10 Things Christians Should Stop Saying | Jefferson Bethke

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@TitBob
@TitBob 9 жыл бұрын
Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes you a car.
@LetsGoBirds
@LetsGoBirds 9 жыл бұрын
Very true!! Hahah!!! Awesome!!
@nonstopgaming4528
@nonstopgaming4528 7 жыл бұрын
Tit Bob this is very true, you gotta prove it
@eme5947
@eme5947 7 жыл бұрын
Tit Bob or getting it the car with no keys
@fadeddiaries5981
@fadeddiaries5981 7 жыл бұрын
You're correct. What makes a person a Christian is when they accept Jesus as their lord and Savior. Once a person follows Jesus, he is a Christian.
@ttvrawmen
@ttvrawmen 7 жыл бұрын
Tit Bob thank you captain obvious.
@nick3777
@nick3777 10 жыл бұрын
Why do atheists come to Christian videos and say negative things... it takes alot faith to tell a believer to be a non believer
@nick3777
@nick3777 10 жыл бұрын
im actually american silly Texas raised
@CrispyPandaZ
@CrispyPandaZ 10 жыл бұрын
harlengabriel Christianity isn't a European religion silly troll. :P
@chrissidiras
@chrissidiras 10 жыл бұрын
Niko Williams Not at all!! It's a fun thing and (most important) it is good for humanity.
@nick3777
@nick3777 10 жыл бұрын
tell that to Stalin and Pol Pot. Those guys loved the atheist idea... I think their followers did too?
@chrissidiras
@chrissidiras 10 жыл бұрын
Niko Williams Are you asking or are you suggesting? Or are you implicitly ask for grammar help? Anyway, atheism did never led people to crime. Ideology did. Atheism does not imply any ideology, only the lack of a particular belief. I don't see the connection. However, this does not mean atheists do not commit crimes. The point is that there is absolutely no connection between crime and atheism.
@samuelferrell4577
@samuelferrell4577 8 жыл бұрын
The one that bothers me the most of when Christians say "God needed another angel" after someone passes away. I heard this all the time after I lost my son. My wife and I got so tired of hearing it. That phrase is theologically wrong and offers zero comfort. The truth is, because o Jesus' redemptive death and resurrection, my son has life beyond the grave. I will see him again. That is where I find my comfort.
@T3Appel
@T3Appel 8 жыл бұрын
So true sorry for your loss, and its not even biblically sound that people become angels, we are ranked higher than angels in heaven so its almost insulting lol but God bless you.
@j4blaser
@j4blaser 6 жыл бұрын
So true!! We don’t just magically turn into angels! Your son is in God’s glory filled Kingdom and that’s indeed where Christians can find comfort in knowing our loved ones are truly in a better place and we will be reunited. Prayers for you and your wife! 💙
@GospelGirl1Cor15
@GospelGirl1Cor15 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! And God bless you!
@praisebarong9889
@praisebarong9889 3 жыл бұрын
"God needed another angel? " Mehnnn that's so wrong. How do people come up with that? SMH🤦
@missylou82
@missylou82 3 жыл бұрын
I hate reading that in comments. When people say that phrase. Children who died, don’t become Angels. God already made the Angels before humans were ever made.
@lexuhpro
@lexuhpro 7 жыл бұрын
Instead of saying "everything happens for a reason" people should start saying "good things come out of every bad situation"
@flashbash2
@flashbash2 7 жыл бұрын
Lexie Jordan this is more accurate, but probably worse to say when someone is grieving. No one wants to hear that something good is going to come out of their son's death for instance
@sonotforyou5588
@sonotforyou5588 7 жыл бұрын
Lexie Jordan when it's not forced lol
@desomii
@desomii 7 жыл бұрын
It may be better to just admit you don't know what to say but that you're willing to trust God in prayer with them through the difficult situation! That's ok to say too!
@Crambull
@Crambull 6 жыл бұрын
I like that. Need to start saying it.
@karolinaxo4894
@karolinaxo4894 6 жыл бұрын
Lexie Jordan not all the time
@YellowRoseOvTx
@YellowRoseOvTx 9 жыл бұрын
Atheist, thank you, I'm so glad to see all you atheist on here because it's an encouraging sign that you really haven't let go of God. Because of all of your comments, I know this channel MUST be doing something right. I actually might look at some videos. As for you, keep visiting these videos. It brings me comfort to,see your efforts of reaching out to a God you claim you don't believe even exists.
@YellowRoseOvTx
@YellowRoseOvTx 9 жыл бұрын
Well it's doing quite the opposite! Seeing you atheist on here is like seeing a dirty rag hit contact with bleach. Just something about it makes me feel like there is hope and some ppl are literally right in reach.
@YellowRoseOvTx
@YellowRoseOvTx 9 жыл бұрын
HughJax....I didn't read very much of your comment. You give me a chuckle and I get a kick out of seeing all you atheist on here because its funny how it's Atheist who complain of the proselytizers sticking their religion down everybody it's throat, but here you all are ON A CHRISTIAN VIDEO where no human probably invited you. Maybe it's the Holy Spirit pushing you to come here because your not sure about what you believe. But I'll just say, thank you for visiting the video. The more viewer counts it has the more attention it will get. God bless and I hope you find truth. Genuinely, I do. You're never too far away to to turn back. You're never too dirty to ever be clean again by his grace.
@sway3546
@sway3546 9 жыл бұрын
HughJaxident67 I did have one question. Honest question. No tricks here. Why is it that a lot of atheist seem so driven to disprove things that don't matter to them either way? If you can be atheist why can't people be christians? Also why is it that they seem to attack that more often than other religions? I've always wanted to know those things. And no hate here that was an honest question.
@sway3546
@sway3546 9 жыл бұрын
HughJaxident67 Hmm some good points. Fist I gotta say (off topic) but I don't agree with taxes anyways. Not only do I think churches shouldn't be taxed but there shouldn't be income tax at all. People work to hard and every dollar made, spent or saved is taxed. But thats another conversation. So I would like to know where you get your info. I have always learned that men wrote the bible. Just like The Word says we are His hands and feet. So God set up a system that requires Him to use us in order to do His will. A lot of things go wrong and we blame God but He isn't the problem. I like what one guy said, "the gift is perfect but it comes through imperfect vessels." Thats me and you. So I also think things differently than most christians. I do believe God is all powerful however this does not mean He has all authority. Therefore He does not control people with an iron fist like most believe. We have free will. So in a lot of places where you find God doing things that appear wrong in the bible its usually due to human error. Like I recently found out that a lot of why king David and them wiped people out was that most all the people they wiped out were not really human to begin with. You can find in Genesis it talks about the fallen angles mating with human women and out came the nephilim. So they were destroyed not people. Also there is a VAST difference between the old and new testament. Understanding WHY the law had to be is a great help. Also how Jesus fulfilled that law too. So when Paul in Romans talks about this, YES it is Paul writing it but through The Lord. Also, along the lines of forgiveness. One thing people often miss is that YES while you are forgiven and sins washed away that doesn't give you the right to behave foolishly. Im speaking to fellow believers. Also that you will still have to deal with the consequence of your wrong doing even though you are forgiven. So nothing, in a sense, is with out consequence. Often times people can't except this cause there was something in their life they cannot forgive themselves for. Trying to understand with the mind what was created by The Spirit is also why people keep running into brick walls when it comes to The Bible. Also what about the sanhedrin talmud and roman historical documents that give account of a man named Jesus being crucified? Either I'm not here to try and convert or be converted I'm just growing in my knowledge of the Lord. And no matter what the reason I believe isn't cause I blindly follow something and get no results. I think that is kind of dumb. Why would I pray for someone if it didn't work?!?!?! Believe it or not Ive been healed from a broken foot, tooth decay my daughter from really bad allergy infections. My father from almost going blind and so on and so forth. So FOR ME I know this works cause I have seen it. Maybe one day you will too. But either way stay dedicated. Like the bible says "be hot or cold. Do not be lukewarm." < butchered. haha.
