10 Things every HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON should know (Must-know HSP tips)

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In today's video, I share 10 Things every highly sensitive person should know. These are my most-know HSP tips for all the sensitive people out there. I feel very passionate about empowering sensitive people and I'm so happy to have this platform to connect with all of you about this topic, and to hear what's on your mind. Self care, mental health, emotional health and all that good stuff!
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A trait you're born with 1:30
Uniquely different 4:32
A true gift 5:43
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Stimuli won't bite 9:40
A slower, simpler life 10:30
Emotional boundaries 11:41
Your sensitivity is powerful 13:05
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@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

What else would you like me to make a video about, when it comes to high sensitivity? Drop your suggestions here! 🤗🍵

@marisacooper5364 3 ай бұрын

I came to your channel this morning to view one of your morning self-care routine videos, I was pleasantly happy to see this new video just posted - love your routines, they remind me to slow down. Other topics you touch on so well are self organization, not over planning, managing mental clutter and finding calm in moments of over stimulation ...

@MissyAthena 3 ай бұрын

I would love some tips on managing overstimulation in social situations 😊 eg. how to handle being the center of attention when it can be SO overstimulating

@sallgal 3 ай бұрын

Navigating relationships with family and frienships with those who have a hard time understanding HSPs.

@sallgal 3 ай бұрын

I’m definitely a highly sensitive person. Understanding that has helped me navigate my life better. 🙏💕✨

@Hyruleangela 3 ай бұрын

Anything, really! Maybe tips on how not to feel guilty for needing boundaries, or how to speak up for yourself in confrontational public settings 😅

@ingebird3380 2 ай бұрын

I am happier staying away from people. I enjoy spending time with my fur babies and only leave my home when I need things.

@gabriellemiller1702 2 ай бұрын

Completely agree! I spend most of my time with my dogs and will go out when I really need necessities or to visit family!

@watermelonlover745 2 ай бұрын

Me too

@Jennifer-bs6oy Ай бұрын

Ditto

@amycortez3289 Ай бұрын

Same! I am so happy in my own company. At home with my dog is best.

@sarahspeaksup Ай бұрын

Same , my cat is such a buddy to me even likes going for car rides - it’s okay that I’m picky about people time I’ve learned

@linnulman5883 3 ай бұрын

Known since 1996. Here's a story: Last year, for reasons that were not a fire, the fire alarm at work went off for an hour. I just continued doing my work. It was pretty awful. Another person, not HSP and much tougher than I, was more freaked out and told me I was giving off such a sense of calm. I wasn't feeling calm! But I realized that they were freaking out a little because they were not used to be over-stimulated. But I was! So I had coping strategies that just clicked in because I need them all the time. And I handled that situation better than they. Do NOT let anyone convince you that HSPs are not strong. As Vera said, different strong. But strong.

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Love this ❤️

@TamarKnochel 3 ай бұрын

Thank you SO MUCH for sharing this!!!!! YES!!!!!

@tonyapatterson7729 3 ай бұрын

Yes! Exactly!!

@goodenoughgirl8102 2 ай бұрын

I can relate. I had an actual stove fire (no worries….no one and nothing was harmed) but it was quite a dramatic sight. The girl that was here helping me freaked out and I just stood there like ok. Well will you just look at that. Wow. Later we joked about how it seemingly didn’t phase me. I think for me it was more or less having been through some tough crap in life and so to me this was “just another tricky day” and I already knew how to cope with various erratic and unexpected things.

@mdillard881 Ай бұрын

Yes, me and my husband do better in emergencies or tough times. It is like a super power kicks in.

@connieseward8773 2 ай бұрын

There is a quote by Mary Anne Radmacher that goes “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow. '”. Lovely video btw 🌸

@Ametista_acpc 3 ай бұрын

i am hsp and disable, when my nephew was 2 years old he tell me every day "when i grow up i want to be strong like you"

@melaniemuller-schroder4555 2 ай бұрын

Lovely little boy and speaking the truth and being so supportive, this warms my heart. ❤

@stillnotstill Ай бұрын

It warms my heart too! Thank you so much for sharing it 😊😊

@user-oy8kk4hh4t Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. I'm in tears. I'm 62 years old and never had anyone explain "me" so well. And I've been in therapy since jr high. No one has ever said that I am okay. Bless you 🙏

@Grungefan2018 15 күн бұрын

Not only was it not explained, I was mocked and humiliated by my own mother and family. It wasnt like I was running around offended either. I just remember fighting tears when a sad song or movie was on. Emotionally abusive mother etc and I just isolated myself more and more. I never understood why I needed so much alone time after 40 hours of work a week. That didnt leave any time for nurturing friendships. At 61 yrs old I am so isolated it is scary as heck.

@chillibird2511 3 ай бұрын

I've been told to not be so sensitive and after years of being quiet, I respond 'that's me'.

@jenniferbasford709 2 ай бұрын

How many times have I heard comments like: "Don't let one little thing ruin your entire day! " "Why can't you just make a decision? " and "You overthink everything! " But understanding these things made me much stronger.

@mikametcalf3783 20 күн бұрын

As an adult who dealt with this criticism my whole life from my very different family, I tend to respond now with "I'm not like you". And that's okay. I have better methods to work with now than as a kid. I also like to say "surprise me" or "fine you pick, then if it's wrong, it can be YOUR fault". That one's mostly for my sister, haha.

@terryfelkins912 19 күн бұрын

Wow I’ve been there. I think I’m still coming to terms with it. A lot of times I walk away. So I can calm myself.

@somangichakraborty310 3 ай бұрын

My father always scold me and say you have problem with every thing as I always say to lower the volume of phone and TV ...and complain about bright lights and strong smell ...and i can relate to everything you are saying... thank you very much for comforting informations...❤

@kj5250 2 ай бұрын

I’m sorry he reacted that way, I hope your doing well now!

@netzameaudre6913 Ай бұрын

Same for me! How could we make them understand that we are différent?

