TEN SIGNS that show YOU DON'T HAVE CLASS! | Stop these Classless Behaviours Immediately!

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Жыл бұрын

10 Signs You Don't Have Class. Sometimes the signs are glaringly obvious; how you dress, walk and generally behave. However, sometimes there are more subtle tell tale signs that show you need refining in dome aspects of your life.
This video discusses 10 signs that show you lack class in many ways. 2023 is just 2 weeks away. Why not use this time to leave those mediocre behaviours behind and make the next year your most elegant and classy one yet?
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@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 Жыл бұрын

My mother told me this as a younger, single lady..."a man that will cheat WITH YOU, will cheat ON YOU!"

@wannaduckfin Жыл бұрын

So true

@CatHarlem Жыл бұрын

No one ever told me this but I always felt this way.

@vic576 Жыл бұрын

Not true know that each person has a reason for why they do what they do before jumping to conclusions.

@RTA6226 Жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@rucianapollard7098 Жыл бұрын

@@vic576 you must be a cheater...🤔🤔🤔

@irenecaboni5677 Жыл бұрын

As a married woman, I would certainly not blame another woman if my husband was cheating on me. The only person to blame is him, as he was the married one.

@camellia8625 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@SAGITTARIUS312 Жыл бұрын

TRUE! It’s never the mistresses fault! It is the husbands CHOICE!

@chiamandasspace6572 Жыл бұрын

That’s like saying an assasin should not be blamed as he’s being paid to do his job

@nicolesprocess Жыл бұрын

It's not about blame. The statement is that a 'woman who chases married men has no class'. Doesn't mean the man has class.

@amnotfightingalone8462 Жыл бұрын

I have always said this to friends but none has ever agreed with me. You have hit the nail right on the head, POINT BLANK PE- RI- OD.🧐🧐🧐🧐

@carolpowell2199 Жыл бұрын

My mother was the definition of ‘class’, she was my role model. Very blessed to have been her daughter.

@emerald8795 Жыл бұрын

There is nothing more beautiful than a woman with class and upstanding mannerism.

@christianaezema6573 Жыл бұрын

I love u so so much for this

@Chahlie Жыл бұрын

While my mother was the worst possible role model.... It took me many years to learn what was right. We should all be very tolerant of those who have low self esteem and who did not have the opportunity to learn better behaviours. It really can be a handicap. But that is where the tip to always treat others with respect comes in, no matter their class it is never wrong to be respectful to everyone, and who knows, someone may learn from your own example!

@genetabate45 Жыл бұрын

My mom too.

@OceanicPearlz1 Жыл бұрын

Carol my mother too

@TK_the_Teacher Жыл бұрын

I have dated a married guy myself. I am healing all the trauma, shame and aura I acquired in that relationship. In as much I have done a lot of healing, I still find myself in deep regret. Ladies whatever happens donnot date a married man.

@sharonnjeri3581 Жыл бұрын

I used to think I cannot date a married then I did. That was the lowest I have ever been in my life. Over two years later, I am healed and have learned to forgive myself. It gets better with time. I have also cut off all the people who endorsed that affair. I cannot even relate with the version of myself that dated him. I am better than that mistake.

@robbieb.garlandm.ed.6729 Жыл бұрын

❤ Amen… do not feel bad…I totally understand… Continue to heal and don’t look back…

@carolynbarkley8997 Жыл бұрын

Ask God for forgiveness, forgive yourself and vow not to ever do that again which is repentance then start to love yourself to wholeness. It's a process so do the work on yourself.

@joyokafor5887 Жыл бұрын

Keep your head up and move on. Now you know better, do better, don't Keep blaming yourself. You've made peace with God and yourself, so forgive yourself, don't dwell on your pass mistakes and regrets. I'm proud of you for removing yourself from that situation, it takes courage and loving yourself

@alissagonzales735 Жыл бұрын

I always had a rule. Never date a friends boyfriend or a married man. I always wanted to meet the parents or the siblings. I just got lucky I never dated a married man.

@snowshadow11 Жыл бұрын

Morality, dignity, descency, self respect, respect for others, love for one another , manners. The greatest of these is love.

