Everything you shared is so true, for any "mother" nowadays!! I don't work in the home, but I have a toddler(2yrs old) that I've been the main night time sleep routine parent since our breastfeeding days. Now he's developed sleep anxiety and I have a new job that will leave my husband to take over 50% of the duties. We are all feeling the changes. But I need a solid 8-10 hours of restful sleep to save lives as a Nurse. So things HAVE to improve. Thanks for the info && good luck everyone! 😅😅
@justsomeone6155Күн бұрын
My son always refuses to go bathroom. I used the closing ur eyes trick. Dint work. He was still just sitting and laughing. I improvised and said I guess mommy will have to just dance alone and this kid will not be able to watch me dance. He got down in a minute and was in the bathroom ready. Thanks Dr Becky!!
@FellowHuman182 күн бұрын
Always good to listen to Arthur Brooks. Thanks for this interview.
@johnwilliams60133 күн бұрын
My first question for this podcast Doctoret degree in her field. What us your personal experience with divorce? Have you gone through divorce as the parent? Have you gone through divorce parents being a child of divorce? Is there any episodes you have where you have already shared more details of these questions I asked in another one of your podcast?
@johnwilliams60133 күн бұрын
This has been up for 2 years now and I'm the first to leave any type of comment?? Hmmm....interesting
@elizabethlasseigne53614 күн бұрын
Love this episode! Thank you!
@elizabethlasseigne53614 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! This was the best people pleasing video I’ve ever seen, and I’ve watched plenty of them!
@zee-zm1io5 күн бұрын
There a significant language barrier at 14 months. He understands no, but he doesn’t care
@jennielee78649 күн бұрын
I love how the caller respected her kid by giving him the option if it was a good time to talk. I find it helpful to give my kid options, like are you ready now or do you need x many minutes to prepare yourself or is x time better... that way it isn't so open-ended that it is avoided altogether.
@wmpmacm12 күн бұрын
Discipline, not punish. They are not the same.
@laurenfender132214 күн бұрын
2nd child due next week! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ZrxzocqFnpnRg5s.htmlsi=5vTkY64YW7PvLBMe
@annabalysh313614 күн бұрын
It’s awesome 🎉my kid is 1 year and 8 months old, he doesn’t even talk but I am so happy to get to know one of this issue solutions ❤ thanks a million 😊
@meadowmaiden462115 күн бұрын
I get hit from time to time with guilt that my son won't have a sibling. The fear that he will not have anybody after me and my husband die gets the water works going.
@BT2XX16 күн бұрын
We came home with the middle finger in Kinder 🫠 I didn’t handle it this way, I’m so glad this episode came out!!!!!
@ysteinberg648216 күн бұрын
Great as always! Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏
@ysteinberg648216 күн бұрын
Loved it. When give an example to a listener regarding how she should address a child I feel like crying. Almost every time. I know I still have unfinished work from my childhood traumas and I'm a mother of 3 beautiful kids. It's being very tough. But I can't stop, for me or for them. Your work is giving me so much strength lately to keep on going and after watching almost 2 weeks of your content I'm seeing awesome change. I'm giving my best to turn darkness into light inside of me while trying to find goodness inside every part of my children's behavior. Thank you so much.
@renatakrystian388616 күн бұрын
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@ysteinberg648217 күн бұрын
Thank you! I'm a fan!
@ysteinberg648217 күн бұрын
Thanks a lot! I love the way we can solve problems with our kids - this is quite scary to do in the beginning for both parties but I've been doing for a few weeks now and IT WORKS! Like you said once, you feel you're doing magic with your kids! It's not always easy but I ALWAYS leave the situation with strong hope for a relationship with my kids. Thank you so, so much.
@estherakinola943219 күн бұрын
Thank you
@avrilweston-bartholomew232620 күн бұрын
Great practical insights. It is really helpful that the strategies are modelled by Dr Becky.
@nellyroscot520321 күн бұрын
This is how I always wanted to parent! This is how I knew that I want to he part of the Good inside community! This is GOLD!
@xiaomei313721 күн бұрын
Parenting is so hard!😭😭😭
@xiaomei313721 күн бұрын
I need this😭😭😭
@loodakris59289 күн бұрын
Me too ❤
@ysteinberg648221 күн бұрын
Thank you! :)
@ysteinberg648221 күн бұрын
Wow - perfect! Thank you!
@ysteinberg648221 күн бұрын
Loved it - thank you very much! You should have strength to continue your important task.
@HeroShotz22 күн бұрын
If they are 16 and say that you wave your hand and say good luck 👍🏾 👌 😉.
@bigwah0022 күн бұрын
Hi Dr Becky, could you do an episode on Sorry? How we as parents should and will make mistakes and what sorry should mean or be interpreted.
