I want to give you a hug :(

What a good looking lady 😍

I feel like no matter how many questions you would have asked you still wouldn't have what you wanted. They sell you a lie.... They see you are desperate and vulnerable and they take advantage of you and litterally see you as a $$ lifetime patient... Which sadly is typically true with transitions. I think you are adorable just as you are and I hope you are happy.

Are you wearing Groucho Marx glasses?

I'm so sorry that happened to you. That is 100% your surgeon's fault for failing to communicate with you. It is never the patient's responsibility for that sort of thing; the surgeon is always supposed to convey informed consent to the patient. Btw, for anyone who just quickly wants to see the questions to ask at a consult, they are: - Where will my scars be? - What shape will my scars be? - Contingency plan: what if they can't do your preferred procedure?

your surgeon should have done better. im so sorry you had that experience.

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They probably are a little lower, than it is "normal". So I hope you were able to get a revision, if you wanted to. And I think it looks already really really really great :)

this video was made the year i graduated high school and was still a femme-y girl but im so glad i watched it today as an increasingly masculinizing trans guy because it was really relatable. hope all is well with you xo

Appreciating my surgeon now. She went over a bunch of things with me at the time I felt were unimportant/obvious. While Im not particularly fussed about the end result it shows quality of care that she is going to the effort of caring on my behalf about the small details that probably will matter long run Thank you for showing your results, especially as you are not happy with it. Its valuable information to others

You look like Orlando Bloom. Any updates?

Very late comment, but I have been binging your videos. They're just so good, informative and calming. I hope you're doing okay :)

The surgeon violated your right to informed consent. What he did was unethical and probably illegal. You could probably sue him. If I were you I would have contacted a lawyer.

me watching this: wait he got keyhole when he wanted DI? *gets to the end* what in the fuck kinda scarring? what doctor thought that was in any way shape or form okay?? i know this is WAY LATE but I hope you sued the arse off him

Congrats. However it was borderline unethical of your surgeon to do that and not to talk to you about it.

You’re strong AF. I would have flipped that building upside down.

My son has top surgery in August, and I’m just doing my duty researching and learning. This is a great video. Thank you. You’re amazing.

I'm sorry if this has been answered, but can you say who you went to so we know who to avoid?!

i know i’m like 4 years late on this video but i’m looking forward to getting top surgery and i was just wondering how much you paid for it if you don’t mind me asking

It’s not even a qualm he should have told you BEFORE. What he did was really unprofessional.

Thank you sir for this vid. I wish you already had your correction.

You still look great...............amazing man.....

I've got top surgery in a couple of months and this video is very helpful. I'm getting public funded surgery which I'm very grateful for but my surgeon wasn't quite as negotiable with some aspects of the surgery which people online have told me to discuss with my surgeon. For example, I said that I would like to have scars that slightly curve up at the sides and follow the line of the muscle, and he said that usually they aim for straight but that I should just remind him about it before surgery. I also said I would like to have the scars directly on the contour of the peck muscles and he said that that particular thing isn't in his control because it's more about genetics, length of the muscle, skin available to them, etc. So I think I will make sure to double check all of that stuff with him as well as nipple placement. Thank you for sharing.

Your chest looks really good; most likely wouldn't notice anything on the beach or at the gym. I can see and feel your discomfort, though. I pray that you can get what you want. <3

I'm so sorry man .. the doc should have told you everything!! You're a handsome man, appreciate the good parts. ;)

Please give us an update on this. This surgeon committed malpractice. This isn't just about you. This is about a surgeon who used your desperation and pain to learn a new procedure. This was not an experimental new procedure. This was a surgeon who was not respecting you as a person. This is malpractice against the LGBTQ community. Most people will not pursue sue in this situation because of the shame and fear of having to talk about being trans to so many people. You don't have to take this all on yourself. There are legal organizations that would love to take on a case like this because this is so clearly malpractice and because taking on this case will protect all of the LGBTQ community. Lambda Legal is the most likely to be excited about your case. GLAD are also LGBTQ legal advocates and defenders. Please pursue legal action about your botched surgery. This should not have happened to you. This surgeon took advantage of you. There are lots of plastic surgeons saying they do top surgery just like your surgeon. This is a very specialized procedure that comes with a lot of shame and fear of doctors. It is the surgeon's job to give full and complete information about the surgery and this surgeon hid those things from you. She is not unique. Please help others in the community by standing up and taking legal action against this malpractice.

I know this comment is late. You were right about your results. I hope you didn't doubt yourself. Sometimes, when people try to make you feel better, they're not doing you any favors. YOU know best.

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You're incredible what? Also let's acknowledge those guitar skills

Wut? I've never seen those kinds of scars.

Hi, I find your scars really very thin and I think that just a tattoo will help. The shape of your pects are perfect. My chest is really low and I had a peri surgery.

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MAN i'm laughing my ass off ur chest looks like it's angry at me and it's kinda funny when u see it, honestly i loved ur results, do u already know somebody else making this techquine?

if you move the nipples above the scars it will be 100% perfect everything else, the shape is very good. The loose skin it's not bad at all, no one can see unless you point it out

Oh my gods I wanna kill that fucking surgeon this is 100% not your fault they should have their license taken away the amount of gross malpractice to just decide to do something to someone’s chest without consulting them is egregious. Found this in my recommended and I really hope you were able to have a successful revision to even have you pay for that is disgusting

You look like skibidi pop pop

I think you are masculine and you were a masculine girl (from the video)

thanks, good video, hope you get the revision, with great results!👍😉

your guitar playing really improved too♡

Damn one more comment I also struggled with eds a lot for trans folks have I relate to you so much man

Also from my experience masc gay guys are really often into trans guys. Also I'm the opposite of you I'm attracted to femininity regardless of gender :). There's probably a word for it but whatever.

I relate so hard to this as a flamboyantly bisexual androgynous presenting trans guy. I want to physically transition because of physical dysphoria and I identify as male because I want to have the body of a cis male. Trans guys can be feminine just like cis guys can be feminine! :)

This is the exact video I needed.. thank you so much, truly

What was the name of your surgeon?? This same thing happened to a friend of mine

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Oooh I think it looks awesome! But I feel you, it's all so new and it can be weird. Pretty sure when the scars heal, it will be amazing!

So glad I found this, was thinking of going to ting now i know i prolly shouldnt

did you sue your surgeon because I feel for you dude! They should have told you what they planned to do!!!

I would be less upset about the extra tissue.. I would be more mad that my torso looks pissed