YUP

I love your rawness in what you share. It's helpful, informative and a bit of a turn on. Thank you. Please keep it up.(no pun intended)

she's gonna get "dissapeared" by the rest of her gender lol

HAHAHA!!!

Lmfao!!

@@vltruane The people that sold you all your clothes and every single object in your house were also trying to "milk you". There's nothing bad in getting value when providing value. It's trading, child. EDIT: In fact, if you're getting significant value from it, you should want to pay some money to her to encourage more of the same insights and honesty. Jesus, you people truly don't get how capitalism and behavior reinforcement work! Children indeed...

@@prometheus9443 Dumb fucks don't deserve your time, bro

@@prometheus9443 Agree.

She got a nice big rack 👍

Protect this woman at all cost......!!Dilly Dilly!!!

Tell your man this

​@@BlackoutPatriotExactly. Such a paradox, on one hand women claim they are the emotionally intelligent ones who communicate better, but then fail to communicate what they want and need, and don't recognize that men have emotions.

@@beyondthesacrosanctbreezeEver think about the differences in the way we raise boys & girls? Girls are sluts and guys are praised. Talk about a paradox! Be demure and keep mouth shut.

@@beyondthesacrosanctbreeze completely agree. Total mindtwist required. Watching Alexander Grace's YT channel (recommended) one comes to the same conclusion. So women are weak in body and mind, long to be dominated, but feel insecure due to this and pretend to be "on the high side" of things to confuse men. Come on! Complete mindf*ck.

well - understood. As a man, I have to say it does not speak for you. tbh, at the end the video describes a rape kind of scenario. Either we have to hope that not too many rapists read this, or you're simply waiting to be raped all the time. Great stuff, man.

Thank you but I am also a feminist

@@mynonleatherlife and a redpill man like Kevin Samuel is also a feminist. The only issue is, in today’s society, if you want to be accepted by said movement, you MUST hate men. Gone are the days when feminism fought for the rights of all. 4th wave feminism is a stain on our social and political culture of today. I hope you’re not one of those feminists.

Extremist feminism is not the reason you cant get laid lmao

@@mynonleatherlife I'm a feminist, my poly BDSM partner is also a feminist, she is very comfortable with the use of pet names like sl*t, wh*re, etc. go figure

​@@SilverShamrock71 there's no contradiction there at all...bdsm is a feminist activity...non consensual bdsm is what feminism is fighting against

I agree, what a great find.

be alpha man, are you wearing a character?

@@johnsteele8073 lol be 'alpha' - yeah whatever that means - i'll be honest the men who have the worst luck with women is those trying to be someone they're not - women smell that quicker than you think, when they say just be yourself it means that....but when you curl up into a little fluffy ball of insecurity she can smell that too and that's a massive turn off. Doesn't matter who you are, have belief in yourself and so will women. NO SUCH THING AS AN 'ALPHA' - the dominant men and women in society are those who believe in themselves enough that if they get rejected they don't get effected and move on. THAT'S THE SECRET lol, men try make it so complicated

@@greentraderAl people who always complain about the term alpha... It's just sour grapes. I didn't say pretend to be something you're not.

Sounds like you like bondage

very good point actually. I think u must be right

Why the fck have they never just said that? When they just vaguely blabber, "Be yourself" every man thinks, "I've been myself since I was born".

@@mynonleatherlife I've got this "friend" who is not interested in being in a relationship because of the fear of being hurt, although she already knows I recently told her that I want her, she enjoys spending time with me but no longer visits me to keep me from heartache. I believe I can make her mine if I can convince her to continue her visits for the hobbies that we both enjoy together. I want to ask her, do you enjoy spending time with me? Assuming she answers "yes" I would then say, ok then let that be our only focus right now but I know she is going to be struck with hesitation at that point, this woman is extremely unique also outrageously beautiful and the thought of leaving her alone kinda stings a bit is it possible to command her to continue her visits or do you think I should just try to forget about her?

@@milkywaymusic very painful situation milkywaymusic, I really don't know if this girl has already deeply decided she is never going to want to be with you or is there is still a chance, it could be either depending on the situation. Very hard cause there's plenty of fish in the sea but people are also unique and irreplacable and I am sad just hearing about this situation because I can tell u really care about her

@@mynonleatherlife ok, well thank you for responding.

indeed

Absolutely

Hey, how did you get that? I think I have a lot of problems with it

​@@ramitasdegardenia.9495Perhaps you feel shame at having sexual needs. Many women do. But your needs and desires are not sins.

Wow! Our beloved females are very complicated.

Victoria, thank you so much. This was my best attempt at a clickbait title so I'm going to have to up my game haha.

I would be happy for you to have products or seminars or such...actually if you hosted singles events would be perfect.