@cb5156 Ай бұрын

@netzameaudre6913 Show them this video.

@blonniejenn433 3 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness. 67 years and you have just described me. I have suffered so much; I can remember things from when I was a toddler that are now explained. I will have my husband-my biggest ally-listen to this video asap. Bless and thank you, Jenn.

@angierox6964 2 ай бұрын

You are just finding out right now?! I’m so happy for you! (sorry you’ve lived so long without knowing) there are many books and a lot of really good information out there. 🦋

@whatsupchannel3047 Ай бұрын

Snap , I am also finding out I have these traits , because of childhood trauma . I understand your words . So sorry you have suffered ❤

@Thespiritualstrippa Ай бұрын

@@angierox6964I too am also finding this out at 41 & living in NYC so lots of discomfort 😢 life changing 🙏🏼

@emanuelad3534 3 ай бұрын

When I was around 6-7 years old my family called me Mimosa. This is a fern like plant that closes its leaves when lightly touched. And was also told “ too sensitive”. I resented a lot being so sensitive. I now appreciate the part of me that feels the joy and music and dance and color more. It also lead me to be very creative.

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Oh that's so interesting about the mimosa... Sorry to hear you were also told you're too sensitive, like so many of us. Glad to hear you now appreciate that part of you

@polymerclayandcrafts 3 ай бұрын

I was also called Mimosa because of how sensitive I am and now I have a tattoo with that because it's actually one of my favorite flowers

@siyarakb5305 3 ай бұрын

Mimosa pudica is a medicinal plant . The leaves are good for curing diseases. I can totally relate to what you might have felt like.So don't fret, be proud. I was called an owl many times. Turns out owl is wise , loves solitude & boss of its own kingdom😅 Sending you positive vibes ✨️

@juneanahjacobs6091 2 ай бұрын

I so relate. I always knew I was ultra sensitive. It's been a life of a juxtaposion, the anguish of stimuli and social processing vs the depth of emotion, empathy, intellect, and appreciation of beauty. I understand my complexity better now that there is a label for sensitive people. At 70, I believe all this emotional work will culminate in a life well lived. Enjoyed your post. Thanks!

@jessicaj2391 Ай бұрын

Thanks a lot, Vera! 🌸🌸🌸 I'm starting to feel a normal person thanks to you! My family refused to accept my sensitivity. They were annoyed with it. Since my childhood I've been constantly blamed for being too shy, too unsociable, too reactive. For noticing little details I've been blamed as being fastidious. I' ve been blamed for showing off, for improper emotions. I've been suffering from hypersensitive skin and digestion. My parents were telling me, that everyone was normal, but me. I was shamed for being too sensitive. I was demanded to train myself to become different, more unflappable, more brave, more enduring. I never knew, that I was sensitive. I felt defective... Four years ago I got completely broken both physically and emotionally. I got serious issues with my health. I'm now getting out of the "darkness". I'm learning to live anew. I'm learning to accept my sensitivity. I'm learning to take care of myself. I'm very grateful to you for your review! They do support me very much!

@wiviannegrapenholt9324 3 ай бұрын

As an autistic person with an ADD-diagnosis I just want to share my thoughts on “labelling” and diagnosis. It doesn’t matter what the doctor labels your symptoms as. What matters is how your symptoms, weaknesses and strengths, are described so that you can understand yourself and your needs better. I can still benefit from advice given to someone with HSP as well as a HSP-person can benefit from advice that are given to someone on the autism spectrum or have ADHD. And finally, I can't help but point out that autism and ADHD are also not something you can control or be cured of. It is rather that our brains have a different operating system than neorutypical brains. We are all different and that’s a good thing!❤❤❤

@Karincl7 2 ай бұрын

How can you with a diagnose agree that you don t need a diagnose, weird you one day had the choice

@mikametcalf3783 20 күн бұрын

@@Karincl7 I think she is saying that yes, these things are real, but you don't have to focus on the diagnosis. You may think you have something and find out you don't, then think "well then what is wrong with me?" If you share some commonalities with a diagnosis, you can still use some of the same techniques to overcome similar difficulties. You also can't just use a diagnosis as an excuse (like too many people do these days) to avoid things you really don't like, or to force the rest of the world to cater to you. It's ok if you deal with things differently than other people, that just means you need to find a creative solution, not a creative excuse.

@mikametcalf3783 20 күн бұрын

Thanks for this! As someone between multiple diagnoses for years, I'm realizing that the name of the issue is much less important than the tactics I use to work through it.

@CammyHell 3 ай бұрын

I have multiple little bags all around me that contain Chapstick, lotion, dental floss, dental picks, earplugs, and nail files. I keep one in my purse, one next to my chair in the living room, one in my nightstand in my bedroom, and one in each glove compartment of both cars.

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Nice! 😁

@Tyrtle-Media 3 ай бұрын

You are not alone! I thought it was just me, lol.

@heatherwhite2788 3 ай бұрын

So funny! For me it’s lip balm, water, and hair clips generally nearby

@CammyHell 3 ай бұрын

@@heatherwhite2788OMGosh yes!!! All those tooo!!!

@DominiqueFrancon 3 ай бұрын

I always have floss, picks, Chapstick, hand sanitizer, hand cream, hair brush, tissues, pen, and paper in my purse. I like to be prepared for every situation.

