God also places us into a narcissistic relationship to strengthen us for spiritual battles. Like a sword which is purified 7 times for battle. It's a super power and without it - the armour of god is not as effective during our encounters with the evil from high places in the modern world. Thank you Paula and you might not fully realise yet, how much your videos are helping Gods children fight back in these days ❤ Our salvation can only be through the messiah - Jesus Christ 🙏

I drew my spiritual sword against my malignant narcissist mother 4 years ago, when I was 56. It took me 5 1/2 decades, but I finally reached that point when I'd had enough! She did something so heinous I could no longer make excuses for her behavior. Something deep inside me knew that she would never, ever change. At that moment, I knew I had no other option than to walk away forever. It's still sad to me, but I am finding my peace!

I feel like Remy knows his presence is soothing to some of us. Unconditional love 💕

You can't learn more about humanity and your intrinsic value until you've been completely shattered and broken whole by someone who separated from humanity.

I drew my sword after i cried out to God in my bedroom ( we had separate rooms) he was extremely abusive verbally and threatening to ruin my property and take from me everything I worked hard for. I knew I could was dealing with demons through the narc and that I had to stop this. That night i took my freedom and he was arrested and removed. From there im moving fast, no contact and feeling like I got back my life! All the Glory to Jesus ❤️thank you Paula, I have been steady watching your videos and its so good to know how to navigate through the mess they made. But i feel positive and sleep so well. An evil entity (s) have left!

Paula,I simply admire the way you dwell on the spiritual aspect of narcissm,keep it up 👍👍

I realized I was tortured from a very early age. It has been really difficult to accept. Grieving my life as a scapegoat. Your talks are excellent Thankyou 🙏

Your low self-esteem is The narcissist's dream

He never gave me compliments, but critized. For example, i bought a nice skirt, and he told me, I didnt have nice enough legs! I felt terrible. Iam skinny and cant gain weight as im constantly under stress. I believed him that maybe I did look terrible showing my legs. He never touched me or consoled me when I cried over missing my kids and would blame me for them nit calling me. When the truth is my children hate him and saw his alcoholism and how we fought. Its been a nightmare for over 20 yrs. He's robbed me of a life and wants me to die. I have wished id die. But today its day 5 i got him out of my house due to his alcoholic and narcissistic abuse. I had to call police and i will never let him back! Im getting a Peace Bond and I ve never felt better with him gone. I feel good and haven't cried.

I drew my sword after weeks of devaluing behavior. He left the room to check his “Likes” on social media. In those few minutes he was on the computer, an inner voice told me, “Just leave. Just walk out. You don’t even really like him.” I said out loud in a very pleasant voice as I walked down the hall, “I have to get going now”. He followed me out to my car, saying he loved me. I pleasantly said that I loved him too. (I was just trying to pretend all was well) I got in my car, drove home, blocked him. Never saw him again after that day. That was 5 years ago. Of course I experienced Hoovers that I ignored . I didn’t know what he was or what full no contact was at that time but, when I experienced an unexpected Hoover, I blocked that avenue. I have been in full no contact regime since then.

I left the Narc 14 years ago. Haven't dated. Was doing quite well until about 6 years ago when extreem fatigue set in. I've been a giver and server all my life and find myself feeling useless and having lost friends because I am not able to do things as I used to. I feel my identity is lost. It's a journey to find my worth when I feel totally unworthy. But, God is good and will bring me through.

My sword against narcissists is to put on the full armour of God and pray for his protection as I walk through the valley of the shadow where narcissists live…which is the world. To not have his protection is like wandering out into utter darkness. To have his light is to find your way out of that darkness. To have his light and a relationship with God is to keep narcissist or demon filled vessels away from me. I notice the difference when I don’t pray for God’s protection. It says in the Bible that the enemy is like a lion seeking whom he may devour and he comes to kill, steal, and destroy. There is nothing else that can protect you from these creatures. Resist the devil and he will flee. The name of Jesus, they are afraid of the name alone. ❤

Yes ! I had a Narcissistic Mom,and finally after 66 yrs. I walked away, now I live in peace, she never changed, I gave her, chances ,that maybe she would change and never did it became worst, so for myself, I had to walk away from her,now I live in peace, she was physically, mentally, abusive to me growing up,after 66yrs. I walked away for good.she was jealous of me ,but never treated my Brother's like just me ,the only Daughter.

