19 Unwritten Rules For Living In Australia!
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Күн бұрын19 Unwritten Rules For Living In Australia!
When we moved to Australia, many 'social normals' were alien to us - we've loved every second of getting used to our new culture, and laughed at ourselves many times along the way!
🇦🇺 Our HUGE Aussie adventure started in 2016 when we moved with our kids from the UK to Australia. 6 years on we are creating videos to show you what living in Australia is like.
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00:00 - 19 Unwritten Rules For Living In Australia!
00:32 - Aussie humour
01:05 - Aussie language
02:40 - how should you answer the question 'how's it going?'
04:21- Paying people fairly in Australia
05:36 - Respecting our surroundings and wildlife
06:36 - what's different about driving in Australia
08:50 - socialising in Australia
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@k1ng401 Жыл бұрын
The “fair pay” thing is covered by the Australian ethos of “a fair go” which basically means you’re expected to treat people fairly, give them opportunity to advance themselves, pay them what they’re worth, give them a chance to speak or explain themselves etc. “A fair go” is one of the most important parts of the Australian ethos. It’s why we treat everyone the same regardless of race, “class” or wealth and discriminate when it comes to attitude or behaviour, especially behaviour that rips off or tries to take advantage. We totally believe in people getting Unemployment Benefits to help them over a rough patch till they can get a job; that’s giving them a fair go. We despise people who permanently live off the dole when they can work; that’s them not giving us a fair go because they are a) using other people’s taxes for their lifestyle and b) taking advantage of other peoples labour; we work while they bludge. That’s not on. There are so many other instances where our attitude toward something is a result of “a fair go”. It’s a major cultural belief.
@DanDownunda8888 Жыл бұрын
Re : flashing headlights. A few years ago in Victoria the police booked a driver for doing it and when it went to court the police lost the case as the magistrate said the driver was getting people to slow down and in fact was helping to promote public safety. There was another case where someone put a sign up saying that there was a speed camera ahead. They were charged by the police and again the magistrate literally laughed at the police for the same reason.
@michaelhennessy4754 Жыл бұрын
Yes. It has never been an offence to advise people to obey the law or that they are in danger of being penalized if they break the law.
@RUHappyATM Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I thought that was an urban myth, that the police could charge you for flashing out their disguise.
@markeaston7353 Жыл бұрын
As an Australian who has spent a lot of time inn other countries I find your observations to be very insightful. You've nailed it guys!
@donnachatterton1639 Жыл бұрын
I moved to country Victoria about ten years ago. Just before going around a bend in the middle of nowhere, a car came the other way, flashing his lights. Naturally, I thought it was the police and slowed down a bit. When I got around the bend, there was a large cow walking on the side of the road. 😃
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Living in the country is a whole new experience - we regularly see escaped chickens now 😆
@jassewalton1768 Жыл бұрын
Yes, two or three flashes are 'the cops are ahead, LOTS of flashes means 'ow down there's a problem ahead' = cows, flooded creek, car accident, loose dog, etc etc.
@jassewalton1768 Жыл бұрын
sorry... 'slow down...'
@donnachatterton1639 Жыл бұрын
@@jassewalton1768 as I’d been living in Melbourne my whole life prior to that, I had no idea it meant anything other than police on the road ahead.
@samday6621 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, Australians need a light system. Lights for cops, Lights for animals or idiots on the road Lights for Kangaroo on side of road (but we know it’s gunna jump out and test you) Lights for “River is high, don’t test it!” ...🤔.....
@georgecurrenti3602 Жыл бұрын
Bring a “plate” to a function… my mum did just that in the 70s, as an immigrant from Italy didn’t know. Nowadays she would bring a full tray for lasagna or home made pizza, or both. 😄
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha we have heard of this happening alot, she is not alone! 😆🥰🇦🇺
@michaelmayo9048 Жыл бұрын
An empty plate ..? That would be so funny...
@lindsaysmith8119 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like I should invite her over.
@omaronnyoutube Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your mom's "bring a plate" experience with us. I'll take note and I'll make sure I'll bring a plate of delicious Malaysian asam pedas fish (tamarind stew fish), nasi lemak, satay or laksa to my neighbour's house in Australia. I would love to invite your mom over to try her delicious pizza and lasagna.
@debrafrost5264 Ай бұрын
I’ve known of people doing this! Poor buggers😂
@glenwillson5073 Жыл бұрын
Don't complain. Reminds me of a true "wingeing pom" story from some years back. They came, they complained about everything, they wanted to go back to England. Their English relatives got on Australian TV and said they didn't want them to come back because they were always complaining.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha so the Brit’s didn’t want them back 😂😂
@randlecycling2462 Жыл бұрын
I lived in England, it's called pissing and moaning and they are ask "why would you come here? The Australian weather.. " when it gets to 26 degrees the pissing and moaning starts, they wouldn't last a day in the Australian summer. If the English are miserable, to be fair the Australians are angry.
