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Zelda: Ocarina of Time and My Parents Divorce - My Retro Life

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My Retro Life

My Retro Life

Күн бұрын

It was Christmas of 1998, my parents were divorced, and The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time on Nintendo 64 brought some much needed healing.
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Zelda: The Ocarina of Time and My Parents Divorce - My Retro Life

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@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Hey guys! Divorce can be incredibly painful, and this is a subject I've often shied away from, but it's part of my story. Ultimately, I hope this video brings some positivity into a serious topic. Thank you to everyone who supports this channel. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and be safe!
@AlohaGamester
@AlohaGamester Жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family Tyler thank you for producing and sharing these wonderful videos with us. I Haven’t seen Mikey or Manny on Twitch recently I hope they’re doing well too!
@saintarchangel9547
@saintarchangel9547 Жыл бұрын
Video was great man, so we'll done. Thanks for sharing with us. Your videos always hit home with the nostalgia hence why I love your channel. I always see something I had or I played, like that Scorch the dragon Beanie Baby! Haha I loved him. Again, thanks for sharing Tyler and Merry Christmas to you and yours!
@jaylucien669
@jaylucien669 Жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas.
@ZethN64
@ZethN64 Жыл бұрын
This was a really great video! I had no idea what to expect when you asked to use some footage from my channel but this video was a tugging hard on my nostalgia heartstrings and encapsulated a lot of feelings I had when I first got the game. Thanks for wonderful trip down memory lane, I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
@NESADDICT
@NESADDICT Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your openness Tyler
@dagbman
@dagbman Жыл бұрын
The standout for me was to hear your dad break his comedic character for a moment to say - "You're the best boy a dad could ever have." This reminded me of the Mega Man 2 video where your parents took the time to explain why you deserved the game. Your daughter is so lucky to have a dad who learned from the best.
@CatManDoom84
@CatManDoom84 Жыл бұрын
Def noticed that precious moment too
@GabrielGarcia-su9po
@GabrielGarcia-su9po Жыл бұрын
Your father definitely loves you. We can all hear it in his voice when he said it. Great video
@honjo5809
@honjo5809 Жыл бұрын
This hit home . My parents never split before dad got the 💀. PlayStation and spending time with my mom got me through so much. This was the best retro vid I saw the year just cuz .
@specwarseabee
@specwarseabee Жыл бұрын
Yep that part hit hard. I have two boys 6 & 8 and I had to pause the video to tell them how much I loved them and how good they are. Too often we get caught up in the stress of life but don’t stop and take a moment to appreciate the blessing children bring into your life.
@IbelieveinHarris
@IbelieveinHarris Жыл бұрын
Hey Tyler, I have low key been watch your videos from time time for nostalgia reasons, but this is another video of many that you have produced showing you’re amazingly magical storytelling and indescribable how you give Vulnerable explanation of video games and your family memories. Bravo at your Art sir!
@Danbo22987
@Danbo22987 Жыл бұрын
Similar story but Breath of the Wild came out shortly after my mom started chemotherapy and she found it very calming to just sit and watch me play. She ulitmately didn't make it but the game provided us some momentary relief where we could just enjoy being together.
@jed23ify
@jed23ify Жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry for your loss. Your mom sounded like a wonderful person.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
What an amazing and bittersweet memory to have attached to that game. I have one similar with Dad that I’ll share one day. So sorry for your loss.
@Trollseeder
@Trollseeder Жыл бұрын
My condolences. I can absolutely see how Breath of the Wild could give a very similar feeling. They are both transformative epic adventures of growth. A part of your relationship with your mom will always stay in BOTW. Oh, and... merry Christmas :)
@nathangibson2114
@nathangibson2114 Жыл бұрын
Similar story with my mom and Skyrim/Oblivion. She left in 2016. I’d give up all my tomorrows to spend another night talking with her.
@DustlessYeti76
@DustlessYeti76 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss
@ronnietravis741
@ronnietravis741 Жыл бұрын
I’m 39 and growing up playing video games during this time really was a special magical feeling. I feel so lucky to be a kid in the 90s. Gaming then really was magic
@lazsosa8711
@lazsosa8711 Жыл бұрын
What a time it was to be alive.
@gerardgmz
@gerardgmz Жыл бұрын
I'll forever miss the 90's
@Spartanlyra
@Spartanlyra 10 ай бұрын
I'm also 39 and I miss that feeling of getting an game box or a catridge on my hands and admire those old pre rendered 3D art ,even If I didnt owned it because this was all so expensive in my country.
@HollowRick
@HollowRick 7 ай бұрын
32 here and I agree being child through this era was incredible
@TheOnlyKontrol
@TheOnlyKontrol 7 ай бұрын
Gaming is special for most around the time they started gaming. For me it was GTA:SA…and Call of duty…I wouldn’t change it for the world because that’s what I experienced in my timeframe and it’s pure nostalgia and joy when I think about it.
@kestasgimbickis6917
@kestasgimbickis6917 Жыл бұрын
“Youre the best boy a dad could have” just melts my heart. What a great dad. Best dad anyone could have. These videos will make him live forever. Thank you and your dad for this footage and amazing youtube content before youtube was even a thing. Love & peace
@Bricksty
@Bricksty Жыл бұрын
I hold this game so incredibly close to my heart. I grew up watching my older brother play this game. He was such an incredible role model and the soundtrack to this masterpiece of a game floods me with all the best memories of him. I'm tearing up just writing this but I know he's looking down on me. Rest in peace, Chris. Edit: Thanks for all the kind responses
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Amazing that so many of us are connected through this game.