@jeanie4443 3 ай бұрын

When you talked about strength vs. toughness, I thought of this quote: "Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength." -Saint Francis de Sales I recently discovered your channel and I've been enjoying your videos. I really appreciate the HSP and burnout content. I'm currently trying to recover from burnout and habitual stress. Your positive attitude and soothing voice are very calming for my nervous system. Thank you 💗

@choppers3687 Ай бұрын

I have learned that early morning flights -while cheaper-are just not something I will do anymore. I feel so drained from getting up early and this added stress to an already stressful trip planning experience. And I already get so stressed out that I’m going to forget to pack something. It’s not like I’m going to a deserted island and won’t find a store to buy what I’m missing but for whatever reason I need to make sure I have what I need. I now am ok with packing a few extra items and just checking the bag. Knowing I have certain healthy food items (I’m a picky eater) and my tea and maybe certain extra clothes is such a relief in my little sensitive mind, it’s worth the $25 check fee. Thanks for validating us because a HSP could be quite critical of oneself with some of these tendencies. Ive gotten much better embracing what makes me feel better, and who cares what anyone else thinks 😅

@judeskingsbury5549 Ай бұрын

Same‼️ When I travel I need to bring many of my comforts with me.

@itsHeatherKay 2 ай бұрын

I’m an HSP too! It’s a wonderful life… especially when you’re all by yourself. 😉

@wayfarinstranger2444 Ай бұрын

And dogs or cats😊

@CHengen25 3 ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one who needs days to recover from a doctor appointment! Thank you for sharing your insights and encouragement, Vera. ❤️

@Thespiritualstrippa Ай бұрын

So helpful right!?! Allows me to give myself grace & compassion 🙏🏼

@ginnyQ 3 ай бұрын

I'm 67 but did not know I was HSP until 20 years ago. I still have strong memories of being a young child at a professional baseball game with my parents and crying the whole time because of the noise and sheer number of people. My dad was upset, as I had ruined what was supposed to be a fun family outing. Even so young, I felt such shame. I spent most of my life trying to "undo" my sensitive nature and toughen up. My self-esteem suffered horribly. A therapist finally told me about Elaine Aron when I was 47 . I immediately bought her book. What a positive change it has made for me and my life since. I'm glad you discovered being your wonderful highly sensitive self much younger!

@dorisemone6778 3 ай бұрын

Everything you said here sooo resonates with me. I grew up in a very extroverted high energy social family. I was definitely misunderstood, often witnessing the rolling of eyes, and the impatience of my siblings and parents, because of my sensitivity to the world around me. I was always very intuitive, but rarely recognized or valued for my innate observations. This made for a very lonely childhood. BUT, the beauty of becoming an adult is that I was able to see myself, value myself, and enjoy a sense of freedom to be my authentic self. The older I get the more I do not care if I am misunderstood. It just doesn't matter anymore. Thanks for validating all the great qualities that come from being sensitive, and empathic, and I trust in my heart of hearts, that I am a really good, deserving person, who functions just fine! Be well.

@lisaweinzapfel4240 3 ай бұрын

I am 60 years old, and am an HSP. I have known it all my life, but after watching your channel for a couple of years, I now feel very special.

@joysachs9032 2 ай бұрын

I agree. What was also amazing was to do the Myers Briggs (free online) personality test and discovering I am an INFJ. After lots of research, it explained my past 70 years of thinking "I am broken "!

@samcarrs Ай бұрын

Going through to shopping center is like a rollercoaster of emotions as I walk through the store absorbing everyone’s good, but more often the bad feelings. I should get into the World Poker Tour because I can read people like a poker pro. It’s not all fun and games but we must learn to use this as an advantage! It’s a super power! Our downfall can be giving people the benefit of the doubt, especially in personal relationships. The narcissist will definitely find you and zero in on you because of your display of empathy, so beware. I wish I knew this earlier in life. Cheers!

@floridianadelosbosques7635 3 ай бұрын

Hi, Vera! I´m 57 and last year I discovered I am a very high sensitivity person. When I was living in Argentina where I was born I didn´t noticed anything. People said I was a sensitive girl and that was nice. I felt really well being myself. But when I came to Spain almost 30 years ago everything changed. I found very insensitive people and then I started to get ill. I thought the people around me was cruel and horrible. And now I can see the difference between a toxic environment and a good one... Now, I´m trying to survive. I live in a big city and the noises are the worst part... Big hug! 🦋

@Xx33Yeahh 2 ай бұрын

I have your same name and im an hsp too❤

@simpledeepvegan3692 3 ай бұрын

I've always been sensitive from being a little girl. I could pick up on energies, I had so much empathy and would cry easily at sad things, even happy things! Even as a teenager I was super caring and felt deep emotions. I have, however, always been an extrovert and was ok with stimuli. Since turning 30 and feeling burnt out from the teaching profession and life changes generally, I've become so sensitive to loud noise, chemicals, harsh environments etc I think I'm struggling to accept this is who I am because I too have seen it as weakness or an inconvenience to others like my partner, who can't rely on me to be ok that day to do something stimulating. I do think balance is important, I have a hyperactive mind and know I need to slow down. Nature is a healer for me but don't get out into it enough. Thanks for these amazing videos, you're such a beautiful soul ❤

@ColleenFeyre2539 3 ай бұрын

You are a bright and beautiful young woman❣️ It took me till I was in my early 50’s to discover my true Self. Thanks to my girlfriend who is very intuitive and highly sensitive. I am almost 71 now and I found your 10 things to be inspiring and a good reminder for me!!! Oddly enough, I found your video today as I am taking a “self-care”day off from my office. And it’s no surprise I’ve been a massage therapist for over 30 years. Thank you so much and keep making these wonderful HSP videos. I highly recommend others to subscribe to your channel !!! ❤

@doublebubblebarb7606 3 ай бұрын

I wish I found you when I was younger. I was the “quiet” and youngest one of my family. I entered middle school and I just felt lonelier and lonelier as the days went by. I always had abrupt tempers and painful crying sessions. I didn’t know what was wrong with me and I wanted help so bad. My family didn’t help me until 2020 when we were all quarantined at home and everyone’s emotional problems finally came out. I already healed myself at that time so hearing all my family members talk about mental health, boundaries and therapy was absolutely hilarious to me 😂! They finally acknowledge what I went thru and apologized to me. Im grateful to be considered a highly sensitive person ❤😊

@sunnyday4589 3 ай бұрын

I can so identify with this. On top of everything else, I was an only child and it was assumed that my actions and behavior was because I wasn’t socialized enough. It’s a shame that it took me until my later years to find out that I’m ok, I’m just a HSP.

