A person should stand up for his or her spouse when his or her family is wrong. Too often we allow our family members to trample over our spouses leaving them in tears, helpless & even suicidal.
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@RadhaKumari-vx1pi6 жыл бұрын
Ur wife is lucky to have you.May ALLAH bless you.
@shakira21375 жыл бұрын
Every time i think this
@na.jx75 жыл бұрын
Ma sha Allah
@almachinju2815 жыл бұрын
True,she is blessed❤
@zikrakhan28715 жыл бұрын
Radha Kumari Yes she is really blessed💞
@tyasquieretu4724 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@daydreamlol43268 жыл бұрын
some girls aren't just suffering at the hands of the mother-in-law also the husband sisters and brothers wife's just because the husband is too much of a coward to stand up for his wife
@fatehaali1067 жыл бұрын
daydream lol I agree, I seen you have the whole family coming after the daughter in law, and the husband turns a blind eye.
@laboniali5 жыл бұрын
Sarah Dunn sister May Allah (swt) protect u and u r son ! Be strong as a mother Marium ra. She raised her son all by her self ! Lots of love for u guys !!
@lovesunnah99195 жыл бұрын
@@laboniali jazakum Allahu khairan. InshaAllah i will always stay strong. Ameen x
@bajkhan18745 жыл бұрын
A man that doesn't stand up to his mother and sisters isn't a man; he is a #child.
@kf-lr1gt5 жыл бұрын
Yes ur right
@jamesgilcrease6868 жыл бұрын
if everyone took your advise it would be a better world
@M1s1nG7 жыл бұрын
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@nahidjahan26377 жыл бұрын
I agree....
@daniahasan33024 жыл бұрын
This is simply the order of Allah and the advise of the Prophet ❤️
@Tropicana3236 жыл бұрын
I’m not even Muslim but I feel this ! God , allah ! Whatever !!! Whoever this man prays to is a true God !
@munnamaz26625 жыл бұрын
Moni B R u Christian
@taiyabaperween30455 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah khair
@mechaman32875 жыл бұрын
I pray that one day hidayah will be given to you from Allah (The one and Only God) and hopefully u become a Muslim till jannah. Amin.
@misspamba15 жыл бұрын
Moni B Takbir Allahu Akbar
@mehjabeenmahi20925 жыл бұрын
You also you can pray to Allah..
@Steven_Rowe8 жыл бұрын
im a christian and I have to say mufti menk is the best preacherci have ever heard. He is funny and yet that is tue very thing that carries his message in a powerful way. Bismillah al raheem al rahman wa alieakum salaam Mufti Menk
@ibrahimawelle65188 жыл бұрын
Why don't you look into Islam more and come to Islam incha Allah may Allah (SWT) guide
@Steven_Rowe8 жыл бұрын
Ibrahima Welle i think about it everyday
@ibrahimawelle65188 жыл бұрын
+steven rowe thats good brother Islam is not like the Western media portraits it it's all about worshipping one God and thats Allah (SWT) and following the teachings of the best of creation the prophet Muhhamad ibn Abdullah (PBUH), its all about peace love and harmony its the inly divine religion, learn more about the Quran and the Sunnah of the prophet (PBUH) also watching these type of videos will help alot, try doing all of this as soon as possible because shaytan will try to push you away from it. May Allah (SWT) guide you and give you strength to to find the truth incha Allah
@jibril9038 жыл бұрын
+steven rowe You are very close to us brother. Peace be upon you. And when they listen to the revelation received by the Messenger, thou wilt see their eyes overflowing with tears, for they recognise the truth: they pray: "Our Lord! we believe; write us down among the witnesses. ~ Quran 5:83
@ibrahimawelle65188 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Tonin what are you talking about dude??
@simonfosu51096 жыл бұрын
I’m a Christian but I really love this man. May God bless you. Your videos are really blessing my life. Your messages are so educative and would make our homes and the world around us a better place
@zyotibubt87005 жыл бұрын
Assalamu alaikum Simon Fosu ! May Allah bless u
@idamaebennett99655 жыл бұрын
Yes me too love him his so realistic he keep it real
@adeem65734 жыл бұрын
That’s what Allah teaches in the Quran that’s true Islam . Allah is the true name of God the creator Arabic Name for God . If you love this mans talk you would love is Islam this religion May Allah guide your heart to the truth Ameen
@Pinkcandy7772 жыл бұрын
BE careful Stay close 2 Jesus no other false gods
@yro82 Жыл бұрын
Oh jeez. One cannot remark anything positive about another religion without someone of your same faith telling to tow the line…
@abdulkalam-no8cd8 жыл бұрын
like popcorn ?? it is 4am in the uk couldnt sleep and this just got me cracking up lol bless mufti menk ya allah
@abdulkalam-no8cd8 жыл бұрын
***** :ameen
@nailsbyreema3528 жыл бұрын
+Armaani Jinaaai Ameen
@jamilasalaam7 жыл бұрын
lollzzzz. .. i know wt u mean !!!
