Divorce vs Uncoupling
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3 ай бұрын
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@angelwin1243
@angelwin1243 Күн бұрын
Interesting
@roccocarlino067
@roccocarlino067 Күн бұрын
The desire of attraction is within all souls, however, the soul (a point of light) is genderless, either male or female. The soul simply plays it part according to the body's gender. The first mistake humans made was to identify themselves as male and female, a body, rather than the soul occupying the body. Sometimes a soul will have stronger feelings for the same body type, which is absolutely normal. Souls have been taking birth to male and female bodies since time immemorial. And in some births we are drawn to a certain body preference due to past life experiences.
@gravesilk322
@gravesilk322 2 күн бұрын
The angry straight men in the comments need to leave😭😭
@sylmanyeki9323
@sylmanyeki9323 2 күн бұрын
U guys look alike 😊
@leahstumm9662
@leahstumm9662 4 күн бұрын
💜💜
@leahstumm9662
@leahstumm9662 4 күн бұрын
It’s great when you have LILL’s on here😍
@leahstumm9662
@leahstumm9662 4 күн бұрын
💜💜
@judithachterberg3362
@judithachterberg3362 9 күн бұрын
I have a lot of respect for you women! What kind of power! You did go live for yourself. Even with children, a husband, reactions of family and the whole world. Hope i will ever get the guts to live mine..... or to find out what fits me despite of the opinions/reactions and not losing our children. Respect and thnx for sharing, 🙏
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 9 күн бұрын
It can be so hard and so scary but so worth it in the end 🤗
@ru-km6tb
@ru-km6tb 10 күн бұрын
im literally going through boundry issues in my relationship rn😭😭and idk how to feel about it and its taking up so much emotions,, any advice???
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 10 күн бұрын
Hey! I'm sorry to hear you're going through this! I think I would need some more details to offer input. 😬 You're welcome to reach out to me on IG for privacy
@Garedgar2222
@Garedgar2222 10 күн бұрын
Ain‘t supporting someone I married that broke my heart and our relationship, not even „being friends“ with betrayers >;(
@andrewtibbs8232
@andrewtibbs8232 12 күн бұрын
Humans entertain me
@lisaroach9900
@lisaroach9900 13 күн бұрын
Hello I'm glad it worked out for her. My situation is different. I'm at the very beginning as far as realizing I have feelings for a woman. I can't really talk to my husband about it without it turning into a argument and name calling and threats to move out. I can't really afford this house without his income. I would have to work 2 jobs to manage this house. I haven't met the women I'm talking to yet just texting back and forth for 4 months now. I know if I cross the line with her my marriage will be over.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 13 күн бұрын
Your situation is very similar to many other women going through this.. if you'd like some support to navigate this and connection and community with others, come check out The Late Life Lesbian Community... Https://thelatelifelesbian.com/community
@monolith9832
@monolith9832 14 күн бұрын
These gay women knew what they were doing. Don’t believe the silly games that they are playing.
@joyceadegboyega8524
@joyceadegboyega8524 15 күн бұрын
Joyce Adegboyega is a Lesbian but I have been a Lesbian if every body knew or knows I would be embarrassed .
@joyceadegboyega8524
@joyceadegboyega8524 15 күн бұрын
I am a Lesbian but I try hard to act straight all the time I look at woman and flirt and I try hard I am embarrassed if everyone knows that I am lesbian .
@sylmanyeki9323
@sylmanyeki9323 15 күн бұрын
Lol u gals are wasted! I love it lol
@virginiahamel8973
@virginiahamel8973 15 күн бұрын
Emily ,you cut the other women off constantly You go on and on and on Really turned me to off to a show I could really might like
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
Thanks for the feedback. I'll review and keep this in mind
@virginiahamel8973
@virginiahamel8973 15 күн бұрын
Emily,I wish you didn’t talk so much
@thyland726
@thyland726 19 күн бұрын
Its called not followimg your degenerate sexual desires.
@thyland726
@thyland726 19 күн бұрын
That poor son
@thyland726
@thyland726 19 күн бұрын
That poor husband
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
I understand why you would think that but my ex husband and I just took our some on vacation to Florida together for his birthday and all had a great time together. We still work together as a family but not being married is the right thing for us.
@ILuvMeezers
@ILuvMeezers 21 күн бұрын
I started a late bloomer group locally and it was nearly impossible to get others in my area to meet up for support or get togethers. I don't know if it was just to overwhelming, too uncomfortable, or fear of being outed.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
There's definitely a lot of fear until people are out and more comfortable being their true selves
@amu7499
@amu7499 22 күн бұрын
Most faith and religions are preached as Homosexuality to be as sinned. Hope that's not true cause alot of people are going to hell if that's what written is ture
@lisaroach9900
@lisaroach9900 24 күн бұрын
I’m married and I have feelings for a woman now. I tried telling my husband how I feel because I have been texting this woman for 4 months now and I enjoy talking to her. My husband had a real problem with the fact that I said I want to meet her. He had a problem with ED so to keep from getting upset. I started chatting with a woman and I fell in love with her. Don’t know what to do now. What would my friends and family think of me.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 24 күн бұрын
Hey! You're definitely not alone in going through this. Do you have any support or anything to help you figure this out??