@doublebubblebarb7606 3 ай бұрын

@@sunnyday4589 Oh how it feels so nice to have someone I can relate with! I can’t believe how quick our family can be so quick to undermine our feelings. I’m glad you found the answer as well 💗💗💗

@shadowofthenorm 3 ай бұрын

I feel like my sensitivity really is my super power - it helps me connect with people and help them on such a deep level

@robertpolnicky7702 2 ай бұрын

What surprised me is when I complained about people at work how many other people were also unhappy with the troublemakers conduct and were afraid to talk. It was really easy to find a support group.

@ardethellis8930 3 ай бұрын

A friend of mine started working for a store called the Sensory Tool House. She is HSP and is on the spectrum. Not only is she really good at helping cusomers, she has amazing bosses who are very understanding.

@camolisa3296 Ай бұрын

I’m in this club! The one thing that does drive my husband nuts (though he’s gotten more used to it by now) is how many times I change my clothes. For example, when hiking, I’ll take off layers and put them back on a dozen times and he won’t adjust even once. Friends notice this too. I’m so grateful now knowing this is fine. I’m just definitely HSP.

@bobbigore5367 3 ай бұрын

Vera, thank you. I always seem to forget that I have this trait. Last night I was so horribly down on myself for what I perceive as not being able to function in a way that society would have me function. I also get so wildly tripped up on finding deep meaning and purpose in my life. But because of that, my inner-landscape has become so rich and full even if it's hard to see from the outside. It's always a blessing to be reminded that this is how I'm wired. I have a lot more I could say here, but I'll remain brief. Just know that after last night, I really needed this affirmation ❤ thank you.

@maryangeladouglas 3 ай бұрын

Dear Vera. I just got back three days ago from the hospital and a rehab center. I had an unexpected fall in early feb and had to have hip surgery as a result. Ive never even been in a hospital before except when I was born and am 73 years old. While in the hospital and in rehab and feeling so like a fish out of water or a plant moved too many times I thought of some of the things you had said about focusing on the moment, deep breathing and your remembered words helped me SO MUCH. As much as my prayers did. Please . Never feel that what you are doing is not helping that much. It is impossible to say how glad I am that I remembered some things you said while in a scary situation. Bless you dear Vera. I wish you always the best. What you are talking about is so real. I am also glad your tips made such an impact on my memory because all that time I had no internet access and could not watch more of your beautiful youtube presentations. You present things in a vivid and compelling way and like a friend. Your ability to project yourself quite honestly as a friend with good advice is so wonderful and real. I have sometimes watched other platforms offering externally similar advice but no one in my opinion is more genuine and helpful than you are. You have a real gift to help others in this way. For sure!

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Oh wow, thank you so much for your kind words Mary... It really means a lot to me, to know that there are people who really find value in my videos. Thank you so much for allowing me to be a part of your life that way. ❤️ Also, I can imagine that must've been a scary situation! So sorry to hear you had a fall and had to have hip surgery... Wishing you a speedy recovery, take it easy and take good care of yourself! Sending you a hug.

@Mialuvsveggies 3 ай бұрын

Just today, someone kept telling me to stop worrying about xyz (for the 3rd say in a row) and I had to abruptly address their comment... "Just because you tell me not to worry about it doesn't make my natural instinct say "oh, ok, and make me feel better, it's just the way I feel about this situation."

@scheila8643 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for all the sharing and info....I have been told to toughen up since i was about 4 years old....I'm 73....I was also told i cant go around wearing my heart on my sleeve.....thank you for making it so much better and permission to be as we are and we don't have to change..... still don't always fit in and that's ok❤

@TwistedSister1234 Ай бұрын

Mum always called me, “my sensitive one”. I was more prone to anxiety and less resilient than my siblings. I have chronic insomnia which I think in part is due to sensory overload and not being able to switch my brain off, especially when in an unfamiliar environment (holidays are exhausting). For my first three decades I assumed I was an introvert because I needed to retreat oftentimes. Turns out I enjoy the company of others a lot while still needing to retreat and recharge. Beware the self-fulfilling prophecy that you’re an introvert because you might just behave like one. I did and I was consequently lonely and isolated.

@sl9906 3 ай бұрын

As a student teacher in the ‘80’s I became obsessed with sensory processing and put the skills I learned into practice in my classroom. It resonated so deeply with me and I noticed how much it affected my “littles” as well. I realized several years ago that I am in fact an HSP introvert. 30 years later I’m still connected to many of those now grown up preschoolers. This video, as all of your videos is powerful and helpful. What a wonder you are Vera! ❤❤❤❤❤

@melliecrann-gaoth4789 2 ай бұрын

Thank you teacher how wonderful.

@elianah2874 2 ай бұрын

Thank You for all the info on HSP! I am just that and have been since I can remember. I am now 62. My first memory of being this way is when I was five and in Kindergarten, me and my classmates were outside on the playground and there were piles of leaves that had been raked up off the school ground and we were all playing in them. At that moment I had an experience that I can describe to others but they may not understand. I felt such joy in being alive and able to run and jump into the leaves and the leaves were so outstanding to me, their colors and shapes and sizes. I have always noticed things that others pay no attention to! My sister made a meal one time and I am a slow eater compared to other people and I kept commenting to her with every bite how delicious the food was that she cooked. She simply replied that it was just food. I have reached the point in my life where I am GLAD of who I am, I am who GOD made me to be!

@myrnarenoud3056 3 ай бұрын

Vera, this was a wonderfully done video! I’m a sensitive lady (74) and you described so many if not all of my traits! I’ve been told all my life that I just needed to toughen up and yet I always noticed everyone came to me for encouragement, advice or just as a listener! I learned years ago that I added value to the world and played an important role….my husband is tough….was always in leadership roles his whole career and was quite good at them and highly respected…but he always said I kept him humble and grounded! So I agree….HSP do indeed have a very important job! We should be thankful for our gifts and use them well!

