AITAH for getting it elsewhere since my wife didn't want to have sex any more? 🧡

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Ай бұрын

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@ragingsaviorkami9862 Ай бұрын

Lmao definitely NTA. She even said "Go get it elsewhere because you're not getting it from me." It was almost like a dare, she was so full of herself, thinking he wouldn't go through with it. Not willing to at all communicate and make compromises with your partner is bad. It takes compromises and a lot of work from both sides to make things work. I'm wondering why they were even together in such a scenario.

@user-zk1zy1fy7o Ай бұрын

Nope she made the choice for you. Your only mistake is staying with her

@coolbeans3752 Ай бұрын

She takes him for granted, emotionally and physically neglects him. Tramples on his kindness, patience, understanding, and love, by scribbling out the letter to express his P.O.V. Then gets shocked when she gets replaced... NTA my brother, get divorced and a better life and wife.

@Dustin81 Ай бұрын

Not cheating if she gave him written permission to have sex with people other than her. This is what she gets for only thinking of herself and manipulating him.

@user-oc9bi4gq8l Ай бұрын

Nope nta, she should've read the letter, I get she doesn't want to have intimacy with him but whats he supposed to do? I know some people would say "if he loved her he would do what she wants", but if she loved him wouldn't she compromise?

@filosahoge947 Ай бұрын

Honestly no sex is basically a breach in the marriage contract to me. Out the door

@rishabhsrikanth15 8 күн бұрын

You are so shallow. What is this world coming to?

@filosahoge947 8 күн бұрын

@@rishabhsrikanth15 if a husband or wife will deny sex then they shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Not that hard to understand my friend. If someone just wants companionship they can do that without marriage and just be friends

@rishabhsrikanth15 8 күн бұрын

@@filosahoge947 exactly. So it is as much the fault of the husband as much as the wife. They should have properly discussed it and blame can’t be on one party alone

@redmcshamous760 6 күн бұрын

@@rishabhsrikanth15how can you discuss with someone who doesn’t listen or understand your needs and always makes it about her? You can’t if she doesn’t value his needs or his voice than it’s not a relationship.

@kevinroberts8441 Ай бұрын

Should of divorced

@redrackham6812 23 күн бұрын

Just get a divorce. You don't have children, so there is really nothing tying you to this woman. She's not really your wife; your marriage is a sham and always was. Just get a divorce.

@Jacob42610 29 күн бұрын

NTA; I thought they were at first until her hand written response. Wasn't cheating either, I wouldn't let her get away with calling it cheating. I don't think she should be married; like a guy that only wants sex (no friendship) shouldn't get married- a woman that only wants friendship (no sex) shouldn't get married either.

@urchbsmirch22 29 күн бұрын

I despise any kind of cheating but She DID tell him to go get it somewhere else sooooo...he did

@dinkyd1533 12 күн бұрын

"I don't want a divorce " ......well then you're doomed.

@JimPippin-wc7fq 27 күн бұрын

I don't believe for one minute that she is not getting it elsewhere too. Forget counseling and call a divorce lawyer, this marriage is over.

@Roshea 27 күн бұрын

This is usually the case. Arbitrary walls like "I made a choice long ago", "I'm abstaining for spiritual purposes" in the west are common indicators of infidelity.

@cyberhard 28 күн бұрын

NTA. But just get divorced.

@elade7857 29 күн бұрын

You should have left 2 years ago.

@nancyriggs8170 Ай бұрын

Your are both young.. She has to know you will either get it somewhere else or leave.. I think in all seriousness, you need to leave and get divorced..

@larissagomes451 Ай бұрын

What you mean by choices she made in the past? Is having kids not important to you as well? Just divorce her.

@GereldJohnson 26 күн бұрын

She get pregnant hoeing around and then had a baby deletion and it messed her up inside.

@zoe9190 22 күн бұрын

Should have divorced

@andrekerrison3367 25 күн бұрын

You dont want a divorce? Why? Why dont you want a divorce? It sounds like you both want different things.

@codyjones8153 14 күн бұрын

*Where's The Video With The Updates!*

@brennathecatlover4360 25 күн бұрын

She said he could soooo

@grt8guy03 24 күн бұрын

feminist acts, dude needs to leave and STOP being a doormat

@Orange_Swirl Ай бұрын

Honestly, I think either no one is the asshole, or everyone is the asshole here.

@nickel2874 29 күн бұрын

What do you mean? She is the AH. That is it.

@huh5950 Ай бұрын

I have to stay consistent so I have to say yes, because you should have just broken up with her

@CasaNovack Ай бұрын

Technically she gave him written consent to seek sexual satisfaction outside of the marriage. Not reading the contract doesn't protect you from responsibility of honoring it in any legal area in life. It still sucks though, because relationships shouldn't be treated like contracts. He should have left then. I'm also not a lawyer, so I don't know what would happen, if he were to present the scribbled letter before the judge during the divorce. Obviously the ideal situation would be to realize, that the wife has so little respect for him, that she can't be bothered to take 5 minutes out of her life to read a letter he wrote. He should have left her then, but he didn't. He deluded himself into thinking that outside of the sexual area his marriage is perfect. That delusion has made him a cheater. In the long run it will just cause harm to both families and to his reputation.

@rickraber1249 15 күн бұрын

I abhor when men cheat. But in this case, I'm not so sure this guy is completely off base. My only thought is that he's in an untenable situation: he's a man, and men need sex. She is completely unwilling to have any sex with him, but doesn't want him getting it elsewhere. So she expects to put a chastity belt on the poor guy - he's completely unhappy, and she's perfectly content. Doesn't sound like a marriage to me.

@JacksonLloyd952 Ай бұрын

Yikes

@user-lk1ky1hx5r Ай бұрын

Women☕

@nikkisharma6376 17 күн бұрын

Trying to resolve toxicity with toxic ways is not the answer, maybe you both need a new counsellor or a divorce before you both get more psychological issues