I'm about doing the same thing just like you. I just graduated from High school and now I will continue to study and move to another country 🙏🏻❤ Love your sharing story!!❤️

Vancouver looks very nice.

Impressive talk. He commanded my attention and thought.

God I love your energy. I wish it was more LGBTQ+ people like you around where I live. I would be more comfortable with going out and mingling.

I have a similar coming-out story. A person I thought was a friend decided to go through my phone and tried to force me to come out. Love your story

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Now as I'm nearing 40 I'm reevaluating my friendships, but I never made a conscious connection between being closeted and trying to be liked, which I now I realize is not a great foundation for a friendship. I've been out for 10 years of so, but now I feel drifting away from these people, whereas I'm seeing some friendships grow stronger. Thank you for articulating that which has been simmering under the surface for the past few years now. I see now why those friendships aren't sincere or meaningful. And usually the other half of those friendships were built on the consumption of alcohol.

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Hey where have you been!?! Miss you!

He wasn't calling you gay for "no reason". You have a very effeminate demeanor and gestures. It's pretty obvious you're gay as soon as you start speaking.

Concentrate on other things other than your sexuality. Career, friends of all kinds, travel. I been out since 1990 the illusion of a gay community is all that exists.

Great to hear your story, it's very familiar to me. I came out in South Africa before it was legal and even though it's legal now, it's not always easy to admit it in some situations. I have been lucky enough to have found love and legally married my husband in 2012, it was the best years of my life and he was totally part of my whole family, who also loved him. Unfortunately I lost him to multiple sclerosis in 2017 and I've become a total recluse. Watching your content brings back so many good and bad memories, but it's really refreshing and I have to thank you for sharing. I hope that you find what you are looking for in Canada, you seem like such a beautiful person. Kind regards.❤

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Greetings from Ireland ☘☘ Can I just say to people like you PLEASE STOP LABELLING AND STEREOTYING ALL GAY men as the same WE ARE NOT !!!! If you are single it has nothing to do with been Gay and everything to do with yourself Your personality Your Mindset and Your energy !! I am 48 first guy I was ever with I was age 24 we have a 6 year relationship till I was 30 .. I was single 2 years then I had my 2nd Relationship 32 -40 I was single till 43 and now I am 5 years in my 3rd relationship and this is the man I will marry !!! I never had hook ups never was on the gay scene ete etc and never became a clone !! CAN I ASK HOW MANY MEN HAVE U HAD SEX WITH ? ITS MY THEORY THE MORE MEN YOU SLEEP WITH THE LESS CHANCES YOU WILL HAVE A MONOGAMOUS LOVING RELATIONSHIP !!! Listening to your VLOGG for 6 minutes I can feel your Unhappy and you seem quiet miserable to be honest this is why nobody probably wants you so its you and nothing to do with been gay or straight

I am a gay transman and I fell in love with another transman 7 years ago. He hurt me so bad and ghosted me. But I can't forget him...

Yes I totally agree I don't even get out of my home as I don't have the strength to go outside and people to look at me 🥺 It's like they are scanning me 🥹 Don't have any bf nor friends all of them had to leave me because of future reasons ❤️‍🩹 I literally don't even go to malls nor even to restaurants I'm fine sleeping and even working from home or if I'm even going my face my appearance is hidden 🙃

Love your stories and videos! Sent u a dm on insta 🙂

Omg I’m watching all your videos. Accidentally came across them and let me tell you, you are such a beautiful person and adorable!!

A hard and difficult story but beautiful. Beautiful like the person who told it! So happy for you and always stay true to yourself!!

Very nice 😊😊😊

You are so cute attractive man I wish I could meet you I would treat you so good

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Wow! So impressed with you, your story, intelligence and resilience. I came out in San Francisco in 1980 - moved to Saudi Arabia in 1983 for work, and retired to London in 2015. I know from living in Saudi the pressure/threat and danger you were under - and I'm so impressed at your perseverance in getting to Canada and living your life as you've described. You're so cute - so young - and so positive, your life is going to turn out. just great. I'm 67 years old and the best thing I ever did for myself was come out at 23 years of age. It gave me personal integrity to live in my truth - but I drew back in Saudi for my own protection. Most everyone knew I was gay in Saudi - but they respected the fact that I wasn't flamboyant and obvious - just myself, with no need to wave the rainbow flag and pronounce that I'm "out and proud" - I've never felt the need to do that, even in San Francisco. Just subscribed - and wishing you all the very best in your life as you go forward. Young people give me hope - so glad you didn't have to go through the AIDS fears I did in my youth. God Bless.

Thanks so much for sharing your story!

You're cute and your advise is wise. Hang in there.

I'm a lesbian and proud! I've always been open, and my family and friends are cool about it! Lots of love and support for you dear!

It's hard to build a relationship from a hook up drinking culture.

