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What happens if the person that put the straining order against that person and allows that person to live in their house what happens and then threatened to call the cops on that person if they try to leave them and then threaten stem that they're going to get gang members to beat that person up if they leave them

What happens if the person that put the straining order against that person and allows that person to live in their house what happens and then threatened to call the cops on that person if they try to leave them and then threaten stem that they're going to get gang members to beat that person up if they leave them

Yep, choose your words carefully

I understand this

What is this?

Thank you so much attorney Barton. Your content has helped and supported me so much recently. Since 2020 ive been going through divorce and child custody case with ex wife and without saying too much, I'm petioner in one dvro two days later I'm a respondent however mine is legit. I've been doing a lot of studying Fam code, Cal code, civil code, procedure, etc.everything pertaining to these proceedings. I'm confident that my response/evidence is strong enough to get her case dissolved. I read Cal Rule 5.111 (c) Objections to declarations. A party must file their objections 2 court days before the hearing, a written objection may be submitted to the judge by responding party otherwise objection or any objection will be considered waived, and the declaration may be considered as evidence. Upon a finding of good cause, objections may be made in writing or orally at the time of the hearing. Do you have experience or knowledge of how effective a written objection might be? Any insight is tremendously appreciated. Cheers. I'm strongly considering this option.

In case this helps anyone, here are the 7 defenses that I explain and give examples of in the video, in order: (1.) self-defense; (2.) lack of evidence; (3.) false accusations; (4.) accident; (5.) provocation (not a complete defense, but it still can result in the case being dismissed or at least a better outcome); (6.) alibi; and (7.) police misconduct.

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With your last story about the text message, how are you able to get the text message entered into evidence on cross-examination?

How do you win against someone who is extremely manipulative? I’m worried he’s going to manipulate the judge into believing him just like he does with everyone else in his life. I’m so scared.

Im being falsely charged and just recently indicted for felony gun possession of a loaded handgun, for a gun thats not mine, was not on me, my fingerprints and DNA are not on it. And its ALL on video and shows while im inside the store, the video shows simultaneously as im inside shopping shows another person in a car in the parking lot open their driver door, and toss the gun out. I was inside and had no idea any that happened. Customer finds gun tells store employees, manager comes out and retrieves gun and calls police. Police come, im standing and walking around the store while the cops are all standing together, i have no clue they're there for me or investigating me. Finally officer comes up and says "whyd you buddy take off?" I didn't even know hed left let alone threw a gun out the car. I said "what he took off?! I have no idea!" At the moment i thought the officer meant there was an active high speed pursuit. Officer says "could it have something to do with the gun he threw out the windo" at which point i put my hands out, shook my head and said "Whoa idk anything about a gun and im not saying anything without a lawyer" to which the cop snapped at me "Thats fine! We have everything we need!" I said "okay am i free to go?" He says no but lets go outside. As we're standing outside im holding my phone and officer snatched the phone out my hand and went thru it, found a picture and showed another officer who agreed and they arrested me on the spot for B felony gun possession in 2nd degree. At the station detective asked if i wanna talk, i snapped "NO! I want my f*cking lawyer!" Detective said "okay calm down! That's no problem at all, you don't have to speak to me you dont want" okay cool. Im put in cell and next day judge RORs me. Couple weeks later i get my discovery and theres a written confession written in 1st person. They claim i gave a full verbal confession, the confession is not signed with my signature cus i never gave no dam confession, and they know signatures cant be verified. The video shows at no point was that gun in my possession. I been sick to my stomach, cant sleep, cant eat, cant think straight. I face upto 15 years in prison for a crime i did not commit. The prosecutor also chopped the footage up into pieces and removed two parts of the video. The part when the officer asks me about the gun and i visibly and verbally deny knowledge. That portion of video is missing and so is the part where the officer snatches the phone from my hand and unlawfully searches it. Those two portions of footage, that coincidentally would destroy the prosecutors case are missing. I filed a complaint against the prosecutor for brady violation and they removed her from my case and assigned a new prosecutor. He waited almost a year and half before bringing the case to grand jury which surprises surprises i was indicted! I have court tomorrow to he "arraigned" even tho i already was for this case and was put on a supervised release like ROR but i gotta call a probation officer once every week. We have a very good rapport, sometimes talk for an hour. Im working full-time and have so much going on, mother in laws in ICU and may pass, we're in middle moving and dont know where and how were gonna afford it. Im working myself to death and if the judge remands me or POS prosecutor requests a bail, i wont be able to afford it and the prosecutor has little to no case and the way he is i can definitely see him trying his hardest to get me remanded as to have leverage to get me to take a plea. I cant, their last offer which still on the table was 2 years, for a charge with max of 15 years! That should tell you everything you need to know about the strength of the states case. I cant afford a paid attorney and im stuck with legal aid whos done nothing but try to force me to take a plea deal. Any plea that involves me going to jail is out the question, i should not even have to plea to anything but i would simply to have this knot in my stomach loosen and for this nightmare to be over. Idk what to do, there are SOOOO MANY holes in the case, i went thru the discovery with a fine toothed comb and found so many inconsistencies, errors, lies and blatant contradictions its UNBELIEVABLE. I feel like the prosecutor is more than aware of what a enormous mess this case is and how bad it'll look if this gets out, not to mention a civil suit will absolutely be warranted. I think the prosecutor is playing damage control, trying to protect the cops and himself and his office by getting me to accept any plea i lose the right to sue. Anyone with advice please give it, I just want this to be over.