@amandas8775 2 ай бұрын

I love this video and all of the commenters-lovely community 🦋 I discovered HSP when my oldest was almost 2 and we had just moved to a new state. But it took me about another 7-8 years and 3 more moves before I really embraced setting up my life to assist me rather than just fumble along completely overwhelmed and massively struggling wondering what was wrong with me. I actually just last year (I’m 47) invested in noise canceling head phones and have started taking them to big box stores, which is a game changer! I use them at home all the time, too! Noise and perfumes are the worst for me and I have tight control over what comes into my house. All that to say, it’s getting better when I actually allow myself to have boundaries and do what I need to do regardless of what anyone else thinks.

@jeanspahr6477 3 ай бұрын

Knowing I'm a highly sensitive person has been so important to me. This video is great and I plan to pass it along to a friend today.

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!! 🤗🌺

@usubenidango 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Vera! All my life I related to a lot of these things, being saddened by news, feeling others' pain, needing me time, hating violence, and I always thought there was something wrong with me. It was thanks to your channel that I found out highly sensitivity, while difficult, is also a wonderful trait to have! I think I've come to love myself a little more!

@saram5659 3 ай бұрын

HSP can be a result of (complex) trauma. Please look into that if you are hypervigilent and don't feel safe and relaxed around others or in other safe environments. It can also be a form of autism, but not diagnosed because of the stigma. There is still a lot to be uncovered about HSP!

@Meemee-mo5it 2 ай бұрын

Yes! Thank you. I have complex PTSD and I am highly sensitive.

@MrsRocking 3 ай бұрын

I'm not sure I know of anyone else in my daily life that describes themselves as highly sensitive, so it is so wonderful to feel understood by you and others talking about what it's like and a reminder to myself to go at my own pace in life ❤

@juliana2603 Ай бұрын

My whole life I’ve had family and friends say I’m too sensative and fragile. It was never said as a good thing either. They made it seem like I had a problem and needed to change who I am.

@ljshaw8516 3 ай бұрын

Excellent! You are a beautiful soul with amazing videos that I always learn from and I am 62. I struggled with this since a very young child and thought it was because my mother was handicapped which created empathy in me since 2 1/2 yrs. old. I was made fun of all the time bullied. I am so glad I found out I am not weird or strange! It is nice to turn it around into something positive. I recently found the book titled "sensitive". The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World. It's a great book for the personal library. I am so glad to be in good company and creating art is my medicine. x's lj

@jillkent6134 12 күн бұрын

Your channel is so helpful having spent a life being disrespected by the world for being sensitive I am now in my 60’s beginning to appreciate my sensitivity.

@nanciutay5620 3 ай бұрын

Wonderful topic and I appreciate your research on this subject. I am 66 and definitely am overly sensitive. When I was a child, my mother always said, you are like glass too fragile. You need to toughen up! I’m sensitive to feelings of others, loud environments, scratchy fabrics, clutter, crowded environments and spicy foods. After much socializing, I need quiet solitude. Thank you for explaining my feelings. The book mentioned is something that I would like to read.

@SereneScene1 3 ай бұрын

This has been such an eye-opener for me, explaining so much. I’ve wondered if I had the highly sensitive personality trait and it seems I do. It’s nice to hear it described as a trait, not a diagnosis or disorder. I don’t often comment on KZfaq videos because I don’t like opening myself up to criticism of strangers, but I needed to let you know how helpful this is. Thank you. 🙏

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that 🤗❤️ And I'm happy to hear you enjoyed the video and found it helpful! Take care my friend

@sluggo206 3 ай бұрын

I can see a possible relationship between sensitivity and minimalism, in the sense of sensitivity to clutter.

@pinkroses135 3 ай бұрын

Yes and the interior design element of line having too much "energy" when not used right too

@zomerbloesem9371 3 ай бұрын

Well, I am a professional who specialised in neuropsychology and speaking as someone who has ADHD, was diagnosed autistic and “diagnosed” as a HSP, I am gonna comment on this. I think the ADHD and autism discussion comes up a lot, because there’s this tendency in the HSP community to further stigma and stereotypes against autism and ADHD. It should not be more or less offensive to suggest someone’s experience sound similar to ADHD or being autistic than it is to suggest someone’s experience sounds similar to having SPS as a trait. ADHD and autism are also brain differences you are born with. The goal should also be to accommodate those differences and work on improving life quality. There’s often this undercurrent of not wanting to be associated with them “because SPS is not a disorder and shouldn’t be fixed” thus ultimately suggesting other forms of neurodivergence should be. I find this quite the double standard. Furthermore it can keep people from exploring the tools they might need, out of said stigma. I’d encourage anyone to update themselves on other forms of neurodivergence if they have the resources (time, energy) to, if only out of intersectionality and solidarity. I agree SPS as a construct is different from both ADHD and being autistic, but I do see the reason why misconstrued, very often based on uneducated stereotypes rather than any substantiated claims. I think of the HSP guru Elaine Aron herself here, who has since retracted her statement from her website but who’s books and information still in circulation, still perpetuate false information. An example being lack of empathy in autistic individuals. While there’s autistic people who do lack empathy, there’s even many who veer towards the other end of the spectrum and deal with hyperempathy. For me the most obvious difference with autism is social problems. Other than facing stigma for being highly sensitive, there’s nothing to the SPS trait that should impair social functioning. It is a core criteria for autism so that makes them very easy to differentiate. There’s also other things such as hyposensitivity and limited interests, but they’re part of the subset of criteria B for autism and thus not such a given as the social differences in criteria A. I’m not entirely sure why people confuse ADHD and SPS so much. ADHD and all it’s types are characterised by executive dysfunction. SPS does simply not have this. I guess it might come from being distracted by sensory stimuli which both can have? Or the tendency to get lost in thought in ADHD-I/C in particular and for people with SPS. But ADHD exists of a lot more of that which is not present in SPS.