@mai-vc6pb
@mai-vc6pb Жыл бұрын
I grew up watching my older brother play this game too!! Thank you for sharing memories of your beloved brother 💚💚
@brandonlee7382
@brandonlee7382 Жыл бұрын
I'm a older brother right now I'm 21 and my brother is 5 and he loves playing games with me. I can't wait to hear what story's he talks about when he's older. I may actually start filming some games he's playing now and film when he gets a new console in future. I did get him a xbox series s and I wish I would of filmed it. I did film his reaction to the xbox series x trailer which was so damn cute because he was like 3 years old
@booboo7502
@booboo7502 Жыл бұрын
From a little brother who is unfortunately missing his big brother too, I just wanted to reach out and give a virtual hug. Reading your comment warmed my heart as I too loved watching my brother play this game. At first when he’d ask if I wanted to play I’d just say “it’s okay, I like watching you play”, which was certainly true. However it wasn’t the full truth. I didn’t feel “advanced” enough to play but I wanted to see what happened, so I was always right there watching my brother when he’d fire it up. One day, he caught onto my true intentions and when he went to fire it up he handed me the controller and said “today we are gonna start you your own game. I’m right here if ya get stuck and need help”. I felt so cool having my big brother sit there and watch me play, encouraging me along the way, as I had with him so many times. For this reason and more, this game holds a really precious space in my heart too. Thank you for sharing your memory. 🙏❤️
@booboo7502
@booboo7502 Жыл бұрын
@@brandonlee7382 Keep that up big bro. I promise the memories will be rich and well worth the time spent. He will absolutely remember. 😊
@spewdog
@spewdog Жыл бұрын
Tyler is a truly genuine person. My Retro Life is healing therapy told through the language of love and gaming nostalgia
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Love this. Thank you 🙏
@nicolausteslaus
@nicolausteslaus Жыл бұрын
Soyjack👍
@Richter_val82
@Richter_val82 Жыл бұрын
"You're the best boy a dad can have" 💔 As a dad my self, I know the power those words have. I'm glad your parents made their best to make you feel loved. And I can relate about video games healing bad times. When I was a kid, my parents use to fight a lot, mostly for money issues, we had a hard time back then. So, playing games helped me to stay happy and keep dreaming with better times. God bless you, bro. Happy new year.
@AlohaGamester
@AlohaGamester Жыл бұрын
I was watching some of your videos yesterday morning and asked myself “has Tyler ever discussed The Legend of Zelda before, did he not play much of it?” And here we are today the topic of discussion. One of the videos I was watching the one where you brought your mother on modern day to talk about her memories. I love how when she talks about your father there is never any ill will behind her voice.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thanks man. Just a whole lot of love and cherished memories. In the end, those all outweigh the bad. There is hope after a painful season. I'm living proof of that.
@GrassToucherTV
@GrassToucherTV Күн бұрын
This channel is a true gem. I love how you're able to communicate the feelings and memories of your past through gaming and share your personal stories with us who watch these. Even though these aren't my own personal experiences, your videos still resonate with me and I really enjoy them. Subscribed!
@michaelmeyer4682
@michaelmeyer4682 Жыл бұрын
My parents divorced when I was 12. We had to move into my grandmas house and live there after the divorce. One day my mom brought a super Nintendo home with Mario world and actraiser. Actraiser helped me escape the dire situation we were left in, and I was able to forget about the real world for awhile. I recently required actraiser, and hearing the music immediately brought me back to my grandma's basement. Very emotional.
@StillxXxTrue85
@StillxXxTrue85 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much . My parents got divorced when I was 15 right when Shenmue came out for the Dreamcast. I would get lost in that world to escape reality. To this day it's still my favorite game .
@shokfox
@shokfox Жыл бұрын
My sister and I never knew our biological father's. Our dad now who married our mom also adopted us but there were a lot of complications at the beginning. They divorced twice trying to make it work and it stayed like that for awhile but in the end ultimately remarried. Games were an escape for me as well and as I don't remember playing most consoles before 2002. I did get into them as I grew I just couldn't get enough lol my parents weren't supporters of my hobby unfortunately. Honestly it's really a treat what you do on your channel speaks a lot bigger then just the games you play and show us all. I see a family and a lot of love! Merry Christmas and I wish you and your family all the best
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Merry Christmas to you too!
@EDFCentral
@EDFCentral Жыл бұрын
I'm glad your parents were able to stay friends. My parents divorced in 87 when I was eight. Things never got better for us and I used video games to escape as well. Mom married another nightmare who made sure I knew what a loser I was. I couldn't even enjoy my video games because they were for losers as well. Constantly being belittled and degraded, but I continued to escape into video games. I thank God, truly thank God for video games and the way he used them in my life to help me get through. 43 and still a gamer and my stepdad finally turned over a new leaf and became a decent fellow. Left a lot of scars, but things are better. My father and I get along better as well because when I was younger he was a tyrant as well. I've never known a good father outside of my heavenly one, but I'm determined to be the best father I can be. Sorry, not sure why I shared all that, but I felt like I needed to even if you all are strangers. In some ways I live vicariously through your happy childhood. I'd say many of us do even if most don't admit it. Merry Christmas Tyler!
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! Truly. I hoped this video would help people open up. It looks as though it has! Merry Christmas!
@Zachery_
@Zachery_ Жыл бұрын
This is the wrong forum to say this but maybe he was right and video games are for losers, think of if you devoted the same amount of time to schoolwork and working out and becoming successful, video games and other entertainment are just that, excess entertainment can be our biggest downfall
@paulhunter_
@paulhunter_ Жыл бұрын
@@Zachery_ k
@ocsjc13
@ocsjc13 Жыл бұрын
Ur mom is so bad for not leaving that guy for talking ish on you
@EDFCentral
@EDFCentral Жыл бұрын
@@Zachery_ Considering I've been married to the same woman for 20 years, have 3 kids, have advanced through the ranks and now hold a coveted position within my job, am a respected elder within my church holding the position of deacon and young adult life group leader and am adored by my children which is my greatest achievement. I don't see loser as being a title that hangs around my neck and I still play video games regularly. Video games have nothing to do with whether you end up a "loser" or not. The bigger decisions you make in life determine that. My father figures were wrong and I'm proof of that.
