaceship. There see. You're welcome.😁

Katie Redfield because there's such a thing as ethics.

If someone doesn't want a child.. they could give it up for adoption, that's where she gets it from.. but other than that if people are opting for sterilization because of health or mental reasons than it's best not to even a have a child and risk that child being neglected or abused.. or killed because they were unwanted.

Katie Redfield they want the NHS to pay for it

Even most people who want children badly, don't make good parents...

yes they can be allowed as long as the NHS does not pay for that fair enough

Nici Mastropasqua her wanting it to be paid for by the NHS is wrong

Yeah why are pregnancies paid by the NHS? Or should people with a certain life choice only be helped? Sterilising someone is much cheaper than dealing with a pregnancy and the child after.

Davina Elgazzar amen bro!

those ideas do infect and affect society, so it does end up affecting me this type of freedom is a race to the bottom

***** I'm more talking about those trying to push social changes to get their fetishes accepted

Hopefully you may be able to travel later on when the children are older? Hugs. xx

It's the ultimate taboo isn't it . Plenty of dead beat dads but lots of mums who stick it out. Then everybody says "women never regret kids" noooo..... women never say it out loud

beautifulangel32 I think you have probably said what a lot of mothers feel but don't say !

Shit I'm so sorry ♡ ♡ brave share friend

So sorry, that you do not want children does not mean you can not love them if you have them, it just was not what you planned.

Well you know nothing about human beings then. That's practically all we do. Care about stuff that doesn't affect us

Speak4 yourself I don't got issue thy choose to do so,

Being a vegan I'm sure you scrutinise meat eaters even though they don't effect you at all 😂

Exactly, they don't want children, who cares?

everything always effects eveyrone... society wether we like it or not , works like that

This worries me a lot. I have a 19 year old & a 15 year old. They both don't want biological children. The 19 year old, yea I maybe could see her changing her mind at some point because she honestly loves kids but I still see it as her decision. The 15 year old though. She won't ever change hers. She fiercely loathes children & does her absolute best never to be in the same place they are. She isn't an awful person. She loves & takes wonderful care of her 2 dogs. She is smart & not prone to emotional outbursts. She just doesn't want kids ever. Why in the world should she be forced into either having them or being on hormones that she has a negative reaction when she takes them for 30+ years if she wants to have a relationship? It's madness. I love her a lot & she has so many special gifts but a maternal instinct is not one of those gifts. I don't need grandchildren because I Goddamn refuse to put any want I may have over how they choose to live their lives. Who does that? Telling them "you'll change your mind" is the same damn thing as telling them "I know what's in your head better than you do." As much as everyone thinks everyone feels the same things, that just is not the case. If both my daughters wanted to be sterilized, I'd have zero issues with that. If I as their mother have no problem with their decision, how can someone who sees them for 15 minutes maybe a couple times a year have such a huge issue with it? As an fyi for all those "I shouldn't have to pay for your lifestyle" types, we all pay for each other's choices. That's the way society works. I'd much rather pay the small cost for a tubal ligation for someone that knows they shouldn't have kids than the benefits, school, therapy & possible prison costs of someone raising kids they don't want & shouldn't have had. The math works out much better that way.

mae eswards she’s lucky to have such a good mom

I knew I didn't want to have kids from around the same age (over 5yrs b4 having sex) and I've NEVER had a seconds doubt and I've caused three guys to get sterilized. One which I'd NEVER wish that on but it was his choice and he didn't include me in it (he was 20 without kids), and two others who already had at least two kids and didn't want any more anyways I just gave them the last push they needed. So apparently I'm a one women wrecking machine. Lol I'd LOVE to be sterilized but it costs FAR more, and I don't tolerate ANY injury as it'd cause me life long pain AND permanent nerve damage thanks to a rare condition.