I asked my mom once, “Why do I draw these women to be friends who turn out to be toxic?” She said, “It’s because you are too nice.” I am learning & your channel has helped me much! As a Highly Sensitive Person & an Empath I am a target for these disturbed people. Thank you❤

I made a clear decision to escape my narcissist mother. She came to my house and started with her usual aggressive behaviour. I told her straight, she couldn't behave this way in my home, and threw her out of my house. I haven't had any further contact with her since.

I've always felt a strong pull towards advancing humanity's grand pursuits, eager to harness the power of influence, unlock the secrets to lasting happiness, and safeguard our shared future. My drive isn't rooted in selfish ambition, but rather in a sincere commitment to making a meaningful impact. I'm endlessly curious about unraveling the mysteries of human nature, chasing after wisdom that has long eluded many. My goal is to honor the aspirations of our forebears by pursuing the knowledge they yearned for us to possess.

Remy’s presence is needed. He knows. Thank you.

Discovered your channel a few days ago. THE MOST helpful channel I've seen on the subject so far. Thank you.

Paula, You are such a beautiful person and I love watching your videos .. Thank you for all you do

I am constantly being deliberately damaged here by the Narcissist, who is my legal husband of 41 years and father of our five daughters. He harms our family all the time by lying about me to our children and other family members, which is very painful for me and also so harmful to our children, who deserve so much better than this. I have always tried to protect my children from his mental health issues, which are demonic in nature because he lies constantly and slanders and harms people on purpose, which he gets great satisfaction from. To see his joy after knowing he harmed you, is very painful and very hard to recover from. I am trying to be able to afford more trauma counseling. I really need this. Any Women of God reading this. I covet your prayers. God bless you.

Narcissists don't decide to become narcissists; it's not an option. It's a mental disorder. People should try to maintain distance within these individuals, if possible.

A month and a half ago, I set more boundaries because the narc was so intrusive to my well being and sleep deprivation. When I moved to sleeping in the spare room, i told narc, "When I'm in my bedroom, you cannot come in." I had to reinforce my boundries several times, which always led to anger and argument ----- all because i demanded my privacy, sleep, health and well being. I tnink the narc wanted me to resort to alcohol or suicide. Thats how bad it gets, and one just cannot function...

Ahhh. You are speaking to my soul. Christ consciousness is insane. I hear the Holy Spirit through you.

It's called The Door Slam. You know the exact minute it happens. They know it too. Maybe not right away like you do but looking back they know.

Ive just realized my ex alienated my adult daughter when she was a child. His grandmother alieniated him from his mother. And now im alienated from my grandchildren. Being with a narcissist has consequences

Unfortunately not being aware I was in a narcissistic marriage, I attempted initiating an amicable divorce so he orchestrated my arrest and i left in a paddy wagon. If only i had come across this knowledge sooner. At any rate, I am now free of this demon and truly happier. Just battling a protracted divorce, but that too shall pass

About 2 years ago I drew my sword but subconsciously. I see it now very clearly. I had cancer 6 years ago and survived. I know now he would have preferred I died so he would have gotten very rich from my death. I survived and changed as I stripped off the layers of who others wanted me to be. When he left me this year, he said he hasn't been happy since I had cancer. Whoppie do 😂 doing inner child work now to heal ❤❤ love how you provide guidance. Thank you

Dear Paula, I was done when my enter voice told me not to let him take me to his level. It is a strange time to explain. It is when all red flags are flying, your whole body is on high alert, and you know it is the end, the friendship is non fixable. I believe in angels.

That was a glorious teaching Paula! I needed that so so so much! Today was a painful day dealing with the narc; but God turned it for good for me by listening to you today! This is the beginning of me using the” sword of the spirit” to try again! I won’t give up! With God all things are possible!! Your teaching woke me up today and comforted me! You bless me a lot! Remy is so funny& cute! Keep these necessary teaching coming! God bless us all!🙏

When I had a dream where in I was in the narcs home, he had a beautiful tree in his living room, full of large beautiful red apples, he offered me one, and he cut the apple up and placed it on a plate and gave it to me, as i looked at the cut up apple on the plate in front of me it was full of worms and bugs!

