Kylie Carr taught her son Joshua to steal.

I was verbally abused in school really bad.. ran away from my 7th grade class I couldn't take it.. the principal chewed me out telling me I'm going to end up in foster care if I don't go to school... So I had to go back and take it and it wasn't easy

My 4 years old son everytime i ask him that he will go to school next year.. He always answered me no.. I dont want to go to school.. I ask him why you dont wang to go school.. He answered me because of many people and noise .....

Thank Mag!!!

Always love your perspective Maggie. I love you!

When we were little my cheapest parents would never give us some change so we could get a bag of chips or anything like that of course we're going to take the money from their wallet

We love one big prize in pass the parcel! "Lucky's dad's rules!" Great video, Maggie!

Best advice. Thank you so much

Take some time out to do yoga made me chuckle. I'm alone. Let me just take my ten month old to yoga so I can destress

I hear NO and I have a room full of 3 year old toddlers. 12 consistent nos and defiants whenever you say anything. I redirect but how can I do this to a classroom. Its taxing and I am about to quit

Thanks Maggie Today I said to my 5 Yr old son "Even when mummy has to tell you off and ask you to stop doing something I still love you" his response was total surprise. Think the poor little mite really thought scolding = less love. Found that really interesting.

Thanks for another moment.

Thank u so much for this. I’m trying so hard as someone who keeps loosing my temper I will try this.

This is more for older kids what if your child is 5

Must listen to the latest episode of the Shawn Ryan show with Jordan says something simmilla very good way to communicate these lil verbal hacks

I believe my son have chronic lying 😦

Thanks, Maggie xx

A child going to school 5 days a week for 7-8 hours until an adult will NEVER be normal!!!

My son has ADHD and PDA traits, I definitely see that developmentally he is at a different level than his siblings. But it is hard to manage when some abilities are affected by his avoidant behaviours.

Hi, i am mom of a 12 year old daughter who is diagnosed with chronic condition caller S-Jia 3 months ago. How do i deal with self pity and anger at thr condition. Please help.

Love this lady ❤️

Hello, I am a grown up gifted kid and everything I want is to be normal. I´ve been punished for being "not right", harassed and bullied by everybody 24/7. I didn´t knew why people did this because I didn´t do anything wrong. Now I avoid talking to others wherever I could because I can not stand it anymore. It´s not a gift to be gifted - in german "gift" means "poison". Yes, it´s poison to be gifted - no one needs it, no one wants it and it´s completely useless 🤷‍♀

This literally explains Nothing on how to deal with the situation 😂 this isn't advice.

What if your son is coming from a different home and different background and lying and stealing while once used as survival tactics are now just an everyday part of who they are. How can I as a father rollback years of self taught deception? I also hqve other younger children in my home and I do not want them to absorb these behaviors….We have had multiple sit down sessions. We have tried removal of priveliges when necessary ans rewarded honesty when it is apparent. I am honestly at my wits end with this kid. He told me this is the only way he knows. I explained why his behavior will lead to long term unhappiness and unfulfilled relationships. I just do not know what else I can do to show him why its not the way to be.

Great video! 😇 I made a video about eastern too :)

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Hi Maggie - this is wonderful. Any advice on how to approach this in a school setting. My son will often get distracted by the things he values more - friendships, fun etc and forget the fours steps the teacher has given him. She has suggested he see a psychologist for strategies which I felt was a bit unnecessary at this stage. He’s 7!

You are amazing Maggie ❤️

It's also great to walk with your child through the learning process. All the ups and downs. It can certainly be an amazing time, not to mention all the bonding time you will get

I won't guard my kids from such experiences. I would prepare them to face such thing with bravery because the world is full of people who would demonize you because of a few disagreements instead of understanding what makes the other person unique.

Always eye-opening every time I watch. Thank you

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❤ I needed to hear this!. Note to self, let my kid's be themselves, not what I think is best for them. ❤

I have moved my son from his previous school and in this new school i was told that he doesn't listen in class and he doesn't finish his work and i must say i am so depressed and loosing hope in him ever becoming a well mannered child. 😢😢😢😢

100% it’s learned behaviour!

