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hold her face as you kiss her 2:08 hug her unexpectedly in public 2:51 open doors 3:20 introduce her to people 4:19 kissing on the forehead 4:49 play with her hair 5:54 be protective of her 6:30 feed her 7:19 listen actively 7:58 make her laugh 8:56

None of these things worked on my wife but did with my girlfriend, which makes sense since she is much younger. Thanks!

1. Hold her face while you kiss her 00:02:07 2. Hug her unexpectedly in public 00:02:50 3. Open doors 00:03:19 4. Introduce her to people 00:04:17 5. Kissing on the forehead 00:04:47 6. Play with her hair 00:05:52 7. Be protective of her 00:06:28 8. Feed her 00:07:17 9. Listen actively 00:07:55 10. Make her laugh 00:08:54

Really good advice about things my mom told me to do sixty years ago. I have used each of these with great results. Yet, I thank you for your easy to follow reminders

Thank you for the validation. I thought I knew most of these. The irony is how little effort it takes to do them. Just comes down to being considerate and putting forth effort. Now, I just need to find a lady that appreciates these things. 😍😍

Thank you for all your advice. Applying this to my 17 year marriage has made a huge difference. Thanks again.

I use these gestures too and they react very well, especially when I am hugging them. I can almost read it in their eyes that they want me to continue hugging them. It is a very nice gesture.

Marni, watching your wonderful content has made me realize that another thing about feminism is that it brainwashed women into avoiding being attracted to men and masculinity. Kept them from even being exposed to an attractive man Some of the common sense things you rightly advise I learned growing up, open doors etc These masculine behaviors are seen as patriarchal nowadays The average woman in California will act offended as a stranger if you open the door for her in a public place, like you are insulting her, treating her a unequal, but I always secretly thought they must love it

Here are some more tips guys. 1) Imagine you are waiting for her at a restaurant. As you see her approcahing the table, don't just keep sitting. Stand up and give her a genuine, boyish smile which will tell her that you not only respect her, you are also genuinely happy to see her and were looking forward to her company. 2) Always, ALWAYS, wear a clean shirt, clean underwear and clean socks. And some cologne (do not bathe in the cologne, please. Just a dab her and a little spray there, especially on the chest because usually, women are shorter than men and when you hug her, her face will be in direct contact with your chest. A nice cologne will drive her crazy, believe moi). Women have a very high sense of smell. They WILL, somehow, smell the soiled socks or a shirt that exudes sweat smell and immediately lose respect for you. 3) When starting to eat (it could be anything...noodles, sushi, a burger or a pizza slice), DO NOT start chomping before she starts to eat. In fact, ask her to take a bite of her burger or pizza and then you start eating. This has a magical effect on her, trust me. 4) While eating, if you notice some mayo or cheese etc on her mouth, take a tissue and gently wipe it off. It will melt her heart. 5) In the restaurant, no matter how bad the service is or how tasteless the food is, never (NEVER) insult the waiter. This is a BIG NO-NO. And do not sit down and start calculating tip @ 10%~15% of the total bill in front of her or start talking about the high food prices. You do not want to come out as a cheapskate. 6) Do not (DO NOT) look at her cleavage (regardless of how low her neckline is) or her shapely, hairless legs. She is showing off her cleavage and her smooth legs to you but you are NOT supposed to look at them. This is something I don't understand about women. They wear a beautiful party dress which has a plunging neckline and you gape at the cleavage once or twice and they go mentally "What a pig". Please be careful guys. Some of her body parts are visible and she knows that they are visible (because she looked at herself a million times in the miorror before leaving the house) but you are NOT supposed to look at them. That's how it is. If she as much as even imagines you were looking at her cleavage or her figure or her legs, she will be creeped out at once. 7) This works everytime. In the middle of the night, if you notice her feet are cold, get up and put on socks on her feet. She will forever cherish you for this love and care you are showing toward her. I have been following this trick for more than 20 years and it has worked each and every time. Good luck guys!

Once or twice I held the door open for a co-worker (the same girl). Not to flirt, I was just raised to respect women. Ever since that day, at work or the two times I saw her out in public, she always looked at me like I had just proposed to her. I did teh same for a second co-worker-again, nothing but common courtesy intended. The second gal always held the door open for me...and I took her out once. Listen to Marni, fellas.