@sway3546
@sway3546 9 жыл бұрын
WOW first off awesome info. I have to say I really enjoy talking with you. Your not dumb and just get mad like christians and atheist both do. You are educated and I respect that. Now of course I can't hold a candle to you on most of your historical facts cause well you are smarter than me on that. The only thing can say is regarding those horrible acts in the old testament. Im not to popular with christians myself cause I don't like to accept something blindly and walk through life that way. I want to know. And God does say that He will give you answers and knowledge of things to come. So my rule is always this. Whats the beginning of the book about? God having man in a place where there is no trouble of any kind. Whats the end of the book about? God getting us to a place where there is no trouble of any kind. The bible says "He is the same yesterday, today, and forevermore." So AS A CHRISTIAN I took that verse as law! Now as I have approached many "contradictions" with that previous rule of mine in place I was able to start seeing that there aren't really any contradictions. Of course I haven't been able to go through them all yet. So for instance in regard to old testament. BEFORE the law of moses, people did whatever they wanted. Murder, raping and killing and it wasn't wrong necessarily because there was nothing to teach them wrong or right so there was no concept of either. The Law came to show them what was wrong but they had no means to follow such strict guidelines. By "means" I am referring to the spirit inside us OR how you might identify better, the moral compass on the inside of us. So often times when He would destroy people it was done because there was no way for them without even a "moral compass" to not do the things like rape and murder like in Sodom and Gamorah. Also if you study on the nephilim most tribes of people, all the ones I have found actually, were "infested" with nephilim blood which is why He told His people not to intermingle with any other people. So like I said most killings of "people" were not really "people" with human DNA like me and you anyways. With the new testament we have a different covenant than they had back then. Different "rules" if you will. So when you study the old you have to refer to the new as well. Anyways you can argue that its historically wrong and so on and so forth but I challenge you to learn a few things. The Law. Its purpose. Why and how it came to be. What Jesus did. His purpose here and what He accomplished. Thats something most christians don't even know. And if nothing else it will just help your case in atheism. And study with that "rule" of mine in mind. He is good in the beginning and the end so in the middle all the so called "horrible" things have to be for a good reason. Also Ill be researching the things you gave me too! Might take a while cause I got a lot of overtime coming up so Ill get back to you when I can.
@BrittsSpace
@BrittsSpace 10 жыл бұрын
"Everything happens for a reason..." Haha! Yes! I mean, I know it's theologically true but no one wants to hear that if their spouse just died or they lost a child or something. Loved this video. It's a nice light hearted look at the modern church and it's goody buzzwords/phrases. LOL
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
yes exactly!!! PS hope you guys doing well! :D
@BrittsSpace
@BrittsSpace 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! And I meant *goofy not goody. LOL
@Aisabbff
@Aisabbff 10 жыл бұрын
Wow Austin nice to see you here I literally just finished watching your last vlog
@lillyj2716
@lillyj2716 10 жыл бұрын
I love the nive nulls
@Iyana
@Iyana 10 жыл бұрын
The Nive Nulls!
@MatuaBlasta
@MatuaBlasta 10 жыл бұрын
I'm totally with you on the 60 seconds to say hi to your neighbour thing. So awkward! D:
@joannabaky3527
@joannabaky3527 8 жыл бұрын
I don't get why atheists take their time to belittle our God. Perhaps God is an insecurity of yours? I just wanna understand. :/
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861 8 жыл бұрын
They belittle your God not because they are insecure but because they are irritated by the logical fallacies your God presents, the ridiculous amount of indoctrination that religious people spread, the arrogance of when you say your extraordinary claims are true with no sound logic and evidence to back it up and the insecurities YOU people actually display by believing in such nonsense.
@iluvMcDees
@iluvMcDees 8 жыл бұрын
+Jesus Ramos Lol why even watch these videos of go through comments sections if you aren't seeking anything? You're either wasting your time being hateful OR you are actually curious and want to learn. If you are so sure of yourself and you hate our beliefs, you wouldn't bother watching these videos. UNLESS you deliberately come here to spread hate or just to be rude.
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861 8 жыл бұрын
iluvMcDees The reason I'm here is to entertain myself with these autistic Christian comments and to hopefully find some I can convert into freethinkers.
@fluffypuppy0
@fluffypuppy0 8 жыл бұрын
+Joanna Baky Im surprised that non-christians are replying to you. What i don't understand is why they take time out to watch and read the comments of a christian video. I know youtube is free and everything but why choose something you don't care for. Just shows me the how God can find his way in people's lives whether or not they want it.
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861
@theirrefutableiconoclast3861 8 жыл бұрын
Invisible Joy Why do we reply? Because she said she wanted to understand why we belittle her 'God'. The most logical thing to do would be to respond. Duh.
@davincrockett4431
@davincrockett4431 10 жыл бұрын
Your channel has saved me thank you now I'm walking in a Christians footsteps:)
@JonnyOxtricks
@JonnyOxtricks 10 жыл бұрын
Jeffs a boss and doing great things for the Kingdom but Jesus saved you not this Channel :)
@xcocobEllex
@xcocobEllex 10 жыл бұрын
"Is this a gift? Can I take it back?" Hahaha!
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
haha!!!
@denisecarrera8449
@denisecarrera8449 10 жыл бұрын
Hi Jefferson, I found you on FB from a post on your video "Why I hate religion but love Jesus." You are right on! I am so glad to have been introduced to you. I am in a ministry, God appointed, not man, and I want to always be careful not to come off as self righteous. I was away from God for so long because of the hypocrites in church. But these past 4.5 years Jesus has become my everything. I lost my 20 marriage, adultery (husband then me), soul ties to break, hubby in a mental hospital twice, lost a good job, lost our business, cervical cancer, dying from severe female issues, 3 foreclosures on home, bankruptcy, and to top it off, I had an addiction to porn that went back to being introduced to it at 6. It resurfaced when my husband was using it secretly and affected me. But God intervened and turned my mess around. Not religion. Now, he has given me a ministry that I do not have a page for. Women just private message me saying they feel they God lead them to me because of comments I leave on other posts regarding marriage, singleness and porn. So I counsel without degrees because I let the Holy Spirit lead me. I'm looking forward to gleaning from you. God bless your efforts to get the truth out!
@chadphillippi1445
@chadphillippi1445 10 жыл бұрын
Dude, your book is money! I downloaded it for my flight yesterday and listened to the whole thing. Planning in listening to it again on the way home. It's a great mix of your spoken word poems, Crazy Love, The Circle Maker, Speeking of Jesus, and Blue Like Jazz... Your book made me re-evaluate my motives and current relationships with both Jesus and my wife. I appreciate you brother!
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
whoah!!! 37,000 views in less than 24 hours?! Thanks guys! Any one of the ten stand out to you?
@JeremyHodges
@JeremyHodges 10 жыл бұрын
Attn: Jennifer Hodges.
@rachelc8734
@rachelc8734 10 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the "Turn and say Hi to your neighbor" one. It really is nice, in theory, but it is awkward, even more so when you're in the awkward phase of life and don't want to be noticed. :-/
@MrShadowoftheSon
@MrShadowoftheSon 10 жыл бұрын
Jesus is my co-pilot one. You covered it very thorough and I like the analogy you used. My fam always cringed when seeing those bumper stickers lol
@shaneyshane6805
@shaneyshane6805 10 жыл бұрын
I haven't necessarily gotten the "Maybe you're blessed with the gift of singleness" statement, But the incredibly judgmental looks I get for being single or even being single and attempting to join a ministry are just awkward. I wasn't aware being single discredited my desire to serve or my eligibility to sit in church. The vibe I get is you must be married, ending a courtship coming into marriage or serving the church & it's members at hr of the day.