My mother had NPD and I suffered emotional abuse under her for 26 years of my life until I got married to a man who also is a malignant narcissist.. I am 62 years now and have suffered for 35 years in this marriage. From the frying pan to the fire,so to say. Because of societal pressure and 2 adult children I am in a trauma bond. I so long to draw the sword .

Thank you Paula and Remy ! So happy to see you both ! Been 5 years now , thru the pain barrier and yes , life is so different , peaceful , found my purpose , joy . The journey is so painful but so worth it ! A new and shining life ! And I have my life experience , love and wisdom to share with others . I am so delighted to see how many subscribers you have now Paula , I have been following you from the very beginning, you are helping so many of us .

Thanks, Paula, after narcissist abuse, we finally know who we are!

You are the only person I have found that connects narcissism to spiritual issues. Thank you!

I started preparing to leave or heal us two years ago. I drew closer to God and received my prayer tongue last September. Praying in the Spirit is the BEST kept secret in Christianity. Little by little I e gotten stronger. I'm healing. And I drew my spiritual sword Saturday evening (day before yesterday). Things are crazy today, but I feel the power of the Lord raining on me and through me. He does, too. I'm believing for a miracle because I've never experienced anything like this before. May God bless everyone who reads this message. Amen.

As usual Paula your video was so accurate! Not sure if I drew my sword but I realised that she'd over stepped the mark , and she had overstepped it quite a bit. I was going to new york with her, She a few days earlier had told me she didn't love me anymore! I surprised her and accepted it without any begging and chasing, like I'd did often before! She then told me she was going to cancel the holiday (as she had her name on the booking) I accepted this too,stating that was fine also,but I'd like my deposit back that I'd paid out! I surprised myself how I accepted it without any drama. Deep down it killed me ,I was hurting so much, Even when she sent the deposit to my bank account, I thanked her ! She then asked " to be friends"😂 A narcassitic trait, I knew she'd never loved me at this point. I have a narcassitic mother and middle sister and always was put down, But I sub consciously knew this wasn't right! I did hope she would book another holiday, or beg and chase me ,apologising for what she did, This never happened and I did hope that she would. I'm not a spiritual person but I do think something in your head just eventually tells you that these behaviours aren't right! I'll never nw what she wanted from me as I am not well off , I'm no Brad Pitt either so haven't a clue ! I still don't nw what my life purpose is, But I am pleased that I showed her unconditional love, Unfortunately for me I fell for a narcassist, Nearly two yrs down the line nw I am so pleased I never wilted and contacted her again... It's a tough journey,but you do get over it, eventually!.👍👍👍👍

The pain is unbelievable, your so right.

Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand!

I love your videos and your perspective and personality. Thank you very much, Truly.

God tells us that we have one life ( Bible) and then the judgment . We have to know Him personally and intimately and the sword of His Spirit will cut to the truth of the plan He has ordained for us. There is peace and joy w Him and we will rejoice to see that God has removed the narcissist.

Being with a narc after the euphoria of the love bombing is like a dark cold muddy tunnel with no joy and when you escape its like dancing in a field of flowers on a mountain in sunshine and feeling hapoy and beautiful ❤❤❤❤

You seem to take excellent care of your inner child, which is so important for any grown person, no matter what the childhood wounds may have been. I think I've seen you making videos on 3 or 4 vacations now. Solo vacations are an ideal way to treat ourselves to our own insistence on self-esteem. For me, taking myself on vacation with nobody but me for company, is like a pure form of self-care and self-respect, even though most everyone might easily prefer, not to go alone. When traveling alone, it's easier for me to reach out for connection. Traveling alone is for most people I think, not even an option.

