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Күн бұрын20+ Signs She's Just Not That Into You | Dating Advice for Men in | #FriendZone... In this dating advice video, I will share with you the signs she’s just not that into you that you may need to watch out for. You may see these signs she’s not interested in you either on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice for men and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don’t want you to long for her but suspect to be in the friend zone, I want you to be able to know if she’s into you or not and this dating advice for men will give you 20+ signs she’s just not that into you. I will identify very specific signs she’s not that into you so you’ll know exactly what to look for in any girl you like and avoid wasting your time when she’s not into you.
If you ever date a girl and you had no idea where the two of you stood or if you want to know the signs she’s not into you then be sure to watch this dating advice for men video to the end. I don’t want you to think that because you are together she’s in love with you and she’s into you, no. I want you to know the secret signs to look out for when she’s not into you.
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@rextm5396 4 жыл бұрын
I usually wait for the woman to make the first move and ask me out. That's why I haven't had a date in 20 years.
@roserevancroix2308 4 жыл бұрын
...yea THAT'S why=)
@charlesgriggs5924 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@maxhouse2409 4 жыл бұрын
I don't chase either. She just asks me if she can do laundry over at my place.
@elim7228 4 жыл бұрын
You did well, trust me.
@theredamigo5011 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I had to pause the video to read your comment and personally I can relate.. you have to change your mind set or you will grow old alone my friend. Time does not wait for any one and you have to learn to make the first move or you will lose out on opportunities and then you’ll ask your self “what’s wrong with me, Why can’t I find anyone, Did the good Lord fuck me over in this life.. I am drunk but from personal experience I created my own misery by being shy and hoping one day that one beautiful girl would ask me out but at the age of 29 I now realize I have to go for it or I’ll never have it. It’s true when they say a closed mouth never gets fed.. ps always have good body poster and never show signs of doubt women can see it and since it instantly and then you’re in the friend zone
@ShaveCave 4 жыл бұрын
She's not that into me...thank god ...the money I can now save!!!
@davidlamb6443 4 жыл бұрын
Halarious man!!! You got that right!
@pvn2474 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahaaaa :D :D :D
@charlesgriggs5924 4 жыл бұрын
Reject me please.
@cesarferreira386 4 жыл бұрын
I have the same thinking about it to just the amount of money I save by not being with a women, the headaches and migraines I get it's to much to bear it.
@blackpillcommando4927 4 жыл бұрын
ShaveCave: Yes this is the only time when the thrill is in The Chase ...when you decide it's time to stop chasing and chase the next one ! You don'y have to spend a dime.
@patrickjenkins8359 4 жыл бұрын
Being single is looking more like a blessing than a curse.
@jfbarrey74 4 жыл бұрын
Just wondering how the dynamics of dating will now change in the "Covid-19 Age" we are living in.
@jaymarine1775 4 жыл бұрын
MGTOW and Red Pill is the way brotha.
@stephenstromhenriksen4995 4 жыл бұрын
Being single is great because you can talk and firt with other woman
@andreavolponi1893 4 жыл бұрын
It is
@royalrod_ 3 жыл бұрын
‘Twas never a curse my friend.
@idropagearbabye6822 3 жыл бұрын
The only 2 we really need to know.. 1: if a woman likes you she will let you know. 2: if she is that interested she won't be that difficult.
@paulcolin-fj9ns 10 ай бұрын
Totally
@drew8256 3 жыл бұрын
Biggest friend zone move, they ask you to help them work on their house or car. Always a bad sign, you think your being helpful, in the end your just being used.
@velocite9044 3 жыл бұрын
Very true statement, almost got caught in that once but a wiseguy filled me in on this/ so true...
@rossbrumby1957 Жыл бұрын
Had both from different women. Also about to block the number of one who thinks she's grooming me for a friendzone. Seems to find me useful to drive her to the next town to shop and help her move house. After her first visit to my place, I kissed her for goodbye and she ghosted me for 3 weeks til she had use for me again. 3 big excuses: so tired from work, only 1 day off a week, couldn't answer cos no ph credit. Says she'll visit but don't come- and no message to call off either, just ghosts me. Happened today again so blocking and deleting her number tonight
@starkeymorgan7481 Жыл бұрын
@@rossbrumby1957 How's it working out?
@baronmeduse 11 ай бұрын
@@starkeymorgan7481 waiting for a text from her.
@cody8938 4 жыл бұрын
Friendzone equals walk out on her. Ive had girls who wanna talk and want to be an undesired friend. But don't want to date. So....I just quit answering their texts and calls. Screw them. Friendzone is a slap in the face.
@2kosher 2 жыл бұрын
Agree!