Great video. I always enjoy your perspective. I have done all of your list as just part of my style going back as long as I can remember. I'm not a great listener but I try to stay as engaged as I can out of respect. Laughter is easy. After a lifetime of success the last ten years have been a brick wall for me, not really given a chance and I find myself being pre-emptively friend zoned by women I wasn't even interested in. I think they are all waiting for someone taller or much younger because that's what I always see them dating. And I'm talking about women my age.. The bar has been raised by all women. I get that vibe from you too, the big man kissing the little woman on the forehead, she's protected. I get it. Not much I can do on that one.

It’s been years when I used to watch your videos I just want to appreciate your dedication in still helping guys out there even till today

I love when cuddled up when she listens to my heart beat while I play with her hair. . .luv it

Hi Marmi--thank you for this video. You are so right, so many of these "forgotten" actions can prove to be so rewarding. My wife (of 34 years) and I were both raised very "old school". I always walk on the outside of the street; I always open doors for her in public, I'll stand behind her and take her coat (if she's wearing one), I'll hold the back of her chair when she sits (when possible) and I'll make an attempt to rise whenever she gets up from the table. These are natural actions for us and we think nothing about it, but you'd be surprised the reactions and admiration we receive in public. So many women have told my wife how envious they are at such a display of public respect and affection. The most independent women STILL want to be treated special in public and young men should realize it. Thanks again.

I follow you because one, you are seven so had to work for your marriage and two, you are successfully married. Many people "helping" don't have the qualifications. So thank you and keep up the good work. People need to learn to reconnect.

Agreed on the laugh thing, it's a must for me. Wish I had that in someone. I'm always the one making others laugh and feeling good and helping them out and listening. Is what it is.

Another good one, Marni👍🏾 Thank you

Excellent! The sense of humor thing is right on. Marni, YOU RULE!

I appreciate that you do this for us. Having a lady's take on stuff gives me the confidence required. Thanks a million.

Regarding the forehead kiss, let me tell you, I've tried that and it works, it really works -- and so does the door-opening bit.

Thanks for reaffirming the value of these behaviors in the face of today's social changes and challenges. Appreciate you for it.

I would be super interested in the facial health products..I've in the past used some basic dermatology products, and some of the lower end face moisturizing masks and under eye straps. Thank you for the links, something to consider on the future. Thanks always Marni. -G

I was standing outside a store today and I watched a man open a car door for his lady and she clearly enjoyed it. I was not thinking about a guy opening a car door for a woman and it just happened but I learned a lot. Being a gentleman but more importantly just being a genuine person is cool.

A tad late to the party though I'd slide this in right behind Marni's 3rd gesture of opening doors for a girl/lady and that is to pull their chair back, seat her then assist her in pushing it forward prior to you taking your seat. If you are at a 4-5 star⭐️ restaurant and the the maitre d' or server moves to seat her, wait until he seats her before you sit down! I was taught this at a very young age, and was told then what I have told countless employees, protégés and others over the years since and that is that etiquette and good manners are timeless!! I have also tended to Ladies' chairs in a professional setting if the woman was seated next to me(DO NOT do it otherwise in this setting). Of the hundreds of hundreds of times that I have done this over the decades, I recall only one woman ever copping an attitude, at which time I simply smiled, apologized for offending her, waited until she was seated, then I sat down. Again, I apologized to HER for offending HER, NOT for the act of tending to her chair. For that, there is absolutely no apology needed nor will one ever be given. You NEVER apologize for exhibiting etiquette or good manners!!! As I stated, I've done it hundreds of times, from attorneys and surgeons to senior business executives and professional athletes, and leave it to the one individual who took offense to be an unemployed playwright😂😂 If you are uncomfortable tending to a Lady's chair in a professional setting, at least wait until she is seated before you take your seat!! If she or others notice, they will be impressed, trust me, and if they don't, no harm no foul. I own a few bars and nothing makes me cringe more than when a guy walks in with a date, goes to a table and sits down first, not giving his date the choice of seating nor pulling her chair out or assisting her in getting seated or helping her remove her overcoat if she's wearing one. I'd also slide this gesture in right behind Marni's suggestion of opening a door for a Lady and that is opening a Gal's vehicle door for her, letting her get in, get seated, then closing the door. When she is seated and the door is closed, THEN you walk to your side of the vehicle. I'm talking to a lot of beautiful Gals at my bar about this stuff that Marni mentioned and that I posted above, trust me, while most would never ever say anything to ya if you did nothing mentioned, the Gent that performs these types of gestures stands out, stands out in a good way conveys a sense of quiet confidence poise and self assurance that most men lack, ir at least do not display. If she doesn't notice?? Who gives a flyinF🤷🏻‍♂️ Etiquette and good manners are like charity in that they should not be performed for the attention adulation or praise. The fact that it's the right way to behave should be enough of a testimonial. Apologies for the novella🤪 Continued Success Marni🥂 RP

