Wow! God please remember me! Thank you WOG for giving me hope to keep holding on to God. God is able!!! Lord I thank you for everything and more!🙏🏽❤️💍💯☮️💸🆕🆓📈✅🕊️🕊️🕊️🩸♾️🔥🔥🔥🔥

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So much gold here!!!

Havilah, you are so beautiful! Love your haircut 💇‍♀️ God bless sis!

Were you in my previous church? The similarities are uncanny

Thanks for having me on @havilahcunnington! 🎉

Thank you for sharing this.

I have your book and I love it! I am truly a feeler! I actually believe I have all 4, but feeler is my number one.

Thanks Havilah and team. I didn’t realise you had a KZfaq channel and I am definitely subscribed. My heart has been so heavy this past couple of weeks. And this gives me fodder how to pray

Great word. I got saved just over 21 years ago and the first time when I heard that God has a good plan and purpose for my life (Jer 29:11 - 14) that's when shackles broke off me. I heard truth in those words, I heard I am NOT an accident, I have a good plan and purpose for my life. Here's hope and reason to live and my belonging/ identity started. Yay to this subject. I'm looking forward to it. Thank you

Powerful freedom in this truth. Thank you.

This really blessed me. What a great reminder of what God calls us to do.

Thank you so much for this, Havilah. The timing of this is so perfect for me. My life has constantly shifted from one platform to the next. God is constantly moving me, changing my environment, growing me, changing my audience, and my lifestyle. I seriously was really struggling with feeling like I was just missing the mark, over and over again. Never reaching or able to see my purpose. This has been SO freeing for me! I am looking forward to the rest of this series. Thank you for walking in the Holy Spirit and for being such a positive voice in this world. Blessings!! 🙏🏼🥰

Really timely Havilah! Really really good, thank you ❤

Love God. Love others. Amen.

Thank you, Havilah, I’m one of those still looking for what my purpose in life is, already up there in age. Will continue to listen, have subscribed. I’m reading your book: Created to Hear God. Excellent book easy to understand. Love it. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻

Thank you! This is a really great teaching. I think we all need to be reminded every once in awhile of our purpose. ❤

love it! #purpose <3

Awesome job on your latest book

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Wow, powerful word. I know I’m several months late to the party, but it feels like this word was for me today. God bless y’all and all your efforts! 🙏🏼

Thank you so much Havilah! This was so good! When you got to point 5 I lost it and couldn’t stop crying. I think I have some things to pray into on that point. 😃

HI Havilah. I am trying to find an old podcast you had called - A positive no. .how or where can i find this please.

This was so good! Thanks Havilah!

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Wow. Sooo eye opening. “We can’t change what has already happened, but we can change ourselves”

God Bless The American People.

I am also a knower and it can be hard communicating with others of what you “know.”sometimes feels like its coming off as a know it all but truly I could never explain the revelations I had until hearing a sermon by Stephanie Ike and hearing this. Thank you for reminding me that it IS a gift.

Thank you Havilah! As an International Worker for the past 25 years, I've learned that not only us, who serve overseas have made many sacrifices when we said "yes" to serving, but all spiritual leaders have decided to make that sacrifice and step into the spotlight where we are vulnerable to the judgement by other Christians. It is heartbreaking, to hear other believers absolutely tear down, ridicule, sway other's opinions to negative thoughts about other Christian leaders who are in that spotlight, those who said "yes" to Jesus' call on their lives to serve. Because of this, we have to keep our personal "thorn" battles within our own silent wars, us and our Lord. Thank you for speaking on this subject! Blessings to you!

This had me in tears. Debbie thank you for sharing your story.

I haven’t been through Debbie’s situation - but 20 years ago when depressed with 3 children under 5 I was told by pastors they didn’t want anything more to do with me because I wasn’t following all their advice. The lack of pastoral care and the willingness to drop relationship after 5 years of leadership together was totally shocking. There were direct examples of other people being told incorrect stories, of being actively excluded and of concerning levels of control. God is good. I eventually learnt to find God’s voice in the midst of it all. Really helpful to hear a healthy perspective on church leaders being hurtful.