@lindsaysmith8119 Жыл бұрын
I do recall that story and one of their main complaints was that they were sick of seeing the Sun and blue skies almost most every day. They should have moved to Melbourne and would of felt right at home.
@club1fan552 Жыл бұрын
60 Minutes. Jana Wendt was the journo. Circa mid eighties.
@boofhead7338 Жыл бұрын
They are not complaining, just having fun with it, sshhh.
@johnpage7735 Жыл бұрын
Hi, I've watched a few of your videos now and as an Aussie I can say you are the best advatisment for Australia that I've seen. So glad you chose us and not Canada.
@shaz464 Жыл бұрын
Haha, my Scottish friend got caught out with “bring a plate”. She’s been here over 50 years now, but she still laughs about it.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh that’s so funny! We love these stories! 🥰🥰
@heatherfruin5050 Жыл бұрын
I know a number of people from overseas who've been caught out on bring a plate.
@jonbartels7612 Жыл бұрын
My dutch grandmother also got caught out by “bring a plate”
@roslynjonsson2383 Жыл бұрын
Well said guys, and you're spot on. Us Aussies don't care where you're from, what car you drive, or what size your bank account is - if your a fair and honest person, who treats others with respect, you'll be accepted everywhere you go. If you judge, look down on others, don't treat others fairly or respectfully, you won't do well in Aus. We ENCOURAGE each other to call out bad behaviour, to keep everyone as safe as we possibly can....Yes, we do take pride in the care of our country, wildlife and unique eco surroundings, if we lose that, we lose who we are. We're VERY happy to share all we have and welcome ALL, as long as they respect Australia, it's people and all that makes it Australia.
@reallyskeptical Жыл бұрын
Spot on for you! not all. Don't speak for 25million.
@reallyskeptical Жыл бұрын
We call out bad behaviour "where" except for politicians rich and big business ect ect.
@reallyskeptical Жыл бұрын
Care for our country buy destroying our water systems the Murry is destroyed by water rights selling for profit.
@roslynjonsson2383 Жыл бұрын
@@reallyskeptical when we see people litter, when we see someone causing harm we don't sit back and just watch. When "DON'T" us Aussies call out bad behaviour is more to the question. The Australia I know just doesn't sit back and allow b/s to go on without someone calling it out, so not sure which part of Aus you live in, or who you mix with
@roslynjonsson2383 Жыл бұрын
@@reallyskeptical Ahhhh you're in the east. Well m8 im in the west, and that's a totally different kettle of fish. Vic and NSW were under Liberals for farrrrrr too long THATS the Aus you know
@paulmckee8142 Жыл бұрын
Another good vid, few add on’s though. Another answer to “how’s it going” is “ living the dream” . Also taking drinks to a bbq is a must however, do not under any circumstances take the full ones home with you. They are left behind for the host . Cheers guys 👍
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for those add ons 😁🥰
@godamid4889 Жыл бұрын
Unless the host insists. Nobody likes my lime infused Carlton drys, so I never drink them all by myself and the hosts always insist I take them home.
@christopherharvie8716 Жыл бұрын
Another on is. “another day in paradise” used sarcastically.
@ruthvanmackelenberg9034 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother felt terribly sorry for her new friend, and took half a dozen empty plates. She had no idea that they expected her to bring a plate of food! Loving your experiences!💖
@blacksorrento4719 Жыл бұрын
Yes my mother had a similar experience. The Masonic dances were a big thing on a Saturday night. Someone off the cuff, trying to help no doubt, told mother to bring a plate. That’s what she did, stowed away in her very big handbag of the day. She had no idea that the plate was supposed to be full of food. As one can imagine, that plate never saw the light of day in that hall, and my brother and I were told to eat nothing on the tables, as we had not contributed. I don’t think there is any migrant who hasn’t got either an embarrassing or funny story. 🥴😊
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha, it catches so many people out - we love that she took lots to be extra helpful though 😆❤️
@Bonstergirl1 Жыл бұрын
@@blacksorrento4719 awe poor thing. Hope they didnt rib her too badly.
@blacksorrento4719 Жыл бұрын
@@Bonstergirl1 many of those people way back then, became lifelong friends, yes she got ribbed over the years, all in good Aussie humour, after she got over the embarrassment, eventually she could laugh about it. To any other migrants who she came across, she went out of her way to tell them a few of Australia’s do’s and don’ts. 😊👍
@JohnWilliams-iw6oq Жыл бұрын
I love the look on a shop assistant's face when they ask if I need help and I reply "No thanks, I'm beyond help". Going to visit people always required a "Ticket", a beer for the men and a wine for the ladies.