@Fluffcat65 3 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this very interesting comment! 🙂

@carmenlheureux5435 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Vera for bringing the subject. Water from the shower hurts me and several smells make me nauseous. My favorite moment of the day is when I retire to my bedroom to read before actually going to sleep. As HSP, our lives are not easy and many people don't understand us.

@Jessica_Jones 23 күн бұрын

As someone who is moderately to highly sensitive, so many of these are encouraging to me, but "your sensitivity is powerful" has my eyes welling up...I didn't fully realize how much of my negative self talk stems from my sensitivity and its impact on my interactions. I think especially post-2020 it's been easy to tell myself I'm not recovering socially like many others seem to be. I try to keep in mind that my perception around this is probably not fully accurate, but now I feel empowered to just keep planning and preparing around stressful gatherings and tasks, knowing it isn't a disability, but a side effect of my strength 🙏🏻 ...I've been told by others that I have a calming presence and my husband has encouraged me in ways that speak to my strength of character and resilience, but I often manage to forget these things and focus on seeming inadequacies. You have revealed the truth of my skewed perspective and now I can really turn it on its head. Thank you so much for this information and reassurance, Vera. I appreciate you!!

@Afrocentric_Exotical_24 Ай бұрын

I'm so happy I found your channel because I thought something was wrong with me as people made it seem like there was something wrong with me when I just get overwhelmed easily having diagnosed with anxiety since I was a teenager

@rufinareyman449 3 ай бұрын

I have been HSP..it was so hard as a child but I grew to understand it and use it to to be a better massage therapist. It gave me insights I would other wise not have. Yes you need extra self care but it’s oh so worth it. There are days I need to hide away from it all…breath…journal…listen to music..meditate..get a massage or ped a cure just something that helps me get out of information overload. I use to listen to others but now I’m sure of myself…respect myself and my own personal needs and I let others know them… if I’m important to them they make the effort to understand..be kind and they don’t shame..or guilt me if I need to step back. Thank you for sharing your story for it has helped me to grow in many ways. Bless you

@sevenswordsx7 2 ай бұрын

This is the best HSP video I have ever seen! You really nailed what it's like to be an HSP. Thank you so much!

@mozanne8802 3 ай бұрын

The part about being strong got me in tears. I feel like I have learned myself to be tough, because I have been told a lot that I have to toughen up "mezelf niet zo moet aanstellen" but I feel that is not who I am. I am sensitive and that is ok! Learning now that it is ok feel everything that I feel. Thank you for the reminder❤

@pinkroses135 3 ай бұрын

I discovered it in 2018 from your video 😊 but I noticed the sensitivity to heat, extra fascination with creativity and beauty, heightened empathy, the care bag thing, headaches from fragrances etc since I was in elementary school. It is nice to feel seen and I'm glad you advocate for this.

@katyee888 Ай бұрын

You are right on. Thank you for your videos. I so appreciate you're saying you needed 2 days to recover from a doctor's appointment. I felt the same way recently. Your videos are so helpful to me. Thank you for making them.

@noecamar1810 3 ай бұрын

I have felt guilty all my life about being like that. I see myself as a weak person and many people don't understand how everything affects me so much. Otherwise i often feel blessed because i'm able to enjoy more easily of little things in life, and for me that's a great gift.

@IndiBex86 7 күн бұрын

I feel exactly the same! I've just come to accept that's who I am.

@joank5585 3 ай бұрын

I truly didn’t know I was an HSP until I watched your video about 2 years ago and I am 65, I always thought I was so different than most people and I read the book “Highly Sensitive Person” because of your recommendation Vera and it was such a relief knowing that others are like me. My son is on the high end of HSP and we are different in many ways but the same in others, these videos are so helpful to people in understanding why they are the way they are and trying to find ways to cope when the stimulation is too much or they are just tired and need some time alone. Thnx for giving this topic so much attention Vera 🌸

@carlienvandernet7902 3 ай бұрын

I have always been a HSP, but I know it now for about 30 years I think. I once read a book about being an HSP and I was just reading about myself and it made me understand myself a lot better. I’m an introvert and I don’t like being around other people, but I force myself to do certain things anyway. But I also make sure that an event is followed by a couple of days complete rest and being alone. I just need that.

@cherrycain6425 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I am a highly sensitive person. I’ve been told many times to basically snap out of it. Anyone that doesn’t suffer from it will never understand. I love watching your channel. It helps me so much with different emotions and issues that I have. God bless you. Keep the videos coming. 🙏🏻✝️❤️😘🌹

@trixjoyce 17 күн бұрын

I don't think I'm a highly sensitive person, but I am autistic, so I could relate a lot to the things said about sensory processing. I really learned a lot from this video. Thanks.

@kimdavid4979 3 ай бұрын

I’m an HSP for sure. Sadly I didn’t figure it out until late in life. I’ve struggled through life in jobs and family situations never realizing I had this trait. I’m so relieved that I now understand myself better and what my own needs are. Thank you for all of your excellent videos. ❤

@carlapoch4177 3 ай бұрын

This list is so validating for me. I've known that I've been highly sensitive for a while; though it has been difficult for me to embrace my sensitivities and see them in a positive light. Working through the shame and building my confidence to disclose it to more people in my life has been a slow climb but the changes have been only positive. ✨️

@Thespiritualstrippa Ай бұрын

I can not believe I’ve gone my whole adult life not knowing I’m a highly sensitive person. Last few years I even started to wonder if I was autistic because of how sensitive I am to loud sudden noises. I also live in New York City & it has really been weighing on my soul to get out the city. This is going to be so helpful to me & allow me to give myself grace & compassion for the things that frustrated me about myself like getting overwhelmed by deadlines or making commitments to friends/family. Thank you so much for this content & giving me a better understanding of myself. It’s really going to change my life 😢

@dianeyoung8068 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate your calm demeanor and information with a good dose of kindness and understanding.