@OMGEmoDavid
@OMGEmoDavid 10 жыл бұрын
Missed one - when Christians say god doesn't love LGBT's - do think you should do a video/spoken word on this..... but otherwise I agree with all of these, ESP the last one :)
@pianopalooza
@pianopalooza 10 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOSH THE 60 SECOND GREETING. It is always so awkward.
@83croissant
@83croissant 9 жыл бұрын
they should stop saying "love the sinner, hate the sin" if they don't actually love the sinner
@rubycupcake2117
@rubycupcake2117 7 жыл бұрын
Us Christians are also sinners there are some Christians out there who make Christians look real bad and that is not how Christians are suppose to act but of course media only like to show Christians like that and it give people a impression of how we act and there are churches who are just bad and I love my church is open lovely place
@uchechukwuoguchi9769
@uchechukwuoguchi9769 7 жыл бұрын
Ruby Cupcake21 once we are born again, we are no longer sinners...you are not a sinner, you've been redeemed. Your nature has been changed, and now your citizenship is in Heaven!
@P1P2P3_59
@P1P2P3_59 7 жыл бұрын
83croissant we do love the sinner, at least i do💗
@boopsnootandboogie
@boopsnootandboogie 5 жыл бұрын
When most of the time they don't show any signs of loving the sinner. Cringe.
@missylou82
@missylou82 3 жыл бұрын
That’s not even in the Bible. That saying.
@danallejones992
@danallejones992 8 жыл бұрын
Jefferson can you do a video on Being Christian In a non Christian family
@Finalsuspect1468
@Finalsuspect1468 10 жыл бұрын
To comment on no. 3 at my church we solved the awkward forced meet and greet by offering lots of free food like bagels, donuts, coffee, trail mix, fresh fruit and veggies right in the auditorium that they open up after worship. That's the way to let relationships happen in my opinion.
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
i like that!!! food is always something I show up for and and a great way to make connections! :D
@pursuing222
@pursuing222 10 жыл бұрын
That's cool! We do something like that where at the end of service we almost always have food, and people stay long afterwards and enjoy the fellowship, even during our Thursday evening studies as well, sometimes people are hanging around an hour or 2 after service!
@missJellycastle
@missJellycastle 7 жыл бұрын
Finalsuspect1468
@Zaph501
@Zaph501 10 жыл бұрын
That first thing is probably people misusing the verse I listed below. It says that God will not let you be TEMPTED beyond what you can handle, but there are plenty of other hardships that will happen to you that you do need to lean on God for strength because you can't handle them. "There hath no temptation taken hold of you but such as is common to man. But God is faithful; He will not suffer you to be tempted beyond that which ye are able to bear, but with the temptation will also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it." 1 Corinthians 10:13 This verse is only talking about sin and temptation and is not every hardship in life.
@suvarenee
@suvarenee 10 жыл бұрын
Whether Christian, spiritual or undecided, I don't appreciate it when *anyone* says "Everything happens for a reason."
@TokinMystic12
@TokinMystic12 10 жыл бұрын
Jesus suffered greatly in a cross....for a reason.
@leonkennedy1259
@leonkennedy1259 10 жыл бұрын
I use to think the same thing but with every little thing specially stuff that just pops out like "it was suppose to happen" is kinda ironic. There's a handful of things in my life that was like that. Kinda stuff that happened and kinda laughing way. Idk how to explain it. It's like the phrase "God must think this is funny that's why He did it." Anyways after my experiences and stuff that couldn't be coincidental and my chats with God I know everything happens for a reason. Whatever that specific reason is I don't know. I just know it happens for a reason. It's God's plan. I don't know if every little thing that happens for a reason like something real small I think just happens but there are some things that do happen for a reason. I don't know what God's plan for me is or the reason why some stuff happens but I'm still trying to find out. Whatever His plan, this life He has for me is Hell. It's terrible. I hate life and want to die honestly. A lot if of the junk I deal with is having a drug addicted mother and a dead beat dad who left when I was newborn. We were always homeless growing up with my mom's psychotic boyfriends and whatever few friends she had would do unspeakable things to me and my brothers. We all were eventually taken away by the state. Kinda too late I think cause my brother was 16 and I 14. My brother and I dropped out of high school. We were placed in terrible programs that the staff there did the same things to us as my mom. One of the programs were even shut down by the state cause they went in after a client died. I don't want to go further but I will say this. My life is one huge story. Too much too tell. My life is complete Hell. Almost everybody I ever met used me as a punching bag. I hate life and everything in it and I've been wanting to die since I was like 10 cause of my life situation. I have no control over it. The people who are, cause chaos. I hate feeling depressed cause of other people all the time. The only reason I haven't offed myself yet cause I'll go to Hell if I do. There is no good in the world. It's evil cause of the evil people in it. From my life I came to believe almost everybody in the world is evil and no way religious. I get crapped on all the time for being Catholic. I hate it. I hate life. I wish I could just die tomorrow. Just let me say goodbye to the few people I care about first then I'll gladly go. The afterlife I wish is better than this. I'm afraid it's not gonna be. I'm afraid I'm gonna burn. When I pass I doubt that I'd even choose to go into the light cause of that fear. I think I'll become a sad helpless tortured soul that you always hear about. I don't know what God's plan is for me is but I wish He will end my misery soon. I'll probably find out when I pass.
@TokinMystic12
@TokinMystic12 10 жыл бұрын
leonkennedy1259 And the Lord said, I have surely seen the affliction of my people which are in Egypt, and have heard their cry by reason of their taskmasters; for I know their sorrows; - Exodus 3:7 The Lord knows your sorrow , but you have to seek him with all your heart, I hate to say this but its true , you will never find the true Jesus in the Catholic Church. He wants to set you free , free from the world of Pharoh (where the rest of the world is) set you free from your pain he is the provider of the Exodus (Escape) , will you follow him ?
@Lightmypath17
@Lightmypath17 7 жыл бұрын
leonkennedy1259 please know that you are loved. You are loved by Jesus Christ. You are loved by me, and all the others who have read your story. What the deacon in my church tells me is that, we are living in a dream here on earth, asleep up in heaven. It's a bad dream of course, he says we should do all we can to make it a good dream. But it's easier said than done. Anyways just know that soon Jesus Christ will come again, I know you are in misery, but keep Jesus in your heart and mind please. I hope you are in a better place now than you were two years ago when you wrote that comment. God bless you my friend.
@living4christ425
@living4christ425 7 жыл бұрын
suvarenee I'm a Christian and I hate it when people say that.
@GrahamCDowns
@GrahamCDowns 8 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with all but one of these. Your last one: "You need to forgive yourself." I don't think people mean what you think they mean when they say that. Okay, maybe it could be put a little clearer, but to me, it means more "Jesus has forgiven you, but you're hanging on to unforgiveness, and/or you haven't accepted the fact that Jesus has forgiven you." At least, that's what *I* mean when I say it. Jesus has forgiven you, and that's great, but if you can't accept the fact that He has forgiven you, you're never going to move on. Otherwise, awesome video. Thumbs up! :)
@sonotforyou5588
@sonotforyou5588 7 жыл бұрын
Graham Downs (Author) what by having fear lol no THANKS
@jnefoster
@jnefoster 10 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear your thoughts on how we need to build people up instead of knocking them down. I have been bashed by other "Christians" because I believe that by giving my testimony and praying for others (non-believers) instead of just walking away from them. I also believe we are all held accountable and should be responsible for your own salvation through Christ not going out and shoving my belief down throats to offer others "salvation". You have really helped me understand what it is to walk the walk and not just talk the talk. Thank you
@liztan123
@liztan123 10 жыл бұрын
Yep!!! I find that many, including myself earlier in life, are turned off by God simply because His body, the Church, can be unwelcoming. Not all, but some. God does not focus on where we have been or what we have done in our past, but on what we are DOING - present tense - and will do to renew our minds and lives. Actions speak more powerfully than words; I have been touched more by those who acted in Godly love towards me than those who simply judged me so I hope to reflect that to others in the way it affected me!
