Stay strong. You can make it l did. Love and what power i can send your way!😊
@user-gd3nu6wc4o4 күн бұрын
Frankly speaking I’m impressed. The girl can fix her van, can cook, can make all this journey alone, she is smiling and don’t get panic. Can dress so cute. I’m 37 and I’ve seen a lot of girls but I can’t imagine anybody of them doing this things. They look like disabled compared to this girl. Fantastic. I can't deal with the nose ring, but it’s your choice. I’m impressed. Sending you Hi from Russia
@user-gd3nu6wc4o4 күн бұрын
Forgot to say that most of all I’m impressed how brave you are
@mikeauxbig4 күн бұрын
Alcoholism is slavery. Also the bull rings in your nose is a sign of slavery. Take them out. You're too cute/pretty for that.
@dman0305 күн бұрын
Ahhh, good ol' Berlin. I can still smell the Doner and Cigarettes :-) Three years was enough for me. Happy for you that you got your control back, maybe you will start a new trend there. :-) Best wishes on your healthy journey.
@KarolinaBaltulyte5 күн бұрын
Döner, Bier and Cigarettes;)
@Meditations20246 күн бұрын
My Uncle died at 45 from drinking, his liver simply shut down. He looked a lot older than he was becasue of the drinking and smoking. Like death. When I hear the song "Whiskey Lullaby," I think of him. After my aunt died of cancer, he had no one stopping him anymore and he put that bottle to his head and pulled the trigger. This year, I turn 45 myself and pretty much still look the same way I did 20 years ago when he passed. I live in Wisconsin, so this sort of thing is relatively prevalent, like in Germany. You can tell when someone's a heavy drinker or heavy smoker. It changes your countenance. It changes your voice. It costs you money and it wastes your life. Try gardening instead.
@bonsummers26576 күн бұрын
Where are the moderate drinkers? Beer in moderation, wine in moderation, sober, for calories, nutrition, and liquid. Water alone doesn't suffice, though it's ok.
@memoryroom63886 күн бұрын
Day 29 of not drinking and already there is a big difference. The journey continues.
@1Jason7 күн бұрын
Thank for this video. I am 10 weeks sober. I have gone much longer sober in the past, but this time I am feeling positive about it. I look at it more like I have quit negative thinking this time. Every morning on my way to work, I list all the things I am grateful for in life. Before I go to bed at night, I list the things I have achieved that day. No more dwelling on past mistakes. Just focusing on being the best I can be now.
@KarolinaBaltulyte7 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing! You are right. Putting focus on the best, practicing gratefulness and positive self talk is an amazing power. And holding onto the past or mistakes or feeling like an alcoholic failure is what makes it so hard getting away from alcohol . Beating ourselves up won’t free us
@SteMcgarry-xy5gb9 күн бұрын
Im sober 3 years now and i have good and bad days. I assumed my whole life would fall into place when i stopped drinking, but guess what it didn't lol. However, i will never drink again, i can't even imagine the thoughts of it. I am lonely as i have lost a lot of so called friends but i have made some new friends and fell in love. I still have a long way to go dealing with issues from my past but to anyone thinking of quitting it saved my life. I was a few weeks away from death and i didn't care, i dont want to die now. Best of luck everyone, God bless xx
@czanderrrКүн бұрын
I'm 6 months sober and I feel in a similar boat, I really thought I'd magically become my pre-alcohol self again which is most definitely not the case (losing the weight I gained, anxiety and depression gone, etc). So that combined with losing some "friends", and having to figure out what I like doing outside of the house that isn't alcohol related, all has made it a bit tough, but I remind myself every day how much worse I would feel with alcohol in my life again. Best of luck to you on your journey as well!
@brianhagues722410 күн бұрын
I stopped drinking 1 month ago. I feel better already. Thank you for sharing. Very inspirational!