I wish you were the attorney for our son. He has been put thru so much.

The women have learned to weaponize a court system that accepts any lies carte Blanche and then it’s up to the defendant to prove his innocence? Family court is like a Tribunal where you lose the second a false accusation is accepted by the court as valid and the case is made without any conclusive evidence nor consequences fir the liars

I had a stroke that pretty much impaired my right side but i was throwing Mike Tyson rights got my daughter lying and saying she seen me with my hand up in the air. Haven't raised that hand in nearly two years over my head... how do women not get prosecuted for lying and soliciting others to 🤥 lie

YOU KNOW DV ITS A HUGE PROBLEM …AND YOU KNOW IT IS PERPETRATED 95% by MEN …..SO YOU BETTER DEFEND WOMEN ONLY ….

I always thought that a false accusation could destroy a man but your video gives me hope that innocent men could put up a good defense if they know how to respond in the courtroom or if they have a great attorney.

Hey I was asked to leave. I left our apartment 4 hours later. left my twins and my love And am homeless found out the day. of the court date I had a restraining order out against me back 3 weeks. I had 3 violations reported for attempting to say I mis you and the kids tell them I love them. Hey I would love to our kids hun

I was falsly accused numerous times in New York because I won a custody trial. I was jailed twice -- almost four times. I brought a carefully prepared binder to court, and the lawyers laughed at me. The judge never saw it. The judge had no intention of giving me a trial. My acuser never even showed up once during the year and a half I was forced to appear in court on s monthly basis. The court wouldn't look at text message printouts. It's an assembly line there. If you're male, you're guilty, and females suffer no consequences for false accusations. They want you to lead guilty and take an anger management class. But I want guilty and wanted a trial. I saw a video on KZfaq of a woman smashing a man's car taken by a him from his front doorway with his mother by his side. The police wouldn't even look at it. VAWA provides federal funds and incentives to the courts to persecute men. The Queens DA bragged about record high "wife beater" arrests. Dixie Demonrat Joe Biden pushed VAWA through to save his political ass after the Anita Hill debacle. VAWA is based on the Duluth model -- an anti-male feminist/marxist lie.

Yes, your words have power to be used against you in a court of law. Not to your benefit in a court of law. It's (your words) always levied against you which is unfair and biased. Its abuse of the 1st ammendment which does explicitly protect any and all forms of speech up to and including threats. The problem is newer generations in positions of power abusing the legal system and undermining its original intent.

How do you present video

What if the audio is very loud and threatening with words like kill, dead, rape..but the person is mentally ill? What if only part is transcribable..it is security camera off my kitchen. Person is harassing me from a trailer next to my fence

The founders would be horrified at the current system. If you are counting speedy in years, it isn't speedy. Several states don't even have speedy trial clauses. We have individuals in jail right now that have been there for years without trial. Citizens shouldn't have to petition the courts to get their rights respected. There should be a time limit in days not years, after which time they case must be dismissed and the person freed period.

Does text messages of prior verbal abuse count as relevant evidence? She told the police I was threatening her but has no proof. She was threatening me but I have no current proof. I do have many older texts from her saying similar things to the threats she made to me.

this is such a violation of rights - I cannot tell u how violated I feel right now - I called the cops on a verbal argument, they saw a bruise on my leg i said he did it on accident when he threw my phone…they do not care they showed up two wks later at my door, made me wait outside in the heat until they got a warrant to go in and get him…now my relationship is completely ruined - The justice system is crap now they dont listen to “victims” anymore

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You’re the BEST, Veronica. Thanks for explaining the standard of proof. I didn’t know the standard was actually different between the DVRO and the CHRO (here in CA).

Nah, stay Capt. Slapahoe. Disrespect deserves slappage!