@dickdastardly5534 Жыл бұрын
That’s the trouble they don’t want to be screwed she just wants to screw you over 🤷🏼♂️
@donnelladams8362 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@rossbrumby1957 Жыл бұрын
They do want to be a desired friend, they just don't desire you. If you dont desire her, you have no motivation to be in that friendzone.
@peterfitzpatrick7032 4 жыл бұрын
I find it extremely offensive that women see "testing you" as a legitimate way of forming relationships... 😒
@thomasgallegos2832 4 жыл бұрын
They want to see if they can bring you around other people and you are not quick to anger or depressed easily.
@peterfitzpatrick7032 4 жыл бұрын
@@thomasgallegos2832 Thomas, I'm not a dog ... 🙄😂
@MrDontfeedthematrix 4 жыл бұрын
She won’t shit test Chad or a rich guy, instead will make things very easy for him to bang
@peterfitzpatrick7032 4 жыл бұрын
@@MrDontfeedthematrix .... exactly ... & that shows the hypocracy of women, these "tests" are to find a malleable & easy-going guy they can exploit... its that simple. 😒
@blackpillcommando4927 4 жыл бұрын
Peter Fitspatrick : It's actually called "shit testing" you. They shit all over you and if you lay there and eat it then she knows you're her mark.
@golgothapro 4 жыл бұрын
I guess dying alone ain't all that bad after-all.
@sylvesterwoodest5358 3 жыл бұрын
We all dying alone. Nobody can do this for us
@plopez5392 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@thaik56 2 жыл бұрын
replace alone with peacefully
@donnelladams8362 Жыл бұрын
@@sylvesterwoodest5358 Yes finally someone gets it. We come in alone and most of the time we leave alone
@louisberni9405 4 жыл бұрын
She needs to prove to me that i need to be interested in her, i am the prize!
@SpinDoctor91 4 жыл бұрын
If she likes you she will make the effort plain and simple.
@elim7228 4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@phlushphish793 4 жыл бұрын
@@SpinDoctor91 Yeh, I had a friend who went to Viet Nam. He said in America, it's always the men chasing women; but, there, it's the opposite: women are always chasing men!
@SpinDoctor91 4 жыл бұрын
@@phlushphish793 I heard people say it's different overseas then some say it's the same. I'm sure it's probably better in many ways lol
@phlushphish793 4 жыл бұрын
@@SpinDoctor91 O definitely! Today in America women just seem out to entrap men!
@JJones987 4 жыл бұрын
This person described here isn’t even a friend
@Tofi_ytchannel 4 жыл бұрын
Came to say the same thing... that's just not "friend zone", it's just her being an asshole
@swhorne 4 жыл бұрын
women who say they want to be friends have zero intention of actually being friends.
@shawnkippenhan4657 4 жыл бұрын
@@swhorne that's the excuse they use to get you to politely go the fk away, they're just making it easy on themselves, like always
@westcoast6162 4 жыл бұрын
Bitches are assholes !
@johnbingaman3645 4 жыл бұрын
@@swhorne you're absolutely right, when they say we should just be friends, or we should remain just friends , it's just an excuse for them, to explore their other options and date other men .They use you as their male tampon and put us on the back burner, when something breaks we can fix it ,or if they want a meal they have you on their speed dial.. I dated one exactly what she was talkin about all above....
@benjaminnielsen4288 4 жыл бұрын
I was dating a girl that defines every sign in this video LOL. Friend Zoned! Once I realized that I was in this position, I just walked away and stopped paying attention to her. After a while she started messaging me again. But now I just stop wasting my time with her. Been stood up one too many times. No more. So, the friend zone has arrived at last... Well, the friend zone can kiss my ass! XOXO
@alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092 4 жыл бұрын
By walking away she saw you as and alpha male
@benjaminnielsen4288 4 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092 Yeah, I think so. The funny thing is, she ended up marrying a dumb jerk who doesn't treat her as well as she thought he would and now she's miserable. For me this one small victory was worth being thrown in the friend zone. Now days I just sit back and laugh... and she knows it haha :)
@kiroshendas2729 4 жыл бұрын
Well done bro, you the man.
@PopExtra 4 жыл бұрын
i wish i could be like that with 2 people in a row last week that wanted to only be friends! that it was like that! XD so i could just forget them and think like you did like the "kiss my ass!!" thing XD
@harmoniclivechromatic7698 4 жыл бұрын
she isnt interested in you? what a relief
@ericzerkle5214 4 жыл бұрын
More money in your wallet.........
@veltonmeade1057 4 жыл бұрын
lol,,great comment.
@vinewood8295 4 жыл бұрын
I know women who fit everyone of these 20 items you've listed word for word. When I was young & stupid I fell for all of these again & again cause I liked certain girls so much but now at 46 years old I'm like ask her out once, if she says yes, great if not move on to another girl. You don't need to unfriend her off facebook, just unfollow her and quit giving a damn about anything she doe's cause that's how she feels about you...