@LP-hs6yz10 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@kutup33311 күн бұрын
I just eat a little bit of mushroom or sassafras if I want to party. It’s great I hate alcohol
@KarolinaBaltulyte11 күн бұрын
Sassafras? I’ve never heard of this. But mushroom… for sure ;)
@mannyak83213 күн бұрын
Good job!
@cherylreiter210713 күн бұрын
Wow! Who would think a self centered life would do this to someone! I guess being relaxed and crazy served you well!
@wdwdHenry902213 күн бұрын
You can cover paths and spots where you have camped with new leaves, grass and small sticks this covers your trace but also gives a layer of mulch for the forest to regrow faster.
@KarolinaBaltulyte13 күн бұрын
Thanks for the tip!
@fallstaffbrewingco265114 күн бұрын
Drink * only * MALT LIQUOR.
@gonetoheaven747815 күн бұрын
thanks for the inspiration
@JOMaMa..16 күн бұрын
I quit drinking 10 years ago..best thing I’ve ever done
@nottooherbal16 күн бұрын
Lots of young people amongst others are doing the same thing, very sensibly . Your attire went nicely with the surroundings.
@BillNobcheese16 күн бұрын
Good job ❤
@BillNobcheese15 күн бұрын
It's very dangerous to go bk tho , everytime i try to go bk to moderate drinking it ends in destruction. Thankfully I soon realise and with an almighty effort go cold turkey then stop again . Its far easier just staying sober , but u have to experience that yourself , but the horror is ' what if one time I dont manage the cold turkey , and that's it . Stuck for life as an alcoholic ' a life of pure suffering .
@craigfoster99617 күн бұрын
My story matches yours, I feel great now, your a brave person, well done 👏🏻, I send you my love ❤xx
@ThePaulaon117 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this and having the courage to do so. You will help and save so many people ❤️
@kastaways125917 күн бұрын
Congratulations! Good job and keep it up . I just quit !
@KarolinaBaltulyte17 күн бұрын
Exciting! Focus on your goal, you will be so glad you did it 💪
@drunkdadchronicles18 күн бұрын
Your story brings me joy🥰🥰
@pacmanmum18 күн бұрын
I’ve had 7 hangovers this year and last year 24 and year before that 104 ,I can’t eat if I binge drink and every time I try moderate but fail and end up extremely hungover,anxiety through the roof vomiting etc etc,I’m 50 now ,I didn’t really go out much to parties etc ,mainly drank at home ,but I feel better sober but not great yet ,but only done 54 days so far ,but at the moment I’m only on day 4,it’s good you feeling this way as you not old yet
@KarolinaBaltulyte18 күн бұрын
It took me some years to stop drinking actually. A year or two before I stoped were for me more or less trying to stop, not daily drinking but still very frequent. And every time something got wrong in life, I would head to a shop, buy lot of drinks and go home. And whenever I drank, whether at home or outside, I would almost always get wasted till the bottom, getting sick and so. Mentally it was really difficult to reduce drinking which made it almost worst whenever I actually did. But I think that just gave a bit motivation to totally stop.
@Mrs.S-uk19 күн бұрын
You feel amazing so hold on to that thought. Have you heard of Annie Grace 'This Naked Mind' book and KZfaq channel with lots of videos of people sharing their stories od how they became alcohol free . She has such a positive approach and rather than labelling yourself as an 'Alcoholic" her approach is to make alcohol as insignificant as possible. The person isn't the problem....the alcohol is a very addictive substance. ❤ PS Robyn Wingerter KZfaq channel is very positive, such an inspiring lady with a great attitude. Keep going! X
@KarolinaBaltulyte18 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing all these resources. Gonna check them out right away! ♥️
@Mrs.S-uk18 күн бұрын
@@KarolinaBaltulyte You're welcome x
@briangohr888819 күн бұрын
Well done Karolina, wishing you continued growth and happiness in your life journey. You have come so far and accomplished so much. Keep reaching for the stars.