Luckily for me, my partner was willing to get sterilized as I also can't tolerate birth control. So long as I could take one birth control pill I was fine, but they discontinued it and the others I tried make me feel God awful. Thus for about 6yrs I was fine and then I spent a couple yrs using spermacide, as I have a interesting effect on latex, I dissolve it. Don't ask me how, luckily I found out on gloves when I was doing lots of lab work as a undergrad NOT when I got pregnant.

Raven Pittman >>meet a man who wants kids

Raven Victoria Also they can adopt one

''was not planned, used a condom and was on birth control'' - Your daughter seems like she's a freaking miracle baby :D Can she turn water into wine ??

this is so powerful...

Well, then you're going to have a lot of disappointed men who are ready to be fathers and functioning parts of society. Go ahead, mutilate your genitals. I don't care. I couldn't care less if you converted to a man.

My English teacher said the same. She was the most amazing lady very strict yes but so very caring. She just had this motherly feel about her, i was so surprised to find out she never had kids because all the kids she has in her classes are her children. And i find that beautiful it still gives me goosebumps i miss her so much.

tbh though.. being a teacher will probably make you sort of hate kids

@@bxundxm Another basement dwelling Incel who will NEVER reproduce speaks out about sex he will never have.

+Dana W You XX's are pretty obsessed with sex,but still you are unable to recognize you were made to reproduce,can you? I'm not an incel anyway,but if I were,that wouldn't bother me much,and it should bother you either,unless you have a personal intereset in my life.

Technically he's right lol

Yes but only because they know better.

@@allybally0021 Same person that probably thinks abortion should be illegal but won't give woman the option to sterilize themselves. How does someone's body involve you.

When it involves the tax payers money, then yes they can have an opinion about it

@Black metal baby I'll come out of pocket for my sterilization of I have to so I'm on your side

@@kristianaambrasa8894 Less unwanted babies = less tax payers' money being spend in the future

I got you 💪

I’m from the UK and currently saving as much as I can. When corona virus is over I plan to see a private surgeon to try and get my tubes cut and cauterised. I plan on not having sex till the surgery is done. But if I do happen to have sex (unlikely ) I’ll use condoms. I’m nearly 26. I’m very excited. Hopefully a surgeon approves me x

In UK you can't adopt with most there illnesses. It's so hard to adopt here which is shit.

Soprie it's extremely stressful and difficult to adopt nonetheless. Add on the mental issues and health conditions it just makes approval even more difficult.

My thoughts exactly. Great comments!

Not everyone wants children that are not their own blood.

The perfect solution to many, many issues.

You are old enough, just take contraception , even with the misfortune of a broken condom there is the day after pill . We are in 2017 , really no reason to wanting to have these operations if one doesn't want kids . It's easy not to have kids nowadays .

Clearly you aren't very aware of how horrible all contraception (aside from condoms/abstaining) is for women. Let people be worry and problem free by making their own choices.

hormonal contraception is not an option for many women, the ones who can take it experience side effects. I would rather be sterilized and not have to deal with monthly periods...

Get the skills and do it or pay for it yourself then. No one is stopping you if you can afford it.

I knew a couple who didn't want kids then decided they did years later. People do change their mind.

Of you're monogamous, STIs shouldn't be an issue. Otherwise, yeah. Condoms.

Not everyone sleeps around

Why do people always assume people who don't want children are unfit to do so? I'd be an amazing mum, i'm stable, financially secure, in a loving relationship and grew up with lots of love and support, I just simply do not want a child, the same way I don't want a land rover, doesn't appeal to me or the way I see my life. People who do not want children usually put a lot more effort into that decision than some people who do

@@bunjitsu7046 i mean some may not want to and for some it could be life or death (especially if dying during childbirth is common in their family) And some can say that they are unfit either emotionally,mentally or money wise (like me) But yeah everyone has different reasons

