That's exactly how you attract an INFJ. 🤣 Than, after three years of staring at each other, and everyone else teasing us for being in love (hard denial) the INFJ will finally come to conclusion this pat position is a colosal waste of time and shock you with abrupt:"Look we both feel this shit, let's see if it works." You will be scared shitless, panic ensues, but nod in agreement...and soon find out we are cut of the same cloth and the fairytale begins. Or we both just stare and keep our mouths shut, till we're ninety and accidentaly find out we've loved each other our whole lives, and had no balls to act on it. Either or. No inbetween. 🤣

for infp imagination is more real than reality😆

​@@dominikamestrovic7663 after three years of staring at each other 👀👀🙈🙈 I can relate..😂😂😂

@@forbidden-cyrillic-handle maybe your Si are quite developed

as an ENFJ who made eye contact with an INFP, I can't tell whether he likes me because he can't look at me straight in the eye.. or he hates me because google says INFPs put more effort and attention to those they like INFPs always do their best to avoid the one they like and the one they dislike.. huhu how would I ever know which one I am 😭

lol yup

Unlike internet stereotypes it is actually not that uncommon. Mind you we ENTPs have tert Fe, so the stereotype ENTPs are actually the exception. Of course, we can be assholes, but if you actually met an ENTP is like a back and forth, as almost all types, you can see the middle functions in real time. You would see Ti and Fe, sometimes roasting and or disagreeing, and sometimes acting like an Fe dom. Of course, Fe can get unhealthy like any Fe user, but people wouldn't think an Fe dom is by default an asshole, or even an INTP is by default an asshole, yet for the ENTP for some reason people do. So you will know the average ENTP by the constrast often, of being an asshole and then super caring in a few seconds, going back and forth between both. Now what does happen with me, as an ENTP, where I can see what happened on the video. Is that with a crush I get somewhat nervous, which I rarely am. So I try to use humor to make my crush like me... but I can be a bit extra on the asshole side for some reason, trying to be funny. Then i realize and I try to be a bit more nice, but suddenly another roast comes to mind and because am nervous I would say it without any tact... often giving the idea I actually hate my crush, lmao. I often make my crushes hate me and they run away from me... but then I attract a lot of people that are not my crush. Sorry for the long text, I was going to make a simple comment, but Ne goes, "ooh add this, and this and then this" while writing it, lmao.

@@farrex0 bro.... I'm so like that too.... I like roasting but it's never in malicious its Because I like you.... I probably won't do it if i didn't. Usually I'm very nice(now, my idea of nice can differ from others...😁). Cause I can't help but put myself in other person shoes. I've been doing it my whole life.... But sometimes there's this snarky little joke related to the person, pops in my head. And I've to say it.... Cause it's so hilarious in my mind...😂🤣. Sometimes I know it's going to hurt that person(though it's not intended) I can't stop myself😂.... Mostly I don't like to hurt people but actually make them comfortable and happy with me... And I get that.... writing down long comments because ne... Because I do that too...(as you can see...)Cause there's so much to cover... It could be important. Same thing with using humour to impress people or make my crush like me but it's doesn't go well... Try being the silent and strong type, people usually tend not to like us because of things we talk about and our opinions or the debating, fuck you attitude etc.... Sometimes people just take our words in a mean way.

ENTP: "Yeah, you're probably right. We can just agree to disagree and stuff." The crush: "oh my god he's completely in love with me"

@@farrex0 Your comments always make me so excited because you give so much insight on your type!!! Thank you 🤩👏

Ah...get an ENTP, we'll do that for ya... Just for the heck of it though.... We never take stuff seriously...

Reminds me of an joke. Wikipedia is made up of the need of INTJ and INTPs to correct themselves.

Indeed but does a conversation necessarily has to be a disagreement to be lengthy and intelligent though? I guess it's so INTJ ah ah!

@@JstJaybeingJay One of my best friends is an ENTP and that's exactly why

@@angelinap.3840 Well done 👍.