@sarahsalter678 Жыл бұрын

This comment is wonderful!! 🫶🏽💕🤲🏽

@susanspianostudio7057 Жыл бұрын

What I find amazing is that these tips are all biblical principles. If people read the Bible and applied it they'd be a woman of elegance. 🎉 Thank you for this video. Well done! 💖

@nirmalaramjit1267 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you!😊

@Nicolee7764 Жыл бұрын

@Susan's Piano Studio, Exactly, l said the same thing.

@genevievehoskins6829 Жыл бұрын

I noticed that too!

@anais457 11 ай бұрын

I said the same thing. God wants his daughters to be modest or elegant. It is in the Bible.

@neoraisrael8403 9 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same exact thing. Proverbs 7:10-11 popped into my mind when she spoke about being loud

@wannaduckfin Жыл бұрын

Wonderful wisdom! I'm a 72 year old grandmother, married 50 years, and still elegant. New sub!❤

@kriszma1212 Жыл бұрын

Amen Mama' keep on keeping on! I'm a little younger than You' and still classy.. looking good, feeling good too!

@rochellethompson9854 Жыл бұрын

God Bless You! You are from the "Great School"--not the Old School! So very proud of you!👑🦚🎁💄👠💅💖💝💜💞❤️‍🔥

@cynthiabubbles1047 Жыл бұрын

I started following you today I have not stop scrolling down 😸 thank you u got a new fan

@patmarveli8789 Жыл бұрын

1. don’t date a married man 2. dirty, rude and junk words/remark 3. disrespecting/mocking others 4.loud mouth 5. boasting of achievements , status and connections 6 don’t dress well . Be modest and elegant 7. lack manner and good basic social etiquette 8. desperation can lead to cheap and Poor options. 9. betraying your friends because of attention seeking 10. good body, mouth, skin etc hygiene

@Portia620 6 ай бұрын

I need to work on dirty jokes and cuss words and some of my outfits are half tops

@prophetchrist1994 Жыл бұрын

We dress like we’d like to be addressed. We need three billion more women like her.

@suzygirl1843 Жыл бұрын

Go to Africa then

@prophetchrist1994 Жыл бұрын

@@suzygirl1843 I believe she resides in England. Such eloquence is found in the Queen's Province. I am a king myself, so I would know.

@sakuraesther6309 Жыл бұрын

@@prophetchrist1994 King of where exactly?? I am curious btw

@prophetchrist1994 Жыл бұрын

@@suzygirl1843 God bless you. You’re perfect 🥰

@prophetchrist1994 Жыл бұрын

@@sakuraesther6309🙂 I am an heir to the kingdom of God. I’m a partaker of God’s divine grace, and I am seated in heavenly places.

@Lov3A11Rac3s Жыл бұрын

As a 26-year-old young professional this video was SOLID GOLD. Sometimes we need a shaking of the tables, this video was confirmation that being classy takes intention, AND isn’t common anymore

@Portia620 6 ай бұрын

Class is lacking in today’s society! 😢🤦‍♀️

@estherokpo2564 Жыл бұрын

She’s the elder sister we all wished we had 😢❤

@Touchedmymouthministriesint Жыл бұрын

Wouldn't it have been more classy to approach from a positive perspective... 1. Respect other's boundaries i.e. have your own husband and not another's 2. Speak gracefully - 3. Be humble-don't put down others... 4. Speak gently - Speak less and moderately 5. Be discreet re: high income status, position, status, etc., er, don't be a show off 6. Dress decently and modestly - first impression counts - no breast/leg and thighs😊 7. Have etiquette-good mnners 8. Don't be motivated by desperation - maintain standards 9. Respect yourself - don't do any and anything for attention 10. Attend to proper hygiene - mind bad breath etc, love yourself - Attend to your health

@GABRIELADAWSON Жыл бұрын

Don’t Forget Keep your hands to yourself except when Greeting Others and Or Defending Oneself or Someone else Weaker than you Etc.

@augustaluch7354 Жыл бұрын

The way you stated them is awesome. However, I think how she stated them resonates with what she tagged the video.