@simonscowled9925 4 жыл бұрын
best comment here
@veltonmeade1057 4 жыл бұрын
And two years later when she gets dumped HARD, she'll call you but won't leave a message. That is her way of saying she is interested and now she is available. lol.
@__a6290 4 жыл бұрын
@@veltonmeade1057 At 46 you are also at disadvantage compare to younger guys.
@miguelrobb5719 4 жыл бұрын
__a not really. I seen guys in their 40s pull women like it’s nothing
@wayneericksen5374 3 жыл бұрын
@@__a6290 not true. At that age you are the prize as you SMV is high. Read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.
@thenow5559 4 жыл бұрын
Social media and dating apps made men disposable to women. They have hundreds of options. Never spend a lot of $$ on dates until u get intimate. A cup of coffee is most u need to invest on 1st date.
@jarodorla6949 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true
@alfx5432 3 жыл бұрын
Don't wast your time being friends with women
@Bwh-rm3py 3 жыл бұрын
100%
@byteresistor 2 жыл бұрын
@craig lofton This is not true at all. For every 100 girls born, 105 boys are born.
@ccjailen 2 жыл бұрын
@@byteresistor wrong, they outnumber us by a large percentage.
@adameast5048 4 жыл бұрын
The restraining order says NO But the look in her eyes says yes
@johnbingaman3645 3 жыл бұрын
Adam East, sounds like she's just baiting you ,,,ready for the kill ... you'll see how that restraining order works then, stay away ,,,there's three and a half billion women on this planet, they're everywhere move on. That's harsh to put a restraining order on, my neighbor did that to her husband and he wasn't that bad of a guy at all she did it for spite screw them..
@jennifervang606 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@AmechiAmanugi 4 жыл бұрын
Ah! This is SO painful to watch but it is totally the truth. So honest!
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Better to know than to hope :( thanks for watching! :)
@robparkinson9850 4 жыл бұрын
Amechi Amanugi I'm definately with you on the painful bit. I guess I'm only here cos I thought I might be in pain.
@singlehomenafrican7960 4 жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam love
@louisabridge 3 жыл бұрын
I adapted my motorbike in order to mount a canvas on the back. My paintings sell for good money and it's a muff magnet. Black leathers, motorbike, art. Women are so easy when you have game. But i would never invest. Never.
@tommygun5038 3 жыл бұрын
@@louisabridge .....The stupid ones are easy. Most are stupid.
@dakotaseven947 3 жыл бұрын
Rejection is protection. Learn the move on. Stay positive.
@richardpellis 3 жыл бұрын
"If people don't make an effort to be in your life don't try so hard to be in theirs. It's not worth it." - Quote from Buddha YT video
@battlevain 10 ай бұрын
Good video. Most people end up becoming pests or creeps to their crushes, because they don't pay attention to what is really going on. If a girl is friendly and polite, it doesn't mean she wants a relationship. Stop bugging her by always being around. You are becoming a draining entity to avoid.
@steelmongoose4956 4 жыл бұрын
21. Restraining orders.
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Lol #truestory ;)
@steelmongoose4956 4 жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam You'd be surprised how many guys miss this little hint. 😄
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Again, true (slap to forehead)!
@johnc.8298 4 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I burst out laughing when I read your "21".
@BLITZY261 4 жыл бұрын
22. Automatic destruction of constantly interfering nasty Mother-in-laws...especially my lying manipulative toad of a narc...who once stated I AM NOT INVOLVED IN YOUR DIVORCE..then actively moved house with her beloved boyfriend in order to move everybody in except me and play THE WALTONS...only to lose her boyfriend a week later from a fall from a ladder..total friggin' KARMA.
@gregfbp 3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this is like being in a vice that is slowly clamping down. My young adulthood memories returning. Been with the same person for 30+ years now and you can easily forget how tough it was to be single.
@sbentsen2714 Жыл бұрын
Dang well said.
@BraveNewwor1d 4 жыл бұрын
If she's not into you move on, or be a simp an be used for financial reasons.
@krislo4788 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Vicvines 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 35... Every woman I've wanted to be with has done this...
@bigdad8746 3 жыл бұрын
Aim lower
@bencrosbie 3 жыл бұрын
that really sucks man
@manimal2866 3 жыл бұрын
Trust me you are more fortunate then you know.
@64maxpower 3 жыл бұрын
If it's every woman it's something that you are doing
@reeverbstudios 2 жыл бұрын
You will find your type
@journeyquest1 4 жыл бұрын
After the honeymoon is over you will end up just being her friend anyway.