@meganesposito3013
@meganesposito3013 Жыл бұрын
Great video, hun! Very genuine, raw but also ended with hope. Love you!
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thanks babe! 😘
@Curlyheart
@Curlyheart Жыл бұрын
Awwww!
@videostash413
@videostash413 4 ай бұрын
I believe you mean "hon" unless you are saying he's Atilla the Hun
@ryandesain5090
@ryandesain5090 Жыл бұрын
This series means so much to so many of us. More than you may ever know. Really appreciate what you do.
@greenonion4201
@greenonion4201 Жыл бұрын
Me and my dad when I was little, we were you two. He died back in 2015 and these videos tear me to shreds, in a good way though. They help me grieve in a way I didn't know I still needed to. Thank you for your work I cant wait for the next one!
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Glad they help you in some way! Sorry for your loss. Thanks for watching
@ShinkuGouki
@ShinkuGouki 3 ай бұрын
Ocarina of Time is legendary. It's a game that, to this day, is among my top 3 of all time. The story is so tragic and beautiful,just like real life. Things never go the way we hope but there's beauty in imperfection. I can relate to my parents splitting when I was 8 years old. Always hoping they'd get back together and just trying my best to enjoy my video games while the nagging issues remained at the deepest recesses of my mind. They never did get back together. My dad passed away and my mom and I miss him so much. Ocarina of time deserves to be made into a movie. The ending made me tear up because nobody knows they were saved by that little boy.
@bczarrockbeast6264
@bczarrockbeast6264 Жыл бұрын
Being a kid with divorced parents and an only child this hit me in the feels for sure. Don't get me wrong my mom and dad are amazing. But it's a shock for a young kid especially when you never seen or heard them argue then one day before school they drop that bomb on you and your whole life gets flipped upside down. Having to try to explain to your friends who's parents are together why your dad moved to a apartment across town when you don't really understand it either. To be honest that is when I leaned into video games as well. Great video!
@turtlehermit6047
@turtlehermit6047 Жыл бұрын
My parents were never married. They spilt up.when I was around ten. I had two sisters one left home and got married ...the other got pregnant as a teen and moved out with her boyfriend. So every year up till that year was pretty good..the family was still together and we had big fun Christmases. By the year all that happened that Christmas was not so good. It was 1995...I was ten. It was just me and mom..no body else. I remember waking up and being excited for Christmas.. But instead I got a life lesson. There was no presents under the tree...just my crying mother.. I wanted to be upset..I tried to be upset.. But mom was having a nervous break down. So I told her it was allright..that I didn't need anything etc. That year and Christmas killed my the kid in me. We.moved and she married a new guy..which I really liked. But mom only got worse mentally. Her and her marriage started to fall apart... Due to her drinking and mental issues. She just wanted to drink and sleep..that's all she ever did. My step dad got to the point were he would take off for weeks at a time. I don't blame him..I would have left if I could. Things got worse..it was just me and her most the time..more then once I would come home from school to.find her on the floor or bed..out of her mind..only to find out she had took tons of pills to try to kill her self. She said she was not trying to kill herself but trying to make the pain go away. I told her yeah that's trying at kill yourself. She.would not let me call 911 she scream and yell not to call. So i had to pretend to be calling someone else. The cop s and paramedics came to my house so much I knew them on a first name basis. Then she got sent to mental hospitals multiple times.. Sometimes it was just me as a teen running the whole household..sometimes my stepped was there. He had started drinking to cope with his failing marriage and died in a drunk driving accident. Luckily he did not hurt anyone but himself but it still hurts to think about. After that things got real crazy. Between my moms life and mine I could write a book..a lot of bad and good things happened. But Christmas was never the same for me. The only thing that got me through all that was video games like ff7 ..Zelda oot..castlevania sotn..resident evil..etc And music..music helped alot. I learned to play several instruments.. Been in several bands etc. Ow I'm married.. Own my house and land. Have two kids..and have been trying my hardest to male every day with them better then the last. You have to break the cycle. Good luck to everyone and merry Christmas.
@tbp8523
@tbp8523 Жыл бұрын
"You have to break the cycle."
@temperedglass1130
@temperedglass1130 Жыл бұрын
Your mom the 304 hero
@fshoaps
@fshoaps 8 ай бұрын
Take it somewhere else.
@mondomoya1251
@mondomoya1251 7 ай бұрын
​@@fshoaps oasis sucks!
@fshoaps
@fshoaps 7 ай бұрын
Best British rock and roll band since The Beatles.@@mondomoya1251
@SneakerPhetish
@SneakerPhetish Жыл бұрын
I’m a 1986 baby so this is directly my era. Games were my escape too. My mom was divorced & re-married to my stepdad, but they were also rocky before eventually divorcing as well in 2000. One of my best memories was getting my Nintendo 64 for Christmas. I lost myself in video games - I had PS1, Sega, SNES, N64, etc….I always wished that my parents recorded these memories growing up. This video was special. Thanks for this.
@Tyguy3030
@Tyguy3030 Күн бұрын
My name is Tyler, I'm 34 yo my dad died last year , I just recently found your videos and they have been extremely helpful in my grieving process. Thank you and your dad.
