you're welcome my brother I'm glad you enjoy it and find it helpful alhamdulilah

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Ameen my dear may Allah bless you I'm glad you enjoy it :)

There is already a podcast which can be adapted to the issue you raise. A particular emphasis on setting Boundaries. I had found this podcast to be very informative. 12 | Understanding Narcissistic Siblings and Navigating Life with them at Home kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hN-UdMuFurTQe6M.html All the Best.

@@suhailmohmed661 barak allahu fiek

Alhamdulilah I"m glad it helped, may Allah bless you :)

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@@munamohamud8622 alhamdulilah ♥️

Alslaam alaikom, no problem. The same way the angels report to Allah daily about us, is the same way all of Iblis’s soldiers report to him too, because he is in competition with Allah, so he wants daily reports on his progress to corrupt the believing humans and jinn. Abu Musa (ra) reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When Satan (Iblis) awakens in the morning, he dispatches his troops, saying: Whoever misguides a Muslim today, I will dress him with a crown. This one will go out and say: I did not leave him alone until he divorced his wife. Satan will say: A Muslim is about to get married. This one will come and say: I did not leave him alone until he disrespected his parents. Satan will say: A Muslim is about to be good to his parents. This one will come and say: I did not leave him alone until he committed idolatry. Satan will say: You, you! Another will come and say: I did not leave him alone until he committed adultery. Satan will say: You, you! This one will come and say: I did not leave him alone until he killed someone. Satan will say: You, you! Then he will dress him with a crown.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Ibn Ḥibbān 6189 Grade: Sahih (authentic) So, when does this happen with the qareen? In accordance to the research of Ibn Al Qayyim Al Jawzeyah on the soul, I believe it to be in the 1st 3rd of the night when we are asleep and they have no influence over us or our dreams, as Allah descends to our Dunya in that time and the soul travels to the spirit world, so all dreams will be divinely influenced. There is no creature created by Allah who is evil by nature, no humans or jinn. Even the predatory nature in animals is for their own survival and Allah created prey animals as food for them. In regards to the qareen not reporting to Iblis if we overpower them, if they continue to obey Iblis and challenge us then they will still have to produce a progress report, because they have a leader. Iblis will either belittle, punish, dismiss or send extra help if they don’t do well. What’s the support? Sending other evil jinns to take you away from the right path like the ashig jinn, possessed humans and other problematic individuals like covert narcissists and malignant narcissists who do black magic. Is there a possibility the qareen can become a believer and stop obeying Iblis if they are too weak to continue the job and actually start to like you and your way of life? Yes, because they have free will, no one can say that this isn’t possible, due to Allah’s mercy for all His creation. He gives every human and jinn the chance to repent before death and the jinn actually have more of an advantage than humans, as they can live for much longer. However, the only qareen who was a believer to begin with, by the help of Allah, was the one assigned to The Prophet (saw) because of the weight and scale of his dawah mission. Abdullah ibn Mas’ud (ra) reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Each one of you has a devil-companion from the jinn over him.” They said, “Even you, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet said, “Even me, yet Allah helped me against him until he embraced Islam. He does not order me to do anything but good.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2814 Grade: Sahih (authentic) Allah did this for The Prophet (saw), because Iblis works the hardest to corrupt the righteous people in dawah and those who are scholars, to kill the correct message of Islam and people’s love for Allah. Iblis, on the other hand, rewards and supports the corrupt dawah people and scholars, who spread an incorrect, harsh and disturbing understanding of Islam that can push people away from it and cause them to view Allah as a tyrant. Sa’id ibn Dawud reported: Makhlad ibn al-Husyan, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “Allah never tells something to His servants but that Satan interferes with it in one of two ways. He does not care which of them succeeds. Either he makes them exaggerate in it (extremism), or he makes them belittle it (liberalism).” Abu Nu’aym reported: Ibrahim ibn Adham, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “It is said that nothing is harder upon Iblis than a wise and patient scholar. If he speaks, he speaks with correct knowledge. If he is silent, he is silent with forbearance (wisdom and patience).” In regards to your second question, they associate themselves with Iblis, because they have chosen to follow his leadership, the same way some humans have chosen to be evil, instead of good and rebel against the laws of Allah. The qareen who is assigned to you, is assigned by Iblis and not Allah. Allah allows Iblis to do this, but as protection from his soldiers, Allah sends us 4 angels who accompany us everyday. If we read the athkars, the angels can do their job well. If we don’t, then we are at the mercy of Allah and sometimes, we have to face the consequences of not reading the athkars (i.e., the jinn get access to us via heavy waswas and temptations to sin, which is the human being’s greatest issue - like it was with Adam (as). It is the issue Allah warns us about in Surat Falaq). At the end of the day, nothing will happen except by Allah’s will and angels can protect you from other dangers too, such as being hit by a car or not dying from choking. Hope that answers your question. I wrote a detailed response in case anyone else has the same question or doubts. I have already answered this in a previous podcast, but can’t remember which one now. Please know that I wouldn’t give islamic information to people that I’m unsure of or isn’t authentic. It is a responsibility I carry with honour, great care and integrity.