@mohammed.monsour7 жыл бұрын
+jamilasalaam a
@jamilasalaam7 жыл бұрын
mohammed monsour... sorry akhy, what did u say ?
@sharmink7 жыл бұрын
evey man should listen to this.. i have so much respect for this man. may Allah give u a long healthy life my brother 😊
@RaZoR7i76 жыл бұрын
Sharm's Kitchen First The Women Has To Be Good
@ayeshabegum37336 жыл бұрын
RaZoR Nick don't agree with you (🙄)
@bewisebecreative56386 жыл бұрын
Sharm's Kitchen True say. I Got married in Pakistan. Hubby has been in this country good few years but doesn't take responsibility. Been to hajj. But his still the same
@TracyAlanBridle6 жыл бұрын
Every so called practising sister should watch this too, then they may realise how hypocritical many of you sisters are too ;) Don't automatically assume this message is for us brothers and men only, this will be your own ignorant foolish downfall sister :(
@travelwithsuhail6 жыл бұрын
Sharm's Kitchen Mashallah '' and women's should also listen to him...
@mariaray76144 жыл бұрын
One mother but replace wife.. This brought tears in my eyes.. Seriously this is a mind set that needs correction
@vernessaluzinda40767 жыл бұрын
my first time to watch a moslem preaching but l swear his words are so motivational.why not subscribe
@unknown-vx2rs8 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah bless me with a son like mufti menk. AMIIN
@maaz2all8 жыл бұрын
Ameen ya rabbul alameen
@TruthfulPromise8 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@taherahmed89788 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@arshiyarafeeq39227 жыл бұрын
unknown Ameen summa ameen
@aminulhussain27515 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@josephcarey66008 жыл бұрын
I am catholic. My family from Lebanon. We have always been Catholic, which is why my great grandmother came here. In my opinion this man is respectable, kind, honorable and even funny at times.
@bilalfaiz32388 жыл бұрын
+Joseph Carey He represents what islam is about and hope it enters your heart to look into islam my dear brother. I wish you peace and blessings to you and your loved ones...
@pacifiquegahonzire57416 жыл бұрын
I'm Catholic too. but this Man is blessed with so much wisdom
@somnathbhattacharya16987 жыл бұрын
u r a great man mufti mank.....being a hindu i really respect u.....
@hyderabadikids6436 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel brother
@zeezia21746 жыл бұрын
xyz abc so try to convert in islam
@somerandomguy30376 жыл бұрын
zee Zia Brother let him just watch and learn we should try to give them knowledge about islam and they can decide for themselfs not forcing it upon them because if they have the knowledge then Allah (swt) will guide them if he chooses to and missguided if he chooses to
@kareemkhan-hv1yp5 жыл бұрын
@@somerandomguy3037 Agree fully
@zipwangui9 жыл бұрын
Very logical, very eloquent i love his message. I'am not a muslim but whatever he says makes a whole load of sense.
@yasminbanu54577 жыл бұрын
Thanks to
@Curly5675 жыл бұрын
What an astounding speech ....A must watch for every man...I am a hindu and honestly loved listening to him...
@naseemanaufal81574 жыл бұрын
Sister love you so much
@user-yo3tx7ud3s3 жыл бұрын
Kindly watch this video on KZfaq -(the throne of Allah mind-blowing by merciful servant )
@lolitarazdemarree97676 жыл бұрын
He is only Sheikh, Imam who has said something Important in Islam about women. He has shown that women are not a burden. While so many women suffer from their marriage as men always take women for granted and their punching bags. So many Imam could ve step forward with this issue which is the main, the main of the basic of Life and could ve saved so many marriages in their towns. Thank You so much Mufti Menk , you are genuinely good, honnest and touching.
@inusahshamsudeen95472 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you my dear Muslim
@sana-bz1gs3 ай бұрын
There are other Shaikhs who also talked on this topic like Shaikh Asim al Hakim, Ustad Nouman Ali khan...
@KumarK-sv7yh5 жыл бұрын
I am a Hindu-I don’t have religion feeling- I would like to say thank to Mufti Menk sir. Hats off you sir.It is a very good speech.
