It’s discipline, mixed with intrigue and curiosity, asking the right questions and answering them with research and to cap it off understand fully and deeply. Now it’s easier to research complex questions in technical fields without having to read many pages of books with AI. Physical activities are something else entirely. Also there are degrees of complexity in each specialization: analyst, engineer, architect, etc. For managers there are even tiers: supervisors, associate directors, directors, vice president, president, CEO, etc. Where am I going with this? You cannot choose both fields; either you are a doer of work or a people person that influences others.

I’m 31 years old and I’m lost. My bf is 42 years old. He also feels lost. What we forget is that life is what you make it. Life is bullshit, it is. I agree. I am someone who suffers depression and suicidal thoughts. So I know what it’s like to want to die. I’ve been like this since I was about 16 years old. Still suicidal, everyday, I have scars on my thighs and right forearm. All that shit. But what I tell myself is my life is in my hands. Why do I feel suicidal? I honestly don’t even know why, k just don’t want to be alive. But I live because I know I have the power to change my mindset. I have the power to change my life. I’m in control. I forget that. Stay strong everyone.

Bro you described my whole life story all my life felt different been rejected thinking what’s wrong with me despite being attractive gotta stick together bro I’m 18 btw glad I could relate somehow

Bro, I feel you on so many levels. I do know this, the closer I am to Jesus, the more those negative depressing feelings go away. Know Jesus loves you, even when no one else does, and wants a deep, personal relationship with you. I don't see how people do life without Him- He's been closer to me than anyone else. God bless.

Mari, You've caught the symptoms but you've diagnosed the problem wrong. Yes, our society is struggling because lack of community, individual isolation & lack of empathy. That said, you try and say the younger generation is the one's more empathetic but actually it's at a fault. They younger generations are less understanding & less empathetic as a whole. It is the younger generations that are more struggling & more violent than older generations. All you have to do is: ask them what they have done for others recently, ask them to give a full story or facts about their family members, friends & neighbors, and ask them how they feel about people who disagree with them, believe in Christianity or different religions beliefs & how would they change things. Younger generations want the government to solve all our problems & older generations know it's the people & community who solve the problems. If the individuals & society is the one with the problem then it's up to individuals & society aka community to fix the issues not government which has it's own issues. Furthermore, we are not a community because both government & society & individuals have broken up our common culture, our common language, common values etcetera. Replacing our traditions, culture, language, values etcetera even with one's you prefer will not solve our issues. Only reviving our good common culture, traditions & values etc. will lead to a happier society. We've already tried the new 60s values & culture and obviously it's hurting us not making us better. We are such a privileged nation. You even say "it's weird as the richest nation that we don't have healthcare". Mari, listen & understand what you just said. We are a nation of rich people but no one is smart or empathetic enough to help people with heakthcare? So what, we should force people to help people since they don't have the empathy to do it? If you had kids you wouldn't be saying such a thing. If you have a younger sibling who's not empathetic to their other sibling what happens when you force them to be nicer? They throw a tantrum & are even more inclined to resent & have less kindness towards them. The right thing to do is find a way to have them work with their sibling so they look out for each other.

dont know if u will see it cuz this vid was 11 months ago, but i just saw it right now but what u say at 2:25 is not true, i thinked same like 10 years ago, i had really shitty relationships with mom, my dad was alchocolic so my mom took me and left the small village where i was born to a bit bigger city, comparing to the village it was big, im not gonna talk much but ill i want to say, that now i have really good relationships with every family members, im living alone now and earning money by something i like, even when my family wanted the other path for me which i tried and didnt like it, but im on my own now with all doors opened, now everythind depends only on me, not on what my familty thinks i should do, and its cool, not long ago i rented a room and lived with random people it was so bad, now i rent appartments where i live alone and i can do whatever i want, so what i want to say again, everything depends on you, and you can always make your life better step by step, just find passion and work on it, while having some trash jobs, but it will have some meaning in your life, to get somewhere while doing something boring :) life is not shit its beautifull you will understand it later :) cya my friend

Bless you brother and friend! You are an inspiration and will change many lives 👍🫶🙌

Run, Mari, run!

Hopefully more vlogs.

This is false, he implemented the 40 hour work week so that his own employees would use the weekend to purchase his vehicles

And as you mentioned, everything is determined from the moment we are born. We choose what life we want to live before every time we are born

Glad there’s others like me who hate this fucken bs society that’s rigged to keep everyone enslaved

"We all got issues, some people are just better at hiding it than others." You're not different you just haven't found the solution or answers to your problems. That's why we're here together to help each other find the answers & solutions. Trust me, even if there's many people who've gone before finding their answers it wasn't for a lack of trying. The answers are right in front of us but there's this haze or glare bluring what we need to see. What we need to do is find something to enhance & make our vision clearer & then we can see the obvious answers in front of us. But what we can't do is give up. "Reach for the stars!"

