This is what people don't understand about me, as soon as I get a whif of dishonesty I'll create distance from that person unless concerns are clarified.

This was great

That book is on CDs

great analysis! also, another instance of yt trying to spice things up by recommending old videos. interesting

I wonder how many people on this comment section have given into the manipulation of their governments over the last 18 months?

Hm, how to avoid being manipulated. I bet this is something women know a lot about.

Thanks..

Why they manipulate cute people

Thank you for givings us the tools for standing up firmly and confidently to all those techniques.

What do we do when a friend backstabbbed and pretend on our face like nothing happened?

Thank you for helping me understand

Let them speak for themselves, says it all!

Wow!!a blond girl....

I am a little child that will never grow up

Fake your emotions, so people think they can steer you

the- LOVE- of money is the root of evil

Hey listen I try to apologize all my classmates and I don’t know where to start All I got this letters Can you help me please because I hate apology face-to-face

Get anyone to do anything? You are a piece of shit!

Maybe some other time again ... not this time iYou could always take turns.. ..

Been there even when i wasnt wrong ... just to move on and smoothen things out feels nice...BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

You shouldnt keep saying sorry just to accomodate someone

Awful advice

when start big arugemts over everything and they inslut you to hurt your feelings to get you very mad to point hurt comes madenes u go off on them but them in cheek saying bad words to them but they say you have no right be mad or hurt by actions They call crazzy Beacuse you stick up self. they mad u stick for self they get mad u tell they upset or hurt you they don't say sorry so they make feel your one start arugemts they play victim if u both try fix arugemts issue is all fix they bring back arugemt fights again this toxic people got stay way from Guys and woman do this too is vert unheathy for friends dateing realnships

I like the way you straight everything and now I can teach my kids so God bless you.

I don't believe in friendships anyway. I am my own keeper. Humans are unpredictable.

Another trick from a manipulator goes like this! Why do people say your strange or creepy or offhand, just to mention some of the slights. They always use a second hand reference when addressing you. The best way to deal with this is to ask who these individuals are? Do they actually know you? Did you ask them why they say this about me? How do they know me? What is the connection? Then often the individual backs down because they are just shit stirring in order to manipulate you. I heard of a guy who said this to another fellow who challenged him in this way but could not get a strait answer, as to whom it was that was spreading the lies about him and his family and so he punished the joker quite badly, in fact we, that is some friends and I stooped him from killing him. We later found out that the so called individuals who had told him these lies in fact did not exist. Manipulators don't realise the ricks they are taking unless they do their research into another individual. The guy in question never pulled another stunt like that again, so you can see he certainly ran the gauntlet for his troubles. He actually was a property developer, who wanted to reduce the opposition to his dodgy deals by weakening the integrity of those who may catch him out. Such as the residents in the area. As a mate said to me many months later, that the manipulative smart arse nearly ended up enjoying his profits from a wheel chair. I often wonder just how many manipulative individuals actually know what a danger they are to themselves.

All those manipulating techniques seem pretty basic. What I experienced was over the top. Somehow she was controlling me like a puppet. My emotions, my understanding, and everything. It was pretty freaky. I felt like I was under some kind of spell. I'm almost 50 years old and I've never seen anything like it before.

Ps- by the way, the pictures/paintings on the wall are beautiful! They are not only classy but are soothing to the soul to look at.

Wow! This is very interesting and informative. It makes a lot of sense! Thank you for the insight! I had to listen to the rest of your videos and they were also interesting and informative. I hope you will continue posting these video's. Thanks again!

How to avoid being manipulated = MGTOW

you're pretty

I disagree. When I tell someone that I WILL do something or that I WILL be somewhere at a specific time I Am making a PROMISE. PERIOD! There's no two ways about it. I have given them MY word and whether I agreed to drive them to the airport to catch an important flight or I agreed to call them at a certain time.., it does NOT matter. My word is my word is my word and there is NO such thing as a measured promise. I can have all the excuses in the world.., blame it on traffic, a flat tire, my alarm clock didn't go off.., whatever.., BOTTOM LINE is that I gave my word. All those excuses may seem acceptable but what if there was a check for $10,000 waiting for me at the other end of that agreement? I WOULD BE THERE ON TIME! PERIOD. When I break my word, I own it. Then I ask if trust has been compromised and if so, what can I do to make up for it?