@CrossingRover
@CrossingRover Жыл бұрын
Wow Tyler, I really appreciate you sharing content that is so personal. As someone who suffered immensely during my parents divorce in 2008 I can relate to escaping into a video game world to find a safe space. For me the game was Fallout 3 but the feelings you described were very familiar. In contrast for me, Ocarina of Time came out at a time when I was only 6 years old and it was the first video game that truly captured my imagination. I remember feeling as though the world of Hyrule was a living and breathing place that could go on forever far beyond the bounds of the game.
@Miguel_Proud_Binary
@Miguel_Proud_Binary Жыл бұрын
For me it's the Opening Prelude/Press Start melody of FFVII, my father died at the end of 2003, aged 48, I was just a teenager, I felt alone because I lost my best friend who loved to watch me play videogames,, he would spend hours just to watch me play, my first console was the NES, but it was in the 90s with the PS1 that I have the most memories of playing with my father by my side, and the game he most loved to see me play was FFVII. Now, when I just hear that melody of the game I just start to cry because it seems like I'm going back in time and I see him at my side watching me play! This is the magic of retro games, it makes us go back in time and relive beautiful memories, especially with people we love who unfortunately are no longer here! Thank you Tyler for having this channel!
@vintagedrugrug8637
@vintagedrugrug8637 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing with us youre a real inspiration for me
@garylshawiii483
@garylshawiii483 Жыл бұрын
Agreed that’s what I love about this channel. In time of toxicity and posturing I love a guy who can be vulnerable and explore a different side of gamers especially male gamers.
@petermalleo88
@petermalleo88 Жыл бұрын
There was something so incredible about playing this during Christmas vacation 98-99 My friends and I still discuss the importance of it and the impact it had on us still to this day.
@brok9591
@brok9591 Жыл бұрын
The Nostalgia hit me so hard from this video my heart starting racing and I was short of breath.
@okitasan
@okitasan Жыл бұрын
I've only watched about 75% of a full video but i can tell this channel is special. Great editing and storytelling, and an amazing amount of high quality footage. Your dad was a really good videographer.
@Jpark.
@Jpark. Жыл бұрын
That feeling you get hearing the opening of Ocarina Of Time is the same I get hearing the opening of Harvest Moon 64. Mixture of emotions, pain and memories all flooding back.
@jfh.8064
@jfh.8064 Жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video. Ocarina of Time is my favorite game ever. I was 8 years old. It’s impossible to describe to someone who didn’t grow up as a kid with that game how amazing it was. It was seriously life changing. And I totally agree about the title screen music. Makes me want to cry.
@tricycloplots21
@tricycloplots21 Жыл бұрын
Your video literally brought a tear to my eye, thank you for sharing this. We are the same age, my parents divorced when I was 6 in 1992, but for my family there was never any healing. Video games were always a safe escape from the trauma of a rough childhood, especially when few of my friends could relate to what I was experiencing. It was definitely a very lonely time for me.
@toki_yo
@toki_yo Жыл бұрын
I decided to check out some more videos as I work from home, Omg your channel is a time capsule! I was like: HIS FATHER IS SUCH AN AMAZING GUY OMG! I stumbled upon your xbox 2001 opening video and at the end you mentioned your father passed, buying you the Xbox 360 being your last console from him.. its so sad.. he loved seeing you happy and it was so heart warming. I mean, getting consoles early, limited edition games, coming home to an xbox just sitting on a chair. What a great childhood you had bro! In a gamers world you had it the best.
@AdamZ84
@AdamZ84 Жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas to your family from ours as well, Tyler! This video brought back a lot of memories for me as well. I remember my dad asking me if I wanted a Nintendo 64 with Zelda, or a PlayStation with Final Fantasy 7… it was a tough decision to make, but I said I want the PlayStation with Final Fantasy seven and boy was I surprised on Christmas morning when I received both a PlayStation and a Nintendo 64 with both Final Fantasy seven and Zelda ocarina of time. I also have the gold cartridge of the game and a gold controller as well! I’m only a couple of years older than you, so I clearly remember having a feeling of guilt, knowing how much my dad and mom spent on the extra system. My father enjoyed watching me play through Zelda. It was good bonding time for us, and I beat that game at 100% and got every single secret, that’s how much I loved it. My six year old son plays the downloaded version on my Nintendo Wii of ocarina of time,and he doesn’t really have an interest of going through the game, we beat the Deku tree, and now he just likes running around in Hyrule field beating little skeleton monsters and wants to do his own thing. My seven year old son who will be eight next month just enjoys watching when it comes to Zelda and that reminds me, I think you said that your daughter is seven years old and said that she was born in January on one of your live streams, my first son was born on January 7, 2015, so I have a feeling that our kids are a few days apart in age, so it’s cool to see your daughter grow up loving video games like my sons do, I think that’s part of the reason why they like your channel so much, because they connect you with me as a dad, and see that you have a child, the same age as them. A big, thank you for keeping your channel family, friendly and with clean language and fun memories. You spoke about escapism in this video, and nowadays, there are far worse things to escape into, then video games. I escaped into these fantasy realms as well with Zelda and Final Fantasy seven and they actually helped me become an excellent reader due to all of the dialogue you had to read through to get through the game and understand it. Wow, I have so much to say from one video haha.
@neverenoughguitars8276
@neverenoughguitars8276 Жыл бұрын
I remember getting this game for my birthday in Feb 99. I still remember booting it up for the first time on the TV with my Mom and Dad watching from the couch behind me. I remember all three of us were in awe of the opening sequence of link riding the horse and the music and my Mom saying "This is beautiful!". Such a great memory!
@DaddeGamer
@DaddeGamer Жыл бұрын
6:20 I literally think that all of us that grew up with this game felt that statement so much ♥ Very well said!
@babaliboon9323
@babaliboon9323 Жыл бұрын
Hey man - this was one of your most relatable videos yet. My parents also divorced that same year (what's up with the mid-90s and divorce rates, eh?). I love your channel and thank you for all the work you put in. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas!