@lisaroach9900
@lisaroach9900 24 күн бұрын
@TheLateLifeLesbian No I really don't because I haven't really told anyone how I feel about her yet.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 23 күн бұрын
@lisaroach9900 is there anything that you feel would be helpful for you at this time? A lot of women feel better when they have others to talk to who have gone through this
@slimmeyBabe
@slimmeyBabe 27 күн бұрын
Do you or anybody else think that these signs could also point towards bisexuality? I see a lot of these things in my past as well. For Some time now Iam questioning my sexuality, whether Iam bisexuell or my past attraction to men was just comphet… Iam really confused
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
Sometimes it could be bisexuality but I believe there are ways to tell if someone is truly a lesbian but have let comp het and heteronormativity influence their feelings
@rayoliver760
@rayoliver760 28 күн бұрын
Great video! Its so ironic how even after coming out how you still need to deal with fear how others will react in all aspects of your daily life including your employeer/profession though. Yes in your profession its only logical how parents would still want to be protective of their kids, but w/your interaction w/the parents I really like how you are still vague when describing your relationships you are in! Im not out yet myself, but once im ready internally I want to shout to the hills how gay I am to everyone, but reality of that is that's not possible. Besides the obvious how unsafe that is, but still not everyone might be as accepting as others are though.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 28 күн бұрын
Since this video, I'm very open with my sexuality. I have gotten married though so I often out myself by saying "my wife" and people have just gone with the flow. I think finding that person that I love so much and am so proud to call my wife has made it so much easier to not care what people think 😊
@shoshanamorecroft2397
@shoshanamorecroft2397 29 күн бұрын
I'm scared of hurting my husband. he'll think our life together has been a lie and ive strung him along. The kids maybe too So stuck.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 29 күн бұрын
This is the fear that pretty much every woman has on this journey. If you're interested in getting some support and connecting with other women who are going through this, come join me and others in The Late Life Lesbian Community community.thelatelifelesbian.com
@mcelliotdawson7700
@mcelliotdawson7700 29 күн бұрын
You obviously love each other very much… you have beautiful vibes. Congratulations on your finding each other . ❤️
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 29 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@user-rq7qr7jz7r
@user-rq7qr7jz7r Ай бұрын
This
@LaShaynaMonique
@LaShaynaMonique Ай бұрын
You're such a kind, beautiful soul and it shows through your child, CLEAR AS DAY! -- I'm honestly impressed to see such an aware, confident, beautiful child in this day and age and im sure he has you to thank for that... I thank you too, for making another, conscious, beautiful soul for the good of humanity to enjoy... I wish your family the BEST Emily xo ♥ ♥
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Omg wow!! Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words!!! It really means a lot! 🤗
@LaShaynaMonique
@LaShaynaMonique Ай бұрын
Sheesh! Here I am thinking i'ma "late bloomer" for coming out at 25, (35 Now), and much more mature women are braving it and doing the same even 10 yrs later then I. SO brave. SO courageous. SO beautiful at the end of the day... If i love anything about this time and space in life, it's that we're all collectively becoming MORE of who we're meant to be and having the courage to do so... BLESSINGS! xo
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Love this and I agree! I do think we're finally getting to a time where more people are feeling safe and brave enough to be their true selves ❤️
@Aimelee
@Aimelee Ай бұрын
I love this comment so much. ♥️
@sylmanyeki9323
@sylmanyeki9323 Ай бұрын
I have dreams of being intimate with women and I no longer find straight hallmarks movies interesting! ….yeah, I’m a lesbian 😊
@iloveall52cards20
@iloveall52cards20 Ай бұрын
This made me see things more clearly about a woman I know who married a man as a straight woman, who had kids, and then changing teams, lol. 🤣
@johnh9086
@johnh9086 Ай бұрын
What I would give to hear his side from him.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Every story has 2 sides but we just spent the weekend away together getting our son scuba certified and we get along like family so we have thankfully been able to move past everything and heal and still be a family for our son even though we aren't married now
@johnh9086
@johnh9086 Ай бұрын
@TheLateLifeLesbian Coparenting can be a great thing when both parents are on the same page. It's just that I find these stories interesting and rarely get both sides. I'm not saying your side isn't truthful or that you don't get along with your Son's father. And im sure his story from his perspective is 90% the same as yours. But all relationships, in my opinion, have multiple perspectives. And would love to hear his.
@johnh9086
@johnh9086 Ай бұрын
@@TheLateLifeLesbian ^^
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
@johnh9086 I completely agree! ALWAYS 2 sides and 2 perspectives. I've asked him in the past if he'd be willing to share, but he's a more private person than I am and doesn't really like social media. Maybe one day, he'll agree, but for now, I respect his wishes.