@naseemanaufal81574 жыл бұрын
Brother , join him , he will lead you to the straight path to Paradise. And Only if God ( Creator of Mankind , and all that is in existence in the heavens and Earth )
@MAWUTJOK6 жыл бұрын
I have watched a lot of his videos on facebook and here on youtube. This guy deserves a gold medal for he is changing the globe into a better world. I am not a Muslim but I love your messages. Your words are making changes in the society.
@boldavocado76734 жыл бұрын
I am in tears every time I listen to this, because my husband is the one like what you described in your speech.
@gusriaditasrik69228 жыл бұрын
i'm not from english speaking country and my english is very bad but his speech is very easy to understand. may Allah SWT grant him and us jannah. ameen.
@user-fj3jy5vi3x7 жыл бұрын
Gusriadi Tasrik wellah me too
@ryanardan095 жыл бұрын
Me three.
@sorayaassas57703 жыл бұрын
yeah true
@ImranKhan-yd3sq3 жыл бұрын
Aameen...
@TschikoDeutsch Жыл бұрын
Aameen
@BeautifulDreamerK5 жыл бұрын
I’m Catholic and I enjoy these videos. Any time there is truth, I am there 🙌🏼 this guy is a genius!! I’m showing this to my fiancé.
@mustafeabdi33644 жыл бұрын
my Allah guide you in Islam,
@rashidabibi52657 жыл бұрын
some husband's just like to stay away from their wife and kids 99.9% of the time on purpose, and torture their wife and kids emotionally with separation.
@tazb11105 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my husband
@blockglock61265 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my wife
@loukouroubarry45145 жыл бұрын
Very logical ,i love the message
@AK-xj2di5 жыл бұрын
These man will never will have sukun in his life.
@saraumarrasul4054 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this
@muniraalibhai67855 жыл бұрын
Never heard someone that talks so much sense and truth. May Allah bless you and your family. Your wife is indeed lucky MashaAllah
@S41RR9 жыл бұрын
This man is amazing its comforting to know a man of such great knowledge is exactly what i believe in too. May allah grant us all with pious partners with imaan.
@yalikhatoubarry77276 жыл бұрын
Thanks very helpful
@sR-nn7rh7 жыл бұрын
Mufti menk u are a gift to this world from allah ... Please do follow his advice his/her .... Masha allah
@naveeedd5 жыл бұрын
satish reddy Mufti Menk is what he is because of Islam. I am writing this, but I cannot assure I'll be able to read your reply any sooner. Coz death waits for none. It's never too late. Try with genuine intentions. Good luck, best wishes.
@shahnazakhtar92493 жыл бұрын
@@naveeedd there are other muslim scholars in islam,but they never talk about serious issues,they only care for men's sexual desires,respect,love,superiorty,taking care and for women only obedience and patience left,specially here in pakistan😠😠
@deepred917 жыл бұрын
I wish I could bring you to my house to speak with my husband. I am suffering so much.
@hoormusic8606 жыл бұрын
follow him..make him happy more.. try ur best..if it still doesnt work...leave him
@syedsohel64896 жыл бұрын
me too😢😢😢plzz pray for me also
@1purplekw6 жыл бұрын
Relationships are not one sided. It takes 2 to show respect & love. Watch the movie Fireproof, & Courageous. Read the book the 5 love languages, love & respect, and love dare, books. Work on these with your husband. Relationships take 2 (1 man & 1 woman), not 1 person to make the relationship to work. Treat each other as equals, for your relationship to work. Man must also put effort, time, emotion, care, love, into his wife, for the relationship to work.
@shakira21375 жыл бұрын
@@hoormusic860 it's not so easy for me to leave😑
@hoormusic8605 жыл бұрын
then try and try to make him change for good...
@faisalpattu9 жыл бұрын
What a energy this man has been blessed with. As always he is right on the spot. Ma sha allah. I like that ending note where he mention we doesnt need to know everything about our spouse. Absolutely right. Give them their space. May allah grant us understanding. Ameen
@fatmahqureshi70327 жыл бұрын
Faisal Saeed Patel will u mind writing the first letter of Allah with capital letter.
@ahmedhussein33666 жыл бұрын
Faisal Saeed Patel e
@srn99936 жыл бұрын
Look at the difference in the teachings of Mufti menk and zakir naik! I wish every Muslim, well not just Muslims, non- Muslims too follow your advice. It feels so good to listen to you☺️
@onetimeinvltd48665 жыл бұрын
My wife sent me a link of this video to me....😪😪😪!! I know she's going through trials,May Allah make it easy for her and me to get through this In Sha Allah.I love you Sweetheart
@firefly695 жыл бұрын
one timeinvltd: thtz sweet.