Thank you Havilah & Debbie, so brave, excellent podcast.

I’m going through this very same thing, thank you

Thank you so much for posting this, Havilah, very helpful

I actually got great Private Christian trauma counseling from my hospital that I go too. And I did that on my own after my husband/ex husband cheated on me the whole time we were married & even before that. And he abandoned me 2 during our marriage again I loved /appreciated my private Christian counseling sessions And my counselor was so so great :) And my husband/ex husband we went to counseling together for a while when we were married but my now ex husband was never honest or /transparent about anything with our counselors that we went to. And I always felt like the bad guy it wasn’t helpful :( And I contacted the last counselor we went too together. And I had to tell her everything. And she asked me if we wanted to go in. And see her for any last counseling sessions. And I ended up telling her no. And that he wasn’t apologetic for/about anything. And she said that our getting divorced was the best thing for both of us. And I told her that my ex husband would be in touch with her about stopping payments for our counseling sessions . And I ended up filing for permanent divorce from him in 2016. And I have an amazingly amazing Godly family that has loved. And supported/helped me through everything:) and my ex husband. And I have been permanently divorced for 9-10 years now. And we aren’t reconciling ever ever ever ever ever ever. And I have left a few churches in my city/town for reasons. And I’m tithing at my amazingly amazing amazing childhood church that I absolutely love so so much. And I grew up in my childhood city/town:) And I watch my childhood church online :) And that really really works well for me :)And God has given me a brand new life :) And I have been absolutely 100% Single since 2015:) @ Havilah Cunnington Speaker&Writer

Havilah, I’m concerned that we need to strengthen the gifts of prophecy and discernment annd wisdom among church governing groups and within the Body. Some of these moral failures have been hidden among us for many years. I trust His perfect timing , of course, but couldn’t we help our pastors and leaders and each other if we made better (and appropriate) use of the tools God has given us?

My heart is hurting, but I trust my holy God to always shine His light to reveal unholiness and remove it from the Body of Christ. Our faith in The Rock is the foundation that prevents us from being shaken when He shakes the church.

What if you don't resonate with any of the four types? What if you've learned this before, the ways, looked for it in your past and present and don't see any of it anywhere?

What if none of the four resonate with you? What if you've looked but don't see any of it anywhere in you personally?

We have to get back to hating sin. Also we are told to confess our sins to one another, rather than hiding it.

Thanks for the teaching 🙏

You got to keep doing this kind of roundtable content... It helps people who aren't in leadership to be honest about their struggles as well ❤️‍🩹 Well Said sister 🙏

What you two are talking about is so important and very timely... Google search 1 million women March Jessica Green 💚 the harvest we are going to see is going to require honest discussion and extreme accountability with love. Let's just say fish cleaning is about to become our primary responsibility!😅😅

Good friends, honest accountability, and authentic transparent discussions require us to be real. Thanks for giving a bit of permission by example 😊

And people with great gifting overtime are subtly self deceived; if the thoughts and actions continue alongside the gifting, they slowly begin to think there's a kind of non repentant approval, as if it's tolerated by heaven. Personally I think all these guys that got caught, are in the hand of God's mercy. Can you imagine what would happen to them if they kept getting away with it?

People also shy away from understanding the enemies schemes. There's a reason we're supposed to take our thoughts captive and confess our sins one to another. That's the one thing I've always hated about the social church... Meaningful relationships beyond home group and Sunday is a serious challenge.

I love your teaching ♥️ it's very powerful

Amen 🙏 this is amazing,powerful words ❤and bible verses

And churches everywhere are not lock down psych wards. And they don’t give out psych meds to people that need them if people have major severe mental health issues on board they absolutely need to be communicating with their psychiatrist daily/ regularly!! And God He created medicine:) Jesus is called the Divine Friend Doctor& Healer Counselor. And Churches should have parenting classes in their churches to teach/help parents how to do the parenting thing well. And churches should have private zoom/facetime meetings for parents to talk to the Pastor if they have questions/concerns@Havilah Cunnington Speaker&Writer

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