@Touchedmymouthministriesint Жыл бұрын

@@augustaluch7354 Then I'm sorry, the tagging might have been, classily: 'ten signs of classiness'😊; Happy New Year🎉

@augustaluch7354 Жыл бұрын

@@Touchedmymouthministriesint I wish you the very best of it😊

@Touchedmymouthministriesint Жыл бұрын

@Augusta Luch Yeah man, it is so😊

@pappysheart6710 Жыл бұрын

Dear all women here, I'm a guy and I say with honesty that if you carry yourself with dignity, you suddenly become more respectable and attractive. In my opinion, selling one's looks on onlyfans to lonely men is not "liberation" nor "empowerment". Wish y'all the best and I'll see you out in the real world.

@craziebarbietalks692 Жыл бұрын

It isn’t empowering because they’re letting men overstep their boundaries for money. True empowerment as a woman is knowing your worth and boundaries

@yuki._loves Жыл бұрын

@@craziebarbietalks692 Exactly!!

@mikab2375 Жыл бұрын

@@craziebarbietalks692 but they aren't letting the men overstep their boundaries. Many of them have poor or no boundaries therefore they'd have to be an existing boundary beforehand for men/ others to overstep.

@craziebarbietalks692 Жыл бұрын

@@mikab2375 true

@mstwelvedeadlycyns Жыл бұрын

Being attractive gives you respect. Do I have respect after my reproductive rights have been taken away?

@babygirltdi Жыл бұрын

I'm glad I stumbled across this. My mother was the epitome of class. It didn't matter the situation she was always poised, graceful, and classy. She taught all eight of her daughters and her granddaughters.

@royalgoddess3284 Жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌🏾 let’s put class and grace back in our place 💪🏾✨

@dollhouseq1530 Жыл бұрын

Ladies keep in mind to learn etiquette and femininity for your own self growth. Not for the approval of a man or to one up your fellow sisters. Learning to be feminine brings us back to the core of who we were before being damged by those we may have trusted. Im on the journey as well. Stay positive and be forgiving of yourself always! Much love sisters❤

@buenaventuraferrerafeliz2376 Жыл бұрын

🥺

@aishwarya2016 Жыл бұрын

Yes Sister ✨♥💯

@wanjikunaomi157 6 ай бұрын

Good luck on ur journey dea

@BlackCoffeeee Жыл бұрын

Well, this needs to be a public service announcement. You really covered it all. Excellent.

@bernicewise8313 Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@itsinesantonio Жыл бұрын

Million yes !

@Mkym365 Жыл бұрын

💯

@donnaalexander6133 Жыл бұрын

😆 🤣 😂

@nav_1050 Жыл бұрын

You really called me classless in such a classy way 😂😂❤

@itsinesantonio Жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@amarairene1760 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@Wonderwoman79G Жыл бұрын

😆 🤣

@mishyrawanzo9191 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@freenow5484 Жыл бұрын

That’s what we’re all thinking😂😂😂 I think the most important thing is to be a good person! Be yourself and Love infinitely. Class is a social construct designed to control and separate humanity! It’s something colonizers used to strip the cultural identity from so many people.

@chiarac3833 Жыл бұрын

Truly classy people are as kind and respectful of the lowest level employees as they are to high level employees. I worked at a company where certain people wouldn't even say good morning because I was a temporary employee. I almost pitied them, even as a young woman.

@christineparker7534 Жыл бұрын

My grandmother always told me ,a well bread person is not a snob.

@CF-yr1dm Жыл бұрын

This.

@Chahlie Жыл бұрын

I remember as a child reading an old etiquette book and there was an example in it of how to introduce your friend to your gardener, something you MUST do if you are speaking with your gardener when your friend arrives. You don't expect them to strike up a friendship, but it shows respect.

@bridgettewilson2075 Жыл бұрын

I truly enjoy and try to speak on these issues as much as I can delicately to the younger women and girls. I’m 64 and I know that what you teach is the absolute best advice for women. Keep shining your light and teaching these valuable lessons. Vivian you are true elegance. Thank you.

@bella57644 Жыл бұрын

You spkke truth

@spaceted3977 Жыл бұрын

I'm a 68 yr old male and have never got married or had children !!! I have my own place with 2 Dogs !!!! I thought morality died in the 1960s. I've had a Wonderful Life on my own !!!!!