OOoohh NOoooooo that is me.....

Same 😩.

Same here.

I’ve scared off many a crush. If I like someone, I tend to be deemed as “mean”

Me too...

If they like Kardashians... just... nup.

Second that as an INTJ. Not that I know how to flirt anyway

Very true. I’m still searching for the Contender of my dreams

If there's no intellectual challenge, then it becomes boring, frankly. I mean at some point you do have to talk to each other, and there's only so much small talk you can do.

Yes ! What I secretly really want is to be proven wrong in the correct way.

Agree, I totally concur, although I might be a bit more discrete!

As a former infp... i feel it

@@scarship8250 you can't be a former type. Your mbti can't change

@@marium.n795 idk, i did the mbti a year ago and i was an infp. I did it a month ago and i was an enfp, then i did it a week ago and it said I'm an entp

trauma changed me ig

As an INFP, I'm having awkward flashbacks of my years in middle school and high school 😂😅

SAME, especially as an infp in highschool rn lmao

As an INFP, I too, am slightly upset at how accurate it was.

Omg same, I am having flashbacks of that as well. It really is so accurate.

INFPs & ESFPs - my favorite types :p Undarrated match though 🤔

i agree with this statement. entps are hot

It’s truly a fantastic experience

I know, I know, we're delightful af

As an INFJ, you can have all the ENTPs lol. Your two types seem quite compatible. To me you both seem too robotic and mechanical, I've had friends that were both INTJ and ENTP; fun friendships while they lasted but it was always too draining for me to interact with them for long periods of time.

As a friend of an INTJ/ENTP couple, the arguments are glorious

it’s giving joe goldberg

@@forbidden-cyrillic-handle same here

Try being an INFP guy (me)…it’s about the worst thing I could wish on someone.

@@Harpazo24 Don't give up. I am an INTJ and my boyfriend is an INFP, we met online and kinda really liked each other before we met. On our first date he remain in silence for a long time, but since i was interested in him i did all the conversation and he eventually open up. You just need to find someone who gets you. You guys are really interesting people.

@@Harpazo24 being an ISTP is also really annoying, it would be so much easier to be one of these parrots that never stop talking

Thanks for commenting about this, I feel like I just unlocked a whole new level of watching the videos 🤣😄

i forgot about the subtitles, so now i have to watch the video all over again!

we gotta break this stereotype man. As an ISTP, I say we are allowed to date other people than INFP and INFJs lol. On the real, I'm glad for you. Every INFP I know is a big ass red flag even if they are cute

@@junlongkwan2519 🥺

​@@junlongkwan2519Yeah. Actually Isfj and Esfj are more chill and less dramatic or annoying than Infp and Infj

its okay, we dont want yall either@@aiko8311

In that special awkward way that definitely catches their attention but for wrong reasons?

My first reaction was "didn't everybody?" only to then realize no, not everybody. Just me xD

Yeah I just awkwardly try to make eye contact or smile. 🤷🏼‍♀️ like idk what I’m supposed to do or say lol

what's up with us INTP staring at someone like a creep 💀

yep i just stare n stare until they talk to me

Oh dang, maybe that ISTP friend I have is trying to flirt with me and that's why he insists on starting random little awkward conversations with me even though he usually doesn't talk....

@@uprisingsun9105 yes, that seems that he wants something with you. I dated an ISTP and he was the most romantic mam in the world while dating. But before we started dating he was dry 😅

@@Lizzzi86 i love the word dry 😂😂😂😂 It's so accurate with us 😂💔

Yep true

Why ELSE would we want to communicate with someone we barely know?!

You nailed it 👍

exactly

😂😂

Of course, that inferior Si causing mayhem

This comment is the TRUTH 😂👌🏻

Omg that’s so adorable!❤️

So sweet...be happy always together...very lucky both of you!!

