Why You Must Let Him Go To Get Him Back For Good

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2 ай бұрын

Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
My name is Elliot Scott and I am a dating coach that is going to teach you how to get a boyfriend and attract the guy you like. I am going to teach you numerous ways to attract your crush and get him to fall for you. I have helped thousands of women all over get the guy of their dreams. I am going to tell you how to find out if a guy likes you and the signs that a guy likes you. I also will teach you why men pull away and what to do if they pull away.
I am going to give you a ton of free dating and relationship advice. Everything you need on how to make a guy fall for you is in my guides and videos. Don’t worry about men pulling away or losing interest. I show you how to get a guy to like you again. I show you how to get a guy back once and for all. If you have any topic or question on attraction and getting guys to desire you then you will find it here. I have been doing this for a long time and I don’t plan on stopping. I love what I do.
I cover a lot of the following: How to get a guy to like you, signs a guy likes you, how to get a guy back, how to get your ex back, how to get him to like you again, how to get a guy to text back or text faster, and many more.
I am no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.
One more thing: I don’t want you to ever think I am trying to blame you or gaslight you into thinking something that isn’t true or actually happening. My intentions are to give you another way of looking at things and to help you question what is actually going on. My intention is to give clarity and insight. You don’t have to agree with that is being said.

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@ElliotScottDating 2 ай бұрын

Guides and Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott

@melissamontes5410 2 ай бұрын

Ladies once he messes up continuously..just cut your losses and move on .Show him you don’t need him and better your life . I cut all access with my ex. Now he is blowing me up on the phone and showing up to my work as a stalker ..unfortunately. I have idgaf attitude now ( before I was empathetic and he told me he loves me more than any woman he has ever met )… too little too late . He fucked up too many times . I’m moving on 😎😎😎

@Braveh3artGirl 2 ай бұрын

You’d think they wouldn’t wanna do anything to stuff it all up eh

@stopandsmelltheflowers26 2 ай бұрын

What is he doing? Abusive, demeaning language, cheating, flirting?

@meredithbarrett8395 7 күн бұрын

Same and absolutely your comment!

@Braveh3artGirl 2 ай бұрын

As soon as you start getting bs excuses, lay your boundaries down and back off ❤ go make your life beautiful.

@Lauren_22613 2 ай бұрын

Nah, I’d rather let him go for good 😂😂

@sairahussain7342 2 ай бұрын

😂😂

@PrettyAngel3355 2 ай бұрын

Then why even watch girl bye

@Lauren_22613 2 ай бұрын

@@PrettyAngel3355 you obv don’t get jokes, byeeeee🙄🙄✌🏼✌🏼

@aaleyah5380 18 күн бұрын

Good for you 🙄🫤

@MissAKB 6 күн бұрын

👏😂💯

@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 Ай бұрын

I like how he doesn’t edit out his mistakes. And I love how passionate he is in his videos he almost gets angry over these guys😂❤️

@tiffernut2456 Ай бұрын

I know, LoL.... Even tho I'm older than he, I feel like he's the protective older brother i never had 😅👍

@rosiechic5590 2 ай бұрын

Right , he wants Friend with Benefits and nothing more . So now he's getting Friends without Benefits from me . I just flipped the switch on him . Let's see how that goes ...

@BrooklynBaby-1 2 ай бұрын

Don’t even talk to him, he’s still getting his ego stroked by having you around.

@adday. 2 ай бұрын

Yes, don't be his friend.

@hellosunshine53 Ай бұрын

I agree don't be his friend. Those are still the assets Elliot talks about.

@ladyowl9187 2 ай бұрын

I left him 3 weeks ago. Well, the brake up ended up being mutual after i made my move. He needed to have the last word. Okay, cool, np. My god, it's all so juvenile. Im clearly not worth fighting for in his eyes. Meh.

@isabelsmith109 Ай бұрын

Can you make a video about how to not obsess lol How to focus on yourself during no contact effectively

@CupofLizzy 2 ай бұрын

The perfect video at the right time❤️ Walk away from him last week because he wasn’t sure of our future together. The hardest thing I did but Elliot reminds me of why I did what I did. Thank You Elliot for teaching us not to tip-top around men 💪🏽

@SheenaRea 2 ай бұрын

This is great. Lots of wisdom and may I say, very entertaining. Thank you Elliot.

@honeymorano6144 2 ай бұрын

Elliot I absolutely LOVE you. You are the brother I always wished my parents would give me but couldn't. You tell it in a way I need to hear. Brutally honest. Something I can respect. That is how I need to hear it. God I love you. I made every excuse to keep this man when I knew he was no good. Thank you so much for giving me the strength to get rid of that sh$!

@jennifert2002 2 ай бұрын

Diddly squat was what u were looking for. I gave dude so much power he walked all over me. 😢

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 2 ай бұрын

Same here. That was a stupid lesson I just had to learn lol.

@Jennifer-di4nl 2 ай бұрын

Great video! So simple but complex at the same time.

@heatheramelia9944 2 ай бұрын

Love it Elliot! I agree with you. Thank you.

@lmoorelawpractice6214 2 ай бұрын

Wise and funny too. Thank you! 😊

@marlounsly 2 ай бұрын

I read the guide. Pure gems

@ElliotScottDating 2 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@Dimples216 2 ай бұрын

I went no contact and i do not talk to him or engage him whats so ever. But he is spying on all my stuff and showing up in places where I frequent. I am also friends with mutual friends and he will be around too. I dont want to stop talking to my other friends just cause of him. Ugh.

@iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 Ай бұрын

Then don’t. Keep doing you. Ignore him. He’s hovering he wants to know what you been up to who your with seeing if ur dating anyone. DO NOT reach out first it’ll be your worst mistake ever. Let him come to you and when he does do not respond instantly wait a few days until the excitement or the anger wears off and you can think clearly this will help you respond better. :) hope this helps.

@elenag6431 2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Braveh3artGirl 2 ай бұрын

Holy frick Elliot you are actually hilarious on caffeine oml 😂😂😂❤

@melissamontes5410 2 ай бұрын

Oh and I meant blowing up my phone with different numbers .. I have him blocked lol 😂

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 2 ай бұрын

Lucky you have that lol.. but lucky may not be the right word lol. I say that loosely.

@melissamontes5410 2 ай бұрын

Oh man it’s crazy when I was trying to work it out diplomatically it didn’t work out . He played me like I was going to stick around thru the bs . I had enough. To be honest I’m turned off by him now I don’t want anything to do with him . When someone shows you who they are believe them . Calling me on different numbers is a whole different crazy lol 😆

@IsabelSmith31 5 күн бұрын

"Not pulling some bullshit" 😂

@isabelsmith109 Ай бұрын

Lol you said it can't take it back 😂"the more YOU GUYS are messing up" 😂😂😂

@c.j.erickson9647 2 ай бұрын

The way you are making this look like a math equation on the chalkboard tho! 😅 Great advice

@ElliotScottDating 2 ай бұрын

You like math nerds 🤓 haha

@memorablywonderful 2 ай бұрын

@Elliot, the link to the guide is not working, I did not receive it nor the other one I requested few days ago.. Could u support?

@Baheieujlsksnen 2 ай бұрын

I don't want him back

@isabelsmith109 Ай бұрын

Even if he chooses me im still gonna be a simp Ok gonna have to right your HVW guide lol

@kassyforever21 2 ай бұрын

Elliot, after I was honest with the guy and told him I felt that I may like him more than he does he responds with “how do you know that?” What does that even mean? How do I go about it I’m pretty sad😔

@Braveh3artGirl 2 ай бұрын

He might like you more than he’s letting on. But you want him to PROVE himself with ACTIONS x the words are wonderful, but if actions aren’t side by side with the words and consistent.. that’s when it becomes questionable

@isabelsmith109 Ай бұрын

Whay if i let him go and then i realize i csnt do it lol 😢😂 Do i fake it til i make it lol

@afrintayeba2981 2 ай бұрын

Elliot.when or how much time pass we can tell that we have no chance..?

@CD-ip1iw 2 ай бұрын

Mine reached out after 5.5 months and I ignored his text. At some point, YOU not him have to decide when too much time has passed and not be waiting for him.

@afrintayeba2981 2 ай бұрын

@@CD-ip1iw mine after 6 months then again after 6 months. I ignore his texts,i know he has gf..why he does this?

@Jennifer-di4nl 2 ай бұрын

One year. The higher the value of the man (im talking money) the longer it takes him. I was dating a gorgeous doctor who was doing this crap and then I met a simple yoga instructor who is short with a big nose who I just fell for cause he was giving me what tye doctor would not. Value, friendship and emotional connection. After 5 months, of me barely answering his texts and pulling away. Not seeing him. He finally asked. I told him I'm seeing someone and go away every weekend. He asked if he could remain in contact with me. That he doesn't want to lose my friendship. I said that was fine as long as it wasn't anything sexual. Now he's trying to have deep conversations about stuff we connect on. He is now about 6 months out and starting to wake up to the fact that I'm really gone. I do not reach out and will not reach out on my own ever again. So he's trying to fix it. I'm waiting to see what will happen out of curiosity . My guess is he will break before the year is out and tell me how he really feels. He's very out of touch with his own feelings. I'm the only woman that fits all his wants and needs yet he has a hard time seeing that. Space has given him that time to see it. He can get women but he's about 54 years old...does not have kids, does not want kids, has an STD (I don't care about that I've been through a devastating illness, STDs is not a deal breaker), works all the time (I used to work in the medical field so I'm very understanding about that, doesn't wanna date younger cause he can't go on dates and be avaliable a lot (I have my own life), people want him for his money and status (I don't care about that, I've dated richer), etc.. My point is, if you are the one he will see it. But money clouds the time it takes because they have more options. The poor guys notice it right away.

@TheresSomethingAboutSherry 2 ай бұрын

There is no specified amount of time written in stone. Every guy and every breakup is different. I've had an ex reach out to me after 3 months, one after 6 months and I even had one reach out after 2.5 years. I've also had a few that never reached out. But you cant wait around hoping. Live your life with no expectations; as if they will never come back because the truth is, they might not.

@annan4091 Ай бұрын

😂😂

@J.O.561 Ай бұрын

You are all squares!! 🤔😂

@NoireFleurFatale 2 ай бұрын

If I have to let you go that means you never wanted me. This video go against everything you teach lol 😂… Debrief get over the dude and just keep it moving girl…

@Chloeeee2215 2 ай бұрын

Elliot, it’s been 4 months of no contact with my ex boyfriend. My ex still had mom on instagram. My mom posted a photo of me and her on Instagram for the first time and my ex unfollowed my mom after he saw the photo. Does this mean there’s no hope of my ex and I getting back together?

@ElliotScottDating 2 ай бұрын

It was 4 months ago lol. Yes.

@CD-ip1iw 2 ай бұрын

Mine reached out after 5.5 months and I ignored his text. At some point, you have to decide when too much time has passed and not be waiting for him.