20 Things to Avoid to Become a Real Lady

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Some people consider the rules of etiquette to be outdated and old-fashioned. However, good manners never go out of style. If you want to be taken seriously, you should know there are things that can ruin your image of a true lady.
We at Bright Side have come up with a list of typical etiquette mistakes a lady would never make. Keep them in mind, and you'll always make a great first impression.
TIMESTAMPS
Wearing poor-quality fake designer items 0:34
Making fashion mistakes 1:20
Slouching 1:59
Not taking good care of yourself 2:30
Wearing too much makeup 3:00
Being too fussy 3:25
Finishing your soup 3:59
Being rude and spreading rumors 4:32
Talking and laughing loudly 4:49
Arguing 5:17
Eating on the go 5:43
Being too honest 6:07
Wearing white high heels 6:25
Being late 6:50
Leaving an umbrella open to dry 7:12
Responding to another person's sneeze by saying "Bless you" 7:39
Not wearing pantyhose 7:58
Refusing food or drinks offered by a host 8:18
Dancing with your hair down 8:41
Blowing on your food to cool it down 9:00
SUMMARY
- You don't have to spend all your money on some ridiculously expensive designer bag. But if you can't afford it, buying a much cheaper copy is not an option. A replica, even of good quality, can be easily spotted.
- A true lady would never wear an oversized sweater or a pair of overly tight shorts. She knows how to choose the right types of clothes that say a lot about her style.
- Improving your posture is not as difficult as it may seem at first. Including regular exercises in your schedule will strengthen the muscles in your upper back and shoulders and improve your posture.
- A true lady takes good care of herself. She loves sports, maintains a healthy diet, pays attention to skincare, and consults specialists if necessary.
- If a woman pays special attention to skincare, her skin looks amazing. She knows exactly what makes her face stand out and uses makeup accordingly.
- A true lady knows how to take control of her nervous habits - if she has any.
- To get the last spoonful of soup, you need to slightly tilt your bowl or soup plate. Although table manners say you should tilt the plate away from you to avoid splashing, it's better not to finish the soup at all.
- Being rude, gossiping, and whining are taboos for a true lady. It's beneath her. Neither would she listen to someone else's whining and gossiping.
- It's very important to watch the tone of your voice. Laughing loudly, yelling, and offensive language is unacceptable.
- A true lady always has her own opinion, and she's 100% sure of it. However, she'd never force her ideas on anybody, nor would she argue her choice.
- Etiquette rules say you need to use cutlery when you're at the table. So even if pizza is your favorite food, don't order it in a restaurant.
- A true lady is never too much when it comes to communicating with new people.
- A pair of white pumps can be worn either with a white wedding gown or with a white summer dress. If such a pair is decorated with a colorful detail, such as a bow or something of the kind, it is easier to integrate the shoes into your outfit.
- A lady knows that it's unacceptable to be more than 15 minutes late, both for business and personal meetings. And if the event is a wedding, graduation, or funeral, it is absolutely unacceptable to be late.
- Close your umbrella before entering a building. Shake the water off, and hang it to dry. You can also use a special drying machine if it's available.
- Many people respond to someone else's sneeze by saying "Bless you," but this is only acceptable if the sneezer is a close friend or family member.
- According to modern business etiquette rules, a woman must wear pantyhose to work and formal receptions. Even on the hottest summer day. If it's too hot, you can wear thigh-highs or pants instead of a dress or a skirt.
- A true lady would never refuse food and drinks offered to her. If a host asks what drink she prefers.
- A true lady cares about other people's health and safety.
- It's unacceptable to blow on your food, which is why a true lady waits for it to cool down naturally. The best way to do it is to take a spoonful of your dish and hold it while you support the conversation.
What do other etiquette rules you follow? Write to us in the comments; we will be happy to know your opinion!
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@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL 5 жыл бұрын
What do you think it means to be a true lady? Also, be sure to check these etiquette rules if you wanna be a real lady kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fJdpiLSjvam9Z6s.html
@catherinecarr1844
@catherinecarr1844 5 жыл бұрын
Carr
@SociomotivationByPakjira
@SociomotivationByPakjira 5 жыл бұрын
N
@MazalSiani71
@MazalSiani71 5 жыл бұрын
very shallow, insulting and sexist. don't want to be your lady anyhow!
@DarkKittycat
@DarkKittycat 5 жыл бұрын
a true lady is someone who isnt shallow and fake
@nnconnected3177
@nnconnected3177 5 жыл бұрын
To be a true lady u dont let others define what a true lady is
@marieelena
@marieelena 5 жыл бұрын
I was taught that a lady was kind to everyone and treated friend or stranger with respect and consideration. A lady can be dressed in rags and still retain her poise and dignity. I always think of the character Melanie, from Gone With The Wind, as being the epitome of a true lady.
@unicornprincess5697
@unicornprincess5697 5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@kharismas6825
@kharismas6825 5 жыл бұрын
Just like snow white too
@cmnelson2923
@cmnelson2923 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@RyanneJohn
@RyanneJohn 5 жыл бұрын
watch makeup tips here
@stacyagonzalez6654
@stacyagonzalez6654 5 жыл бұрын
marie elena Yes!
@marisolbloomfield6615
@marisolbloomfield6615 5 жыл бұрын
2:23 What is a ladylike sport?!? I’m a runner and I have been told that it is not a “girl sport”. LADIES, DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!
@anaghavarma3331
@anaghavarma3331 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly I thought this video was made as a joke when I saw the thumbnail lol
@diana5105
@diana5105 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! If we do only yoga then what about women athletes!?
@kill_kakey4585
@kill_kakey4585 3 жыл бұрын
I like soccer :)
@isurrendertoyou7498
@isurrendertoyou7498 3 жыл бұрын
Who said that sport is sport ..there is no man & woman in it!! If u act like cool dude than u will be called dude & even after a long run if u are eating ice cream or something & having fun with your girls..u are a lady..cs u aren't pretending to be something you are not!!
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. 3 жыл бұрын
@@isurrendertoyou7498 uh
@donnawilcock5774
@donnawilcock5774 6 жыл бұрын
I am at #11 and, so far, see nothing about being a lady! Being a lady is about character and inner beauty!
@pokipineapple5377
@pokipineapple5377 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. These are setting expectations for us to be perfect at every moment of the day. What, are we not allowed to be comfortable? Even at home?? Nope. Cleary have to maintain our appearance at all times and not focus instead on how we act and treat others.
@honeylavenderbakery
@honeylavenderbakery 6 жыл бұрын
"better not to dance at all than to dance badly" as someone who has been taking dance lessons for over 7 years, i think i'm allowed to say that that is completely false. you have to start somewhere...
@hollyday7882
@hollyday7882 5 жыл бұрын
I disagree. I don't feel that I am a good free style dancer , and at age 50 it is embarrassing when a group of women insist that I must get out on the dance floor and shake my behind. I am a former competitive Ballroom dancer, so I prefer partner dancing and look good doing that.