@timf3304 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, I really enjoyed the video and your friendly humorous style. I've been away from OZ for 20 years except for an occasional brief holiday home every year or three and it's good to see most things are the same as I grew up with. Cheers mate! :)
@joanokeefe6316 Жыл бұрын
Well done. As an Australian you held my attention throughout. The best one I have seen about things to be aware of here.
@flibbinflah22 Жыл бұрын
Well done guys. You were so accurate. Not just the same old things people find different. A breath of fresh air.
@matthewcullen1298 Жыл бұрын
I'm a strange Aussie I guess. When I ask how's it going, I'm actually interested. I am keen to make sure people are ok. I've been called unAustralian before because I don't all fit into weak natured stereotypes bought about by recent generations. Funny considering my family ancestors come here as convicts on the first fleet. I believe in decency and doing the right thing by others which is an old Aussie value not using profanity for every second word which is a bogan type value. I grew up in a rough neighbourhood, went to a rough school and have spent 33 years in the building industry. Doesn't mean I can't think for myself and watch my language. I work around family environments and don't need kids hearing that sort of language. Being able to think for yourself is very much Australian.
@Bonstergirl1 Жыл бұрын
most aussie are interested in hows it going , however if ppl make it a novel when replying, thats when most of us fade out. I too am interested genuinely but not if they give me their lifes history so to speak. You're not unAustralian if you do the right thing and help others. We(our familly) help others were we can. It is good for you and them . Have a nice day
@TombstoneHeart Жыл бұрын
The flashing of headlights to warn of police sure takes me back. I lived in Melbourne in the early 70's and drove trucks long distance and quickly learned that in the days before truckies had UHF radios in their trucks, they communicated with each other through a series of signals. For instance; Flashing your headlights and pointing at your wheels meant the bad guys were weighing trucks up ahead, looking for overloaded ones. Flashing your headlights and making an up-and-down, flat palmed gesture meant slow down - there are coppers up ahead with a radar trap. There was even a few signals that were used just out of courtesy. When another truck overtook your's and was clear to move back into your lane, you were expected to flash your headlights or, at night, your high beam, to let the overtaking truckie know he was clear to move back in front of you. Once you had done this, he was expected to give you a quick flash from his left and right hand indicators as a "thank you". There were heaps of these signals and they were a wonderful example of the camaraderie that once existed in the lives of Australian truckies out on the two lane terrors that were our national highways back then. Nobody would ever drive past a broken down truck without stopping and asking the usual, "You OK, mate?" And nobody would dare to drive past a truck involved in an accident. There was only one possible outcome to that sort of thing - you run out of mates really fast! Nothing stops time and change, but I sure miss those days.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
The use of flashing headlights and indicators for moving lanes and saying thank you is used by most people in the UK, it took us a while to stop doing it here. We have noticed people stopping for broken down vehicles and accidents here, it is really lovely, such a sense of community spirit 🥰🇦🇺
@kerrydoutch5104 Жыл бұрын
Also flash light to warn of an accident up ahead or wildlife or livestock or some sortvof hazard on the road
@lindsaysmith8119 Жыл бұрын
Its also popular on the M4 freeway in Sydney. Get in the right lane even if exceeding the speed limit and you will get flashed to move over so some dingbat can pass.
@michaelmclachlan1650 Жыл бұрын
The quick flash of lights to indicate it's safe to return to the left lane and the "thank you" indicator flash are still in use amongst truckies.
@TombstoneHeart Жыл бұрын
@@michaelmclachlan1650 TY. Good to know, in case, in my dotage, I get foolish enough to think I can handle a spell of "goin' up the track" again!
@RolandjHearn Жыл бұрын
The correct way to say "thank you' when you driving, although it tends to be only the truck driving community that is aware of it now, is to alternate your blinkers - one or two on the left, one or two on the right and then one or two on the left. Also if you are driving on a duel carriage and you see that it is fine for the person behind to pass you should pull slightly to the left and indicate with your right indicator - although to be honest farmers turning into their driveway often do that too so you just need to watch a bit. Oh and BTW, fantastic job, really good work - you were spot on.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Yes! That is what we’ve always done with the blinkers, but we noticed no one does that around here! ❤️❤️
@jimlofts5433 Жыл бұрын
when a B double passes you can also flash the lights when they have safely passed - a bliker flash may be the response - feel goodies all round
@aussiejohn5835 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBAMFamalam The practice of using indicators to signal someone to overtake is now illegal in most states of Australia as is flashing headlights for any reason. The reason for this is the number of accidents occurring due to indicating unsafely and blinding headlights at night.
