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4 жыл бұрын
how to get OVER your EX best friend
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@Slay_Beauty111
@Slay_Beauty111 Ай бұрын
i told my new bestie abt my ex bestie and now my bestie knows of her and now my new bestie said i wanna be friends with your ex bestie(im so Mad)
@s4faexox_965
@s4faexox_965 2 ай бұрын
My ex best friend is in my class 😭😭
@kaydenpitts-tl2vl
@kaydenpitts-tl2vl 4 ай бұрын
I have advice for y’all to say to everyone. If your ex best friend or boyfriend or girlfriend is trying to make you do something or don’t feel comfortable with that you shouldn’t be doing or hurting you it’s better to walk away and break up with them and maybe tell them about it…how you feel and just walk out that is want I did and I got tired of being treated like crap because they want to hurt ever worse and as you get order you slowly grew apart and it hurts to lose your best friend to changes and become a whole different person and it’s sucks but guess what you can make new friends if you want to but if not you can always tell god if your Christian and just tell him how you feel and now I feel sad but I stand up to myself and I told myself That I would never be alone There is a song that I listen to everyday “ I never walk alone” It’s a Christian song and it’s from Hope Darst But never let that person back into your life because it would only make things worse for you I hope this message helps who is having troubles getting over your ex best friend or boyfriend or girlfriend hope this helps
@Boopthe_bip
@Boopthe_bip 4 ай бұрын
I did not think I would need this video, but here I am. She is still in my friend group tho so idk what to do…..
@xotaeee
@xotaeee 4 ай бұрын
i just joined a friend group that I actually like but SHES in it
@conniemeiries7907
@conniemeiries7907 5 ай бұрын
I just lost my best friend today. I cared about him so much, but idk if he felt the same. I only known him for 2 years
@mayabythesea
@mayabythesea 5 ай бұрын
I was sick of feeling judged by her, sick of her little put downs and annoying competitiveness. Tired of being the one who cares more about the friendship. I miss her all the time still. I feel like Watson with no Holmes.
@MCOfficial895
@MCOfficial895 6 ай бұрын
My best friend left me for my other best friend and now they are gaslighting me this pain is too much to my heart and now they are waging wars against me and they also said a lot of rumors about me to all of the boys in class and now they're at their side I feel like a toy when bored you can use but when your bored again you can just throw.
@lana_354
@lana_354 5 ай бұрын
I hope u r ok My situation is not as bad as urs yet it still made me develop hatred, big hatred So I feel like ur situation must be very painful Stay strong love🫶🏼 best wishes And always remember, IT'S NOT UR FAULT
@JamieMcdonald418
@JamieMcdonald418 9 ай бұрын
I live near my ex bestie friend and how the he'll do I walk by and not give a f lol
@bangtanarmyot713
@bangtanarmyot713 9 ай бұрын
2 years... And I'm still not over it 🖤
@lily_marieeee
@lily_marieeee 10 ай бұрын
I rlly wanna see two ex bsfs in these comments-
@lottevasch
@lottevasch 11 ай бұрын
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@totallynot_Lilyyy
@totallynot_Lilyyy 11 ай бұрын
I lost my best friend of 2 years and it ended with a bad argument. She was gaslighting me and we got into arguments frequently. She would treat me like shit and tell me to stfu because all she wanted to do when we hung out for the first time in a year was talk to her boyfriend. She even made it clear that she valued her boyfriend of only a couple months over me her own best friend keep in mind she is 14 and he is 18 and she already called him her soulmate and wanted to have kids with him. They weren’t officially dating for legal reasons but they were planning to. She had wrote a almost 15 page letter that i edited for her, for her boyfriend, something she has never done for me. I’ve given more than she ever has because all she’s done has taken and there never was an equal give and take. I did everything for her and even saved her from past relationships. She started blaming me for making her cheat when she told me about this boy she knew when she was already talking to her current boyfriend. She never told me about him unfortunately and I “made” her cheat when she could’ve told me about her current boyfriend from the start. It’s weird that months later she brought it up that I was in the wrong for telling her to date the other guy unknowing that she was already dating the 18 yrold guy She is a gold digger and could only care for looks and a little personality. She always held onto the fact that I told her that she should date him and it was her worst decision according to her. This made her hate me for a while and she never told me. During the argument she finally did. She is a hypocrite and a liar. She went after my (now ex boyfriend) telling me to break up with him and I almost lost her because she hated my ex boyfriend so much. She hated that I wouldn’t listen to her telling me to break up with him and always criticized his looks