@fancifulfilly
@fancifulfilly 5 жыл бұрын
So, Christine, you actually agree with the comment above. Partner dancing is still dancing. In fact it's the only kind of dancing that counts, since people who dance w/o partners often think they're dancing to entertain others. That's a pretty antisocial kind of dancing, because the funny part is, rarely does anyone watch them for entertainment. I don't like dancing as a spectator sport. I see it as a social activity, too, otherwise, I don't care to do it.
@daughterofzion5303
@daughterofzion5303 5 жыл бұрын
What happen to fun?
@libbypatton09
@libbypatton09 5 жыл бұрын
I am trying to brag but I was 6 when I started gymnastics and then I quit and now I am in dance lol
@selamhashu1071
@selamhashu1071 5 жыл бұрын
uhhhh untruthfull
@Edraxo
@Edraxo 6 жыл бұрын
If wearing oversized sweaters is wrong, I don't want to be right
@chloegreen7542
@chloegreen7542 6 жыл бұрын
Heaven forbid we be comfortable
@jielingwong3008
@jielingwong3008 6 жыл бұрын
Chloe Green 😂😂
@chiara9721
@chiara9721 6 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@utibenojacob5365
@utibenojacob5365 6 жыл бұрын
eddie spaghetti preach
@KyleeNicole
@KyleeNicole 6 жыл бұрын
This is so true😂
@meld1529
@meld1529 6 жыл бұрын
If you are wearing oversized sweater or any oversized item doesen't mean that you are not a true lady. A true lady would always say that no matter what,you should wear clothes that you feel good in.
@liljamorris6008
@liljamorris6008 6 жыл бұрын
And that don't have huge chocolate stains on them... Or is that just me?
@hearfan
@hearfan 6 жыл бұрын
No, no. Being a "lady" obviously means being fake, not being true to yourself and trying to live up to some ridiculous, made up ideal. Get it?
@charanyarajan1383
@charanyarajan1383 6 жыл бұрын
Dang i must be a man
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
A true lady does not criticize others clothes or appearance, I say!
@Stinoco
@Stinoco 6 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between a female and a lady as well as there's a difference between a man and a gentleman. If you don't want to follow these rules, don't be offended by just a term.
@ariannalykins6943
@ariannalykins6943 6 жыл бұрын
Who else is a “ordinary girl” 🙋🏼‍♀️
@clincpb8903
@clincpb8903 5 жыл бұрын
And I like it !
@Stereo6400
@Stereo6400 5 жыл бұрын
Arianna Lykins I’m like less than an “ordinary girl” 😂
@irenemay3117.
@irenemay3117. 5 жыл бұрын
🙋😂😂😂😂😂
@pastel-children5551
@pastel-children5551 5 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽
@medhapandey4616
@medhapandey4616 5 жыл бұрын
Me
@tash6240
@tash6240 5 жыл бұрын
I wanna fight this narrator.
@sarahmckinneyrobinson
@sarahmckinneyrobinson 5 жыл бұрын
Pied Peculiar - 💯
@renebunny1
@renebunny1 5 жыл бұрын
The narrator is a robot only a dude would write this
@isabelforde3716
@isabelforde3716 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@bulbulsood3538
@bulbulsood3538 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@midnight2444
@midnight2444 4 жыл бұрын
This is so stereotyped
@Erintii
@Erintii 6 жыл бұрын
This is not being about lady, but about some common fashion mistakes. True lady is not fitness obsessed. There is a great difference between a lady and someone following latest suggestions by media.
@armiesgachastudios1534
@armiesgachastudios1534 3 жыл бұрын
Its true 👍
@montannatilton9114
@montannatilton9114 6 жыл бұрын
Being a lady is in how you carry yourself and how you treat others: with confidence, dignity, care, and respect. The rest of the advice in this video is simply "how to conform to outdated expectations." Wear whatever makeup and shoes bring you joy!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
but still... if I see a fake gucci bag I'd think that person was a wannabe model... this video actually has some good stuff. You should buy real ones or none at all
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
it doesn't, that's why there are other tips you should follow
@user-hw9yb1er4z
@user-hw9yb1er4z 6 жыл бұрын
guess im gonna be a man
@reynasoraten5553
@reynasoraten5553 6 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@nnekaeze6615
@nnekaeze6615 6 жыл бұрын
catoon the
@carolineballard5183
@carolineballard5183 5 жыл бұрын
I am going to wish a “bless you” to everyone because we need it. thanks
@vanessathomas6486
@vanessathomas6486 6 жыл бұрын
A TRUE lady does NOT pick her nose in public...at HOME is fine...LOL
@alonianewcomb8357
@alonianewcomb8357 5 жыл бұрын
I can finish my soup if I want to
@kpoornima2131
@kpoornima2131 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@elalae3836
@elalae3836 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah....😅😅😅
@smruthiammu2174
@smruthiammu2174 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@merjane22
@merjane22 3 жыл бұрын
accurate 😆
@icykoool
@icykoool 6 жыл бұрын
I’m a lady and I don’t follow most of the outdated things mentioned here. As a woman we know when we are being classy or not.
@cheri1687
@cheri1687 6 жыл бұрын
Joselynn Xo agreed
@joycegreer9391
@joycegreer9391 6 жыл бұрын
Right. A lot of this is BS, expensive, and stuffy. Just be your unique self, and caring and considerate of others.
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 жыл бұрын
Joselynn Xo ur a women not a lady
@litanja8307
@litanja8307 6 жыл бұрын
I guess,"lady" is a title which person gets from a noble family or from a noble husband. A always had such idea. Can not imagine how i can be"lady" if i,m from country,where we don't have any nobles? Am i right or wrong? Or they mean,we have to try to be dressed like real ladies?
@kali7906
@kali7906 6 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@Lana-hx5oo
@Lana-hx5oo 6 жыл бұрын
..but...but what if I want to enjoy life?
@ppppp992
@ppppp992 6 жыл бұрын
Funtimes :D you’re right
@unicornprincess5697
@unicornprincess5697 5 жыл бұрын
@Donald J. Trump - 45tg POTUS, don’t you have a wall to build instead of telling people how horrible life is?
@oisinlane8022
@oisinlane8022 5 жыл бұрын
@@lordgrompuluskevinribbiton4319 yeah because it's just as easy being a "gentleman" and a "lady". These tips are all superficial. Nothing to do with self character
@sandrudemetra8807
@sandrudemetra8807 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@rebeccabrewer2221
@rebeccabrewer2221 5 жыл бұрын
Lohol!! 😆 hi five more to point what if I don't wanna be fake
@shilly8538
@shilly8538 6 жыл бұрын
I prefer being myself.. Being that lady as mentioned in the video is actually being self obsessed and self centered.... Btw No one's born to impress others! 😾
@alonianewcomb8357
@alonianewcomb8357 5 жыл бұрын
I thought being a lady was JUST having proper manners and being polite.