Having been a Victim of Narcissistic abuse over the past 30 years from 2 malignant parents it was a special kind of hell. Also, using 4 siblings as flying monkey's and then all their enablers. I don't even have 1 relative on my side from around 20 but I am now more stronger and wiser than I have ever been. They still come here and can't even greet me but I no longer cry about it. Above all else, seek Allah(SWT). He will direct you, comfort you, love you, guide you and so much more. As Yakub AS, complain about your anguish and sorrow to Allah(SWT) only when he is the one who has the solutions. In the meantime, we have to do all on our side too. I had to do so much Education, and Self-Care over decades now. I can advise also as: 1. Moving your body with exercise. 2. Practicing mindfulness. 3. Minimizing stress. 4. Getting plenty of rest. 5. Eating nutritious foods We have to do the inner work as Dr Mona often refers so in many of her podcasts. The result is you can become your best version. I never thought I would become my best version as I now have by myself and Others and in my relationship with Allah(SWT). But keep striving for even more. I really have to pinch myself. Furthermore, we have a beautiful hereafter awaiting us. You can be in the same situation as me and other Victims i.e. the reward which can await you and so much so we would want to come back to this world all over again to go through even more betrayals, pain, suffering, harm, neglect, abuse and so much more. I have had huge tests which has tested my patience. We are the fortunate ones and to engage in a great act of worship i.e. patience. As per the teaching in our Quran, the reward is without limit. So we potentially would not even have to go through the scales on the Day of Judgement. Rather, if anyone's life has been running smoothly, they should be worrying on where are their opportunities to engage in this particular great act of patience. I was to then notice how patient I became in my character so much so I don't even know how to start shouting etc. I have been enjoying my own solitude for such a long time but it allowed me to keep growing as a person. When we can have Allah(SWT) on our side then you have everything. Allah(SWT) is always with the Oppressed person and when we raise our hands in Dua to Allah(SWT) there is no barrier between us. I shall keep you in my Dua's. All the very best.

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Unfortunately, even if your intention would have been good, you can attract Others in whom jealousy and envy could have been triggered. Not everyone has a good intention and a clean heart. Thus, Dr Mona in this podcast refers specially how even at Weddings so many different photos are taken to be shared with Others Thus, from the learning gained from this podcast I would say to share several photos as more intimate too i.e. cutting a wedding cake together can even trigger a yearn from Others. Some could have the intention of rubbing it into Others. If a couple are getting married for each Other why do those not even related to the couple need to see any of the photos and why provide them too. In today's world of social media, how photos can be forwarded on or rather even taken without us aware for the sole purpose of sharing with Others. We don't want to be in a scenario of where we are the topic of discussion behind our backs and on our blessings. In my opinion, such gatherings can trigger the yearning even more thus then releasing jealousy and envy. It reminds me of a person in India who had to ask on a talk show because she was struggling to shake off Neighbours who would be peeping onto them. She was told to just tell them today, all sorts of drama happened and something on the lines of it was all horrible. It puts to bed evil which could have been become even bigger and ruining the actual happy and loving environment they had in their home. I hope the details I provide help.