@blackbeautifulandsmart28494 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@redrose16638 жыл бұрын
He is really a real educated person..👍👍
@roman2891able9 жыл бұрын
Im a shia and i listen to many of his lectures. Just because i follow ahlulbayt does not mean i can not learn lessons and morals from this great man mashallah may allah bless him and lengthen his life inshallah.
@roman2891able9 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the advice on making Dua. However when it comes to great islamic scholars, you should know that that is a dua most of us use constantly when mentioning their name because we want allah swt to preserve their life so they can continue teaching all of us about the ummah of rasoulallah saws. Even if it is a fixed time, the dua itself shows allah swt how appreciated the scholar is and that is enough for the scholars to receive plenty of blessings(inshallah) just by any muslim making any sort of dua for them. However, I do appreciate you looking out and giving me advicd, I just wanted to give you my perspective.
@khayr19 жыл бұрын
You are shia and do you know the teachings of shia? It's in their books they hate the righteous calips. They curse the prophet wife aisha our mother. They call out ya ali instead of calling out Allah Shia is a not Muslim. Maybe you are shia by name and you don't really know about the fundamental teachings of shia but you should learn.
@roman2891able9 жыл бұрын
I know allll about shia islam thank you for being ignorant though. Me and this person had a difference but still respected each other and you come and be completely disrespectful. As fot aisha please research battle of jamal and find out why she went to war with ali and her own brother muhammed ibn abu bakr fought alongside ali. Come on if you want to debate ill go for days its no problem but as a shia i must try and unite all muslims so i watch other lessons and appreciate all even if we have difference theological conclusions. But unfortunately there are muslims like you who are ignorant and do not respect anyone with a different view. Even if you want to say we are wrong ok no problem your choice but atleast look at how the prophet pbuh treated peoole from other religions all with respect as equals in humanity as long as thry didnt try and stop his message. We both agree about his prophethood but we follow his bloodline just like the quran follows bloodlines from other prophets but no the lastmessenger allah doesnt choose his family he lets society pick the leader from his friends. Come on lets open our minds here and see the truth.
@khayr19 жыл бұрын
Tania K sorry if I come across rude to you sister forgive but it makes me VERY angry when there are sect of people mocking the prophet wife which is aisha the mother of all the believers and YET they claim we are Muslims. How can someone say understand my perspective while his perspective is mocking aisha peace be upon her. If you actually study shia it's in their book full of cursing and contradictions and worshipping imams Again sorry if this is rude but it's a fact i can bring evidence . No need to sugar coat it or pretend
@PersonWConscience9 жыл бұрын
Dont Worry If Allah accepts him, he is a Muslim. It is not up to you
@yasowaso9 жыл бұрын
A person should stand up for the justice for or against his spouse. Your spouse will respect you when you do that otherwise you will become a football between team spouse and team family members leaving the husband helpless and even it may lead into a bad situation but, when you stand with the haqq Allah will stand by your side.
@khalidanwary9 жыл бұрын
I love all of his lectures, he is the best
@wulynne Жыл бұрын
"A person should stand up for his or her spouse when his or her family is wrong. Too often we allow our family members to trample over our spouses leaving them in tears, helpless & even suicidal."
@B19B0Y18 жыл бұрын
Islam raised the rights of a women so high that the gates of heaven are under the foot of a women
@Rascal71023 жыл бұрын
Wrong under mother not wife
@TheDarthmom14 жыл бұрын
I have learned do much about Islam through listening to Mufti Menk. One of his videos showed up on my You Tube. I believe God is using him to deal with my attitude towards Islam. It has changed Masha Allah.
@roshanasukubhattu66264 жыл бұрын
Mashallah ur wife is so lucky She is so blessed❤️❤️
@mariemaryam70918 жыл бұрын
jazakallah khair brother! it made me cried a lot!😭😭😭
@minashishirota94185 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah! Mufti menk is my fave sheik. Everytime I want to destress and clear my mind I tend to listen his dawah, he is basing in reality with surah reminders.
@shezaatiq40789 жыл бұрын
MashaaAllah.... brother mufti menk Allah has blessed you with an eloquent style...jazak Allah khairun kaseerun
@Almas00108 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you Sheikh. Am currently going through this with my husband's family. Wallahi for no reason other than their jealously and Control (wanting to control me, use me e.g wanting me to do their housework, teach their kids etc). They spread false rumors about me, disrespect my family and ganging up on me anywhere they meet me. I don't feel defended/protected by my husband.
