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1. I don't find other women attractive.. 2. I've never felt this way before.. 3. Lies about his Health.. 4. I'll promise I'll change.. 5. I've never cheated.. 6. Your past doesn't matter to me.. 7. I'm single.. 8. Money and Status.. 9. We have so much in common.. 10. Body count..

“If he’ll cheat for you, he’ll cheat on you.” --Old Southern proverb

11: I don''t love her anymore. 12. I only knew her for three months and haven't seen her since we "broke up". 13. I love you, not her. 14. You have nothing to worry about. 15. I'm only interested in godly, modest women. 16. I don't use p*rn. 17. I'm more attracted to you now than when we first met. 18. I will always love you. 19. I would never intentionally hurt you. 20. I'd never lie to you.

With my experiences, dating a new man is always wonderful up until six months or so. They put on a fake façade and tell you everything you want to hear. You feel as if you hit the jackpot! After six months, they morph into the real self….. at last now you know why they were single to begin with!

If its true that men fall in love faster, its also true that man's love has an earlier death.

I love my single life. I love my peace and quiet and doing what I want. Don’t need his money, body or bulls!ht.

Since my divorce 16 years ago i stayed alone for many years and did not put myself out there. In the past 2 years i have tried dating and it has failed. Just hearing these things makes me feel that my decision in staying single still is a great idea.

I"m sorry, I'm too old, I'm tired, she's just a friend, I'm not on the dating sites ...I'm doubting everything at this point...

OMG. Why even try. It hurts my brain to even consider navigating a relationship with another dude.

My god....this is so depressing to me. I am divorced with no kids. Been single a long time. I want to meet someone and start dating but just don't know how to go about it. Seems like there are alot of jerks out there.

After years of bad experiences, I gave up, firmly believing they all lie.

I would never ask a man if he's attracted to other women. Don't put him in a position to lie

One of the biggest is, "She's just a friend." If she lives in another state or country and they only communicate once in a while by email or on Fakebook, okay. If they meet at all in person, one of them doesn't feel the other is just a friend.

WE need true men to speak up.Dear one, your voice is so needed. Thank you. Blessings on women who do not tolerate LIARS.

Men fall in love faster than women. That’s a fact. Personally, I can make men fall in love 2-3 weeks if we are hanging out regularly. It’s not hard to do if you understand human psychology. The difference between the ones that have fallen in love and the ones that are lying is in their actions. The ones that have fallen in love shows through constant consistent effort, while the ones lying will just profess with empty words (with no actions, intimacy and affection).

I believe in paying a private eye to investigate him if he seems to be a contender; schooling, credit, criminal, and marital. If he lied about something, he can lie about everything.

Men in their late 30s/early 40s lie about everything under the sun. I gave up trying to find a partner. It's less stressful being alone.

You’re the only one!!! I don’t believe anything out of anyone’s mouth without PROOF!!

Gracias for your input! I’m a single mom raising a teen boy & teaching him how to be a true gentleman & how to treat a girl. The way a son treats his mom I believe is the way he will treat his girlfriend/wife! So my son will be a one of a kind amazing husband to a very blessed wife someday! 🙏🏻❤️

WOW! A man who tells it like it is! If only someone had given this information during my first 20 years of life. These ten truths took me eighty years to learn, the hard way.

I've heard so many lies about health issues, past not mattering, how many women he's been with before, having common interests, the list goes on, really! Well, let's hope that those types of men don't find your channel, Ismael! Thanks so much for the tips! I had been waiting for this one. ❤

You either love someone or you don't. Understanding human nature will make a relationship last. There will be lies. Decide which you can live with.

Mom and Grandma did a great job 👏🏽 Thank you for the insight ✨🙏🏽

God bless you for educating women about love and relationships. .

Ladies… someone once told me, always check who’s tagged in their photos. I thought that was wise advice lol

SMART!! Character is better than wealth!!!

" true connections take time to form" true.

"I promise I'll change" I believe it when I see it.

Good instructions wise young handsome man! 💖 When we were young, I asked my husband how he felt about other women. He replied that the world is full of beautiful people, and every minute he falls in love with someone, forgetting her when he turns his head away from her. We have been together for 50 years now. 🥰

Your first one isnt entirely true. Im demi. I literally dont find anyone other than my partner attractive. It makes traditional dating very difficult because I dont feel any kind of physical attraction until I have a strong emotional bond with them. And once that bond is severed I lose all physical attraction to them. It doesn't matter how sexy or beautiful you are. You could be totally naked in front of me but if there is no emotional connection then I am looking at you the same way I would a plank of wood. I feel no attraction. I felt out of place for so long because people perpetuate that its a universal truth that men work like that. That we are constantly horny and attracted to everyone. That we'll fuck anything with two legs. I thought that I was incapable of love and being loved because I never experienced those things. Turns out I was just Demi and its entirely normal.