@@Rana-Abbas79 you’re welcome ♥️

@@lienlien3340 Salaam sis a true zuhri isn’t attracted to narcs, but narcs are attracted to them. The zuhri is a high level spiritual empath with psychic abilities, they can detect narc energy easily.

@@lienlien3340 you will find podcast 56 helpful about why some empathic people are attracted to narcs.

@@user-nf79 yes they do and that’s why I said when you feel energized by someone but you get bad thoughts about them, it’s from the evil Qareen who doesn’t want you around empaths and when you feel drained by someone and get bad thoughts it’s your intuition working for you, telling you to avoid them. If you feel drained around someone but force yourself to think well of them, that’s from your good character and upbringing, but also your Qareen is working hard on your thoughts to confuse you and keep you around toxic people.

@@themuslimnarcissistbook so both the empath and narc are being controlled by their Qareen? In the former, it makes the bad seem good, and in the latter, it makes the good seem bad? Oh my... Astaghfirullah. May Allah grant us VICTORY over these wrong thoughts that destroy what would otherwise be a beautiful life filled with nourishing beautiful friendships.... Astaghfirullah al-azheem.

You're welcome my dear thank you for your kind comment :)

Yes, intimidating Others when we could just be going about our daily lives. We could only be operating on a human being level as Allah(SWT) wants us to be in our Character and also aligning with the teachings in our Quran.

Both malignant Narcissistic Parents. It was never a relationship but just a competition. The game had to never end because they could never compete then triggering a Narcissistic Injury followed by a Narcissistic Rage. Aside, from using my energy and resources to make their 6 bedroom house and catapult themselves. They have to stay higher than me otherwise they start burning for that reason too.

@@fatherandson1_____ I think you’re missing the whole point of the work I do.

Please try to understand the details in the context provided. How I am doing so as I have started going through the podcast kindly provided. We are moving towards becoming a society where the context is misconstrued more and more. Thank you.

@fatherandson1_____ my comment from this morning was directed at you. I am just now finishing the podcast, Superb, Superb and Superb. One of the best life lessons to instill in us.

MashAllah, Dr Mona has sound Islamic and psychological knowledge. She knows her stuff.

No one is born a narc, but children can copy the toxic behaviour of others and what they see in cartoons etc and it makes them hard to deal with. They also develop anger issues and behaviour problems when they are put through traumas, neglect and incorrect discipline that is harsh and unfair.

Another point you mention and which she did to me twice is introduce me to crappy potential partners as I am single. One I discovered was liar and big con artist very dishonest guy, always making shady deals. The coupling did not go through because we were from different cast system. I later found out this guy was nothing, he was always running away from debtors and people he robbed blind by his shady deals. The other guy was a huge player. I myself noticed his wondering eye and loads of female back burner friends. One of my biggest fears in life is to catch an STD so I dropped that loser also. All these bad encounters are courtesy of this so called friend. Even when I try to distance myself, she is always trying to come to me. This, like many of your talks kept me up at night and all the memories pouring in, all the dots connecting, am so mad ! People can be hateful and cunning. Why would you pretend to be friends with someone you don't like? All this covert competition and sabotage. All the dots connect Dr. Mona! I consume your content so much now that I repeat your lingo like crazy now. Back burner and man child. :) Jazakillahu Khairan katheeran Dr. Mona.

The guidance only comes from Allah(SWT). He Guides who he Wills. At some point, they can revert. I believe it is not something we should explore too much other than keep the belief of Allah(SWT) guiding those who he wants.

This post 🤌🏾

100% to every point. Thank you for sharing ❤

@@Hajarlovesislam alhamdulilah ♥️

Subhanallah I feel exactly the same sister Mona . I haven’t been able to listen to your podcasts for a while but managed to catch up alhamdullilah. Every since I’ve started listening you your podcast was always what I was dealing with and going through at that moment 🥰🤲. Ma