@saeharbokhari14247 жыл бұрын
Almas Mohammed i went through a similar situation. Allah will get you through it
@fatehaali1067 жыл бұрын
I understand, I am in the same predicament as you. So many men do nothing to put a stop to this type of abuse, they act like bystander.
@bewisebecreative56386 жыл бұрын
Almas Mohammed I do understand . I got married in Pakistan . How much I done for them. But still get rubbed in my face. I get used from my husband. Ones he get what he wants . E.g. money etc
@yasminmohamed89466 жыл бұрын
Almas Mohammed sis the same here after 20 years of marriage I don't feel defended or protected by my husband😥
@bewisebecreative56386 жыл бұрын
yasmin mohamed I put my foot down. Made changes. Etc. Did faced few problems. Have to b strong for your self and kids
@ambershafi36946 жыл бұрын
Mufti menkk sahib ...Allah bless u ...ur lecture bring comforts in our heart
@skbahati5233 Жыл бұрын
Thanks brother for the great work.We have too much to learn from you. The entire ummah is happy to have you
@KealaniAlexandra9 жыл бұрын
Praise God for such a powerful message delivered. Let all who have ears listen!
@emaansayedzada64984 жыл бұрын
Countless Respect to this Man
@rahamahabdul6304 жыл бұрын
I have the best husband in the world, Alhamdulillah.
@rubimalik48783 жыл бұрын
Lucky you
@rahilaferoze90993 жыл бұрын
Alhumdulillah sister. Allah bless you more. Masha Allah
@unaizakhan8387 жыл бұрын
may Allah bless mufti menk....wonderfull personality he has....
@aanafaani8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the awareness. Young married couples don't know their right and as a result they r not able to grow happily in their married life.
@hamidakhan71106 жыл бұрын
Mufti Menk is the best Lecture? Hope everyman think like that. May Allah bless you and your family this Dunya and Akirath Ameen
@azeemmohammeduzair18015 жыл бұрын
The whole world will be a better place if we just follow this man. SubhanAllah! May Allah grant mufti menk Jannah. Ameen!
@ashrafansari37725 жыл бұрын
Your words are as precious as gold. sheikh Your are the best preacher whom I listening to
@jfuzma18027 жыл бұрын
My husband doesn't care for me... his family is everything for him.. I am out of his family..
@haleemamoin78686 жыл бұрын
Jannat Jannat
@sunitasoniya65686 жыл бұрын
Jannat Jannat 😢😢😢 I can feel what you feel!
@halimahjedani74775 жыл бұрын
They are well seen wat they do is never forgotten...
@kf-lr1gt5 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT look down on u just be patient ,Allah SWT will bring u joy insha'Allah
@tazb11105 жыл бұрын
May allah punish all these evil nasty husbands including mine
@tyravanleer55933 жыл бұрын
RIGHT! What happened to privacy once you get married. You have to establish healthy boundaries with your parents.
@NM-ow8zk6 жыл бұрын
Muft Menk lsmail your a gift from Allah l love your teaching May Allah grant u Janatul Fridausi Ameen
@carolinamartins39699 жыл бұрын
I need a husband like him :) SubhanAllah!!!
@aminasljivic80613 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you sheikh Ismail Menk, may Allah help your words reach hearts milions around the world.
@mohamedgogo14384 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah juc got this when I needed it the most, may Allah bless this man in dunnya and here after..
@Arihaz20099 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, dear Mufti Ismail Menk, may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala continuously reward you with all rahmat possible so that you may continue help others, all the way. And may Allah also make many more copies of people like you so that more people could be helped to see, understand and go to the right direction. Amin. Salaam from Indonesia.
@ahmedshoba40294 жыл бұрын
Ma-sha-Allah. Am so addicted to your lectures.May the Almighty Allah bless you abundantly to continue guiding us n spread more sense to the world.Indeed you're a gift to this world .
@Yoemer949 жыл бұрын
JazzakAllahu Khairan for uploading, May Allah forgive us all and grant us all Jannatul-Firdaus. Ameen
@dinalarry96198 жыл бұрын
salam.. where can I find real man like that.. who can lead me and my children to jannah. i tried my best already to make my husband happy. but stil he hurts me. now everyday I suffered, no more laughter only tears.. I pray to Allah oneday he wil changed, may Allah guide him to the right path and if I'm not good for him may Allah send him someone who can make him complete n forget all the bad things he do. Ameen..