I also enjoy that your videos do not go on and on but teach a lesson in a enjoyable length of time❤

Don't forget the lie that many older men use. Their age. I know two narcissists who took ten years off their age when engaging in online dating apps. Both of them married. If they tell you this one lie, there will be many more to come.

True change is usually only possible when you get tired of his BS and LEAVE BABYDOLL.

Oh men men, I haven’t met a decent one yet but I’m confident I will someday 😅❤

No. 4 "I promise l'll change" -true change happens if the individual has an aneurysm or head injury that effectively wipes out the "data" in their brain that made up their personality. Ladies, if you're drawn to men that needs "fixing" that's an indicator that you need to work on yourself. Best of luck!

Finding others attractive is one thing honestly. But imaging himself with her sexually or romantically another. People will always find others attractive but that should never make them neglece their partners emotionally and physically.

I don't think someone lying about his health does think of "then my partner can't leave me". Usually it's the "how can I not do what my partner wants but have someone else do what I want"

That's the truth! Women often talk about how they can't find a actually good guy but the truth is actugood guy doesn't exists!

He's single! 1 of the greatest lies in today's world, sadly.

YOU ARE ONE OF THE BEST AMONG THE COACHES SIR. THANK YOU.

Every single thing that you have said is spot on! Thank you for the video! Positivity peace and love ♥️

"i am single" Universal lie😂

Love is an action

I luv the way you talk. It's straight forward.

From reading comments I'm amazed how so many similar problems are also true for women. The only conclusion I arrive to is to spend less time on the Internet, where most of the comments are negative experiences (either from women or from men).

With me and my partner of nearly 7 years, being open and realistic about everything truly helps. We'll even make jokes about actors or actresses we're attracted to, knowing that we see it in others. As far as him being ill, I have to encourage him to even see a doctor after he's clearly sprained his ankle. We aren't married yet; he was emotionally abused his first marriage and my own parents marriage ended horrifically....my father killed my mother - February 15, 2009. She wanted a divorce because she caught him cheating. You see, both of us have trauma that we are healing from, but we've been healing together. He's my best friend foremost. Even if it takes another 7 years (took my aunt and uncle in law 16 years to get married) then, that's fine by me. Just my opinion and input 🙏🏿❤

I love you when they have known you for five minutes

Only ten, I think there is much more.

Fathers need to teach men how to treat women. Instead of music, TV and “the boys”. They are not being taught right (in my opinion)…

For you guys

Your so awesome in telling us the facts on point. Omg I’ve seen a man who says that, girls say ’im safe with you’. This is a blunder

Thank u for having balls to tell the truth from ur experiences. Appreciate that🎉❤

I’ve been married over 30 years, even when we’re dating, I have always pointed out attractive women to him, it’s ok for him to look. I know who he’s coming home too.

Great advice for women

Here is my answers to the lies that you mentioned. 1. I am only attracted to Asian women, and I make it well known even when it makes me enemies of people who don't look similar to Asian women. 2. It depends on what the subject is about. 3. I never lie about my health, and I don't allow others to change it. 4. I am changing everyday 5. I am upfront from the beginning 6. I won't tell someone that their past doesn't matter, I make them come out with their past. 7. I truly am single 8. They will end up needing to earn this information. 9. If I say this, I truly mean it, and if someone gives me the look like they don't believe what I say, I challenge them to a sparring match. 10. I tell what my body count is from the beginning, and am proud of it, because I truly am a virgin.

These are great facts.....very good advice.

Thank you for this. So nice to hear something like this from a man’s perspective!

There was actually a man in my life who did both the battling depression thing and the inventing/ over exaggerating heart desease thing

Excellent video. 🎉 listen to this man for he speaks wisely. Don’t settle

I had a guy fake cancer then act like it never happened two days later and also was constantly too sick for big events like Christmas and depression was an excuse for everything. Depression is real but it’s not a pass to treat people badly.

Nice to hear some truth.

Thank you for sharing this. I have had some very painful relationships with guys who lied about almost everything including being single .one guy had 🎉a girlfriend the whole time who was in om him using me for whatever he could get and though i did feel that something wasn't right, i wanted so much to believe him..until his lies were so obvious i couldnt lie to myself anymore. I ended that relationship several years ago ,though it was a painful experience ,i learned how to enjoy my own company and be more discerning.