@asiamonna5289
@asiamonna5289 4 жыл бұрын
Mukul Nivedita ❤️thank u
@layalsaif9425
@layalsaif9425 4 жыл бұрын
@@alonianewcomb8357 Omg same
@onlyfood7069
@onlyfood7069 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly !! Now, ironically, as a true lady, by watching this, I have wasted my oh-so precious time because a true "lady" would never waste her time...lol😂
@fabiolablessi1806
@fabiolablessi1806 3 жыл бұрын
We do that to impress ourselves,mister. But this video is totally controlling and sexist.
@kamnananda3257
@kamnananda3257 5 жыл бұрын
Summary of video: 1. Be too conscious about how others perceive you. 2. Turn your life around it.
@sandyclaws5908
@sandyclaws5908 6 жыл бұрын
I was raised to not accept food or drinks if you are a guest at someones house, because it's more polite. I was raised to always say, "bless you" no matter who sneezed. Whoever put this together must not really know what theyre talking about. Unless southern hospitality is just different.
@lunacraftgamer6474
@lunacraftgamer6474 6 жыл бұрын
Sandy Claws yeah
@moonsugar8938
@moonsugar8938 6 жыл бұрын
Philippine hospitality is diffrent
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 жыл бұрын
I do that stuff a lot of the time too!
@trolliepolieolie4315
@trolliepolieolie4315 6 жыл бұрын
Where I come from , it's more rude to not accept food or drink if someone offers you.
@gramzulu
@gramzulu 6 жыл бұрын
Who determines how a lady should look like? Let women do what they feel is right for them.
@faariyadurrani5798
@faariyadurrani5798 6 жыл бұрын
Graham Zulu (y)
@DirectionerLoveDream
@DirectionerLoveDream 6 жыл бұрын
👏👏
@adamkawache828
@adamkawache828 6 жыл бұрын
Graham Zulu thank u
@mellifluous5411
@mellifluous5411 5 жыл бұрын
This must be the most ridiculous video on KZfaq.....😂
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 4 жыл бұрын
You must not belong to a country club.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains.
@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. 3 жыл бұрын
@@ratherbfishing455 what does that mean
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 3 жыл бұрын
@@AGuyWhoLikesTrains. One should be prim and proper. Ladylike and not coarse.
@samanthacurry2552
@samanthacurry2552 6 жыл бұрын
Watches video --> looses a bit of hope in humanity; Reads comments --> humanity restored
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
you must have a very gullible mind then
@softkj7612
@softkj7612 6 жыл бұрын
Is actually the opposite for me.
@juliaprohaska9295
@juliaprohaska9295 6 жыл бұрын
+
@padhmajaravichandar9077
@padhmajaravichandar9077 6 жыл бұрын
True that! 😊
@andalperumal9935
@andalperumal9935 6 жыл бұрын
7Sophia Xu
@zainabkhan969
@zainabkhan969 6 жыл бұрын
No need to follow all these rules......... just be youself!
@pnkdahla5037
@pnkdahla5037 6 жыл бұрын
I am P!nky..lol
@ariannarose1425
@ariannarose1425 6 жыл бұрын
zainab ok
@uwu_mara2003
@uwu_mara2003 6 жыл бұрын
zainab there is nothing wrong with changing yourself
@NothingButAComment
@NothingButAComment 6 жыл бұрын
i lost so many IQ points from watching this
@aquilabeyabino300
@aquilabeyabino300 5 жыл бұрын
Brain damage to the max😵👎
@naimayusufmohammed9064
@naimayusufmohammed9064 5 жыл бұрын
It's not like you had many before.
@mohinidasi9357
@mohinidasi9357 5 жыл бұрын
Haha me too
@savahbejin7511
@savahbejin7511 5 жыл бұрын
Angry Khaleesi: As your name implies...
@arktana
@arktana 4 жыл бұрын
That's cuz you are such a "lady"....for sure.
@samin9648
@samin9648 5 жыл бұрын
I'm an ordinary girl & proud of that!!! Not about being rude but to be happy and free :)
@egmall5869
@egmall5869 5 жыл бұрын
Sam Sedaghat 👍👍👍
@blameitonablackstar
@blameitonablackstar 6 жыл бұрын
A true lady knows that most of this video is hilarious😂😂😂 The soup one really cracked me up. I'm a rebel, I like to finish my soup haha.
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 жыл бұрын
Ikr 🤣
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet 6 жыл бұрын
blameitonablackstar I feel like its more polite to finish all of your food rather than leaving it for the sake of not wanting to look gross or get messed
@laurabaiardi2123
@laurabaiardi2123 6 жыл бұрын
Maybe but this yt channel has 5 mln of follower and it shouldn’t make a video to create others label
@sharonsutedja9812
@sharonsutedja9812 6 жыл бұрын
In my country , it's a sin if u're not finish your food 😂
@blameitonablackstar
@blameitonablackstar 6 жыл бұрын
Sharon Sutedja yasss where is that? Lol I like that rule haha
@jasminefoster6958
@jasminefoster6958 6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but this is upsetting and hilarious. Sense when did oversized sweaters and eating all your soup become unacceptable. Yikes if this is what "a lady" is I'm long gone. God bless you though ;)
@preztjuswoman
@preztjuswoman 6 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Foster *keeling over with laughter* I mean hhhhello! Apparently I stopped being a lady once I bust out with the genuine heart felt laughter I just shared. Or was it when I bought those really sexy white suede stilettos from Aldo... Comically interesting indeed!
@bluelotus2021
@bluelotus2021 6 жыл бұрын
U are right
@ratherbfishing455
@ratherbfishing455 4 жыл бұрын
One has to be from an upperclass family and belong to a country club.
@karinkorenkova2059
@karinkorenkova2059 4 жыл бұрын
Explain how baggy lazy clothes is 'ladylike'
@fannypack8215
@fannypack8215 4 жыл бұрын
Here’s an idea for the title: “All of the stereotypical things you need to do to make no difference in your life at all except for the amount of comfort you feel daily”
@iremozarslan
@iremozarslan 6 жыл бұрын
1 Thing to Avoid to Become a Good Channel Don't tell "ladies" what to do.
@thisgurl4205
@thisgurl4205 6 жыл бұрын
So being a lady now means that I need to please everyone by trying so hard at being perfect? A girl doesn't need to be perfect in order to be a lady, it's enough that she's respectful and respectable. I can't believe i wasted my 10 minutes eatching this.
@coachingconfidant2785
@coachingconfidant2785 6 жыл бұрын
nobody cares just work on your personality every single day
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
Spirited Beauty I say, be polite, but be yourself. True beauty is within.
