1. Insurance & maintenance of the car. 2. Maid affordability. 3. Private schools fees.

I am a homemaker for the time being because we can't afford baby sitter for our toddler. I do almost do all household chores myself. Get vegetables and groceries from local vendors. We don't have AC or anything fancy at home. We use minimal furniture. The school I have opted for my child is also among the affordable. The cost of living is so high nowadays it's difficult to survive without any compromise.

Meri samajh se school kuch bhi nahi sikhate aur sikha bhi nahi sakte agar bacche ne samajhna na ho... Isliye mere bache ghar ke pass wale saste school mein padhte hai. Jigyasa hogi to sikhega nahi to samay sikha hi dega.

Sirji, mera solution simple hai. Ghar ke sab logo ne kaam karna hai, 8 saal ke bache se lekar budhe tak. Bache ko ghar ke pass wale saadharan school mein dala hai, saal ke 25-30 hazaar. No buying 4 wheeler because it is WHITE Elephant or Liability, so using Ola uber or public transport. Yeh sab karke hi ghar kharid paya hun, taki usse pension ka kaam nikal jaye aur budhape mein tension kum ho.😂

Excellent prediction. Yes its true i am working woman and so many years dependent on maid paying Rs.18000 per month. Now i tried without maid, initially it was a hell and frustrating but now i have adjusted its difficult but possible. the advantage is I sleep peacefully due to hardwork and lost weight.😅

Maid affordability and "nakhre" are increasing already and would be a privilege of the rich soon. Education and car are slowly becoming unaffordable. These trends need to be planned to tackle for in advance, as they have already played out in the West. Excellent points highlighted.

I am NRI managing all household without domestic help and also complete phd after baby born. Sango sir is correct its possible to manage home with the help of husband and kid. Dish washer is better than domastic helper we dont need to depend on someone else.

Sir ji recently subscribed, I'm shocked by your observation and analysis. You are correct I live in Bangalore this has started. 1) For baby sitting baby sitters are now charging approx. 20K per month for 8 hours. (and 4 hours she sleeps with child 🙂). 2) House Cleaning alternate days (3k per month) 3) Schools are 1.5 lakh average annually per kid. 4) House rents 10-15% increase per annum. 5) New flats close to office location double every 3 years (I think this will not continue at same pace, but still will be 10-20% per annum.) 6) Car services expensive in Bangalore than any other city.

Pvt school and maid is already showing. Solution:- KV & washing machine,Non iron clothes or self ironing, Dishwasher+robo vaccum cleaner+both couple+little grown up children cooking+low end affordable second hand car & two wheeler for shorter distance+Indian tourism travel+ Not comparing with peers. Spending less on marriage .

This is quite right sir ji. I remember myself growing up going to a government aided school. Private Schools like Modern school, DPS, Springdales, Bal Bharti , Cambridge - we could only look at with envy. Buying my first motorcycle a Hero Honda Passion, and this is not so long ago - in 2002 - was a big thing. A big big achievement. I even remember taking driving classes and thinking this is the closest I will ever get to driving a car. Car ownership was that far away from our .minds. Maid was unknown in our house growing up. Last 20 years all three did come within grasp. But you have correctly highlighted that things are likely to go back to how things were during my growing up years.

If members join together household work is not a problem at all because it becomes an exercise for everyone.

पढ़ें लिखे होने के बावजूद तीस साल से घर के सभी कार्य स्वयं ही करते हैं और कभी आत्मग्लानि नहीं हुई, बल्कि गर्व ही हुआ हमेशा

Since 1995 I spent a lot of time abroad and this was the condition in Singapore at that time .Very hard life people were spending and I used to think that we Indians are living life so lavish.Real eye-opening session.But we Indians wont learn.

चाय और खाने के बर्तन का example आप सही दे रहे हैं मै तो अपने आसपास पुरुषों के नखरे ज्यादा देख रही हूँ, नौकरी करने वाली पत्नी को तंग करके उसे घर बैठने पर मजबूर कर रहे हैं, कुछ नोकरी छोड़ चुकी है और कुछ ताने सुनकर भी लगी हुई है पर हरपल बीमार और दुखी रहने लगी है

Sir, you are 100% correct and if you extend your logic a little further after 10 years it will be wise not to get married and have children at all. That day is not far off. 😄

True about education fee I paid more in my kids tuition fee than I paid for my 4 years engineering degree in just one year

Mr sangwan firstly I would like to once again thank you for this wonderful & thought provoking video, I tried sending this video to my wife & my mother-in-law but their system refused to even acknowledge that such type of content even exists.

