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@alexp9793 5 сағат бұрын
Im giving away my chihuahua today thank you
@Gabriella7-e1z 2 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@meloduple 3 күн бұрын
What if you live in the same home with a man who already has 2 teens from another woman, even if they broke up 13 years ago, i come in their lives 3 years ago, and moved in 2 years ago, and still feel rejected, unwanted, like im bothering them, they’re annoyed of me, they have never asked anything about me and who i am and where i come from, and even i tell all that to my bf, he doesn’t do anything, saying im the adult here and it is my job to break the ice, but everyone around me tell me to leave them be and not to go fast and let them come to me but still have not changed since i started going out with their dad? But have no money to move out yet… and rent is extremely high right now… and my job doesn’t pay a lot… what do i do….
@spsk9025 4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much I was pushing against my partner, oh honey, thank you <3
@Dethseye 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video I just put my dog to sleep 3 days ago. I feel like a monster. I feel like it was the wrong decision. I feel terrible admit. I'm miserable. The mornings at the nights have been the worst. I'm blind, so pictures aren't really helping, but it's cool when people describe them to me. Put watching videos and hearing her bark. It's great, but. Once the video ends, I just feel the emptiness again. But after seeing this video I did c. That I guess she had all 6 of those things. She was about to be 11 years old next month. I just feel like if I had the money to do all the treatments and the tests. There was a possibility to save her and since I couldn't afford a bunch of that. I want West putting her to sleep. I feel like I gave up on her. I'm sorry I'm sorry. Xena
@user-hu4pt4ss3s 7 күн бұрын
OMG. Thank you for this. ❣
@r8edrv4fun65 9 күн бұрын
15:40 Could you use boat deck gel coat to get rid of the ridges?
@r8edrv4fun65 9 күн бұрын
17:30 Could you use boat deck paint to smooth out the ridges? The gel coat stuff that dries hard and is a little more costly than normal boat paint.
@LiverpoolsNumber9 9 күн бұрын
Just gave away a cat, owned her since she was practically a month young and raised her as if she was my child as stupid as it sounds and giving her away has secretly been eating away at me
@Lucy-ie8qw 9 күн бұрын
My sister in law did this to me. I was vaccine injured, had a heart attack and couldn’t have another shot. My nurse sister in law said I was an anti Vxr and refused to be near us without 3 jabs. She said she’s never speak to me again. Good riddens! 🎉
@robinfrost6273 11 күн бұрын
First I want to thank you for starting this KZfaq channel. I just found you. Divorce after 40 years of marriage. A little over a year now. Signs that I’m starting to heal. 1. Listening to the radio too 2. Watch a movie with relationships. 3. Read a book. 4. Join a yoga class. 5. Have and make weekly goals. 6. Not the first thing I think about when I wake up, or last thing I think before going to sleep. The biggest healing for me.
@whatup307 13 күн бұрын
First video of many like this that I will be watching! Thank you for a little hope! <hugs>
@wendyrobison1973 13 күн бұрын
Im about to start this. Buying a shuttle bus next month!
@Denise-lm3gm 14 күн бұрын
T. You're reading my mind.
@annegonwa14 15 күн бұрын
Excellent! Thank you so much. I listened many times.
@josemendez-fy7km 16 күн бұрын
Im alone and sad … I don’t know how to get over it… my nights are the worse!
@gigglegiggles3189 2 күн бұрын
Its harsh. Just breath..... gather your friends close....breath...work on building forward. Breath
@user-oo8ei4lj6s 16 күн бұрын
IF you have a good man at your age why separating. You have issues with yourself you need to sort out inside of you. Nothing else will satisfy you as you have internal struggles.
@LaurieSheBlossoms 16 күн бұрын
Yes, you could be right. Too bad I didn’t really this a few years ago.
@kitXcat 17 күн бұрын
I adopted a stray puppy and I have to give him away in a few months or maybe a few days and i wanna die.. I love him so much I can't cope or live life without him..
@MarjorieL-g4b 18 күн бұрын
No matter if you’re been called infertile or whatever, after reading Dobbie Nerkstrol's guide, I ended up pleasantly surprised. Within 60 days anyone can get pregnant, feeling the changes in your body the first few weeks. After go’ogling her I understood it's not a miracle kind of thing like the title suggests, but you can bet you'll boost your chances.
