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You don't have to escape toxic family you can just be on the periphery

4:20 escapism is not distraction. That just obfuscates the real issue. The real issue is the lack of willpower and indolence/laziness. Unless you are a Navy SEAL or some type of double-alpha person, The willpower of a person is limited. The vast majority of people are lazy conformists, and they seek the mental comfort of the herd and fear/avoid the judgment of the mainstream. Escapism sanctioned by the mainstream (Friends, Monday night football allows the person to pass the time without expending the effort, or doing any analysis, or holding others accountable or being held accountable.

Embracing Calvinistic deterministic theism or libertarian free will poses a challenging dilemma for individuals. The tension between God's sovereignty and human free will is a complex issue that is difficult to resolve.

Sandman send me here, and he was right.

Crazy good video

Fate or Destiny. Guess only the Creator knows in the end

it'S been a while

are you on odysee?

Kratos in his Norse saga is almost exactly how someone with anger issues should go about handling their rage. Consciously keep it in check and only let it out when it's absolutely appropriate, either when having been significantly wronged like getting cheated on or use that anger as a weapon if someone tries to physically assault you. There should of course be limits to how much anger you let out, getting a parking ticket for example. While certainly annoying, it doesn't warrant a full blown argument and especially not an outright fist fight. But you also shouldn't completely close off all your emotions whatsoever, or you just turn yourself into a time bomb waiting to go off at the slightest tap. In short, while he may be a video game character, Kratos is an excellent example to follow for anybody with anger issues like myself. And there's a music channel that made a song dedicated to him called "Ode To Fury" that I can't recommend highly enough, it's been a big help in keeping my anger down and preventing me from lashing out at the people who don't deserve it.

I am NOT gonna be watching ”the blessing and curse of youth” that Someone paid to be a commercial🔥🙏🏼

Absolutely I believe its the actual gateway drug Started drinking in 8th grade. We had a store employee that would sell to us if we bagged up ice and brought him some herbs. Should've never touched the stuff.

Quitting alcohol can be a bit of a social death sentence where I'm from (Norway). Much of social life outside of work/school revolves around weekend drinking. Pretty much all throughout our lives... If you don't participate, you will find it hard to have a social circle, because people generally don't socialize in groups sober. Going sober is certainly fine, but people will generally not like to have you around because they feel judged and would rather have someone to get drunk with and be "stupid" together.

Good job i like it watching

I watching your video

I drink here and there

Yes you should ALL it might ruin your life i know.

If alcohol is affecting your life in a negative way, or you are using it to cope with, or avoid dealing with, a problem, then yeah, avoid it. If you use it occasionally, in moderation, and responsibly, then there is no problem. There's no sense in being on either extreme side of the fence. For each person, this is different. Some people should have NO alcohol while others can drink socially quite often as long as they're not suffering adverse health effects. The range is wide and people need to be honest about its effects on them, and those around them. As far as peer pressure, if you are being pressured, or judged, to do anything by your social circle, you are in the wrong social circle. Also, you may have some work to do on yourself if you care what they think about such things. Would you let them pressure you into doing other drugs like heroin, meth or cocaine? Why? Do they really care about your well being if they are treating you differently for refusing to do stuff that you believe to not be in your best interest? The peer pressure thing is mostly within the young crowd. The majority of older folks know there are a myriad of reasons why a person cannot drink alcohol and don't judge or pressure anyone about it. In fact, they usually have other non-alcoholic beverages available because they know that not everyone will want to imbibe alcohol.

A good story. But you don't take into account the fact that many animals, including humans, deliberately seek to mood alter through the use of drugs and alcohol. These range from small insects to mighty elephants. So, humans aren't alone in liking to get a buzz on. In fact, this drive to seek intoxicants may have helped to shape modern man. The stoned ape theory suggests that the addition of psilocybin mushrooms to the human diet around 100,000 years ago caused the transition from Homo erectus to Homo sapiens and the cognitive revolution. The theory is based on studies from Roland L. Fischer et al.

Gen Z drinks less because they'd rather smoke weed and do Fentanyl.

never liked it, always hated the smell and the consumers. I've seen it decay my family and friends so I've always seen it as a net negative in my life.Of course they glorify it i keeps you weak

Alcohol has been a part of my Life since my Young Adulthood in the 1980s. Oh, there have been Prices to Pay throughout the years, but still I persist... Casually. 🍺

I think sin is going against the laws the Creator has laid on us for our own good.

Man, I love your videos. So much wisdom. Your channel is what I called Hidden Gem. Keep up the great work🙏🏾🙌🏾

Well said. I have found a logic tree works for me; Source of the anger 1)Internal or 2)External. Determining if it's external, is it a threat, can I remove myself without harm or endangering my property and others, how can I neutralize it, etc. If it's internal, what do I need to do remedy that internal distressed state, etc. Working out, learning how to craft humor to defuse tense situations, developing skills such as music, woodworking, etc. Once the anger is identified, focus that energy into something which betters your situation.

I was sent by the Sandman. Thank you, I have watched two, will continue with the rest.

Look at you! Over 1000 subscribers. Congratulations. 🎈

Sandman sent me. Good content, subbed!

The answer is "depends" for anyone wondering.....yeah i watch the video skip to 8:15

You talked about something that I eventually realized about myself as well: Anger has always focused me in handling problematic situations. I think a lot of people (probably those who suck at being honest about their feelings) associate being angry with losing control of themselves. In society we get encouraged to find ways to not be angry by any means OTHER than facing it, but I have never found that helpful. What has always been hurtful to me is embracing my sorrow and the concept of vulnerability as a source of "strength". I have personally never met a powerful person who was vulnerable all the time, but I have met more than a few dangerous individuals who don't have a problem being angry. I'd personally rather be the latter.

We have our emotions for valid and valuable reasons. Attempting to suppress and deny these emotions will often lead to greater problems later. Anger is a secondary emotion, meaning it's typically a reaction to a primary emotion like fear, loss, or sadness. The shift from a primary emotion into anger is usually fast and unconscious. Anger arises from a subconscious sense of being wronged. Check your anger and determine the root cause, this will allow you to more effectively deal with the cause rather than the anger itself.

Some people on the internet have called me “entitled” when I would explain my family trauma to them. To me, why would it be a sense of entitlement to feel like we belong with family? In a nutshell, I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a covert narcissist and had robbed me of my sense of worthiness, I was homeless with him for a very long time during my upbringing, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, I genuinely felt that I would belong with them and I thought they felt same way, but unfortunately what seemed like a gift from the universe, just turned into something that only contributed to my mental and emotional wounds, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my fully related brother that I never got to grow up with had what they called a ‘privileged life’ while my upbringing pretty much got robbed by my narcissist father and that it’s something no kid should ever have to have gone through. Yet, people on the internet tell me “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and even a former friend laughs at me and invalidates saying “well they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything what he always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair, my aunt didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and was like “why not come stay here?”. It has put me in a constant endless loop of rumination. I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere. They treated me as equally as their 2 boys… I wanted that with my brother… every other kid has a family home life… except for me I guess…

There's nothing foolish about chasing a dream knowing that you may not succeed. Even if you fail, you still have the growth that came with trying to get there.

Sandman sent me... Agreed. Everything is Commercialized, anymore. Love is a Minefield for Men. And, it's all over. France has made it ILLEGAL to get a Paternity Test. Best one can do is excel at your job, go to Public Events, engage in your Hobbies, and if you meet that One with the Mutual Pheromonal Attraction then it's Off to the Races! 🏆