In Phoenix in the summer, wearing short clothes is required...in fact when I think of the Muslim sisters in the African and middle Eastern deserts, I wonder how they survive..

"Older lady" 40 yrs old? Excuse me, what??? These elder millennials ain't the 40yr olds the Boomer and x'ers your used to.

The women who wrote that letter is full of pride and self-righteousness. As a 51-year old man who did not have sex before marriage, does NOT guarantee a successful marriage. Also, I think society needs to be reprogrammed. 70% of woman get a divorce. And it is not always because of cheating. They leave for a variety of reasons. Not just because of cheating. Good mens' lives have been destroyed because some women got bored or they weren't happy. Which has nothing to do with love or marriage. Perhaps no one is courting this woman because she's not living in reality.

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Standards should not be the same for we are not the same. Standards should compliment the opposite party and aid in the functionality of culture and society into the Future. That being said im unlearning marriage as a healthy part of humanity it just helps the system

Lovely!!!

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So this wasn’t common sense!? Somebody really had to tell you that?

Well,

The hardest part for me right now is the cost of buying new clothes. I am not someone who dressed over provocatively any ways, but I do feel the draw to do more with skirts and dresses, and to get rid of the few things I do have that are not modest. I just do a little bit at a time.

🤭🤭🤭 An older woman (just past 41)! I thought she was referring to a senior citizen!

Beautiful y spoken this have been the way I was taught growing up. I was married until my husband passed. And he told me everyday how beautiful i was ❤ I wear dresses and skirts to avoid unwanted attention as well my personal choice of modesty. God bless you keep teaching a blessing

Yes, we will trust me

We must take pride love of yourself we don't need to do that I am a elderly woman married for 37 years also I am a god-fearing woman Jesus Christ is my savior so we don't need to dress that way I teach my daughters to cover themselves

You are right young lady no man entrance in a woman when he see her naked he's not not going to take her for wife we have to cover ourselves

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Still no excuse to cheat

People need to get educated. Many children born in NYC are HIV - .

I dont mind a woman being in control....I need a wife..someone that I can die in bed with....thats all.

Amen...

It's just dead hair anyway...cut it off. I'm about to start my microlocs all over after three years because I got multiple sizes going on and I don't like it. Plus I had some in the front that fell out. I can hide it pretty well, but it really does look a mess. Well, trial and error and I'm gonna try it again and keep them all the same size.

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You’d call a 40 yr old “an older lady”? wow! Come one now.

A real woman does not need to rule her man. She knoooooows that he can and where he can not she will fall in and the other way around..

It's true Empress 💯🤞🏼❤️💛💚

I love your advice and I love your accent to

Thank you...what a blessing beyond words. Men with good intentions need women to help us with purity....this is not to absolve us of responsibility, but power lies in the decisions of women to influence morally upright environments to help for us as men to elevate. Caring is cultivating community.

Thank you for that insightful information about 4c-4a.

I’m 29 years old and never went on a single date. I’m glad to just have an ideal person I want to be with. He waited for much more than I do. I like him very much, but still have yet to know him on a basic, deeper level.

You lost me at “rulership”. Why would anyone agree to be ruled over by anyone?

I prepared dinner for my family and cleaned dishes all while listening to you ladies. I'm working on being a better homemaker and woman of God every day. I think I can say God led me to you both. I'm going to try to tune in every day.❤

I relate to your thoughts and know certainly levels of truths. I carry weight as a notation and know something more fitted is sometimes best to not feel like I am wearing a bag. Yiur point is well taken.❤

😭😭😭😭 winner of all the shorts. New sub and so grateful for your authentic content

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If you get a Blackeye from a Black guy, you will surely get a Divorce. If it's a whiteeye, get a new wifey😂

I believe and always knew there is soul proclaim modesty for all generations. Thanks for being a light. I will use this site to help other females with options..

I want to know progress of ur daughters hair

really wanted to see that king david and bathsheba breakdown 😢

something I will say is this level of cycle repeating is something that gives me an inkling that there is an open door/ passage for demonic activity. Because what she is describing seems to be something that she doesn't think she has control over, I would be curious to see what her mother's relationship is with men and if this is a generational cycle. I say this because I had a similar cycle with outbursts of anger and I had to like Bindi is saying, fast and pray and drive those spirits out of my life. This is not to say that I don't get angry anymore, but there is a very real enemy and we fight not against flesh and blood. In order to do so I had to have true repentance for the anger I was once so defensive over and trying to get control of it in my own strength, calling it my anger. Repent, ask the Lord to reveal the source in fasting and prayer and pray for the deliverance of your soul. I pray that the Lord would do what only he can do.

I am so grateful for this video, thank you so much. I'm 20 years old and I am on the modesty journey, I struggle a lot because I tend to think modesty means being ugly in the sense that you just wear dark colours like black or grey... I genuinely don't understand what it should look like but I have also removed most of my crop tops and I don't wear my short skirts anymore (As I'm typing I'm thinking I should definitely remove those as well) I wear dresses and try to cover up my bum when I wear pants. I genuinely appreciate the shark analogy, it helped me look at thing's a little differently and also I thought having nice dresses is bad because if you go to church and other women see you like that maybe its wrong or something but I do understand when you say if it's immodesty it incites insecurities toward other women, but if you are modest and you still want to look nice, is that wrong? Hopefully I'll get an answer to this soon. xxx

good lord

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There is a difference between a man who's real keeping boundaries and a boy who calls himself a man that never considers everyone can use improvement. Himself included. Growth is not for the weak minded its for the open minded.

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If you think about it its just masculinity!!!!

Good word from the Lord from you to us.

If 40 is old.....then baby, I am CREAKIN!!! LOL

Same goes for a real woman

older woman.....40?!...lol