@TheConuresrule
@TheConuresrule Жыл бұрын
It only gets worse. Usually women are the ones to initiate.
@Seroxm13
@Seroxm13 Жыл бұрын
Sadly, many men can't control themselves and do cheat a lot. One of my cousins loved his husband so much and they were married with 2 kids, yet typical man style, he cheated on her. Was with another woman. As much as it pained her, she had to leave him. Men are usully responsible for divorces. Women/moms are usually there for the family and to take care of them and the house, men just want to more and more... Plus many men are abusive, controlling and commit domestic violence. I've known so many women in my life get hurt by men, not usually physically, but by their ignorance & selfishness. It's sad how that macho mentality is still going on nowadays. I can guarantee you 100% I won't be 1 of those typical men. I will not add and be part of the statistics. I would never cheat or abuse my wife.
@flaquis2729
@flaquis2729 Жыл бұрын
@@Seroxm13 The thing I've learned in life is there's always 2 sides to every story, especially in relationships. Both parties usually are to blame when things get rough. At least that's how I see things.
@Seroxm13
@Seroxm13 Жыл бұрын
@@flaquis2729 not usually both. It's usually 1 that start it all. If it's cheating, well the cheater started it. Just because people divorce doesn't mean it's always both fault. Maybe 1 is trying their best to stay loyal and not divorce, but the other just doesn't want to stay. I also have an aunt whose my uncle cheated on her and had 2 kids with his lover... He had 4 kids with my aunt and 2 kids with her other women, yet my aunt who is 1 of the nicest persons ever, kinda pardoned him and they still live together. Some of my uncles 4 kids were mad at him for cheating her mom. It's absurd what men do. I will never be like my uncle and the typical macho men.
@southsidesaiyan8641
@southsidesaiyan8641 Жыл бұрын
@@Seroxm13 sounds like you just have a strong personal bias against men based on personal experiences. You made a bunch of claims about how much men cheat, how abusive men are and do domestic violence, but where are your statistics to back up these claims? Because I could also give plenty of examples of women doing all those things you just mentioned too.
@benmunoz2766
@benmunoz2766 Жыл бұрын
When I was a kid I used to shut my door and turn up the volume on my tv while i'd play my Nintendo 64 so I could tune out my parents arguing in the living room sometimes. Video games can truly be a hell of an escape.
@Ankosi1987
@Ankosi1987 Жыл бұрын
It's always nice when you upload a video, I'm watching it with my son now, thanks for your great work. Merry Christmas to you on your family
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thanks, you too!
@loudorchen9897
@loudorchen9897 20 күн бұрын
Geez you have been through some heavy stuff, your Dad would be proud of you for what you have become its almost as if all of his footage over the years turned into one last gift that really set your life up for a great path on KZfaq, very cool, i like your videos and all the nostalgia in them.
@backintheday3097
@backintheday3097 Жыл бұрын
1996 was kind of the beginning of the end for my parents as well. It would only be a year later that my dad would file for divorce. I was 20 at the time, so I had the fortune of not having to go through that mind f**k of whether or not I was the cause of their problems. Much like you I can relate to the "boy becoming a man" analogy. I had just graduated high school in June of 1997 and it had only been a few months when dad dropped the bomb that he was done. So for me, I was making that transition from teen in to young adult. Unlike you however, games weren't my outlet. I threw myself into music and guitar playing. I became like a rabid dog and just devoured albums left and right and learned as much of the history of the bands as I could. I'm glad your parents were able to rekindle their friendship and be able to have put their differences aside. I wish I could say the same for mine. Unfortunately that never happened and when mom passed back in 2015, any prospects of that were quickly snuffed out. Anyway. I've rambled long enough. Thanks for the great video! I don't always comment but I always make sure to watch and leave a "like". Merry Christmas Tyler.
@mattgallagher7105
@mattgallagher7105 Жыл бұрын
I feel you on being a little older - I was 16 when my parents split up. Dad’s boating hobby turned into seeing a woman on the side, mom had spending problems and they just werent in love for a long time by that point, so it didnt hit me too hard. But I will say the financial fallout of it prob landed me in a different place today than it would have had they stayed together. We werent well off together, but I learned the meaning of being dead broke from 17-mid 20s with no help in sight from parents who were struggling on their own.
@rodolfomelo7636
@rodolfomelo7636 24 күн бұрын
Beautiful video. I had the same age in 1998/99. My Dad gave to me this game and I got hooked. Because of that time in life, you feel like a kid, but childhood is saying goodbye. The game has that ... the main character has to surrender his childhood to the greater good. When you play as an Adult, everything feels different and when you have to back again in time for the first time it has a certain relief. Certainly one of the best games that I've played in my childhood. Thank you for this video.
@Howard007
@Howard007 Жыл бұрын
Your parents are absolutely amazing & seeing all this footage makes me feel like i got to grow up with you in a way. I love your family and your dad is right, you definitely are the best son a dad could ever have.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Awesome comment. Thanks bro
@TheDrewManGroup
@TheDrewManGroup Жыл бұрын
I had a very similar experience in life around that time and with this game. I was born in 1987 and my parents separated in 1997 and got divorced in 1998. At first it was hard like it is for any family, but by Christmas of 1998 and through the magic of playing this game, I began to turn the corner and start the next chapter of life. It really was in so many ways the first time I remember being happy again. Thanks for sharing your story. Your dad seems like he was an awesome man and he reminds me of my own father in many ways. Cheers!
@SYIBOI
@SYIBOI Жыл бұрын
I'm forever grateful for your style and videos and I love seeing how much your parents loved you and how your passions devolped young and how they were fostered. I'm glad they and you were able to move beyond the bitterness of divorce and face the future with love and peace in your hearts. Happy holidays my friend and thank you for being you, the world needs more people like you out there.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Very kind of you. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!