@jnefoster
@jnefoster 10 жыл бұрын
Lizzy Tan Thats exactly it! God won't love us more or even less because of something we have said or done. Even when we backslide a bit. That is were grace comes in. He shows me grace, I pay it forward. At least that is my goal every day.
@tiredofchurchs7407
@tiredofchurchs7407 9 жыл бұрын
" ya aint hearing me" " can i get a witness" " you need to get into the Word"
@ValorWarrior5258
@ValorWarrior5258 8 жыл бұрын
I thank and praise God that I watched this. I didn't realize that I was actually doing one of these things. Then I remembered the scripture as you were talking, (Matthew 5:37) Let your communication be yea yea; nay nay: for whatsoever is more than these comets of evil. In recent years my husband and I have been invited to attend several churches by people in our community, and I have literally said as my reply: "let us pray about it" and then I haven't responded as I said. I repent and confess my fault now, and I desire to get my heart in line with what I need to do to correct it. Glory and Praise to God for his mercy and understanding, and for continuing to love me and give me knowledge and understanding about what my life is about...Him. And serving Him well.
@beckycook4936
@beckycook4936 9 жыл бұрын
Hey Jeff! Thanks for all the videos you make! It's great to see someone so boldly reaching out to the lost, especially in light of all the obvious opposition. Keep on doing what you're doing! I will definitely be praying for you and your family as you live out what it means to follow God :) You are such an inspiration. God's doing amazing things through you, and I can't wait to see what He has in store for you!
@ilyanyao3594
@ilyanyao3594 10 жыл бұрын
I love what you've said about the "God helps those who help themselves" I totally agree with you!
@Chiyenworkout
@Chiyenworkout 9 жыл бұрын
Ilyan Yao Socialist commie! His point number are love by commie Marxist
@iTerabithia
@iTerabithia 10 жыл бұрын
If you could talk about what 'you wish you knew as a teen' sort of thing that would be awesome.
@curtisaiello9270
@curtisaiello9270 10 жыл бұрын
Oh now that is major fuel for testimony-time right there! Had I known what I know now as an adult Christian when I was younger, I'd have saved a lot of emotional issues, time and money, right about the time the economy came crashing down.
@shawncooper7135
@shawncooper7135 10 жыл бұрын
The Gospel is simple, the life is hard, man makes it difficult, sin refuses it, the race is long, the salvation is unimaginable, the redemption is breath taking, the hope is to die for, and I love it!!
@lexidacy3772
@lexidacy3772 9 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is going through a really rough time. What you had to say about grief and loving someone in their grief really helped me a lot. Sometimes I just don't know what to do to help him but this reminded me I can be right there by his side in his moments of grief and simply be a loving friend who will sit with him in the sad moments. Thank you so much for making this video. You pointed out some absolutely fantastic truths about some stuff we say in church that we might not recognize as untruthful, senseless, or misleading.
@benwarren7927
@benwarren7927 9 жыл бұрын
I really liked the last one. because people told me I just needed to forgive myself. but I felt that I did, and the bad feeling was still there. till I was shown, that I cant grant forgiveness, only God can. so I sought his forgiveness. and received it. that when I felt true to myself again and my family and friends. really like your videos. and hope you keep them going.
@dgc1347
@dgc1347 9 жыл бұрын
HughJaxident67 Friend, you are missing a few steps to your calculation, that is why it is coming up short.
@FredaDeniseDarden241
@FredaDeniseDarden241 8 жыл бұрын
Love what you are doing. my 15 year old daughter enjoys hearing from you. Keep up the good work
@heidels629
@heidels629 9 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel and I can't get enough! I've been binge watching all day. Thank you so much for these videos and putting into words what I've been trying to for so long!! Can't wait to get the audiobook!!!!
@trishalessio
@trishalessio 10 жыл бұрын
I agree with all ten of these! Thank you so much for putting into words, what I've been trying to express for years. My pet peeve has always been hearing people say "God helps those who help themselves." Thanks for setting that straight! Be blessed!
@Chiyenworkout
@Chiyenworkout 9 жыл бұрын
Tricia Alessio Offcourse you hate that word! Because you are a commie
@elliemanley1671
@elliemanley1671 8 жыл бұрын
I go to a Christian school and my principal always says 'I just need to love on some kids' 😂😂
@OliviaPlummer
@OliviaPlummer 8 жыл бұрын
That is just so grosse!
@miapdx503
@miapdx503 6 жыл бұрын
Ellie Manley Oh Lord, that ain't right!😂😂😂
@-Epiphany
@-Epiphany 6 жыл бұрын
Side eye fo him...all day everyday
@SamuelFitdawg
@SamuelFitdawg 6 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😉✌👍❤💯%
@kingsdaughter83
@kingsdaughter83 6 жыл бұрын
Ellie Manley lolol ewwwww 😂😂😂😂
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship 10 жыл бұрын
I think the church visiting and saying hi is great tho.. I love that my church does this, its a blessing to communicate and know others of God
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
agreed!!! :D I love it and have met great people from it! Just was joking that sometimes it's incredibly awkward and forced haha
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship 10 жыл бұрын
Haha respect bro
@LovelyCrazyDary
@LovelyCrazyDary 10 жыл бұрын
Yeah but visiting a church for the first time is suuuupeeerrr awkward its better that if you by your own initiative identify the visit and go up to them and say hi after the service is over. Its less awkward for the visit and it shows genuine interest and the connection fills more natural instead of force politeness.
@LovelyCrazyDary
@LovelyCrazyDary 10 жыл бұрын
Dary Collazo feels*
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship 10 жыл бұрын
Dary Collazo I understand, it can be awkward. But for some people they are looking for a church home and they want to feel "welcomed" or "loved"...
@Pinkbee711
@Pinkbee711 10 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the way you speak God's word! It's so simple and on point! It speaks to me every time. Every single time.
@Photocandi
@Photocandi 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these tips. I'm glad I'm not the only one at church feeling awkward with the "Say hi to your neighbor"request. They give us 4 minutes to fill and it's sometimes overwhelming.
@christinacorona7097
@christinacorona7097 10 жыл бұрын
Can you please do a video on panic attacks and anxiety. Love your videos, you and Alyssa are just so amazing.
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship
@TheSportsandFilmFellowship 10 жыл бұрын
Keep up the great work Jeff!!!!
@jeremylord7649
@jeremylord7649 10 жыл бұрын
You've opened my eyes even more and I am very thankful for your videos! Please keep doing what you are doing!
@blacbeuti
@blacbeuti 8 жыл бұрын
I see Gods love showing through you , man my husband has to love God soon much and I see that in you ... Keep strong and God bless
@acousticselection
@acousticselection 10 жыл бұрын
great video brother..keep pointing people to Jesus!
@xenomann442
@xenomann442 10 жыл бұрын
why doesn't God point people to Jesus? In fact, why is God always hiding in the clouds? There's no reason he shouldn't be present in our lives.
@xenomann442
@xenomann442 10 жыл бұрын
***** But I mean why doesn't he physically appear to us like in the OT or like he did to the disciples and Paul in the NT? That way there people wouldn't have any reason to doubt him, and a lot more people would get saved.
@xenomann442
@xenomann442 10 жыл бұрын
***** But Moses saw God face to face (Ex 33:11) and the seventy elders of Israel (Ex 24:9-11).and Abraham did as well (Genesis 12:7). Also God is all powerful he's be able to make it, so that we won't die by simply seeing him. Wouldn't that be better for all of humanity?