@phlushphish793 4 жыл бұрын
If you're lucky!
@kylekenan2321 4 жыл бұрын
That's why you don't have a honeymoon.
@spudskie3907 4 жыл бұрын
Yup...I’ve experienced them all. Other signs she’s not interested: - She’s not at home after you have driven 25+ miles to pick her up for a date - She never shows up at a place where it was mutually agreed to meet up.
@thomasgallegos2832 4 жыл бұрын
That hurts !! Lol !! Yeah if she isn't home !!
@Random_Blip 4 жыл бұрын
Spudskie "She’s not at home after you have driven 25+ miles to pick her up for a date". Did one of her relatives shout from the other side of the door that she wasn't home ... and the voice sounded suspiciously like her (albeit in a different accent/tone)?
@elmiguel6725 4 жыл бұрын
I was in my early 20's hanging with a cute blonde one night and got her number(so I thought), I called her the next day and a guy on the other end answered "Brian's Transmission Shop"...🤣 oh well
@duderanch18237 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO.
@fredbmurphy 4 жыл бұрын
For all the times you've talked to her, she has never once addressed you by name. As a loner, this is a tactic I constantly use in a huge workplace. Addressing a person by name breeds familiarity.
@elim7228 4 жыл бұрын
Strangely, you just described my ex LoL Guys, avoid any long term relationships with women if you can. The whole list can be summarized in one word: Games. Endless mind games, shit testing and manipulation - this is what awaits men who deal with women.
@beautifulstranger5628 3 жыл бұрын
Guess what, guys do exactly same things 😁
@CameronThomasMedia 3 жыл бұрын
@@beautifulstranger5628 No they dont shutup.
@P121463S 4 жыл бұрын
In my single days, this advice would have saved me a lot of grief 🙂 Listen up gentlemen.
@roserevancroix2308 4 жыл бұрын
....and you will be single again, honey=)
@blackpillcommando4927 4 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 :Single to mingle , and hear that cash jingle !
@jakobfredriksson2272 4 жыл бұрын
According to this I'm the ultimate friend. Yay!
@pissoff61 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@siddislikesgoogle 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly it just all sounds like so much work.
@DavidZakuzaRyutashi 4 жыл бұрын
Dealing with women is a lot of work. You're better off staying single. Life is easier that way.
@veltonmeade1057 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. My mom taught me, if it's work it'll only get harder and it won't get any easier. A sincere, honest relationship should not take any effort at all except in hard times. These days, many women are addicted to anger, confusion, and being overly sensitive to everything. Too easily influenced by the media and the internet.
@Ace.0.0.0. 4 жыл бұрын
@@veltonmeade1057 I agree. I've had been married to the same woman since the mid 1990s. We have had occasional dust ups, but there is no game playing. We have a simple arrangement, I will take of her, with my $, as long as she takes care of me. No freebies. Apparently, these days when guys ask girls "What do you bring to the table?" A significant number do not understand the question. They think they are royalty, and gracing you with their presence is enough. SMH big time.
@baronedipiemonte3990 3 жыл бұрын
Is it so hard for people to just be honest and real with each other ? Instead of all the games... Friend zoning a guy is basically leading him on and using him.
@MrJaybone5 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman talks about other guys in detail, that's a sure sign you're just their for her benefit. Be somewhere else.
@SlikLizrd 2 жыл бұрын
If I'm on a date and the woman starts "talking about other guys in detail", I get up and leave, with her sitting there wondering what happened.
@blairfranklin7320 4 жыл бұрын
Just know this men, we live in a time where a lot of these signs will definitely happen at some point. Just don't commit amd be single. If you treat women like celebrities they'll treat you like fans. I'm glad she let us know about these signs though. Just date casually gentlemen. Hypergamy is very very real.
@michaeldominic3183 4 жыл бұрын
"If you treat women like celebrities they'll treat you like fans". What an AWEsome statement! There's a mountain of wisdom in this comment. Bravo!
@bendyparanormal 4 жыл бұрын
Whoa! “If you treat women like celebrities, they’ll treat you like fans”! Wish I’d said that. Or heard it years ago. What a fantastic way to put it! 👍🏼
@DominikSobolewski 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaeldominic3183 He took it from Morgan Freeman. I disagree with the statement as well.
@michaeldominic3183 4 жыл бұрын
@@DominikSobolewski Okay. Why do you disagree with the statement though.
@DominikSobolewski 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaeldominic3183 Well Dominic, I don't disagree per say. I think you should be filled with confidence, but I don't think it's wrong to feel very strongly about someone and think very highly of them. It just means you really like them.
@ericzerkle5214 4 жыл бұрын
Every woman i've been interested in is all of these..... Oh well. More money in my wallet for my hobbies!!!!!