For me I drew my sword and stepped away after finding that the very things that were bothering me (including the way this person had a very sick hierarchical thing going on with people) others were treated like Kings and Queens by him while I was mistreated which was just sick! What was more sick is the individual tried to triangulate me by throwing it in conversations how he interacted with others which was vastly different to the way he gave me lowly treatment but he is the lowly weirdo.🤣😂 Hope you and Remy are enjoying yourselves but it looks like Remy certainly is! 🥰😍

By FAR hands down one of your BEST videos. Everything you said resonated with my being!!! Thank you! Our purpose is life is to VIBRATE High and SHINE as much as we can, it is NO accident why we attract so many NARCs into our lives. Narcs are like mosquitos. I've experienced narcs in my life since I was kid at home, friends and work. I walked out in silence from everybody, moved to another State, changed my cell phone number...now I am healing, exercising, loss weight, have a new apartment, became an independent contractor, recovered ALL my confidence in myself again. Things are just going GREAT! Forgive, Forget and Move-On & NEVER change who you truly are, our real/true nature is to LOVE, GIVE, SHARE, PLAY, HELP unfortunately they are those that ALWAYS take advantage because they are miserable.

I came to a realization when my ex-narc, once again, talked about his victimhood at work and having a 'terrible boss'. I pondered that with him and said out loud that it's amazing that one person can have a series of bad bosses. Inwardly, I realized that the problem was likely him. I stopped listening to his work stories - he loved telling me these in the early morning over coffee before the children woke up. Instead of participating in this routine, I started going for long walks. I probably caused narcissistic injury. But the sword was truly drawn when he announced his divorce to me a few months later. I really had enough. Regardless of who or what he was - a loving partner does not threaten divorce to gain control. I woke up then and decided I didn't want a mean partner like that.

Hi Paula😊 That video you have just done, will go down in spiritual 🙏 folklore. That was undoubtedly heaven sent and so are you. I have just sent it too Australia 🇦🇺 it needs to be shared amongst empaths..to gauge how far they have come on their journey. You Brough tears too my eyes, my heart ❤️ is beating like a drum..and I want the world 🌎 too know what a blessing you are. You Brought everything back too me that I went through and when you said about the Angels 😇 ✨️ it's true..I have met Angels..spiritual cats..and much more. Yes we need too raise the vibration of this sick world..and bring it back into Alignment with God and the universe. I tip my hat too you lady..for you are an Angel 😇 💖. Peace&Love&Light Namaste 🙏 ♥️

I drew my sword when I went to the doctor and my BP was very high. Already taking medication. He was visiting his family and I told him no, you cannot come back here. Its my house so his only place to go was his ex wife that he owns a house with. Yep, put up with a lot. today I would rather be in the pain of the solution rather than the pain of the problem. as soon as everything is out on Wednesday, I am going no contact. I will not die because of him. Thank you so much for this video.❤️

I recently had the " omg that's what they're after" monent. I saw the truth in an instant. I knew i was done. I drew the sword & said No. I didnt need to explain why. I saw what had been the plan all along. These coverts are super manipulative but my No saved me from a huge pit. All he said was "ok. Just forget about it " The result? Hasnt asked again but punishment in silent treatment every 2-3 days with a "hi, how you doing"

Hey Paula !!! You are so right when you finally find out the truth about why they’re really there !!! The truth came in the form of recklessly firing a firearm to scare me and after eight years I knew this person hates me wants to destroy me or wants me dead and I drew my sword and was done Completely!! Unfortunately I’ve been harassed and stalked and Hovered like crazy because we have a child so I moved and I’m working on get full custody and erase this person from my life

Oh it is so worthy to finally, really leave the narc. Three months now and it was hard. Still love him. But I love god, my child, myself and my life more. I rediscovered that. You (the narc victim) are worthy and needed in this world, too! And Narc Con, your channel is really the most helpful in my healing journey. Nobody can sum it up so well said as you, and so calm, so lovely. Thank god for you.

Ahhh, thank you for the holiday. My sword came out after 25 years...he no longer needed me for money, childcare, housekeeping, affection, but I did the old reverse discard. Not to discourage anyone, but just recently I've completely come through the "pain barrier" due to flying monkey effects. Every day is a triple day of happiness, just like you said, Paula. PS. Couldn't see the Remy beach stroll tho😊

You've just described exactly the last year of my life! I drew my sword in November last year and the wrath of the devil itself has been unleashed on me by my ex narcissist partner. I knew something was 'wrong' as she discarded me, so I immediately filed for divorce. Its been 6 months of total hell since. Horrific. But the fact you have described this predictable behaviour so well just goes to show the narc is just a predictable mask of nothingness. You are brilliant.