@one2actual890
@one2actual890 4 ай бұрын
I really enjoy your videos. I always end up teary, overwhelmed with happiness and sadness. Hurts in a good way. Thank you man, please don't stop.
@deusprogrammer_thekingofspace
@deusprogrammer_thekingofspace Жыл бұрын
The opening score of Ocarina of Time always brings me to tears. Hearing it in concert performed by this game named Ocarina Link at Video Games Live reduced me to a sobbing heap.
@bytacc
@bytacc 2 ай бұрын
I was obsessed with this game 1999-2000. I was around 10 years old. Got the console and the game as a christmas gift. This game for me is my childhood, memories and so much more. It's a part of me. I remember all the songs, all the bosses and temples. everything. Truly a masterpeace! There is no other game after this that have achieved the same feeling. I'm 34 today.
@RobbZipp
@RobbZipp Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I know it wasn’t easy, but it’ll help more people than you would know. I’m also glad you realized that no matter what, they both loved you. I hope you and your family had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Let’s have a video game adventure in 2023!
@mariorruiz
@mariorruiz Жыл бұрын
You almost made me cry, good job. And yes, it hurts to hear that soundtrack but in a very very very good way
@albertwayne2323
@albertwayne2323 Жыл бұрын
Ocarina of Time was very special to all of us who played it on it's launch. People who play it today can't understand the feelings this game creates on us. Masterpiece.
@TheShibbybear
@TheShibbybear 4 ай бұрын
You truly have some unique and amazing in the video diaries of your childhood. I barely have a few photos, yet you are able to travel back in time to relive those moments. we watch the videos you so kindly share with interest… you must watch them with heartfelt indulgence!
@IceKoldKilla
@IceKoldKilla Жыл бұрын
Very sad to hear. I never grew up with a dad so I can't say I can relate but it's must be tough to see your parents separate. I know I would've hated to see my mom go when she was still alive. Thank you for sharing. Great video!
@Mas0o0n
@Mas0o0n Жыл бұрын
I remember when this game came out, but I didn't play it until I was older, in about 2010 or 2011, and it was the first Zelda game I ever played. One thing that's special about the game to me is that I experienced all the same emotions that folks who grew up with the game talk about, and it immediately became my favorite game. It's inherently nostalgic.
@SentinelPrimal
@SentinelPrimal Жыл бұрын
This game hit me a little differently. I was in my early 20’s at the time and it was the last game I played and thoroughly enjoyed in my last year as a carefree young adult. The next year, I got a full time job and everything changed. Oot was an adventure I’ll never forget.
@fabricator.cap.hill.seattle
@fabricator.cap.hill.seattle Жыл бұрын
Did you play Majora's Mask?
@BreadCatMarcus
@BreadCatMarcus Жыл бұрын
I've been working Full time and more since 16. It sucks and I really wish I got to capture more of my youth at the time. Video games were a big escape for me, I'm sure like everyone else here.
@mbank3832
@mbank3832 4 күн бұрын
1998 is a special year for me too in terms of gaming. MGS1, Crash Bandicoot Warped, Tenchu 1, Sonic Adventure, Parasite Eve, Tekken 3. They all brought something to my childhood
@cjcarter8267
@cjcarter8267 Жыл бұрын
The attachment and relationship you had with your dad is something I’ve never had, your dad was so legendary and cared so much for you it’s heartwarming. And to never have met either of you and get that kinda vibe from your videos is amazing.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Love this. Thank you CJ!
@reuterss306
@reuterss306 Ай бұрын
The deeper I dive into your life, the more I can relate. My parents also got divorced and I was around the same age as you. Funny how you can feel connected to someone you never met. Thanks for sharing.
@Ephesians-yn8ux
@Ephesians-yn8ux Жыл бұрын
Man I feel this on another level. The escapism that video games provides has gotten me through a lot of hard times and psychological pain. Have a merry Christmas Tyler. God bless.
@adcasa24
@adcasa24 Жыл бұрын
God damnit man…I just left a big comment on a video. But man when you said you started to feel escapism I felt that….same here man. My folks hated each other and always fought and it was real bad at home. Ocarina of Time holds a VERY special place in my heart. My uncle who passed introduced me to gaming with OOT. Taught me to whistle with Zelda’s Lullaby. Taught me that a story can’t just be shown on the big screen. Man, your channel really is something special.
@prodbyhostile
@prodbyhostile Жыл бұрын
I was a 90s kid myself and Nintendo games always gave me the “it’s gonna be ok” vibes 😎
@Gaming-Enthusiast
@Gaming-Enthusiast Жыл бұрын
Love your channel such a inspiration to us smaller creators. This is worst thing to go through, my parents divorced when I was 1
@Sum1WhoExists
@Sum1WhoExists Жыл бұрын
Man, divorced parents as friends, wouldn't that be nice?
@ignignxkt
@ignignxkt Жыл бұрын
My cat, Zazu, just shy of 14 years with us, just passed away last Monday. Ive been with him longer than I've been married. He was my best friend and son. My friends are in different states, so no local multiplayer gaming for me. But he'd be with me every night. Between it being Christmas and having my get-away, my hobby, 'gaming' feeling hollow and quiet without him, im just down. He had a larger than life personality and there's a black void left in his absence in our lives.
@PixelGod240
@PixelGod240 Жыл бұрын
imagine having a Dad :(
@Kevin_40
@Kevin_40 Жыл бұрын
one of the reasons i like video games so much is i used them as an escape during my parents divorce in the early 90s when i was like 10 years old. very traumatic. cops even came to the house one night because of parents fighting. my dad is still alive and hes such a nice guy that he despises the fact i still play video games at the age of 41. he has no idea it was half his fault, my video game addiction, because of him and my mom not figuring out how to get along and raise the family they started.