@@playful5236 We are convinced we have the best marriage on earth, honestly. We both went through hell to be together though. But being together forever is worth whatever comes along in our paths, and we'll take it on together as we always have!

@@VYMQGSOH im touched by your love. Keep on radating it! Im 18 and i will remember your word: things can be like hell, but it will be worth it. 😇

ahhh so sweet 🥰🥰

Haha, Kristin must be psychic, right?! 🔮😉

Oh god damn. Same.

Entp timestamp?

@@sanjayrohra9560 3:33

As someone who has met a few rare ENTPs, it's sad to see how you can be this misunderstood. I've had to tell a few sensor friends/acquaintances that you have no bad intentions when messing around, and that you actually do care. I've even noticed you care more than they do ; but show it differently.

Lol Ahahaha..hahahahahah........

That makes sense because it means that they notice you. When you silently observe, you'll wonder why you're the one who end up becoming a joke to them out of everyone. Also, the out-of-character of themselves when they're around you is suspicious even if you want to ignore it. Their eyes seem to say something when they look at you. 🧐 -IxFx

So damnnnn accurate

you just gave me a brilliant idea

Hahaha amazing

I would dig it if someone started a conversation like this. Immediately more attractive if people think outside the box. - INFJ

Haha, I wish I could accordingly break the function conversation down as eloquently as you have. You should make a comic. 😃😁

WAIIIT but I would actually fall for that and try to keep the conversation going -sincerely,istp

That's would be amazing to have an Inside Out version of the functions of each type

That is what I thought. "Is that what you are into? I'm your Huckleberry."

The most insecure one will give. Don't worry! but then it would probably get awkward unless they somehow start talking about something interesting that they both love.

ok... maybe more what each one loves, but what the other party has probably heard of...

The intp obviously

tricky question. staring is easy. staring to each other is hard though.

@@Tilnaor Yeah, not turning away in shame, alarm, and or embarassment...

Actually, I'm dating and ENTP, and they are one of the nicest people i know

If my ENTP fiance talks to me nicely for a day I'll probably have a panic attack.

Indeed, ENTPs can be very blunt, but they can surprise you with their earnestness.

@@self7341 you deserve someone who talks to you nicely!

@@cutehugeyacht I know this comes from a nice place :) I'm an INTP and I can be a prick from time to time. In my perspective, he's just matching the energy I give out haha~

I know!!! I thought that was adorable! People don't usually think of ISTJs that way so I thought that was nice. :-)

Me too, it's ISTJ's way of showing affection, without having to openly acknowledge it! 😉

What am I missing? I feel like I didn’t understand the ISTJ one and I am one

@@EpicoNubletto idk, you guys are so dependable, that if you cancel something to spend time with me, I feel so much love from that. So my heart literally skipped a beat when I saw the skit, haha 😅

Cute 👌

i LOVE when entp surrenders like that

I know what you mean. I'm entp female in a relationship with infj male. Well he brings out the best of me like I don't even recognize myself

Idk what do you even mean cause ENTP are literally made of empathy. How do you think we can truly understand all the viewpoints and being at the same time in everybody's shoes without it. Plus we have Fe as our tertiary function and it's often well-developed. I've been too empathetic my whole life and deeply care for those I choose for my close circles and really understand people around me, usually better then them themselves which has been said to me way too often. Don't judge by stereotypes they usually show only debating part and make us seem like assholes we sometimes are but at the same time we are deeply empathetic assholes.

