Healing Trauma with Dr. Gabor Maté
51:04
Being Love - with Loch Kelly
39:26
11 ай бұрын
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@nissniss8006
@nissniss8006 2 күн бұрын
Super helpful, thank you! ❤
@nissniss8006
@nissniss8006 2 күн бұрын
Hi Loch, I found your teachings recently and they have been very helpful. I went through a shift about 7 years ago, listening to Eckhart Tolle explain we are not our thoughts. It “unhooked” all at once for me. Life has been amazing since then but over this past year things have been deepening. I’ve gone through a great deal of shadow/emotional work. I’m wondering, in your experience, was there another “unhooking”? It almost feels like something else wants to let go inside of me. However, when I get to the edge, strong Kundalini arises, and I feel pulled back. Any insight would be appreciated.
@TK-bf4ng
@TK-bf4ng 2 күн бұрын
Brilliant! Loch's glimpses have changed my life and given me access to what I have longed for. I use the app every day. Such gratitude!
@lindsayenance
@lindsayenance 4 күн бұрын
2 of the most luminous guides in my spiritual journey. Such a delight and peace to see you connecting and sharing wisdom and wellbeing. Love you both so much!!! Wow. My heart is glowing.
@roubaix11
@roubaix11 6 күн бұрын
Just so Great. Thank You both for sharing your experience in this dialogue format about such a valuable topic such as the ‘Integration’ of our mental-emotional parts as we journey the path of Awakening! 🙏🏼 I think of Awakening more as a verb and less as a noun. It’s a process that occurs differently based upon circumstances, yet remains constant. You both offer such precious wisdom. I could listen to you both discuss this topic for … ever. 😊❤
@TK-bf4ng
@TK-bf4ng 6 күн бұрын
I practiced Insight meditation for many years and sill like it. And, Loch's glimpses on his app have changed my life and given me such sense of relief and joy!
@Wzrd100
@Wzrd100 7 күн бұрын
Get unhooked and look fr 🚫🪝➡️🔍
@TK-bf4ng
@TK-bf4ng 7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much both Loch and Mirabai! You are two who stay true to meditative awakening and full humanity! Your app, Loch, which brings these together these two with simple daily practices has changed my life. So Grateful.
@saracalaaddin
@saracalaaddin 11 күн бұрын
Best teacher ever!
@johnjacquard863
@johnjacquard863 11 күн бұрын
unconditional curiosity
@jenniferhall3186
@jenniferhall3186 11 күн бұрын
Pity is Not empathy! Empathy is being with a person in their experience, whatever they are experiencing. Compassion is actively working towards easing the suffering of another. Empathy is a being with another in their suffering. Empathy is the Yin to Compassion which is the Yang, both are needed in love, healing and interdependent awareness. Lower forms of Empathy come from parts so can lead to burnout, just like lower forms of compassion that come from parts rather than Self can lead to compassion fatigue. IFS keeps citing one lone study to demonize empathy. Tanya's study has a questionable definition of empathy and meta studies on empathy do not support her claims. I embrace Ifs but it's understanding of empathy is very flawed. There is a huge difference between compassion coming from a part , which is what leads to compassion fatigue and compassion coming from Self which is boundless. The same is true with empathy. Empathy from a part leads to burnout because it references the therapist's part's suffering. Empathy from Self is a being with the unique experience of the other, not arising from one's own part's experience so it is boundless. Dick Schwartz uses this kind of empathy all the time in his demonstrations when Dick selflessly or from Self reflects the feelings of the client. It is beautiful to witness and completes the experience of compassion as the yin completes the yang.
@MBS-oo2yv
@MBS-oo2yv 11 күн бұрын
Very nice pointer at 51:59. Many thanks, Loch 🙏
@kabutomma
@kabutomma 12 күн бұрын
I find I am aware from my jaw and throat area. It just seems to originate strongly from there instead of the heart area. Does any of this matter? Thanks for any insight.
@fastovich
@fastovich 12 күн бұрын
How are you aware that you are aware from that area? Part of the pointing out techniques show that there is no base of awareness, it's not from the heart, it's not from the head and it's not from the throat and jaw. It's just pure awareness without a location. I might suggest that perhaps you are mindful of that area, rather than from that area.
@LochKelly
@LochKelly 7 күн бұрын
Yes that is beautiful. The key is to feel de-center from head/thinker and feel aware from both outside and within simultaneously. So you get the feeling of awake consciousness vs mindful witness or thought based identity as this next stage which is here.