@rochellethompson9854 Жыл бұрын

So beautiful sentiment!💝💜💞❤️‍🔥💖❤️👑🦚

@Portia620 6 ай бұрын

@@spaceted3977agreed!!! I’m far from classy. I have my flaws like too short shorts or dresses but to me I wear a swim suit and it shows just as much. 🤦‍♀️😂. I became really sick and was married to a very try abusive man. Haven’t dated and really would love to do that but most people sleeps around and it’s just sickening to me! I’m sad by the mess of the world and my words for an educated woman have ..let’s just say my filter is gone and I cuss often now. Trying to be more refined but serious sick of vultures and not sure I can turn the ship around. Trying

@ashleyg.2064 Жыл бұрын

Had a rough day. Thank you for reminding me I'm classy 😌🥰

@itsinesantonio Жыл бұрын

👏❤️

@janisnewman1832 Жыл бұрын

I accidentally found your channel and i have been blown away! You have such sound advice but not just for class, but for the correct way to behave in public, according to the rules of your host or hostes, or traditions of the area. The old saying “class cant be bought” is inherently true and exhibited currently in many venues of wealthy and powerful people. Your video is also about likability no one likes men nor women who behave in the negative manner in which you are speaking. I have subscribed and im so grateful you are addressing this in this current world. Thank you

@rokhayaleye7465 Жыл бұрын

I’m 19years and all my friends leave me because I behave like the way you explaining but I feel like classy is being around people who are classy too❤ thanks you so much I just follow you ❤

@dotlee Жыл бұрын

Their loss! Keep being you and stay classy young lady.

@Chahlie Жыл бұрын

I'm older and believe me, if people are uncomfortable with you having class it's due to their own insecurities. I worked in the garden centre of a farm store for a time, and dressed appropriately for the job. Some time after I had left, I dropped in to see my old co-workers. One said "wow, you look like a lady", and one said "you dress like THAT to go shopping?". Short sleeved sweater, knee length skirt and loafers, but it hit her insecurity. Just be who you know is right :)

@NatalieTheRican Жыл бұрын

You are ahead of the game at 19 years old. Be proud, and keep being the classy young lady you are ❤

@sherules5005 Жыл бұрын

No profanities, bad manners etc moving forward ⏩. I keep learning, I don't stop

@preciousbwembya3852 Жыл бұрын

I lost it at 'deranged hyena' and immediately laughed like one 😂

@niese8928 Жыл бұрын

Me too 😅

@jewelwanjiru2353 Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@obiageriakueligwe1996 Жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😂

@jalikatujalloh1145 Жыл бұрын

Me too 😂

@gratefulgrace8023 Жыл бұрын

Same reaction here. I'm right there with you, sis! Not a very classy sentence but I'm a work in progress.

@belindacrisp7078 Жыл бұрын

It really does come down to self esteem doesn't it. And it's a vicious circle. Most of the 'bad' behaviours were mine in my late teens and early twenties. I thought I was worthless. Time, experience and work taught me otherwise. :) Thank you for a really good video.

@swiftkarma4436 Жыл бұрын

Same here. Never wanted an attached man tho. I don't like to share.

@dellk8198 Жыл бұрын

I'm very proud and happy for you !:)

@rucianapollard7098 Жыл бұрын

@@swiftkarma4436 girl, you better keep it 💯!! Ain't nobody sharing in 2023!!!

@johnniepegues305 Жыл бұрын

It's nice to point out the 10 points or so that women who don't have class but let's also call out the men who don't have any self control because they go after women who are allowed in the cheat web with them as well

@justinamusyoka4986 Жыл бұрын

Women brought up with absent father's got relationship issues.

@1488life Жыл бұрын

Sadly my mother in law fits ALL of these. My poor husband has tried talking her about but she just keeps telling him “I am who I am, if people don’t like it they can “f” off”. Then she wonders why none of her sons want to be around her or why none of us want our children around her…🤦‍♀️

@thinkmagHQ Жыл бұрын

17:50 I’m can’t tell you how refreshing it is to hear a young woman speak about this topic. 🙌🏽

@juliatripp2010 Жыл бұрын

Yes, rather than hair, nails, fashion, BBL, etc!!! I enjoyed listening to her! Despite the fact that I have raised myself well. I must work on my spicy use of language, however. Thanks young lady. You are lovely and a pleasure to listen to

@helenp5649 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making these videos, I'm 25 and look up to you quite a bit. You have single-handedly taught me more about being elegant than my own mom!

