Trying to resolve toxicity with toxic ways is not the answer, maybe you both need a new counsellor or a divorce before you both get more psychological issues

1 minute in and it's already obvious it's written by AI. Probably fake, but some channels take actual posts and have AI rewrite them to "be more interesting" when all it does is add length for monetization purposes.

In my home town back in the 90s a friend of my parents had a similar charity thing going on, and while it was a success and made them feel really good about helping people in financial trouble it soon spiraled out of control when they started getting scammed. People would buy broken cars and bring them in and pretend to be sick and poor, then they'd get the car fixed for free or for sure cheap and just flip it and make a lot of money. Then they'd do it again, only they'd just send another family member in to make up some sob story about being in dire straits. What finally put a nail in coffin of the charity however was when people started taking the charity for granted and started feeling entitled to having their cars fixed up not only for free but also immediately, and when they were turned away because the charity could only serve so many people in a month without goring broke, the staff and the owner started receiving threats. It was a good few years though before the bad apples ruined it for everyone, but they simply could not continue when the threats and intimidation became a weekly thing. Unfortunately no good deed goes unpunished.

I thought you meant the other kind of coke ngl

He really had me in the first half ngl, I though he was gonna go full simp mode

Never date single mother's.

If her kids are destructive and undisciplined, no, they can't come to your homes. Or if you don't like screaming, interruption of adult talk, broken things, dirt...if her husband can't handle them, why should any of you? If you must, meet them in s park for a gathering instead.

Do a paternity test! Wife is trash and the apple didn't fall far from the tree, if the baby's yours take him, divorce and never look back!!

NTA and OP needs to do a paternity test to see if his "son" is actually his

Well cleaning is a woman's job,if you can afford you should hire a maid

Yes, all of you belong in the crew of Spaceball 1. But at least you are removing yourselves from the gene-pool, so with any luck, there will be fewer @$$#0|es in future generations.

Leave her please, its only 9 months in.

ESH

Not going too far- they made their choices. Choices have consequences.

her parents probably stuck closely to the traditional parental roles seeing her bf act like her mom is probably akin to seeing him crossdress worries me that she can't use her mind to overcome her feelings but oh well

Should have divorced

As a child free person i understand.

Just get a divorce. You don't have children, so there is really nothing tying you to this woman. She's not really your wife; your marriage is a sham and always was. Just get a divorce.

Why does this start in the middle of the story? And doesn’t even match the title

Finally a wholesome story!

YTA - but sometimes you have to be the ahole to get your point across. Beautiful karma. OP should have zero guilt.

feminist acts, dude needs to leave and STOP being a doormat

It’s her house now and it’s her and her husbands job to pay the taxes on it. NTA and 30,000 you better get paper signed before leaning that much money to someone.

You dont want a divorce? Why? Why dont you want a divorce? It sounds like you both want different things.

This video got posted with the wrong title

You are are beneath contempt. The children should be sheltered from you

She said he could soooo

Listen, does it suck for Alice that her siblings don’t like kids? Yes. Do I feel for her, sure. But her sibling chose not to have kids for a reason and aren’t obligated to invite 5 children to their events and homes if they don’t want to, regardless of blood relation. The only thing I really feel bad about is that her husband is somehow incapable of watching his own children for a few hours so his wife can hang out with other adults without the kids.

She assaulted you. You should have called the cops on the spot.

Geez. Imagine your aunts and uncles hating you just for existing.

Except Alice and her kids, all of yta

Omg poor alice and those poor kids having such shitty hateful siblings/uncles/aunts. That is so sad.

My parents used to say “my house my rules”. My brother and I got an apt together when I was 20. Parents stayed over one day and my mom told my brother to put on a shirt. He got the smuggest smile on his face and said “oh what what’s that y’all used to tell us? My house my rules”. my mom was so mad 😂😂

NTA it’s a shame he didn’t fear the consequences before doing it now it’s ripping him apart.

Nta.. dont accept them back..

I don't believe for one minute that she is not getting it elsewhere too. Forget counseling and call a divorce lawyer, this marriage is over.

NTA. But just get divorced.

There is only so many times she can punch a man in his face before she learns the error of her ways

THERE IS A SPONGBOB SUBWAY

NTA; I thought they were at first until her hand written response. Wasn't cheating either, I wouldn't let her get away with calling it cheating. I don't think she should be married; like a guy that only wants sex (no friendship) shouldn't get married- a woman that only wants friendship (no sex) shouldn't get married either.

You should have left 2 years ago.

I despise any kind of cheating but She DID tell him to go get it somewhere else sooooo...he did

She tried to take a life for revenge.

The sister is a complete psychotic piece of filth. She wanted to unalive someone's pet because they weren't going to stay with her cheating @$$. The mother is an enabler who thinks her psycho princess can do no wrong

She tried to KILL A DOG. Anybody with a brain would've done the same in your situation.

Damn

Hell no, you gave them both a taste of the crap they put you through. If they can't see that they treated you differently they can kick rocks, beat feat, whatever you want to tell them... I just love the my house my rules, they don't like that they are on the receiving end

Not cheating if she gave him written permission to have sex with people other than her. This is what she gets for only thinking of herself and manipulating him.

Honestly, I think either no one is the asshole, or everyone is the asshole here.

She wanted to get married. She wants someone to pay the bills. She wants security. She wants the social benefits. She doesn’t want OP, she never did. She doesn’t want counseling because she knows there’s nothing wrong with her, if she was attracted to OP it would be different but she’s not. OP should just jet.