@dianagarrison3138 19 күн бұрын
Retired therapist here: We help people by supporting their decisions to keep trying or give up. Therapists do not recommend NC, but recognize that it’s sometimes necessary, so support the decision.
@dianagarrison3138 19 күн бұрын
Sibling estrangement always reflects the dysfunctional parents. Very common: one child tries to cope one way, another sees it not working and tries something else. Sometimes they are played against one another.
@dianagarrison3138 19 күн бұрын
Sibling estrangement always reflects the dysfunctional parents. Very common: one child tries to cope one way, another sees it not working and tries something else. Sometimes they are played against one another.
@royhendriks8763 22 күн бұрын
What poor advice, but that's to be expected of women who rely mostly on how things must feel. Men know they got to eat less and hit the gym in this kind of a situation. Women pander to each other and almost always blame men for having preferences (like women have to and many of them). Lady, do yourself a favour: eat less and hit the gym (this also applies to your husband and men in general)!
@user-og2wt3le4j 22 күн бұрын
I was talking about this issue just yesterday. My friend knew someone who married a woman who refused to have sex with him. He annulled the marriage. He figured why get married if she did not want sex.
@todamoon55 23 күн бұрын
I was forced to cut my sister out of my life because I had to cut my father out of my life and he was using her as a means to attempt to Hoover me back. There is always a reason why it involves you. I think I would try and find out what the reason is. It's good to know and it's good to face.
@kathleenoglesby7765 23 күн бұрын
Omgoodness did you have to run for your life😢😢I'm glad you got away if you did.
@shridhartargaryen 24 күн бұрын
hiii came here from your blog abt rehoming ur dog, and i just wanted to say thank u for ur advice you kind soul❤sending u so much love and positive energy❤
@rosewidener1238 25 күн бұрын
“Minimal space “ 😂 ❤
@beckykleinhenz9595 25 күн бұрын
please pray for me and my June Bug she is almost 13 yo shepherd mix. it’s time but it’s hard dear Lord help
@peterdement 26 күн бұрын
Too short.
@BroncoX13 26 күн бұрын
I can’t even take care of myself, his dependency on me has created deep distain, he deserves better. There is better out there than me, I only feel guilt because how much he depends on me, but it’s sickening and exhausting.
@domcrockett2197 27 күн бұрын
"It's not what i"m doing It's who I am"
@basicprogrammer6147 27 күн бұрын
The problem with these videos is the woman always describes her new found hobbies, etc. Why didn't you do these before you destroyed your man??? These videos are very, very dangerous. Men: watch out. She's bored and unhappy. And it is unlikely she will suggest counselling. Instead, you'll lose absolutely everything.
@basicprogrammer6147 27 күн бұрын
Pick up a book and go to the library and read. Rex Stout's Nero Wolfe corpus. Get a hobby. Exercise, weightlift, lose weight, eat right. Get a rockin' body. Stop drinking and/or using drugs. Sing. Go to church. Or, get divorced and ruin all past, present, and future families for 100s of years.
@anterohoo7554 29 күн бұрын
This is lovely - I have now watched few of your videos and really liked those! Greetings from Finland from other midlifer.
@LaurieSheBlossoms 28 күн бұрын
Thank you! It's great to hear from a midlifer from Europe :-) I've never been to Finland, but loved Holland. I've I ever find myself in Europe again, I'll be visiting Helsinki for sure.
@portland15 Ай бұрын
I just had to give my dog up, who has been my best friend for the past 3 years because I can absotly not bring him to where I am moving. I am in literal shambles right now and its soo hard to think that I am doing right by him, you're video is helping me cope with the fact that he will be some else's happiness, but I still am struggling to get over the fact of not being able to care for him anymore.
@MsAbbygayle91 Ай бұрын
We just had to rehome our fur baby yesterday. He is a male Maltese, 9 years old & so full of energy & life. I was so heartbroken over it… I cried so much saying goodbye. I am still heartbroken & I know it will take time. We had him before we had our two kids. One of our children has special needs & needs extra care, time & therapies. We just couldn’t keep up with our energetic, playful pup & give him the love & attention he needs. His new owner is a sweet man who I know loves him & will give him what he needs. Thank you for this video…
@user-ou7pn4sg7x Ай бұрын
HI, It sounds like the dollars spent were for a one way trip?
