I was so upset that hejeong-sorry if I butchered her name- apologized for calling out Gwanshe’s behavior and his reaction when she called him triggered me. I remember when Gwanshe first appeared, my friends and I said he looks like red flag and there’s something about him that we did not like.

I think mal may be an infj

You really hit the nail on the head when you said “It’s like he’s thinking, I need to be with a successful white woman to balance out all the rejection and pain I’ve suffered.”

Dr Cherie your analysis are spot on! I think he’s ENTJ though and not ESFP. Since both types share the same cognitive functions you must have got confused 🤷🏻‍♀️ Let me know your feedback :)

Dr. Cherie - you are THAT GIRL ✨✨✨ You ATE with this per usual. Bow down to the QUEEN DR. CHERIE TYPE 🗣️🗣️🗣️

Can you pleeaaase do the Perfect Match season 2 😭😭

lol im an intp, AD should have asked him to elaborate and not taken these obvious general statements at face value.

I still maintain that Zach is IxTJ.

Am I the only one here who finds Jimmy's behaviors kinda sus throughout the whole TV show and sees why Chelsea's insecure or do I have some unresolved stuff I need to process? It seemed like the entire show he was unsure and trying to play it cool about having Chosen Chelsea over the other girl. I get why that would trigger Chelsea's insecure attachment with such high stakes (they're literally on a time crunch to figure out if they wanna get married). Her reactions were extreme and definitely not okay, but I see why they were triggered.

Honestly I don’t think it’s that she’s more goal driven. I would say it’s a combination of being superficial and choosing the marriage over someone truly choosing her just so she can showcase that to the world and feel better about her self that way when really you should not be feeling good about your self if you’re a deep person and the other person has doubts about marrying you. I also think she has experienced rejection so much that she chooses to not see rejection as rejection because it makes get feel better not to. That can only lead to making the wrong choice because I don’t believe she is seeing reality. She is making choices governed by her insecurity of never getting the marriage and never getting the husband and thinking only that he is great for her and not if she is great for him.

I think, Kenneth is emotionally unavailable, and probably has an avoidant style of attachment and narcissistic traits(covert narcissism ).

TE women are more protected by their FI, they don't need group harmony. As an ESTP, I relate to this on a deep level. Know that being myself will offend people so I dont express myself much or just stick to being nice, but then some people accuse me of not being genuinely nice or of being stand offish!

Dr C. You got me on this one! Your theory is so well presented its believable

This is a genuine question I am curious about and not meant as a criticism at all but I was wondering why Dr Cherie uses the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator model when there isn't an evidence base for it. I'm currently studying a masters in music therapy and here in Australia we're taught that the MBTI is essentially pseudoscience because of it's lack of evidence base and that empirically validated models based on the big 5 like the MMPI-3 or the CPI are what licensed psychologists here use in their practice. Again absolutely no shade to Dr Cherie at all, I was just wondering why a Dr would choose to use something with no evidence base that is not considered a legitimate testing tool by the medical community. The only reason I can think of is that the Myers-Briggs model is more well known in pop culture so it's maybe more accessible to the average person considering you need to be trained to use other tools like the MMPI-3/CPI.

Or maybe it was an edit to progress a narrative that would cause controversy and conversation amongst people who would start such ridiculous theories

I really liked your videos about internalised racism viz a viz shake and kwame, however i feel this video shows your bias as an asian woman by not acknowledging the same in natalie. as an asian woman dating a white man i think it is not too hard to assume that that may have had something to do with her being willing to overlook so many of the red flags in their relationship

He’s Gey as a Gey man I would know. The end.

this is embarassing to watch as an indian born and growing up living in the west. but i also have to admit that this type of conditioning is very in built in a lot of indian people, especially as we grow up and maneouvre in the western world and try to get ahead. it takes a lot of self reflection to get rid of the feeling that white is superior because it is all around us. so i do feel sorry for shake in a way but i dont at all feel sorry for the way he expressed it in this video. he needs to mature and wake up a little bit. to only go for blondes as a brown man (or woman) is embarassing and i personally believe a form of self-hate

Tough read Dr Cherie, but I think you nailed it. I really struggled with this couple because I thought they had what it takes to make it…but your analysis supports that they really weren’t a good fit, even outside of the interracial thing. Oh well.

All this fits me well 😁

Can you do reactions for the bachelor too and other shows too?

I HATE Vanessa, Lexi was sooo right, she was there for the completely wrong reasons, and u could tell that Rea was uncomfortable

Not gonna lie, i kinda hoped that Lexi ended up with Mal, but tbh, Lexi and Rea are just like a puzzle peice, they just click u know?