@Mikaela339
@Mikaela339 10 жыл бұрын
Adam Wojtczak there's the father, the son, and the spirit. Three different people manifested in three different ways. They aren't the same nor are they coequal. Many times Jesus talks about going to Father John 20:17 or lifting up the father. How can you ascend to yourself? Doesn't make sense right? The person moses saw face to face was Jesus not the father. The father is a spirit only seen by Jesus. Jesus intercedes for us to the father so obviously we can't see him. I know this is a very complex topic I'm still trying to fathom it...hope I cleared up some stuff
@xenomann442
@xenomann442 10 жыл бұрын
Mikaela Mirabal How do you know that Moses saw Jesus and not the father? If that fact was well established, there wouldn't be such a thing as Jews. (since they wouldn't be able to deny Jesus' divinity, if it was mentioned in the OT)
@BP-ne1bl
@BP-ne1bl 9 жыл бұрын
NO BELIEVER:OOO Christian video...let's hate on That...oo look another one ...Let's Hate ...Why why???
@BP-ne1bl
@BP-ne1bl 9 жыл бұрын
Non*
@CarrieArt7
@CarrieArt7 9 жыл бұрын
BP TV Because of intolerance for other's beliefs.
@thewonderfulwizardoftheweb1053
@thewonderfulwizardoftheweb1053 8 жыл бұрын
+BP TV (BPG) I'm not hating. I just commented some facts about this sky fairy that you people like so much.
@CarrieArt7
@CarrieArt7 8 жыл бұрын
Thewonderfulwizardoftheweb God is not a "sky fairy," & no belittling comments from atheists is not going to change that. People who continue to use such immature arguments are not taken seriously. Have real & mature conversations with someone, not resort to insults & mockery like Bill Maher.
@conradritchie2236
@conradritchie2236 8 жыл бұрын
+BP TV (USA #1) And Jesus said "You will be hated by everyone because of me"
@luthermaxwell3154
@luthermaxwell3154 10 жыл бұрын
This is so good Jeff. Especially number 7. I've been in that situation so many times! The prayer route is such an easy getaway, but i believe it's best to tell someone what you really think about an issue That requires just a yes or no. It's one of the "habits" some of us tend to have. We need to understand that we should not feel pressured about stuff like that. Say it as it is if it's obvious.
@rainajibin
@rainajibin 8 жыл бұрын
Spot on! Ministry of presence :) I know for me personally just knowing that there is someone to sit with me is great ! I think the part where most of us go wrong is when we try to help by overreaching, sometimes all they need is space!
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
NEW VIDEO! Any fun or serious ones you'd add to the list?!
@dlx6028
@dlx6028 10 жыл бұрын
Good points Jeff. Everything doesn't happen for a reason. Some things happen because there is a realm of evil who is given authority by some to kill, steal & destroy. And a lot of things happen because of our own doing i.e wrong choices, impulse decisions, lack of trust. God is Love & God is always good. To say that God is testing you or He allowed misfortune to happen is complete heresy & misunderstanding of our Creator.
@isearchforfullmoons
@isearchforfullmoons 10 жыл бұрын
Jayne Hunter-Rhys Jayne, I'm an American, born and raised, and it always bothers me to hear people say, "Oh my god!" I do think it's using the Lord's name in vain, but a lot of people don't consider it so for some reason or a lot of people aren't believers so they don't think of it as the Lord's name. The unfortunate thing is that since I've been hearing it ever since kindergarten, it's become less distressing to me. :/ We need lots of prayer here in America; I think a lot of people become too complacent--myself included--and sin becomes a little issue instead of THE issue.
@isearchforfullmoons
@isearchforfullmoons 10 жыл бұрын
Jayne Hunter-Rhys Thank you for your prayers, Jayne! We live in dark times. We should all band together and pray for believers all over the world and that we become vessels God can use to spread His word! :)
@acenog123
@acenog123 10 жыл бұрын
What are your thoughts on the end times?
@Trentonwestphal
@Trentonwestphal 10 жыл бұрын
Jefferson, months ago i asked you to mention Gospel in your videos, prayed for happen, and, it happened, The last thing you said, thank you. When people are in pain, and seek forgiveness and God's Grace, we give them the Gospel, not the Law. Jefferson, if i may ask, and you can private message me this also, what branch of Christianity are you, Ex. I'm Missouri Lutheran.
@Jarhead6
@Jarhead6 10 жыл бұрын
Very true bro! Thanks for sharing!
@kevinbrislawn5918
@kevinbrislawn5918 7 жыл бұрын
We in our church are now going through a series of misused phrases and scriptures people use all the time..thanks for your site!
@oliverkostic4467
@oliverkostic4467 9 жыл бұрын
You are doing a great job! You speak out of my heart! God bless you & your family!
@MusiColeMF
@MusiColeMF 10 жыл бұрын
I believe that the "Turn around and greet your neighbor" thing is a tactic used by worship teams. If they did not say that, and just walked off the stage, it would be awkward for THEM.
@go4goldandgod
@go4goldandgod 10 жыл бұрын
Yea I think its a flow thing to make the service run smoothly. Guys like me who have short attention spans and need to get up and have a break. Actually think its fine ;)
@glenstute5440
@glenstute5440 10 жыл бұрын
I don't really like it either, but some people DO! I think we can just suck it up for those that are blessed by this tactic. So we are uncomfortable for 60 seconds. Get over it! There are those that would never even be spoken to at church if this wasn't being done. Yes, sad, I know. But if you can't sacrifice your precious feelings for 60 lousy seconds... stays in the parking lot!
@LovelyCrazyDary
@LovelyCrazyDary 10 жыл бұрын
I would love for Alyssa to make more videos!!
@nicholasadam192
@nicholasadam192 9 жыл бұрын
I really loved the last things we should never say. I've been struggling with this a lot in my internship as a music therapy student. We talk about improving ourselves, forgiving ourselves, meditating, doing yoga, and looking inward to ourselves (all this new age stuff). I feel torn because God is taken completely out of the picture and I can't do that. They're telling me essentially to make music my god which again I will not do. I think we need to understand who God is and what He has done for us. Once we can wrap our minds around that, we can finally move forward.
@cesarburgos5403
@cesarburgos5403 8 жыл бұрын
dude man thank you so much people you to always tell me that God only help those who are willing to help them self thank you its a big relief in my heart
@DivinexSerenity
@DivinexSerenity 10 жыл бұрын
I feel like showing this video to so many people I know....
@zfish1995
@zfish1995 10 жыл бұрын
I disagree about the first one. "I will never tempt you beyond what you can bear" 1 Cor. 10:13
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884 10 жыл бұрын
withing context its talking about sexuality :)
@TheNailGardner
@TheNailGardner 10 жыл бұрын
I take that to mean that if you're a recovering alcoholic, God would not test your faith by tempting you with a drink. He will not give you more than you can bare. If you were to be tempted with a drink, that is of the devil. The devil tempts you, God give you trials. So for example, a struggle with alcoholism is a trial. God wants you to lean on Him to make it through. If while recovering from alcoholism, you are offered a drink, that's the devil trying to tempt you.
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884 10 жыл бұрын
but then that would mean god doesn't have control over everything you see with job, god let the devil do evil against him, you're right god didn't do the evil but he let it happen
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884
@soniamendez-rodriguez7884 10 жыл бұрын
Adam Wojtczak to show that believers follow not only through good but through bad im pretty sure.
@dewuidew
@dewuidew 6 жыл бұрын
you missed a key word in that verse "BUT" and also did not cite the whole verse. "But when you are tempted, he WILL also PROVIDE A WAY OUT so that you can endure it."
@kvanbeulen1558
@kvanbeulen1558 10 жыл бұрын
I'm from South Africa, and I haven't heard most of those besides number one and two. I really enjoyed it though and also enjoy your poetry videos. You partially inspired my courage to share my own poems with others, thanks
@timmartin8528
@timmartin8528 9 жыл бұрын
I have the gift of discernment and it never fells me. so you are the real deal bro..doing Gods work. your amazing
@corrietrue6347
@corrietrue6347 10 жыл бұрын
Also when people say "that wasn't very Christian". Like Christians are perfect people. I think Christ-like is a more appropriate term.