@@soulbasedliving agreed

That little smile when she talks of discipline.

Nothing wrong with promoting backend products to monetize on the channel. Truthslayer

Thank you Jahmeal!

It’s something about a woman that doesn’t try to be beautiful. No weaves no makeup no fake finger nails. It’s communicates something.

Yes she's naturally beautiful, but the sexiest thing about her is her intelligence and directness. This video is a gift to the world.

@@misterrea861 Thank you Mister Rea

I was about to make the same comment really, she doesn't really need makeup to be a ten! And she is intelligent and genuine. Very few girls are like that.

Lol what did u say bro so I can learn

Coming from a girl yes we love it even the most assertive ones

I need more experience but i fee likes its almost to late cause im 24 and dont have much at all lol

​@@andrewevans6826 no. Many of guys don't and can't develop that before mid 20s to 30s. I would suggest spending less time with girls before you ripe. Just observe your inner process, observe other people's relationships and people in general. Women, how simple actually they are under all that acting.

Ok well a lot of people misinterpret what I say so be careful about that. Come to a live I do sometime and ask ur questions and see if u still hate it

Check out Sterling Cooper

Have a three some she love it and has Fantasy is about it😊

Or a 4some. 1 for each hole

It's too late for that. Need to find another woman and start anew.

I wonder if this dude is divorced now. After 36yrs it's to late to apply any of this stuff. Just get a new woman if possible

6. Power of erotic stories in dirty talk 7.power of pet names and name calling 8. Power of " i got this" handle it for her 9. Lust and objectify her body 👅 10. Deep empathy seeing and understanding her..

You shouldn't be rising to her challenge you should be above her challenge already.. and you should instinctively know it from the core of your being that you own her.. you love her and respect her but you own her and you are the man and she is here to do what you say.. and if she cant then she will not receive what you can give her.

@@bigdadyyb143 “Way of the Superior Man”?

@@clubadv 10. Call her by her sister’s name.

@@xeeng10 or her brother's every now and then

Thanks Juan for your comment and thanks for subscribing

@WINDOWS MINUS yeah but I don't agree with him smacking females for no reason. Not sayin you can't smack them but he did it for no reason. But u right

@WINDOWS MINUS lmfao true , they knew what they got into when they chose him. Thanks for reminding me. 💯

Go Twins!!!

@@TL-ki2rz Nah bro!

they biologically lack introspection

The fact that she puts what she says in the vid into the description too... she’s a real one ☝🏾

😂

LOVE Victoria We need a LOT more of her speaking up

@@vnusfmtv rigggggghhhhhhhhtttttt like damn she's good

It’s that amazing outgoing personality that does it for me! Or maybe it’s the excitement in her voice or wait maybe it’s her gorgeous smile lol how the hell did I get here!!

thanks Felix

It's all in how you present it..

division seems to be the plan..

If we could get over the puritanical bs and educate our 12 yr. olds without being called groomers, about their own bodies, that sex is normal and how to communicate with each other...BUT NO!! Just teach them abstinence and all will be well, right? This particular site disgusted me. No mention of women with a high drive who lets you know what she likes and ask you the same. WTF?

One thing I learned in life. You mostly have to ignore what women say and know what she really needs.

Can you go into more detail on this?

I Completly agree.

​@@Jdb63 Most if not all women have been either emotionally, physically or spiritually hurt or damaged by their previous unhealthy relationships either due to wrong choices or no fault of their own.

@@richardviramontes1133 I agree these woman will most likely sleep with the first man to give her loving attention kind of like the rebound guy after a bad relationship

Even a doctor can’t heal you, they just put you in the right environment. True healing comes from within.