You know man, i am from a small town (about 15k peeps) and I was always a 3 sport athlete 31(M) now but was the only one who was honestly nice to everyone I came across. For a long time many folks in the popular scenes treated me badly for it. I don’t care. I will always lend a helping hand to someone like you. Now that I am older, I would go even furthur for you when I would have as a teen. You are a nice, cool guy and I believe in you. I dont give a shit what anyone else thinks. You are worth it. You are the man. I believe in you. Dont give up. Believe in you. I do. If you need anymore love hit me up man bc idc about this internet shit I just want you to live and be happy. Fuck everything else

Your smile is amazing bro and you are so energized when you speak. Stay strong on forge forward, you remind me of my oldest son.

You have a serious grasp on life. Love yourself bro! The Lord gives the toughest path to the strongest people.

I can relate so much to everything you’re saying. I’m also devastatingly lonely. Look at how many of us you’re connecting with. There are a lot of us out here going through the same things. Hit me up anytime. Seriously man.

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This comment section ❤️ I oscillate between being a rejected lonely weirdo and being normal and even popular and attractive. Therfore I oscillate between having high confidence and super low confidence. It's so strange. Thank you for speaking up OP, and to y'all in the comments for so much mutual empathy and support. Let's keep it up. Respect, strength and peace.

You are probably right, it's possible that at this time nobody cares about you. But, once you get older and have kids that changes, and if you care about them and take care of them, they will care about you. Most people, especially since the Internet, are scared shitless of everything, but all you have to do is look inward, make yourself better in some way, not for others but for yourself. I went through some crazy shit in my life but if you focus on one or two people you care about, preferably your kids or even a pet it will help. Learn a new skill, try improving yourself and forget about what others think about you. Most of the time they are just trying to make themselves feel better by pointing out anything about you they view as a fault. Don't let them get to you.

I have high functioning autism and nobody in this world gets me, or so it seems to me. I would like the idea of a wife and kids but i know the reality is that i will continue to walk this world alone; forever 😿

I understand fully, it’s almost like you are talking my mind out loud. Stay Strong 💪 ⚡️🐺

Totally agree! Most people are fake and stupid at the same time. But always remember! You are not alone! While we have our hearts open, and love the way we are, sudenly we can start to intuitively feel who is on our side. Don't ever think bad about yourself, be brave to be your truth, your voice. Never hate yourself, or disconect from your dark side! Currently I'm on similar journey. Again! After world wide "pandemics" of stupidity ended, I've realized how they destroyed whole world, humanism and identity! You are awesome man! 💛

That is what I always hope…all this pain and suffering will make me a better person and it will eventually stop, but I am now almost 50 years old, and things have only gotten worse for me. Everything has gotten worse. The ups never came. I am still not braver or stronger than others. My destiny was to suffer and for some people, that is their destiny. 😢

You are not alone with this feeling. We are here, we dont understand reason why, but I think there is something, and some day we realize, for what we was created by anybody, god, aliens, nature or accident. Everything have a reason in chaos, so we have to wait like NPCs for our missions. Gr, Outsider

Look inside and start accepting and loving yourself, screw other people's perception, all that matters is how you view yourself and trust me once that changes you'll start attracting the right people into your life. Don't quit strength is developed in the hard times. All the best to you.

Hey buddy saw your depressing video from 11 months ago, hope and wish you the best and greatest life ever. I care and just want to bring you light anyway I can. May all good deities I praise upon watch and guide you to happiness.

Start loving yourself like you love God. You need somebody to talk to. My son has the same issues. Reach out to someone. This country has let you guys down and destroyed your hopes and dreams. It's not just you.

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Dude i feel you .. i iam in it right now... people dont care about you and this wolrd is fake... i seen it all but keep doing what your Heart say to do. My life is fuckt up alone and no body cares.. but we dont give up ...untill i die

Ppl will call us crazy for speaking this kinda truth. I cant lie to myself bruh

Bro u not ugly - Don’t worry about the girlfriend. It comes easy when you got your shit together. Financially, mentally and physically

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I'm feeling you and I'm 50 years old. You're a young man, there's no need to get bogged down by everything. If you can, take some time off, get yourself some camping equipment and go on a long hike into the wilderness. With just a basic, daily routine and no other responsibilities other than yourself, let go and enjoy the moment. Walk until you begin to find peace and joy in just the pure, simple things. I assume you're in the US so you have plenty of space and wild places to go. You don't have to try and work things out, especially at your tender age, it doesn't get any better the older you get. Modern society doesn't make a lot of sense, it's liberating to not even bother making sense of it.