@KarolinaBaltulyte19 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words!
@moneyisweird786219 күн бұрын
Well done! Keep at it
@thedude260119 күн бұрын
What helped me was taking the cash I was wasting, putting it in a binder clip and keeping it in my pocket. It didn't take long to accumulate $3,000. a month which I used for more fun/productive ventures. Road trips, rafting, skiiing, clothes, lasik eye surgery, veneers, spa treatments, new labradoodle and of course scuba/golf.
@KarolinaBaltulyte19 күн бұрын
Oh yea, that’s a brilliant idea. I didn’t set this goal but I noticed anyways how much money I’m saving or I have for spending on other things . Good point
@annamontanasadventuresunde599521 күн бұрын
Read Allen Carr's Easy Way to Quit Drinking. It helps you see alcohol from a different perspective, outside social pressures and normalcy, for what it really is. Once you get radically honest with yourself, you no longer desire it, and when you lose the desire, it truly is easy and effortless to quit. You don't even think of it. I used Allen Carr's Easy Way books to quit smoking 4-1/2 years ago and to quit alcohol this year. I am not a paid spokesperson and I gain nothing from saying this. It truly is a way to fix the way you think about these harmful substances, and thereby fix yourself and it will feel easy.
@KarolinaBaltulyte21 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! It’s going to be the next in my reading list. Also, congratulations on quitting. It’s such a liberation and self esteem boost
@ThePaulaon117 күн бұрын
I've just downloaded his book on Audible and also The Naked Mind, thanks to the recommendations in the comments. Thanks
@gilberttorres939116 күн бұрын
His book should be required reading
@AnnaAwesome7722 күн бұрын
I definitely will read this book. Amazing information that will help educate and unite us worldwide❤. After all, we are one world of humans, trying to live our best lives and improve the lives of the future humans. ❤🎉
@KarolinaBaltulyte22 күн бұрын
Thank you, Anna! And thank you for your inspiring comment. Yes, education and understanding each other definitely unite us more ♥️ and accepting that we are all the same
@johnmurphy146622 күн бұрын
Absolutely well done Karolina 👌 I’m 8 months in and feeling good
@Jack-il3qv22 күн бұрын
Mix with drunks and you'll become a drunk.
@richardbrewis43622 күн бұрын
Danke schün :)!
@tuushuu22 күн бұрын
this was very relatable <3
@KarolinaBaltulyte22 күн бұрын
I’m very glad !
@elisabethdorrer483124 күн бұрын
I never enjoyed drinking the way most people do , so I stopped alltogether 39 years ago. I am glad this young woman has finally broken the habit!
@redrider19924 күн бұрын
great video and such a positive message
@jemazondo933126 күн бұрын
In the AA book, it says a true alcoholic has lost the ability to drink normally. That means no going back to the days of having 1-2 drinks with dinner. Of course everyone has to decide that for themselves. I haven’t had a drink in 8 months. I know if I try to have just one, it’ll spiral out of control again. I have a lot to lose. Thanks for sharing your experience. Same as you I drank because I was shy 🙈
@KarolinaBaltulyte24 күн бұрын
Great job, 8 months ! 👏👏👏 thank you for a great reminder. I really have to accept that 1-2 drinks with a meal might never work. I believe that, that’s why I don’t dare to do it I think
@snu387712 күн бұрын
William Porter in his book Alcohol Explained really made me realize that heavy drinkers cannot moderate, and it is best to give up that idea. In his book, he describes it like this: think of being a race car driver. When you quit drinking, you are abandoning that 'car' on the race track. Months or years later, you may begin to think "hmm... I've been doing so well not drinking. Maybe I can drink again, and it will be different this time." He said that you are thinking that when you try to reintroduce it, you will be at the starting line of the race track again, a brand new drinker. BUT... in fact, Porter says, you will be starting right where you left off, with that car on the track. In no time at all, you will be back at your old level of drinking. I once read, "I can control my drinking or I can enjoy it, but not at the same time." The beauty of abstinence is your head isn't in the game anymore. No more negotiating with yourself if you are going to drink, or when, or how much.... It is exhausting. @@KarolinaBaltulyte
@jmcc788627 күн бұрын
thank you, great video
@MDBiblio28 күн бұрын
no you won't be able "to drink a glass of wine with a meal". never. be honest with yourself! you are an alcoholic, you will be back to binge drinking in no time. don't make this mistake! no alcohol is the only solution
@KarolinaBaltulyte28 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this!