@lacielesueur1167
@lacielesueur1167 Ай бұрын
I am currently working through the brand new realization that I am gay and in an eleven year relationship with a man, 8 of those years married. I'm 34 and when reflecting back on my life I do not know how I never came to this realization. I cannot express how happy I am to have found your channel. Thabk you for sharing your story.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Hey! You're very welcome! A lot has changed since this video! I now help women through this journey and realization. Check out thelatelifelesbian.com I have other supports and resources available 😊
@mihaelamars
@mihaelamars Ай бұрын
I never had dreams about kissing my girlfriends, but everything else you mentioned describes my childhood to a T. I had insane crushes on famous actresses and musicians as well. Those would usually turn into full-blown obsessions. I spent my high-school years totally infatuated with a woman 15 years my senior who I met in aerobics class. All of this, and I STILL didn't acknowledge my sexuality. I was raised in such a homophobic environment that being gay was out of the question to the point where I thought it could never happen to me. I thought all my crushes were just me wanting to be like those older girls/women.
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Yep!! It's crazy how the signs can be so obvious yet we don't have a clue!
@MR-ce6xr
@MR-ce6xr Ай бұрын
This is a very remarkable and honest book and is worth reading. We get to know Suzette and all of her family and friends and their reaction to her "coming out" And her struggle to come to terms with her situation, which is a victory for her in the end. Michael R
@globright9127
@globright9127 Ай бұрын
R u sure
@NAhuufeloo
@NAhuufeloo Ай бұрын
I appreciate you! 🎉
@NAhuufeloo
@NAhuufeloo Ай бұрын
Good Question!!!!
@rayoliver760
@rayoliver760 Ай бұрын
You've sure had interesting thoughts you had growing up! I love your thought of being a Tomboy, but also being the primary breadwinner in the relationship! I had the same feelings, but the opposite though (i.e. Tomgirl) . In retrospect we would have been perfect with each other growing up!
@rayoliver760
@rayoliver760 Ай бұрын
Oh you go girl! You would think those two would go together once you accept one, but being how both are so that's not always the case. I'm telling myself I'm bi now, but that still feels like a lie now.
@user-dq9ek9qb2s
@user-dq9ek9qb2s Ай бұрын
Don't mislead people with your demonic lifestyle...You need to get demon exorcize ...Yours is not a mental or health issue but rather of demonic origin. Please don't normalize what is abnormal and evil
@romancox5386
@romancox5386 Ай бұрын
Aime is a beautiful woman.
@romancox5386
@romancox5386 Ай бұрын
In fact this is a beautiful couple ❤
@artbykarma
@artbykarma Ай бұрын
This was So good to listen to. Very relatable and fuels my bravery 🚀❤
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
Are you going through this??
@artbykarma
@artbykarma Ай бұрын
@@TheLateLifeLesbian Yes! Moving slowly
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian Ай бұрын
@artbykarma it's your own journey so it's ok to move as quick or as slow as you need to. If you'd ever like to talk more, I offer free consultations. This is the link if you'd like to do that 😊 thelatelifelesbian.com/freeconsultation
@artbykarma
@artbykarma 21 күн бұрын
@@TheLateLifeLesbian Thank you - I will sign up in June if possible - work is busy now and it's tough with the time difference. I live in Thailand <3
@darkstar7916
@darkstar7916 Ай бұрын
im a dude, but i kinda feel lesbian..
@MilanSerb34
@MilanSerb34 Ай бұрын
I went through it for nearly 10 years. And the funny thing is, when i first started this "relationship" which was just based upon friendship, her "online friends" contacted me saying "You will not get anywhere here because she is Lesbian"... And i simply replied that, "i am not here for romance,.. just to exchange thoughts and ideas". Needless to say, a man and a woman cant be friends. Because feelings and attractions will always be involved. She never made it any different. She kept on playing with feelings for years and is now a 37 year old virgin. And still lives with her parents.No job of course. They say men are manchildren... The same goes for women. I was 33 when i met her, i am now 43 and what came out of those 10 years?... Nothing! Because long and behold she was a lesbian all along. But she could never admit to it. This in turn has left me with never being able to trust another woman ever again, and it has left me with a really negative view on women in general. Maybe i will find love one day... Maybe not. There are good ppl out there sure, But they are not on the internet! And for me buhuu... 10 years wasted of my life!
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
You were told this woman was a lesbian and you denied engaging for romance. So what changed that caused you to waste 10 years of your life?
@MilanSerb34
@MilanSerb34 15 күн бұрын
@@TheLateLifeLesbian I told you she said she wasn't when confronted!
@TheLateLifeLesbian
@TheLateLifeLesbian 15 күн бұрын
@John-gq5bt so did she then lead you on and act like she wanted a romantic relationship with you??
@beuski6531
@beuski6531 Ай бұрын
I gotta tell ya', I'm a male but I have very heavy lesbian feelings. Help me, please? Just Sayin'.
@NAhuufeloo
@NAhuufeloo 2 ай бұрын
Just had this discussion