@KlausiMolleknock
@KlausiMolleknock 24 күн бұрын
My parents got divorced when I was 15. It was the hardest time in my life. I sweared to myself that this will never ever happen to me. Now I’m 41, have 3 kids and a wonderful marriage! I strongly believe that it was Jesus Christ who brought me the right woman into my life ❤
@richardnl541
@richardnl541 Жыл бұрын
Hey Tyler, just want to let you know that I am very happy with your videos. We're about the same age I think. Video games have played an important role throughout my childhood. Nintendo has a special place in my heart. So many great games, with Zelda Ocarina of Time being one of my favorites. The music of this game touches my heart and it makes me emotional. Sometimes I feel sad because that innocent time from then won't come back. But thanks to your videos I get to experience and feel it again. By the way, you have a wonderful, loving dad. But you already knew that. We are all very grateful to him for his recordings because we can all go back in time to our own childhood. He's a real hero. Thank you. Lots of love from Europe.
@ZexeezTwitch
@ZexeezTwitch Жыл бұрын
I normally don't comment on any videos but your story is similar to mine. I was born in 85 and my parent's divorced in 96. I was so pumped for the N64 it really helped take the edge off such a difficult time. Love your work man please keep sharing your experiences.
@tonyolsson4376
@tonyolsson4376 Жыл бұрын
Christmas greetings from Sweden. I had a similar situation as a youngling. My parents got divorced in the early 90´s. Didn´t see or hear from my mom for over a year. My salvation/healing came from the Super Nintendo (gamingvise). Both the tones from Super Mario World and later A Link to the Past had a soothing effect on my inner emotions. Merry Christmas everyone.
@CragusMaximus
@CragusMaximus Жыл бұрын
That intro man... I do the same! It's So sombre. It hurts me with sadness yet fills me with nostalgia and happy memories too. I would sit in my best friend's bedroom on his bunk bed, he was bad at reading so I would read the strategy guide whilst he played. We adored the music
@Mylesthemyth
@Mylesthemyth Ай бұрын
I lost my mother in 2008, I still remember finding OOT in my mom's trunk Christmas 98. I miss her and this game reminds me of times of such joy.
@kickstart118
@kickstart118 6 күн бұрын
Your the boy a daddy could ever have. Your dad inspires me through these videos to be like him. Thank you
@MysticUmbreon
@MysticUmbreon Жыл бұрын
I feel the same sentiment for Windwaker like you have for Ocarina of Time. I was 8 yrs old when that game came out and that soundtrack towards the end when you beat it makes me cry everytime. Great channel and content man!
@soccersensation
@soccersensation Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I'm 36. I've played many games on many consoles over the year but this game is ultimately my favorite game of all time. Just watching this brought a smile to my face.
@urikayan2368
@urikayan2368 Жыл бұрын
Damn... this effected your life too? Your family seemed so happy. I had to come back an add more cause this video just hit so much for me today. This game will always take us back like you said, to the time we were in. It's amazing to see. I appreciate you sharing this with us as it also allows us to remember ourselves as well.
@Zazzaro703
@Zazzaro703 Жыл бұрын
Ocarina of Times title screen is definitely one of if not the best of all time. That music and sound of Epona galloping is instant nostalgia for millions of people.
@nikdrown
@nikdrown 8 ай бұрын
If there’s a better one I can’t imagine what it is. Not a huge gamer by metric but this game definitely did leave its mark on those who were around at the time. The new ones kind of hit that but nothing like this one did. I love the newer ones on switch but OoT and Majoras will probably always be my favs for nostalgic reasons
@duderancherjesse
@duderancherjesse 10 күн бұрын
I was born 1998 but this game still got around to me and was deeply appreciated! So many great memories of playing this game on the collectors edition on gamecube.
@CobraBlade
@CobraBlade Жыл бұрын
For better or worse, you are so lucky to have so many moments caught on tape. With memories being so faulty, but you’ll have such clear ones of these time thanks to this.
@JacobisLaya
@JacobisLaya 6 күн бұрын
We were poor but we had a 360 and when my parents got divorced we got halo 3 around 2009 (ik like 2 years late) but when me and my brother turned on that game and listened to the menu music it was special I guess it was the same with Zelda with you.
@SMALLSandJOE
@SMALLSandJOE Жыл бұрын
Man, I've listened to the opening theme hundreds... thousands of times but this time hearing it really hit me. Brought me to tears. Lovely video. Thank you for sharing your experiences and reminding people why we love video games and how they can impact our lives.
@BladeBlur
@BladeBlur Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story as difficult as it might have been. As someone who also had to deal with a messy divorce as a child it is still one of the most harrowing memories from my childhood. Sadly my mom and dad never truly became amicable since, and nowadays my dad has passed away. Your Ocarina of time was Klonoa 2 for me. I remember getting the game shortly after moving to a new school with my mom and it was my comfort food. So much so even playing the remake this year made me shed a tear. Before getting too sentimental, thanks again for making the video. The silver lining is exactly what I needed.
@turtledroid12
@turtledroid12 Жыл бұрын
Gosh, this is one of the sincerest youtube video that I have seen Good job mate.
@SDBROOKS08
@SDBROOKS08 20 күн бұрын
The way you feel about that intro music, thats how I feel about FF7 and FF8. The music just takes you places!
@nathanpeabody4388
@nathanpeabody4388 8 ай бұрын
My father passed that year and I was 13...growing into an adult. My older brother got this game for Christmas and we played it constantly. It was somewhat of a mirror to my life. Awesome video and this really really hit home.
