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@nethra7447 3 сағат бұрын
Hi doctor, I am from india,i red book "helping babies sleep method",my boy is 13 month old, i am sleeping teaching him asper your guidance in book,using controlled checkin, can i co sleep after sleep training, after 1 month or more, or when to start co sleep again,who is best for co sleep me or my husband,pl reply doctor, thank you in advance
@RicardoReyes 2 күн бұрын
My 3 month old sleeps 30 minutes at a time at night. He goes to sleep at 7 breastfeeding. Then 30 minutes late is wide awake and not looking around, but screaming. He does that until 5am.
@EarthAngel17771 8 күн бұрын
Thanks girl 💗👍
@shadrach6299 14 күн бұрын
Never start co sleeping
@shadrach6299 19 күн бұрын
I am a very light sleeper but cosleeping was never a consideration
@taylorsmith171 19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. My husband and I are interested in effectively sleep training. We’ve been co-sleeping since our daughter was born. Now that we’re transitioning to her crib, obviously she’s struggling to fall asleep independently; especially with the Ferber Method. Her daily schedule is fairly consistent. Her nighttime routine looks like solids, bath, nurse and preparation for bed. When placed in her crib, she’s very determined to stay awake as long as possible and screams or cries nonstop. The frequent check-in’s upset her even more. She’ll cry for 2.5 hours or more a night. When crying, she cries so hard, often gasping for air and vomiting. The gasping for air and vomiting startles us. When co-sleeping, she frequently wakes throughout the night to nurse. (Though, we do get more sleep at night compared to when we try to get her to sleep on her own.)Nights are really hard and we’re feeling defeated. Definitely looking forward to learning more about the different methods you suggest. I am desperate for a change.
@HelpingBabiesSleep 18 күн бұрын
Please read the book and work on all the different aspects about sleep teaching! This is about so much more than just the put down. As a co sleeper - you'll want to be more gradual and start with the attended method from the book. a.co/d/00gB7SGj
@fallingelevator 19 күн бұрын
I thought this video was going to give us advice on how to deal?
@Fatemamerchant-j6b 23 күн бұрын
My daughter is 20 months old She is very active during the day She wakes up suddenly at 2am in night cries a alot and then sleep after an hour or two Why is this happening??
@HelpingBabiesSleep 18 күн бұрын
It's hard to say with little info, but in general, the most common cause of night wakings at this age is staying awake too long before bedtime. Meaning: bedtime is too late. She needs to be asleep ~ 4 hours from waking from her nap.
@PoorPinayVlogs 23 күн бұрын
Since i gave birth june 4,2024 I have no good sleep . My baby is crying when his hungry and sleepy . Everytime every 2-3 hrs he wakes up with cry then give him a milk after that he cry again because he want to sleep . I feel dizzy already I only have few hrs sleep . As frist time mom I dont know what to do please help
@HelpingBabiesSleep 18 күн бұрын
Please read our book! There is more to share than a reply on a social media comment. As one reviewer wrote about our book: "This book transformed my newborn's sleep in less than 2 days. We went from co-sleeping and nursing to sleep to sleeping in his bassinet for the full night and napping in his bassinet throughout the day at 5 weeks. This was extremely practical and was flexible enough to implement right away! I am so happy I started this early." a.co/d/0gn9VKrp
@Northshoreboy135 29 күн бұрын
Forget black out curtains!!!! Most time they still bleed some light from the top, bottom and sides! FOIL! Foil is where it’s at! I know it sound trashy and your neighbors will probably think you’re starting your own meth lab, but it will make the room pitch black dark. You will not be able to see your hand in front of your face. Install foil in my kids room tonight! Like 5 mins ago! It’s perfect. Spray a bit of water on the windows then the foil sticks right to it. Add some tape for security. And block any openings! GOLDEN!
@LUCASCRUZ-d9d Ай бұрын
Hello, I can’t book times with you on the website. It seems June and July are booked. My wife and I are desperate with our toddler and we have a second baby coming soon. Need help. Thank you.
@sarahmitchell9924 Ай бұрын
Sorry about that! Vacation until July 8th. Opened a few spots up for that week!
@joicrawford9907 Ай бұрын
good info. however, you can still be “breast feeding”, by bottle, meaning you still will know exactly how much they ate . that doesn’t mean they had formula just because you know how much they ate in oz/ml
@cvmarquez1534 Ай бұрын
People commenting about how horrible with out watching the video. Way to go 😅😅😅
@MsMuradova Ай бұрын
Every 3-4 hours applies to babies that eat formula, for breastfed babies they can eat every hour to 2 hours, they might be going thru a growth spurt, so this information isn't so helpful, especially if the only thing that soothes the infant is the breast or pacifier, It could be helpful for older infants, over 6 months old not new born
@fofs3084 Ай бұрын
She wants to practice standing in her cot 😂at midnight? Really, only God can help me here 😂😂😂
@tanyax6218 Ай бұрын
Gosh you can't win, you have to wake a new born every 2-3hrs to feed, my baby always looks annoyed to be woken up and soon after she is crying for hours.