Love your channel.❤

“by the time you swear you’re his shivering and sighing and he sears his passion is infinite, undying lady make a note of this One of you is lying” - Dorothy Parker

“I once told a woman that I coined the phrase ‘pardon my French’”-George Costanza

Thank you for your wisdom and insight

Thank you for getting right to the point! Good advice. Good video!

Great breakdown of common lies, but can a relationship truly survive if both partners are completely honest about everything, including past mistakes and infidelities?

1:19 Don't lie 4:04 Lie "hypocrisy - a situation in which someone pretends to believe something that they do not really believe, or that is the opposite of what they do or say at another time"

Wow AT LAST!!! Men like this are rare!!

Why can't a woman just be friends with a man? It cannot be that hard to be an adult friend to another adult friend who just so happens to be from the opposite gender.

This video definitely needs more views! Awesome content that you’re creating for women ❤🎉😊

Wow, only knew a couple of these thank you for another video.

Thank you Ismael. As usual your videos are insightful and thorough. I can't wait for your next one. If you can please continue to help us females understand men better so we can create more healthy relationships. Men can be quite confusing.

Keep doing what you do walking the path is the ones I follow, Im glad you help those in counseling but you never know if they are telling the truth...you must have had wonderful upbringing

Just found this channel. Thank you, this helps so much!

I really wish I came across this video earlier

Yep! I've had some of these experiences. They were a waste of time, and energy. Whew! Glad I moved on.

Love your videos I like that they are short🎉 thank you for sharing your wisdom

The lies by omission are revealing. It means the man is conniving and secretive and has played me for a chump.

My husband likes looking at beautiful women, and he's not slow at telling me, but at the end of the day, he always comes home to me.

“Depression… PTSD” the lie I believed why I didn’t leave him which is the same excuse he gave me when he left me… yep, just lies.

Díky!

Eye opening. I do disagree agree with something’s in lie #7. First things first, not everyone has monogamous relationships but the majority of people watching these videos do. Of course I didn’t verify the validity of his relationship status he lived in another country but I trusted him when he gave a confusing statement “I’m married but have no wife” . He clarified he was only arranged to get married. Anyway long story short he dumps me because he was married the whole time and his wife demands he leave me. I found it strange because he’s allowed to have four wives. On the bright side I’m glad she’s living with the lie that he doesn’t find any other woman attractive.

You always have good advice! Thank you so much

My favorite lie they tell............"I'm 6 feet tall"

Thanks for the heads up! The man that deserves you will be rewarded!

Trust me and I promise are right up there.

#1 lie women tell men : We trust you.

Thanks Ismael for your tips. Good, healthy reminder. As I listened to you, the item about cheating....my experience us that " cheating" varies a lot as to how men admit to cheating. What he sees as actual " Cheating. So he may be honest in relation to what he believes is " cheating". When it comes to cheating, both men and women can be " flexible" when it comes to self assessment. More important I think to be clear as to what you both regard as " cheating" and go from there.

The man I'm interacting with exaggerated his past relationships and one of his female friends to make me jealous and test my potential loyalty. He at times, gave me the loyalty test. I just let them passing through my left ear and out of my right ear now 🙄. I don't know why, but I'm an introverted woman with a simple and stable social life. However, he once supposed me already found someone else when he was in the military.

You can look but don’t touch

# 4 goes in the face of all the trad nonsense out there along the lines of "nobody's perfect," there's no "soulmate," "people "grow together, can't expect to find them made for you." This is dangerous thinking that needs a lot more clarification. A couple must be a good match from the start as a prerequisite for them to bond and grow together. Absent natural compatibility and symbiosis, the two will most likely grow apart. Contrary to "trad" nonsense out there, compatibility is found/matched, not made. Many people, however, make the mistake to seek qualities that others/society find desirable (he must be a good provider and a "nice guy"), not what would be compatible with them, personally. They look for what they (think they) must want in a partner, not for what they actually need based on who they are. Bonnie needed Clyde and they were both bad. Great match. A person below average in intellect may want another high in intellect for other reasons that come with high IQ (success, etc)- but that doesn't mean this is the kind of partner they actually need (or needs them). The "Great Catch" paradigm is fatal. Only the "Great Match" works.

Spot on my friend !

My man BETTER find other women attractive. I'm not ...😒

The vast majority of guys will lie about their age once they get to 40. I met an insane amount of 60 and over guys who reckoned they were early 50's.

“I’m single” should have been number 1.

Never EVER date a man on the rebound, especially if his breakup is fairly recent! 🤷‍♀️

It can be true that a man has never felt a certain way for a woman very soon into the relationship. Love at first sight is real and it is not the same as infatuation. You still need to get to know the person, but a strong and lasting connection can be made immediately. This has been backed up by science.