Whats her OF?

Remember guys when you catch your wife of 15 years with 5 other dudes in her phone you can’t get upset she’s just finding herself and will move the first dude with multiple felonies in to play house with your kids while you sit in county lockup for 8 months on her words that she’s afraid of you even if you have never touched her.

Yet when a woman says he disrespected me it's OK and used against him

Yeah but the wuss judge will cry and punish you if you don't show them respect.

You explain your side of the story by hiring a lawyer. You also avoid an RO/PFA by not engaging in domestic violence against your spouse or family.

Oh hitting someone over disrespect works fine if you are a Cop!

One would think lying in court would be wrong, and it is. Unless deemed the truth,, happens more often than you think...

None of that matters... You are 100% fucked if you are a guy

And cops have tried to arrest people that acted ( they said ) in a disrespectful manner , cops not knowing the law , their's no such thing as a charge of disrespect , but having a lawyer tell you what words not to use in court well worth the money ......just saying......

Only thing that matters is if u are a woman. The " justice " system is biased in favor of the woman everytime

Language and words matter in Court

who the ef is this for? "dont forget guys, if you beat your wife dont tell the judge it was due to disrespect, even if it was." what good are you doing in the world with a video like this?

In other words, the I was provoked defense won’t work.

Always keep your hands to yourself! Leave when you are angry!

Thank you for the video. This puts me somewhat more at ease

Always and never

I prefer this argument: “No State shall enter into any Treaty, Alliance, or Confederation; grant Letters of Marque and Reprisal; coin Money; emit Bills of Credit; make any Thing but gold and silver Coin a Tender in Payment of Debts; pass any Bill of Attainder, ex post facto Law, or Law impairing the Obligation of Contracts, or grant any Title of Nobility.”