@Ozgrandmother Жыл бұрын
The younger generation of drivers don't know about this signaling. Also on country road , just wide enough for one car, you automatically go to the left to make enough room for the vehicle coming opposite to have enough room Unfortunately , young city people have no idea about that. I remember years ago, 4 stupid young city women taking ALL the road, we were driving behind them when a truck came the opposite. They stayed on the road and the truck driver nearly got the fence as he tried to avoid them ! My husband started flashing his lights at them, but they just kept going. A while after we saw them at the petrol station. They looked at us laughing like idiot and showing the finger ! sad generation...
@daveedwards3212 Жыл бұрын
No way! That indicating is the worst thing to do as it can cause accidents if a right turning vehicle is mistaken for a '[please pass' signal
@samb1110 Жыл бұрын
Hello Bamfammers, newish viewer and first time commenter here. I enjoyed the video, thanks! That "Un-Australian" term was something virtually never used or heard here prior to the late 90s. It's something popularised by ex PM John Howard, and really meant anyone who disagreed with him. We all thought it was a bit silly and very American ultra nationalist sounding, but sadly it's caught on to some extent. It certainly doesn't allow for the cultural and other diversities here. You may find it's often used in a sarcastic or parodic sense. Personally if I'm called Un-Australian I take it as a compliment. I'm not trying to get political but thought you may be interested as to it's origins, at least recent origins. Cheers.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
We’ve heard it being used about politicians! It’s interesting to know where it’s come from 😁
@markriley9943 Жыл бұрын
I was about to write something along these lines. I feel the same about t. It grates every time i hear it.
@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын
Yes came to comment something similar. Much as right wingers like to complain about so called political correctness they are usually the ones throwing phrases like unAustralian around as a way to constrain debate. Anyway prior to Howard if someone did something unbecoming you would say “it’s not cricket” which is an expression I’m sure you’re familiar with as well.
@legoqueen2445 Жыл бұрын
When my son was 4 he dobbed on one of his mates for something that happened in the playground at childcare. I have him a stern talking to trying to get him to understand that dobbing on your mates is un-Australian. I think that's the only time I've used the phrase and I was taking the piss.
@k1ng401 Жыл бұрын
That’s right. Definitely started with John Howard. I’ve only ever heard it used ironically by ordinary Aussies. Like I tell my wife when she works in her home business on a public holiday “That’s bloody un-Australian mate!”
@debkendall Жыл бұрын
"Got a bingle out on Broady...towies on site, but as a result it's chockers in that direction." Melbourne radio road report means: car crash in broadmedows (suburb) - tow trucks are at the scene but as a result there is a traffic jam on the road. Slang has changed dramatically over the last 50 years - lots of Australia slang has been lost as our population has become more diverse
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
We wouldn’t have known bingle! We’re still learning new things every day! ❤️
@trekkie-cat Жыл бұрын
Perfectly understand that broadcast!
@debbiewbd2359 Жыл бұрын
There's many similar things in Canada, like "How's it going" and many others but especially cold beer and bringing food to parties
@helenebennie3961 Жыл бұрын
You two are lovely. I have lived in Australia all my life and never realised "How ya going?" was a form of greeting. Now I can not get annoyed when people don't wait for a response.
@Aussie-kim1631 Жыл бұрын
I'm such a fan of your video's and happy that you've made Australia home 💞
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Ah thank you 🥰🥰
@melissalayton213 Жыл бұрын
I had the opposite, I've moved to the UK and was taken aback when everyone kept asking me if I was alright. I thought I must have looked sick or tired at first. 😄
@lisanewman6065 Жыл бұрын
We also don’t use sandwich. It’s a Sanger. 😜
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
We’re still learning haha ❤️
@TurboHDT Жыл бұрын
You been here 7 years and have prospered here so that makes you an asset to Oz its the people like you we want in the country, after the time you have been in Oz your pretty much Aussies
@davidbellwood4759 Жыл бұрын
Would love to see more of you guys showing us Australia and even them house tours you’ve done before! Keep up the great work 🙏🏻
@Paul-MP Жыл бұрын
Just found this. Spot on. 👍 Most people do flash their headlights to warn of police, speed camera, or a problem ahead, but I don't know anyone that's said they were caught and fined for it. Although it is illegal
@nunya2171 Жыл бұрын
The best description of senses of humour I have heard is, Yanks take the piss out of someone else, Poms take the piss out of themselves and Aussies take the piss out of everyone.
@acrescapes Жыл бұрын
Absolutely spot on, great video guys
@alanbaskaev3907 Жыл бұрын
Oh folks, so happy that I discovered your channel. Moving to Down Under next Friday. Excited AF 🤣
@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын
If it’s a big event yes you may be asked to bring a plate. If it’s a smaller dinner party then a bottle of wine or flowers or after dinner mints/chocolates or a cheese.