Golden words. Middle class women need to work home and outside situation same in Mumbai maid are charging salary 15000 plus. Even that they find less. . They back answer they come at their sweet time. Etc but if we go to office even 5 mins late we are marked late. No rise in salary inpsite of education or availability of jobs like 4 hrs. Government needs to give us jobs like 4 hrs where we give our work the best and leave for managing homes.. Whole system doesn't allow such jobs. Life in abroad is more off shove it in oven kind of food not like india where we cook.. We women need jobs for few hrs. Quality over quantity. Maid issue car issue school all perfect as u said

सर जी,आपने सभी ३ बाते सही कही है. और इनका उपाय भी है. बच्चे घर में ही पढाई करे.. घर में हर व्यक्ती अपना काम आप करे.टीव्ही सिर्फ १घंटा और डीडी चनेलही देखे.सिंपल रहे.आजकल सोसायटी को चैनबाजी की आदत हो गयी है..

Sir you are absolutely right. But there is another aspect too. Most women hardly have any marketable skills. I am recently retired but my mother was working too. She unfortunately left her job due to my dad's frequent transfers. But she stitched our clothes and knitted our sweaters. Moreover she gave tuitions also. How many girls today possess some skills ?

Schools already think like parents money is coming from some tree... today only we got a notice from school that child has to carry 5 sharpened pencils and no sharpener allowed can you believe it😮😮 Also i started watching and came across one of the videos " Why middle class is getting poorer" and i felt all the points logical then i saw few other videos also which you told not to share with someone... Videos are not like others English style i admire a lot🎉🎉

Half way into the video, I am liking the way you are straight to the point. Sir I am a Financial Advisor, I get horrified when I am with the Clients. The way they are Financial illiterate. Ho jayega is the attitude.

Honestly sir, coincidentally I am working from home today, living in Gurgaon, kids gone to school wife gone to work and I am washing dishes at this moment and I can feel the future. But since I am already your followers tou life mein maza aa raha hai… no problem at all.😊

Yes. Children education is big expense. Most of the expensive education institutes are directly or indirectly belong to politicians

I am 45, moved to west 13 years ago. You are telling the Indians- what is already happening in the west. It’s a BIG mindset change. (I am upper middle class in income here- I drive a 2007 Honda, I do my own dishes & home cleaning,I can’t afford a maid, my kids go to public school- can’t afford private schools Alert: Divorce rates will increase as well, like the west (I heard- they have already increased in the last 10-15 years)

Schools के लिए काम किया जा सकता है dr devender balhara ये कर रहे हैं, उनका कहना है कि अगर सब parents मिल कर सरकारी स्कूल में अच्छी facilities and educationकी मांग कर दे तो सरकार को आपके आसपास के सरकारी स्कूल में सब arrangementsकरने पडेगे और educationभी ऐसी हो जाएगी कि students 12th तक आते आते career भी बना लेगा

New car/suv prices have gone drastically up. So as school fees, Hatchbatch car costs 11 lakhs now a days which was unimaginable 3 years ago. Even cabs are very expensive

Wonderful Sir, you have a birds eye view and you connect with the ground reality very well at the same time. Big fan of your`s Sir for lifetime 🙏🙏

Private school fallout. Homeschooling will rock..... Self reliance..... Machine innovations.... Public transport usage

Bai ka option : Dishwasher(cost< 30k), eureka robot jhadu pocha ke liye Car ka option: used car, ola, metro, ebike School ka option: subsidized schools, e bike, e car, pta to fight over charging Wife can work part time only or from home

Maid k bare me jo aapne kaha hai ye meri mummy aaj se 25 sal pahle hame batati thi.

Zabardastttttttttt Mazzzzzza Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🧨🔥🧨 Please make a Video Series for such Upcoming Top 3 trends for Middle Class across different instances of life 💫♥️💫 Key Takeaways: - By 2026, Car Prices & Maintenance ⬆️ - Maid Salaries ⬆️ - School Fees will also sky rocket in coming 3 years 🚀

Already horaha hai humne realise Kiya hai....aaaspass k logou k baat soun ker feel horaha hai that you are correct 💯

Yes school fee iam paying 2 lakhs per year Mumbai. Maid salary 15 thousand per month.

That dishwasher idea you had in a previous video was pretty good.

