10 Rules Of Positive Parenting For Better Behavior

10 Rules Of Positive Parenting For Better Behavior | Dr. Paul Jenkins

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Do you want to know the 10 rules of positive parenting for better behavior in your kids? In this video, we'll do a countdown so you can become a better parent.
00:00 Intro & Summary
00:17 How To Yell Less
00:40 What Makes Kids Nervous
01:11 How To Choose To Enjoy Every Kid's Stage
01:48 Where To Focus For Positive Parenting
02:25 Where To Get Good At For Positive Parenting
03:18 How To Detach From The Outcome
04:21 The Importance Of Stage Not Age
05:51 What Is Your Main Job As A Parent
06:36 Who Takes Care Of The Team
07:53 The Importance Of Self-Care
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@budgiebirdy 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Jenkins, my husband and I are struggling to control our anger and yelling when trying to get our kids to listen. I forwarded one of your videos to my husband. That was two weeks ago. This morning (school mornings are the WORST because of the stress of a time crunch and both our kids have ADHD and the meds haven't kicked in yet), I was struggling to get my nine year old to listen and get dressed for school. My husband sensed my stress, and he stepped in with the SMILING. My husband just stood there and smiled, which really isn't his temperament at all (he struggles with anger issues) and calmly told him to get dressed. I knew right away he was trying your technique, and it WORKED! My son just stopped, seemed confused, and asked my husband why he was smiling. Then he immediately got dressed without any backtalking. Thank you for your videos!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

budgiebirdy, thanks for sharing your experience. I hope this helps others. You are on the right track!

@purplepuma123 2 жыл бұрын

This is fantastic to hear. It must be awesome to have your husband on the same page as you; someone right there with you, having your back. Tell him this internet stranger thinks he’s doing awesome for giving the ‘no yelling’ a shot. (It’s might be my biggest struggle) Best wishes to you and your family.

@rattyboy-private8744 2 жыл бұрын

Try calling the SS (social services) . im sure they can help you with someone like the 2 in this video who can tell you what you're doing wrong. Or they can take ypur kids to a safe environment while you and your husband work on anger issus.

@pretty_youtube Жыл бұрын

awesome!!!!!😂🎉

@positivelybeautiful1 Жыл бұрын

Dr & Mrs. Jenkins, your videos have helped me in choosing to have a friendly divorce, and the children’s father is on board too. I found your videos when my children were 16 & 18 & the stages of moral development helped us tremendously. As a LDRP/ maternal infant nurse, I tell my parents on discharge about your videos & websites so that it may be helpful for them. Thank you to both of you for your love (one aspect is yo share information) & compassion ( especially with us strangers).

@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын

You made my day. Thank you for helping to spread the word about positive parenting.

@markwatson8188 2 жыл бұрын

Just saw you guys at our local Costco! Thanks for being so nice and thanks for making the videos!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

@tecumseha 2 жыл бұрын

Please tell Vicki that her blouse is BEAUTIFUL! And she gets prettier every year (reverse aging?) 😁 Thank you for all the tips & reminders! 💙

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

I agree!! Thanks, Tecumseh A., hope you are all doing well.

@kellyallin3007 2 жыл бұрын

Great countdown!! Love this format love you guys. Awesome team teaching ❤️

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!!

@foziaiqbal3159 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful stuff! Thank you so much!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Frozia, you are welcome.

@hamdagarbo5839 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you both:) Hardest one for me is taking care of myself.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Our pleasure!

@christinas6528 2 жыл бұрын

Stage not age is powerful! As always, thank you, you've helped me so much!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome!

@MariaMartinez-jw2ox 2 жыл бұрын

love love love this video! sharing with all my siblings !. thanks for helping me develope in my parenting. as a parent we can always learn something new to apply to our lifes

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Honored to be on your team. I do appreciate the share.

@lifestyleq856 2 жыл бұрын

I really love you both (great problem solver persons) and your efforts

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@tessjones5987 2 жыл бұрын

This is such an important video Thank you so much for sharing.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@Swwils 2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for your videos, it makes me realise how many of these things my parents did and now I can do for my children.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful!