and only was there to hear the bad parts of the relationship (my relationship with my ex boyfriend ended up being toxic and he replaced me with the girl I was worried about the whole 5 months of my relationship with him) then her new boyfriend and her start to call me names (wh-re and sl-t) because she told him about my sex life, even though it was just a couple times and everything happened just like what happened with my ex boyfriend and how the arguments ive had with my ex friend were the same and that she was a hypocrite, a gaslighter, and has the toxic trait of putting her faults on me and saying I’m playing victim. at that point I knew if she sided with her bf I would leave her with no remorse. And just that happened. I lost her i immediately blocked her on everything even accounts that didn’t friend her like her secret accounts I found so we couldn’t stalk eachother even if she found my secret account. I deleted apps that she wanted me to download in the past and I deleted every single imessage more than 17,000 messages were deleted. I was still friends with my ex boyfriend and we somehow still were cool but slowly he started to become toxic ever since I got a new boyfriend months after our breakup. He was jealous and he finally admitted it because he still loves me but apparently not because he decided to take out his problems on me because his bestfriend is sensitive and his gf would break up with him even though I’m very sensitive and those heartless messages he sent me with no explanation had me crying most times. He’s the type of person to bottle up his feelings and not tell people them. He would say these mean things and tell me something happened but he wouldn’t tell me what happened and he said “because I don’t need to know” sometimes it had me overthinking about wtf happened to him. It would happened almost every week and he would always blackmail me by threatening to say stuff about my bf or blocking me for a while or whole entire days. The day we stopped talking was the day I was over him trying to take out his problems on me and we talked. He blocked me on everything and I got him to friend me back on some socials and I ended up apologizing even when he was supposed to. He called me and my bf a bitch and said fuck you. So we talked it out and the only way we could be friends is telling our friend to tell him to be friends with me because apparently she is the only smart one and I know nothing. So I texted her what happened and I’m still waiting for a reply I know I should leave him but I still care about no matter what he does and it rly does sound delusional I know
@linco3217
@linco3217 11 ай бұрын
It really hurts right now, he said he'd never leave, and then he did. But I believe, everything will be alright soon. Thank you for the video ❤
@eva_notfind
@eva_notfind 11 ай бұрын
Man I can’t forgot her
@rose-id3xh
@rose-id3xh Жыл бұрын
she was such a victim 😢😢😢 💀💀💀
@_Your_local_arsonist_
@_Your_local_arsonist_ Жыл бұрын
Heyoo! but how do u get rid of them putting hate towards you by there user cause my game acc name is Void and my ex bff user is ''Voidistrash''
@georgesarmiento17
@georgesarmiento17 Жыл бұрын
My best friend chose his SUPER TOXIC CHEATING EX over me 😢
@DianaDoodles
@DianaDoodles Жыл бұрын
For 6-7 months ive been trying to heal from a fake friend who used ny incecurities against me
@banasolar
@banasolar Жыл бұрын
I LOVE TAME IMPALA TOO XDDD
@aardia.x
@aardia.x Жыл бұрын
i am angry i had a bsf breakup witha boy who was basically my bsf, i liked him.. we just randomly stopped talking , i tried to fix our friendship today but he roasted the shit out of me, fuck him i am furious he's an asshole a bitch ugh he's filthy, fat gross ugly ughhhh
@Aaliyah.luvs.summer
@Aaliyah.luvs.summer Жыл бұрын
Me and my best friend started drifting apart but we were fine but then we got into new trios but it was like we were still friends and out of no where one day she got mad at me for the simplest thing and then we stopped talking to eachother. Then one day I found out that she was going to a new school next year and it was the school I had gone to the year before and it was like she was only going there because I had so I was Lowkey mad abt that but then I started missing her after a while….me and her as well as my other friend were in a trio before all this happened but then she turned her against me and today she told me that she was also going to the school I had gone to the year before with my ex bestfriend. I don’t know where this all started or why but I tried to fix it and I couldn’t..💔
@sapphire_vibes
@sapphire_vibes Жыл бұрын
my best friend broke my heart without a reason .she left me for another pick me girl she met for under 4 months. i gave her a bestie neckalce and she gave me a picture she did of us, i really wanna rip that picture but whenever i see it i cry ....(she knew me for 4 yrs btw)
@kokichi_oma69
@kokichi_oma69 Жыл бұрын
when you’ve known them for 4 years, they replace you, make a trio with you and that person, leaves you for no reason, calls you a problem, spams you, and then you miss them so much but can’t do anything cause they don’t want you anymore.