I met someone where I subcontract and see often. He said he wanted to go for a walk but after two weeks, it never took root. I would text him and it would take a long time to get a reply. Then he said he had to go out of town at the next attempt to schedule a walk. In the past, I would take this kind of garbage giving someone the benefit of the doubt. However, now I cut it off on the spot the moment that off feeling starts coming over. You cannot put a finger on it but it is a gut feeling that causes anxiety and self doubt. I texted him early this week after he didn't respond again and said I didn't think he seemed that interested in communicating on a regular basis and so I would not bother anymore and be safe. He wrote back and said he had just been busy and that was not at all the situation. He quickly tried to act like nothing had bothered me and dismissed it. Then texted that hoped I had a good weekend and be safe. (mirrored back my words). I never responded again. Then a feeler came two days later with one sentence that Sunday was a good day. Nothing else. I ignored it and deleted his number and blocked it. Then Monday he acted super animated and sweet asking all kinds of questions as I checked out in the store and I never made eye contact and distanced myself completely. He knew it was a done deal. He still has tried throughout the week to make conversation at work but I don't engage and am only professional and never ask him anything in return. There is a few other workers that I have done this same thing to based on seeing weird behaviors in them. I won't even let them get close or talk to them if at all possible. I have learned to run and although they are everywhere, I just accept this and don't let it effect me. I am tired of toxic people and choose joy and happiness. No more settling or people pleasing. Thank you Paula. I have learned a lot over these past few years from you. ❤

I don’t know how I got the courage to block him and go no contact. He didn’t expect it at all. He pushed me too far and I just snapped and said no more. It’s like someone took over my mind and made me take action. The trauma bond is still present after 14 months. I fight it daily. It’s the worst experience I have ever been through and I’ve been through a lot

Beyond worth it! Sword 🗡️

Paula, what you are saying is right on. Everything you stated I felt. I drew my sword to survive the abuse. I had taken enough & realized that I had to fight for my very being & do the right thing. I rejected his ways. I faced a window of truth and realized that I was good enough. Called survival mode.

My husband was becoming increasingly crazy. One day the head swiveled and he asked 'what's the point of you?' I asked what he meant. 'Put it this way, if you're not at least pregnant by this time next year, I'm going to have to consider my options..... So that was my 'drawing my sword ' moment, after 12 years of being treated like sh*t.

For me it was a final rejection of their fake reality and a remembrance of my own truth !! It takes SO much courage , not because you are scared , but because you have SO MUCH investment and trust that you have to let go ! It's akin to becoming an orphan , because you have to RELEARN everything about yourself , and also where your place in the world is going to be as you move on . They were your guru , your belief system , you were convinced they had all the right answers and ultimately had your best interests at heart , DESPITE all the continued abuse ! You have now FINALLY WOKEN ,...and nothing will ever be the same EVER again ! 💪🙏❤️

Four years of giving the biggest part of my heart, understanding, compassion and patience. Watching it all - seeing eventually the truth, that I was a number, not a person, I was one of many, many women, not the only one. I accepted unexplained and undeserved screaming, rage, high pitched, screaming horrible descriptions of who they saw me as,...but I was never that - never ever was that person. The final and last screaming at me, because I called to see if he was okay, as I could see and felt his health was not good - mentally, food wise, timewise...He ripped my heart and face off for the final time, as I hung up mid conversation and sat numb...for days...in disbelief of his action...in shame that I traded my peace of mind, to care and call him, to be screamed at as if he was on fire with gasoline...I am grateful for this moment.... I never want to hear his name, see his face, know any thing...about this insanely traumatized person, that all they can give to others is ...trauma. Please everyone, be careful...dont waste this precious life giving to a person, who shows they cant see your beautiful light, cant appreciate you care about them..genuinely...Please people...know the definition of a loving person - they will never scream at you for calling them, they will never mistreat you. period. They will never mistreat you. period...that is the difference... Life is so incredible..so beautiful and so are humans, souls and loving people....do not attempt to SAVE those who harm you. period. You will wake up with that life spent on them....gone...