@eternallycuriousexplorers Жыл бұрын
Love your videos....always so much fun. x
@beckystokes7645 Жыл бұрын
Ohh I love a bit of a banter 😉 makes life more cheerful 😊
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
It sure does! 😁🥰
@DaveWhoa Жыл бұрын
im pretty sure Aussie and English cricketers also enjoy a bit of banter when it's played in good spirit
@m.macdog5113 Жыл бұрын
You guys are so together. So glad that you have settled in Aus.
@LilliR4116 Жыл бұрын
Great video! The flashing lights section- we use to alert for police traffic cameras, also we do use it it to allow a semi trailer [truck] to overtake and wants to get in front of you, sometimes we flash to say it's okay mate you have room to move. Also, a tight narrow road and we take turns to drive ahead, we flash to say thankyou! For allowing me to go first. A cold one is also called a "frothy" 🍺. 😉😁 different states and regions can have their own but most of what you mentioned in the video is true!!
@j-1159 Жыл бұрын
It's not a sandwich, it's a Sanger 👍
@j-1159 Жыл бұрын
Best comp yet
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
We’re still learning every day 😁😆🐨xx
@TheDeldaisy Жыл бұрын
When my daughters came over to visit we went to sit on the verandah. They AUTOMATICALLY quickly checked under their chairs. (For spiders) SO not just shoes. Check your outdoor furniture.
@robinhahn6987 Жыл бұрын
Cheers for that. There's bushland just back of the house: I should wear gloves for the redbacks and boots and long pants because of the eastern brown down the back, but I sort-of forget to, and mow the lawn in shorts and flip-flops. The boss tells me she's not impressed. 😜😜😜
@TDRKB Жыл бұрын
Ahhh you left out the abbreviation for sandwich - Sanga! I moved her from England when I was little ( over 50 years ago) and am still adapting. Welcome to Australia and hope this place works out for you. Dont forget to slip slop slap! What a delightful pair you are!
@robinhahn6987 Жыл бұрын
Don't complain - abso-freakin'-lutely! I had an issue with some 'friends' from the States that were constantly whingeing about stuff they sort-of didn't 'get' about QLD. I finally said something to the effect of: "sounds like you'd be happier back in {name-of-state-they're-from}." They looked at me with surprise... didn't sort-of get it. Me, I'm ever so grateful to be here in Oz: got my citizenship a year and a half ago and never missed where I came from, at all. This IS the best place I've ever lived in, and I've seen a little bit of the world.
@boofhead7338 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to OZ, great Vid, great sense of humor, and yes makes us realize we are an odd bunch. Cheers 🍺
@eddiestone1509 Жыл бұрын
Hi folks. My first time on your channel. I really love the well-ballanced way you describe the life here, such a friendly way of explaining things. Cheers.
@WesternAustraliaNowAndThen Жыл бұрын
Pretty good list guys. The light flashing thing is pretty much the same all over Oz, almost always means coppers or speed trap ahead.
@elliskaranikolaou2550 Жыл бұрын
Classic. You guys are learning fast.
@wwooww63 Жыл бұрын
just started watching your channel, great work , trying the educate people about Australia and its people it's a hard place live and people are really hard to understand at first but in a short time you realise that its one of the best country in the world to live with the most friendly people aussies know how to enjoy life, and have a great work life balance, something we all should take notice of
@TheRubeeRose Жыл бұрын
I'm from NSW and now living in QLD. I will "flash my lights" when I see someone wanting to turn, cross traffic and want to let them know that "it's OK to move" or "I'm letting you in" ... etc. Basically I use it as a curtesy. I will NOT flash my lights if I see a police speed check, as I think you should NOT be speeding and I want you to be fined.
@ginalou5774 Жыл бұрын
The ‘How’re you going?’ Thing is similar to the English ’alright?’ greeting.
@t0msie Жыл бұрын
Yes light flashing is mostly to warn of a speed trap but it's also used when you have a semi needing to pull in front of you. You let them know they're clear and usually once they pull in they will flick a left right left on the blinkers to say cheers
@mariannebarker795 Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with all your comments!
@ngairemartin9753 Жыл бұрын
You guys nailed it. Loves n hugs.
@alancampbell1161 Жыл бұрын
On a visit to Britain many years ago, I was impressed by the flashing of lights to say you were OK to change lanes etc. We could do with adopting that here. I was also impressed on the motorways with being able to travel at sensible speeds rather than our (forced) obsession with speed limits. I remember lines of trucks in the left lane at whatever speed worked for them, I tended to take the middle lane, which seemed to sit on 80-85 MPH, and the adventurers did pretty much what they liked in the outside lane. The police watched from lay-bys and let it all go unless someone did something pretty stupid.
