This is a very difficult problem to find answers to. The woman is being advised to basically start relying on herself and her own strength, to move forward, one step at a time since her “beacon” now had been extinguished. Unfortunately for many, relying on self can be just as futile if not more so. We are only human. So what do we do? How do we find that “beacon” that is unchanging, one that never will forsake us? Do we ultimately depend on our own strength and hope to make it? Many don’t make it that way. Some will. There is so much suffering in this world. May this woman and all of us be led to find the one truth and one beacon that never will go out.
Serving to the communities, providing to others who are in need, etc - some of the options you might consider to share something that are less important/valuable...