@sulusu4812 Жыл бұрын

My mom used to put down for my attempts to be elegant.

@bernicewise8313 Жыл бұрын

@@sulusu4812 WOW!

@soleighaku6690 Жыл бұрын

@@sulusu4812 mine as well or just simply being comfortable in my femininity. She’d call me fast for doing my hair everyday and always looking my best and make me feel bad about myself. It wasn’t until I became an adult that I realized a parent can be jealous just as anyone else

@G_Galore Жыл бұрын

I definitely get made fun of in my family by my mom and sisters for desiring to be classy, dressing f feminine, and going to church of all things

@cathynykolaishyn8926 Жыл бұрын

Something else to consider is being rude to waitresses or cashiers or public workers. Not communicating, just being rude. That is having no class.

@jarkachalmovianska7812 Жыл бұрын

Its not about class, but selflove, selfesteem, intelligence. If you have these 3, you are cool classy and on top

@juanitahardy8583 Жыл бұрын

I was taught very young that a rich person may not have class but that a poor person can have class. I had a very classy father who taught me to always value quality over quantity in all things in life. You are a very very classy lady.

@alissagonzales735 Жыл бұрын

My mother used to say how you dress and act is how a guy sees you and will treat you accordingly. I always got treated with respect on dates.

@nkatekomshwane3872 Жыл бұрын

Yes ladies sooo true..another one is talking badly about your fellow women..it can make you look inferior, like you lack confidence/class.Great video Vivienne God 🙌 bless

@florence848 Жыл бұрын

I hope Camilla can really watch this very informative piece of GOLDEN ADVICE on being a HOME - WRECKER !!!

@winniejohnson5559 Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏 indeed

@portiahlatshwayo7675 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for showing up on my search bar😊 Recovering from a year long toxic relationship and in my case, I had betrayed myself; standards beliefs and all. I now remember who I am🙂

@deborah9384 Жыл бұрын

there are no mistakes in life. we all learn what makes us stronger ❤️

@josephineakah9089 Жыл бұрын

Mum I am grateful for your teaching on elegance. More grace.

@realpristine Жыл бұрын

Self esteem is soo important 🤎🙌🏾

@mariannefidel Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. It's the foundation of everything isn't it.

@arlenelovelace18 Жыл бұрын

I greatly appreciate this episode. My husband of 34 yrs left me for his best friends wife (she was also a friend of mine). And your word’s describing such a woman was actually healing for me 💕

@successbassey6675 7 ай бұрын

Thank you ma'am for this amazing video. I will definitely apply these things. Keep it coming!

@californiasgauld9442 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this...lots to think about and apply. God bless you!

@nashonharris7805 Жыл бұрын

I must tell you, I love this video, seen watching you approximately five months ago, and I used to use profanity, it made me empty and I dislike myself. Now, I don't allow anyone to speak to me in such manner like that, and I do not talk to anyone like that.I read more to gain knowledge.Thank you, sweetie❤

@christinepadua593 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for highlighting these points! I’ve been surrounded by some women who believe they have class; yet, display many of these characteristics. This is good Food for Thought.

@sarahsalter678 Жыл бұрын

Right!!!!

@janetmiller2980 Жыл бұрын

I would also say dress for the environment you inhabit. I work a job with exposure to potential hazards and one that keeps me on my feet 17:54 quite a bit. Professional dress, for example a skirt, blouse and high heels may not only get ruined, but be uncomfortable, whereas jeans/t shirt or scrubs and sneakers are ideally comfortable. IMO leggings on most jobs look pretty crass, but that changes if the job is something like personal fitness trainer, coaching or teaching something like ballet. Adapting oneself to the particular situation works best.

@alannathompson2587 Жыл бұрын

The number of times I had to check my dictionary for some of the words you mentioned 😂😂...+10 to my vocabulary inventory!