@luvluv308
@luvluv308 6 жыл бұрын
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable" .... seriously? ... That's exactly why you should wear them.
@jmcgovern1988
@jmcgovern1988 5 жыл бұрын
Luv Luv yes in the house LOL.
@alexandratoth2981
@alexandratoth2981 5 жыл бұрын
Not only baggy clothes are comfortable.
@annieyummmm
@annieyummmm 4 жыл бұрын
Wear what you want. But not everything you wear will look lady like. Truth hurts
@blueturkeyneptune4996
@blueturkeyneptune4996 4 жыл бұрын
Luv Luv that’s why it’s a trend I wear it cause I’m body shamed a lot
@luvluv308
@luvluv308 4 жыл бұрын
@@blueturkeyneptune4996 I'm sorry you are body shamed. You are beautiful the way you are. It's sad that some people think they have the right to judge others. Their words say more about them than they do of you. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are and I pray one day your opinion of yourself will mean more to you than theirs. Take care.
@tere1198
@tere1198 5 жыл бұрын
Some of the tips are silly such as wearing your hair down while dancing
@charvishrungarpure2448
@charvishrungarpure2448 5 жыл бұрын
They first need a video on how to be a broadminded, non-judgmental human 😂😂 I'll finish my soup and yours too!
@annieyummmm
@annieyummmm 4 жыл бұрын
Charvi S. some people are interested. If you are not, just move on.
@neerajsharma3541
@neerajsharma3541 3 жыл бұрын
A true lady is someone who doesn't judge other people based on their look. Let's see who can finish their soup first😂😂
@neerajsharma3541
@neerajsharma3541 3 жыл бұрын
@@annieyummmm Dude its 2021 who cares bout bean' a lady at all but tomboys are confident, positive and passionate TOMBOYS ROCK.
@haha-km2du
@haha-km2du 6 жыл бұрын
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable." Excuse you, I certainly WILL wear baggy clothes because they ARE comfortable.
@ccallender4012
@ccallender4012 6 жыл бұрын
Love me some baggy clothes too...That Lady will probably have a lot of yeast infections too...lol tackle that bright side.
@ellieosh1985
@ellieosh1985 6 жыл бұрын
So, your logic is, not wearing baggy clothes = yeast infections? I don't wear baggy clothes. Never have, and I never had an yeast infection. Have you ever heard of simply properly-fitting clothes? The implication of the video wasn't "don't wear baggy clothes, wear too-tightly-fitted clothes", it was what it said: a true lady doesn't wear baggy clothes, she wears properly fitting clothes, because baggy clothes - though comfortable for some (not for me, personally) - make you look clumsy, heavy, and larger than you are.
@ellieosh1985
@ellieosh1985 6 жыл бұрын
"She", as in "a true lady", as in "a true lady would never wear baggy clothes", which you are not because you choose to wear baggy clothes even though they're not lady like. Nothing wrong with that. Your choice. But that means you're not a lady. Ladies abide by certain etiquette rules. You can't be a lady, if you don't abide by them. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.
@cassy8035
@cassy8035 5 жыл бұрын
Oversized is in style now.
@WorriorXD
@WorriorXD 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@HayleighDixon16
@HayleighDixon16 6 жыл бұрын
Women, we being strong and independent is enough. We don’t need stereotypical ‘rules’ to dictate how we should act and look.
@sabhinavini8108
@sabhinavini8108 6 жыл бұрын
Hayleigh Dixon bless this comment! 👐🖒
@elliemay1748
@elliemay1748 6 жыл бұрын
Or how about maybe people have learned from experience that exercising, eating right, not slouching, and putting your best foot forward is just a healthy way to live. Guys have lists like this too you know. A strong person wouldn’t be so easily offended by something like this.
@silverrain8682
@silverrain8682 6 жыл бұрын
Ellie May: by your comment it seems as though you don't know the first thing about being a strong person. The REAL strong people were the women who fought for equal rights. This video promotes the idea that a woman's value is based on her outward appearance rather than her thoughts and mind. It supports the ideology that all women should be the steriotypical "housewife" that follows the above guidelines set in place for her by her domineering husband. And I don't think anyone can learn anything good from that.
@elliemay1748
@elliemay1748 6 жыл бұрын
Faith Parlapiano Apparently you see what you want to see. This is just a video with some classic etiquette examples. It’s not telling you to do anything. It didn’t bring up rights, or suggest that outward appearance determines your worth. I’m not threatened by it’s suggestions. I’m sorry that you can’t see that.
@katerinapatiniotis5598
@katerinapatiniotis5598 6 жыл бұрын
Ellie May As a real lady that practices all these things from a young age, I agree with you. They are just narcissistic and egomaniacs that get easily offended and triggered. That's not ladylike behaviour. It's an entitled, spoiled, 12 year old brat behaviour, dependent on Facebook 'likes' to feel better.
@yourdailyavocado2899
@yourdailyavocado2899 5 жыл бұрын
If you want to become a real lady, just dress the way you want and chose clothes in which you feel comfortable and confident in.
@silmihanifah8877
@silmihanifah8877 5 жыл бұрын
after watching this video, I choose to be an ordinary girl. Yeah, that's more comfortable
@DrinkYourNailPolish
@DrinkYourNailPolish 6 жыл бұрын
Being a lady or gentleman is about being the best possible version of yourself you can be, it is challenging, but very worthwhile. never put yourself or others down. learn how to accept a compliment. never discuss money with anyone besides your partner or accountant. Don't ask "what do you do for a living " ask, "what are your interests", be a good listener, don't act selfish, treat everyone with kindness and dignity from the CEO to the janitor
@sofiahasan4927
@sofiahasan4927 6 жыл бұрын
This is deep! I agree, you are the best lady you can be! This video is so stereotypical and a lot of people can’t afford like nice accessories and like what they have, even if it is cheap.
@sorasora1771
@sorasora1771 6 жыл бұрын
Drink Your Nail Polish i completely agree !!!
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 6 жыл бұрын
That's not what they are saying. They are saying to get items of "good-quality". This means good, sturdy fabrics that aren't going to fade, pill, or shrink. 100% cotton and thick denim, instead of flimsy nylon elastin polyblend that's made from petroleum byproducts. Second-hand stores are a treasure trove. You don't have to spend lots of $$ to get a good look if you are smart about it.
@vivi-er6dh
@vivi-er6dh 6 жыл бұрын
No. Just no. Being a lady is Emma Watson when she acts for what she stands for, inspiring girls and boys everywhere. Being a lady is when Zendaya actively speaks about the issues people of color face. Being a lady is being a beautiful warrior, no matter what, always brave and always strong. Be yourself, girls. Be fearless and powerful and unstoppable, because that's what makes a real lady, not handbags and facial beauty.