@lcl1129 2 жыл бұрын

I have been following you for a year and I can't get enough nor did I forgot you. The world need to know how to raise children, because this primary issues are giving us life time pain. I just feel bad every time because very few people pay attention in the little things that give birth to life. I hope in life, I will do something to spread these type of messages. I appreciate you deeply, and thank you for allowing and teach us from your wisdom💓💓

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I feel strongly that we need better parenting and thus the channel.

@gaylebardrick7725 2 жыл бұрын

Brilliant channel. To the point and accurate in all aspects.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, honored to be on your team.

@kelliremo139 2 жыл бұрын

I’m a mom of two young children. Thank you for what you do. It’s so helpful.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Kelli Remo, thank you.

@zohraimam6597 2 жыл бұрын

Your Parenting videos are Blessings for the Parents . GOOD JOB 👌👍

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Zohra.

@lisaalwaysandforever 2 жыл бұрын

For the team rule you said, as a full time single mum (ex husband not involved and lives abroad and my family live in different cities), how would you best suggest I build a stronger team without that support? X

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Lisa Jacobs, maybe engage in a single support group or parents without partners. Is there a play group that you can be a part of or start one by posting a flyer. See what is available at the city parks or other groups in your area.

@kchoudhury156 2 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Please add some videos addressing widows or single parents. Controlling your anger, staying calm, prioritizing yourself, etc, is much harder without a partner.

@sarahhenderson4986 2 жыл бұрын

Do you have other videos breaking down the stages so you can know what stage your child is in? Thanks!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, check back to the first few that came out. The parenting power up course also goes into these in depth.

@w0lf864 2 жыл бұрын

I really like these videos. I have two boys 16 and 15 and it feels too late sometimes where too much time has passed with negligent parenting. I want to renew my relationship with my sons!

@complexjanedoe 2 жыл бұрын

I felt the same with my 10 year old. I promise you it's never too late. They are going to see you try and make effort. Own your ish and apologize. I work with so many ppl who yell Mr they just wished their parents tried. You got this and I believe in you. Know your not alone in this feeling. Even adult kids wish their parents tried. Love to you

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

I love it. It isn't too late. Start making the positive, small changes and they will take notice.

@Petuacapturesit 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Dr.Jenkins. Thank you for this. Do you have any videos about 4 year olds who play rough and push other kids- even when they are excited and not necessarily angry?

@marycomstock6098 2 жыл бұрын

Not Dr Jenkins, just another momma with a 4 year old who sounds a lot like this 😂 just wanted to let you know that I’m in that boat with you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Give them calm consequences and model the behavior you want to see from them.

@saisree7252 2 жыл бұрын

Could you please give more examples for relationship before rules

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Sai Sree, got it. Thanks.

@MR-xk8vm 2 жыл бұрын

I am going to write this on my cupboard so I can see it often as a reminder 😆

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

M R, I love it! Come back here whenever you need a refresher.

@MR-xk8vm 2 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV Can you please let Dr Paul Know that his videos have been really helpful . I would really be thankful if you can pass on my message.

@musetech1 2 жыл бұрын

Please give us some examples of consequences for little kids age 4-6 and some examples of self-care. Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

musetech1, I covered the self-care in a video for parents. Do something that recharges your batteries daily. Could be a bubble bath, 10 minutes of reading, exercise, whatever. Natural consequences are the best. Allow children to fail when they are young so they can experience what it feels like, the disappointment, etc.

@johnstucki3539 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Dr. Jenkins and Vicki, could you detail a little more about children helping parents with disabilities please? So I'm the father with twin toddlers and I have a physical disability. The kids don't help me a lot per se, but they do enjoy trying to help me, for instance moving my hand onto a computer mouse or helping daddy get his shoes to go outside. It's obviously given them a good sense of helping and gentleness and kindness, but on the other hand as time goes on I don't want to accidentally turn it into a burden. However all family members around me help me to some extent. What would you recommend for maintaining a balance of cultivating the good parts while not turning it into something that's detrimental? What do I need to be keep consciously aware of?