@boogaloohowie5105
@boogaloohowie5105 10 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@ErikaSimone
@ErikaSimone 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this, I felt like saying "Amen" after each one. :)
@alisoneng
@alisoneng 7 жыл бұрын
thank you Jeff! This is so so so good. Grace grace be upon you ! Shalom to you and your family. Xx
@Cimags1028
@Cimags1028 10 жыл бұрын
I think more Christians have to be careful when saying Oh my God. I hear this blasphemy every day
@AirwaneGaming
@AirwaneGaming 10 жыл бұрын
You forgot using Jesus name in vain. You bumped your head to a door and they like Oh Jesus that hurt. slip on a banana oh Jesus. Get what I mean.
@tracytimberlake
@tracytimberlake 10 жыл бұрын
That's not what it means to use God's name in vain. not from the original hebraic perspective given to moses on sinai.
@glenstute5440
@glenstute5440 10 жыл бұрын
I think "taking God's name in vain" is proclaiming to be a Christian on the outside, but continuing in your sinful lifestyle and acting like you're not saved on the inside. Just my thoughts. What are yours?
@countryboyphilholshouser3514
@countryboyphilholshouser3514 7 жыл бұрын
Airwane Gaming Taking the Lord's name in vain does not mean... Not saying God Damn.... The Hebrew meaning is "Misuse"... Therefore The Commandment means to not use God's name for an unjust cause.... Such as the Ku Klux Klan or the Catholicism...
@sammirenee780
@sammirenee780 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you!! Your words have helped to understand what the Lord is saying! I grew up in a small Baptist church .. felt drawn to help others.. to spread His message.. and at a young age I went up to my pastor and told him I wanted to be a pastor! He laughed and told me only men are supposed to be pastors. Long story short it crushed me and I then strayed from the word fir years! He came back fir this lost sheep! What are your thoughts on woman as pastors and spreading the Word? ..
@rodneyleon3645
@rodneyleon3645 10 жыл бұрын
he just hooked me when he addressed the forcing of saying hi and shaking hands. Ive got serious social phobia and this keeps me from going to church
@bonbb3923
@bonbb3923 7 жыл бұрын
God helps those who help themselves. I find this to be true actually. I spent years in depression rotting in my house with no occupation... nothing helped me, not even God, in any way. at least not a help that i felt and was aware of. since I started doing things with my life and having professional people help me it started to get better... and when I did something, you could say that God blessed it. but without taking actions, God never elevated me and made my mood and my life any better. besides that, it all depends on us, even just praying takes an effort from the person himself that does that. and its not easy to pray and to do it regulary as a christian.
@bobpolo2964
@bobpolo2964 7 жыл бұрын
If it depended on you to do something, so that God would help you, then that devalues grace which is given freely. The fact that you were able to do something to help yourself out of depression was because of God. And if what you say is true, what about poor people? Most of them can't help themselves, yet God finds a way to send help for the needy.
@brizzylopez4741
@brizzylopez4741 9 жыл бұрын
I love on you Jefferson
@David-hk6zd
@David-hk6zd 3 ай бұрын
😁
@avarngarde5583
@avarngarde5583 10 жыл бұрын
Hey man, Aavarn here from South Africa. Loving Your Work You're one of the people inspiring me to do spoken word myself. Thanks for speaking up
@kathy.d9
@kathy.d9 7 жыл бұрын
I love how real you are! Wow this explains religious people so much they are literally "pray" about everything and they never pray from their hearts. It's about a relationship not a religion.
@armangw5680
@armangw5680 10 жыл бұрын
(from an atheist point of view) What I like about Jefferson is that he acknowledges the fact that the old testament was and stil is something truly awful, as he said in his poem video. He acknowledges the damage that religion can cause, someting i really respect him for. He is also a good youtuber :)
@kennsiedomersan40
@kennsiedomersan40 10 жыл бұрын
Religion in what way?
@Syd_3
@Syd_3 10 жыл бұрын
I don't think Jefferson was saying the old testament is awful in anyway. He's was making a point that some of those laws and traditions that were in place back then just do not apply now. Since Jesus came, a new way of living and a new life was made through him so the past was washed away meaning that a new covenant was being made. However, the Old Testament is still valuable in understanding the nature and holiness of God. The stories in the Old Testament portray his faithfulness and steadfast love to His people despite their refusal to listen and obey.
@Luisa_Ribeiro
@Luisa_Ribeiro 10 жыл бұрын
Hey Jeff, I was born in a christian family but there are so many things I'm not sure about... I've had this doubt for a while but I feel weird about asking... I just wanted to know if it's okay to name yourself as a christian "because you don't wanna go to hell". I just feel like nowadays in my church there's no real love. Just fear of going to hell... Is it okay? Is it a sin? Preachers here are like "if you don't want eternal death, become a christian" So I feel like people come to church and accept the rituals out of fear...Idk
@meashy22
@meashy22 10 жыл бұрын
Hey Luisa, You should read Jeff's book, "Jesus>Religion." He addresses exactly what you are talking about in the book. It's a fantastic read!!
@MrTheNightshade
@MrTheNightshade 10 жыл бұрын
***** You might answer correctly, sir ! How could you say there is Hell when you havn't seen it yet ? Tell me ? I dont trust the Bible, I'm from Belgium but I'm portuguese and all of my family is christian... I'm the one who doesn't believe in that religion.. Sorry for my bad English..
@curtisaiello9270
@curtisaiello9270 10 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Lack of sight is a foolish reason for disbelief. Of course we cannot visibly see Hell, and our minds probably can't even fathom what it must be like to be separated eternally from THE source of everything good, true and beautiful. We see that there is evil in the world, but if there is no God, no judgment, no Hell, then why do we see evil and call it evil, if it's "just the way people are?" I hear a lot of argument for people doing things just because "it's the way they are," but if we honestly think of that and logically extend it, then people can simply steal, kill or rape, because it's "the way they are." Hell is indeed something to fear, but we must understand WHY it should be feared. We, as Christians don't fear it because it's some scary punishment, we fear it because an eternity separated from the Creator is beyond comprehension. Many people think life is hell, but that's simply a life with struggles that can be overcome, and struggles that Christ helps us through. Remove Christ, let man be everything that its depraved, selfish nature demands, and multiply that by eternity. That's the hell we fear: man left without redemption, even by their own choice. Long story short, there's two types of people. Those who say to God, Your will be done. Those to whom God says, your will be done.
@gwynbleidd7860
@gwynbleidd7860 10 жыл бұрын
you should believe in God out of love and hopefully people will notice and do so as well, but hell isn't scary because of the pain lasting for eternity, in fact hell is an event not a place, an event where God burns everyone once and for all, so when the bible mentions being burnt forever it actually means being burnt and never coming back not living forever while being burnt, and many Christians don't know that. By the way I learned that from a KZfaq channel called "POTS Ministries || Studying The Word Of God" he also talks about other subjects that many people neglect, you should check it out. He also has another You Tube channel called "Johnathan Gardner" although be careful with that one as there are two channels called Johnathan Gardner, one is a music channel the other is religion related which is his other channel.
@curtisaiello9270
@curtisaiello9270 10 жыл бұрын
***** Why become an Atheist? What's the rational explanation for why being an Atheist is an automatic cure-all for all of life's problems?
@gwendolynhulteen7506
@gwendolynhulteen7506 10 жыл бұрын
Wow! I just stumbled across your vids and very much enjoyed the ones I've watched. Its fresh, I think its an old truth spoken to new or desensitized ears. I plan to forward. Thank you.
@katherinedonnelly6223
@katherinedonnelly6223 10 жыл бұрын
REALLY LIKED THIS SHORT VIDEO, MAKES PERFECT SENSE. THANK YOU.