I’m 42 and no one wants me

I also escape threw movies and video games too

It’s okay to be weird I embrace my weirdness and I’m suffering from debilitating depression my ex family threw me away like trash i escape reality by dreaming I also play music my ex friend words are Maria no one cares about you I just give up on friendship because they all die in the end and I’m just depressed 😔 I have paranoid schizophrenia severe anxiety cptsd and debilitating depression the only reason I haven’t killed myself yet I think of my daughter

Last days. The love of others will grow cold 🥶..Jesus will bring us home soon.

I couldn’t figure a good way to ask a women to get STI tested or confirm she doesn’t have hepatitis, warts or herpes.. once I risked it a few times I finally figured too risky and no way to ask them to test so I just gave up on all that.

Im skitzophrenic you deserve the world for helping me not feeling alone thank you dude. I havent had a friemd beyond my brother in 2 years

Hey man, if you’re weird just remember there’s always someone weirder than you. You can connect to people but your trying to fit in with people that doesn’t match your personality, there’s always someone that fits in your personality, if you look for friendship it’s not going to end well, if you meet people at random and let it flow naturally it might trigger something amazing. Just hang on bro stay strong, good things come naturally not forced. Trust I had a bad childhood and I didn’t grow up into a good place but I always try to keep my head up and walk. Nobody is normal, there’s no such thing, it’s okay to be who you are and to be yourself if someone can’t accept that move on but remember there’s always someone that will come along and will accept you for who you are. Reality hurts and sometimes it hurts bad but you can’t let reality get you down. You’re never alone, you always have yourself and sometimes that’s all you need. Bro all I gotta say is that be who you are and stay true to yourself never change and never try to fit in and never act who you aren’t cuz then when the real problems start. If you ever need someone to talk to let me know.

Its such a wild experience. At this point I don't think it ever gets better. I just finished college, I'm around the same age. Listening to women speak about their dating lives, just in passing or casually, it feels like they've lived a longer life, like they have another facet to their beings that I just don't. I'm scared it results in this cognitive dissonance in a relationship where, by my perception, everything is new and novel, but to her its all just par for the course, and something she's already done a few times over. It diminishes things a lot. How special really is it, if I'm the only one experiencing it like that, y'know? It sucks man. It does. And I don't have any answers. I guess just work on living a stable life. Get a job and get a place to live if you can. That's about all I can imagine.

Get yourself down to a local church and talk to some people there you will be accepted God loves you❤And your life has a purpose

Don't be so hard on yourself I know exactly how you feel I felt that way all the time. I'm almost 40 years old high Functioning Autistic with ADHD. Sometimes going for a walk on hikes is good you can clear your thoughts. You set your own path you can only change your outcome. I was made fun all my life for being different or sometimes saying something off. You'd think differently if I told you some of the crap I've been through. You're not alone with how you feel and there are many people in this world that do feel what you feel. Instead of looking at the negative all the time you should focus on one thing at a time your first focus should be changing your career path to being more profitable and have a little bit more breathing room. Second taking up hobbies that you love. You're such a young kid you'll find someone who will show you the most compassion, love and support. The fact that you had the balls to make a video says a lot. Don't ever give up. There is a saying that my mother told me before she passed away "no matter how bad things get and no matter how bad the world may seem around will be at times always remember that you can always pick yourself up and try again." Now I'm sharing that with you never give up.

Don’t kill your self.

Negative and positive thoughts and feelings. Takes alot of work through counselling. I'm a recoverd alcoholic. 36 years. Reach out for whatever help you can get. I relate. Keep on keeping on .

To the young men and women out there reading this, happiness comes from within, not from others. Stop looking for joy in validation from people, and start looking for joy in yourself. Lock out the outside world and focus on the one in you: passions, interests, hobbies and routines. Thats the only way. Everything else comes aftr that

Dude, don´t base your value in how others treat you, seek God, you were born different for a reason, I know how hard it is, but it´s actually good. Youre a kind soul. Youre healthy, you have a car, you have food, youre good looking.... stop obsessing with what you don´t have.

I had to stop at 2 minutes OMF.....I'm just like you and I'm 45.... this world sucks

Dude remember, you have to make the first move. If you like a girl, go after her.