Great info, simple but effective. I use several of the 10 and will be adding the others…

I've been this way for as long as I can remember, and yes it works. This video put it to words. I think my sense of humor is the hook.

omg Marni everything you said in this video I have done for years with every woman I've me in my life. even at 61 years young i still open doors for the ladies weather they're with me or not. I can tell you everything in this video works and actually does melt a woman's heart. I have advanced to the next level over the years with the new technology out there I can now melt a woman's heart in text as well I found it strange at first, I have tried my theory on women I make them feel like a teenage girl who has her first crush on a boy. when i saw this video I realized I was doing it right all along.

All you have to do is ONE thing--be comfortable with yourself at all times!! Only YOU can do that!! (A confident dude who has personality and lets things flow will always attract somebody, somewhere--the universe will align when it is meant to align.) "Love is not a possession, it is a state of being" (Osho)

Awesome advice! Although I already do ALL of these for the Love of my Life, I still make her melt every day even when she is sick. She says; I don't know who you do it, take care of me and do everything you need to do everyday; I say your my Queen, you are everything.! Then she cries..

Awesome video. Thanks for the tips

I’m a 21 Latina girl and I approve all of these are facts 😩

This is good because I already did most of this instinctively. The reminder and the reassurance that I'm not too far off is helpful. On the flip side, I got to do these with a girl lately and she hit me with the "i dont know what I want..." I don't get it but Her choice i guess.

I love how sweet and innocent this is. My experience of women by and large has been pretty abusive. I love this though. I wish it was like this.

I do all of these things for my wife who Is also my girlfriend and best friend. She constantly tells me how wonderful I am and does much to show me that she means it.

*. 3 THINGS TO NEVER DO :* 1. Beg for a woman to stay in your life 2. Beg for a woman to talk to you 3. Beg for a woman's attention

One positive thing I can say about myself is I don't have to try to do these things. They come naturally and do all of these often with my wife. Plus being a southern boy with good morals just amplifies it. Holding doors and helping other people comes natural as well. I'm the guy that takes the buggy back into the store when I'm done.

Marni, you are so great. I'm meeting a girl on valentines day for our first date. I am listening to you for ideas.

Thanks Marni!! Your advice is priceless! Shit works and is 100% spot on. .

When I was in my twenties, I took a class entitled, "How to Pick Up A Woman with Magic." So I went to a woman and asked if she wanted to see a magic trick. She said, "Yuh. Make yourself disappear!" I should have taken her advice because eventually we got divorced. LOL!

I would add walking a lady home, especially if you live in a rough neighbourhood. I used to do this when j was seeing a lady, and it was usually appreciated. Only thing is, i wouldn't specifically mention that you're doing it for security. If the woman protests a bit, i'd say that the reason you want to walk home with her because you like her company.

You're forever describing things I do naturally. She's speaking the truth.

You are amazing ,with your help along the way ,my relationship with my girlfriend is just getting better everyday thanks 😎🌠🌠🌠❤

Gotta say, your channel helps me to make my relationship stronger. Thanks for what you do.