It sounds like you are a very adaptable person 🙂

As an INFJ too, I just behave with my crush the same way I would behave with anyone else. I might occasionally laugh more (cause of nervousness lol) or try to look good but other than that, there's not a lot of difference-

It's just like a meme I've seen about that character from Split. Person: I like your personality Me: Thank you (I've made this one especially for you)

ISTP, imagination can be running wild, but it would never be close to the real situation, so not trying to stop it and getting familiar with how it isn't might hurt the actual conversation

I’m not sure if I’m 100% an INTP but I think it’s the one that I relate the most and I had always declared to my crushes. I got rejected by all of them but at least I tried lmao 😂

Agreed. INFJ here, in a relationship with an ISTP. You guys come off dry and cold at first, but I have never had anyone put in so much effort as my ISTP, when it came to convincing me he's my man and he's in it for the long run. Both our types have some things in common when it comes to relationship material. We dnt do dating. All in or nothing, superficilal stuff just doesn't make sense to us. Both are picky with potential partners, cause both are individual and independant enough not to spend time and energy on wrong person. We both need partner who will be our true north, but let us do our own thing and not get overly posessive or jelaous. He soon narrowed out on me, but I was the reluctanct one. That man spent eight months figuring out various tactics to break me and make himself irreplacable in my life. From finding out if I have a problem (car, plumbing, dog sitting, etc.) and making sure he was the first to arrive and help solve it, to finding out how I like to spend my time, and planning our dates accordingly, to baking me a cake, cause I love men that cook and placing candles all over his apartmant, the first time I came over for dinner, to buying me a bag he saw me glancing at once. He was picking up on everything to show me how much he sees me and wants to make me happy in any way he can. The way he invested his effort, time and patience is what made me give in. Honesty, I would have given up much sooner, but he made sure to take his time and check each of my "that's my man" boxes. Hats down to ISTP's. When they want someone, they will move the Earth out of orbit to get them. 😉

As someone married to an istp I can confirm

Absolutely agree. I'm ENTP and dated an ISTP for some time. He started with a dry "hello" when we met first time, but when he decided that he wanted something with me, he became the man that had done more to seduce me: dressing with the style I like more, planning the dates to be very enjoyable and exciting, even he prepared the music for the car with a selection of my taste, and many many other things. Even he continued doing this when we were dating, not only at start like the other people. We haven't continue dating because I want kids and he doesn't, and he moved for work, but he was really the most romantic man I've ever dated.

Yeah, I really don't know about the Istp skits. But I swear, everytime I (ENFJ) tend to randomly vibe with a guy and we talk endlessly, and I get a crush, they always usually end up being ISTPs. Our inferior functions seem to regulate each other so well. The Ti and Fe.

@@daphventurer7475 Wow Happens to me too! Except Im an INFJ so I would act and use more of my Ti when there are ISTPs around. Not that I mind tho, since I usually like using Ti or acting like a Ti user :)

Hehehe 🙌🙌🙌

We are seeing them through the eyes of their INFP secret admirer, so it's totally perfect how romanticized the scene is!!! Ahhh I love my INFP friends so much!

Subtle?! SUBTLE?! There's nothing the least bit subtle about it; level up your game, folks! Unless I don't like you, then kindly disappear into oblivion. ~an INFP

Me too. Not even in a romantic way. I'd see a little old lady and she'd smile at me, and then I'd lose sight of her when her car went off a different exit and I'd wonder where she's going and be sad knowing I'd never see her smile again.

I’ve had a male INFJ initiating sharing our psychoanalyses with each other lol. It’s also the kinda thing I fantasize about doing with my crush, but wouldn’t actually suggest because it’s awkward. I’m dying to get confirmation on my impressions and showing off my intuition though and I’m so curious what he’s picked up on about me too since I feel like I haven’t really shown much of myself yet 😅

Me neither, I'd probably just keep my psychoanalysis tenancies to myself, but quietly speculate about them later on!