@leonak7654 4 жыл бұрын
When she's switching her phone off weekends ! That's a massive red flag
@marcomoreno8188 3 жыл бұрын
Lion 🦁 your mo___ fuc___ right, many of times it was done to me. When i asked some said I was sensitive hah what baloney.
@Peter.Trading 4 жыл бұрын
Apparently I’ve never had a girl Interested in me, this is troubling news. Oh well, back to Hooters...
@maxhouse2409 4 жыл бұрын
Hooters is no longer in the city where I live. Then again, with CV-19, who is open?
@KingCheatsYT 3 жыл бұрын
Get back to that money young buck
@jayr3381 3 жыл бұрын
Strip club or a broth is better.
@guyfromcanadayup 3 жыл бұрын
Slap on that Hawaiian dress shirt.
@fleadoggreen9062 3 жыл бұрын
If she ends a text with “you take care” It’s more like get outta here !!
@averycolnite3561 4 жыл бұрын
22 She starts growing a beard.
@infrasleep 4 жыл бұрын
I can guarantee you that some guys experiencing ALL 20 of these will still bone headedly say; "She's just playing hard to get" !!
@cartours5803 4 жыл бұрын
Some men will play along with it because they struggle to get attention from women and see this as better than nothing.
@yacovmitchenko1490 3 жыл бұрын
@@cartours5803 Indeed - which is pathetic. A little show of indifference and having a sense of purpose in life, a mission or calling, can work wonders with women.
@VanityEvolved 3 жыл бұрын
I've never seen someone say 'she's playing hard to get', myself. The usual logic I see from guys is 'Well, she just wants me to try harder. She wants me to prove myself to her.' Engage simping.
@raymondnecke5806 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Anna , you've perfectly described to a T a girl I've been taking to dinner and drinks for a few weeks now, time to cut her loose and move on......
@roserevancroix2308 4 жыл бұрын
...a few weeks? =) r u slow?? hehe....boys;)
@chilldog2493 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! And I thought chess was complicated!
@JamesOnen 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@charlesthompson9889 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@ronj9448 2 ай бұрын
The rules of chess are static and predictable.
@Watcherrye 4 жыл бұрын
"My Mother refused to breast feed me as a baby. She said she liked me as far as a friend but that's as far as she was going to go." Rodney Dangerfield
@chiliconcarne4274 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@velocite9044 3 жыл бұрын
I think it was actually"I was never breast fed because my mother said she just wanted to be friends"...from how I remember..
@julianenglish2278 2 жыл бұрын
You too eh Rodney ? RIP
@mikecunningham7621 Жыл бұрын
"I was breast fed by my father" .. Rodney Dangerfield
@kadose 4 жыл бұрын
Sound advice. I found that any ambiguity meant that she wasn’t interested, so if you’re asking yourself if she’s interested or not, she’s not interested. The minute things feel off, move on to the next one. There are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of down to earth women who won’t mess you about. If you feel slighted, take the hit, your ego will recover, and move on quickly. It’s a sign that pursuit is going to be a waste of time, you wouldn’t stay on a plane at the beginning of a flight if parts of it started falling off, would you? Think long game, there are plenty of good options out there.
@davidheenan7432 4 жыл бұрын
The comments on this channel are very entertaining lol!
@OdysseyHome-Gaming 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if there's two friendzones. One for sibling-like friends. One for possible lovers if they fix some red flags. 🤔
@mikebaranik6227 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Anna !! I have seen all of these signs & yet it takes me so long to clue in . This video is so helpful !! Thanks for your time & insight !!
@Timmytimtim3 4 жыл бұрын
you described ever women I ever met . INCLUDING MOM
@manuelvalentin2648 4 жыл бұрын
Sad to admit it but Anna is spot on. I've also experienced most of these in my last few years of dating. Live and learn, I suppose.
@jofraa91 4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work, I love that you are doing this for us. You even sound so confident with your content that it could almost be a bible for lost souls.
@SunRise-ul7ko 4 жыл бұрын
Anna, thanks for helping our brothers. A lot of men do need your advice. I wished I had got this advice, when I needed it many years ago. Now woman have to know, I'm just not into them, once they play games they wonder where I've gone. Anyway Anna, you have a lovely day.
@leegeddyfan 4 жыл бұрын
you're awesome Anna, love hearing you dish out advice in the most conventional way
@steventogami898 4 жыл бұрын
One of your better, helpful, videos! Keep it up! You’ve triple your subscribers since I subscribed. Shows validity in your insightful views.
@xCharjx 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thanks. I’ve noticed a couple of these before in my encounters and wondered why it didn’t go anywhere. Anna your videos always get better and better. You’re a lot of things I’m looking for in a woman!