@laurag9526 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! It has been life changing for me to realise I'm an HSP. I'm learning how to cope and thrive with this and videos like this are so helpful to me. I'm now realising it's okay to take longer to make decisions, it's okay to consider my needs and make things easier for myself. I feel like i don't need to apologise anymore for who i am.

@allisonroundy1416 2 ай бұрын

Hi Vera, I am a highly sensitive person! I found out about 6-7 years ago around age 30. I was stunned when I answered 25/27 questions indicative of ‘HSP’ as I had never heard of that before and thought that I was just ‘weird.’ My jaw dropped when I read these bits of description because they described me to a tee. For as long as I can remember I have been told that I am too sensitive, too shy, ‘suck it up’, ‘get over it.’ I can feel others’ emotions which made my job as nurse rather challenging and I felt almost like I had to step into a suit and almost become a different person to deal with the various situations that arose throughout my shifts. I was very in tuned and could tell when something was ‘off’ with a patient before there were actual signs that something was wrong. However, the emotional and physical demands of the job were overwhelming and pretty much went against the grain of who I am. Thank you so much for your informative videos! They help me to feel less like an oddball (although I still know that I am 🤪) and help me to view being an HSP as a superpower!

@Robert-qm1ld 3 ай бұрын

I think I'm on the lower end of highly sensitive, only some few certain things truely bother me. But I'm also aware of those other stimuli which other people I know don't hear, see or recognise. How people can not be aware of the world around thiem mystifies me. 😃

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Hahaha I'm often wondering the same thing when I observe people 😊

@erinoakley645 3 ай бұрын

I just finished "Sensitive" by Jenn Granneman and Andre Solo, which I loved and recommend. My favorite part about that book was a short manifesto that we can repeat of all of the strengths of an HSP - we are superheroes! I always appreciate your content on this topic, thank you!

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

So nice!! Thanks for the book rec, that sounds super :)

@user-nm6dr4uy3d 3 ай бұрын

I just watched the new Dune with my friends, and it was an incredibly painful experience :D. Noise, violence, constant tension.... And it lasted 3 hours! I was exhausted after it.

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Ooof yes I can imagine... I saw the trailer in the movie theater when I went to watch another movie, and even just the trailer left me feeling exhausted 😅

@sadiakhan9300 3 ай бұрын

I also watched Dune and had the same experience! 😓

@louisehorsfall9400 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Vera! Especially as I was one of the people who asked for more on this topic. I see myself 100% in this and your videos (followed by Elaine's book) changed my perception of myself from being weak (and questioning why) to seeing it as my superpower and feeling extremely grateful. Yes, information can change a paradigm but I think the way you so compassionately cover it, and how you model self compassion, has gone a long way to helping me. I actually feel very excited by it. The self care tips are always really welcome too and knowing I'm not weird for all the self care I do (just wise and intuitive) has also freed me from self judgement. I can't thank you enough.

@Carole616 3 ай бұрын

This video is crammed with really great information. My highly sensitive self appreciates all the info spelled out so clearly.

@raphaeldullaert2426 3 ай бұрын

Erg herkenbaar. Men denkt vaak aan adhd wanneer ik erg enthousiast ben of autisme wanneer ik rust nodig heb, regelmaat en planning. Ik ben een extraverte hsp'er. Een aparte combinatie soms voor mijn omgeving. Maar sinds ik het weet kan ik er rekening mee houden en doseren om te voorkomen dat ik overprikkelt raak. Het leven voelde altijd als een enorme uitdaging en is nu een stuk gebalanceerder. Dank Vera voor een video zoals deze. Het is belangrijk om je gezien te voelen en beter te begrijpen wie je bent. Thank you 🤗❤️🙏

@gilmayer1 3 ай бұрын

I agree. There's a different from being highly sensitive (for example I am very sensitive to Smells), but not blaming others or attacking them. Just simply ask in an assertive, kind and direct manner. Also not to get hurt by others. Simply being Stoic and understanding that sometimes we care about something that others not. We take the ownership on our own lives 💙 Each person is unique and sensitive in it's own special way 🙂 Stay safe and healthy y'all 🙏

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Definitely important to remember that different things matter to different people, and to always be kind and respectful in our communication :)

@vikieierdam5516 3 ай бұрын

Vera, from one HSP (who has an HSP niece) to another, you are so, so lovely. God bless you for stressing the positives of being HSP.

@kathleenbrown893 Ай бұрын

The amount of times I have to stop this video and process what you just said is unbelievable… every sentence makes so much sense. I thought i was crazy. Thank you for putting into words our uniqueness.

@angierox6964 2 ай бұрын

I’m 55 years old. I remember the exact moment 25 years ago when I learned about HSP. I felt such relief. And I learned about it from a friend who had it so I was able to ask her 100 questions and realize I was not alone! This is an excellent video. Thank you so much!

@heatherwhite2788 3 ай бұрын

More sensitive to thirst and hunger! Never connected those dots. I am an HSP and have known it for years, don’t remember exactly when. At one time I belonged to an HSP group, and I learned there that I cope pretty well.

@saabirahjacobs8494 6 күн бұрын

Hello everyone 🙋‍♀️ I am definitely a highly sensitive person. I am always told that I am too sensitive or being over dramatic, and this has made me feel like there is something wrong with me. Growing up, I've always felt that I was different from my peers. It makes me so glad to know that I am normal and that there are other people in the world just like me 😊

@Jasmine-gh3sm 3 ай бұрын

I have always been questioning why I am this way, I am more sensitive than others. It's great to know I am not the only one and that it is okay. I've been suppressing some of my emotions because I'm scared people will have that impression about me. Thank you for this video, you have helped so many. 💗💗💗

@moniquebaham 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! I'm an HSP and I have HSPs in my life that I care about. The information you provided helps me understand myself and the other HSPs in my life better. I really appreciate these tips!

