It's 2024 and there are so many ways a man can cook for himself. Air fryers and KZfaq and so many different ways. Why is it cooking has to just honestly be a womans job?? Since you said which I agree we should take financial responsibility for ourselves. However your ability to cook and feed yourself is just as equally viewed the same. 💜✌🏾

I agree and these same red flags are vice versa for a man!!!

I had a guy I was talking to who told me that I was one of 4 women that he was talking to and that every woman that he ended up in a relationship with he claimed he slept with on the first night or within 2 weeks of knowing each other. I told him that I thought men didn’t respect women like that and he said that wasn’t true. Long story short he stopped talking to me since I told him that I had never had a one night stand and would never sleep with a man on the first night, nor would I sleep with him within two weeks 🤦🏽‍♀️ I definitely dodged a bullet! I also met a guy who said he didn’t care whether or not a woman had a job and a car. I’m so confused.😂

None apply to me but im single and cant get a man to commit. Im also feminine, submissive, no kids, have a career, patient, kind, softspoken,all natural, never wear wigs or makeup ( just lipstick) and generous. They always commit to woman with all the opposite qualities. Im not excited about the man that is interested in me now , i know he will not choose me. He will more than likely choose someone with the opposite qualities. 😢

" but damn"😂😂 " too much"

You just confirmed what i already felt about men’s general red flags and it makes sense honestly.

As a woman, one thing that’s so important is to cook, and not just for your men. What if the power goes down? No Doordash, no fast food, etc. Do yourself a favor and learn. Great video and points mentioned. 🙌🇯🇲🇹🇹

That's why alot of men in old age end up on their own, too busy Judging women in their past relationships....

NONE OF THESE APPLY TO ME.... I work....no kids...can cook ..don't go out..have one good friend because ppl these days can't be trusted....my home is clean...I love to cut grass and do yardwork...( I was raised in the country in a farm) when I cook all a man has to do is come to the table...plate is there waiting on him ...and I have to go through it because other women hurt this man and he's afraid....tells me my love is scary because of all the things I'll do for a man ...like bruh.....just enjoy it!!! WHY are you afraid??!!!! You're gonna miss out!!!!🥴

You give a refreshing basic look not complicated on the relationship unlike a lot of these youtubers causing confusion thats way people cant stay together now getting the wrong info i love your simple break down very refreshing and stimulating i am definitely all in 👀💪👍💯.

I totally agree sensei! I do the same for men. I’m glad you are being honest and transparent, like always!

Amen Kirk!!! 🙌 Agreed with all! I can cook & was raised in the kitchen with my huge Italian family; will only cook for those that are worth now. 😂 Dumped men who are messy! I’m too OCD, it’s gross! No excuse for a mess. The rest I can’t relate to as I’ve been choosy who gets my time, attention, & energy since childhood. My parents raised me with the mentality, “Better a Snob than a Slob!”😂😜

Agree 💯 u explain very well I do like your video nuff information. Thanks💯

Good video and valid points! 🎯

I would like to say that ALL he has said is definitely TRUE. If women stuck to the rules like men have for women, many women would be in a successful relationship. So I have sarcastically wrote the points he said to not do. (Disclaimer: all comments are texted in fun.) I support and listen to his advice because truth doesn't change or pass away. 10 major red flags 🚩 men perceive with women they’re dating. 1.) Many Male friends- Male Insecurities. Males are waiting for their turn. 2.) Asking for Money Early- She knows what she wants. 3.) A woman Gives up the sex to early- Experienced, looking for a team player. 4.) Many Kids- Of course baby daddies are around. Doesn't matter if she was married twice and both husband are remarried and she is a foster mom. And takes care of her sisters kids because the mom lost custody. 5.) She loves to dance- No more house parties. Or Stepping 6.) A Lady that has been lied to so much- she is caution. She just needs to observe quietly. men can usually keep up a front for about 6months then true colors shows. 7.) Exes are trash-Men believe you pick badly. . . . Stop looking for the good in everyone- trauma bonding. 8.) Can't provide for self- might have an illness. or play to many scratch offs, 9.) Messy house- no excuse running late for work because she came home late from a church revival.And she works 2 jobs. 10.) Has to cook- subway, KFC, Popeyes, Grocery store buffett is out the window. having a private chefs are no excuse. 11.) Outside Half dressed, always twerking and butt pics- means your one step away from an Only Fans Page. LOL

You're correct these things should be looked at before getting into a relationship

On so many levels, you are so on point❤ thanks for sharing. And any woman that feel a certain way about any of these red flags prolly need to get their act together if they want a quality relationship, periodt

I agree thank you!

"Nailed It"!!

No.9 reminds me of that Friend's episode with Ross and the dirty girl 😂 🤣

Great video,very informative 👍thanks for sharing Sir ❤❤❤❤❤

These are his preferences, not all men preferences. If a person truly loves you certain things won’t matter. As long as it doesn’t go against his fundamental beliefs and values. Some of these things are personal preferences, that’s freedom of choice. I have a really clean house, it doesn’t mean that he has to be exactly like me. Also, cooking is both sides. There are a lot of men that can cook. It’s different to say if you are an excellent cook or can you cook? Just like him I don’t want a man to expect me to cook everyday. It’s a balance. I can cook, he can cook, he can grab something, I can grab something, or we can go out to. It’s about accommodating your lifestyle.

Thank you

I agree all the red flags is true❤

“Raggedy” dudes 😂😂😂

🎉 any man that puts u down & don't want u bc of ur divorces or baby daddies etc. He's very weak. Ur past won't turn-off a real m. aka the m. GOD has for u. Period!

I agree.

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but also...when you're at the age and stage, have no kids and have amazing female friends, please don't hesitate to just be a walking red flag to the wrong men. when you find the one, you'll slow down. and please keep your female friends. i can't even imagine how dry my life would have been if i spent my 20s at home trying to be a green flag lol and i barely cook. we graze...and we have the bodies of a family that doesn't eat soul foods on a weekly, or even monthly, basis. it is what it is.

I agree

😂😂😂 would you just list😂

No man wants marriage nowadays. Should I conform to this living-together lifestyle ? 2. I always got lil compliments and gazes. Nobody tried to have conversations with me beyond a greeting. Now, others are all up in my face until since this one man started giving me consistent public attention. What is that ?

What if they just invite him over and they have conversation laugh and talk and it's too late for him to go home is it okay that this person would let them lay in the bed with their clothes on and sleep beside each other I feel that it's a red flag and the person never called this person back anymore

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What about when you just meet a man in 3 weeks and he’s already asking for some money from you.

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Haha seems like to me the toys are the one that’s getting married these days 🤷🏽‍♀️

You lost me a couple of times, and I disagree with you on these points. Even in this day and age, women still don't get paid equally to men. If a man is expecting a woman to cook then why isn't he providing for her? You're saying a woman has to work and then come home and cook. How about a man cooking for a woman? That would be nice for a change.