Ah, yes the mythical "Door Fling." d Doesnt happen often but when it does I tend to go full "ENFP/ESFP meets the Koolaid man." Miley Cyrus on the wreaking ball. It's only after when I'm alone do regain my INFJness that I'm flabbergasted, and will limit interacts as noone should have this power over me. 😅

I agree with your assessment here! I'm married to an INFJ, and while we were first dating, he was pretty reserved for just a bit, but as soon as I got him feeling comfortable enough to go deep (which is my total goal with every relationship as an ISFP), I totally experienced the Door Fling. And it was wonderful! Suddenly I found myself at last with someone willing to be totally vulnerable and just bond over everything together! We had a lot of shared experiences that previously no one else had been able to relate to, so it was extremely therapeutic for both of us to find that safe haven to confide in. Finally another sensitive "weirdo" to be real with! Hahaha! He's also helped me develop my Ni without his even consciously trying. All of this to say, spot on, I agree that the divulgence does not come immediately, but I think I could feel that he wanted to share from the beginning -- he was just cautiously waiting to know if it was safe to open up in that way.

I am INFJ myself but I would be very interested to know what the person thinks about me since my psychoanalysis doesn't work well on me. I would also share my analysis if that was the point of the game because there would be a clear context for that, that just would be an honest exchange of view points. But of course I would tone down it a lot to not sound creepy and unsettling and I wouldn't evoke the bad things if that was my crush. So I think the video is quite accurate about that.

Oh, man. I get this. Me (ENTP) and my very Feeling ex-wife spent *five years* arguing about Jackson Pollock. Me: It's just paint spatters. Why is he famous? Ex: It's art and its beautiful! Me: But ... I don't get it. Ex: You have no soul!

What makes this better is how your profile picture has chess in it! 🤣 🤣 How INTJ!

@@gorgonheap9770 more like Jackson Bollocks. ha.

@@isabellavansmoorenburg6232 I am a chess master who plays in opens against Grand masters. I am capable of playing 6 straight hours to grind my opponent down and win off of the smallest mistakes. Yeah, I am INTJ at a molecular level.

@@Sean-Ax I finally saw film about him and learned that he spent most of his life being scolded by the stuffy, snobby "legitimate" art world that "art" was only *one* thing and had to look a certain way. So his splatter paintings were a form of protest. When I brought this up with my ex, I was excited. "It wasn't about painting, it was about flipping off The Man! Why didn't you just say so?" She looked at me like I was nuts. She always just insisted they were amazing for completely ephemeral reasons. They're not. They're shit, but intentional shit with a purpose, which I can respect.

I genuinely laughed out loud.🤣

hurts but true for me also 😅

Also, I actually laughed out loud at a couple of these!! Once again, great entertainment with satisfying depth, Kristin!! Thank you!

Omg! As a fellow ISFP I feel so seen. *whispers to self: this is why I’m single*

Same...

Yep, all of a sudden we turn into pseudo-ESFJs...

Yeah, but compliments are not really something an ENTP would have to put a lot of effort to pull off. Considering that ENTPs are often very flirty in nature it can be taken as nothing special. Being overly kind honestly in the other hand, can kill a lot of relationships since people who like ENTPs usually are attracted to their wit and general chaotic nature and ENTPs being suddenly very kind is off putting for them. It is kind of complicated topic.

​@@LittleBabywriter My god, this is so accurate. You described my love life is 5 lines, incredible! We end up attracting ISFPs or something similar, eventually we fall for them, only to realize that they are actually very different to what we imagined first. That's how my first three relationships ended up with me being too real and loving and they disliking it :D, so funny. PD: Best comment :) (Y)

@@naturalboy2890 I am in a relationship with ENFJ. And it has been hell and heaven. Only since one year we actually are able to fully cooperate. My spouse started reading the Bible and Jesus changed his life and his heart.

@@LittleBabywriter That's so beautiful, hope everything is going good, are you an ENTP?

Don't know if this is related, but I only have one ENTP in my friend group, and I'm always surprised by how observant he is. When we were getting to know each other he was always pointing out habits and quirks that I had, mostly my body language or how I wore my clothes. I guess it's a stereotype I have in my head that guys don't pick up on things like that, so it always surprised me. When I mentioned that to him, he said that most guys were probably just as observant, but he was more outspoken. :)

Bahaha!

Ouch!!!! INFPs are also pretty accident prone too.

Yes!