@Finneyy9528
@Finneyy9528 Жыл бұрын
For me this happened 3yrs ago I’m learning to come to terms with it this video definitely helps thank you 🙏🏾 for sharing this
@lmao4258
@lmao4258 Жыл бұрын
I became friends with one of my classmates, and then she starts to act really selfish and bitchy. So much that I think she doesn’t even wanna be my friend anymore. Not only irl, but also on WhatsApp. She always tries to argue with me on there, so I removed her from the group chat, deleted her contact and I blocked her. But the thing is, that I will have school in a week, so that means I’ll see her again, which I do not want to. Someone pls help 😢
@skyesfunhouse3466
@skyesfunhouse3466 Жыл бұрын
It may me cry but I feel better now I didn’t want to cry adout it but when you let it all out you feel a lot better it is like when your listening to a sad song but you don’t want to cry but you should just let it out it feels good to let it out
@yellowxoxo
@yellowxoxo Жыл бұрын
I spoke 2 my ex BFF today for the first time in like 1 or 2 weeks and it feels like 7 weeks when I spoke 2 her it felt like we were beasties again but now I'm doubting the fact that I spoke to her and regretting it because now I know I'm probably going to lose it and have an entire breakdown infront of my class and like I do have supportive ppl sitting near me but it's really hard but she keeps giving me death stares when I play with others
@2003gamerflashfungirly
@2003gamerflashfungirly Жыл бұрын
Omg 2016-2021 rest in peace bestie angel hock
@annabanana2418
@annabanana2418 Жыл бұрын
It was 15 years of friendship. Still don’t know what happened.
@owen7122
@owen7122 Жыл бұрын
It sucks when the only way I could get out of the toxic friendship was by ghosting them. I didn't have the strength to tell them, but I knew I needed to get out
@Keze-ob3zz
@Keze-ob3zz Жыл бұрын
Even After I said tat she means alot to me ill never b the same if she leaves me she left me broo
@cherrystyles3829
@cherrystyles3829 Жыл бұрын
work everything out with them or just leave each other alone. be nice if they ever text you, blocking them isn't the solution.