@Flimpofloempieflomp29 күн бұрын
Very interesting to see/hear about your book recommendation. While i don't agree with everything you've mentioned some points you're making are valid imho, especially concerning the media and politics being out of control and pushing all sides to extremes. It seems that civil discourse has been thrown out of the window nowadays and the group that screams the loudest is right. Now i'm not a researcher or a scholar and certainly can't put up a book review such as eloquantly as you did. so i did some online sleuthing and came across an article written by an economist and a former researcher of the CPB regarding the book. The author, Hans Roodenburg is an economist and led research at the Central Planning Bureau into the economic consequences of immigration. In this article mr. Roodenburg reviews the book from a more economic viewpoint and applies the 'myths' in Hein de Haas' book to local (Dutch) microdata which seems to paint a different picture. I've tried to translate the article from Dutch to English with the help of google translate. It worked pretty well i must say but please forgive me if there are some errors in the text. If you want a link to the article i can post it but it's all in dutch. Oh and by the way, congratulations on your sobriety. That video was recommended to me and is how i've found you 🙂. 'There is no evidence that immigration affects the viability of the welfare state.' This statement can be found in the book How Migration Really Works , published last week, subtitled The true story about migration based on 22 myths . The author is the social scientist Hein de Haas, currently affiliated with the University of Amsterdam (UvA). The author presents himself as an objective observer who stands above the parties in the immigration debate. And as the subtitle indicates, he sees it as his job to debunk what he sees as myths circulating in that debate. The above quote concerns Myth 9 of 22. Hein de Haas's book is not tailored to the Dutch situation A complete review of that book of over 500 pages is beyond the scope of an article for Wynia's Week . But in the limitation the master reveals himself, and on the basis of a few salient points (mainly of a financial and economic nature) I will try to give an impression of the extent to which the author has succeeded in achieving the ambition expressed in the title of the book. speaks to reality. The present book has been translated from English and is not tailored to the Dutch situation. The argumentation is mainly based on foreign studies and examples. And that is immediately a weak point. Because, especially when it comes to the effects of immigration on public finances, the applicable institutions such as legislation and regulations regarding the tax system and welfare state arrangements, as well as the composition of the migrant population by origin, migration motive and human capital, are of decisive importance. And the destination countries show major differences in this regard. De Haas's claim that there is no evidence that immigration affects the viability of the welfare state is mainly based on a study commissioned by the OECD into the effects of immigration on collective finances in the member states (including the Netherlands) of this organization . This research is based on databases, such as samples, that do not contain sufficient specific information. The result is that differences between migrants and other residents are 'flattened'. Furthermore, the second generation has not been taken into account in the figures, which means that a large part of the effects remains out of view. Regarding the method, the so-called 'static' method was chosen, a 'snapshot' that does not take life course effects into account. Since the migrant population is relatively young, the costs during old age (care, AOW) are underestimated. No further distinction is made between groups of migrants. The often large differences between migrant groups with good and poor economic performance are thus not highlighted. Social assistance benefits mainly go to non-Western immigrants To do such a study properly, you need microdata with exact financial and other data of the residents involved, you also have to include the second generation and take life-cycle effects into account. See the Borderless Welfare State report (2021), which - not surprisingly - reaches much less rosy conclusions. Moreover, these microdata offer the opportunity to differentiate immigrants by origin, migration motive and education level, which provides starting points for a selective immigration policy. The fact that immigration from non-Western countries is at odds with a sustainable welfare