@JeffersonBethkepage
@JeffersonBethkepage 10 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! You can get my audiobook for free right now at jeffbethke.com/audible
@DevinRose
@DevinRose 10 жыл бұрын
Number 11: "Relationship not religion" Bam!
@lucasmoore2470
@lucasmoore2470 10 жыл бұрын
How about a video over the age of accountability. It's a topic not many people I know try to cover.
@hopelehop7039
@hopelehop7039 10 жыл бұрын
No Body Wants That Book. Bro
@throwaway102
@throwaway102 10 жыл бұрын
HOPE Jones I would get it it actually, but I don't have a credit card
@throwaway102
@throwaway102 10 жыл бұрын
elakociak Age of Accountability? its the point in time where you can stop saying "Oh he's a kid, he just picked that up" or "He doesn't know any better." Basically when someone can't use inncocence as an excuse. Like as an 18 year old, you punch someone, you know, and everyone else knows, that's wrong. But a 5 year old punches someone, they have to be told, "no, that's wrong" and it's kind off let go, because the kid didn't know it's wrong
@GildedVoice
@GildedVoice 9 жыл бұрын
"I think god gives us way more than we can handle so we lean and depend on him" You just described god as emotionally and mentally manipulative.
@josephvega1161
@josephvega1161 6 жыл бұрын
Well, if we're discussing God, than everything pertaining to existence is a sustained manipulation of a created reality. So...
@chefxhyrule242
@chefxhyrule242 5 жыл бұрын
No he described him like how I would describe a school teacher. Teachers give difficult homework on purpose to see if a student will ask for help to solve the problem of if they'll struggle on their own that's not manipulative that's a test
@muncedev11
@muncedev11 9 жыл бұрын
All of these were spot on! The covet your prayers has always puzzled me, but I've never heard anyone speak the truth about it. Probably the one you brought up that was most needed (in my mind at least) is the one about forgiving yourself; I do not see this as a biblical principle at all, and it cheapens grace and misses the point of the gospel completely. Thanks for sharing these, Jeff!
@jonathancrawford21
@jonathancrawford21 7 жыл бұрын
good video man from the good advice even to the music in the background much love and keep it up I'm subscribing now
@FRN2013
@FRN2013 9 жыл бұрын
Mostly semantical nitpicking, but #10 is very good. Speaking of nitpicking, he says it's a 5 min video, but it's actually more than 6 min. And what's with his eternal assault on the word "religion"? James chapter 1 says religion is a good thing. We ought to oppose FALSE religion.
@Dawitness11
@Dawitness11 10 жыл бұрын
how about this The Most Not Finished Bible Quotes People love to use. For Example:1 Corinthians 2:9-10 But as it is written: “Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, Nor have entered into the heart of man The things which God has prepared for those who love Him. (It doesn't stop there you know) BUT God has REVEALED THEM TO US through His Spirit. For the Spirit searches all things, yes, the deep things of God.
@pamhaines2036
@pamhaines2036 8 жыл бұрын
I really like what you said on #3, about having 60 seconds to say "hi" to your neighbor. I hate "hug and howdy" time!
@Angellos787
@Angellos787 7 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the video, thanks a lot and keep up the good work!
@oj2314
@oj2314 10 жыл бұрын
lol that Is like the rastas "jesus is my co-pilot''>>>actually God is the pilot, Jesus the co-pilot and the flight attendant is the Holy spirit lol. At-least that makes more theological sense don't it?
@slug237711
@slug237711 7 жыл бұрын
Man, that single one couldn't be more true XD I'm 22yo and have never been in a relationship, all the while these guys I know are entering relationships, some of which are getting married. I'm just sitting here like "Don't be sad that you're single... It's God's will... don't be sad... *sniff*... DON'T BE SAD 😭" lol. Someone approaches me like, "God has blessed you with the gift of singleness" or "embrace this 'season' of singleness!" I'm a Christian so I can't punch that guy in the face XD
@churchmouse8070
@churchmouse8070 7 жыл бұрын
Good thoughts. Some items not as big of a deal as others but we all need to think some more about what we're saying.
@sheriferris5281
@sheriferris5281 10 жыл бұрын
Love all of these!!! After almost 10 yrs in ministry I can't count how many times I cringed while hearing these things spoken in the churches in have been a part of.
@artuniverse2117
@artuniverse2117 7 жыл бұрын
How about being judgmental? Cause I've had two girls from my church judge me.
@ljpoutdoors8226
@ljpoutdoors8226 7 жыл бұрын
art universe read ur bible
@SavedNation
@SavedNation 7 жыл бұрын
Like this? James 4:11-12 "Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?" Or John 8:1-8... Or Romans 14:1-13 Peace!
@UnderTheTableGremlin
@UnderTheTableGremlin 7 жыл бұрын
art universe YES.
@BabyDollBeauty13
@BabyDollBeauty13 7 жыл бұрын
art universe they are probably not really Christian just playing the part , but if they didn't say anything directly that was rude then it was probably god bringing you conviction , it's not always sunshine and rainbows we go through trials and tribulations , and god will bring you conviction to grow stronger in his word and become a better Christian , hope it helps
@Imrepenting
@Imrepenting 10 жыл бұрын
You should make a video on how annoying it is for Christians to talk as if they're still living in the 17th century King James era. I hate it when Christians try to preach to each other and especially sinners like that. It creates the impression that the we (the Church) are fake, churchy, traditional, and unreachable to the sinner which pushes them away form God. It's 2014 TALK NORMAL!!!
@JesusRedeemerPage
@JesusRedeemerPage 10 жыл бұрын
Whats wrong with Christians preaching to one another and are traditional?
@Imrepenting
@Imrepenting 10 жыл бұрын
Redeemer Page You could reread what I typed because I think you misunderstood me.
@JesusRedeemerPage
@JesusRedeemerPage 10 жыл бұрын
Yeah I read it again.If people get the impression that Christians are traditional nothing is wrong and why do you hate when Christians try to preach to each other
@andrewduck9758
@andrewduck9758 9 жыл бұрын
*normally
@tanyacurtis6016
@tanyacurtis6016 9 жыл бұрын
Redeemer Page It does sharpen the skills!
@moderndayservantpicturesll6485
@moderndayservantpicturesll6485 9 жыл бұрын
I love this video, especially #5! Thank you for defending us single people!!! I'm glad you get it because most people don't (non-Christians included). Besides your answer, I usually get "Why aren't you dating? Have you tried any dating websites?" like they're trying to get me to force it on myself because it's just not okay for me to be single. Or they just look at me like there's something wrong with me. And here's one to add to the list: "Why don't you want kids?" No one should have to explain to people why they don't want kids, nor do they deserve a harsh look of judgement.
@Creativemadness13JC
@Creativemadness13JC 7 жыл бұрын
These are so good. God bless you and your family!!!
@scottg3110
@scottg3110 9 жыл бұрын
As a former evangelical....you folks, and the things you say (including the key phrases that identify you as born again)...is highly annoying. I never felt better when I ceased going to services. Shortly after that I realized I didn't even believe in a God anymore. One of the BEST conclusions I've ever had in my life.
@whoyathought400
@whoyathought400 10 жыл бұрын
I find this guy kinda creepy
@sequoiaconner4057
@sequoiaconner4057 10 жыл бұрын
that's just rude
@arizzy1681
@arizzy1681 6 жыл бұрын
Me your creepy tf
@racheleskers5021
@racheleskers5021 10 жыл бұрын
Sam and Nia brought me to your channel!! So happy the suggested it! I just subscribed.
@entr1052
@entr1052 8 жыл бұрын
Another statement that struck me recently in our small group during a healthy debate on our Bible reading, when a group member said, "Let me play Devil's advocate!" - What flooded my mind was, "No, the Devil doesn't need an advocate!" - We shouldn't be an advocate for the Devil, right?! Anyway, keep doing what you are doing... provides so much growth in our Christian walk! Love you!