@jeffreysheldrake7943 4 жыл бұрын
Hey there Anna. I can't say for certain but I think some of your positive and sensible advice has helped me realise what I already have . Talking about problems we appear to have and then getting our mortality shoved in our faces has brought out communication empathy and showing of affection I thought was lost. It helps to remind myself that I'm not the only one she loves ... grandkids etc...and that we both are quite similar in many ways. Best Wishes always from Jeff the Stubborn Australian
@3magikarpinamansuit281 4 жыл бұрын
I have watched almost all of your videos and id like to say thank you, ive gained confidence in myself and my future in dating.
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Glad you're here! :))
@alfx5432 2 жыл бұрын
Me to.
@georgetbutler454 4 жыл бұрын
I'll make a point of always watching the ads all the way through going forward. Thank you for the reminder!
@victorvillagran4976 4 жыл бұрын
Very good advice. Thank you for affirming what I have learned about these instances. This is the best video that I've watched so far about this subject matter.
@EricAdamsonMI Жыл бұрын
When I find myself in the friend zone, I just lean on my friend for dating advice, sharing screencaps of my interactions with dating prospects, to demonstrate that I'm moving on -- as they evidently would prefer. This strategy is newly-adopted, so its efficacy remains to be determined, but fingers crossed -- if there's any chance -- it will inspire jealousy.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@peaniewilpnips1629 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Thankyou. This was Awesome! 1 year after losing my wife to Cancer, I started seeing one of her good friends who could never find a good relationship with a man. One of my wife's last request was that I would marry her and be happy together with her. I went out with her one or two times and all the signs you mentioned were there. I got smart, and started seeing another women who loved and appreciated me. We married 5 years later and It's been wonderful. I've always felt I never tried hard enough with my late wife's friend, but after this video, I'm now sure I was on a Doomed ship to begin with. Once again...Thankyou
@andrewhughes9298 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for explaining these things. I watch alot of your videos and they have cleared up so much confusion for me.
@armanddimeo6575 4 жыл бұрын
I just love your intro and your deadpan style. Your advice is great too. Despite the serious topics and sober advice, you make me laugh.
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Laughter is good for the soul (and mind and body) so yay! ;))
@jamesa.7604 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Very Much, Anna. You helped me figure something out. I was getting some mixed signals from an Ex. I put my cards on the table and she totally avoided the response. I saw the signs you described so I think I got the picture. I really appreciate all your advice. And your puppy is so cute.
@julianenglish2278 2 жыл бұрын
Oh yes … and one other thing I have learned: A relationship is defined by the person who cares the least.
@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! I appreciate that ❤️
@Cantbuyathrill Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! The less one cares, the more it's one's frame.
@linneasimchah1621 Жыл бұрын
1938 Waller's principle of least interest. Sociology has studied this.
@kingkrimson8771 2 ай бұрын
George Costanza described it as having "hand' in a relationship. Sadly, he came to need that hand after a while.
@diemartist 3 жыл бұрын
I thank you for having the courage to put this into words. No one, EVER, does that. But you have. We owe you a great debt.
@christophersommerhoff6009 4 жыл бұрын
Your list is of very obvious signs when we look back and yet I've repeatedly tried with women who showed many of the signs recently. I guess it takes the type of third party perspective that you've provided for it to really sink in. Thank you.
@Djlittle457 4 жыл бұрын
When she says "It's not you it's me." You know then and there that it's you. That's when it's time to just walk away. Been there done that. And being called a "Overly Possessive Jerk." Is another reason to walk away "Yep! I know first hand about that,"
@phlushphish793 4 жыл бұрын
George Costanza: "You're giving me the 'it's not you, it's me? I INVENTED 'it's not you, it's me! If it's anybody, it's ME!" "Alright, alright. It's YOU!" :)
@ashton1952 3 жыл бұрын
Stumbled over this and ended up watching because maybe I can figure out what the guy I like is really thinking; I'll say it's true when we start mentioning another guy that we're interested in, that that's a real clear sign we see you as a friend. Something women are being taught nowadays is "leaning back" and "female energy" so we are so scared of "messing it up/putting the guy off" that we leave our guy to initiate all the conversation and asking out, we suppress our wanting to contact our guy for fear of looking needy. But we do respond if we're interested. Some dating advice says wait at least 4 minutes, some say longer, to avoid looking too eager because that apparently puts men off. Sometimes women don't know what to do either... thanks for hearing me out I know this is a channel for men
@drummerjeroensimons 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advices and your humor!!!!
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
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@deekay12758 4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the fact that you have understood that how a women should behave, talk and act to stay more attractive. You seem like a strong mind tough lady but adaptating such a soft personality over that is a real success. Wish modern women learn this art but they wont.