state is also evident from the extreme overrepresentation of people with a non-Western migration background in social assistance. More than half of all social assistance benefits go to this group. This is approximately seven times as much per capita as for the rest of the population. This benefit dependence is relatively high and persistent, especially among asylum migrants. This not only concerns the billions in social assistance benefits and extras, such as allowances, that are involved in this overrepresentation, but also the signal that there is something structurally wrong with the ability, or motivation, of the migrants involved to participate. run in the country of arrival. Priority for status holders is unpleasant for other home seekers All in all, there are strong indications that the sustainability of the Dutch welfare state is indeed at risk due to immigration, which calls into question Hein de Haas's 'no evidence'. Another hot topic, in addition to the sustainability of the welfare state, is the pressure that immigration exerts on the housing market in the Netherlands. This market is characterized by an unprecedented and hopeless housing shortage: a shortage of around 400,000 homes, and residents who have been on the waiting list for social housing for years (sometimes in double figures). It is especially painful for those waiting to see that status holders (asylum migrants) are given preference in the allocation of those scarce social housing units. The Amsterdam professor's views on the housing shortage are explained in the book using both foreign examples and more specifically the Dutch situation. He rightly points out that the lagging housing production here in the country is the result of government policy. But this is only half the story, because the housing shortage is of course the result of both supply and demand. And in terms of demand, we are not only dealing with household dilution and replacement demand due to demolition, but also with population growth, which is caused approximately one to one by immigration. A government that is serious about tackling the housing shortage cannot avoid also curbing out-of-control immigration. De Haas is not there yet. He speaks of 'allegations' aimed at refugees, and politicians who often blame the 'mass' influx of refugees and other migrants for the increasing shortage of affordable housing. But moralistic reflections on 'blaming' do not get us any further. There is nothing wrong with identifying the causes of the situation so that the problem can be solved. De Haas could have left out the quotation marks next to 'mass', as far as the Netherlands is concerned. Last year more than 400,000 migrants were added, good for a net migration of almost 230,000 people. Immigration in that one year quickly results in an additional housing shortage approaching 100,000.
@Flimpofloempieflomp29 күн бұрын
'Push factors' don't matter In the author's view, the driving force behind migration is the demand for labor in the more prosperous countries. So-called 'push' factors, such as poor living conditions in the countries of origin, hardly play a role, according to him. He regards these as caricatures that play on stereotypes of 'Third World misery'. Migration is - according to De Haas - not a desperate escape from an unliveable situation, but the outcome of a well-considered decision to seize the opportunity for income improvement offered by the relentless demand for, in particular, low-skilled labor in the countries of destination. Supply and demand meet: at first glance a win-win situation for both migrant and employer. However, they are not the only ones experiencing the consequences of this migration. First of all, there is the issue of wage depression and displacement ('they are taking our jobs'). A myth according to De Haas (number 8 to be precise). Empirical studies by economists on these issues do not lead to clear conclusions and, to the extent that these effects have been demonstrated, they are, according to the author, negligible. But there's more. Immigration of low-paid labor has negative external effects, especially in the Netherlands. First of all, low-paid work leads to a net loss for collective finances. Furthermore, the increase in the population due to labor migration worsens the housing shortage and the already high pressure on sectors such as healthcare and education. It is also possible to point out the negative consequences of increasing population density for the living environment, and then there is the decrease in social cohesion. For a more detailed treatment of these topics, see my previous articles here and here . All in all, reason enough to argue for a cautious