jesus yall sounds creepy as hell

It sounds creepy because this is how people who don't know what they're doing sound - they make up this huge elaborate situation that is very contrived, and it would come across like that in real life, probably. If you can pull it off, good for you, but it sounds very artificial and contrived. Not at all natural and authentic. But don't worry, everyone starts off naive and then as you get experience and you know what works and what doesn't, you will get confidence and it will be authentic confidence because you will KNOW what works, no guessing or speculating Part of your issue is thinking that increasing your chances of getting consent is a good thing, as though it would be a failure not to, and failure would be bad. Sounds like you need to develop more confidence in yourself, which honestly only comes from practice. Don't worry, I used to think like that too, when I was a virgin and inexperienced. I've found out that if a woman is attracted to me, then she is very receptive, I.e. the answer is nearly always yes to my suggestions. I used to think up scenarios like what you described, sort of, but at the end of the day this stuff is actually really simple. You can just ask her something or 'suggest' (sometimes non-verbally) that she do something, and if she is into you, she'll say yes. If you have to convince a woman to have sex with you then she isn't that into you. It doesn't sound like you're trying to convince a woman to have sex with you, just checking it's ok with her. But you make it sound really dramatic, like out of a movie. Here is a good but of advice: LIFE IS NOTHING LIKE THE MOVIES. If you ever feel like what you're thinking would fit in a movie scene DON'T DO IT! Movies are fantasy and mostly bear nothing in common with real life. Which is fine, because they are fantasy, that's what they are there for. What you're describing might actually work, depending on the mood you set, but it could also easily come off as creepy and controlling. You don't need to ask her "can I have sex with you?" that makes it sound like are you are asking your mum for some ice cream. Maybe a better way to ask (if you really feel you have to ask) is, "Do you want to have sex?" or "are you ready for sex?" This takes the pressure off her doing something for you and focuses on what she wants and how she feels. Realise that she is dying to have sex with you too, it's not just something that she is doing for you. Maybe that is why this comes across as creepy, you are trying to GET a certain outcome, not realising his much she wants that too. Sounds like you are thinking of her teasing you, but if you tease her she might be asking you for sex. Give her a hint of something she wants (like a kiss) and then take it away, leave her wanting more. You are probably focusing too much on the 'spectacle' or show of dominance, with the while kneeling thing. And the whole getting pre-approval for everything that you might want to do during sex sounds so contrived it makes me want to vomit. If you want to know if she is ok with something, you can just ask her in the moment, "do you mind if I do this?" "Do you like ____?" and if you're going to spank her or something you can tell her to let you know if/when it is too hard. It is amazing what most women can take, almost to the point of hurting them (which you don't want to do). You can also let her know that she doesn't have to do anything uncomfortable and to let you know if she doesn't like something, is uncomfortable or in pain, etc. Sometimes it's hard to know if she is moaning from pain, pleasure or pleasurable pain, you want to make sure she is comfortable letting you know what she likes and doesn't like. You need to be paying attention to her the whole time, this is why asking her can be a bit over the top. You should be able to figure it out. If you are unsure, just ask her. Of course you don't need to all the crazy stuff in the first time. You can try new and more adventurous stuff as you get to know each other better and are more comfortable with each other. You aren't going to live out your wildest fantasies in the first date (well you might, but don't count on it). Good sex comes from an understanding, which is usually built up over time. Anyway, I hope that helps you understand why your suggestion sounds creepy to some people and was of value to you

@@youtubedeletedmyrapmusicch2682 Sorry didnt man to come off as a dick by saying you sound creepy. What Dale said is spot on. Getting women to do whatever you want is not an accomplishment, doing something you both want to do is really the key. Manipulating a women in to doing what you want is in my opinion, creepy.

@@thecurrentmoment Who are you talking to? "They" "your" wow

@@thecurrentmoment I want to ask a question. I have gotten casual sex plenty of times, but not a single time have I been able to get an actual girlfriend. How do you get a girlfriend, not just a one night stands?

I domt have anyone either, just me

Well said, my friend.

I love it man. I've become ready to challenge the world. I'm realising woman's attraction is just a by product of that. LETS FUCKING TACKLE THE WORLD. (24yr old)

Smart and dangerous is a unique combo. Iv tried telling others my thoughts on dominating the world. Iv openly joked about owning everything the world has to offer but at the same time…I couldn’t have a better dream. I’ll rise to the top and show the world how it’s down. Even if it’s only in one industry.

Wow that was amazing. Thank you. Saving this!

Glad to see a female weigh in on this.

Facts bro well.said

thank you Austin 🙏

Most girls are solipsistic and unaware but this chick is very self aware with good advice.

i love your comment and the feeling it gave me. key words like: self awareness, introspection, why, articulation, perspective, observing, experiencing the moment but being detatched enought to watch it. it is all i am going through right now, analyzing everything in third person and in real time. just wanted to say this cause everything you said here resonated with me so much... i thank you for this comment.

@@evaneichenberger845you must be busy talking to most girls

Thank u Steve!!

Thanks John for watching, your perspective and encouragement and yea the fact that that video blew up is very very wild to me

@@mynonleatherlife agree.

You didn't LITERALLY binge on her videos.

@@prometheus9443ok do it

@@johnpgabriel5935 Do what, stupid?

incredible! that makes me so happy and inspired, thank u

I'm not seeing but maybe one negative comment that was left up. It looks like everything is being censored/deleted to control the narrative.

Wow you have made every relationship/sex advice pick up whatever seem fake as fuck, you give real advice

@@Timithos they're mostly on some other videos where I was telling guys some more in your face stuff about what they're doing wrong. Trust me I get a lot. I did recently start blocking some people cause it was just getting to me too much and making me depressed. I got everything and anything you can think of about my looks, rating, delivery, personality, content, face, body etc..I've heard it now. Which I think has been very good experience in a way but also at times it's just too intense like getting kicked in the stomach over and over.