Paula you have a great healing gift. Learning about this subject has deeply changed my life. Many thanks.

Just as it was difficult to explain to others the pain of living with a narcissist it is equally difficult to describe the joy of living without them. It is TRUELY amazing. Every moment of every day is a treasure. Do it! Leave and never look back! It is what I expect it is like to be reborn.

One day i was just laying on the couch trying to get a grasp of wtf was going on around me. It was like someone or something yelled at me "remember who you are" i wasnt very religious until then i didnt have a specific denomination but i belive in a higher power and just trying to be a good person. It was one of the craziest things ive ever experienced. I wasnt afraid. i felt powerful. The best way to describe it is going into the "avartar state", yes from the cartoon😂. But seriously the amount of power i felt, the warmth , the knowing that everything was going to be okay and that im not crazy. It was something i will never forget and so greatful for. I essentially cut all emotions off and spoke pure unadulterated truths and told her i knew what she was and what she was doing. It was like the scene from the wizzard of oz when they threw the bucket of water on the witch

I love the comments…’I drew my sword when’ - We win by using the most sophisticated machine of all time - the human brain. Finally, enough love! In honor of County Kerry and this coach, let’s agree to name our swords - I choose LightBringer.

You do come out the outside and when you do belive me you will ask yourself 'WHAT THE HELL WAS I DOING WITH SOMEONE WHO IS SOOOO NASTY, speaking to young woman today whom has 2 young girls from an Narrisist, TG she never married him, he putting her through HELL and is TOTALLY TOTALLY heart less when picks up these BEAUTIFUL little girls, youngest just gets hysterical crying and he has NO COMPASSION, EXTREMELY SAD on ALL especially her mother to witness this, we gong to a talk on Narcissism (hope spelt right) which is on in Limerick on the 16th of May in Dolans on Dock Road in Limerick,, HOPEFULLY she will feel better for it, her Mum, my daughter and myself going as a group, ANYONE that going through this might be interested, I saw it on Facebook, THANK YOU SO MUCH Paula for this video and WE ARE ENOUGH 👏👏👏👏👏😊

What an inspiring message! Thanks a million 💕

I drew my sword against my mother 20 years ago. Recently, after meditation, I spiritually packed up the baggage she dumped on me and handed it back to her, with the realization this was her legacy, not mine. It made me feel freer. On a higher level, I played the role to help her see herself for whom she is. For myself I found my own validity and strength.

I found the process of separating the wheat from the chaff to be crucial. Outwardly, connecting with people in your life who fully support you, breaking with the rest. If you know me, you know me. If you don't know me, you don't. Let go. The narcissist's smear campaign will help you do this. Hand in hand, look inward and separate your own ego grasping for a solution, relief, salvation. I found that awareness of ego-grasping must give birth by stopping, taking a pause, connecting with my inner natural calm and listening for Truth that I attribute to God's actions in me. As I learn patience, God peels away the veils of ego and light comes in the form of God's actions and actual guidance. God is good all the time. We are not abandoned. Put on the armor of God. This too shall pass. Share with your trusted friends for the benefit of all! Blessings for you always. Thank you! 🙏

This lady needs PROTECTION!!! Please 🙏🏻 everyone pray for her, spiritually protect her!!! I’m healed from a narcissistic Abuse by just listening to her!!! God! !! God!!! 😢❤❤❤ I love her… I’m in tears 😭 please 🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻… ahh my God. God bless and protect you!!! Jesus Jesus God! God God!! God… oh God… God…

It’s soooo worth it to get to the other side! It’s like coming out of a wormhole in time and space where you feel elevated in spirit and bodily/mental vibrancy/clarity ❤. You appreciate yourself and the energy/ purpose/gifts you carry within. As she said, you are more protective of your gifts and you use them for yourself more readily because you are more aware of them and how you activated them during the narcissistic relationship. You are more attuned to life and you are more sensitive to the energy others carry thereby making healthy assessments as to whether to enter or swiftly exit before any relationship is established ❤🎉🎉🎉Kudos if you have made it HERE 🎉🎉Keep going and Don’t stop until you arrive For those on the way HERE ❤❤❤😊

Your dog always so relax, he knows that he is with the wonderful empathetic person not with any demon.