@jerryking1807
@jerryking1807 9 жыл бұрын
Jefferson, stop making money off of people's ignorance. Lose your support/ donations button. You probably make enough off viewers views. Where is all of this money going to? Stop being so greedy , start showing evidence to support your position instead of empty words.
@lamarleaton5948
@lamarleaton5948 9 жыл бұрын
Hsn 111guxswad
@DustinZilbauer35
@DustinZilbauer35 9 жыл бұрын
At the 4:30 mark, you claim that god helps the downtrodden and those who have no ability to help themselves. Is that so? Observe the following passages from Matthew 6:31-33: *31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.* The above passages clearly indicate that Jesus takes care of the needs of his faithful. With these passages clearly in mind, pull up a map of world hunger and poverty rates. Then pull up a map of predominantly Christian nations and juxtapose the two maps. You will find a significant overlap. Everyday, thousands of the people in these nations, including children, will starve to death. These are people who worship the very same god that you do. My question to you is this: Why hasn't god helped these people who are clearly downtrodden and can't help themselves?
@Chiyenworkout
@Chiyenworkout 9 жыл бұрын
Dustin Zilbauer Stupid socialist commie! People who not help themselves do not deserve from anyone to begin with.
@saundrabuck1039
@saundrabuck1039 9 жыл бұрын
Dustin Zilbauer So you know these people personally? you know inside of their hearts? You can tell that they love the Lord their God with all their heart and all their soul? Which is the first commandment with Promise! Only God knows the heart of man. I can tell as a person who has known Missionaries and people who have come from some of these countries, that Yes, God feeds the hungry that are serving him, while people all around them perish.
@grace-forever
@grace-forever 7 жыл бұрын
Young Turks, A very good & difficult question. One of ways God feeds the hungry is through other people. Unfortunately many Christians in the West have not helped as they should.... And our nations continue to exploit the poor through capitalism. You raise a very good point. There is so much injustice. Jesus bore that injustice on the cross and He knows what it is like to experience that on a level beyond understanding. He went through suffering. And I know that He comforts those who believe in His name who suffer (I experience illness & know and experience that, though I don't live in a 3rd world nation). We still live in a very much broken world... Jesus also did not deny that hunger/suffering exists: "Blessed are you who are hungry now, for you shall be satisfied." - Luke 6:21. Any of His followers who do suffer hunger or thirst will be rewarded later. The question is: Are you/am I willing to believe in a God who I don't fully understand? And trust that God is good?
@meyersmedley
@meyersmedley 10 жыл бұрын
Amen, amen and amen! Sent over from Sam and Nia. Loved this video!
@sssiren1159
@sssiren1159 10 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!! I heard you talk about being able to get your audio book on one of your other videos. So the advice taker that I am, I went and bought your book instead, and I am half way through. Excited to read doesn't cover it. I read your book everyday on the Jam-packed Train to work. ~Thank you I'm not Religious, I'm covered by Grace!
@fulleffectsboy4231
@fulleffectsboy4231 9 жыл бұрын
One of the ones you didn't mention which i really hate is the STUPID saying - "God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve" Well God didn't create things like modern medicine like antibiotics or machines like pace makers and life support machines either but that doesn't mean we cant use them and have them in our modern day lives. But im guessing you probably agree with that particular saying and dont believe gay ppl can have loving and meaningful, long term relationships that aren't just about sex, Christians often say you shouldn't have sex before marriage, well thats why many gay ppl want the right to get married and thank fully now most of us can...
@phrajanickolis279
@phrajanickolis279 9 жыл бұрын
HughJaxident67 Yes you can religion is ONLY an ideology, THATS IT. You can be Christan and gay, heck you can be Christan and budist for all I care. Stop using the stupid no true Scotsman fallacy. Because modern day Christans compared to Christans in the far past would be considered "no true christan" So back off, this is comming from an atheist.
@phrajanickolis279
@phrajanickolis279 9 жыл бұрын
fulleffects boy do no worry you are as much of a Christman as everyone else...
@glendamclachlan5021
@glendamclachlan5021 9 жыл бұрын
Phraja Nickolis God created Man for the express purpose of mutual relationship with him, but gave Man the power of choice and free will. Man chose to break that relationship and has been trying to find his own way by inventing religions and cults of all kinds in an effort to replace that void left by lack of relationship with his Creator. But relationship with God cannot be found through religion. In fact, religion is the biggest roadblock to seeking a relationship with God. Religion is simply Man trying to reach out to God by doing something that he thinks will please God. “If I can do enough, say enough, pray enough, give enough, sacrifice enough perhaps God will show me favor”. Every religion is based upon this “works theology”. “But my denomination teaches…” Do you really believe that God favors your denomination over others? Quite the contrary, if your denomination professes to be “the only true way”, I can pretty well guarantee that it isn’t! Do you think that God’s intention was to have dozens of different denominations of His Church? They can’t all be right, and more than likely they’re all wrong. Old Testament shows you several references and Jesus Christ Himself said concerning religion. Isaiah 1:13-14 states, “Bring no more vain oblations; incense is an abomination unto me; the new moons and Sabbaths, the calling of assemblies…it is iniquity…Your new moons and your appointed feasts my soul hateth: they are a trouble unto me; I am weary to bear them.” Amos 5:21 says, “I hate, I despise your feast days, and I will not smell (the odors of their sacrifices) in your solemn assemblies.” He hath showed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God.”
@phrajanickolis279
@phrajanickolis279 9 жыл бұрын
Glenda McLachlan Im no christan. Im atheist...
@phrajanickolis279
@phrajanickolis279 9 жыл бұрын
HughJaxident67 No one cares, like I said, compared christans in the far past, you yourself would be seen as "no true Christan"the same way you rezent progressive Christians, past christans would rezent you. Manyt things u accept now the past christans didn't accept.Your situation no different than mormons who suddenly are ok with black people in the church. Religion's culture changes its views to keep up with humanity, otherwise it would die. It just a religion NOTHING else but a simple belief system which literally ANYONE can have, a belief system that is. Your religion is like santa anybody can interpret it WHATEVER the way they want the same goes with other religions and idelogies.
@dagoose109
@dagoose109 10 жыл бұрын
1. Do not claim to hate religion when you Idolize Jesus and the Bible.
@wastedninjadude
@wastedninjadude 10 жыл бұрын
Religion, in the most basic understanding, is what man does to get close to God. Christianity, with this understanding of the definition of "religion", is not a religion because Christianity is all about what God has done by his own grace to bring us back to him. It's the complete opposite of religion, is more of a relationship than a religion. Sure there are the same aspects that you find in religion like having faith and conforming your moral compass but Christianity is completely different than any other faith.
@dagoose109
@dagoose109 10 жыл бұрын
Cameron Lopez God was never lost in the first place, so any man-made attempts to 'Find God" are based upon a false premise. Everyone and Everything in Creation has both a Personal and Impersonal Relationship with God, or Life----otherwise they would not even exist in the first place.
@infocenter3335
@infocenter3335 10 жыл бұрын
Jesus & God Are one. Jesus said " I am in the father and the father is in me, those who have seen me have seen the father"
@dagoose109
@dagoose109 10 жыл бұрын
Pigette West Everyone and everything are One with God or they would not even exist in the first place. If you choose to worship God in the form of a 2000 year old male homo sapien that is up to you.
@wastedninjadude
@wastedninjadude 10 жыл бұрын
dagoose109 How do you know for sure that mere existence automatically equates to oneness with God?
@masegomothei7082
@masegomothei7082 10 жыл бұрын
Always awesome to watch one of your videos. Thanks so much Jeff :)
@awesomeandrew1193
@awesomeandrew1193 6 жыл бұрын
This is a phenomenal video. I truly enjoyed the truths you spoke in it. God bless you, brother.
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