I called 911 for help. Abuse was going on for years. I was hit by them while standing at the kitchen sink. Struck me on the side of head with fist. I had a full bowl of water in my hands when I was hit. In retaliation I dumped the water on them immediately after getting hit. They came at me reaching for the bowl so I let them grab from me. They wielded as if to hit but instead threw on the ground and it broke. I then walked to our garage. About 1 minute later they went into the garage and continued calling me names. After about 30 seconds of that I insulted them back. There a carpenter level on the ground and they picked it up and began swinging it at me. I retreated at first. Then I had nowhere to retreat. They stopped swinging it briefly. Then swung thev level low and hit me on the legs. I decided that was it. We had call history going back 28 years. These incidents had happened many times. I called 911 for help. Police believed them when they lied and I was arrested. Found out later. They put together that I not only got them wet, but rather threw the entire bowl full of water. The bowl hitting them. It shattered into pieces. And it could have hit our 5 year old. Police said marks on my legs were not consistent with the weapon Restraining order was filed. I hitedxa lawyer fought And fought it well. I had audio recordings of them making threats. They were allowed. They claimed it was not them on the recording. Claimed it was our adult daughter instead. Voice was dead on them and not daughter. My lawyer pinned them in a corner over who it was. They responded no comment. Perjury was clear. My turn on stand. Judgevkeeps jumping in asking questions. How many swings. Asked the same questions but worded differently. Asked me leading questions. I always saud 4 swings total. First two missed, second two hit legs. Did I have my hands up Yes. But you didn't have injuries on your arms? No I did not. First two swings I backed up and avoided being hit. One I was pinned I kept my hands up but they swung att my legs and hit them. Lawyer asks me if it's natural to raise arms when defending oneself. I agreed. Yet you did not have your arms raised? Yes I did. Judge jumps in so you had your arms up? Yes. And you were struck on the arms? NO, I was struck on the legs. So there was a total of 3 swings? N0, 4 swings. So how many did they have at you before making contact? First two missed as I could back up. Last two I could no longer back up and I was hit on the legs. Did you take a swing at them? No. Why not? I just didn't. Could you just take the level out of their hands? We'll when I tried or did that in the past I didn't help. It made it worse. Then in doing so they start to scratch and bite and it's hard to contain them. Especially because your trying to not hurt them. That hasnt helped before. I stopped doing that. But your bigger stronger? Yes I agree 100% your honor with that but again it's hard to contain someone when your trying no to hurt them back. It's a really hard situation to deal with. I know it appears that it shouldn't be but it is. So, you just let it happen? Well, um yes. My lawyer tried to object; that mistates the evidence; the police was notified. We'll that's not what the court asked. If they did anythingvto try and stop it. And you just let it happen. .......... this was all the judge. He basically was cross examining me along with the lawyer. Once he failed at mixing me up with the number of swings. He resorted to why I didn't stop it. Judge then went on and called a so-calked witness back on the stand and created evidence to raise dought. Judge started asking where the weapon "level" was kept? How high was it kept? The other party is short in stature. Judge on his own brought up that subject. All the while the entire testimony had stated level was on the ground. Judge threw out my bank statements. They were claiming I was not providing money. Statements showed otherwise ( self authenticating). Witness they had claimed my 5 year old told them I threw bowl and water at them. Son is autistic. Not only did that not happen but he can't express that. Regardless it's hearsay. My lawyer said it was hearsay at closing arguments. Judge stopped him and asked; did you object? So if i understand correctly , he allowed that hearsay due to no objection. Yet he threw out my bank statements. Restraining order was granted for 3 years. I left the court wondering what happened. The judge clearly had it out for me. He really did. All along the process he seemed fair. Yet at trial it was different. This is all I think about. My situation. One day I thought about how cps was called. They interviewed us. The judge had brought it up at a couple of our hearings. He asked if we had heard anything from them. That had alarmed me at the time. Then it was never mention again. It took 4vmonths to get to trial. I began search how to see if there was a cps report. After scouring the earth I was able to get a copy. The report makes look like an absolute monster. Every lie is quoted as fact and my truth is just dismissed. The opening sentence: Agency contacted by RP officer Dan Boyle WSPD. (They forgot to black out his name on a page) of a domestic violence incident perpetrated by the father in which a bowl of water was thrown in the proximity of minor child in which he could have been seriously hurt............ that is what that social worker documented as fact. Report was competed early December, trial was late December. I didn't know what to do. Appeal? How? I owed my sister $5k for the bail. I paid the lawyer $5k we lost. I had to pay $1900 monthly to them. And now I owe $9k to the irs.filing single now. At first I thought the judge should not have read it but now I think it's allowed. Either way itcshoukd have swayed him but it did. And how would one prove that anyway.............it was just domino effect starting g with the police they believed there ridiculous lies. It's comoval when there description hiw my ex describes what happened I s vastly from police report to DVRO filed the very next day Two totally different stories. Lied in court about me not providing money Claimed I had canceled our car insurance. Which prompted me to call. Policy wasn't canceled but they created a new policy with only some if the vehicles and only them. Leaving me with a police with only me and 1 vehicle. And it needed a rewrite. I has 30 days or it would be canceled. I asked how was I to know this? The stated they mailed a letter and left msg. They sent letter to the address I'm restalned from and left msg on phone of person I'm restrained from. My stopped working. It was reported stollen. When I brough this up. Court didn't care. Domino effects cups are wrong. Social piggy backs of them then ultimately judicial system failed me. I'm a male, so tried to be tuff for a long time. Years, it got very bad the last few. She would pick dangerous things and throw them. Like a hammer. She would say watch when your sleeping. She told me she would send me to jail. (false allegations). That I would never see my kids again. I got depressed. Finally out if desperation I called. Now I'm in a worse place mentally than before. I'm 46, I live with my parents that are in there late 80's. I'm lucky to still have them. I'm grateful . Only people that love you unconditionally. But it's odd? not normal. Everything was taken from me. My home, all my stuff. Stuff was sent to me but it was just junk. My children were stolen from me. I can call them twice a weak. But she is hovering in the background. If I tell them I miss them there eyes shiftt were she is. They don't want to give a response she will disapprove of and get angry about. Don't tell him you miss him! He chose not to be here with you. He told me he didn't want to raise you guys.... she will tell the 5 year old that he helped mommy. You told your big brother what happened. Your dad almost hurt us when he threw something. He wasn't a nice person. That's why we made him stay away,......

I have a public defender but I also have evidence where my ex is basically lying and even after writing a statement and having court soon ask to chill with me and hang out should I give that information to my public defender on court day to show if I was such a threat why would you wanna be around me or hang out 🤷🏾‍♂️

Very true, I understand how we got to this point… but in some cases false accusations are used to “stick it to” a significant other to gain ground or to punish the other. Just another way to control, false accusations is a form of abuse.

My ex could only move in with her twin sister (for free) if she showed her a restraining order on me.... with no incident, and my friend being a family law attorney, we had it dismissed when she didn't show in court. I've know of women who had men arrested and while in jail, his tools, etc... were somehow stolen, or just gone... put his vehicle where it will be towed, etc... being so focused on the DV charges, they can't do anything about the property. I really like how you wanted to not use GENDER in the description.... I believe that if polce reports were written with ((SUBJECT 1 & 2, etc)) where the DA doesn't know who is who. .. Also, I think a voice to printed word program should be used over , or along with a SUMMARY REPORT hand written.