@blacksorrento4719 Жыл бұрын
Did you ever think that forced speed limits were not only for us but for our wildlife, many are nocturnal, or those that have the propensity of jumping out at you, especially on moonlit nights. Also the truckies will give you the signal either with their blinkers to say it’s okay to pass, or flashing lights that you see in your rear view to say thank you for leaving enough breaking distance for them when you overtake. Depends where you travel, country drivers are more courteous and forgiving than those in the city.
@alancampbell1161 Жыл бұрын
@@blacksorrento4719 Being a country driver, cyclist and motorcyclist, I'm acutely aware of the wildlife issue, and of the fact that speed limits don't help save the wildlife. What does save them is travelling at appropriate speeds, and trying to avoid travelling at their most active time, which is about an hour either side of sunrise and sunset, and on roads where they are known to be. All this is part of "situational awareness", which is the greatest safety item on the road, at sea or in the air.
@blacksorrento4719 Жыл бұрын
@@alancampbell1161 wish there were more people like yourself. This previous urban dweller, both in 🇬🇧 and 🇦🇺Married an Australian country boy, I learned a lot. Keep on doing the good work, and I guess we have to forgive those who don’t 😊
@alancampbell1161 Жыл бұрын
@@blacksorrento4719 Thanks, and best wishes to you.
@thescourgeofathousan Жыл бұрын
We do flash our lights in NSW to encourage someone to go first if there’s any hesitation or to let someone in to a queue etc. Aside from the police or speed camera thing it’s also used to say - “your lights are off” when it’s dark and someone’s forgotten to turn their headlights on - you’ve left X item on the roof of your car - your boot is open - there’s a dirty great spider on the roof/door of your car
@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын
Great video
@tammy9411 Жыл бұрын
Extra avo on ya sanga, luv. You guys are absolutely getting the hang of things here. Welcome 😊
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha we are getting there 😁🥰
@grandmothergoose Жыл бұрын
The flashing lights is part of a somewhat complex communication system that's mostly used between truckers but anyone driving a car that knows the codes can use it too. It has varied a bit over time and can change a little bit depending where you are. Usually one single flash of headlights means you're driving with your high beams on and need to turn them off. Two quick flashes means cops are ahead of you, or a speed camera, etc. Three quick flashes means there's a dangerous hazard on the road ahead of you. The lights system also includes indicator and hazard lights and how many flashes of each side or both together will tell their intentions to overtake you, or tell you whether or not it's safe to overtake them, and various other signals about the road ahead for when you're behind them rather than driving towards them, as that communication gets a lot more complicated and I haven't been able to memorise which combination of light flashes mean what. Originally, the bring a plate thing was divided by gender. It was customary for the women to bring a plate of food, and the men to bring the booze, but that's fallen to the wayside over the years to the point of everyone just brings their own booze and a share plate.
@lindsaysmith8119 Жыл бұрын
Also used in slow moving heavy traffic. Vehicle coming from the opposite direction wanted to turn and you leave a gap and flash once so they can go. Well that is what I do.
@daveedwards3212 Жыл бұрын
Safe to overtake indicating is a thing of the past because of the dangers it creates
@turquoisebubbles2042 Жыл бұрын
How’s it going … as an Aussie I was curious and clicked … all good , pretty spot on and so much so I didn’t realise they were Aussie things 😝
@Summerlove21ful 6 ай бұрын
Only been here just over a year myself, alot of these unwritten rules are familiar as most apply in NZ as well. Especially treating people fairly no matter who they are or where they come from. And yes "Bring a plate means Bring food" as in sharing the cost. However with "Flashing lights" - coming from NZ, it means you're indicating Cars to join mainstream traffic at peak hour or You're thanking a driver for giving way to you - join mainstream traffic or give you space to go down a road where heavy traffic flowing mainstream makes it difficult to cross. When I ask "How's it going?" I'm asking "How are you in general?" Your day, your week etc. As a Kiwi I also find it difficult socially; we don't enjoy being laughed at or mocked, so I end up just switching off to conversation or person altogether. But its helpful to know what it really means.
@VicodinElmo Жыл бұрын
Great video! A few things about some of the points that surprised me: 1. Some of the language stuff feels familiar to the UK as well. “You alright?” and “You okay?” seem to fit the same purpose as “How’s it going?” although I think we sometimes use that term too. The “mate” thing even in quite formal settings is pretty common too. Maybe it’s a regional thing? I live in Cornwall but grew up in Wales so perhaps we are more casual than the rest of the UK? 2. My best mate’s sister has been working at Uni of Melbourne for the last 10 years and said that Islanders and Indigenous communities were kind of discriminated against? That was about 8 years ago though she said that so perhaps things have improved? 3. Flashing lights to warn of speed cameras - I thought this was common in UK too? Pretty much everywhere in Cornwall does it (on the rare occasion you see a camera anyway).