@sexymonster7667
@sexymonster7667 6 жыл бұрын
The Queen Of Chaos *** so true
@spontaneousm5367
@spontaneousm5367 6 жыл бұрын
The Queen Of Chaos *** you are amazing 😁 A+. Correct 🙌
@reneewang285
@reneewang285 6 жыл бұрын
Best comment for this video.
@raylees2501
@raylees2501 6 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👍
@vivi-er6dh
@vivi-er6dh 6 жыл бұрын
MrsSavannah75 Thank you so much, it really warms my heart to see such support to feminism and womanhood. What with all the fake feminists and haters out there, it is really great to end the day knowing that people like you- ALL of you are going to bring about an era of peace, power, joy and most importantly, equality.
@sujatapoudel8926
@sujatapoudel8926 6 жыл бұрын
10 min of my life is wasted 😂
@jennifer5923
@jennifer5923 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@yzabelleplata-ponce5763
@yzabelleplata-ponce5763 4 жыл бұрын
Sujata Poudel I agree!
@romilycyri2043
@romilycyri2043 4 жыл бұрын
Sujata Poudel same here
@iindetya4642
@iindetya4642 6 жыл бұрын
Being a true lady is you have to be a smart lady. That's all. Bcs etiquette can be different too depending on the situation.
@ForsakenPixel
@ForsakenPixel 6 жыл бұрын
some of these are a bit excessive, to be a lady imo all you have to do is be polite and courteous. That's it! very simple
@coachingconfidant2785
@coachingconfidant2785 6 жыл бұрын
watch anime with me
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 жыл бұрын
You are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!
@NightingaleFlorine
@NightingaleFlorine 6 жыл бұрын
Spirited Beauty don't force yourself. as a girl myself i see nothing wrong with buying fake products.
@pityparty5994
@pityparty5994 6 жыл бұрын
Yah, I'm not giving up my oversized clothes to put on some tight clothes and be a lady, I'd rather feel comfortable and be myself instead of faking someone I will never be😁😎😋
@PowerToolsnPearls
@PowerToolsnPearls 6 жыл бұрын
Pity Party notice how they went on and on about how bad and improper baggy clothes are, yet the picture was a super tight shirt bursting at the buttons? It’s as if the folks providing photos and those providing voice over never shared any information.
@softkj7612
@softkj7612 6 жыл бұрын
Dude. Tight clothes are frowned upon too. :v You’re supposed to wear well fitted clothes. But maybe you’re like: “Clothes that actually flatter my body type and are comfortable? EWwwww. I will stick to making my clothes out of trash bags.🤤🤤🤤💕✨”
@imd1111
@imd1111 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly! When you don't pretend to be someone else you are actually being a true lady!
@jeshan0659
@jeshan0659 6 жыл бұрын
When did wearing a baggy shirts defined to be a true lady?! A true lady for me is the one who is very true to herself and not minding what other people would say to her. As long as she's happy, the lady in her would shine.
@toastdude1453
@toastdude1453 6 жыл бұрын
preach
@freyagriffiths4153
@freyagriffiths4153 4 жыл бұрын
I like my baggy sweater!!! They make me comfy and chill.
@Nunesi
@Nunesi 6 жыл бұрын
A true lady knows herself and the rights of others. It is not about clothes but about who you really are . We can easily spot out a lady or not, through her behaviour 💖
@blazevacae1757
@blazevacae1757 6 жыл бұрын
Indubitably !
@LaPapessaRossa
@LaPapessaRossa 5 жыл бұрын
Right!
@Alex-vf3fm
@Alex-vf3fm 5 жыл бұрын
really this is universal and applies to everyone. Everyone has the right to be respected. Judging a person on material items such as clothes, however, is shallow and disgusting. I agree with you
@AprilHarmony9
@AprilHarmony9 5 жыл бұрын
Truth
@kristinawhitlow4761
@kristinawhitlow4761 5 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@simhere567
@simhere567 6 жыл бұрын
Breaking stereotypes is the best quality a lady can have. You shouldn't be afraid to argue. It's okay to be a powerful lady. This video sounds like being weak and and not speaking up about what you feel.
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
it's ok to be a lady and slouch all the time and not take care of yourself and look dreadful at important meetings... yeah
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
Sophia Xu No one said that it was ok to look dreadful at an important meeting, but, to say that in every other situation a woman has to be uptight and not be herself? What a crock!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
1: you people are saying that a lady should dress how she wants to dress. Who wants to dress in a suit EVER? Therefore, a lady should dress in pjs or hoodies to work every day. 2: we never said that a lady should be uptight. we said that she should dress appropriately and not embarrass herself. That is not the same thing. Also, a lady is supposed to be polite and respectful. If doing this is to not be yourself, then so be it. Better to be polite and respectful and not be yourself than to be rude and unlikable and to be yourself. This does not apply to other situations, however.
@simhere567
@simhere567 6 жыл бұрын
MrsSavannah75 exactly!!
@sophia2854
@sophia2854 6 жыл бұрын
Simran Upadhye just wondering, are you(or a relative) a high school teacher? *this has nothing to do with this argument
@228vik
@228vik 6 жыл бұрын
I was taught all this in the 50's at a small age. My mom, taught us to be ladies. She taught us all and how to walk and talk. So, I find you can spot a real lady. And I don't see too many. But, my aunt always said I would rather BE A WOMEN.
@228vik
@228vik 6 жыл бұрын
PS Went to a dance studio and did something I never did at a professional function. I slouched...at the table...I was always taught from Mom to teacher to stop slouching ....but...it didn't help
@clairgoodwin4697
@clairgoodwin4697 6 жыл бұрын
We’re all humans. It’s just like racism and sexism. We can really be who we want. I have family members who tell me not to laugh loudly because I’m grown up but when I have friends that are guys or like someone, they say I’m too young and I’m like -_-
@kia_a_amotion
@kia_a_amotion 6 жыл бұрын
Girls don't listen to all this, just be polite and be yourself
@ithan8069
@ithan8069 6 жыл бұрын
kiana Kalantari it’s just etiquette to be more fashionable
@shashifoxie2670
@shashifoxie2670 6 жыл бұрын
"How to be the unrealistic, idealistic epiphany of every woman everywhere in every culture."
@lunathebooklover8734
@lunathebooklover8734 5 жыл бұрын
I tried to do this for a day, I failed.Hey normal squad,it feels good to be home and not pretend I’m high class cuz I’m not 🤗
@torrie5882
@torrie5882 3 жыл бұрын
Most of these sound more like someone’s “pet peeves” rather than actual etiquette.
@vi9763
@vi9763 6 жыл бұрын
If Brightside wants to be taken seriously don't put out videos on how to be a true lady in 2017
@gissellebonilla4132
@gissellebonilla4132 6 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 😂😂😂 Why?
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 жыл бұрын
Well as it's already stated, good manners never go out of style.