@daaniajaved5993
@daaniajaved5993 Жыл бұрын
I literally lost her just bcuz of a picture 🥹
@nataliawashington872
@nataliawashington872 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could go back in time with my memories of the future and stop our friendship from ending, I took the fight way too seriously and let our friendship go way too easily because I was an idiot. And now I can’t even find a way to get in contact with another best friend I made over the years and now I feel all alone-like I don’t have any every day talk to friends and I feel lonely. I literally had a dream about my ex best friend Edit: now I’m making an effort to text other people in my life so I won’t be lonely-I found another old friend from middle school and just texted her (he never left things on bad terms, we were on good terms-we just lost contact with each other, she’s been liking my stuff on IG-so I’m gonna try a friendship with her
@yxxrii.2
@yxxrii.2 Жыл бұрын
I would have never thought I’d lose her but here I am we’ve been best friends for 9 years and she chose to believe and replace me with some1 she just met a year ago and that person doesn’t see them as their best friend and that person doesn’t like or see them the same way I did but ig i was never that important and ig im easily replaceable but I don’t regret it that much bc she used to talk about me and the other girl was very mean,rude and disrespectful and I’m kinda glade I have a reason to let go of them and start over I’m gonna change classes I have other friends in different classes and I feel like that’s gonna help my best friend doesn’t rlly have much friends it’s just our small friend group she’s close with and they honestly all talk about her and I feel like this is the best thing to do bc I couldn’t deal with it and it might take some time to get used to getting close with my other friends again but I feel like this is the best for me in every way possible
@Suzzers
@Suzzers Жыл бұрын
I tried to be friendly with my ex best friend and attempted to work out our problems since we both messed up, I'll admit I did things I wasn't/not proud of. However when I reached out he ghosted me. When he reached out and I attempted to make things right, he ghosted me again. And he has the audacity to say he's trying? I'm kinda done and want advice ngl. I'm so confused
@rihannadrum501
@rihannadrum501 Жыл бұрын
I just told myself “f that girl it’s her loss 😁”
@danielabigail9500
@danielabigail9500 Жыл бұрын
Sigh it’s so hard not stalking her. It’s been years lol
@gracelorrance1623
@gracelorrance1623 Жыл бұрын
Thanks I’ve not watched all of it I’ve watched 54 seconds but I’m going to finish it but I had a best friend from primary school and she said she has better friends that take better care of her and she dosnt like me she even said that PLEASE GET ME HYPED UP TO GET OVER HER
@PoisonIvory088
@PoisonIvory088 Жыл бұрын
Never think I search this up for my first internet friend
@justnawar9597
@justnawar9597 Жыл бұрын
Girl she talked about me when she knows I have trust issues
@cant_make_decisions137
@cant_make_decisions137 Жыл бұрын
They literally victimized themselves and then proceeded to say that im victimizing myself, like you were the ones who made me feel that way and they even started bringing up my past mid argument like i know better than that now. They got me questioning if it was my fault or theirs now im genuinely so confused and thats whats making me feel bad 😭
@maybe_lucy
@maybe_lucy Жыл бұрын
My best friend and I fight way to much and we just recently started like starting to not wanna be around each and it’s really hard
@N3PTUN3-
@N3PTUN3- Жыл бұрын
thing that really hurt me is that my bff chose a group of people that she knew for 2 weeks over our nearly 2-year friendship :'), that was in term 2 its nearly term 4 now :'D
@l_m_minecraft_roblox9918
@l_m_minecraft_roblox9918 Жыл бұрын
My ex best friend Miley has been my friend since 2nd grade. We became bffs and were just perfect friends like 2 weeks ago. She thinks I told people who she likes and stuff idk what else shes thinking. She got over me after like 1 day and always hangs out with other people. Its hard seeing her hanging out with other people and seeing her hanging out with my best friend. Miley and my other bestie Aneth always hang out hand its so annoying. Yesterday I tried not to look at her but she always just pops up. It makes me so sad
@IHWY_Mango
@IHWY_Mango Жыл бұрын
I broke up with my bestie today when we were friends for almost 5 years. She dumped me for smartness and other things. She decided to be friends with a girl named Emma who sits next to me. She’s not as annoying as my ex-bestie but I still don’t know how to shut her ass up. I need help ignoring her.
@_jaziiii_1370
@_jaziiii_1370 Жыл бұрын
The girl who i unfriended is literally so obsessed and trying to be salty.. she stepped over the line today and tried to use my own mother to make me jealous, and it usually won't affect me but she asked her something really important, and this bitch is on my baaaad side now, and i need advice on how to get over her when she's constantly trying to belittle me even tho she's bad at it, but if I'm being honest it's pissing me off, i just need advice
@kategranger5108
@kategranger5108 Жыл бұрын
The friendship breakup happened on my birthday... It's gonna be a year soon