True

@@bunjitsu7046 you are correct and if you are in a comfortable 💜 relationship then that's staying in your lane.. cuz you obviously know ur boundaries. I should have written that in there as well. I'm no hypocrite & im not afraid to say i had my daughter with her father but have always been her sole Caretaker 24 yrs. old and i remained single and Celibate for 10 yrs. My body is simply my temple of God and we were not together and i raised her alone and take full authority given unto me.. but im not ascribed to throwing you or others under the bus. We each should have accountability by way of what kind of fruit we are.. much love ! 💓💕

you say many like half the population hates their children. you need to take that number way down, like the number of women having abortions because of rape. these are rarities. you have no idea just how barbaric it is for a woman to even have an abortion. she puts her life in the palm of a blind man. look into kermit gosnel. and its not just him. he just got caught. there are thousands just like him. people who dont give two shits about you or your body. do we even know how many women die of botched abortions?? we dont because they dont get reported. do you know how easy it is for the abortionist to go right throught your uterus with those tools?? he starts removing bowl because he has just pierced the womb with and he doesnt even know it. he starts chopping away at intestines pulling them into the womb and out the vagina because he is literally blind going in and has to rely on familiar lumps and bumps that he THINKS is the baby. did you know these doctors wont even send these women to the ER because they dont want unwanted attention brought on the abortion clinic?? this is just the tip of the iceberg. it gets A LOT worse. there are things these people do to you that you wouldnt dream of in your worst nightmares. do you think all this is worth killing a baby when you can just give her up for adoption?? you probably do. but at least i tried

Stacey Rose -Ouch!

Stacey Rose what is that?

A zipper

Yazmine Cristina its when youre zipping up your pants and a bit of down there may get caught in it. its awful, really.

pεαςh_pαηdα ʕ0ᴥ0ʔ same!!

EXACTLY. thankyou. One doesn't magically become a good parent when they see their kid.

Well, it is biologically speaking the only reason we are ever born. But that´s that, a lot of people don´t want children and taht is perfectly fine. But adopting and having kids of your own are two completely different things that should not be compared with each other, because it doesn´t work.

I think you said it perfectly!

biologically the only reason? Oh, where'd you go to consult biology on it's motivations? Ohhhh, evolution, plain common logic. If you don't breed, your genetics get dropped from the gene pool, right? Yeah, except my brother and sister both bred and their genetics are my genetics so my genes ARE still in the pool. What's not in the pool is the flawed offspring of a person who categorically does not want to deal with babies. That's not a bad thing. As to "purpose of being born" it's pretty limiting to suggest we're on the level with adult moths, here to spawn and die. Humans who didn't have children are often the ones who advance society because they're not tied down and exhausted. Therefor, sterile humans can very much advance the human race and it's place on the earth. Biology must surely appreciate the sterile humans in it's evolutionary designs, don't you think? Or do you think? Because this might be too complicated for you to follow. Sum it up: not breeding means more working means great value means important too.

anar kiszt lol you sound bitter 😂😂

Sofia Bravo No, they don't. Where on earth did you get that from?

Not if the consequences are at a cost to everyone else. Do as you are told.

@@SB-dx7kb I am not angry. I just believe government policy needs enforced. I see the game you are playing putting yourself against the authorities.

@@allybally0021 someone not wanting children does not effect you. There are millions of other people having multiple children.

@@whisper4367 I had never thought of that. Now I am a changed man.

She sounds wonderful

Aww

Xara took my answer! 😁 Im glad you had a cool aunt!

I think I might be his kind of aunt!

what an amazing story thanks loved it and very moved

I agree. I prefer mild comments myself.

Same!!!

Laurie Mack Because people just LOVE CONTROLLING OTHERS, BOY HOWDY!!!!!

Because for some limited minded people any choice outside the "norm" as they define it is inherently hard for them to understand.

Yeah, I don't want any crotch spawn either. I knew at age 17 I didn't want kids. 21 years later, I am happily childfree. I spoil my niece and nephews, but I get to come home and unwind without screaming at kids to stop fighting or clean up messes.

+Low Fidelity it has nothing to do with controlling . Doctors are worried of being sued by these people if they regret . People are not cats after all , sterilizing humans is something weird , hitler used to advocate that . There are so many way not to get pregnant nowadays . It's crazy to ask a doctor to remove a healthy organ from your body . That doctor will be worried of being sued .