I'm glad ur doing well and remain safe in Canada. But, one's sexuality is just a small part of who we are as ppl. I wish you well

Love the way you told this story! Lol

I am biological intersex born in Tennessee. They still perform surgeries in the south on healthy biological intersex babies, toddlers, children and teens to turn them into whatever the doctor decides at birth. Sometimes the doctor is wrong as in my case. 2023 Tennessee just passed a new law for biological intersex forbidding amending of birth from certificate gender declared at birth by doctor. I''m old but I used to look like you...but now a lot of gray. Tennessee demands all legal ID be switched back to female. So the Deep South, and Middle East have a lot in common for anyone LGBTQI different. Wishing success for you.

Hey bro where are you . I miss you alot❤😢

Your co-worker is a flake, for him to pull this crap to you. Stay away from idiots like that. It's ok for you to tell people right up front that you don't want to give them your number and that you don't want to hang out with them, you don't need to give them a reason, end of discussion. The word, "No" is all you need to say. And for your co-worker to try to pimp you out to another guy while he left you alone in the bar, he's a low-life POS. And be careful of this stalker idiot, that's nothing to mess around with. If he continues to follow you let him know that you will contact the authorities and take whatever measures are necessary. I had 2 stalkers earlier in my life, the first stalker was a complete psycho. I dated Stalker #1 when I was very young, I was 19, not too long after I came out. I didn't know any better. A couple months later I came to realize he was extremely manipulative and toxic. A few months after that I was dating someone else, and stalker #1 shows up at the current guy's house, walks to the back yard of the house, knocks very loudly on the back bedroom window, leaves a note on my car, and then drives away. He was completely out of my life after that.

I just don;t like that it seems we all have to be feminized by default. I don;t want to be a woman and never have.

2:55 so THATS why im so good at spotting red flags, people lying to me, people using me, fake love, Im not surprised im super self aware and i can read people very easily

You offer some excellent advice. Thank you.

You are the hottest, strongest most eloquent man I have ever met and your accent makes you even hotter.

Love you

Gays don't have feelings

Just got to 2:34 "me when i get home" "hairy men kissing" i just have to point that out cuz same LMAOOOOOOO

Just to say, there is a difference, of course, between being alone and being lonely. Perhaps being lonely might tell you that you need to attend to yourself before getting attention from others. Try to learn a bit more about yourself. At the same time, being alone can have great merit - you're comfortable with yourself, and cherish the times on your own when set against the pretty mad and difficult world out there.

Someone catch me as I faint at that smile. Robert, uk. (p.s. after hiding for many years - I'm a much older generation - I took the view that I would assume everyone knew I was gay. The ball was in their court, then, for them to deal with. It was incredibly liberating - I just became me).

Some gay men (some, not all), can become totally self absorbed and focused on themselves that they forget to make friendships, real friendships. This eventually leads to loneliness too.

Why are gay man always handsome

I mean honestly, as a gay male in their 20's I don't even want a boyfriend necessarily. Just friends. It feels so *hard* now to make new friends, and I never had that many to begin with but we've all just drifted apart for one reason or another. I just don't feel like I have anyone to talk about things I want to talk about. I've never felt comfortable talking to my family when it comes to anything gay or boy related so it's not like I can just find an LGBT space to make IRL friends without outing myself to people i'd rather not. At this point I just work a job, come home and sleep, maybe go to the park on my off-days and restart the process the next week. It's soul crushing not having people like me to connect with. Frankly I don't know what to do at all, I crave intimacy and love from a relationship but I know that it isn't healthy right now until I form some basic friendships. But I just am not in a position to do that. Sorry TLDR's, i'm just venting about loneliness.

I am such a big supporter of homosexual men and women and it really pisses me off that so many uneducated, ignorant “human beings” can be so cruel and vile to those who don’t deserve it and have absolutely every right to be attracted to whoever they want!!! I feel this very strong need to react and speak up whenever I witness any kind of discrimination and I will keep doing it as long as I can!! Sending you so much love and support and a HUGE hug💕💕💕💕💕🌈🌈🌈🌈

Mateen I just watched one of your videos for the first time; I totally fell in love with you. I love it when you smile and kind of close your right eye... you look SO SO CUTE... I wish I had had the balls you have now when I was young... things were so different in that then... Now I am very close to my 70's and I have never loved someone... I can still fall in love, but I just cannot come out... I wish you the best of the best! Love ya' Rafa

I love hearing you speak but I really love hearing your laugh. It’s so infectious and comes right from your heart. ❤️

Finally, I found this channel again after searching for quite a while. This Q&A session is very interesting; unfortunately, I didn't get a chance to ask a question.😂 Would you be willing to answer this follow-up question? 😁 But first, I want to congratulate you because your family has accepted your being gay. Maybe you should make a special video about coming out to your family. Btw, my question is, have you ever suspected your twin's sexual orientation? I've heard that identical twins tend to have the same sexual orientation.

You are so wise beyond your years. Best of everything to you.