I never knew about the hair thing. I did the hair thing for about an hour. She was a stripper, that I didn't make a move. Definitely would have had I known. I loved it so much. I feel I could do it nonstop with the woman I'm interested in, but am hesitant, to do it too often, because woman seem to get bored of things easily

Good information Baby Cakes I need to apply thoses traits with a positive attitude ♥

The Banter Guide is worth every hard earned dollar it's improving my ability to have fun with women !

The one thing I did was I kissed her hand when I first met her. That night we were all over each other. Sex yes that night. But always follow through throughout the night doing what Marni describes. It all works. For me I knew this long ago and it worked. Now married this is how I did most all this when we dated. It's all about how you're brought up as a child. Be positive and be real. Try really scarry things but in actualality their not as long as you never speak the word sex, or try to go down her pants or touch any part of her without her her actual actions speak she wants you but never go their unless you actually know she wants you. Be polite and be a freaking real man.

I use a number of these kind of gestures almost as a test. The girl that doesn't appreciate them is not the kind of girl I want to be with. IMO, many of these work because there's a social value difference between the two of you, in favour of the man. 1 - hold her face - up that game and put your hand on the back of her neck. 2 - spontaneous public hugs - careful on this one. Use sparingly as it can seem needy. 3 - open doors - the girl who doesn't let me do this is not for me. I'll even tell them that it isn't about being a gentleman, it's about control.😆 4 - introduce her - that's just a duh. NOT introducing her is the much stronger message. 5 - forehead kiss - I'm trying this one. Has the flavour of dominance. 6 - play with her hair - it's got a nonsexual vibe that is in fact quite sensual. 7 - be protective - you're releasing her to be that little girl with you. 8 - feed her - Evo psych 101-alpha eats first. This symbolizes that. 9 - listen actively - presupposes and implies that she's interesting. 10 - sense of humour - It's important but as far as romantic utility I think this assumes she's already or wants to be attracted to you. It is kind of circular as the humour/playfulness can be part of attraction building.

Thank you for giving us Men viewers these Radically awesome advices I totally loved the 1st one and the 3rd one and the 4th one & the 7th and I hope this Loki works on the girl of SNA'S DREAMS & you & these methods and this video deserves 10,000 more likes 👍🏼 to you Marni from THEE Assassin Of the Table & again thank you for these amazing advices and methods and have a great blessed week and happy early Thanksgiving 🙏🏼🔥😎👋🏼💯🥷🏽👌🏼❤🖤😄😁😏🤟🏼👍🏼

Good tips as always Thanks.

Love and agree with this video! I just subscribed based on this video alone. I've been married to an amazing woman for three yrs now... This stuff works on her and she's an orthopedic MD (read, intellectual, accomplised, etc). Final thought: Sounds like somebody has read the book, "The 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. This is straight out of his book which is money. Changed my life.

Marni, you're really terrific! Side note. Two things' guys really hate with women's dating profile is the kissy face. Yuk! and second women holding drinks in multiple pictures in their profile. Such a turn off! Thanks for the info, very helpful!

I was raised to be a strong romantic gentleman to respect women and open the doors for them. It works every time

I am in love with you just watching this video. You are so adorable, healthy, and truthfully informative. Will be watching more of your videos…I liked, subscribed and watched this video twice.

This is your BEST video to date. I wish I had this option 30 years ago.

10 Tiny Gestures That Make Girls Friendzone You

Thank you Marni. Us men are so different from women. When you throw cultural differences, background differences etc. Sometimes it makes communication quite difficult! thank you for breaking things down and making it 'click' for us guys so we know how to relate to women effectively.

these are actually gold, if she reacts in a bad way to these... find another one

After this video I can't wait to see more

I'm almost 64. My parents taught me all the gentlemen rules, plus I was raised in Texas. It's difficult for some women to understand. I tell them just allow me to be a gentleman. Sometimes it takes awhile for them to adapt.

Omg!? What!? Listen to her!? Ohh no no no! That is going to take yeeaarsss out of my life.

All of these tips worked great w/ the head of my HR department at work. I'm bulletproof at my job now.

I just signed in to say I loved the video ! Do we even say video any more ? Id hold the door open for you , Marni ! 😁☺️ Im enjoying the latest youtube vids ,

Most of the things she mentions can happen when you are in a relationship not before. During relationship makes everything listed too easy.