@ayalaux Ай бұрын
It’s not so important if it’s abuse or not but I want to know what’s the best for the babies. Why do we have to train babies for sleeping which is something will come naturally with age? Heck, why do we train kids for anything like sleep, potty, things that are base in human natural behaviors and basic needs? It’s because if the babies are trained early on, the parents get easier time. But is it beneficial for the babies? That’s what I want to know. The society today seems to care about parents, not the babies’ needs so much. As for the cry it out method, I wish there are studies (yes plural; reproducibility is important) done with the variation of cry it out method and no cry it out measuring brain cortisol levels in babies.i feel like with that we will know what’s best for children.
@HelpingBabiesSleep Ай бұрын
That's the whole point... sleep doesn't always just come naturally with age. The drive to sleep is biological but the way we sleep is a learned habit. There's a generalization that people who teach their little ones to sleep are doing it because it's what's best for the parents which is a judgement and fallacy. No one wants to do "sleep teaching" but they do so because they feel the way they are making sleep happen is unsustainable for their family's health and well being. These babies wake up sometimes hourly !! That's not healthy. If you're research oriented go and look up Dr. Jodi Mindell. She's done a plethora of work in this area.
@Me-hf4ii Ай бұрын
As a 40 year old who won’t sleep unless I make myself (I mean, obviously I would eventually fall asleep if I stayed up for a few days, but I don’t sleep in a “natural” daily rhythm at all by nature) I totally disagree that good sleep routines aren’t a habit we need to work on.
@irispetak3887 Ай бұрын
You are amazing but for a person who speaks English as a secondary language you are very hard to follow . Thank you for sharing
@SmartParenting-ns7sf Ай бұрын
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@TheHolisticLove Ай бұрын
This did not teach me anything. And the reasons for transitioning is not true. My baby sleeps through the night when she’s sleeping with me. I just want her to sleep independently during nap and night times.
@nantuphalatsi8467 2 ай бұрын
Super helpful! Let’s go try it!!
@carlyescotocalmes3447 2 ай бұрын
My daughter is 8 months today, and we successfully trained (sorry for the term!) her for nights atv5 months and she sleeps great independently in her crib at night. Daytime she did NOT take to the training. We tried for 6 weeks and it didn’t take, and we think it might be because she contact napped and sometimes nursed to sleep before. We want to try again but are worried it won’t work again
@saphiagegamyang1172 2 ай бұрын
What if they wake at 6am and only give you 1 hour naps each? How to manage those wake windows or what are they? Please help thank you!
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
Then you're probably not ready for 2 naps. One of the criteria is that you can have 2 long naps.
@saphiagegamyang1172 2 ай бұрын
@@HelpingBabiesSleep my wake windows are still quite small for her age at 2, 2.5, 3 bed. Could that be a reason?
@vaporwingfauxmcloud1190 2 ай бұрын
Not sure if I'm allowed to vent to you but this is what I had when I was with someone I loved a lot. I met someone at a vape shop I was working at who I fell in love with as she shared so many things in common and I really wanted someone to be there for me at my worse moments and someone I could do the same for. Eventually we hit it off and soon I found myself at her apartment sharing the same bed, watching anime, playing video games and when I fell apart, I could trust her to be there for me. Long story short, she fell back in love with her ex who abused her and she ended up finding everything wrong with me and let me have it so badly that when I went back home with my parents, I cried alot. People say its cringey and wrong to feel sad for being apart from someone you love but to me that's just an excuse for people to tell me to "get over it" and "Quit whining" when I fell in a deep and dark depression. Its easy to leave someone for cheating but its much harder to leave when you can't find a flaw in the relationship... I grew more spiteful towards myself and often (For 4 years) I look back on what I could've had with her and the happy memories flood my head and I look at myself today and realize that she stole my heart but never returned it. I miss her a lot more now because she was the faint light in my darkness. The passionate nights we spent together, the morning waking up and seeing her smile... To everyone I'm pathetic and have to be this machine-like man who has to be tough and resilient and get mad everyday and not have emotions and pretend I am serious all the time and not be bubbly and I hate all of that... Loving people is difficult but hating and being spiteful is super easy right? What a society we live in where cheating and gaslighting is normalized and having a high relationship count is glorified... If I could choose to not exist, I think I'd prefer that over me becoming like every typical man...