@02:35 this is not a fair comment at all. I don't know which middle class housewives you are talking about who think cleaning house is not work that they are supposed to do. Maybe they want some space and time to themselves and not physically exhaust themselves to point of I'll health by the end of the day. No male is going to contribute to home beyond some symbolic stuff. Please also talk about the other stuff they do do every day (mostly single handedly) which family members don't appreciate and many times actively criticise (house is not clean, my pants are not pressed properly, sabzi mein meri mummy aur sister jaisi mere hometown wali baat nahi hai). Here is a off the cuff list of what middle class housewives do every day (almost entirely without even acknowledgement as if these activities don't add any value): Send kids to school with homemade packed lunch. Sometimes one snack tiffin and 1 lunch box. Make sure they have school supplies. Clothes washing (off course in washing machine). Folding and some ironing. Cleaning, organising and dusting the home. Deep cleaning - few times a year. Cooking - all of it. All groceries and marketing including for fresh produce Managing workers who do small time maintenance in the home Paying attention to kids school work and home work when they return Taking the little ones to activity classes and groups and arranging the same for them and Ensuring older kids are enrolled in some sports or other hobbies Yeh sab kuchh appko Kam lag raha hai kyaa? And I detect a strong streak of disdain and disgust at the fact that middle class housewives want help for sweeping, mopping and vessel washing. That is judging I think. I used to work for 23 years. I have huuuuuge respect for my friends and batchmates who exclusively handle and manage their homes. My humble and constant salute ladies.....don't be afraid to ask for help, insist on it and if u want to give away 3-4 jobs to focus on health and interests - please go ahead. Go for good gadgets and electronics that can help us and reduce your dependence on maids - no. 1 purchase - automatic washing machine and a good dishwasher.

I recently checked the school expenses in Gurugram and I was shocked , Thankfully delhi private school are still affordable for me

you are indeed right about western world in general and America in particular where housemaids are unheard of. I was born in India but have been here in America for majority of my life - came here as teenager ad have been here since almost half a century. Eduated, made career and raised family here all without hired help. Yes, we do not have custom of having housemaid here, but I will tell you - we love that just fine. For one thing, we have high standards of cleanliness and hygine, so it is best that we do household work ourselves to our satisfaction. Also, we are rather independent people and prefer not to have outsiders intrude in our day to day life. Afterall, maid would be an outside party who would be in and out of your home few times a day - too much unnecessary and unwanted traffic for us. We prefer our privacy over minor benefit of someone doing our chores. In fact we are about to retire and even if we decide to spend some months in India (Airbnb, etc), we will just do our own dishes, laundry and house cleaning. We are just too used to it. We totally love not having to depend on outside help for day to day house work.

I do my household work myself....

We are living in mumbai..and its very difficult to survive in mumbai with one earning.. fortunately we both are working and we wonder how do people enjoying their life in mumbai with single earing.. my husband and i are in public sector.. i feel jealous when i see housewives in our staff colony enjoying at homemm they have house help (i also have) and full day free.. i feel bad when i leave my kid at creche and go to work and they are going for morning walk .but at the end of day i feel proud of myself that i am taking care of my family...i am going to buy my own flat in mumbai..i have bought a car for my father.. and i am taking care of all expenses of my baby.. not every girl is lucky enough. I always thank my parents that they always push me to do a job..even unka stand tha..jab tak betiyan job nahi krengi unki shadi nahi krenge

Sirji aap mere tauji ki yaad dilate ho. Such a good understanding of life and the world around us.

Sir, please give your inputs on homeschooling in India. I feel its immediate solution for private school issues.

i felt bad for car price rise and education fees in primary, high schools. because of slow salary rise of the middle class labour skilled people

Aap akdum sahi ...maine apne bachcho ko sikhaya ..hai apne bartan , undergarments ,socks And rumaal khud wash kero . Mere gher me full time servent hai .usper bhee Mai aur bachche sab kaam kerte even gardening ...children should know their roots .

This is the Greatest Video that I ever watched on KZfaq! Thank you Sir!

Very True Sir! Well said. As a working lady I felt all the issues especially maid one, so to overcome during covid and post covid me and my husband are taking responsibility together of household chores. The money we saved on maids during these time helped us to afford dishwasher and automatic washing machine. Now we don’t need any maid.