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet
@bigpapawalkingdownthestreet 6 жыл бұрын
Being a true lady is just being polite and considerate not all of this
@antoninastepak1244
@antoninastepak1244 5 жыл бұрын
Girls, remember- your clothes or what you order in a restourant is not what makes you a lady. Just remain classy, and the rest will follow.
@yasmineee702
@yasmineee702 5 жыл бұрын
"Godly women don't have to advertise. They just be. Their trust is in the Lord. The anointing makes them beautiful. It attracts and demands attention and respect all on it's own. It will catch the eye of any man who can recognize the true spirit of God. It is rare for a man to come at her disrespectfully because the God in her radiates like the bright sun. It says I am a woman of God. A princess. A daughter of the King of kings. Her very presence and spirit demands the best and nothing less. She is not desperate for anything, and her emotions are checked by the Holy Spirit. Her heart is in the hands of God, and God will not give it to a man who is unworthy of his daughters love"
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
Wrong, they/we will still very much get disrespectful guys.
@mimIsra1
@mimIsra1 5 жыл бұрын
I can't stand women like that
@amberthompson6948
@amberthompson6948 5 жыл бұрын
Well said.👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻♥️💋😉🤙🏻🌺💒🙏
@kwclove7623
@kwclove7623 5 жыл бұрын
Glad you are so perfect 🙄
@SemplicementeSE
@SemplicementeSE 6 жыл бұрын
I've never heard sooo many stereotypes all together. If your intention was to educate some girl to be more civil, yea well...you did it in a wrong way. My opinion, of course...
@moonsugar8938
@moonsugar8938 6 жыл бұрын
I love swearing
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 жыл бұрын
YEAH!!!!!!!!
@66_percent_rainbow79
@66_percent_rainbow79 6 жыл бұрын
Semplicemente SE actually, I believe you share that opinion with the majority of the comment section.
@allymarie0783
@allymarie0783 6 жыл бұрын
Who else clicked on this video thinking it was a joke😶
@legeciaangus7425
@legeciaangus7425 6 жыл бұрын
allymarie07 guilty
@HighPriestess999
@HighPriestess999 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I assumed it would be a satirical or ironic video but no.. the judgmental tones are unbelievable I can't believe they published this lol. Can't we just aim to be our greatest versions?
@andreannady9065
@andreannady9065 6 жыл бұрын
allymarie07 yup
@sarakhudeir6455
@sarakhudeir6455 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I thought it was just a joke...
@aim7910
@aim7910 6 жыл бұрын
allymarie07 me.
@yosr613
@yosr613 6 жыл бұрын
"She would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable." yea okey LADY but i literally wear BAGGY CLOTHES because they're COMFORTABLE and so my style hahahahahah
@AprilHarmony9
@AprilHarmony9 5 жыл бұрын
This is in the Top 5 of the BEST and MOST INFORMATIVE @Brightside video I have seen. This is my 3rd time watching & now I'm commenting. Thank you for this💖💖💖
@lizard6744
@lizard6744 6 жыл бұрын
So I'm not a real lady if I am not feminine, don't conform to stereotypes, and lack fashion and makeup sense? I call BS. I love my oversized clothes and gender non-conforming habits. (No, I'm not nonbinary. I just have habits that anyone can have.)
@lizard6744
@lizard6744 6 жыл бұрын
Blue Lion I read on another comment chain that you were trying to imitate people whining. It kind of reminds me of when someone can't think of a good comeback, and they repeat what the other person said in a high-pitched voice.
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 жыл бұрын
You go girl we don't need these rules
@ellicooper947
@ellicooper947 6 жыл бұрын
I completely agree. I’m a 13 yr old girl and I think all of these are horrible stereotypes to push onto women and girls. If this is being a ‘lady’ then I never want be one.
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 жыл бұрын
Honey-Senpai your a women not a lady
@jennyisle6646
@jennyisle6646 6 жыл бұрын
Kronoxian, you're a child, not a man.
@MsAnnabanana26
@MsAnnabanana26 6 жыл бұрын
"Better not to dance at all than to dance badly" so a true lady can never have fun? I think true lady doesn't care about what others may think of her and has a good time
@entername3260
@entername3260 6 жыл бұрын
Agree
@ssst9006
@ssst9006 6 жыл бұрын
I am definately a real lady because I do not do all the things that are in this list.
@clincpb8903
@clincpb8903 5 жыл бұрын
You won a poney ;-)
@exoexo3370
@exoexo3370 5 жыл бұрын
Facts 👌🏻
@yaapeasah4443
@yaapeasah4443 3 жыл бұрын
# 18 slouching Me: straightens up immediately
@isabellaswindell3675
@isabellaswindell3675 6 жыл бұрын
"You just need to look neat, presentable, and well groomed at any moment of your life." Well then...
@DrinkYourNailPolish
@DrinkYourNailPolish 6 жыл бұрын
Cupcake Sprinkles that one really got me 😄 I'm ill at the moment so I guess in breaking that rule! lol
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 6 жыл бұрын
My grandmother used to say that all the time. You never know who you will meet, or if the doorbell will ring.
@AbbieLo925
@AbbieLo925 6 жыл бұрын
I just watched for like 2 min and feels like it's telling girls to buy expensive stuff and focus on just you reputation... Thats not what a person should do
@littlekellyminecraftpe1847
@littlekellyminecraftpe1847 6 жыл бұрын
Abbie Lo ikr
@cookiemonster5303
@cookiemonster5303 3 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful. Thank you
@urestauro6367
@urestauro6367 6 жыл бұрын
I like to say "bless you" after a person sneezes even if I don't know the person, because they might die or something.
@kimwagner9623
@kimwagner9623 6 жыл бұрын
So basically we don’t say anything, We’re not allowed to finish eating (or to eat at all), and we’re always sitting there like decorations. Oh and not to forget we look like a Barbie...... oh heck no! So many girls are struggling with stereotypes. This video is absolutely ridiculous. Just be yourself. That’s definitely enough to be a lady. [These people need some milk]
@jennaluhur
@jennaluhur 6 жыл бұрын
Funny how some of these are about generic mannerism while the other’s is about superficial things like clothes and “beauty” the remaining are just plain disrespectful to women (aka sexist!!). Honestly every single person has their own problems, no one’s going to stop and stare at you for hours pointing out every single “unladylike” trait that you have.
@silviacristinaflorea1569
@silviacristinaflorea1569 6 жыл бұрын
pilgrimsister She is right! Sorry for you. You have no idea what's happening in this world!
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
Amen! Worrying about what someone else wears? I can understand being polite, but, even though there are some things being worn nowadays that make me cringe, every one has the right to be who they are, and not conform to someones stiff ideals.
@Uapa500
@Uapa500 6 жыл бұрын
Agree. So misleading. And we shouldn't argue, just leave it and be happy in silence, in our own mind.