ENFJ- I'm known for being a huge klutz, this story really resonated with me lol. One time in college I missed my bus and was late for an exam. I was wearing heeled boots. I tripped. I tore up my chin, jeans, boots, legs, and hands on the concrete, my water bottle flew out of the pocket on my backpack and wrecked someone's shin, and when I got up I tripped again. Walked into my small class late covered in blood lmfao.

INTJ. Same. Not sure how I haven't been to the emergency room yet. Still, I already figured that the probabilities for my cause of death is likely to be about 40% accidental on my part, 10% natural or accidental with none being my fault, 35% partially-justifiable murder, and 10% unjustifiable murder. There's also roughly 30% due to blind-spot brought about by Fi vulnerability with 1/6th of that (5% of total) overlapping with the afore-mentioned accidental on my part only, 1/6th (5% of total) overlapping with partially-justifiable murder only, and 1/3rd (10% of total) overlapping with both accidental on my part and partially-justifiable murder, 1/6th (5% of total) overlapping with both accidental on my part and non-justifiable murder, and the remaining 1/6th (5% of total) not overlapping with any of the afore-mentioned categories. TL;DR: There's an elevated probability of me dying from something stupid that I somehow did not foresee or decided to go along with anyway.

IFY

Omg same, it's like whenever i get too comfortable with people I scare them away with my talking. Like, not even arguing, just talking and sharing my thoughts on stuff. I tend to get brutally honest even when excited and this tends to get me into trouble even when i say i don't mean it, but i grew up with this problem as an ENTP

My method is to psycho analyze them to try and think what they would like, that i could talk about and get their interest. And think of different scenarios and what to say or do if those come true. Though, i'm clumsy with words at times and i end up saying something cheesy. lol. Slowly getting better with my approach to things like that.

I always catch my INTP manager standing there staring at me out of the corner of my eye. I try not to let him know I know. It makes me kind of laugh internally, but then I do get kind of like - why is he staring at me?? If I decide to look at him, he'll add a smile. xD

@@mr.midgardville I meant something smooth or silly not fumbling my words but yes I definitely psycho analyze as well

I do tend to stare to get a grasp of their personality but when they are not looking and only for a second because my heart rate goes up, my hands get clammy and I absolutely hate that feeling. That is when I start avoiding to the point it may come out as rude but it’s just me running away. However there was one time when I was waiting in the hallway, and he came out of nowhere, I didn’t know what to do. So I just smiled and said hello because that is a normal thing to do right? He smiled back and said did you bring everything you need? To say I was nervous was an understatement however I tried not to show it. So I just continued smiling while saying yes, I did bring everything. Thanks. He said that’s great then, I’ll see you around. If he hadn’t asked a question I would most likely came out of the conversation like a fool.

That sounds harsh,damn

Gorgon you were always nice, just not everyone sees that. -intj

What would you say is stage 2?

"basically indistinguishable from ENTPs" This is not true. If you only analyse the four letters it will look like the only difference between them is that one is an introvert and the other is an extravert. But that's not how MBTI works at all. You gotta look at cognitive functions, not the four letters. They don't share the same dominant cognitive function. INTP = Ti Ne Si Fe but ENTP = Ne Ti Fe Se. Not the same thing. An INTP is closer to an ISTP (they share the same dominant function) and an ENTP is closer to an ENFP (same dominant function).

@@anneonimous9306 agree. After studying the cognitive functions long enough (and being more experienced in life overall), I can tell the difference between extroverts & introverts with good social skills (or extroverts with bad social skills, for that matter)

If Kristen had a simp community, they would all be wearing fedoras today

Bahahaha!

Thank you! :)

Oh, THIS present I've been waiting 4 months to give him for Christmas based on a July conversation? Whatever do you mean...? 😏

It is especially heart breaking when you “contend” with your crush and they have the conversational skills of a turnip

@@thepickles8833 oooh, a turnip .. the lowest of all vegetables.

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