@user-im4pt6br4t25 күн бұрын
A child needs a Mother and a Father. Why do we know that? We know that for a number of reasons but specifically because evolution created it that way. Here's the problem. Theology is mixed into many of these family studies muddled by assumptions and out date tropes. Not enough support is established for Father's because inevitably there are winners and losers in Family Court. There are frequent references to theological characters making demands on a Mother to give up their child to prove maternity. Many officials called that wisdom. Today we use DNA science. Today you force people together. If they want out there is no parenting schedule just demands for resources. I would argue that "in the best interest of the child" is not the standard. It perhaps never was as attorneys judges and ad litem make names for themselves not based in science but based on theology while our children lose 100% of the time.
@xiaomei313726 күн бұрын
Raising children is so hard, they hurt my feelings all the time, this podcast makes me feel much better to understand the psychology behind all of these😭😭😭Thank you
@kateborodina-tolpeeva822726 күн бұрын
Such an interesting episode 👍
@nh844429 күн бұрын
It’s amazing that we are still so bad at parenting. After all these years. I thought I was going to be a great parent. I never knew I could be so angry daily. I’ve never been an angry person. After kids, omfg. When my kid is bad, it makes me so angry. Don’t get it. I wonder if she’d be better off without me.
@Mimits208 күн бұрын
Please don't feel that way. We're all trying our best, stuck in repeating cycles that were ingrained in us and breaking free of that cycle is tough, confronting and most of all triggering. You're hear on this platform, seeking resolution. That alone should tell you what an amazing parent you are.
@em97c29 күн бұрын
Babysitting a bossy boy rn so they do exist haha
@CapitolYaSaАй бұрын
Such insightful concepts! A heartfelt thank you to Dr. Becky for sharing this new way of thinking with the GI community.
@tubashahidi745Ай бұрын
I cried with this episode alot!
@rebeccaanglesey7576Ай бұрын
I love your work but I hate it when you throw out the F-bomb
@bethfoskeyАй бұрын
I feel so heard. I am crying right now. Thank you so much for sharing this!
@MM-yh2miАй бұрын
Me too. ❤
@ch1man1taАй бұрын
I just love how she empathizes with all the callers. She is modeling even her voice to match theirs and takes care of their inner child prior jumping in to the parenting strategies (which btw I truly appreciate)
@sandraoxford883Ай бұрын
Oh my, when you explained the part about somehow someone disappointment comes over my side of the court. THAT is so true! I’ve never heard it explained before but it is SO real!!
@bonnas9937Ай бұрын
lol I’d really love for you to slack to my SS. I,he,we need help.
@bonnas9937Ай бұрын
I want to know how do I deal with a 17 yo whom I know is distressed his dad disagrees thinks he’s normal. He dropped out at 15 got a ged because we held his hand and honestly has worked a part time job since. He has a side business his father condones, I don’t. There is so much more I can’t go into. how do I make this work I want him out because I now have a 2 yo to think about. I’ve stated my concerns and boundaries several times over the years, whether my husband remembers or not is a different issue. It’s time for my boundaries to be respected, right? I need so much help. But not wanting to hurt my SS but he needs to know he doesn’t have it that bad.
@sunnyyang0523Ай бұрын
Thank you Dr. Becky. I have spoke to my kid about my personal experience of being left alone and his response was that must run in our DNA. Is there anything I can respond to that ? Thank you
@nellyroscot520321 күн бұрын
It's in everybody's DNA? The experience of being lonely is universal! Everybody feels lonely from time to time.
@wakarlajc23Ай бұрын
Thank you
@joanneross5575Ай бұрын
There’s so much more about the sleep training method I wonder if Gabor knows how it is even done. You don’t just leave the room and they’re on their own. I hope that you are both versed in the training. These babies wake up happy and well rested. I respect both of you.
@jonathanbennettleadershipАй бұрын
A whole conversation happened about neurodivergent kids and Dr Becky didn’t say the word autistic once? I think that’s pretty weird. She’s awesome. And, if you’re the parent of an autistic teen, and you’ve been in the journey, you know none of this stuff is relevant. Maybe she knows this, and maybe that’s why she carved it out? I’m leaving the episode a bit confused by the framing and so feeling weirdly unseen. Won’t stop me from listening to the next one tho! ❤
@orlaithbrennan9972Ай бұрын
❤
@amandameyer2206Ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you for sharing. This is sad, lonely, beautiful, liberating, inspiring and freedom wrapped up together so perfectly. Great job, Alex, on pushing through the pain. Thank you Dr Becky for your work.
@davidmichels1932Ай бұрын
Hey there, this episode was great but doesn’t match the title. This is the podcast on a conversation with the founder of Daily Harvest- rather than “Does this parenting approach actually work”
@amyfrancis9423Ай бұрын
Hi Dr. Becky. I love your podcasts, however, I wonder if you would consider a podcast community for parents of tweens and teens. I understand if this is not your age range specialty! Thank you either way.