@fionaheales8481 Жыл бұрын
You guys are great Aussies!!!
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🐨🐨🥰
@etnocs Жыл бұрын
"How's it going?" is basically equivalent to "Alright?" in the UK (which absolutely confused the hell out of me when I lived there for the same reason, so it goes both ways haha)
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha we have accidentally said it here a few times 😂
@patrussell8917 Жыл бұрын
You pair have adjusted in a good way making conditions better all round for everyone here Regrettably there are people living here just for a safe place without appreciating the Australian lifestyle or manner yet complaining about the differences
@ngairemartin9753 Жыл бұрын
Good on ya mate
@The_Stoic_PhilosopherAU Жыл бұрын
Bam time…my favourite part of the day!
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Woohoo! 😝🇦🇺
@daveedwards3212 Жыл бұрын
Queesnslander 64 years. Flashing lights to say you go first is definitely a yes in our area, which is SEQ.
@lifelonglearner56 Жыл бұрын
I think it's pretty standard throughout Oz to give a flash of lights to show you will let someone in from a side-road etc if the traffic is queuing: certainly the case in NSW and VIC.
@beckystokes7645 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video, thanks for the tips. Very much needed before I fly out from Heathrow in 2 weeks & 3 days (not that I'm counting or anything 😀) and I will be sure not to flash anyone on my journey from Sydney to Brisbane 😉
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Hahaha we’re happy to be keeping you on the right side of the law when you arrive 😂 That’s so exciting, we’re counting the days for you! 🇦🇺🐨
@beckystokes7645 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBAMFamalam I literally cannot wait 😀 I mean, just for a change, we are actually having an awesome summer here in the UK right now (my summer clothes have been out for more than 2 weeks lol) but I know I'm gonna get out to Oz and just not gonna want to come home again 🙈
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
@@beckystokes7645 is this your permanent move, or just a holiday? Xx
@beckystokes7645 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBAMFamalam unfortunately just a holiday...one that I've been waiting to do for over 50 years. If I could move out there I would though & I have seriously considered it, but my options are limited due to age. Plus husband still needs convincing! I'll see how he feels once we have to fly back into the UK on the 18th September...the holiday may convince him yet 😉
@TheBrierose Жыл бұрын
@@beckystokes7645 You might want to pack a light jumper for cooler nights, it's still winter here, not as cold as UK, but not as hot as your current summer, yet.
@DiHandley Жыл бұрын
You look and sound like really nice people. You are well on the way to becoming true Aussies! You really do understand who we are and the way our society works. I’d love you to be my neighbours. 👍🇦🇺
@grahamejohn6847 Жыл бұрын
Yay some Ben boogie at last, Oh, and good vid folks.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha Ben’s dance is enough to put a smile on everyone’s face! 🕺🏼 Thanks you 🥰🥰
@finlaydavies7760 Жыл бұрын
Brill my fav is 'Fair Dinkum mate' love that expression
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
It’s a goodie! 😁
@fitafricanmom629 Жыл бұрын
Congrats to the winner, next time we do
@Mixvlog110 Жыл бұрын
First time watching, beautiful and polite family,,pray for ur family 👪 ❤️ 💕 support from Pakistan
@club1fan552 Жыл бұрын
Very accurate with a couple of caveats. Obey the road rules? Often not. Yes, take something to an informal gathering but if it's formal, taking food (unless by prior agreement) is the height of rudeness. Booze is always the exception of perhaps high quality chockies. Check ya!
@Bonstergirl1 Жыл бұрын
Just gotta say you guys are great amd those 19 unwrittens were spot on. Ive heard that plate story from you b4 and as soon as you started it on this I burst out laughing . Im really glad you love it here . So thanks for choosing our country to stay.. Youre right about the flashing light thing. It wasnt always illegal but as alway some clown whined about it and now it is.. But we aussies will still do it as its keeping other aussies up to par with whats going on ahead of them.. Truckies always tell other truckies where the cops are. You guys are fun and thats why I stick to watching you on here.. Love the out takes too lol.. "aveaniceweekend" another one ya :)
@BigGen222 Жыл бұрын
I was greeted by a colleague who's from England with 'are you alright'? And I was like yes I'm fine, why do you ask (do I look as though I'm not)? I understand it now, it's a way of saying hello.
@steveoconnor1230 Жыл бұрын
Usually, people who say "Fair Dinkum" a lot, are lying. Another gr8 video guys!
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰🥰
@duncancallum Жыл бұрын
Fair Dinkum died out here about 50 years ago at least.