@bmoe4609 Ай бұрын
I had to put mine in a shelter so the pain is great. But worse because they already trying euthanize him and only been a week (kill shelters). I thought he would get a month atleast. I even thought on trying to get him back but I know I can’t. It won’t work in long term, financially and just the energy I have to give him the exercise needed. He a Weimaraner mix and they need to run free not in kennel 24/7. People make me feel like shit online but I’m doing my best and they could always help and get him. But they won’t, so they are just trolls with no remedy but to hurt others. I’m really heart broken and feel I could die and low key hate myself. But I hope in time I will be alright. I didn’t adopt him I got him as a stray as a baby so he wouldn’t die. The worst part is not being his forever home, I told him I would be. And I can’t after 7months, devastating as this is. I know I loved him.
@SwimminWitDaFishies Ай бұрын
Mistake #1 ... buying a condo
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
😆 Did you buy a condo, and regret it? What'd you learn?
@imdurmac1 Ай бұрын
Paying more than the value of the home is never a good move no matter what country you reside in. Glad you like your home in spite of all the mistakes you made. But one thing I wish you focused on is regardless of who is the breadwinner in the marriage is, take a strong role in the household finances.
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
I'm glad I like my condo, too 🙂 I agree that knowing household finances is a very smart, intelligent, responsible thing for anyone to do - man or woman! That was my mistake. However, I've done alot of research into property assessments and market prices. When the condo or housing market is frothy and unpredictable, buyers often pay higher than the property assessment. I know I'm paying annual property tax on the assessed value of the condo, which is lower than what I bought the condo for. Some things we just can't control. In this case, I was aware I was paying over assessment value, but I also knew I had no choice. There is another bungalo condo for sale in my community, and the asking price is $420,000. I don't know the property assessment of that condo, but it has to be about $100,000 less! Will those sellers get $420,000? No way. But they'll probably get over the assessment value. It's crazy, how the housing and condo market works.
@travelfrog888 Ай бұрын
Dear Laurie. Your home looks wonderful. It is BIG. My house here in Arizona has 1297 sq/ft. Yours is almost double!!! Your advice about the purchasing of a home is right on. If I may, Laurie, whatever you write on your blog, is helpful and appropriate...for men as well. I know, you are a woman, you had a husband. Of course, you see life through your very own eyes. And as a woman. But men do end up in the exact same situations. For example, I have made so many mistakes every single time I bought a property. Whatever the trolls crap here, we as human beings get excited about everything, and get carried away... And yes, owning a house is super expensive and super stressful. The best advice, I think, is to have a very "knowledgeable" friend with you every time you might break the bank and make a big purchase.
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Thank you! Your advice about having a knowledgeable, objective friend to offer insight and a different perspective is right on target. I tend to rely on my instincts more than other people's advice, though. The future is unknown and there are so many possibilities! No matter how smart anyone is or how much due diligence is done, there is always the possibility of making a mistake. And I appreciate you saying that my condo mistakes and tips is helpful for men, too. I have many male blog subscribers and KZfaq friends, and sincerely value everyone's presence and contribution. "Midlife Blossoms" may have to enter a non-binary, gender-neutral, all orientations eagerly welcomed perspective 🙂 Again, thank you for your thoughts. Stay in touch!
@onwardbound Ай бұрын
Your place looks great Laurie! So much more homey and lived in than when we were there last year - kudos! Can’t wait to see it again, and Stella promises not to be such a bad girl next time 😜
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Thanks, Lynette! Stella's minor little faux pas is ancient history in the dusty old days of yore. I hope you're doing tickety-boo in all the best ways these days! 🙂
@waschell1 Ай бұрын
Thanks for making an advice on buying a condo. I'd like to add get your own inspector. Don't use one your agent recommends. He/she may be more aligned with the agent than you. And the rule about renovations cost twice as much and takes twice as long as you think IS true!