Laurie Mack What’s so hard about telling your mate to put a condom on

There's a video on KZfaq a woman got her tubes removed completely & 5 yrs later, she got pregnant.

Jade Beau we are way too overpopulated but I agree with your other point

Jade Beau this is sooo true!! Couldn't agree more with the first statement, they don't need an excuse.

Jade Beau Too bad a lot of people think that that's a woman's sole purpose. Though most wouldn't admit they think that way.

As it stands now, the worst people are outbreeding the best people (dysgenics).

you made me laugh at ' spawning kids' hahahha

Pregnancy and motherhood is such a huge huge commitment, I suffer from anxiety and pregnancy has increased my anxiety drastically, it's difficult at times no matter how much you love your child or are happy about your decision. People should definitely be able to make their own decisions and choices, sterilisation should be a more available option.

honestly

They probably want to see more Brits being born and fewer births among arabs.

not really the high IQ races are not rising in fact they are decreasing while the low IQ races are pumping out off spawn at an alarming rate

The native European population isn't rising, it's shrinking faster than anywhere else. White people are a minority, it's only in predominantly and third world countries that the population is increasing, the most civilized places like Japan and western Europe are seeing fewer births every year and an ever increasing migrant population.

+Roll Fizzlebeef actually whites are not a minority maybe in some major cities tho. we have also colonized America, Canada, south africa, new Zealand, Australia etc and millions or BRITs millions or Europeans moved to the new found land what is today USA. with a massive growing population smart folk will be hard to find.

Actually white people make up less than 8% of the global population, white people are a minority compared to other races - European birth rates are still declining.

+Roll Fizzlebeef There are different shades to color, for 8% of the worlds population we have more land mass then colored folks, we have the largest countries. And that 8% is taking it too far! You made a mistake by firstly comparing one race against every other race! the number would obviously be higher when comparing to a greater overall population of mixed demographic. I've also been to places where all white, brown and black mix! but you only see in black and white -_- so i guess your numbers are gonna keep dropping. lol.

My thoughts exactly

beckerkorn1 it can damage other necessary organs dumbass

Ana Morgan lmao what organ does it damage? Literally nothing

beckerkorn1 why do people care so much about what others do? Its getting so old really

@@dianamorgan1590 yeah i wanna know what other shit it can fuck up.

beckerkorn1 The interviewer asked her what she thought about people with mental illnesses and their fear of passing it on to their children and she completely ignored the question

In addition, if that unwanted child is raised by people who hate it, the general public are going to pay for that child's mental health counseling for decades. That is also going to be expensive.

I never wanted kids either mainly because I hate the idea of giving birth. Anyway when I was 27 I told someone that and they said I was a complete weirdo! I have a problem and was told I was never going to get pregnant but now I am at 32. I don’t agree with abortion but that just because of what I seen happened to my family members doing that. Anyway am having the baby but in all honestly if I never fell pregnant it wouldn’t of bother me. And if someone feel is strongly than they should be allow to do what they wanted to do xx

Funny my 13 years says she doesn't want kids and has for years. I'm ok with it. It's her life. If she's happy, I'm happy

Marie lisa You're a good parent. Too many people demand grandchildren from their kids like it's a god-given right. I'm so glad to see so many parents starting to respect their child's choices as they grow :)

I really don't understand the way the Brits call it "falling" pregnant as if being pregnant is an illness. America just says "I became (past tense) and I am (current tense)" so I don't get why they say fell. Getting pregnant isn't an illness.

@@fireflights1977 It is just a saying chill out lol

She has me asking myself, did we just become best friends?!

Yes because being a space ballerina is something very attainable and giving up on it is a real heart-wrenching and life-affirming decision just like choosing to never be able to have kids.

What allowed you to get it so young? Did you just get lucky, was there health issues, etc?

I just wish there wasn't such a huge upfront cost..

Exactly!