@@mynonleatherlife Do not pay attention to the idiots serving up the Hater-ade. There are plenty of them out there. Your advice is solid platinum, and I know it will help me tremendously. Keep going girl, you are a treasure!

Thanks Chas that really means a lot, I will remember your words of wisdom when I need to

@@mynonleatherlife i can tell you are very spiritual. God's gift. When you mentioned a woman crying during sex, I know what you mean. It is a deep releasing cry of so many emotions!!!

@@Sammie_E_Tellem I’ve cried during sex with my last boyfriend. He was really hard to break up with.

@@maddart4445 🤣😂

thanks so much Mike

the list lives on...

@@mynonleatherlife it’s not worth catching a case or losing your job.

Wtf? Theres a huge difference between sexual assault and what this woman was saying

@@Anar-hk5rv No there is not. Not anymore. Western feminism has ended this. Congratulations.

@@Anar-hk5rv a man gave a feminazi a compliment in a lift, and that was "sexual assault" or "rape" (and hebwas persecuted for it iirc); your definition of these words are outdated, you are living under a rock

thank you Judson and thanks a lot for recommending it to your friends too

wow wow thank you

Dear@@mynonleatherlife, I stumbled upon your videos about a year ago. I'm an old man, twice married and twice separated and have 2 kids. My son, whose almost 30 is a self made $millionaire and now pays both my and his mom's rent. So, not so bad as a father. I took him every other weekend and honestly, we agree on everything 90% and we both have the same hobbies. So, we're basically bestfriends. However, I was raised by a single mother uber feminist. And I was a total simp. But after watching your videos, I understand what I did wrong with my wives and many other chicks. But adopting your general advice I now have a FWB, who does exactly what I tell her to do sexually. She's now a sexual fantasy come true. But she must leave in the morning. And I can now see that I'm also her sexual fantasy come true. All I can say to you is a huge Thanks and I ♥️ you!

Thanks a lot Bruce

that's so amazing!!!

That's because women have their sexuality supressed when they are yong. They really dont know what they like, that's why they expect the man to know because they are sexually free. Older woman has a lot more sexual awareness.

💛

Have fun with it. Ex. The girl tell me to be quiet I tell her to say another word She says something I tell her that right you better said something You win either way. She don’t say anything you win but if she say something you win.

They’re called shit tests, dude.

its frame testing

The games women play are _not_ fun at all.

ok wow, that is great to hear, thanks. What did u think was better about this one?

@@mynonleatherlife The list really resonated with my experience. It's a very strong list, and you covered each point enough to convey the essence of it. You could actually do deeper dives into each, but I'm not sure you need to. I also think your confidence is improving with each video. I'd love to see where you're at in a year or two. Guys are really digging your work already, but I expect your channel will grow a lot. Keep smashing it!

Awesome thanks so much I am very flattered cause I really like plain speaking people too

@@mynonleatherlife you truly want to help relationships succeed. Especially with all of the trending mgtow and low key gender wars going on.

we welcome her with open arms but I think she may be a traitor to her kind :-). Although I do feel such good self awareness is like a progress of humanity.

@@mynonleatherlife You r amazing. We love you.

Speaking of plain

so glad u liked it

Victoria please avoid the books by the overhyped and promoted fool Tolle. !! 🤨

I agree with the first part for the most part, but the second part I feel is a bit more nuanced personally. I feel like if u do the first part the second part won’t be much of a problem and u can talk things out in a mature way but deep down u want to not let anyone push u around I agree

Thanks David

As a lady here I agree, dear. And I believe girls need to decide or understand what they want. So the men involved with them dont have to stress or be confused with the vague or missed "signals". Communication needs to be honest, women need to stop being so sensative/offended and men need to not take things as personally; to be able to speak straightforward without fear; more matter of fact.

Shit tests are for the birds.

@@ghfjfghjasdfasdf yeah, it seems like more than a few people use this as justification for their bad behavior. It sure would be nice though to speak to the thought behind the bad behavior rather than the bad behavior itself. However, speaking to this triggers nihilism often where people keep expecting more and more in a way because they want to think everything is hopeless. I’d say the answer to this is to call them out on it and tell them they are setting themselves up for a lot of pain if they have such high standards in life that nothing can satisfy them. This takes the fear out of it and you begin to have compassion on them.

I was wondering where is the guy with list so I don't watch 20 mins hahaha There he is! Thx!!!

She's not talking about daily shit tests, she's talking about being a brat in the bedroom. It's a dom/sub thing. She acts like a brat when she wants daddy to punish her.

that makes so happy to hear...just wow. how is the advice helping?

@@mynonleatherlife Affirmative feedback. Thanks again!