@abdi45158 жыл бұрын
wa alaykumu salam.sister am not married yet may ALLAH grant me a good wife but ,the best advice i can give is be patient sister ,this life is full of tests and problems and make more du'a .who knows may be ALLAH will give u an obedient and pious children who will make u forget your suffering.again this life isn't perfect every one of us has special task ,some have mental disease,some physical disease ,others have poverty etc.be patient sister and may ALLAH bless u and your husband
@Shugo4108 жыл бұрын
Salam sister, may Allah accept your du'a...the only thing I can suggest is probably pray at night..a few hours before fajr prayer. Hope it helps, I pray that my mom would have the happiness that she deserves as well
@jamilasalaam7 жыл бұрын
Dina Larry wa salaam sister, im so very sorry to hear your situation!!! I would not advise you to leave your husband right away, as all marriages have ups & down. Make duaa as much as possible. try counseling. . now if all that has been tried & you're finding no solution dear, then alhamdoulilah it is your right to get a divorce. May Allah swt help you both inA ♡
@ladyflabana79457 жыл бұрын
wasalaamu jamila salama true cc u gave here a good advice .she must not leave here husband .we learn by doing mistake.
@Islamis4all6 жыл бұрын
Dina Larry Marriage is a sacred and the first relationship between two human beings (Adam & Eve) created by Allah Almighty. Our biggest enemy the devil always tries his best to destroy our relationships, to destroy our and our children's Deen. Recite Sura Baqra every day or play it on a computer/laptop. InshaAllah Allah will bring peace to your family. Try to pray all five prayers on the right times and remember Allah by saying SubhanAllah, AlhamduLillah, Laa-elahaellAllah, AllahuAkbar as much as possible.
@quentinfernandez46736 жыл бұрын
He really has very correct and inspiring messages. Also very knowledgeable too.
@amishm14129 жыл бұрын
i dnt get tired listening to mufti menk mashallah
@syedahoorsabira18535 жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah. I love to hear the speeches of this great scholar. May Allah preserve him with health and happiness. Aameen
@ceesah328 жыл бұрын
Well educated video. Great reminder! May Allah grant Sheikh Mufti Menk 💖.
@fatmabahri13155 жыл бұрын
I am blown away .. beautiful 🙏🏻
@fatimakhatun23816 жыл бұрын
May Allah reward you mufti menk ameen
@kamaraosmansorie89823 жыл бұрын
Mufti is indeed a great Mufti
@fatmarashid32319 жыл бұрын
May Allah reward him :) proud to be Muslim
@fa2mrisho8 жыл бұрын
All Men should hear this.. Good advise.. jazakAllahu kheir
@tengkuroziah3316 жыл бұрын
Masyaallah- such a beautiful lecture.. Me and hubby loves your lectures. May allah swt bless u,Mufti Menk.. Aamiin
@likdlife88848 жыл бұрын
Honestly heart the speech of pure humanity al hamdulillah jazak allah u khairan kk
@shaheenkhamker52366 жыл бұрын
Every men should listen this
@lineagewarrior73789 жыл бұрын
Kindness is everything
@tehreem1419 жыл бұрын
Love the way you explains everything...Jazak Allah Khair
@btylove18704 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah! Thank you so much for the good msg Mufti. Allah continue to bless you In shaallah 🙏
@mp98117 жыл бұрын
Reproducing as popcorn 😂😂😂🙌🏻🍿🍿🍿
@zebafarooqui18537 жыл бұрын
sara ullah lolllz..
@natureloverloveforgreen99405 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 ROFL
@MrsRF-fq4bu4 жыл бұрын
That was hilarious 🤣🤣
@ishaniudeshika45292 жыл бұрын
I'm a Buddhist girl from Sri Lanka.i really respect his speeches and teachings.As I'm suffering alot from these problems,I forgot what is love is and how to feel love from husband.felt alone, insulted.my husband's mom gave permission to my husband that he can talk and keep his ex girl friend as his so called friend and can keep contact with her.she also told him it's not wrong to talk with females those who I felt and I saw who behave bad with him in messages (beyond friend ship).with her permission,next day he started talking to that girl, and message me telling I'm informing u that Im talking with that girl. My heart cried and I asked from myself "does he really respect me as his wife" even after this his mom says he is right.i m feeling alone ,feel to cry how he can disrespect me
@azmiyabadurdeen6063 Жыл бұрын
Are you alright now?😢
@Sas-rf9sy11 ай бұрын
No, he does not respect you. He has shown and proven that by carrying on with extramarital relationships with girls who he is not married to. You can choose to stay and cry all life by tolerating his abuse in the name of your culture and community or you can choose to divorce him and live with dignity because Allah has prohibited that the believers suffer oppression and made divorce an option. The choice is yours.