@Luis-bh7ok
@Luis-bh7ok 17 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@pallav5833
@pallav5833 17 күн бұрын
Someone give her a carrot
@TK-bf4ng
@TK-bf4ng 21 күн бұрын
I have tried other apps like Headspace and Waking Up and now I use mindful glimpses which is first time I have found inner peace and ongoing joy. What a gift!
@transcendingdimensions8412
@transcendingdimensions8412 Ай бұрын
Thanks Loch
@colincrawford1111
@colincrawford1111 Ай бұрын
Thank you both!!!❤
@Nonessential888
@Nonessential888 Ай бұрын
Thank you. Please close the curtains. The back lighting is very bright and is blinding.Thanks.
@markri8507
@markri8507 Ай бұрын
Wow thank you Mukti- as a fellow sponge/ porous being this was very timely for me as the stillness is deepening and thickening , thank you both for such wonderful conversation ❤
@hullshores
@hullshores Ай бұрын
An unexpected blessed gift this morning. A sacred exchange of wisdom, practical pointings wrapped in love.❤
@louisevs9152
@louisevs9152 Ай бұрын
This distinction, and the interweaving nature of the therapeutic and the spiritual is so important. It's the first time I hear this is explicitly mentioned and explored. As a therapist I (try to) navigate this on a daily basis with my clients. I am really happy with your exchange of views. Would love to explore further. Thank you both so much.
@andys7937
@andys7937 Ай бұрын
Beautiful conversation, thank you. Addressing those aspects of self that have been marginalized and welcoming them back home is key to awakening. Trying to step over or ignore what's already been dismissed or put in shadow simply adds further pain to those aspects of psyche that are often very young, even pre-verbal and pre-cognitive, parts. I started my conscious investigation into spirituality with The Power of Now and then discovered another well-known spritual teacher to whom I devoted 8 years. These 8 years brought many insights, shifts and recognitions/glimpses of my deeper nature, but at the same time I further pushed my ego into very painful places in order to do away with it completely. It got to a point that I was asked to leave the community and get some counselling. This started me on a more healthy path to slowly build my fragile ego, bring self-compassion and empathy to my personal self and realise that all of me is Divine, as are all parts of everyone. The body has to be included in awakening. We are in a body for a reason. And, the old emphasis on pure awareness at the cost of our humanity, as though it wasn't Divine, is extremely damaging and wrong-minded. Embodied Inclusion 🙏💞
@markri8507
@markri8507 Ай бұрын
So true and vital If consciousness is all is love harming and neglecting this wonderful vessel we were gifted by life would be the utmost hybris- in my eyes It’s the human seeking to be God, when God is in all humanity of us - we are both- I’m so glad you found your way
@louisevs9152
@louisevs9152 Ай бұрын
I so love the elated energy you share! It bursts out. Thank you both. Really happy to see you again Adya.
@keithganzmusic
@keithganzmusic Ай бұрын
Gold! This worked like a charm for me on something today and then I had the total freedom and space to inquire into it which was incredibly fruitful. I also added the step "spacious awareness is taking the shape of this feeling" which I could feel removed the subtle sense of the feeling as any kind of intrusion. Thank you for these tools!
@keithganzmusic
@keithganzmusic Ай бұрын
As a nihilistic form of spirituality becomes prevalent on youtube I'm ever more grateful that Adya was my introduction to awakening...watching him do Q and A's taught me inquiry in such an intimate, alive way that serves me to this day. And Loch's tactile glimpse pointers are a great compliment to that to get somatically oriented to what has been awakened to. The arising of say an unexpected bit of anxiety can be "spiritually zapped" or it can be like the prize in the cracker jack box saying "look here!" Just today I used Loch's series of shifts to get space around something that was arising until it was no longer a bother and could have easily stopped there and went on with my day but I inquired into it and had an absolutely amazing journey with it from childhood to right now. Can't thank these guys enough for these incredible tools. 🙏🙏🙏
@Leshpngo
@Leshpngo Ай бұрын
Hay Loch! Your meditation app is quite insightful. I have experience coding my own meditation app called Leshpngo. If you ever need some help with your glimpses app, I would gladly donate my free time to help your mindful mission!