I drew my sword after finding out my ex was having an affair with my friend. That day was the most painful day of my life. I had been with him for two thirds of my life, he was all I knew. He was my everything. I felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I cried for a long time and went into a depressed state for a period of time, I realized I needed to get some counseling to find myself again ( I had totally lost myself). I found the person I had always been, I found an inter strength I never knew existed. I am happy to say that its been many years since I drew my sword and it was sooooo worth it. Life is wonderful 🎉😊 and I know who I am😊 This was an amazing video Paula❤ thank you

I told a narcissist I awoke one night to see a spiritual world. Even an angel with a sword plunging into a black mass. She mocked me. It wasn't christian enough for her. I said, 'I didn't choose it. It chose me. I've seen spirit as young as 3yrs old"

You are great at explaining things from the point of the victim thank you so much. I've been Narcassistically abused my entire life, and now I'm being gangstalked heavily.

TY Paula for all you do ,your amazing, love to listen to you ,alot of light bulbs go off ,and things I went threw ,so Ty .

I’ve made up a system to help it worked for me.the “can’t abuse me and expect me to snap up and be ok”I realized I had to fight so I made up this “protocol “ 1) acknowledge. We have to acknowledge the fact that we were abused. 2) accept. did we have to accept the fact that it happened this involves deep emotional acceptance. 3)morn. we must mourn about it in order to release it to cry and feel the pain. 4)move on.. we must move on past it. Otherwise we live in that moment always feeling not enough. It’s imperative to the soul to understand that it’s over the only one that can allow it to happen again is one self.

After that, I started the ESCAPE like a choreographer with the help of a close and wise Friend, Yourself and REMMY Paula, HG , and The Little Shaman. No one escapes without guidance. After that I was able to breathe again.

You ARE SO RIGHT ON THE AWAKENING STAGE. SOMETIMES I WISH I NEVER WENT OR SEEN IT. 😢❤🎉

Love Remy - many thanks Paula for his presence, and for your enlightening videos. We are truly blessed to have found you.

After 18 years and 6 children, I drew my sword. That was almost 40 years ago. It was a huge struggle, but totally and completely worth it.

I find the information shared very insightful. I have finally decided to draw my spiritual sword this morning. I have tried so hard for so long to make the relationship work. Enough torturing is enough. I draw the line without looking back. May the Lord help me on this new road I am about to embark on.

Was sitting at a stoplight on Forest Hills Avenue when I reached my limit. Let's just say I didn't win the popularity contest , but I gained such peace of mind.Content in my own skin and comfortable with my decisions. Calmer and less anxious. Thank you to all my teachers in this weird world of narcissism.

you have effectively put into words, you have really breath life into my subconscious knowing about what i have gone through for more than 30 years, thank God for your contributoin and work. i am doubly enlightened. grateful of beng out of the npd cage since 2 years ago. : ) all the best !

Thank you to you and to Remy - I laughed when I saw him on the bed. x

The betrayal is a very deep cut. It takes years and years to realize the depth of that betrayal. The real self and the values that are part and parcel of that self needs to triumph over the evil of the devaluation of the narcissist and misogynist. That is the very painful lesson that the empath must learn. It strengthens the self and the soul. Then you step into the light. That is the gift. I have found the pain lessens everyday but it is still there.

Thanks, I needed to hear this, got out of a relationship because it was toxic. But through it all I saw things that I needed to change about myself with the Lords help. To make me stronger for a purpose and future. Btw never knew that I had a strong light that attracted the darkness until I went through this!!