Super helpful, thank you ❤

Normally FIFO applys to First-in-first-out

Thank you. My son’s dad hung himself in 2017 when our boys were 8 and 3. My oldest in the last couple of years has been angry. He doesn’t like it. He doesn’t know why. I don’t know how to talk to him or what to ask without leading him. But I do make sure he knows he is loved and safe and that his emotions are ok. I tell him being sad and crying is ok. But he still says he hates getting so angry at little things. He Won’t talk to a professional or anyone. I encourage him to. I don’t know what to do but keep loving him and letting him feel his feelings. 💗

Thanks Maggie, I can really relate to this video and find your presentation and approach really helpful and understanding.

I try to do that with my daughter but it could be the smallest thing that sets her off and she refuses to go. Like outright refuses and I cannot make her go. She's 12 years old turning 13. So it's not like I can just pick her up and toss her in the car and say you're going. We can be getting ready and she always wants me to do her hair in the morning. She cares a lot about what she looks like . She gets up early has a routine and even does skin care routine at the young age of 12. She has a hard time fitting in because she's a new student, she does have friends and isn't getting bullied, per se, just normal kid drama. When she first attended school everybody wanted to be her friend, but little by little she stopped going to school and the kids pretty much forgot about her. Then she would get upset and say that nobody wants to be her friend or even give her a chance but she didn't put in the work and didn't show up. She has good grades and she's even in sports teams and band practice. But I also have another younger child and I work a lot. She relies on me to do her hair in the morning and if I don't do it, or there's a sudden change in plans, she outright refuses to go to school. She has very curly hair so it needs to be maintained. Bit It could be the slightest thing that sets her off and she storms off and says she's not going. After I try to talk her down, or even argue, time has passed and she's now going to be late. She hates being late for school because all the kids look at her When she gets into class late she says. Which I understand all the more reason to be on time and not let her hair dictate her being late.. But try to tell a 12-year-old girl that.. It's not like when I grew up when I was 12 and throw my hair in a ponytail in a way I go.. She wants to be stylish and even do a little bit of makeup and skin care. It's honestly too much and I've tried to tell her to tone down her routine so it's not so stressful in the morning but she won't listen.. She says the kids will pick on her but no one's even picking on her. I think she's established herself as the stylist one in class so now she holds herself to a certain standard as well.. on bad days, mornings, And I've tried to sit with her in silence. I've tried to comfort her, I've gotten angry ,we've argued etc. I've taken things away like cell phone and computer cord. I've tried many things because it's not like she was just missing a day or two.. It started off with a day or two a month . Then, gradually it's one day a week / two days a week. I really feel defeated. I've even had meetings with the school to try to work with her. The school asked if anything was going on if there's anything they can do to help and she said no. She's been in therapy , I feel like I've tried almost everything I could think of .. I tried to understand but she says I don't. When she does talk to me I do understand and I try to let her know that.. When she refuses to go to school, she will go and sleep and I tell her no you're going to get up and do chores and she doesn't listen. So there's a huge power struggle and it could be the little thing that sets her off and she says she's not going. And then I have to leave to drive my son to daycare for example and she threatens to run away. She knows my biggest fear is for something to happen to her.. I tried to show her how to do her hair when she's not going to school and she refuses to even consider that thought. She wants me to do it only. Because I do it better than her but I told her you need to start practicing. When I was 13 years old I was ironing my hair by myself. She uses it as a weapon now. She's very sensitive and has sensory issues so I try to be very careful in the morning about how I'm expressing my thoughts to her. She's a very independent gal and there's no reason for her not to get herself off on the bus if one day I'm sleeping in which honestly doesn't happen very often. Most days I work at 7:00 a.m. in the morning and her and I are up at 5:30 and I'm doing her hair before I then have to leave drive my son at daycare across town and then get to work for 7:00. It always sets me back Because it's not a 5-minute thing. She'll pick everything apart next thing you know it's 25 minutes later and I don't have time for that. I've tried to tell her that I really can't be doing that when I have to work a day shift because it sets me behind and I'm always late for work.. Since our son has been born I can tell that she feels a little bit pushed aside because she is older and all the attention went to him. Before COVID-19 we used to go on trips and spend a lot more time together. So I've tried to make sure that I include her and stuff just her and I like going to get her nails done shopping But she just always wants more and it seems like she's never happy. I just don't know what to do.😢

It’s easier said than done. Jesus is the ultimate example He could have said screw all of you I’m not going to take this torture but he took at like a lamb and said Father forgive them, for they know not what they do. Thank you Jesus. I pray I reflect your light as you have showed us that light. Amen

What beautiful thoughts about realistic ways to connect!

Thank you so much for this advice 🙏

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