@Oldschoolfille 3 ай бұрын

After watching this video, I think I am a sensitive person. Some things do affect me more than it affects other people, I do feel the need to know as many aspects as possible if I’m going to a new place or doing something for the first time. I do empathize and can decode the facial expressions and body language of people better. All in all, I get affected more with stimuli as compared to my friends or family. But sensitivity is often seen as weakness and I hope it gets accepted as it is.. Thank you for making this video and clearing some doubts ❤

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🤗 If you're interested, I do have an older video with a little fun 'test' to see how many signs of HSP you recognize: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oJd_q9eWzdHFqXk.html You might find it helpful :)

@frockinj 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Vera for all you do! I feel there are many people who are a HSP and don’t realise so awareness is key for those who are, as well as those around them to understand. I learnt about it in my 40s and it explained so much. Please keep doing what you’re doing - your channel is my no. 1 ❤🌱

@Celeste-new49 3 ай бұрын

Thank you! and thank you for mentioning not to diagnosis others/self with disorders - this is happening too much. I've known I was HSP my whole life - just didn't have a name for it until recent years. The hardest part for me has been being hyper aware of others emotions. I was especially sensitive to this as a kid and have had to learn to put up lots of boundaries to separate my emotions from others. Wish I had someone like you when I was younger to be a guide for living a more balanced HSP life. I'm glad you're here now. - take care

@user-xy6hs4tw9p 3 ай бұрын

Very informative & delivered in your soothing, pleasant tone of voice. You’re helping so many people 🦋

@SimpleHappyZen 3 ай бұрын

Aw thank you, and so happy to hear that, since I really wanted this video to be informative as well as pleasant to watch! 🥰

@stormiedjerf Ай бұрын

OMG! This is 100% me but my husband makes fun of me constantly for needing these things. It also makes motherhood REALLY hard! Would love some tips on how to battle social pressures to “get over it” or be “normal”. This kind of stuff gets pathologized as anxiety, autism, social anxiety, adhd, somatic disorder, etc.

@TamarKnochel 3 ай бұрын

I can't express how much this video means to me!!! I just shared it with everyone close to me! I was just recently diagnosed (at 43 yrs old) as a highly sensitive person with social anxiety disorder, so you can imagine how overwhelming large crowds, and just plain life, are for me. I never realized that not EVERYONE felt this way! LOL! I'm with you, learning this about myself has been a completely life-changing experience for me! Now, I can walk into these situations that overwhelm me, PREPARED for them to be extra stimulating, and I can DO SOMETHING about it before I ever get there! It's been so amazing! I have spent 43 years of my life on the struggle bus, thinking it was the normal bus and just dealing with it! Now, I know that I don't have to "deal with it" anymore! I can make it better! Your video "just popped up" after my yoga video this morning and I was like, "HEY! I should watch this!" LOL. I am SO GLAD that I did!!! It felt SO GOOD to hear you say all these wonderful things that I've been thinking in the back of my head. Now, I'm thinking about them in the front of my head, on purpose, and sharing them with everyone I know! LOL! Thank you for putting everything I've been feeling into such beautiful words and pictures. ❤ It's nice to know that while I AM special in my sensitivity, I'm NOT alone.❤

@mariaarguellohuper 27 күн бұрын

I have always known I was very sensitive…., but until a few days ago listening to videos and reading a book about HSP.. I have learned soooo many things that I couldn’t pin point what really it meant. Thank you for this wonderful video and information. You are so good!

@MoonandSixpence Ай бұрын

Describes me to a T. I’ve read about HSP’s before, but something about your video really hit home. I was called “overly sensitive” my whole young life and it just made me feel so broken. Thanks for this

@mikelobrien 3 ай бұрын

It's a combination of nature and nurture. A lot of people who identify as highly sensitive had very stressful upbringings and lived in an unsafe home environment. Best to work with a therapist if you are struggling.

@JTSunriseMusic Ай бұрын

Most people are trouble and suck the life out of everyone, if you don’t have the energy for them, stay away. Friends I have are musicians, artists, and scientists. Everyone else gets my code-shift gray-rock, all communication is planned and strategic. Set boundaries

@tracynorman4883 3 ай бұрын

I am an HSP and have known this for several years. Growing up, I was always told that I am "too sensitive", but no longer see this as a flaw. I work in therapies and love my job, I need lots of time and cannot function on tight schedules either. Thank you for a lovely video, you are so calming and compassionate ❤

@seriouslywhatever1031 Ай бұрын

I still can't separate my sensitivity from weakness. Our society was not built by or for sensitive, creative people. I feel like I can barely cope with modern life because it's not made for someone like me.

@aliciap4380 19 күн бұрын

I feel like that too SO strongly. Especially the last couple years.

@lrhodgin 15 күн бұрын

I think some of us sensitive folks shouldn’t be on this planet-too much chaos. There is a consensus that planet earth is a difficult planet-maybe that why we’re located at the edge of our galaxy. Many people can’t even play nice.

@IndiBex86 7 күн бұрын

I always thought I just wasn't made for this society. I have found that I am happiest just living a very simple life with my family out in nature. I don't do social media, I socialize occasionally and only when I really want to. I still don't "fit" but I don't really care. I'd rather be around my children, animals and plants living the slow life.

@jean6460 2 ай бұрын

You have so much wisdom for your young age!❤

@joyannesloan8384 28 күн бұрын

You seem to be quite young and yet you are so well-informed on this subject and caring and incredibly articulate. I wish I had a lot of this information 20 years ago so that I could stop blaming myself for the way I am. Your contribution is so appreciated and needed in this world. Thank you again

@nmssss00 2 ай бұрын

Your channel is a total gem to me, i gain awareness about myself by listening your wise talk❤

@claudinerobins 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for these videos! What a brilliant idea about when you go to a concert or event that’s far away and to just book a hotel room to relieve some of the stress around that. Thank you!!