@TheMicahwitz
@TheMicahwitz Жыл бұрын
My parents got divorced when I was 14 in 1994. Street Fighter II and Super NES were my games at the time. When the divorce was happening I wasn’t really that sad. But now when I play these old games the memories of my old family hit so hard I can’t help but cry. Thanks for making this man. Just wanted to let you know you’re not alone!
@quicksanddixon6757
@quicksanddixon6757 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for making this video. I had a very similar experience. My parents were going through a divorce and my dad was staying in these small apartments. I still remember everyday he would do nothing but sleep and wait for my mom to call him. I beat StarFox 64 for the first time at those apartments. It was a bittersweet moment. I had finally killed Andross and Fox’s dad came to lead Fox out of the base. It was very impactful to see his father do that and it made me think of my dad and how depressed he was. I was still happy to beat the game but to this day that ending reminds me of those apartments.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this story! I enjoyed reading it and appreciate you watching
@nusilver
@nusilver Жыл бұрын
So much melancholy in that soundtrack. I can only imagine what you were processing at that time. I was the only kid from my group of friends I grew up with (and am still friends with, despite not living in the same state) who didn't have divorced parents. Of course, then my mom died when I was 20. Kudos for putting this one out there. Merry Christmas.
@MintCity
@MintCity Жыл бұрын
This channel seriously comforts me on a level that no other channel has managed to achieve.
@MyRetroLife
@MyRetroLife 11 ай бұрын
So glad for that!
@MarlonAnthony
@MarlonAnthony Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, this resonated with me a lot as a parent who seperated with my child's mother after 12 years and the challenges we faced as well as our young daughter processing it all. It's tough but it not only happens for a reason but we all heal, adapt and eventually move forward. Beautiful video and choked me up. Thank you.
@robertfuentes9677
@robertfuentes9677 14 күн бұрын
It's so wholesome on how much you actually sound like your father today when you speak
@operatorblack
@operatorblack Жыл бұрын
1998 was one of the best years of my life. I also got MGS that year, changed my life forever after that. I am who I am because of Christmas 1998. I see it was a big point of destiny for you too. Man, I love that you made this video so much, thank you.
@JJJIMNZG20
@JJJIMNZG20 Жыл бұрын
This game is life changing, born in 91 so when this came out I watched my older sister play through the whole game and it was a beautiful experience. Top 5 games of all time. Thank you for your nice story . This game really healed
@edge6441
@edge6441 Жыл бұрын
Man there couldnt be a better time for you to release this footage....so many memories come flooding in LoZ OoT was THE game that every knowledgeable N64 enthusiast or owner had in the bk of their heads since the console's release...i remember reading magazines the whole time waiting for this. Kids of today cannot possibly understand the hype! i dont know what it was probably the years or the era we were going through we had just gone to 3D graphics the new tech looked so awesome despite of it being in its infancy and an adventure game of this magnitude (i mean for those that had played a link to the past) being teased all the time and it coming to 3D was just soooo MINDBLOWING. I never ordered the game i just run over to the store money on hand and they just happened to have one copy there yes i was lucky! i got OoT for Christmas that year as well and as many others did. Although as far as i now know the game was so high in demand many other kids didnt lay a hand on it for months until restock. It was the best xmas present that year! holding this cartridge that you had heard so much about had waited so much and it was finally there and most importantly the game not just lived up to its hype but exceeded it! Worth every penny! Amazing times!
@JurassicGamer2
@JurassicGamer2 Жыл бұрын
hearing your story of divorce sadly reminds me of my own mom and dad's divorce like you i had loving parents who distracted me with video games 1999-2003 era tho but around that time my grandma and i were playing ocarina of time and it did indeed help alot Thanks grandma may you rest in well deserved peace same with you mom. thank you tyler for sharing your story i find hearing it very theraputic in a way
@gaditetheghost1953
@gaditetheghost1953 Жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head. As a child mainly in solitude, this game was healing and pacifying for me as a 11 yr old. Helped during those abandonment issue type crucial times growing up.
@j.rivera6402
@j.rivera6402 Жыл бұрын
My dad died in 1997….I was 14. My mom really showed out for me after we lost him and booooom…..I got the gold Ocarina of Time on Christmas 98 as well. I lost myself in Zelda and had so much fun playing it. Thank you for the memories momma. RIP mom & dad ❤
@braikingboss9137
@braikingboss9137 Жыл бұрын
I have no idea your parents were divorced, as soon as I saw, there was a new video been working a lot, but I just saw it, I was excited to see the Christmas and everything in I read the title and it tripped me out like I said, I had no clue, but it's good to see that your parents got along at the end, that's truly the most important thing❤❤❤
@IAmTherefore...
@IAmTherefore... 4 ай бұрын
You are blessed to have had a loving family... Nevermind everything that brought you all together... I had the same it feels like that has disappeared and not a companyd us into the 2010 and beyond
@RyanH2024-q1v
@RyanH2024-q1v Жыл бұрын
I know how you felt in that time, my mom died that year six days before Christmas. I was Nine and I have no siblings, my Aunt bought me Zelda and it was the one thing that was able to help me escape that reality. Really cool to see someone else share such a unique experience with a game.
@gameexplorerofficial2453
@gameexplorerofficial2453 Жыл бұрын
My parents divorced when I was 2, and my mom got full custody of me. Somehow I remember, that my dad was there one day, and then the next day he was gone. I barely recall any commotion, and I’m glad it turned out that way. So growing up without a father, video games definitely helped me out. Whenever I was having a down day, I’d always get lost in the video games, and I would be at peace. Also, I’m very sorry for your loss on your dad. He seemed like he was an awesome guy, and I’m sure he’d be smiling right now for you keeping your memories alive! God bless you man! I’m always looking forward to seeing new videos from you!!
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