Very true sir The maid salary has increased in the last 10 years from 1000 to 6000 in the last 10 years how ever my salary has just increased by 3 times and my wife’s salary has not even doubled So I feel maid issue the biggest followed by school fees and car

Respected Sir, Hamne aaj tak koi bhi servant or maid ghar yan office me nhi rakhi. Morning apni car khud saaf karta hun aur office me apna office aap saaf karta hun. Is'se sehat bhi theek rehti hai aur kisi ke uper depended nhi hona padta.

4. Medical / Health insurance & Private hospital expenses ? 5. Overseas Travel

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Sir, agree with you. Please also make a video as to how maids can support their families if they lose their jobs when all start doing their own household chores .

(1) school, (2) maid. (3) car...... And What about buying (4) flat or house... And (5) Gold/jewelry

Mujhe nahi lagta ye koi revolutionary video hai, ye sab main ek, ver very small town mein rehkar soch raha hun. Aur koi bhi jiske andar thodi bhi sochne ki samta hai, easily dekh sakta hai. Ye chdoo, quality food afford karna muskil ho jayega, 4 logo ki family mein. Overall saari khwahisho ke saath.

Aap list main add aur karo....bhaer ka khana especially swiggy / zomato se order karna

my dear it's already happening in day today life. it's very difficult to afford the car . school and employees

Very practical, Sir. Highly advanced alert to be ahead of the curve.

Bohut badhiya knowledge share Kiya hai sir ji. Hamare ghar me mai aur meri wife dono kaam karte hain. Dono hi bacchon ka care karte hain. Bacchon ko wife padhati bhi hai kyunki wo ek government teacher hai. Ghar ke kharch, investment, insurance ka kharch mai uthata hu. Wife ke poore paise investment me lagta hai. Maid ke naam pe ek babysitter hai jo 4 hours rehti hai.

Sir, you are very right. We are at the threshold of a lot of changes. Both men and women will have to abandon their conservative "gender" based roles. Father's will have to take a break from career to bring up kids. As Private schools become unaffordable, govt schools will have to up their game in terms of quality of education, faculty and campuses. More options for flexible work and hourly based income will come into existence. Keep Inspiring sir❤❤

Labor cost as well, people will become electrician plumber labour painter carpenter, DIY things will come up

very very realistic video .. 3 things more to add Medical expenses , traveling and monthly Fm expenses on food

Sir is absolutely correct.. I am a working women and have a kid and Taking care of my house husband and kid alone.. Please all the ladies out listen to sir and start work to support family and invest your money for yout kid future...

all 3 things are started. in metro min 1.5 lakhs are needed for premium survival. truely said. Amit ji

Agreed, about maid, school and car things have started happening in big urban cities of Pakistan especially in Karachi.

Covid taught us to do without maids ,post covid my family has continued to help with the household chores, now we have one maid instead of two ,you're absolutely right

U will be remembered for CENTURIES. U R LEGEND

You are great sir .I have been telling this thing to my relatives but everyone 😂😂😂😂😂😂 at me at their happyness.

Thanks for making this kind of content video. Seriously all the 3 things you had mentioned it's increasing day by day. 1. Maid affordability. 2. Maintenance of car 3. School fees I think people will adjust with point 3. But it's difficult for point 1 and 2.

It depends on the City and Location. So maids would still be affordable in those non central areas for many years, because of poverty and population. More schools will spring up when the cost of education goes up to take advantage of the boom. Quality will be a concern.

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT IN YOUR JUDGEMENT..IT IS STARTED IN SOME AREAS...

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Hello Sir, You speak the truth and many of these trends are already happening in the West. I am a female based in Canada now and am training in a Canadian university to become a school teacher. We are lucky that public education here is decent and free but cost of living is too high and so are home prices. My family and I already coordinate household chores as maids here take $200 Canadian dollars here just to clean house mediocrely once a month. Even our father who refused to even put his dirty plate when we are young has slowly changed his ways. We have a 2015 Toyota but my siblings share with our parents and take public transportation when it is feasible. Mindlessly spending money on luxuries is something we do not do as we want to build wealth for our future generations.

Sango uncle ka damdar video. 👏

May be your words are little bit harsh to digest, but it's time to accept the reality.Thanks for this awareness programme.

Absolutely.. PVT SCHOOL FEES 10-15% is non stoppable.

Sir ek owning a car vs ola/uber per ek video zaroor banayein...very relevant now a days.

Sir i like ur videos very much....u talk very harsh practical truth of life...