@aijazkhan83594 жыл бұрын
Yur wyf must be like a princess at yur home...Respect for yu sir.
@IqraKhan-wi5id5 жыл бұрын
Loved this video. I wish every guy should listen this.
@racelandangat39409 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your wonderfull advice. .may Allah swt. Guide us all
@xdieyana8 жыл бұрын
for men, if you don't really sure enough what the of marriage, or if you think that the women is just a disposal fun, or if you think that you still a child of mommy's dotting beloved son, or if you think that marriage is such jailed burdensome bond, if you think that marriage is for gaining anything ( like to have offsprings, or partner of sex' or if you think that marriage is just a ritual culture for publications. better for men to just live alone. so no case, no burden, no jailed no anything. you will fully freedom.
@yakubuatiku22758 жыл бұрын
u are true,may Allah grand us understanding
@sstaar527 жыл бұрын
im not being rude but no attention given to your rude remarks because what you said was either childish or selfish, when did i say that woman are for fun only or they are not to be respected? but yeah some of them they do all evil things these days like cheating on their husbands, curse on their own parents and worse of all keep their husbands away from parents
@rorydalmacio81837 жыл бұрын
Yakubu Atiku
@rorydalmacio81837 жыл бұрын
Yakubu Atiku
@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne77 жыл бұрын
You can never replace your "TRUE LOVE" husband/wife. So mothers thats how it is! Once you get a TRUE LOVE husband/wife its good bye to mothers!
@syedimtiyazhussain1125 жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah.... he speaks in such a good way Masha Allah...
@eramimam2367 жыл бұрын
I have been suffering from all this but after hearing your speech i feel relaxed
@janedias15015 жыл бұрын
I am a Christian...this message is so good..i have experienced the same problem..but he never supported me.
@janedias15015 жыл бұрын
But plz dont also speak ill about christians as we all are God's children and we believe in CHRISTMAS...LIVE AND LOVE
@godsownindia63204 жыл бұрын
@@janedias1501 love u my brother
@godsownindia63204 жыл бұрын
@@janedias1501 ☪+ ✝=❤
@hamzarehman35176 жыл бұрын
"mom you know what we do at night" i'm dying 😂😂
@natashabay5615 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you mufti, we need more men like you in the ummah. We need more dialogue about men & there mothers
@MohammadArshad-wc7ej9 жыл бұрын
Mufti Ismail Menk .... your speeches are truly amazing.... 😊😊😊
@sirinjamal8617 жыл бұрын
masha Allah good speech
@kylemichelle73246 жыл бұрын
Your a wise, kind man. Thankyou. I wish mainstream media would show this!
@WaddaniMedia0095 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you Mufti Menk
@ishratnarwal93895 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah....Very nice bayan and Everyone should listen it.
@julietplace25549 жыл бұрын
POWERFULL MESSAGE.
@gulsenbello17899 жыл бұрын
Juliet Place Just a question of Islam.....how many children did Prophet Muhammad sire?
@julietplace25549 жыл бұрын
am sorry, I don't know. am a christian
@gulsenbello17899 жыл бұрын
***** Thanks snoopysoleil for answering my question. OK....if Muhammad was aged 25 when he married Khadijah aged 40 in 595 AD, did Khadijah bear all 7 children? Isn't it unusaul for a handsome young man of 25 to marry a woman 15 years older than him? Have you come across this practice in the Islamic Sunnah & Ummah....men marrying older women after all this is an example of the Islamic Prophet for his Ummah to emulate & follow. If the children were born every year, Khadijah would have been 48 years old when the last child was born? Is this possible in a old desert lifestyle ...where people aged & died in their 40's & 50's? Is it true that Khadijah was already twice widowed when she married Muhammad in 595? If 2 of his 3 sons died, why did this happen to the sons of Prophet of Allah? What happened to this 3rd son? Is Fatimah the mother of Imam Husseyn; the one who was butchered by Sunnis in Karbala in 658 AD? If Muhammad's 3rd wife Aisha (aged 6) ...was his favourite, why did they not have children? Some present day Arab Royals (King of Morocco, King of Jordan, Imam Aga Khan etc) claim direct lineage to Prophet Muhammad, is this accurate? Is Muhammad buried in Medina? Can a DNA comparison be made to establish if Muhammad is the close relative of these people....& also if the genes have any divine power? For instance....will Allah intervene to prevent Muhammad's grave being disturbed? Some Muhammadens have told me that this grave is a complete lie....to fool his followers & that the grave contains the body of some commoner & not Muhammad! How would you know without opening it & examining it for evidence!!?