Cam Cam right

Yazmine Cristina that's a stupid thing. What's the point sterilisation if you are going to adopt, the whole point is that you don't want kids.

Mademoiselle De La foret In case they do regret it

@Mademoiselle juust because your own body cannot produce a child doesn't mean that one can't love an adopted child. Those aren't mutually exclusive

Masha G people who say they are certain they don't want kids and get sterilised would not adopt kids because the "main" point is not wanting to have kids. But unless they do regret they could adopt one anyways

May the lord open

🤣🤣🤣

Dannika Moses same

Dannika Moses nah it's more like, you're leg doesn't work at all and it's just useless so why not remove it?

Dannika Moses ill get you pregnant ive got a little man sword but a big arse and im probably firing blanks but i dont mind putting in the hours of gruelling work 😲👍

I'd honestly rather sit on a chainsaw then roll myself into a cactus patch and bathe in lemon juice

Nilbog what are you talking about?

Hi breeder!

I'm surprised that adoption wasn't brought up Excellent point

adoption is extremely expensive and can take years

Further Into The Rabbit Hole I understood where you're coming from but it's getting easier every year for people to adopt. The whole point is that people have choice, some people who are completely fertile choose to adopt; it's simply about giving people freedom to do what they want to their own bodies and how they want to raise a family, if they even want to raise one. 💕

I find it quite sad that 1 in 7 couples struggle with infertility and would give their left arm to have a child, and end up spending thousands on fertility treatments..yet there are others who make themselves infertile on purpose and abort their babies. Why cant the ones that DONT want babies be infertile? Life is unfair like that..

you had the chance to make a comment agreeing that people should have a choice, instead you go the eugenicist route this documentary promotes of removing peoples organs based on disability... So nice when disabled people decide on their own they are inferior huh? but i know you ignore forced sterilisations of disabled people anyway...

@@thisbunnyquestionspsychiatry its still their choice no one is forcing them....why reply to a 2yr old comment ...just write your own comment next time instead of wanting attention so damn bad

@@m0nr0emisfit Must be nice to look like the good guy while promoting the idea that disabled people should be sterilised. Yes nobody EVER forces disabled people to be sterilised NEVER HAPPENS, completely their choice every time, no coersion! There is no forceful sterilisation happening to disabled people globally.. (And i did write my own comment before)

Another reason why I was sterilised not just on health grounds but also because abortion would never be an option for me, the child also has the rights to its own body

LOL and they complain about the CF asking for a sterilisation procedure which is much cheaper than those things in comparison.

I know like it's literally a fraction of what we pay every time someone goes into labour regardless of all the other expenses that the state pays for when raising kids.

apparently anyone who doesn't have a baby, including gay people, naturally infertile people, physically or mentally disabled or ill people, people who don't want or haven't been able to get a partner, people who have traumatic associations with sex or even shitty people who would abuse their child anyway are inherently inhuman and wastes of space and precious taxes because they're not contributing to the already surplus population.

Who pays for all that? For parents who don't live in a socialist country, the answer is "I do." I pay for my medical costs, I pay for my kid's education, I pay for childcare, and we don't have "child benefits" here. I am not financially burdening anyone but myself...Sounds like your enemy is more with the welfare state than people making personal decisions about their families.

Ash seriously? How is it in any way your responsibility if someone can't have children? Of course it must be hard on those women but as you said, how would you having a child that you don't want help them?

That's the logic people who simply don't want children get. They get this guilt-trip that just because someone who was born sterile cannot have kids, people who desire to sterilize themselves should make the most of their reproductive system as it's a 'privilege' shared by those with healthy functioning reproductive systems have. It's bullshit. Just because someone would give anything in the world to have an offspring by blood doesn't mean people should feel they have to reproduce. Life's unfair ppl. Better rip that bandaid off sooner than later.

Ash - you know your own mind. I was the same as you at 27 absolutely certain. Now I'm 42 and it's no longer possible for me due to an emergency hysterectomy at 40. Really regret not having children now and the choice is now gone. Whatever you choose in the future I wish you a wonderful and happy and fulfilling life. Best wishes x

Sunny Days why not adopt? Your young enough.

