I never bonded with my mom even as an infant. She was so neglectful and absent I feel like i dont even know what im missing out on.

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So needed to hear this. I never really fitted in & belonged. No matter what I do it's never good enough. Constantly bombarded with shame & criticism it makes it so hard to go on. Thank you so much for this 💜

There is so much truth to this, and I agree.... and this is how many systems work. Systems beget systems. Most are caught up in it but kind of know that, and try to blend their values into the system. There is still art and writing and marveling at life. It is painful though to not feel valued. Everyone is valuable.

What you say is very true. But ..here is the but of course, we live in a capitalistic society. Pure Socialism doesn’t work here. Places like Finland where the trash collector is equal to the surgeon are unique because they have a smaller population. I wish we could find a way to make it make sense short of moving to another country. Perhaps if the entire world woke up contemporaneously and realized that we are all equal, that we are all one and stopped pushing aside or stepping on others to get ahead, then we would all demilitarize and put the defense spending money to good use toward a Utopia. But how can that ever happen? The mind fears because it thinks we are separate. We teach our kids to fear because we think they need to in order to survive. We have the teachings of Jesus, Buddha, Ghandi etc. all saying love the poor because we are all one, but we ignore them. We distort the teachings. What else can be done?

Girl, who hurt you?

I am extremely unhappy with my civil service job. All i do is juggle papers and pretend to be busy while deep down i know this job is extremely meaningless

"Healed people, heal the world." Amen sister! Thank you for this amazing video and all the work you are doing. This is the root of the movement to the New Earth.

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Thank you, Myrthe!

Thank you Myrthe❣ Beautifully and eloquently described. Insightful, soothing and validating☀️ 💫🕊🐛💝🙏🏼💝🦋🕊💫

Self worthiness is a myth of this world

Good job!

This video really was a eye opener. Als reconized the dutch accent in secconds❤

It's not just our woman who have been broken and wounded by this system.

Hi great video! Can you go more in depth with specific processes for healing the trauma of emotional abandonment

I also dont have boundaries. It has led to relationship issues with my pregnant girlfriend. I have ao much work to do on myself its probably good that she separated from me 😩

This is so on point! I have certainly suppressed anger completely. I thought it was a useless emotion. I got angry once in highschool and blacked out and every since then I got rid of it.

So afraid to take up space.

Top Myrthe, Thnx!❣ 🌷💫🕊🐛💝🙏🏼💝🦋🕊💫🌷

Three reasons why people are fearful of speaking up - Anti semitism racist conspiracy theorist

Oh lord ..I don’t have this problem

Absolutely grateful for having your guidance on this journey 🙏💛

I agree with everything you said except for blaming it on society or capitalism or whatever.... These issues have been around since way before capitalism or modern society. Thankfully we know now how to fix these issues in ourselves. It is on us to train others, especially the next generation, on how to help and heal rather than deflect and blame

I want to thank you 🙏💙 Today I expressed anger in a way I hardly ever do. It was just a loud response to a very usual bully atitude. I was surprised of myself and on porpoise I let myself repeat louder. The person was confused but I didn't explain. This is after few days doing your somatic meditation. I usually freeze and no respond

thank you so much, really needed this message today

Thank you, it makes so much sense. It seems counterintuitive and is certainly subversive in the constant self-improvement culture we live in. You are a true revolutionary, Myrthe, and I love that! 😊 I guess allowing the sense of failure in me, and not fighting it with trying to do more, helps to process it and move on. And then actually do more. 😁

Thankyou so much for this. I broke down yesterday feeling exactly this. I haven't been able to cry properly for decades. I have been onna spiritual awakening and finally the tears are flowing, it seems just as I make progress more wounds are coming up. More layers are shedding and there is so much hurt and vulnerability underneath. You are such a beautiful soul, keep doing what you are doing, there is such value to your words and work ❤❤❤ 🙏 love and light xjxxx

Resonating. Thank you Myrthe.

Thank you so much. You are so kind and just an awesome person. I’m going to watch this a few more times to let it sink in but I’m really starting to get it now. I need to stop judging how I feel and let it flow and process naturally.

I always feel defeated. I have not tried to do anything in years.

Hello, love listening to you, but audio a little too low. 😅 Have a good day tho!

I've felt awkward with knowing that I have been there and find it hard to accept. The sermons that come with fighting off the negative and replace your defeated spirit with a fighters spirit. I couldn't agree more on how that seems to go but so far before feeling defeated all over again. Does anyone have an idea how that seems to act like a placebo from the medicine cabinet. I just have gotten to think maybe our approach in life should be of a working mindset. Like a job we grow tired of but realize it's something we have to put and invest more time than we thought we had. There is no quick fix no shortcut and no escape. This is why the world promotes alcohol professional sports to follow film and stage entertainment. This is the sure way to lose yourself in the victory of others while you return to a less than productive life. I'm happy in knowing there awaits a better version of ourselves thru a relentless and consistent pursuit than that of the influence of others.

I love your lesson and voice so much . I really hope you can upload your video more frequently. Do remember working hard . I will support you all the time

I resonate so much with this. The perfectionism I experience prevents me from starting. It's different to the perfectionism that has someone always doing something perfect and not being able to leave it alone until perfection is reached

The crickets are lovely. Thank you 😊

Amazingly described ❤

Self 'w0rthiness' is a mirage of this realm. Made specifically to keep you in lack

It’s so lucky I’m the first person to write the comments. Keep hard working. I will support you all the time

Wow, mind blowing! Day dreaming vs working on reality

Your voice is so calming and grounding