Great & relevant topic! I went through this for years starting abruptly with the health decline of my father and his wife, then my mother, and I'm still caregiving for my disabled sister. I've learned a lot and wish I knew what I know now at the onset. Now I'm 65, hubby is 62 and I am determined my children will not suffer what I did by trial and error. I refuse to be a burden to them when pre-planning can alleviate some of the work involved. In addition to cleaning out clutter, putting financial affairs in order, and making last wishes known, we have open talks about who's gonna wipe our butts (literally) if the need arises, etc. This is life's realities. No time for beating around the mulberry bush. Safe, affordable housing is one of the major issues for sure. There are many others. Thx for the Convo😊

He probably doesn't have a good enough publicist or marketing team. You have to also understand the title "fastest man" consistently changes. For a long time Usain Bolt, was the fastest man alive.

I just was going make this episode.

This is absolutely an episode that focused on a topic that is near and dear to my heart as I lived my own experience being a caregiver to my late Mom and presently with my mother-in-law. There are so many layers to navigating life with an elder parent/family member and like many major life moments, there isn't a manual so to speak to refer to. You often feel like you are on your own in this journey...I know I did as I faced this starting when I was 36 yrs old. Caregivers are an unseen and often unpaid labour force in our society and most are not equipped, prepared, or supported well enough to do their best work for so many reasons as you elicited via the AARP report. There is an emotional and financial toll that is often paid by both the elder and caregiver(s) and it is life altering. Thank you both for sharing your experiences and suggestions as this is needed for many who are presently in the throes of this and/or will face this. ❤

That's why they dropped COVID because they want to get rid of the older people when they've been used and abused 😢😢😢

This episode really helped me as I have a parent with me and my sibling can’t help with so I am by myself thinking about my future care and my mom as we have no other family or friends to help us down the line

Phenomenal episode and conversation. Excellent questions and we greatly appreciate the transparency. We're going to do a follow-up episode!

Your Mom is truly blessed to have her son and daughter-in-law to walk and assist her through the process and help her when she needed it financially . God Bless y'all always !

THANK GOD your treasured Mom, moved into an - INCOME BASED APARTMENT - a one bedroom. - This is different from Section 8. God's continued best to her and your wonderful family always ! Love, love the new builds !!!!

So what happened to the money from the saleof her house.?

Great topic!! For myself!!

A child purchasing a home for a parent/s? Isn't it supposed to be the other way around?

The sad commonality is that NOBODY (government, parents, children, health systems, etc.) is ready to handle eldercare

This was so enlightening for me!!! I’m 65yo and homelessness is my biggest fear 😢. I’m currently able to remain in my home but the burden of home ownership has its challenges. I’m sharing this vital information with my family in hopes of getting prepared for what’s to come! Thank you so much for your wonderful videos! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

My husband and son have ADHD and learning how different their mind works is shocking. I will say having a husband with ADHD has helped me better understand my son's behavior as he's able to give language to our son'actions or in many cases lack thereof. You hit the nail on the head when you said to truly understand the disease you'll get the most valuable information talking to someone with it, not necessarily a doctor. A resource I've found helpful on KZfaq is the channel ADDtitude Magazine, they also have a website and an actual magazine.

Glad i stumbled upon this. Thank you

Every time I watch this series, I cook a meal and pay a bill🤦🏽‍♀️😂.

Your podcast title caught my eye with the "Affordable Housing for Aging Parents". I can relate to the new build as I moved into a 62+ in April 2022. By the grace of god, I was approved right before I was laid off & have been struggling ever since to obtain that steady/stable income. SS retirement, savings & IRA is getting me by for the time being. Fortunately for me, I can advocate for myself & have computer knowledge/experience. It is sad that this country did not put more energy, advocacy & monies for seniors & senior housing 20-30 yrs ago knowing that the population is living longer. Keep making informative podcasts. Thank you.

you need to make this a multi-part series. this is a very complicated, emotional topic

These last two episodes have been so eye-opening. Thank you for opening up about very personal experiences. I am grappling with both of the topics you mentioned and appreciate being a part of a community that is taking both things seriously and moving forward with solutions and courage. I'm so grateful for your work.

I’m going through this now. The perfect situation would be a “little house” in my back yard. They have them in Shreveport Louisiana where I grew up. So my mom could still have her own space. Problem is I have no plans on living on Shreveport ever again. So my brother is considering a duplex in Dallas but it’s just a lot bc I have kids and he doesn’t it would make more sense for her to live by me but I live in Charlotte with a thriving career and she doesn’t want to move here

Yes! This is why I love your podcast. So many of the folks who discuss financial independence do not address the real issue of taking care of aging parents and all the issues that all of that presents.