@richardsingh5827 Жыл бұрын
The lights thing is the same in NZ too.
@beano9343 7 ай бұрын
"Hey Benno, goin to Maccas and gettin extra avvo in my sanga this arvo" You almost nailed it :) Except I would ever say that. But it's a demonstration haha
@petert24turner71 Жыл бұрын
In NSW flashing your lights to give another driver the go ahead in a tight situation when almost or stopped is a friendly gesture. But as you said to warn about police traps can incur a fine.
@michaelpye5972 Жыл бұрын
You 2 are amazing.
@daleriddell785 Жыл бұрын
The flashing lights to warn of speed cameras is somthing that I've always done in the UK, maybe its a rural thing here?
@lemoh30 Жыл бұрын
the old flash is a must as an aussie
@themoviehobbit355 Жыл бұрын
Minimum 4-5 cars
@lemoh30 Жыл бұрын
@@themoviehobbit355 the perfect amount of heads up
@barnowl5774 Жыл бұрын
Spot on guys! You are learning fast. Using the word 'mate' is a sign of friendliness as is "how ya goin' ." However change the tone of voice for 'mate' and that means you're in trouble!
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
It is all in the way it’s said 😁🇦🇺
@zeppy2732 Жыл бұрын
Your best yet👍.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🥰🥰
@SingTas Жыл бұрын
Are you on the Sunshine Coast? I used to live there and it looks like it in your video. Amazing place
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
We sure are 😎❤️
@TamaEnergy 4 ай бұрын
Super helpful! If i dont drink is is still expected to bring alcoholic drinks for others? Thanks!
@TheBAMFamalam 4 ай бұрын
Not expected if you're not - but if you do intend to drink alcohol then you're usually expected to contribute to the supply xx
@tracyleecornish5398 Жыл бұрын
Also beware of the pot holes on Australian roads usually the locals draw a big round white mark around them so you have plenty of warning beforehand. It will ruin your cars suspension not to mention cause an accident.
@TenOrbital Жыл бұрын
Speeding used to be the same as elsewhere but they set out to really crack down on it. $300 fine for going more than 10% over the limit. A couple of those and you really try and avoid getting any more.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Us poms learn pretty quickly haha - the cops hide everywhere here 😆
@christiephillips106 Жыл бұрын
Maz you have a look of Bindi Irwin about you!
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much - this has been mentioned a few times, it’s the biggest compliment! 🥰🥰
@omaopa6923 Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with you
@Gealaiche Жыл бұрын
Just a heads up as to how hot it can actually get in a car in the summer. This place i used to work we had to park in a paddock over the road. Well i used to have a little plastic digital thermometer on the dash and one day there after work i went out and the thermometer was 70c and had started to melt and this wasn't even a super hot day....
@shirleyburnham2782 Жыл бұрын
Would love to live in Australia, sound like my type of people xxx
@chrisonYTtour Жыл бұрын
Where I live on the sunny coast, old mate usually refers to your dealer lol
@waza987 Жыл бұрын
In NSW flashing lights generally means cops, but I have also seen it used to flash at a car that has forgotten to turn on their lights. I have not heard of that cross marking road kill as checked. Cat restrictions do depend a lot on the local area.
@tessabiggs2917 Жыл бұрын
Bens’ picked up out yeah nah 🤣🤣
@nolesy34 Жыл бұрын
Hey hey hey That's my line
@kayelle8005 Жыл бұрын
Flashing your lights is for police and for hazards like animals on or near the road. A thank you wave is for someone being courteous to you. Letting you in etc.
@dangermouse3619 Жыл бұрын
Flashing your lights to someone here in Sydney and I'm sure others parts not only saying cops ahead but they do it if your waiting to turn and get in traffic saying they'll let you in. Not open you'll come across it but it does happen.
@teenindustry 7 ай бұрын
Surely paying fairly is a universal principal
@Smart_Tamaha Жыл бұрын
I hope your subscribers will go up like Dale Philip Channel. He is also from the UK.
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Ah thank you 🥰🥰
@graemebayles6652 Жыл бұрын
Sorry guys you blew it. The abbreviations example mentioned a sandwich. It is of course a sanga
@TheBAMFamalam Жыл бұрын
Haha we’re still learning 😬😆❤️
@michaelreifenstein2114 Жыл бұрын
i had a car flash me one time, it turned out it was a cop warning me to slow down before his radar tracked and clocked me. i thought he was warning me about stray sheep on the road, so i was looking for sheep instead of slowing down. His radar locked me up and he had to book me. But he was sympathetic.
@nathanthomas3220 Жыл бұрын
Hilarious and so true
@newbris Жыл бұрын
FYI In inner Brisbane I flash my lights to let people in and people do it to me as well.
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