@bros7502 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much, Vivienne! I learned a lot from your video and you spoke so well about the importance of self presentation. I totally agree with everything you shared. I am a new subscriber watching from California, USA.

@aniettetanwee2112 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video Vivianne...It is so fruitful

@curli-lettey4319 Жыл бұрын

I truly appreciate this video its is a very good reminder of traditional & primary examples of class instead of the disturbing stuff being displayed (social media, public, and music videos, tick-tock) as the way of having class.

@Queen-ConsciousYa Жыл бұрын

Yes! I love this ❤this is absolutely necessary.

@reenabyroo7757 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being a classy elegent lady. Sometimes we need to be reminded what's required of us. Along the way we could lose our beautiful selves. So thank you so much for refreshing our minds & thought.

@tomikamedearis6641 Жыл бұрын

This message was a true treasure. Thank you very much for your time, knowledge and love.

@ruthakers7524 Жыл бұрын

I just discovered your channel and I am really enjoying it. Thank you for speaking the truth. A lot of people need to hear it!

@alcudiababe1 Жыл бұрын

It is one thing to discover you've been seeing a married man rather than chasing a married man. Let me explain, before you got to understand he was with someone in a committed husband and wife relationship he had you believing that you were the one for him. I do believe that's an honest mistake on your part because men do lie or not telling you the full truth but what you do next determines your value.

@aesinam Жыл бұрын

Yes definitely. Doing it knowingly is definitely different from unknowingly

@chiarac3833 Жыл бұрын

True, but as soon as you discover he's married, it's over. Otherwise you're a doormat.

@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 Жыл бұрын

What a great video! Full of TRUTH. Thank you for telling it JUST LIKE IT IS!

@itsinesantonio Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@kingsdaughter83 10 ай бұрын

I LOVE THIS!!! I am so glad I found your channel.

@stephanieharper6047 Жыл бұрын

I like her, I will do better to be a lady of elegance in every way. I am not perfect but some of her examples made me see myself

@Ever_Winning Жыл бұрын

I always learn rich English vocabulary in addition to how to be more refined... Thank you for the extra lessons, madam Vivian.

@Beautyonitsown Жыл бұрын

Nice. Like which?

@staceymcgowan2238 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, having teenaged daughters is a challenge, and I can’t emphasize enough the importance of parents, particularly mothers, teaching and modelling to their daughters self respect. Self respect is not limited to the way we speak, but in all the topics you tactfully covered. Also I heartedly agree a man can only wander so far, and quite probably in circles , if there are no women willing to take the bait.

@avisreid3199 Жыл бұрын

I know quite a few people who need to listen to this. Thank you much. Well done and well said on how a lady should carry and conduct herself. God bless you🙏🏾

@SecretsofTarot777 5 ай бұрын

Another great video, thanks for the tips!

@StayAtHomeMeme Жыл бұрын

This is beautiful. I wish I had had someone like you in my life when I was young. I was far too old before I learned some of these lessons because I had no good role models to teach me some of these things. I’m very lucky to have found a wonderful man and have grown a lovely family in spite of those flaws. But I love that people have platforms these days to provide young woman with this guidance. Very needed and Truly beautiful.

@lidiadegouveia7677 Жыл бұрын

This is an amazing video, thanks for your input on a very important way of living, all the best.

@sunnymoore8823 Жыл бұрын

I love! this video. This is so well needed. Thank you! For sharing It’s very appreciated.

@stephaniedegange2737 Жыл бұрын

you are so helpful...thank you for making your points so succinctly. unfortunately, I am guilty of some of these things sometimes. sometimes I am so impulsive, for example. thank you so much for all of your advice!

@deborahpacheco2799 Жыл бұрын

Young lady, all you have stated here is so refreshing. Thank you so much.

@LB-ku6ry Жыл бұрын

You are beautiful! This hair style looks lovely on you. And this video, well, it’s perfect! Thank you!🤍

@jennifercampbell9938 5 ай бұрын

I just found your channel and absolutely love your lessons about living an elegant life with class. Thank you!

@islandgirl220 Жыл бұрын

Love this video and this channel soo much❤❤❤ ALL valid points!