People never think about this. We talk about dating etc. acting like we gonna be just fine doing things alone but we have no clue how expensive it's going to be living while old not to mention before we get old how much taking care of our parents will take from us. Its easy to say they are on their own they should have thought about this but the fact is that they didnt or they did and medical costs are just too much for them. Things happen.

Did you consider having her come stay with you at any point?

Necessary podcast ! Thank you !

What. A. Topic. HERE for it.

I'm interested in this topic as I'm coming to terms with ADHD myself (still haven't gotten a diagnosis). But at a meta level I'm wondering why the ADHD disclosure is such a big deal either to your audience or black viewers. or the black community at large. I wonder if it's the clarity of a diagnosis, fear of therapy/psychiatry, or just some type of gap of awareness of the negative impacts of ADHD.... not sure. Really glad you guys are sharing this now though.

So glad that yall talked about this. My husband and I just talked about how millennials are about to get another chin chuck with our aging parents , especially if they did not financially prepare for retirement.

Thank you for discussing your ADHD diagnosis. You inspired me to seek help from my doctor.

Wow!! Definitely a bullseye 🎯 Thank you for all of the sensitivity, compassion and love that you show each other and your viewers. And yes, I consider myself one of the "R&R Fam....or maybe one of the elders. Love y'all. I can relate to this topic on a personal basis as well as a professional one. So many gems in this episode.❤

I love this! Thank you for sharing. I have not been diagnosed with ADHD, but I’m pretty sure I am. I manage the executive functioning with calendars and task lists. The short term memory lapses I understand and my memory and brain fog increases during certain times of the month. I understand the tendency of impulsivity as well. I think my husband probably identifies with Julian. Lol It’s really interesting. Thank you for sharing! This makes me feel less alone and less weird. 🙏🏽

Yes....we have to be brave! Working on this 🙏🏿

Girl. I am you, and you are me. Ya'll givin me hope 😅🙏🏾

ADHD & Us is a really good book for a couple that is comprised of a neurotypical and a neurodivergent person. It has actionable steps, scenarios, etc.

This is how I got diagnosed. It changed my life for the better. So many of my friends are now diagnosed this way.

Lissen!! I was just thinking yesterday, "I wish there were resources or podcasts for Black women with ADHD and money", and today, my good friend sent me a link to this. As a Black woman who has been recently diagnosed with ADHD in my 40's, I am grateful for this conversation. Thank you - ya''ll are out here doing God's work.

The way I listened to this while in hyper focus mode cleaning up this morning. I have sooo many thoughts. Thank you, Kiersten, for being so open, and to both of you for bringing this conversation to the forefront. 🖤

This conversation is so honest and refreshing. It’s also so beautiful to see a loving Black couple have a healthy conversation about finances

Fantastic video! I randomly came across your video and I’m so thankful I did. I really enjoyed both of you and how your interactions are incredibly supportive, cohesive and respectful. The content was spot on for me having recently been diagnosed with ADHD and perimenopause. Thanks again ❤

Practice makes the videos perfect!🤗🌹

I just found you guys today and I have to say I am enchanted! Thank you for your content ❤

Thank you so very much! This was an extremely helpful podcast! As someone who is rarely still, who thrives on multi-tasking, and has not managed my money well (PAUSE) - kindness coupled with impulsivity has landed me … WELP!!!! While I recognize that I am neurodivergent, I am motivated by this podcast to get tested for ADHD! Muchas gracias, amigos! Great job, familia!

Great dialogue!❤

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Your honesty, transparency and vulnerability are very much appreciated in all of your discussions, but even more so in discussing this very important topic with tremendous care and sensitivity. Yes! A better understanding of neurodiversity would go a long way to helping families heal and better manage the generational challenges of undiagnosed dysfunctions that have crippled us for far too long! Again, thank you for how you presented this topic and for your recommendations for further research. My prayers are with you as you continue to discover and successfully navigate your future!

Wow. This hit home. It has taken a lot of years and heartache, but I've broken free of the guilt of being successful in my tech career and approaching FIRE in the next year. My challenge has been finding my "tribe" of people of people who are high earners, understand the social contracts often placed on "the one who made it" and are in pursuit FIRE. So, just know, we're imaginary friends.

All these conversations are so relatable

Yes!!! I was just talking to my sister yesterday about this!! Lots of people expect us to do things in our family…and we’ve definitely heard the “honor thy father and mother” on several occasions smh

We know these guys 😉❤️❤️