Your insight into why cole asked zanab if she was bipolar really seems spot on. Every time he is sad she acts compassionate, and every time he seems to be giddy she seems to find some way to knock him down a peg. I definitely saw her shift in interactions but never connected it to the "equalizer" that you described. Appreciate the insight.

Yeah chelsea agreed not to expose that jimmy had sex with the friend, but it was obvious when chelsea first met the friends. They made a comment about the size of his dick, which immediately tipped me off that they had slept together

Leela: You know Zapp, once I thought you were a big pompous buffoon. Then I realized that inside, you were just a pitiful child. But now I realize that outside that child is a big pompous buffoon!

Bliss: I told you so

I'm an INTP. You're right about the unappreciated bluntness. I work in marketing and I'm really good at it because I research SEO and know what motivates people. Sometimes when I tell others what type of marketing messages and campaigns work, they get so insulted. I find it kind of funny but it holds me back so much in my career because I just can't seem to sugar coat things, especially when I get excited about an idea

A lot of people think Jimmy is avoidant, which might be true, but I think anyone would be with a relationship with someone as insecure and clingy as Chelsea. He is trying to show up for her, give her reassurance, and still give her a chance despite not being fully attracted to her initially. Chelsea cannot be reasoned with and becomes emotionally abusive and manipulative. Jimmy, or anyone in this situation, would slowly become avoidant because none of their effort is appreciated and constantly feel like the villain to appease Chelsea’s irrational fears and victim mentality. It’s an unwinnable relationship and the thing is, trying to healthily break it off with someone like Chelsea is probably very difficult and confusing, which is part of her emotional abuse cycle. Not justifying cheating, but it wouldn’t surprise me if some of her exes cheated on her with the intention of getting caught just to blow up the relationship because trying to do so in a way to let her down gently felt impossible because she would manipulate them into staying.

That thumbnail of Chelsea… She has this off-putting look the way Shake and Zanab were smug after their seasons. Chelsea’s eyes and nose look like Meghan Fox. But the jaw and constant frown…

Kenneth was extremely frustrating to me. He is a good communicator in some ways but his actions didn’t seem aligned with his words at times. “Are you into me or not?” Is likely what I would’ve thought if I was Brittany

Kenneth is definitely gay. He said that he is very physical, yet he barely touches her. During the breakup he tries to make it clear that SHE is the one not into him, but everyone can see through that. She was very clearly into him but he had no interest in being physical. I think his sexuality is also why he was so against having sex before marriage, using his religion as an excuse.

Do you take on pupils?

I think part of the reason why I seem to be on Marshall side most of the time is that I know so many women like him. I think in pop culture, we're used to seeing women who get validation from sticking by and "saving" damaged men, kind of like how AD from season 6 was trying to help Clay. Seeing a man do it does highlight how it is not unconditionally love but an issue as well. But, I don't vilify Marshall for that. I just hope he's able to see that pattern and tries to fix it.

He's actually an ENFP. A lot of folks don't understand type theory

I was surprised how your analysis of Clay was different from all other people, so I decided to check your profile. I could have used your services if I had seen your channel earlier. I was once like Clay, and took me 15 years to work on myself.

Brutal to watch as an INTP🙂

This was a great analysis

Aren’t they still together?

Great, another KZfaq channel to spend all my time watching 😅 good stuff

Unfortunately I am just like Chelsea in many ways and I hate to admit it. My partner is far from perfect but I can only control how I am. Unlike Chelsea I take accountability and I want to change but it’s so difficult. Please how can I change ? I have a lot of trauma and have been in therapy since I was 5 years old and am about to start again next week, where should I begin if this is one of my main concerns? I don’t want my relationship to break down for the sake of my family. I need to know that I am trying my best.

I love your perspectives! thank you

in her post-show interviews, she says she doesn't regret anything, that all her feelings were valid and that she regrets only how she said some things. sad

I thought from day one he was narcissistic. The way he just bangs on about himself. He is a smooth talker. Has nothing to show for it.

I just had a 4 hour argument with my partner and I think I’m Natalie and he is Shane

as an ISFJ who lives in close proximity to an INTP, your analysis is extremely accurate!

He should’ve judged himself on the tightness of those pants.🤮

I’ve been typed infp and don’t feel any feeling about Johnny being infj lol however if you would’ve typed him as extrovert I would’ve said no way!!!😂

I’m an infp. Reality is my blind spot? Ughhhhh🤦🏽‍♀️