labor migration policy. Private benefits and public costs I may have missed it, but nowhere have I read anything that shows that these negative external effects have a place in De Haas's world of thought. Things have changed recently in Dutch civil service and politics. We once again recall this warning from top civil servant Rits de Boer (Inspector General of the Labor Inspectorate): 'On balance, the private revenue model for labor migration is characterized by private benefits and public costs. The social tasks and costs associated with migration are not reflected in the cost/benefit assessment of employment agencies/employers. In that sense, they pass on the burden, not only in the here and now, but also for later generations.' More recently, a similar warning could be recorded from Pieter Hasekamp, director of the Central Planning Bureau, during the EW Economics lecture. In politics, the SP has traditionally been very critical of labor migration as an advocate of the working class, more recently followed by the also left-wing Christian Union. Pieter Omtzigt's NSC has also been very critical of labor migration. As an aside: in my opinion, a factor in these parties is that they are attempting to divert attention from the spiraling asylum problem, which is a major concern for a majority of voters. Can we conclude that De Haas has succeeded in his mission to tell the 'real story' about migration? When we zoom in on the Dutch case, as can be seen from the examples given above, there are some things to be said about that story. In addition, the author tends to downplay, if not downplay, the undeniable problems associated with migration. An example of this is the high crime rate among migrants (Myth 12). We know that almost two-thirds of the prison population has a migration background. De Haas portrays those involved as victims by pointing to prejudice and ethnic profiling as causes. Fodder for the immigration lobby The refugee crisis, the abuse of the asylum procedure, the numbers, it's all not that bad according to De Haas (Myth 3). Regarding those numbers: in the Netherlands it is often heard that asylum seekers and status holders respectively only make up a small part of total immigration. But on the other hand, this group has a relatively large impact on society, partly due to low return migration and high benefit dependence. That the asylum system - especially in the Netherlands - has had its best days has been convincingly demonstrated by that other social scientist Ruud Koopmans in his book The Asylum Lottery (2023). Talk about debunking myths! The Netherlands has an active immigration lobby with hardliners such as Leo Lucassen and Thomas Spijkerboer. Hein de Haas's presentation is generally more moderate, but the gist of his argument is not that different.
@Flimpofloempieflomp29 күн бұрын
Quite a wall of text. 😅
@KarolinaBaltulyte28 күн бұрын
Hey, hey! Wow thank you for your reply and sharing this article with me. It’s very good to read it and gain a new perspective, comments about the book. I’m gonna read it once again, could you still share a link or the article ? Something that I agree about, that the book was generalizing migration globally , and the points he brought up might not apply to everywhere. I think this was lacking of that clarity a bit. Although some of the comments in this article also seem to not really be accurate on what De Haas wrote. For example about the myth 12. In the chapter the authors says much more than this. I feel the article is written by a person who just skipped through the book without fully reading? Or maybe it’s a translation error that gives that impression ? Or maybe he just wanted to comment on certain points only. Anyhow, I appreciate that you shared this with me, I’m gonna look into this more! Thank you
@andreflavell3453Ай бұрын
your lucky you didn’t get alcohol dementia. well done .
@TizaCreativa1983Ай бұрын
Karolina this beach ⛱️ is sooo beautiful!!
@KarolinaBaltulyteАй бұрын
Croatia is amazingly beautiful 😍
@OkGoonchАй бұрын
TFW no europoor alkie waitress gf
@tylerd.5694Ай бұрын
😂 she does kinda look like the waitress.
@ThePaulaon117 күн бұрын
Eh?
@tylerd.569417 күн бұрын
@@ThePaulaon1 Always sunny in philly reference
@kydop6128Ай бұрын
Nice work! thanks for this motivation.
@KarolinaBaltulyteАй бұрын
Thank you!
@desthomas3020Ай бұрын
Big mistake trying to have a glass wine with dinner. Don't,don't,don't.
@antonboludo888610 күн бұрын
Amen.
@1Jason7 күн бұрын
What is even the point of having 1 glass of wine with dinner. Let's face it, most of us here probably like to drink to get drunk. Even if you could control it and have just one glass of wine, it's not going to be enjoyable really.