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I wish they would too! :)
@JLHenderson 4 жыл бұрын
I had a female friend who I only thought of as a friend. She's pretty but I never thought of her that way. I went out of state to college occasionally talked to her but about 3 years later she would text and it was always abt relationships. Turns out she thought she had me in the friend zone and thought I would date her when she "was ready" for it. Nope, never did and haven't heard from her since. This was also b4 third wave feminism infested society and was normal to have female friends. Unfortunately now, me just being friendly to women leads to them jumping to the conclusion that I want to get into their pants. Naw, just trying to be nice and polite. I'm sooo sick and tired of being viewed as some type of sexually depressed monster. Plus in order to date these women I would have lower my standards so far that I'd have to get a shovel and dig 15 meters down.
@phlushphish793 4 жыл бұрын
Yeh, it's really a no-win situation. You're nice to them, they think you're trying to get 'em. You keep your distance, you're a stuck up snob, or worse!
@AmechiAmanugi 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah right!?!? Anna is the most awesome! If only. Thank you again for all your great advice!!
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting! :))
@victord.4388 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you! 😎 (and your hair looks amazing!l
@metalmouth0413 3 жыл бұрын
I remember over a year ago, I started watching videos. I elaborated on where I was and stuff. A little over a year later, my divorce is pending a hearing, and I went out on my first date since my split. The date was fun and we had a good time, but I got placed in the friendzone. I got told I was a sweet, respectful guy who acted like a gentleman. I was also told she felt no connection with me. But hey, I had the willingness to place my ass out there (a positive). Sometimes gotta screw up to get good at something.
@MrMalum 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you are just a nice guy...
@cynthiarothschild9179 4 жыл бұрын
I prefer the direct approach even though it might hurt at first .... it’s best I never stay friends with someone that has more feelings than friendship be cause it a narcissistic thing to do !treat people the way you want to be treated ... in the long run having someone hanging around for months or years as you bread crumb them along for your own ego isn’t fair ... its a lot worse than just being honest and saying I only am interested in you as a friend.... and NEVER EVER use someone feelings .... taking advantage of someone because your bored ... or need someone to vent to or using someone for money is a very sick narcissistic personality... that is why some people get stalked or worse killed by people they lead on by someone who really was just using them.... it’s bad karma and just not nice or classy to be such a jerk... Don’t use people... be fair be honest be direct!
@johnbingaman3645 4 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Rothschild, I had a woman do that to me ,acted like she was so into me ...going to her place,, going everywhere together, she was calling me texting me.. all the time,,, told me how much she liked me!!! and then ghosted me out of the blue..... such a let-down found out 5 months later went back to her Ex... the time the effort the money the great times the cooking together being together and just vanished like that ..no explanation gone.. ghosting is like a form of abuse, disrespectful, and a coward.....
@scottlasley4593 4 жыл бұрын
Oh boy, I believe I've seen just about all these signs. What a like about your series is that you, a woman, are explaining these things. Its helped me understand a lot.
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is potential power! Thanks for watching and commenting!
@mrcaji4401 4 жыл бұрын
The end conveys something that suggests on an intuitive level you need a hug. Not me, my arms are not long enough, but somone closer for sure.
@THOMMGB 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the insight. You forgot to mention that the subtle hint of a restraining order is concrete evidence that she's really not interested. :-)
@sethheron-vanta1383 3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a " three strikes" rule! Now, I don't wait that long!! If I hear " friend" or the old , "I'm like a brother", I'm gone!!!
@YourWingmam 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate that ❤
@troyvierra6664 4 жыл бұрын
I've been seeing this girl for a little bit listening to this video really opened my eyes we always seem to hangout but friends are always around and only really happy if I get something for her
@glen3468 4 жыл бұрын
how spot on is AJ? great vid,and yes practically all of the above, buy a "alexa" guys,she,ll compliment and speak to you all day!
@eddaimes2247 4 жыл бұрын
"20+ signs that you are married"
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, hey
@ieatshit1 4 жыл бұрын
Boomer detected
@goudagrishhdoe8925 4 жыл бұрын
Depressing as hell lol not getting married
@eddaimes2247 4 жыл бұрын
@@ItsMe-jh7fb some things are better left to the imagination
@guntertorfs6486 2 жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam Canadian , hey .
@devilisbackk Жыл бұрын
What if she just want to be a friend initially to understand more and then take it to the next level....this is just so common nowadays..... How do we figure this out???? I ignored some like this in the past thinking that they friendzoned me however later came to know that their process of picking the right guy is different.....so you can't ignore every other girl who prefers to be a friend initially 🤪
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@chadford8500 Жыл бұрын
I would say figure that out by communicating with her. Women that don't rush into relationships and want to have friendships first can be an awesome catch and awesome significant other eventually. I met my wife that way. We started a friendship that lasted about a year before we ever started dating. We didn't see other people either in that time period, but we literally talked to each other everyday or every other day for that entire year just mostly joking, talking about interests, goals, dreams, family, etc. We were both just super busy with work and school and didn't really have time for a relationship, but we kept getting closer and closer and it was like it just became inevitable that we would start dating..