Frakly I find the Oposite is True, If your Happy Prosperious, Well Loved and Well onceted Freinds Come out of the Wood Works, If you Let any One know You Have a Problem, If That Person Doesn't Run Then You Have a true Friend

The book is available on YT, I just skipped through it.

Who's watching in 2016?

I bet if it was the woman who was broke she would say you should just by her everything

fuck this woman she is a sexist

I do not understand that "scarifying" point. Why should I want someone to scarify for me anything? I do not scarify anything for my friends. Why should I? I can feel empathy, but to sacrify? Why I should scarify for example a good offer in another country just because my friend thinks that she does not want to live without me? Why should I scarify that - or vice versa? Does a god friend ask me to scarify for her my own happiness? Telling me for example: "Because I do not have a boyfriend, you can not have either! You must scarify for me! Do not be with that other person!"

hahaha

My so called friend attacked me on her trampoline and said I was useless. I wanted to cry and kill myself but she should be thinking that for what came out of her mouth AND her actions!

sports.yahoo.com/blogs/nba-ball-dont-lie/on-dwyane-wade--national-anthems-and-paying-canada-some-respect-151513838.html Would you consider doing an analysis/update on Dwyane Wade's apology to Canada over "perceived" disrespect to the national anthem? Asking for a few opinions.

Listen honey, You are somebody. If you continue to listen to him, he will drag you to the bottom to the point you will have to pull your socks down to see anything. get away from him. He is going to do this to any female. Your not special. If you leave, he will move on to the next victim. If you can not do this, then change the strategy. You are now on the defensive right? Turn the tables on him and put him on the defensive. Guess how that is done. EASY!!! First you must get control of your own emotions. Never answer another question he has unless it is in the form of a question. In other words, just remember to calmly start your answers with a who what where when or why. But it must be done EVERY TIME!!! No matter what he does or the ANGER HE SHOWS!!! It is that simple. You will feel the power return. But just remember, that this gives you no right to start manipulating people yourself. He subconsciously knows that this type of conversation will defeat him. If he gets violent in any way YOU MUST LEAVE!!!!

manipulators are simply liars, they use people for their own benefit, they can never honor an obligation, they always have either better than or their problems are worse than anyone else's. Get them out, completely out of your life.

I don't have any friends does anyone have kik my is unicornsummer

Based on this its possible I have never had a true friend.. except for my mom.

A week to find out if they are a true friend? THat seems a bit hasty to me.

I don't have to read a book to learn how to manipulate people,just get into politics and see how the professionals do it, like Mr.Trump telling all this gullible supporters of him things that can't be achieve

It seems that some of the equation for a good friendship is mutual respect for each other's boundaries.

the easy way to avoid this is to avoid them

The thing that happens to me is my fiance stages situations that make me look like the crazy or bad one when I react to him harassing me with irrational questions, accusing me, and insulting me. When i respond and dont like the treatment he tells me I am so negative and simultaneasly describes his behaviours and says I AM doing them. He gives clear examples about his behaviour like hes in denial because he projects them upon me. I pointed this out to him but he doesnt seem to see. He also will look to see who is watching when he insults me, almost as if he is trying to see the audience in the scene he made. Of course it looks like me because he will push my buttons with hurtful words and phrases that are mentally and emotionally abusive, but every time he hurts me so much I break down he will look around at his surroundings, almost for reinforcement that HE IS right and it feeds his power. I dont really know what to call that type of manipulation??? but its a trip, and very unhealthy....I dont know how he will ever stop it but I am going to tell his mom who lives out of state to have him go visit her for awile cause he needs HELP.