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

John Stucki, it is wonderful that they have the opportunity to learn to help others and they are probably happy to do it since you are their father and they see you as someone who loves them. You can ask, Would you please _____? Or do you mind ___________? Watch for their body language as they respond. That will tell you a lot.

@shezdi5647 2 жыл бұрын

0:10 I already know the number 1 rule 😍😍😍

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Shez, Awesome, you win.

@shezdi5647 2 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV no the one I thought was the rule 3. 1 and 2 is mind blowing rule , never thought about that.

@olololo9224 2 жыл бұрын

My husband always puts me down because of the outcomes, meaning that they are misbehaving bc im not s strict enough parent

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Olo Lolo, No one should be putting you down. You should be working together.

@zohraimam 4 ай бұрын

Even than they are young adult 🎉

@LiveOnPurposeTV 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching.

@noahynclino1330 2 жыл бұрын

Im so frustrated with my children.... I need an emergency help how to discipline and connect with my kids....

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Richiemay Ynclino, start with our parenting power up course. You can get it stand alone at parentingpowerupcom or it is available on our membership website go.liveonpurposecentral.com. That will get you tons of resources, but we would have you start at the parenting course.

@navedian739 2 жыл бұрын

Prevention is better than cure🔑Don't present or introduce video Games to kids in the First Place 🔑from the beginning keep them busy BEFORE THEY GROW ON YOU⁉️ this way, you dont need to punish nor be harsh nor create arguments🙏

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

At some point they will be introduced to videos as it is part of our world. We can limit the exposure and what types of games they have. Young children do not need video games. They need to learn about their world.

@aravelazquez6057 2 жыл бұрын

I am currently struggling with my 14month old who is extremely curious, active and “destructive”. He has begun showing a lot of emotion, specifically anger, so when he does not like something he will yell or ball up his fists and growl. I am not sure how to address these behaviors. I know he understands a lot of my language but when it comes to me saying “no” he doesn’t seem to WANT to understand. Please guide me towards healthy parenting for him. I would love a stable foundation.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Ara Velasquez, look at him as being frustrated. This is common at this age. He doesn't have emotional maturity. You will have to ride out the storm and model the behavior you want to see from him. This is very important. If you get mad, he will see it is o.k. to get mad. You can use time out until he is calm.

@tabithaabbott6791 2 жыл бұрын

I purchased parenting power up how long till I receive my email? Thank you!

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

It was sent automatically. Check your spam folder and if you have problems, get in touch with my assistant, info@drpauljenkins.com. Include the email that you used to buy the product.

@minella4105 2 жыл бұрын

What does someone do when there is no "team" to take care of??

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Minella, start to build the team. A playgroup, etc.

@mixedfamilyvlogs4606 2 жыл бұрын

When are u doing a video about negotiating with a teen.

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Guadalupe arriaga, it is on the topic development list, as time allows.

@jasonlyrics9787 2 жыл бұрын

Nice adverse

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Jason, Thank you.

@jasonlyrics9787 2 жыл бұрын

@@LiveOnPurposeTV ur welcome

@jasonlyrics9787 2 жыл бұрын

Wish u the best

@stephaniehorn1029 2 жыл бұрын

My baby is 9 months. I need to decide on how to teach and discipline…

@builder481 2 жыл бұрын

you can do it

@LiveOnPurposeTV 2 жыл бұрын

Remember, kids need two things, love and discipline. Too much of one will make them go wonky.

@Ray-jr6wf Жыл бұрын

Dr Paul I need a call please

@LiveOnPurposeTV Жыл бұрын

Not sure what you need, but you can get in touch with my assistant at info@drpauljenkins.com. You can also get coaching at www.achievetodaycoaching.com/paul or join our membership site at go.liveonpurposecentral.com to have access to Ask Dr. Paul sessions weekly.