@bobbyasiani446 4 жыл бұрын
Anna is da bomb.......she tells men the truth which helps to mitigate on disappointments.
@ryandebrotherton1338 4 жыл бұрын
Great videos, wish you were there when I was 22. As for this vid's content, i'd like to see you add don't overshare. I have learned its akin to trying to give your heat away.My wife passed two years ago, and almost a year ago so its been a rebuilding prosses and in turning 60 this year, its like Algibra 5. Its even hard for me to not break the internet conversation rules i'm writing-your amazing.
@ancepsimago 4 жыл бұрын
I've watched most of your videos but this one was particularly useful for me. Thanks! BTW, did you change something lately in your hair? It looks great :)
@michaeldominic3183 4 жыл бұрын
Ms. Wing, err, no. Ms. Mam, Oh Definitely no! Hey there. :) You are SO singing my song. I spent a very long time going after the ones I was interested in before I figured out that, for whatever reason, I kept trying to get together with girls who were always too busy to see me. Finally I got it through my thick skull this was not a good plan. Now I put the effort into a relationships what women are willing to return. There are the ones who only have time for me as a friend and I treat them the same. There are those who are really into me and I treat them like that in return. Basically I use the MAD option. No not Mutually Assured Destruction. The other one. Mutual Attraction Desired.
@pureevil823 4 жыл бұрын
52,000 subs you rocking along nicely ! 😍
@brianthornton5836 4 жыл бұрын
Fun stuff. And on par with many things I have tried, in order to let a woman know I'm not interested but not sure of HER intentions. Thanks!
@The_Future_isnt_so_Bright 4 жыл бұрын
I started this video, THEN SHE CALLED ME!!
@milascave2 4 жыл бұрын
Well, I recently was told by a woman that "I'd like to meet you soon---as a friend." It was pretty clear. It's a shame that they don't all it do it like that. Also,annoying are the ones who let you down by saying "I don't it will work between us romanticly, but we can still be friends" when they actually don't want to be friends.
@B1GK1NG 4 жыл бұрын
Opinunate ted it’s a cheap way to let a guy down. Fact is they don’t want to be your friendZ. They don’t want anything to do with you.
@jmgmetal 4 жыл бұрын
Opinunate ted or it’s a shit test
@JJJennings007 4 жыл бұрын
OMG, your dog is so adorable!plus you are rocking that denim vest. now I'll listed to your content. OK, just did. I have never let myself be in the friend zone for more than 24h. If I felt or detected just some of the signs you mentioned I respectfully disengaged with a confident smile as saying, your lost and now you are water under the bridge, It's not rocket science.
@ahmog 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is a time saver. I will never get back the time wrongly invested in a wrong person.
@dallasstiles118 4 жыл бұрын
If someone was doing some of these things are they even a friend?
@Sam-es2gf 4 жыл бұрын
Nope. Means they're a back up plan. Women can never have enough of those.
@OldToughDW 4 жыл бұрын
To answer your first question, "no" but then I am an American. I have a hard and fast rule "never take dating advice from a woman." Women over analyze and overly complicate everything. And I am just here to leave a comment, so maybe another guy will get a "heads up" and do what is right.
@nwl213 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent advise 👍 Now I guess we just have to keep moving on next if the person we persuing isn't interested. It's a big world out there
@jediewok5328 3 жыл бұрын
Love watching these vids so insightful with great advice and a pretty face!
@allansantiago3401 4 жыл бұрын
Just walk away. Any one of these signs just walk away. If she calls maybe talk with her; you decide. Since you're not a priority she shouldn't be for you.
@blackpillcommando4927 4 жыл бұрын
Allan Santiago: Talk to her like anyone else if you're interested in what she is saying, but if someone is wasting your time where you are an emotional tampon and there is no reciprocation then hang up the phone.
@56cadd 4 жыл бұрын
"thanks for your honesty... NEXT". 😁
@YourWingmam 4 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@roserevancroix2308 4 жыл бұрын
Next victim?
@56cadd 4 жыл бұрын
@@roserevancroix2308 , youve heard next many times. 😁
@mikediffey1217 3 жыл бұрын
I think its great to take note of these things and pay attention to them because it will save huge amounts of time and emotional effort I might put into someone who doesn't like me.
@jpl4673 4 жыл бұрын
Hey great videos! Keep the good work up! Thx from Germany :-)
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