@Prxdxgy_Official 14 күн бұрын
Don’t put yourself down mate your not alone and you CAN do this and get through it, even if it seems impossible. I believe in you man, don’t let her take your life away, you deserve the world and to be loved for you. As hard as it may seem you need to focus your mind on alternate things and go out and maybe find a woman who loves you for you, don’t trust too easily but also remember not to treat everybody like they’re going to do what your ex did. You got this bro keep going 💪💯
@user-hv8dk6ns8t 2 ай бұрын
you sound like Pam from The Office :D
@ionakemp3677 2 ай бұрын
Can I learn more with you without having to read?
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
The book is on Audible. www.audible.com/pd/The-Helping-Babies-Sleep-Method-Audiobook/B09ZYJ3SN4?qid=1653505917&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=83218cca-c308-412f-bfcf-90198b687a2f&pf_rd_r=1NZ5D06S437H8DF75C6C
@021om6 2 ай бұрын
My baby screamed for hours on end every single day so obviously sleep routines went out the window
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
Sounds terrible. So sorry you all went through that.
@021om6 2 ай бұрын
Suddenly after 4 months it disappeared just like that it was unbelievable we still have ptsd over it I don't think we will ever forget it. Its a shame because it's put us off having another baby because we cannot go through that again it really was tough to go through that every single day. For all those parents who never had a colic baby you need to thank your lucky stars!
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
An In-Depth Guide to Mastering the Art and Science Behind Healthy Childhood Sleep Habits. 'The Helping Babies Sleep Method: The Art and Science of Teaching Your Baby to Sleep.' You want to feel like you’re rocking this parenting thing and completing meeting your baby’s needs in a connected and compassionate manner. With comprehensive sections devoted to bedtime, naps, night feeding, plus solutions to special circumstances like traveling, daylight savings time and reflux, The Helping Babies Sleep Method is the book you need to make that vision a reality. www.amazon.com/Helping-Babies-Sleep-Method-Teaching/dp/B08WS9DWCB
@fatimaparker3917 Ай бұрын
My baby is 6 weeks on Saturday but feeds every 1.5 hours (when breastfed) and even roughly 3 hours when formula fed...does that mean baby isn't taking in enough breastmilk?
@HelpingBabiesSleep Ай бұрын
@@fatimaparker3917 I don't think we can make that assumption with such little information. There could be many things at play such as the cues, sleep, latch, burping.
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
An In-Depth Guide to Mastering the Art and Science Behind Healthy Childhood Sleep Habits. 'The Helping Babies Sleep Method: The Art and Science of Teaching Your Baby to Sleep.' You want to feel like you’re rocking this parenting thing and completing meeting your baby’s needs in a connected and compassionate manner. With comprehensive sections devoted to bedtime, naps, night feeding, plus solutions to special circumstances like traveling, daylight savings time and reflux, The Helping Babies Sleep Method is the book you need to make that vision a reality. www.amazon.com/Helping-Babies-Sleep-Method-Teaching/dp/B08WS9DWCB
@fofs3084 3 ай бұрын
I returned to work when she was 4 months old. Shes with a lovely nanny but there was a huge difference between then and now and i. Cannot keep up. Shes regressed in that she doesn't put herself to sleep anymore, we dealt well with the previous sleep regression quite well... Im getting probably 4 hours of sleep per day and i need my sleep to function at work. Im trying this today while im at home, tomorrow will do and then see if nanny can keep up. Because you helped me so much with the previous one... You know? Thank you so much for this, i hope you know how much you helped me. ❤🎉
@HelpingBabiesSleep 2 ай бұрын
Aw thanks so much for sharing that we've been helpful! I'm so sorry to hear you're so tired!!! For so many parents going back to work coincides with the 4 month sleep regression. I hope things have worked out for you!
@fofs3084 Ай бұрын
I'm back, I need New info 😂 I was on your 8 month old vids. 😂 I even had to have an energy drink today. But thank you so much for the advice. You're my go to when I'm trying to figure out how to cope. Thank you again. And thank you for responding. I didn't realise you responded. 🎉❤ I was Montessori directress for 8 years😂 you'd think I'd have learnt all this over the years. But I haven't worked with that age group. I absolutely love your approach. Oh and my husband who doesn't speak much English also watches your videos 😂❤
@thibautozturk6828 3 ай бұрын
You are not a doctor or even a mother just a sociopath
@anitakay6722 3 ай бұрын
We actually had to move our little one over at 6 weeks cause I couldn’t ignore any sound he made. Best decision we made.
@HelpingBabiesSleep 3 ай бұрын
Oh gosh I hear that! I did the same with my second.
@monique8179 3 ай бұрын
Can rolling around to back, side, stomach, on need back on stomach etc. be a self settling method?
@HelpingBabiesSleep 3 ай бұрын
Yes, your little one is trying to find a comfortable position, just like you or I might do!