@siajohnson8335
@siajohnson8335 6 жыл бұрын
I am going to do as I please. If that includes eating food on the go, then so be it.
@lindabyrne5692
@lindabyrne5692 5 жыл бұрын
When you have a guest and you notice that they start with the wrong fork/spoon then you pick up the same fork/spoon so you don't embarrass them. On the flip side, when you are a guest then watch to see what other people do first.
@marleybernberg3325
@marleybernberg3325 5 жыл бұрын
I love all the tips I learned today and the numerous tips by a columnist named MISS MANNERS. I could not wait til Thursday paper arrived. She was aticulate, correct, with a lovely dry wit. Thank you today and Miss Manners for a lifetime!!!!
@saraarychuk737
@saraarychuk737 6 жыл бұрын
Me: eats entire soup bowl with hands after i have cooled with my breath on the go in my white high heels and oversized sweater while yelling an argument "You were saying?"
@silverrain8682
@silverrain8682 6 жыл бұрын
Omg! You had me laughing! lol!
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
Me too! lol!
@padhmajaravichandar9077
@padhmajaravichandar9077 6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@lillynighter3421
@lillynighter3421 6 жыл бұрын
don't laugh too loud though, that's not ladylike
@brookek279
@brookek279 6 жыл бұрын
dont forget to slouch
@jla279
@jla279 6 жыл бұрын
That is horrific!!! It is ridiculous!!!! That is just being a robot or being program to be something so unnatural. Politeness and simplicity is much more true to being a human being that to follow some rediculous human create to restrict nature human behaviors to control another.
@ellorasg4525
@ellorasg4525 6 жыл бұрын
J La This is fit for a lady host Not an everyday lady I remember following similar rules when playing host to some guest
@torirainbow3449
@torirainbow3449 6 жыл бұрын
YOU'RE SO FREAKING RIGHT J La!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@creativeinthoughtsukayd4658
@creativeinthoughtsukayd4658 6 жыл бұрын
J La l
@ih82r8
@ih82r8 6 жыл бұрын
where do these rules come from? serious question...wondering where to find this information?
@fouziakhandoker7044
@fouziakhandoker7044 6 жыл бұрын
A lady is always dazzling whether it's her comfortable basic cloth or some fashionable cloth.A true lady wear confidence not boundaries
@strongjohnssippyqueen2965
@strongjohnssippyqueen2965 6 жыл бұрын
Sooooo the number one rule of being a lady is having no fun and being uncomfortable and hide your personality
@weezer7757
@weezer7757 6 жыл бұрын
Rosy Raincloud Yeah I guess
@user-lg7gx9vt5m
@user-lg7gx9vt5m 6 жыл бұрын
Basically.
@lennoxious_
@lennoxious_ 6 жыл бұрын
And?.. No girl has to be a lady... Just be somebody you are..
@bittervalor
@bittervalor 6 жыл бұрын
Lei abunch of girls at my school do this probably gonna say that with a bad reaction but they have normal friends not like the wierd kids who hang out with wierd kids
@sharonfleming810
@sharonfleming810 6 жыл бұрын
Lei guess u were raised in a barn
@six______
@six______ 6 жыл бұрын
Sharon Fleming guess u were raised in a stereotypical house
@TinaDessert
@TinaDessert 6 жыл бұрын
I am stunned by this! And actually quite concerned about younger girls who may think...”Another thing I’m supposed to be”. I had to stop video after I heard...”a lady never argues her choice...” WHAT?! I really felt compelled to post a comment for fear of otherwise feeling that by not speaking up/standing up; I’d be condoning it. Ladies: Wear what you want! Speak your mind!And ALWAYS stand up for yourself. 💓
@wonderfulhumanbeingwithagr6381
@wonderfulhumanbeingwithagr6381 6 жыл бұрын
And spend my whole life trying to be flawless "lady" to please everyone but myself? No no!
@rakanishu06
@rakanishu06 6 жыл бұрын
Pretty Liar GOOD POINT
@sunshinesmiles5386
@sunshinesmiles5386 6 жыл бұрын
This is bs. While good taste and poise is crucial, it's character that defines a lady. She reflects an overall attitude of calm confidence and graciousness. The details presented in this video just enforce the stigma that one cannot be a true lady without following 18th century boarding school rules and having the perfect outfit.
@user-hw9yb1er4z
@user-hw9yb1er4z 6 жыл бұрын
speak in 2018 please
@virginiaescalera2419
@virginiaescalera2419 6 жыл бұрын
These replies are so funny...and great
@carodany1000
@carodany1000 5 жыл бұрын
i will start to do all of this, honestly when i'm tried to do all of the etiquette rules and lady things i feel so good and idkw
@rashiverma1151
@rashiverma1151 5 жыл бұрын
Isn't your points contrasting.. I mean U say a lady should be the same with everyone And later not to open up with strangers... I mean just go through them before u post...
@liljamorris6008
@liljamorris6008 6 жыл бұрын
this is extreme etiquette FOR ladies, not how to be a lady.
@1Skorpia
@1Skorpia 6 жыл бұрын
Lilja Morris for grandma's you mean
@greenmint7865
@greenmint7865 6 жыл бұрын
Lilja Morris i dont wanna be a lady im a Boyish girlish girl
@artaholicsnotebook6743
@artaholicsnotebook6743 6 жыл бұрын
skorpia g looking presentable doesn't mean that you have to be outdated
@priyanshitewari5006
@priyanshitewari5006 6 жыл бұрын
Lilja Morris yes you are right
@tanyasinha4114
@tanyasinha4114 6 жыл бұрын
So basically being a true lady means not being a person at all?
@DvictoryIam
@DvictoryIam 6 жыл бұрын
Tanya Sinha true
@everything5066
@everything5066 6 жыл бұрын
Preach it
@Rhodah_Musonda
@Rhodah_Musonda 6 жыл бұрын
And it means being pretentious...Because now someone will have to pretend to be who they are not...It's ok to be yourself
@serenagrager7453
@serenagrager7453 6 жыл бұрын
U are right
@infinityenergyrose5626
@infinityenergyrose5626 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bright side for sharing
@alittleimagination9023
@alittleimagination9023 4 жыл бұрын
7:40 I think not saying bless you and ignoring them is even more rude, but what do I know.
@princessshaman
@princessshaman 6 жыл бұрын
Wow so according to this video I'm not a lady because I'm not superficial. Sorry but I'm wearing baggy pants sometimes because they ARE comfortable.
@rita7070
@rita7070 6 жыл бұрын
P.Shaman I just moved so I spent the last days moving boxes and forniture. of course I was wearing orribile clothes and then I even go eating out dressed like that and a bit dirty cause I couldn't find the wild to Change and the clothes as well. I never wear high heels in my life and I not planning to do it
@elliesmoon3717
@elliesmoon3717 6 жыл бұрын
I just want to be ....myself!