Both my parents were criminals and narcissistic I don’t know how I am still alive? But yes everyone is still enough. It’s child abuse passed on generations of it. Knowing why we want children and being conscious of raising them would erase abuse world wide

THERE WAS NEVER A DISCUSSION ON ANY LEVEL. GOD BLESS. DON'T GIVE UP SISTER. YOU WILL SEE ENOUGH. 😢❤🎉

I can relate to drawing your spiritual sword...I never saw it as that...but I knew I had had enough after going back time after time...No contact is the only and best way if you can...I am now reaping the rewards..feel me again, authentic and peaceful going forward...

I am turning 36 years in a month. I went through narcissistic abuse for 10 years from my inlaws. I didn't know then what I was going through but now I know. I resonate every single word you say, it's painful but it's worth it. I am very grateful to people like you and the Universe for guiding me throughout my life's journey. I owe my life to God. I want to raise my two kids in healthy environment. I am fortunate enough to have my partner's support. I have to thank him for being patient with me and not pushing me to do things I didn't want to during my awakening process. The initial phase is the hardest but then when your healing journey begins every little thing is appreciated and enjoyed. You will find joy in every small things. I can't express that joy and content through words. Thank you for making videos for people like me. Your are a light in this world ❤️🙏

I told mom how I would not tolerate her behavior. I was met with silence for 6 days and then she decided for Mother’s Day she wants no gifts no cards and a quiet day at home. I am relieved, and will not respond, maybe not for a long while.

I love this women!!!

He was breaking Boundaries and not keeping promises and I was able to to look objectively at the situation and say no in a way I’d done only twice before once pushed far enough.

Interesting. I use to feel mostly positive and experienced passing many angels. There was a subtle comfort and moment of acknowledgement of each other. Then after 20 years unknowingly married to a FULL spectrum Cluster B…now I see and sense all things. There are more dark energies than there are angels. 😂 Bee’s knees I remain a humble bee. Alone.

Sometimes it's hard to see the truth because it's so wicked and evil. It seems like it's impossible that it could be true but your gut won't let it go. It took me 10 years to get out and even then it was by the grace of God. I didn't know how to get out on my own.

Great video Paula, I'm free nearly 4 years now and I've been runinating and hiding away. I took myself off for a holiday to my older sisters and brother in laws in Portugal. They cannot imagine or comprehend the situation but I had my own Airbnb and had a little time to myself they kept me busy. They were very caring and and took great care of me. I got to walk on the beach in the sunshine. I'm just home and it's gave me hope to carry on trying to heal. A new perspective ❤

I got the information during a mediation ( outside) in a sort of download. Then I reviewed the last 9 years, and I was able to come up w/ numerous examples of her ( a friend) words & actions, her psychological manipulations etc. I determined to go no contact IMMEDIATELY. I instantly felt relief. I also got the Universe's confirmation that I was on point, when w/ i minutes, two prayer got answered. Mind blowing stuff! Love your channel, delivery & energy.

Thank you, I have been very touched by this video and got very emotional hearing your words, you painted the picture of my life in a way I couldn’t! I grew up in a dysfunctional family with narcissists parents and I let go away the good guys to get married instead for two times to narcissists. I wasn’t aware of narcissism. After the last marriage where I was discarded I went through such a pain acknowledging that I gave away the last part of my life, I gave away my energy, my love, my time, and been left with nothing. I am almost 54 and looking for a job….If I make it I will dedicate my life to help other people as you said!!!! Let’s spread the voice about narcissism because unfortunately today is predominant in this world.

Thank you ❤❤! I love the synchronicity in the cosmos, leading me here just after I said NO for the first time knowing that I mean it, No. I'll be 65 this year and working spiritually but the blind spot which is a blind rock just let me know that my father, my first boyfriend and later on lovers.. Til this one now since 15 years all were narcissistic 😭😭. I'm glad because I'm able to find out by dowsing that my last one is only 80 % narcissist 😂😂😊 so I picked the softer version.. At last. What a journey 🙏. Time to start celebrating life, yesssss Much love to all ❤❤❤

You are getting more beautiful every day. God bless you. This message is right on.

I walked away, but he came down with cancer, and with my empath heart, went to see him in the hospital with homemade soup. He was so rude to me. So I just said no more. I wasnt still in love with him, that ended before I left. But with my heart wanted to be friends. Narist dont care for anyone period, except themselves.