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Yes, getting your own home inspector (not one recommended by the realtor) is a great tip. I didn't get this condo inspected, but in the past I had a house inspected before buying it. The inspection didn't reveal anything new or wrong with the house, but it gave us peace of mind. Yes, I've heard how long and expensive renovations can be. I've never done one, but I've had neighbors who have. It's worth it in the long run, but what a hassle in the meantime!
@travelfrog888 Ай бұрын
So so true. One of the last home I purchased, I blind-fully took my realtor "package" as a given. His choice for a pest inspection company, his inspector for the house inspection. The pest control company lied 100% and came up with $10,000 worth of work needed. The house inspector didn't check the whole house fan, the tub/jacuzzy, the ceiling fans etc... It was embarrassing to negotiate with the sellers and ask for a discount for termites... I ended up doing all of these inspections myself. I was in construction and I am a DIY fellow. I went into the house crawl space and there was ZERO termite issue. The house was as sound as it could be. Yet, I found a few problems with things the inspector totally missed. I was so choked and disappointed with my realtor choices for inspections for me, the buyer. Even when presented with the incompetence and out right lies of "his" associates, my realtor never even apologized. Bottom line, as suggested here, hire your very own companies to do the various inspections needed.
@stephenfermoyle4578 Ай бұрын
i see 4 huge mistakes right out of the gate....are the pillows stand ins for throw cushions?...do not be giving life advise with sloppy decor and hair..thank you
@markgoodwin183 Ай бұрын
What a mean person you are.
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Yeah, I’ve always needed a hair stylist and videographer. You should see my Pixie Cut video! Do you have any suggestions, @stephenfermoyle4578? Maybe you could share your KZfaq channel link so I know how to do it right. I’d love to see your videos. 😊
@user-sn9qm1hn4t Ай бұрын
She's right 1:15
@erickapoletti2053 Ай бұрын
Wow you made some mistakes. You can’t get attached to a home until it passes inspection and you have researched future fees. Aging in place is. A good idea to think about your situation and your health. You have to make this a business decision and make sure it works out in the end. Everyone needs an emergency fund for issues like unemployment if you don’t plan to retire. I am almost divorced and I plan to wait until the market is better and I know where I want to move. Making a decision while in the thick of an emotionally charged situation will not be a sound situation.
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Thank you - I should've consulted you before making the offer! 🙂Seriously. I didn't get a home inspection (I should've included "get a condo inspection" as one of my tips) because I knew it would pass. Risky, but I've had no problems after almost a year. And the fellow who lived here before me as an older widower who kept everything in immaculate shape. Your idea of researching future condo fees is a good one. But even now it'd be hard to determine exactly how much and when they'll go up. I can only assume there will be increased fees, as everything gets more expensive! And the buildings are relatively old. I wish you all the best as you plan your next move after your divorce. You are a very smart woman -- making a decision like this when you're in an emotionally charged season of life is dangerous! It could be one of the biggest condo-buying mistakes a woman makes. Trusting my instincts wasn't a mistake in this case, but I can see how it could be a huge problem. I was lucky.
@ChrisRampersad Ай бұрын
Your place is really nice. I had a condo but it didn't have a basement. It had a nice layout but built in the 90 builder grade so needed some updates. Once you move then you really see the spots that don't work as well like entering the laundry room from the garage it was tight space. I like your door area, nice light and outdoor space
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
Thank you! And yes, I totally agree that you can't tell what won't work or will be future problems until you actually move in. Same with the neighbors - that was one of my biggest concerns. I've never had a bad neighbor, but I've heard horror stories. I love my neighbors, and couldn't imagine living anywhere else.
@AceMaverickM Ай бұрын
I like how you reframed the negative into a positive. I definitely struggle with the feeling of “not feeling wanted” its been there since i was a child starting with my siblings saying.. i was a mistake.. I know this has caused my anxious attachment and I am dedicated to resolving this now more then ever. So thank you for your insight and tips I’m going to do my best to reframe my negative into positive and ask myself.. “is it really the case … “
@kiarntz Ай бұрын
💜
@Sittnprettyreads Ай бұрын
New to your channel. Finding your channel was divine timing. Thank you. I want to keep you posted on how you help me grow I’m 35 and at a crossroads.
@LaurieSheBlossoms Ай бұрын
I'm glad you're here! Yes, please do keep us posted on how you're growing forward. The 30s are a fabulous decade :-)