great i seem on a good path then... currently in conflict with 2 of 4 men yay

We started with conflict. We had conflict. I LEFT. It been 24 years.

I love conflicts ..i used to be scared to confront people...people know they are fucking with you

I chose my battle. You show me who you are, I believe it. No need to discuss it. The end.

A person who does or says disrespectful things. Just because they think they can get away with treating another person disrespectfully. That says a lot about the person doing the disrespect. It says that person has no integrity or self-regulation. I personally find that highly unattractive and not a high value person. I immediately set a boundary of no contact and blocked that sort of mess.

Father alex is like a therapist for me

I can go through a healthy form of conflict but I have been self sacrificing too much so I have released the source of stress and anxiety from the man I was in love with he is unhealed and it’s not my place to be his target. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I realize my feminine was overpowering my masculine and last night i set a boundary out loud and it was way overdue i feel a little shaky this am, fear of retaliation... But I realized I keep getting victimized not bc lifes not fair but bc i have been living w no backbone, saying yes to everyone and trying to belong. And i keep getting disrespected but its bc i feel like someone who is uncertain about her value. Im the only one who can stop the bleeding and punch sharks in the meantime

I hate confrontation.. Hate that explaining and alllll that mental energy.. I rather ghost or leave them...

In a new relationship, and I let it slide twice when they disrespected me, and ofcourse they proceeded to cross the line a third time...that's when they saw me switch. They tried to play it off like it wasn't too much of a big deal but I wasn't having it, the first two errors, was just me giving them a chance to check themselves before I had to check them. Me breaking the nice, docile demeanor made a mark, especially because they remember that they had two chances.

Your genuineness is so enjoyable. Thanks bro ❤ i don’t take crap from anyone because of you lol

4:20 chris Hanson lolllll

Consistent conflict is what ended my last relationship. He kept being distant and started creating conflict on purpose. I fell into the chase somehow, not going to lie. I have more time on my schedule now and making more money so I naturally wanted to spend more time together and hopefully do things together. I wanted things back to how they were at one point before I started my RN program. Thought things would be better after. That was clearly not the case.

Father Alex you are so right

I liked your story with the landlord. I also like this theme you introduced about conflict resolution and wd be interested in hearing more. Recently my nephew was being bullied at school, 1st grade, and it went on and on until finally a counselor stepped in to help us. I thought nothing wd work. But then she put the kids around the table to talk and now they are good friends and play together all the time xD None of the punishments like no recess or the calls to the office worked. In the end, it was this talking it out.

Nice topic, good psychology❤

Peace of mind over conflict.

Holy spirit tells me im about to make waves and you want waves with your partner..it brings the feelings forth.

@9:23 I can't stand you sometimes!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 you're so poker faced. Hahaha. The Bronx has been very crazy lately though so I can't be mad.

Great video Alex ! I come here for reminders- when I'm unsure of dating conflict LOL

❤you are such a good psychologist!

The caption is so messed up, but I can't say it's untrue 😂

Perfecto, muchas gracias Padre alex!! Keep them coming

"If you're from the Bronx" took me out lmboooo

Haha great video! Love your sense of humor 🎉

Father Alex! much love ❤ from Singapore.

So right. I tried it, it works 😅

I was worried about becoming a flight attendant because I thought it would turn men away .. but the more I go to these “safe” jobs I feel less fulfilled.. applying to become a flight attendant because it’s what’s best for me and it’ll create a good bit of conflict and excitement

A woman doesn’t tend to create or allow conflict when she inherently knows it could put herself in danger from the man if she does so. A woman who confronts feels quite comfortable with you as a man, that you’re not a sheer senseless egotistical brute, OR she feels you’re the type of man she can beat up if necessary.

Does it mean having conflicts with an avoidant is complete waste of time 😕

Love your bedhead! Slow down on the weed maybe...sending love. You're Awsome

Time for a haircut.

It was fun.😂

Yup facts

Im thinking the same. But i gave realised that 90% of people falls into this category, there is sonething in a human nature per se. Sadly.

Ok to start a discussion one time needs some strenght but what if he tells you "Yes my love,you are right,i will try to change it" and then you see its getting better but then again its the same. And you start a discussion again ..and again. And you start getting tired of even mentioning it.

What happened to „ be his peace“

Psycho Bronx?! Tell me more . . .

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i dont see how anyone can be mad u😂ur too cool of a person

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Not everyone likes confrontation

Aye Alexis, ya girls newly divorced and single and ready to mingle! 😂 I’m serious, I like you. Holla at me if you’re ever in LA soon 😉

Did you say psycho Bronx?😅

Not Chris Hansen😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

The story of the landlord kicking you out on the first day is a lie smh

Why you got to make all women sound like Marge Simpson? 😅

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It’s temporary tho. This doesn’t work for a long term relationship 👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼👎🏼

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