@jeanniejones8777 Жыл бұрын

This is excellent! I have a passion to teach and remind women of what makes us special. Behaving in a manner that diminishes your value is what creates a atmosphere of self disrespect. A majority of those in power tempt women into low self esteem mindsets inorder to manipulate us into a cycle that routinely adds to their financial bottom line. Being reminded of the basics of what having class means and making this a priority creates a game changing shift in respect for self and others. Thank you again for this informative and powerful post✨

@mariealphonse7613 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for telling the truth!

@lotusandbirds Жыл бұрын

Love it so much; I always enjoy listening to you. You have great giveaways and help raise the elegance of women globally. Keep up the miraculous work. Take care

@ladyaonthemove Жыл бұрын

Videos like this are not for everyone, you don't expect everyone to coddle your emotions and pamper simple truths just because you don't want to be judged for your "lifestyle". She isn't forcing anyone to take her advice. I am pretty sure her content is for women who actually want to turn their lives around and not for those are simply searching for validation from strangers on the internet.

@mongalix8 Жыл бұрын

Well said. So many people here wounded by her advice instead of listening to learn and adjust.

@bernicewise8313 Жыл бұрын

@@mongalix8 Exactly!

@aesinam Жыл бұрын

I wonder why they even watch her videos. Some of them always have negative comments

@flo-dd5sw Жыл бұрын

Very well stated

@denisebranchcomb7811 Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed this video it was very informative and very true on everything in this video still working on improving Self-esteem

@selinguezel631 Жыл бұрын

Dese Vivian I’m so happy and feel blessed that I met you. You are an incredible lady. Thank you so much 🙏❤️

@CryptoAtena Жыл бұрын

Glad I found this channel, I’m constantly re-evaluating myself. Thanks

@lucydelvillar8926 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this lovely video. Powerful blessing to you.😊🌻

@rikdupthma3208 Жыл бұрын

Awesome 👍👏👏👏I really appreciated your opinions on this issues. You have done a wonderful job sharing such views and ideas which are absolutely helpful to upgrade and uplift women. Thanks dear😍

@crystalwhite4799 Жыл бұрын

Great information on simply being a classy lady, thank you.

@MS-sk2yk Жыл бұрын

I love how descriptive you are! Thank you for this video.

@safiyyahmuhammad3185 Жыл бұрын

I wished we had enough money to bring you to high schools in the district where I work so you can talk to these young girls!! My goodness!!! We need you!

@chiarac3833 Жыл бұрын

Those young girls would benefit from a mentoring program. Self esteem is a learned behaviour.

@marymaddy7450 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing with these beautiful tips. ❤❤

@wendysimpson134 11 ай бұрын

I adore your videos and approach to life. The need to develop self-respect and carry oneself appropriately in society can NOT be understated.

@godblessyou7702 Жыл бұрын

Vivian; thank you for sharing!🙏

@SoyJoyTV 15 күн бұрын

This is very useful, thanks for sharing!

@fswfromthegroundup1848 Жыл бұрын

I'm following as I truly want to see AA women rising in this area. I'm glad to see you are starting this needed revolution.

@roseberlinejuste8368 Жыл бұрын

I’m grateful for you my dear, great n very informative video.

@katyarnold-ji8sv Жыл бұрын

Excellence!! video. Thanks! for sharing Woman of Elegance.

@johnangel5041 Жыл бұрын

You're the first sensible woman after my mom that I have come across all my life, this isn't a joke, I am saying the truth! Thank you so much for being bold to say this.

@gabrielledesouter2804 Жыл бұрын

WoW 🤩 thank you 🙏🏾 my princess l just discovered your blog and I’m in ! You are a true princess 👸 your mom raised you well and thank you again for sharing your wisdom! I’m a 60 years old glam - mom and l approve everything you said! God bless love ❤️ and peace from California!

@gordanaplackoska1961 Жыл бұрын

One of the best videos I ever watched. Thank you for doing it.

@marylynvictoriamackay1206 Жыл бұрын

Ooo Viv Thank you so much I am happy I met you through the channel, People usually make these things like it's normal, listening to your videos I feel we still have truthful and classy women around 🥰