Sunny Days you left it to 40 and didnt have kids, putting yourself in a higher chance of having a child with genetic abnormalities. And now suddenly you "regret" it after 2 years of not being able to. Bullshit. And if you REALLY do, then adopt.

"It is their body and if they regret it then it is their regret, not yours." Until they successfully sue the NHS for maltreatment and receives a settlement of hundreds of thousands from tax payers' wallets.

xColdBones It's all about their own bodies until you sleep with the wrong person and get a cocktail of STD's because they think sterilization will allow them to go have sex without protection.

Rachel Cox- I agree, ppl hate when other ppl do something to their bodies such as plastic surgery, a trans person transitioning, abortions, or sterilization. I never really understand how is that any of their business, it's not even their bodies. Just because ppl can reproduce doesn't mean you should. It's obvious that these don't want to bring mentally ill children into the world to suffer and spare them from the pain that it would likely be passed down. I don't understand why in the hell would you want mentally ill ppl to reproduce specially after suicides and massive shootings going on.

People are triggered. Someone has a kid young and it’s the end of the world ! Someone doesn’t want kids ever it’s the end of the world ! Society has ridiculous expectations. Do what makes you happy that’s what I say !

Thé funniest thing is that people who say “some people shouldn’t be allowed to have children” are almost always awful parents

@@jaceyjacobs4013 Tea!!!!!

Rachel Cox very true this is a pro life choice if you ask me! way better then an abortion!

Right Haha I think fertility is a gift not everyone gets BUT that doesn't mean everyone should want kids. ...no way. I think it's good for these people to take responsibility and choose sterilization. But really it's their choice

Fertility is natural is normal, we all have kidneys, for somenes do not work, then my kidney is a gift too? 🤦

fertility itself is NOT an organ you cannot compare it to the ABILITY to hold a child safely in the body. When women cant have a pregnancy their organs are NOT failing . Please be more sensitive to this issue

Catalina Suarez v. I do think if both your kidneys work that is a privilege. You shouldn’t take good health for granted. But fertility can be a curse for those who do not want to get pregnant. Being on birth control for the entirety of your reproductive years is not fun

@@SuperFosterMom exactly life is a gift . All of it but not everyone is fertile and that's ok . Fertility is a gift for those that want it

people ask my mother all the time "it doesn't bother you that she won't give you grandchildren?" i think it's the concept that you'll always be your parents baby lol

There are plenty of people who have this idea that it is your duty to "GIVE" your parents grandchildren, and people in older generations have been taught that having grandchildren is part of a fulfilling life.

Yeah...when someone comes out as gay, it's "sad" that they can't produce biological kids for their parents, but it's not sad when a straight couple can't have kids at all.

It absolutely is sad when straight couples can't have children, what are you talking about?

I never had any kids and I'm 54, but I do like them. I always loved entertaining my cousins kids, but I just like my freedom from them too much.

Ingrid Morbid I'm 34 and I have never had even an inkling of desire to have children

I knew since I was 11 that I never wanted children. I watched my sister grow up and saw all the work it takes to raise a child properly which only further confirmed I never wanted kids. I think it's messed up that out here in U.S. you have either be a certain age, have kids already, or have a medical condition to become sterile. What about a woman's choice? The ability to become sterile should always be an option.

That's because it's a societal norm that people feel to a certain degree that you must have to have a baby. This might due to religious beliefs since certain religions put too much emphasis on people having kids. I'm in the same boat as you are. Ever since I was young (like 5-7 years old) I never wanted or even liked kids. I always thought that their way too much of a headache to deal with, and how can parents deal with them and want more kids.

Same here. Everyone always said "you'll change your mind" and guess what, I'm 35 now and I haven't changed my mind.

That really pissed me off, not everyone wants children and people need to respect that.

Yeah, she never smiles where a normal person WOULD.