@brainimager
@brainimager Ай бұрын
Loch is the Nipsey Russell of spiritual teaching
@joeforsh0
@joeforsh0 Ай бұрын
Great video. At the end there's a discussion about how it feels in the body. I get similar feelings in my body watching this as I get watching ASMR videos. I wonder, Loch, if you're familiar with ASMR? Could there be some connection between ASMR and what's being shared in this video?
@mayank78207
@mayank78207 Ай бұрын
Can we say that the 'Self' in IFS is the same as 'Rigpa' in Buddhism?
@JeeYaoKuneDo
@JeeYaoKuneDo Ай бұрын
Hi Loch Have you helped others 'manage' their AD(H)D? If so, what exactly is it that helps alleviate symptoms/internal chaos?
@LochKelly
@LochKelly Ай бұрын
Yes, it is shifting to another type of awareness that accesses Effortless Focus and practices can be found in mindfulglimpses.org app
@keithganzmusic
@keithganzmusic Ай бұрын
And yes, the felt sense of local awareness - the "sensation" itself of local attention, open that felt sense of sensing all the way out 360 degrees to the totality of perception. That takes me right there. :)
@keithganzmusic
@keithganzmusic Ай бұрын
Yessss. Pause the momentum of mind/reactivity/contraction/suffering, re-connect with the felt sense of being/space/openness/totality, re-approach situation. In addition to the sublime freedom and functionality where there once was endless tail chasing, it can be absolutely stunning what is seen from there, the layers and layers of conditioning/associations/chain of events. Thank you for sharing every patient detail of this. It is received and incredibly helpful. 🥰
@noodlenate
@noodlenate Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this.
@myrootsgraspNewsoil
@myrootsgraspNewsoil Ай бұрын
Thank you. I enjoyed this but it was mostly over my head and my experience. However I agreed and somewhat shared Sam’s experience with your guided mediation towards the end. That question “what is here when there is no problem to solve?” did something that I don’t know how to explain but was quite remarkable and felt sacred to me (for lack of better description.)
@James_OHalloran
@James_OHalloran 2 ай бұрын
That was really effective, thank you 🙏🏻
@s5saweig
@s5saweig 2 ай бұрын
Truly great! :) I'd love to have those slides...
@b.p.sanderson9888
@b.p.sanderson9888 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your very approachible, kind, and from-the-gut teachings Adyashanti.
@Leshpngo
@Leshpngo 2 ай бұрын
I’m downloading the app, thanks Loch and Adyashanti!
@Leshpngo
@Leshpngo 2 ай бұрын
I found you through the Waking Up app! Your glimpse practices are vary nuanced!! Then theres the book Shift Into Freedom which is my favorite I've ever read!!! Thanks Loch!!!!
@cremebrulee4759
@cremebrulee4759 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Loch.
@mayank78207
@mayank78207 2 ай бұрын
Loved every minute of it, sir. Thank you!
@ashleymenegon6319
@ashleymenegon6319 2 ай бұрын
You direct these so well. I think I know what's gonna happen, enjoy the vibrations and the breathing then you make me realise I'm focusing from my head and then drop me into presence. You always do it.
@keithganzmusic
@keithganzmusic 3 ай бұрын
Unconditional positive regard is a mofo! Any expression can be interpreted charitably or uncharitably, not just in therapy. Think of an argumentative person poking holes in a metaphor by intentionally taking an interpretation that contradicts the metaphor. We do this all the time, negative confirmation bias. We think something is wrong and "choose" to interpret it from negative regard and from doing so we see the negative that we just projected on to it. And when we do this, ultimately we suffer. We're annoyed or in conflict with this negative interpretation we just created. Unconditional positive regard flips this so the highest/best in us sees the highest/best in the other and that is a completely different relationship, it orients to compassion and understanding rather than division and animosity. And "spiritually" speaking, it orients us to that which is open, whole, clear and loving instead of the conceptual problem maker. A very powerful orientation corrector!
@intramotus
@intramotus 3 ай бұрын
Great guest ! I'm very pleased to see this. Thank you -
@sandrarowe66
@sandrarowe66 3 ай бұрын
I have sent so many people links to this video because I believe that you explain this shift so very well.
@A_S630
@A_S630 3 ай бұрын
21:00
@HelenLoshny
@HelenLoshny 3 ай бұрын
27:52 “… if it wasn’t for seeking none of us would be here…” 🙏🙏🙏
@HelenLoshny
@HelenLoshny 3 ай бұрын
18:44 “completeness keeps unfolding and completing ItSelf 18:44 …” 😮😅