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 жыл бұрын
you're free to be. But then there are some situations where good manners are everything. You will not come across the necessity for these rules often, but they are here for if you ever do need them.
@karenny7461
@karenny7461 6 жыл бұрын
Well apparently you cant according to bright side 😂
@chiara9721
@chiara9721 6 жыл бұрын
I agree
@azura508
@azura508 6 жыл бұрын
Ellies Moon go for it!!
@silverrain8682
@silverrain8682 6 жыл бұрын
What this video is promoting is not "good manners" because if it were, no one here would be offended. This video is obviously supporting the unrealistic stereotype that all women should act like they are perfect objects on a shelf and should only be valued based on their outward appearance and their so called "table manners". Why should we care more about what men value in a woman than what we value in ourselves?
@nisha9160Sac
@nisha9160Sac 4 жыл бұрын
This video is awesome. Thanks for the tips!
@shrutichavan3996
@shrutichavan3996 3 жыл бұрын
now thats where you "Bright Side" are wrong! with a following of almost 40 millions, you spread this message! you feel it completely right to make this video, and post it! im sure there must he few ladies working for you in your creative team and still this video comes out! This is what you are putting around the world for all the ladies out there to watch and follow? Wow! slow claps!
@donwes65
@donwes65 6 жыл бұрын
This is not what a true lady is a true lady helps people and cares and can stand up for herself and others even if she wears baggy clothes or eats fatting food (Also this means Im not a true lady )
@nickityler8685
@nickityler8685 6 жыл бұрын
I can't laugh loudly? Well I guess I'm not a 'real' lady. A lot of this is really frustrating, I'm sorry I can't afford designer handbags. All the stuff about not listening to people whining or gossiping; sometimes it's nice to be listened to even if you know you're whining.
@elouise5593
@elouise5593 6 жыл бұрын
pilgrimsister I don't like designer's labels emblazoned all over something like a purse. To me, that is not ladylike. I do like quality stuff and am on a small budget, which is why I go to thrift stores. I also don't like seeing the current fashion of leggings. To me it looks like they are running around in their underwear!
@yasminescofield2259
@yasminescofield2259 6 жыл бұрын
Nicki Tyler Min Yoongi🙂
@gem_r4t322
@gem_r4t322 5 жыл бұрын
I was hoping to find things like, how to sit properly and how to act around others in social engagements. They might be fashion rules when it comes to being lady like but these things on the list have kinda taken it to the next level
@farhanayeasmin9407
@farhanayeasmin9407 6 жыл бұрын
It was Really great to knw abt all of des ! Thank u, Thank U So very much !!! & of crs, i wld lv to tell u, i Do follow 13 of des etiquettes in my personal life !!!
@breanna3630
@breanna3630 6 жыл бұрын
Ain't nobody got time for that
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 жыл бұрын
I do.
@MARIE-yl8ym
@MARIE-yl8ym 6 жыл бұрын
Like seriously, unless you don't have any other obligations in life other than to look good 24/7... so a very well taken care of sugar baby.
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 жыл бұрын
That's not true. For example my brother's fiancee works for my father in a very highly paid job. She works very hard too. And she's just had to go to the company's christmas party in a very posh london hotel. It's a ball where she has to wear a ballgown and everything. These skills would come in handy then.
@sharonfleming810
@sharonfleming810 6 жыл бұрын
Bre Zeey u using aint says it all.
@JixieDyeAuthor
@JixieDyeAuthor 6 жыл бұрын
Some people live to please others. They care only about what others think of them. A very sad existence but these people do exist
@labibprince7693
@labibprince7693 6 жыл бұрын
After watching this video I don't want to be a lady 😡😡😡 Thanks for all likes
@nikonikoni6882
@nikonikoni6882 6 жыл бұрын
Labib Prince Same
@laurabaiardi2123
@laurabaiardi2123 6 жыл бұрын
But also lady stereotypes a men. A video like this should be done also for male unfortunately
@ppppp992
@ppppp992 6 жыл бұрын
Labib Prince me too
@talicia2668
@talicia2668 6 жыл бұрын
Labib Prince it songs boring 😴😴
@iregretmyname7398
@iregretmyname7398 6 жыл бұрын
Then don't
@stefanieboltonvasquez6837
@stefanieboltonvasquez6837 6 жыл бұрын
In the hot summer months I always wear a stylish hat and I always wear a black one because it looks nice with the clothes that I wear. And because my ankles aren't strong enough to handle being able wear high heels I always wear a black pair of stylish black ankle boots. I always try to read fashion and beauty magazines, such as InStyle. And when it comes to shopping, I always try to ask my boyfriend's opinion of what would good on me, whether it be for new clothes, or accessories or makeup, if he is with me.
@informliza
@informliza 6 жыл бұрын
FYI. Every girl will eventually grow to be a woman... But every woman must make a choice to be a lady.
@marglam6123
@marglam6123 5 жыл бұрын
Alice Scissorhands believe it not there are certain norms in our society. But if a woman wants to sit with her legs open so people can see her crotch, she is a pig,
@marglam6123
@marglam6123 5 жыл бұрын
If she doesn't start learning how to behave decently when she is young, she isn't going to all of a sudden become a lady when she is older.
@goldenchild_chosenone
@goldenchild_chosenone 5 жыл бұрын
it's amazing how many ppl watched this video til the end and then criticized it. that's why i love your comment.
@amberthompson6948
@amberthompson6948 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, well said! 😉👏🏻👏🏻💋♥️🤙🏻🌺🙌🏻
@CaledonianCloud
@CaledonianCloud 6 жыл бұрын
Anyone else feel like they clicked into the 1920s? I got about 2 minutes in and my only assumption was this is meant as a satirical joke.
@lorenanagy2681
@lorenanagy2681 6 жыл бұрын
So you must stop being yourself and feeling confy just to improve what others think about you. This is so wrong
@brirez7137
@brirez7137 6 жыл бұрын
Uhh, no you must adjust yourself not change everything about you. You can still keep your true colors it's just teaching women how to mature.
@noellebell8364
@noellebell8364 6 жыл бұрын
Brianny Perez Maturity is realizing that if you must accommodate yourself to fit standards you find uncomfortable, you should drop them. Wearing the right *heels* isn't being conscientious and courteous, it's an inconvenience. So is wearing pantyhose on a hot day, why must we suffer for standard? If someone tries to make us do things we don't want to, it's better we remove them.
@samalass466
@samalass466 6 жыл бұрын
They know it's wrong and that the click bait in their content is wrong, and they should be ashamed of themselves. But they don't care because they want to be as greedy as EA.
@MDur-gj2dr
@MDur-gj2dr 6 жыл бұрын
Lorena Nagy 👍
@user-lg7gx9vt5m
@user-lg7gx9vt5m 6 жыл бұрын
Brianny Perez No, you don't have to adjust yourself. You're fine the way you are.
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