@MountainPearls 3 ай бұрын
Teacher here: kids can have sleep apnea! (As well as other sleep conditions). It is more common than you think (even in kids who don’t carry a bit of extra fluff…and/or around puberty). I’ve seen kids unable to focus, extremely tired, etc. diagnosed with it. (or other sleep disorders). One pediatrician in my hometown encourages most parents have a modified sleep study (it isn’t required b/c he does take socio-economic well being/ people without insurance, how well kids sleep away from home, etc, into consideration…as well as severity and type of symptom) before diagnosis (they basically put a camera and a few electrodes on them) before they will diagnosis a kid with ADHD…it isn’t super common for the medical field, but more common than the average person would think (sleep disruptions can mimic some of the symptoms of ADHD…as well a make it worse/make other mood disorders worse). And sometimes they have both! Kepping a sleep journal for a kid (put a camera on them and document how much they flip and turn or wake up) can help! There are cameras that are motion activated so you don’t have to stay up all night for a week). Food, outside the obvious (like caffeine) matter too! (Put it on the diary too). While not (hopefully) an issue with little kids, vaping may be causing sleep apnea as well as other pulmonary issues!
@HelpingBabiesSleep 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing! All of this is very true. As a mom of a kiddo of ADHD who has undergone a sleep study, I am well aware of those factors. However, this video is geared towards babies and so I want that to be clear as in most centers children less than 2 years of age can't undergo sleep studies. So your comments are valuable and accurate although maybe not for the demographic this video is serving.
@rafaedi4916 3 ай бұрын
Just watched this, and my baby is 2 months and similar to how you describe starting at 2:36… how do we fix this?! She’s eating every hour and sleeping 20 minute intervals all day and at best 3 hours at night! I’m going crazy
@innoh3895 Ай бұрын
Hi can you share if anything eventually worked out for you and your little one im currently in this boat. So depressing
@keylianeguillemi3441 3 ай бұрын
Can still sleep training my 7 month baby? He is waking up at night and won’t go to sleep after 2h. It’s killing me
@HelpingBabiesSleep 3 ай бұрын
Yes, it's never too late to learn new skills! Grab our book on Amazon for step by step approach on how: amzn.to/4aWEx2H
@NonStopParis 3 ай бұрын
Mine’s waking up every 3-4 hours like you said but he’s waking up starving hungry, there’s no way he’s going to be able to fall back asleep like that. No choice but to give a bottle.
@user-tv2dr4qr1x 3 ай бұрын
That what I do like if you do that 👇
@Monteya 3 ай бұрын
No
@thabsmkhize2481 3 ай бұрын
This was valuable, thank you. My (5 day old) baby sleeps ALL DAY and is wide awake at night. It’s 00:31 right now in South Africa and husband’s taken over trying to get her to sleep.
@ilseesli 3 ай бұрын
Last night I used dreamfeeding to connect two long stretches of sleep. It was great. I woke up from a long couch nap at 01.30 while baby was still sleeping in her first long stretch ( she usually has 2) of sleep that started 21.30. I then fed her without waking her which I had never done before. This feed is usually around 00.00 and I would wake her for it, but this time I just was dead asleep on the couch so I didn't. After the dreamfeed she slept another 6 hours. I feel so rested 😊. I realise now I used it slightly different than explained in this video, but thanks to this video I did learn about it. So thank you! The big advantage for me was dreamfeeding her took way less time than waking, changing, feeding and putting her back to sleep. The 6 hour sleep stretch was a welcome bonus!
@kellbyspode6589 4 ай бұрын
Promo sm
@MindOverThisMatrix 4 ай бұрын
So how do we break the habit...
@laurend3805 4 ай бұрын
My 8 month old goes down at 8pm and always wakes between 3-4am. Gets a bottle and goes back to sleep. Now he's waking around 11pm, 4am, and then 6am. It's rough.
@garybale781 Ай бұрын
Omg the same thing is happening with my 8 month old! Her bedtime used to be between 7-8pm and she would wake up between 4-5am but now she sleeps between 10-11pm and wakes up anytime around 3-5am. It is literal hell because she hardly sleeps during the day also.
@OmoOfure-zy5pr 4 ай бұрын
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@hopeuk25 4 ай бұрын
so basically we can't do anything as parents
@61462 4 ай бұрын
How is your baby now
@HelpingBabiesSleep 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for asking. He's 13 and amazing. :) thanks for asking.
@patriciavaughn2810 4 ай бұрын
No!
@highfive9835 4 ай бұрын
We've got a little 8 month old foster kiddo who goes to visitation with his parents twice a week, six hours at a time. He often stays awake the entire visit, and it's very difficult for him to fall asleep when he gets home. I'm going to give the baths a go. Thank you so much for putting this information out here for free, you're an angel.
@reineb161 4 ай бұрын
There are no actual tips in this video…