The thumbnail is hilarious

I think you're unique, You mention the word "feminine" many times throughout your presentation and reflect it so well. Thats always a Breath of Fresh Air, I'm impressed ! Love your passion, wisdom and the presentation., Do you have a single sister ?

love it!!

One time in the late 70's a guy asks me if I ever saw a hooker return the money back to the customer. I said no. So he puts some adult vhs tape in the vhs machine and plays it backwards!

I thought laying your jacket over a puddle was what you were supposed to do! I always thought that was an unfair expectation - not unlike offering it when she's cold. (I don't wanna give up my jacket - then I-I-I'll be cold!) :oD

Most of these gestures I already know, but thanks! xxx

I actually got some results from this I thought it was worthless but sure enough 😅 🙃 I owe you big time. Thank you for sharing.

I tried to melt her heart but got pepper sprayed instead. Thanks Marni.

I have done most of these for a very long time. Opening doors should just be automatic. I don't understand why any guy wouldn't do that.

Thanks for Sharing Marni

The first tip is true, I’ve done it, and yes I think you could say it worked

Answer to the thumbnail is $. Gets 'em every time.

This is literally the person from the ad who advises men to "just ask for a threesome" LOL. My gosh, just hilarious. I dunno if any real men listen to this person for a reason other than comedy but like they always say, "never ask a fish how to catch fish"

I love this list and will use some of them. But, number 10 makes so much sense to me. My baby momma is 15 years younger than I and I am a large teddy bear that makes her laughs often.

Great video! Nice to know how I match up with this list... Thanks for sharing! :)

Marni doesn't even pay heed to the one fact about Women is that they won't wait long enough for us to DO these things for them. Women want instantaneous attraction and chemistry, if they don't "feel" that in the first 30 seconds, (if that long), they already want to discontinue the meet-up. I even had one Woman tell me she could tell from my online Photo that we wouldn't have any chemistry, (seriously?). I was dressed to the nines in that photo, Khaki trousers, button up Shirt and Blazer, clean shaven and brand new haircut. I did take the photo myself, so I don't know if that was a factor.

A man without options becomes necessitous and this leads to a lack of confidence and scarcity mentality

Great advice!

This was great. I agree with you and endorse every bit. Let's have a lot lot more. Thank you so so much. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

This may be right but isnt these things make a guy nice and sweet who are often been cheated or friend zoned

Yeah feeding her sounds all well and good but I am NOT allowed to touch my wife's pizza unless I want to lose a finger. 🤣

So True. Every single one of the 10 gestures.

Hello I enjoyed this one guy liked your idea of gently grabbing their face I have Ashley daydreamed about doing this before I study marriage counseling and I’d like you to keep coming up with ideas like this to help break through some of the side barriers not to be abused of cars not to be used honorably so I can make myself into a better person thank you

Don’t try too hard. Do these things and you’ll have trouble getting rid of her when you want the relationship to end. Also such good gestures should be reciprocated, otherwise she’s not worth it.

Right on, but make sure she's into you before doing the more physical of these at the beginning of the list, or you may have to find your dream lawyer.

It is true Marni as ladies should be treat like babies. With these ten guestures they help men a lot. Thanks

Totally awesome content i.like the how you hug her and make her laugh 😅is a must love it

I have tried my best in romance and making the ladies that I was in a relationship with. All women that I have been in a relationship with have been losers and immature. They don’t know what they want in relationships. So I get stuck being single and left in the gutter. I sometimes wish I were born a woman , I would show women how to date and treat men. I would not play games as a woman. I don’t play games as a man either but yet women don’t care !

One more hair flip from Marni n I’m gonna throw my phone across the room n start breaking shit.

Thank you for the informative video.

Great video - thank you

My man Alpha m. Is gettin everywhere!! Love him dammit!

Maybe my girlfriend has become immune to these things, because I don't usually get any reactions out of these things anymore. They are just "assumed" things that will happen.

Hy Marni, i like your tube. It is just wonderfull to get some hints plusing up my flirt experiance. i love it. Its nice to hear i do something good and to get more tips. Yor doing a good job. Thanks. Greetings from Switzerland 🙂

Your advice is the bomb!