@gulsenbello17899 жыл бұрын
***** Hi snoopysoleil84....thank you for trying to answer some of the questions I posed to you. Perhaps, other Muslims reading this might try to answer these questions too. My response:- 1. If the Arabs at the time of Khadtijah were bad at record keeping....how good then is the record keeping...which subsequently was used to compile the Islamic Quran ...or the Hadiths (oral traditions) 2. If the twice widowed Khadijah had produced children from her 2 previous husbands...who & where are they? How many children did Khadijah produce all together from her 3 husbands? 3. As to the deaths of the 2 infant sons of Muhammad, if Allah is the creator of all ...why would Allah allow his creation to die? Also...It has been proven that infant deaths occur due to premature births, under developed birth canal in very young mothers (the primary cause of deaths in mothers & babies in developing countries) and poor ante-natal provision......The births & deaths have nothing to do with the unseen Allah! 3. If Husseyn was not killed by a Shia or Sunni but by a criminal...what were his reasons to do it? 4. If Husseyn was the clear blood line of Prophet Muhammad (his grandson), why was there any confusion as to the rightful heir to his empire? 5. There was NO Sunni Shia separation by 650 AD....only political support & adherence at that time (to Mu'awi & to Husseyn). Does that not lead to believe that Islam is a political, religious faction....rather than a true spiritual faith? 6. If the killing of Imam Husseyn was a criminal act & not a Sunni act to stop his followings.....why was his severed head taken all the way back to Damacus, Syria....to be displayed for 6 moths in the Ummayad Mosque as a clear warning to Muslims...particularly the followers of Imam Hussyen??? His severed head is now interred in the Ummayad Mosques....& is daily visited by grieving Shias to this day. 7. You say the 'criminals' strayed from the path of faith.....what do you mean by this? What was it ..that they strayed from? 8. Mu'awi was the designated Caliph...who moved the Islamic Caliphate from Mecca to Damascus (an Assyrian Christian city conquered by invading Arab Islamic armies). What qualifications did Mu'awi possess over Imam Husseyn...to remain with & not stray from the faith? 9. If you & the Islamic Ummah are unsure about Aisha's age during her marriage to Prophet Muhammad; how can you be so sure of the recording of your Hadiths & even your Quran? By the way....where is the original Quran...the ones the scribes wrote on? I refer to the pieces of wood, stones, bones, parchment, palm leaves? Did you know that some of those leaves were eaten by goats (quran & all)? Or why did the Yemeni & Saudi government intervene to stop German scholars analyzing & studying a very old Quran found in the loft of an old house in Yemen? 10. You refer to traditions of the old Meccans....are some of those old traditions still retained today? I refer to the Haj, the circambulation of the ka'aba, the shaving of the head, the 2 piece cloth, the abolution, touching the Hajr Aswad? The word ka'aba is not of Arabic origin...where is this from? (the proper Arab word for the ka'aba is Baitulla al Hahram) If those traditions are considered pagan & un-Islamic, why has Islam retained them even today? 11. If Islam is tolerant, why did prophet Muhammad not build himself a new mosque in Mecca in 622 AD, instead of destroying the place of worship of the so called Pagans in 632 AD? Is that why, Sunnis...to this day follow that example & destroy places of worship of other faiths....including those of fellow Muslim Shias & Ahmadis? Please answer & put questions to me as well.
@leenman58538 жыл бұрын
+Gulsen Bello kun fa ya kun
@eldinakhan79583 жыл бұрын
My husband brother told me this is not your home,imagine ,and my husband for 6 years marriage never protect me and respect
@raasputin2 жыл бұрын
Sister why did you marry your brother? It is haraam
@Dhuxul92 жыл бұрын
that is sad
@tkfitness18864 жыл бұрын
I’m not religious but this is a second time that I’m listening a muslim talking like that in front of people and I must say very beautiful saying!! Wishing my husband would put me first and be a strong real man, he is only 21 I still have hope...
@salmahpolo93028 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah mufti may Allah always bless all of us
@arcticbliss23308 жыл бұрын
The crux of bad habits is the individual who does not bother to groom themselves in conversational etiquette
@HarishKumar-pl6cc8 жыл бұрын
I HV HEARD WHAT PEOPLE OUGHT TO KNOW AND ADOPT FOR A HEALTHY AND LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP. . IT IS REQUIREMENT OF EVERY RELIGION AND CIVILISED SOCIETY
@kassandrajamlani79713 жыл бұрын
Masha'Allah..Mufti Menk.
@zeezeebo9 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah! An area neglected to addressed by most of our leaders. JazakhAllah khairan!