Ye Jo sir apne chai ke bartan wali baat boli hai na,really now I fell u r a different league....how u have these experiences God knows but u have such a foresight ,intuition...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Very true , eye opening video ❤. Govt should check this scam on private schools .

Chai ke bartan dhone wali baat se apni harkatein yaad agayi 😂 I had a hard time dealing with that. Thankfully I am an expert now 😅

Doosronko nhi Shane banne Dena chahte. Isliye nhi share karrahe. Ekdum sahi he. Me to isiliye nhi share karraha. Lekin ye Tak apko pata chalta he. Hadd he. ❤

I struggled for buying a car for over 2 years. Last me Jake parents se hi mangni padi. Buying a car has definitely become the most difficult in last 4 years.

Ekdum sahi ji...me to abhi se ghar ka kaam khud kar rahi,bachhi ko medium school me daala,khud padha rahi

School fees Maid both You r right sir

Homemaker n art of homemaking are getting extinct. You depend on maids n tuition teachers n nanny to run house. To pay them, get up at 5 n get bfast n tiffins n kids n urself ready n do 10 more things before u actually start paid work.. finish paying job n return to your peaceful abode n before u sit down for a cup of tea.. catch up with kids, cook, mom in law n their complaints. Meanwhile what’s spring cleaning n deep kitchen Maintainence n wardrobe upkeep.. Sunday is for drinks n party n dinners n shopping n collecting more toys n clutter. Work harder outside to pay Someone to work at ur home n teach ur kids. Then u need more clothes n makeup n parlour visits too. We create our own problems n keep busy to cope with them. N don’t talk about small entrepreneurs.. just so much mediocrity.. no professional approach. Not easy to handle all aspects of doing small business. U need funding n manpower n space. Otherwise ur business is all over the living space of family.

Earlier i used to commute to office by Car daily. Now I commute alternate day by bike. It's not only petrol price that pinch but maintenence cost have equally attributed in my decision.

You are 100% Correct Sir. Future mein Jo cost cutting per dhyan dega wahi survive ker payega.

Really interested to know what is the definition of middle class and upper middle class? Is this the income level you are referring to or lifestyle or any other criteria?

Maid ki salary to double ho gayi hai last 3 saal mein Pune mein.

Schools are becoming unaffordable .it is very demanding situation to spend such money of monthly 10000 on a minimum level for a primary or a pre primary kid ...

Sir Thank you for making this important video. Sir i would like to share something related to this I think Net pack will be beyond the reach of middle class. Non veg will be cheaper than plant based. Travelling will be affordable but Living in hotels and food ordered prices will increase by 25-30%

I don’t think we have to wait 3 years. I am in Bangalore and paying 30k for domestic help (maid + cook+ nanny + car wash). Luckily my wife is also working and earning well. However, I don’t feel car maintenance has gone up. With hybrid work model, it had gone down for me. For school fees looking forward for a separate video.

Very nice points. I think we're spending on schools to help our kids acquire social skills and massage our ego and status. The education given is, pardon my language - shit! Schools tend to pay more importance and attention to the 1% of students who are already talented inborn but what do the remaining students do? The slow learners languish at the bottom and struggle. They are pushed to rote and develop no skills of the real world. After we spend lakhs of rupees, we again spend to make them employable. Homeschooling can be an option. Average students academically, try to find their talents in careers like writing, graphics, animation, etc. Don't push them into engineering - that's costly and there are hardly any jobs.

Although pointed out how the expenses are increasing as compareed to income but we cant compare american socio economic facts with India,, plz first consider 1. Population of India 2. Per capita Income of America.

In our villa community , many parents are putting uninterested kids into home schooling. Make sense.

Sir aap thoda men ko samjhaye ki unhe bhi kaam ke alawa or bhi kuch karna chahiye jase aap hamesha women ko multitask karne bolte hai wase he men ko bataye..Hamesha sabh cheez women ko karne bolna is not normal..

Student ko aaisa guidelines do sir ji ki wo fully focus and karm karne wale ban jaye Ekalavya ban jaye ,long terms guidance dijiye aap ka dhanyawad

Very good topic Sir, thank you, but I also feel that the middle class families will feel the pinch of medical bills, as all the members will start ageing

Well said. Participatory working and sharing the complete household chores is the need of the hour. This will have to be inculcated from childhood itself whether it’s a male or female child. You are right.

Here in Banglore doing household work is not seen as such a big headache as you are saying about it. I have seen many people many people managing with out maids even while lady is doing job.

Medical expenses is another one.